| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 320 | Fapdiddler (noun) | FDS MEMES | 3v3ryR0s3HasItsTh0rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Fapdiddler (noun) | FDS MEMES | 3v3ryR0s3HasItsTh0rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:51 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Girl pretending not to like me?You have her interest but you’re playing games with her she senses it. Grow up and stop pulling away. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Seduction Subreddit?Lose the term “pull” | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 10:43 AM |
| 1 | What is it like to be married or dating a red pill?Thats because she tried for all those years dude and had to protect her heart. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | My ex-girlfriend confuses me!!Still a game. You have more work to do. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?You even did therapy. You gave him marriage effort without the ring. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 10:26 AM |
| 42 | The other day a male approached me while I had earphones in walking around at a mall. I just walked away without responding but next time I’ll do this instead 😍 her response was too good lmaoLove “Do One” … Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 08:05 AM |
| 9 | The other day a male approached me while I had earphones in walking around at a mall. I just walked away without responding but next time I’ll do this instead 😍 her response was too good lmaohttps://youtu.be/Dg_YueZ4fi8 https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/tommytutone/8675309jenny.html “Jenny” 1981. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 08:03 AM |
| 21 | The other day a male approached me while I had earphones in walking around at a mall. I just walked away without responding but next time I’ll do this instead 😍 her response was too good lmaoYep I got that. So now this has to be a thing like 8675309 but the opposite lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:34 AM |
| 34 | The other day a male approached me while I had earphones in walking around at a mall. I just walked away without responding but next time I’ll do this instead 😍 her response was too good lmaoAh, random numbers ok! That’s what I thought. I have brain fog with references I should know, so just checking in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 06:55 AM |
| 89 | The other day a male approached me while I had earphones in walking around at a mall. I just walked away without responding but next time I’ll do this instead 😍 her response was too good lmaoIs this a reference to something or just random numbers? 🤣👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 06:50 AM |
| 96 | Queens, guess what? We are the society.We are also the culture and the richness. A woman adds so much to her environment and relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 11:40 AM |
| 39 | Dear scrotes, this was a discussion about how women in their early 20s DON’T want you, stop approaching us or this will be your future. Raise your hand if you’re in your early 20s and have NEVER been attracted to an old scrote, I’ll go first 🙋🏻♀️The only time I went for an older guy (pickmeish)… I just turned 29, he had looked my way (no creepy up and down crap) but was always courteous and respectful. He kept a whole person’s worth of space between us when dancing… we laughed a lot. I expressed that I felt chemistry. He expressed hesitation about the age. We talked. He was right about the age thing, but we broke up as he couldn’t make enough time for me and I was realistic that I still wanted to have more adventures in life. Overall it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 12:53 AM |
| 21 | In India, they have all female carriages on trains to protect women from scrotes. In this instance, scrotes infiltrated the ladies carriage. This was the result.99 scrotes stained have hit the wall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 08:01 AM |
| 13 | In India, they have all female carriages on trains to protect women from scrotes. In this instance, scrotes infiltrated the ladies carriage. This was the result.🤣👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 08:00 AM |
| 10 | I just love everything about this absolute Queen!!😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 02:24 AM |
| 2 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...I think about hieroglyphs and cave paintings… and it is just something we cannot set aside. Cool. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:50 AM |
| 3 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Still a form of pictographs (?: I know there are other variations with their own def. so this could be close but wrong as a language term) that evolved in modern times. This is a type of language we will always have. Cool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:22 AM |
| 2 | I Always Wanted to Date a Man I Could Look Up To. It Appears There Aren't Any.My brain turned that into “wannadouches” at 3 am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:13 AM |
| 9 | HA! StinkyI don’t know you but I adore you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:02 AM |
| 13 | Men are grossSeriously, I have baby wipes at home because ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:00 AM |
| 6 | Confronting a former friend who turned out to be a NVM abuser on Monday. Terrified.THEY should be restricting his access and offering you as much support as possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:55 AM |
| 57 | Straight men are faking their deep voices 😂Revelation! Now we are going to be looking at their throats after determining they did not lie about their height. I can imagine that might be unnerving for the recipient; for us, like looking at prey testing you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:29 AM |
| 45 | Love this. Louder for the scrotes in the back.Girl, women of all ages don’t want Roger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 11:10 PM |
| 66 | such a sweet thing to do. please everyone do this, you never know when you can save someone just by taking a moment to make sure they're safe.Hawk Eyes all the time, Effing Try It Eyes all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Fapdiddler (noun)Officially in the Urban Dictionary here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:28 PM |
| 6 | But you came like 3 times right?!??Stupid scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:45 AM |
| 14 | But you came like 3 times right?!??I have said that as I had to get myself off then he reached to move my hand so he could his there. Like really? You are going to claim my orgasm? I literally slapped his hand away from the hot stove. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:44 AM |
| 73 | Men who watch porn are losers.Then to make themselves feel better they watch more insecure men on YouTube “reclaim being alpha.” It is a sad circle jerk. Therapy, boys, therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:49 AM |
