3spleenqueen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Men need women. I was curious if the commenter felt that statement true for women, or people in general, which they cleared up	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 07:20 PM
0	Men need women. I was curious if the commenter felt that statement true for women, or people in general, which they cleared up	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 07:20 PM
0	Men need women. I was curious if the commenter felt that statement true for women, or people in general, which they cleared up	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 07:20 PM
3	Men need women. We’re on the same page then 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 07:17 PM
-2	Men need women. What hobbies do most men have other than Netflix and social media?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 06:42 PM
2	Men need women. I don’t know if this means men need women but more so men think they need women. They don’t. They could practice mindfulness and be happy with what they have. But that’s a tricky skill few can master…… Everyone wants, or thinks they need something (disregarding basic needs like food, shelter, water), but few are happy after actually getting it	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 06:28 PM
3	How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters? The OP is about being a good lover which isn’t restricted to PIV sex. Also, in my experience, not as many men prefer oral to PIV sex than women. So feels like a false comparison with that context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:51 PM
3	How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters? Many women do just really like oral sex, more so than PIV sex even, and therefore value a persons sexual ability primarily based their oral performance. I wouldn’t be say most women feel like this, but enough that it’s not an anomaly. Perhaps that is the case for the OP of the comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:55 AM
2	Is the only reason to get married now is to procreate? To procreate, to combine resources for wealth and power. It’s always been this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 06:54 PM
2	Women cheat more than men but are better liars/hiders Are you saying you think that all abused women are cheating??? Huh??? O_o	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 01:02 AM
3	Women cheat more than men but are better liars/hiders 1 in 3 women hav experienced domestic abuse as opposed to 1 in 7 men. Feels like a piece of the story as to why women might be initiating more divorces.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 12:56 AM
11	Is there any research on girls and bad boys? I feel like anyone who is doing drugs is going to be around other people doing drugs, engaging in other types of reckless behavior as well like sex. So part of it might be that “bad” boys are surrounding themselves with “bad” girls, and they’re all doin a bunch of reckless stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 05:25 PM
1	CMV: If you are sexually compatible and honest with eachothers it doesn't matter if she did things with other men but not with you Okay. Yeah anyone can leave their partner for any reason they feel fit. All feelings are valid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 08:27 PM
1	CMV: If you are sexually compatible and honest with eachothers it doesn't matter if she did things with other men but not with you Okay. There’s nuances to it. I’m sure irl it would be a lot easier to tell if your partner is being genuine about their dislike for the things they might have tried. Either way, people truly are dynamic. What someone might have liked at some point, they can genuinely not like in the future without it being about the person they’re currently with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:54 PM
2	CMV: If you are sexually compatible and honest with eachothers it doesn't matter if she did things with other men but not with you Huh why? Are you implying that you don’t believe that she didn’t like them in the past, or used to and doesn’t now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 12:36 PM
2	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? Correct. The odds aren’t in everyone’s favor. Best to acknowledge that fact and work within those constraints and rules to maximize your chances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 11:08 AM
6	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? Uhhh my best uninformed guess is over 50%. Most women won’t want to react negatively and make a scene just as much as you don’t want them to. Even when men have approached me crudely and inappropriately, I’ve kept my cool and been polite usually out of discomfort unfortunately. I hear a lot of women share this sentiment. But again. I don’t see other women get hit on in public to observe this. A man with experience hitting on women would have a more informed guess on this percentage, but his gues…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:19 AM
12	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? I’m a woman and when I go out in public alone I’m hoping someone will approach me with interest as long as it’s respectful and not like, off the bat sexual And before someone says “sure unless they’re unattractive/short/not offering to pay for something ” etc, nope. I’d politely say no, and feel flattered enough to want to be polite back and let it be known that their approach is at least appreciated or at least carry the conversation on and show interest in them as a person and not a potential …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:30 AM
1	What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market? The handful of girls I know who do this are from very wealthy families actually. I feel like it’s because they’re accustomed to easy money and are turning to get it in another way in their adulthood	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 11:36 PM
2	What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market? I know a handful (maybe 5) women irl who do or have engaged in this	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 11:34 PM
8	If you want to attract a woman, you need to have income. Most male escorts exist for gay men	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 08:00 AM
2	What makes men date women with mental illnessess? I definitely would describe myself as freaky, yes haha, and my partner would too. Now I’m curious how much of that could be attributed to my mental illness. For context, I have bipolar (something I only recently learned), which makes me pretty impulsive, excitable, and open to experimentation in all aspects (sex included) when manic. And when I’m depressed, I’ve always used sex as a dopamine boost to cope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 11:51 AM
2	What makes men date women with mental illnessess? Ah agreed. If that was OPs intention, I don’t think it’s a fair comparison either. Being mentally ill does not imply the harm that being a dangerous man as you’ve described is. In either case, it’s easy to wear rose colored glasses and dismiss people’s faults and wrongs. Love is messy and people have empathy. And sex appeal is a hell of a distraction as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 11:38 AM
3	What makes men date women with mental illnessess? Aside from the fact that mentally ill women can be attractive or have endearing personality traits that someone likes outside of those caused by their mental illness, I suspect for some men might like the idea of being a protector or sorts to these vulnerable women. I’ve known some women like this and that always seemed to be the case in their relationships. Their partners have always spoken about them like their girlfriends relied on them for emotional support and they had some pride over that.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 11:31 AM
