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Seriously WTF is this post. This sub is weird.
/r/seduction04/03/20 09:20 AM
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Oh Ok, I thought you were saying you're also boring like the women who just want a guy/kids. Yeah nah fair enough, if you're not interested in their personality then no issues if they've got no personality. Although I reckon that helps the sex be better.
/r/seduction08/02/20 08:20 AM
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You don't have anything else going on in your life? What do you talk about with the women?
/r/seduction07/02/20 03:52 AM
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You should always push as far as you can. If you nailed the approach, go for the good convo, if you nail that try for a flirty convo, if you nail that go for a number, etc. etc. You didn't because you place too much value on her and she may have rejected you. You probably know this, but just pointing it out clearly so that you can't ignore that you're placing too much value on her and her opinion of you. It's a learning process, so good job on the approach anyway.
/r/seduction01/02/20 03:14 PM
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Yep that about sums it up I reckon. I only realised I was pretty good looking later in life, and I definitely shirked personal growth for quite a while, thinking I could skate by in a lot of circumstances. And it does work to an extent. ATM I'm looking for women who are just decent looking, or good looking and have something "wrong", but are interesting to talk with, because I honestly have way more attraction to them and they become seriously beautiful over time.
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:59 AM
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Yep, I just replied to someone else with a similar comment. It's difficult to find someone who's not boring (i.e has zero interests). I'm actually not boring anymore but I used to be. Although many people may find me boring because I have non-mainstream interests. I sound lame saying that, but yeah it's just that most people won't connect with my interests. But some people essentially have NO interests other than finding a mate and settling down. Then their life is over because they have no othe…
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:48 PM
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Almost every good looking woman I meet is more boring than me. They don't even have tastes in music or.... SOMETHING that I can connect with. I started by wanting to be quality for women, and it's progressed to wanting to find a quality woman who has something of fucking substance to her. Any sort of interest at all other than finding a guy and pumping out kids would be acceptable!
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:42 PM
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"Introverted" is a state. "Introvert" is a term used to describe a person as if they can never be anything else. "I only get drained from social situations, I'm an introvert" is a common paraphrase. No, you are not an introvert, you just get anxious in social situations and it's draining.
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:40 PM
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Both terms are BS. People may have natural or learned tendencies, but anyone can be either with practice.
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:11 PM
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Correct. With the addition of simply not having much to talk about. I'm not mysterious and hiding things, I'm just boring af!
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:09 PM
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Yes that was exactly my point. Sorry late reply. It feels super weird to just blurt out declarative statements, rather than asking questions.
/r/seduction29/01/20 01:37 AM
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Lol I got downvoted. Some sad people out there. Why do they cling to notions thrust upon them by society! Not just monogamy, they do it with so many things and act like it's the natural state of being even though so many things are just recent inventions.
/r/seduction29/01/20 01:36 AM
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Thank you, very helpful! Any idea for LTR? Or is it less likely to be helpful there? I'm thinking it would be more reading how they're thinking.
/r/seduction04/01/20 08:13 AM
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The more I study/practice all this stuff, the more I realise there's essentially no difference between men and women when it comes to "seduction"/relationships/attraction etc.
/r/seduction17/12/19 04:59 AM
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Why the hostile reaction to it? "Refuse to be in a relationship where I can't grow". How about "I accept that sometimes people change and are no longer compatible in a relationship"?
/r/seduction17/12/19 04:56 AM
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No. This idea that people should be together forever is retarded. You don't have to "be willing to go along for the ride". If people change and are no longer compatible, end the relationship. It's not a bad thing that it didn't last forever.
/r/seduction17/12/19 04:54 AM
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"How are you going?" There's your opportunity. Don't wait for an opportunity, that's what every loser guy who ends up dating the girl who sat next to him in high school does.
/r/seduction16/12/19 11:42 AM
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he's alfalfa bro
/r/seduction16/12/19 11:40 AM
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Just do it mate. Practice in your room or whatever. Get high or drunk at first. That's what I did. I was just high as shit and started wanting to dance, totally just moving in weird ways that felt right. Then you know you can do it and just have to transfer that freedom to sober reality, which takes time.
/r/seduction10/12/19 11:04 PM
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Dancing will feel retarded. Do it anyway. I'm sure you felt "stiff" when you first awkwardly cold approached and said "hi" and ran away, or when you first had sex. Learning to let go while dancing is pretty goddamn freeing. There are places where you can go to dance in the dark, maybe try that.
/r/seduction10/12/19 11:01 PM
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Except for "If you are not the type to dance, dont". Everyone is the type to dance, unless you're afraid of having fun or trying new things, which is not you, it's your ego not wanting to be out of your comfort zone. My advice is: If you hate dancing, then you should dance.
/r/seduction10/12/19 07:49 AM
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Sounds like BS to me. Anyone who doesn't expect men to open doors for them is a good, rational woman, not low value.
/r/seduction07/12/19 02:02 AM
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I would also say to put special effort in to figuring out the difference between introverted IOIs and introverted disinterest. It can be REALLY difficult to tell the difference, and I fuck it up all the time even though I love introverted women. Her laughing at your shitty jokes can just be a way to diffuse general social tension because she's shy/awkward, not an IOI. Her pulling away can be genuine disgust and not an indicator that she likes you but is shy. Some will even let you hug them or da…
/r/seduction03/12/19 01:24 AM
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the reaction you get when you hold a door open for a woman can tell you a lot about her mindset and how she values herself explain
/r/seduction03/12/19 01:12 AM
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ok so 10% success, that's still really good I think.