| 34 | Apparently we’re “entitled b*tches” if we won’t date men who masturbate to human trafficking victims being raped on camera. They disgust me more every dayOh no. A woman picks herself. Gasp. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:29 PM |
| 10 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inYes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:13 AM |
| 11 | Correlation between paper and dice roleplaying games (e.g.: D&D) and LVM?Me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:43 AM |
| 51 | Translation: Don’t be offended when I say something rude or meanSomeone had his ego chipped. Aw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:27 AM |
| 13 | Fapdiddler (noun)Yesshh. tucks pen behind ear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:18 AM |
| 25 | Fapdiddler (noun)Submitted it to Urban Dictionary! The example sentence I included had Chad Charles as a name lol. Stacy: Chad Charles was more interested in being a fapdiddler than a boyfriend or hard worker. Beth: I remember his nest. He seemed like such a nice guy, but so addicted to porn. So sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:16 AM |
| 45 | Fapdiddler (noun)I have a few more in the works for your kind consideration. 😬 ((((Per A Sea of Quotes suggestion, I submitted it to Urban Dictionary. The example sentence(s) I included had Chad Charles as a name lol. Stacy: Chad Charles was more interested in being a fapdiddler than a boyfriend or hard worker. Beth: I remember his nest. He seemed like such a nice guy, but so addicted to porn. So sad.)))) Update: It is officially in the Urban Dictionary here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:58 AM |
| 8 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Honestly, you may see the odd one or three at first so you have to scroll a bit more, but usually they have a whole friend line of them; like a bulk follow lol. Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:18 AM |
| 34 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Some men will even have a fake insta BUT if they are “business men” they will also have a business account. I found a cheater when he shared his pride in his business, talking about how much he made. I let him talk. Googled it. Found his wife and kids; of course the post was that she was so supportive. I was pissed. I casually dropped her name in the chat and it was like he inhaled his balls into himself and disappeared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:16 AM |
| 21 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")Take time to celebrate lovely. You did not deserve to be objectified. You ARE always exquisite, no matter what. You are working hard to invest in yourself and future. Make sure to treat yourself extra special tonight! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:00 AM |
| 7 | A Question For Those Who Like to Interject “Not All Men” into conversations about bad men. Someone do the math.Ah, the “nice guys…” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:25 PM |
| 39 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeDoes the lease specify that notice of new occupants/residents must be given? That may be a possible violation of the lease or a precursor to add to the data that could get him banned from the property on top of other shenanigans… if he causes damage, it could be a window to press charges and sue him… or at least scare him. Out of my depth. I just know that many leases require all adults to be listed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:05 PM |
| 34 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeIn the US, it is just 7 years. But that esp is huge in your 30s. Is he listed on the lease? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else enjoy Amber Scholls ( youtubers) success!!!Yessss and I automatically thought of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 5 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexDesperate, dick-focused shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Men are more responsive to women's facial expressions than our actual words.Cue scrotasslighting: fire gets lit under the scrotum and they gaslight you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:34 PM |
| 3 | This is THE energy 👸To the love bombers: “Don’t introduce a vibe you can’t maintain.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:31 PM |
| 2 | If he continuously sends too many texts in a row, cut him off. Don't let a man blow up your phone.A photo or one off comment is cute to share the moment with you… but he should be enjoying the moment with his friends. Haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | If he continuously sends too many texts in a row, cut him off. Don't let a man blow up your phone.Definitely agree with you and kamikaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:25 PM |
| 6 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneDocuSafe is a great app for storing evidence. Act completely normal. Make excuses to “see the doctor” as you go open a new bank account for yourself, or meet with a lawyer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Preferring a big penis should be seen as being as normal as liking nice eyes or a nice smile.I’ll take a 6.5 incher, but imma need some girth. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 19 | Can we please all do this to men who harass us 😂You could tell it was controlled. She was holding back. He got off easy. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:54 PM |
| 27 | Man Boy Wants a Mommy GFLying down for a nap = grope me invitation to LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:52 PM |
| 13 | 👇It is the sausage in the garbage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 09:28 AM |
| 18 | Are you doing the Pickme Backslide?Yep, we have to keep this term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:44 AM |
| 13 | Red pill /abuse tactics I’ve seen on the field over the last few yearsDo not let him change locations. If he “forgot something at home ie his keys” (after meeting you near his place, which you should have said no to) “invited you to wait outside or come in, does not matter” and you take the bait and he offers you water)... this is an exact PUA play, in summary, to get him laid or try. Just tell him to go home and stay there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Red pill /abuse tactics I’ve seen on the field over the last few yearsThe book is on Z Library! “You Can’t Lie to Me” - That one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:23 AM |
| 51 | Why are there so many inc*ls in the crypto community??? 🤡Well they jerk off to pixels so 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:12 AM |
| 8 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈Wants a freak in the sheets but a lady on the streets to take home to mom, but fails to perform in bed and demands her to be his mom; meanwhile, she will never meet his mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 08:20 AM |