2	What makes men date women with mental illnessess? He says my mental illness hasn’t been a burden to him. 5 months into the relationship so we’ll see lol. I’m assuming this post is calling out women whose mental illnesses are directly burden their partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 11:18 AM
2	What makes men date women with mental illnessess? Yeah I have bipolar and when I’m manic, people have always enjoyed being around me because I’m excitable and unpredictable. Just asked my partner and he said it doesn’t really burden him. He’s usually my level headed voice for when I decide I’m going to like drop out of school and start a business or some other shit I haven’t thought through.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 05:42 AM
1	What makes men date women with mental illnessess? Let me ask my boyfriend	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 05:37 AM
1	(Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.? Omg I literally live in a snow globe or I’m odd I can’t believe hairlessness is so important to people	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 03:32 AM
1	(Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.? “No one” is strong wording. I’ll agree, I’ve noticed it’s the norm for men to want to see shaved armpits. But I live in a strange little liberal snow globe town where it’s incredibly popular for women to not shave and a lot of men think it’s like, cool or making a statement or something it seems. Or maybe, that’s there only choice is to be accepting of it. Also I like very hairy men haha. I recently told my partner he doesn’t need to stop shaving all over as he usually does (back, chest)	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 03:26 AM
1	Bitter men and bitter women tend to have the exact same gripes with each other. This shows that the problem isn't actually the collective actions of either gender, but individuals having bad experiences and lashing out because they feel powerless. I’m curious. Why not dealing with it anymore?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 04:22 AM
1	Is a girl calling you by a nickname an indicator of interest? Nope	/r/seduction	09/04/22 04:29 AM
3	Is this appropriate or do I sound like a creep? Not creepy. Sounds fine to me. Although I would have taken out the part about her likely not seeing it.	/r/seduction	09/04/22 02:36 AM
5	The Faustian Bargain of women exploiting their sex appeal & why I believe a significant portion of OnlyFans and Instagram models actually have LOW N-counts Good questions. Well for a bit, I got a bit of superiority complex to men I’d say. I kind of subconsciously viewed them all as pests or idiots in one way or another after dealing with so many who’d spam message me if I didn’t respond immediately or fail to consider that I was a person with classes, other jobs, or a life outside of posting content. Consciously, I knew this was more so a reflection of the pool of men who pay for online porn, not men in general, and even then, only a subset of thes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 02:28 AM
6	The Faustian Bargain of women exploiting their sex appeal & why I believe a significant portion of OnlyFans and Instagram models actually have LOW N-counts Yeah this sounds about right as per my experience. I’ve been a successful OF model on and off for a few years. On because quick money (obviously) and there’s some aspects of it I enjoy I guess…... Off because uhhh being bombarded by that much sexualized transaction takes a lot of energy from something deep inside me. In the last few years I’ve become a much less sexual person irl than I used to be. Luckily no permanent damage. When I’m not regularly online, my partner and I have a great healthy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 09:23 PM
11	Approximately 75% of college aged women who've hooked up have regrets about it Not surprised. Am college aged woman. I’ve regretted all of my casual hookups actually. Thought I was looking for sex and realized later I was seeking validation, a distraction, or just giving into social pressures of hookup culture. O well! Not like anything was traumatizing, just felt like I opened myself up intimately for no good reason and felt like crap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 08:45 PM
5	Women, how often have you run into micro vs bigger dicks? I’ve encountered ~10 penises. Most were average and sized up to one another, two were problematically huge, and I never saw any that I’d consider small. (Although two that were quite thin…..) Do you think the lack of small penises in the dating pool is due to insecurity/nervousness about presenting themself? I will say, one of the guys who was rather large had the highest N count of the people I’ve been with and centered a lot of his personality and pride around his sexual ‘conquers’ I suppose. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 08:34 PM
1	Does the act of 'puppying' by a guy actually makes you consider seeing him as a boyfriend? Woman at a tech school with high male to female ratio here. Puppying doesn’t work imo. I have a sweet friend who was definitely into me when we first started hanging out and did exactly this. Bring me lattes straight to my apartment door every morning, call me to make sure I didn’t miss early morning classes, insist on treating me when we got meals. Many a generous thing which I didn’t ask for and he didn’t expect anything in return for. Although I tried to repay the favor in my own ways (baked …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 10:18 AM
2	What is the best “frame” to attract women (and male friends?) Different women are attracted to different men	/r/seduction	22/07/21 08:33 AM
0	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. Eh nope that’s uh the opposite of what I said. Men I really like, meaning I’m attracted to them, I make wait. Reason being it’s going to be better after waiting and it’s shittier to be used for sex by someone I’m actually invested in. Men who are ehh, alright, interesting enough for a casual hookup but not so much that it’s worth the risk of getting screwed over don’t have to wait. If I respect you, I’ll wait. But that’s just me. All women are different because uhhh all people are different. As …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 06:08 PM
1	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. Ehh. Personally speaking, I hold out on sex only when I do respect the guy and truly want him to respect me as well because I really like them. My casual hookups have been with men who I’d never enter a relationship bc I don’t really like them all that much and don’t want them around the morning after. If I’m holding out, it’s not because someone isn’t sexually attractive, but because I’m actually attracted to their personality regardless of the sexual attraction and want to potentially pursue s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 11:26 AM
3	A response to criticisms of “independent women” I mean I think most women absolutely can do those things lol. It’s just that men have always jumped at the opportunity to help out with things like car issues, and fix it things in the house that it’s just become more convenient for women to get the help from men. But don’t think they’re dependent on it or helpless without them. Needed to put my AC in the other day so I asked my male neighbor to help because I knew it’s make him feel good and important. Could’ve done it myself with a bit more ef…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 05:37 AM