/r/seduction21/11/19 11:06 AM
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wtf... I think 25% is higher success rate than anyone ever. Just keep doing what you're doing lol
/r/seduction21/11/19 10:06 AM
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Nah she was focusing too hard on not inhaling.
/r/seduction18/11/19 01:32 PM
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I would say that's because of a lack of emotional connection with your friends. How much do you make eye contact? How often are you "real" with them? I realised recently eye contact is incredibly important. Along with true presence it helps you be real and then people can connect with you.
/r/seduction15/11/19 10:25 PM
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Ah yes, that too.
/r/seduction15/11/19 09:59 PM
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My experience tells me this is true too. Although the "people can smell desperation" is pretty true as well.
/r/seduction15/11/19 02:41 AM
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Seriously are there any good websites for this anymore? Can we set up a subreddit for it?
/r/seduction15/11/19 12:39 AM
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Just suggest a time "Want to go___? I'm free _____". If she can't make it she'll suggest another time (if she's interested).
/r/seduction15/11/19 12:32 AM
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So I'm just getting over this problem too, but maybe that'll make my advice more relatable. Don't talk over text for a start. Just use it to set up a time/place to meet. The less conversational you are, the more they will be unsure how you feel and chase you (if you've built a little bit of a relationship/rapport/connection already). I notice that women tend to use text to say things they are too shy/scared to say in real life, don't let them do that. It ruins any real emotional impact, especial…
/r/seduction15/11/19 12:20 AM
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Got a link to the aspergers guy that fixed his shit?
/r/seduction15/11/19 12:09 AM
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It's entirely about HOW you say it and WHAT THE WOMAN IS LIKE. You could call her a cunt as an opener and it might work if the above two things are right.
/r/seduction14/11/19 11:53 PM
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Yeah I'm gonna find the Lisa Ann video at the start and fap to it. But really, porn *is* shit. For most of the people involved in it, and also the people watching it. Banning it is stupid as hell though.
/r/seduction13/11/19 05:48 AM
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Excuses. After your first few approaches you will realise how many dumb excuses you make constantly, and will recognise when other people are making them too. ALL THE TIME. Approaching will HELP your self-confidence, you will like yourself for not being a pussy anymore. Your fake confidence will fail anyway, and you will look like a retard. So just fucking do it and get over it so you can eventually not be retarded. This is part of your improvement, the most important part.
/r/seduction13/11/19 05:44 AM
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It's also really easy to get out of these patterns if you actually stick with it. Just a slight discomfort you get over. And that's what it really is. Just a pattern that reinforces itself. Your brain repeats the pattern more easily the more it's reinforced. Luckily we have a conscious mind to interject in the pattern of nerve firings.
/r/seduction13/11/19 05:40 AM
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Keeping texts only to set up dates, to me means keep conversation minimal outside of that. Of course saying "I only text to set up dates" isn't a good thing to say. If she wants to talk about something, just keep it short. Not difficult.
/r/seduction13/11/19 05:19 AM
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When you’re doing doggy, tell her to aim her ass up and head down (hold the head down and or pull her hair while you’re doing this). This is the opposite of what you want. You'd be aiming at the "floor" of the pussy, not the "ceiling". Doggy should be with her torso raised up. Like this (NSFW obviously) https://cdn.pornpics.com/pics1/2017-06-12/429355_10big.jpg Unless you're like vertically on top of her in the position you describe, but that would be more piledriver than doggy.
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:52 AM
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Yep, pretend to punch them in the face. If they flinch, they see you as alpha and you get sexy times.
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:28 AM
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No amount of hoping, wishing, meditating, watching YouTube videos or anything else will make that feeling go away. In fact, they’ll only make it harder in the beginning because they’ll lead to procrastination. And then you’ll probably feel even worse. Damn. Exactly what I needed to read. I'm just on this sub trying to get motivation to go out and day game. So stupid. I just need to go out without intense emotional motivation.
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:40 AM
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Shave clean, your facial hair looks shit.
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:22 AM
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I believe we can do it. We just have to learn the rules and then eventually it'll seem natural.
/r/seduction08/11/19 01:54 PM
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Don't let yourself be 30 without approaching, like me. I had a 10 year dry spell and just got back with the last woman I was with to break it basically (wasn't doing that consciously, but it's what happened).
/r/seduction05/11/19 11:52 AM
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first, break both your arms
/r/seduction30/10/19 10:08 AM
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Fuck. Literally doing this atm, although the woman is with someone already so that makes it kinda complicated.
/r/seduction29/10/19 10:38 PM
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"gimme a magic bullet to get this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who I only see as special because there are no other girls that I ever interact with" and that's just... Not how this works. It's a tough illusion to get your mind out of though, it's so real. How would you convince these people that it's really a delusion?
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:21 PM
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Por que no los dos? Good personality takes anyone up several points/10.
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:01 PM
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It's true. You can also make a good first impression and they'll forgive a tonne of beta shit after that.
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:56 AM
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What if I told you that's such a nice guy thing to say? "Guys don't want to see naked chicks on apps" is an equally retarded thing to say.
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:49 AM
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I'm no good at this yet, but I was told by a friend what my best move so far was, and it was literally just normal conversation (that I didn't have the balls to take further to actual flirting). I asked this girl if she'd been here before and that it seems like it might be a theatre or something during the day (the place had some interesting theme/decorations that looked like a theatre). That simple. Make some observation about them or the place you're in, then go from there if they seem interes…
/r/seduction25/10/19 10:38 PM
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That'd be an interesting social freedom experiment.
/r/seduction25/10/19 10:33 PM
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All my eye contact is creepy coz I got an intermittent lazy eye. Feel like I'm screwed whether I make eye contact or not.
/r/seduction20/10/19 10:32 AM
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