| 26 | Ew. Nope! You'll always sink to their level. They will never rise to yours if this is how your "relationship" is.Pushing vs. inspiring. You inspire each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:09 AM |
| 23 | The "Woke" Men Who Still Want HousewivesI sent a guy a video on how to wash his clothes before I stopped talking to him. Me: YouTube’s how to replace the toilet flapper—and done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 11:06 PM |
| 15 | Protect Yourself Online!!The only thing is don’t say where you have been if you regularly go there. Only reveal these things to trusted loved ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:06 AM |
| 8 | Need to start doing thisI have a new tool for the tool. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Vetting for rapistsIn the middle of sex, always pay attention to any laspe of respect for your no, and gtfo however you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:26 AM |
| 7 | Vetting for rapistsKeeping you sleep deprived is a big one! Any way he drains you or breaks you down, red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:25 AM |
| 12 | This person could not legitimately see the glaring red flags. Comments are filled with women telling her to run and she's still confused. Don't let this be you.I got dress rehearsal for the serial killer’s next target vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:20 AM |
| 5 | My 40th birthday was lovely (update on NVM dad)👍🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 09:18 PM |
| 20 | When he does the bare minimumWhen he wipes! Lawd have mercy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 01:04 PM |
| 132 | Date with a LVM starter pack 😂😩🥴Plus pawsy boob grab attempts and the lame head push they try over in PUA land. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 01:03 PM |
| 17 | LVM making his partner pay for everything, while he uses his full income for himself onlyPlus he can exalt a false woke self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 01:01 PM |
| 0 | Selena Quintanilla is a queen way ahead of her time. I love the message she says. Women supporting womenShe is Mexican-American. This just creates more ill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 01:31 AM |
| 24 | Don't waste any of your time on people who watch porn.Dead eyes meaning porn addict and sometimes psychopaths | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 37 | Don't waste any of your time on people who watch porn.I recall lying there in shock when the guy just slid in with dead eyes. Like... what’s the point? The sex is so horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:07 PM |
| 20 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?I’m bisexual, too. 🤭 That is so dreamy! 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:49 PM |
| 25 | Made an fds move today but am confused why it keeps happeningIt is not just codependency and attachment styles and all that; so do not go down that rabbit hole. Growth is great—don’t get me wrong—but this pattern is an effing plague. Scrotes lack accountability. Less stress, please and agreed. To be fair, I just went through something similar. They want you to pretend your basic human needs don’t exist so they can use you—hey I bought you shiny sh!t, though, and was a decent human in terms of playing the role. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 04:44 PM |
| 7 | Porn culture and Only Fans promotes the dehumanization of women everywhere.Didn’t think of that too. Hence why a “you must be a special kind of small-dicked idiot” expression/indifference is the winning response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:49 PM |
| 13 | How early is too early?Prenup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:22 PM |
| 28 | The loneliness of leveling up.Oooh yes. Major cuts in the last few years. I am giving some old friends a renewal period, those that deeply listened with their hearts... but instituting strict boundaries... Getting used to the boundaries has been a work in progress but successful, and as long as I know they care... we are good; that also goes for me, too. Others got the boot. Strangely, I am renavigating social media boundaries; everything is limited. I was more FDS when younger but also a people pleaser and naive in other wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:20 PM |
| 35 | Weekly FDS Check-inArchery, cool! Keep vetting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:11 PM |
| 132 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?For me, I would love if they ordered a custom-made ring from someone that handmakes them or forged it on their own with the help of an expert eye. It could be cool if we did the forging together. I would also love something antique that had been altered to my taste. Obviously real gold and gems. Definitely should be my style and simple, yet little flairs of oomph lol. Ditto on a sentimental location, without the world watching. Shouldn’t feel overly staged but it is good to see personal thought … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Quarantine beards are a tragedy .. from Ryan Gosling lookalike to Ryan the Hobo. Why do they all do this??It looks like it was matted and be took his clogged ass razor to it hastily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:06 PM |
| 4 | This showed up as “liked you.” Not only a liar but can’t add apparently.It’s like these guys emphasize the neck rolls to see how much audacity they can get away with—full audacity mode. If you are going to try to lie, at least dye your hair and work on the gut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:03 PM |
| 16 | How do you deal with men that compete with you?I have had LVM get jealous over small purchases I have made... It is pretty creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:36 PM |
| 6 | I’m not even going to bother commenting on his appearance, but why do men think we want to see their junk cars??1999 forum asking how to replace the carburetor. Guarantee this scrote has a nest. We donut care about your 90’s Jeep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Reddest of Pills. Extreme Trigger warning - body shaming.He hit the wall at puberty—😖 haaard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Incels new chart about women.Hi cuz SunshineSobbingMartyr and aspiring Demon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | My leveled-up life without the NVM anchors tied around my ankle. My engagement to myself is going well, thanks so much for asking. I’ve just never met anyone like me before 😍🥰✨All the Amazon presents to myself lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Just came back from first date post breakupIt’s a no. Make it so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:51 AM |
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