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Mine started squirting regularly after our son was born. Mind you, "regularly" is modulo our extremely sparse sex life. She didn't fuck much before either.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/18 07:09 AM
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Hmm. I'll think about that a bit more.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/18 10:29 AM
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I think it's probably fair game. The mods seem to be mostly in the US but I guess we'll see when they wake up. Not negotiating affection is MRP 101, basic sidebar stuff. Refusing sex contracts is covered all over the place, but nothing wrong with another reminder.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 05:10 AM
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Protip: check out the sexy underwear section. Quality's probably crap, but it's easier to be OI about a throwaway gift if it didn't cost you much.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 05:08 AM
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Good work man, keep it up. I used to defend pot as "not that bad", but having watched a few guys take it way too far I reckon it's worth cutting it out completely for a year or two minimum. Can't hurt right?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 05:06 AM
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I've been really thankful for my gym lately. Solid man space there. Happy thanksgiving yanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 03:49 AM
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Also thanks for your "black friday" that commercial clusterfuck has shamefully been adopted by our shop$ If you're in Oz, have you seen aliexpress lately? I mean we just had 11.11 but they're going nuts again. Should ship to you upside down kids pretty decently.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 03:48 AM
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As I said to /u/Sepean above, I reckon this is the hardest bit to work from inside an LTR. Your advice sounds like a good, concrete suggestion and it's something I intend to work on. I skim red a few of the online PUA manuals the other day and they are really big on trial and error in "the field". no need to ingrain memories of poor calibration I was concerned about exactly this. Problem: opportunities to do that are thin on the ground. I can get away maybe one evening a week at the moment, hopi…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 03:42 AM
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Thanks man. I've been working through the dissonance between "always game, always initiate" and the "do only what you want" theme running through all the red pill stuff. I think I'm going to (temporarily) put the "do what you want" into the "advanced" category and ignore it for now. I've been doing (some) of what I want for years and it's half of what got me into this mess. If you don't feel like it, do it anyway. On it. I have a hard time imagining how you'd overdo it. [...] Just be more "on". …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 03:32 AM
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No need to be defensive -- you're on the right path. I'm pretty certain I'm as big a mess as you are. I was pointing out you're lucky to have something like that to fix. It'll be awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 03:20 AM
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I almost envy this guy -- kicking the weed counts as low hanging fruit in my book. Like getting into the gym or dropping some bodyfat: it's simple (maybe not easy) and more or less sure-win action he can take.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 03:10 AM
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OYS #3 [ prev | first ] Age 33, wife 32. Married 7, one kid 2. Sometimes you have one of those weeks that flashes by and you don't know where it went. Not a whole lot to report today. Lifting Stats: 176cm, 78kg Deadlift: 165kg Squat: 125kg Bench: 90kg OHP: 62.5kg Weighted pull-up: +25kg Still cutting during the week, maintaining on weekends. I saw a few 77.x weights in the gym but I'm still hovering around 78. Reduced OHP, tightened up the form and started doing a few dropsets. Tweaked something…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 09:27 AM
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Second this. Navy method doesn't get much love for its accuracy but it amounts to measuring two circumferences and your weight. All of those can be done pretty accurately, which IMO makes them better than any bioimpedence nonsense. OP: at your stage, you just want either waist circumference or weight to go down. Track this and spend the DEXA money on better food.
/r/askMRP19/11/18 10:46 PM
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Thanks man, good to know I'm not alone. I think my issues may stem from school rather than home life. I was overweight, did well on exams, poorly at sports and got bullied accordingly. Current thinking is I came by the "nice guy" strategies as an attempt to minimise my attack surfaces/radar cross section. My dad was also a quiet, authoritative guy. I don't think I ever saw him confront anybody assertively... but then I never saw him back down either. Could be he just handled his shit in private.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/18 02:48 AM
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Ouch, I may be projecting here but I feel like you could have written the last couple of paragraphs about me. I tried the dick-in-face move recently and I literally got laughed at. Yo /u/Reject444, I'm pretty new to this too and I can see some of myself in what you've written. I think we should both be paying attention to: I cna tell you right now though you arent in a spot to make that call. So head down. Hit the gym. Be attractive, don't be unattractive. Maybe instead of a moratorium on sex, y…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/18 03:06 AM
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What is the value to you of this exercise? Good question. It's literally one of the first few exercises Glover prescribes in NMMNG, so I went in with good faith. In WISNIFG, Smith also encourages you to look at how you got to where you were, though in his defense he also says he doesn't think the "why" is as important as just trying to find a way to fix it. I appreciate the warning about ego-protecting, but I don't think that's what I'm doing. For example, it's not so much "I'm not like those lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/18 10:22 PM
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Appreciate the response, and the idea that you can take something valuable from almost anything is powerful. I think you misunderstand me though -- those two books really do describe my current behaviour. I am one of Glover's "nice guys" and one of Smith's "non-assertive" guys, or at least there's a ton of overlap. I just don't connect to either author's description of how those guys develop, and was wondering if that's a common reaction.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/18 10:06 PM
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OYS #2 [prev] Age 33, wife 32. Married 7, one kid 2. My previous post was under a different (very similar) username, which apparently got site-wide "shadow banned" two days into active participation. I have no idea why, and after repeated messages to the shadowy and seemingly entirely robotic cabal who run this town, I've given up trying to get it reversed. Good times. Last week also saw me post a value-leeching question to /r/askMRP about an upcoming family visit, and I received some helpful co…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/18 04:11 AM
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