40milesaway Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
147	Male Bosses Suck	SHOWER THOUGHT	40milesaway	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/21 05:57 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
57	Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?” My mom called it, "Banging your head against the wall because it feels good when you stop." I wrote this in another post a day ago but I hate that psychiatrist who wrote this "revolutionary" article on "walk away wife" syndrome and how women who divorce their husbands after the husbands claim to change is the worst thing for them to do. I wanted so hard to slam my computer against the floor. This woman (wtf? this WOMAN should know better) wrote an article saying women who A) get married and try …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 08:39 PM
63	Why do they keep normalizing this gross behaviour???? This reminds me of the psychiatrist or whatever telling "walk away wives" to stay with their husbands. That after years and years of nagging, begging, and issuing ultimatums, the wives who have carefully sought out an exit strategy should stay with their husbands because he's finally listening. The therapist went on and on about how these husbands will now be amazing husbands because their wives have filed for divorce. I would never want to stay with someone who I have to draw up divorce papers …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/21 10:54 PM
76	Celebrity forever girlfriends & baby mama culture cont’d… The funny thing is that I'm eating a chocolate muffin right now...that I baked myself and am enjoying by myself. Bake your own muffins, ladies!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 03:48 AM
66	Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse. but I figured it out on my own. This is honestly what I don't understand about most men who say they can't do basic home tasks that it seems like every woman knows how to do. Especially now with the advent of the internet. I really, really don't get people/men who claim they don't know how to cook. We have literal television channels dedicated to cooking. We have more recipes found on free websites with step-by-step instructions on how to make different foods. Simple meals that are easily prepar…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 10:21 PM
15	What happens when a forever girlfriend finally gets married. Sad we have an expiration date for women in society that if they're not married by a certain age, they might as well roll over and die. My ex-SIL was like this. In front of the church, the priest asked her why she was marrying my brother. She said, "Well, I'm almost thirty and not married." Our side of the family was like, "Yup. That's not going to last long." My kids, sisters, and I talked about it later that night. It didn't. A handful of years later, they got a divorce. He wanted kids. She sa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 10:14 PM
134	Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problems “B-but women get SEX!” I honestly have no clue why men think sex is the end-all, be-all for them. I mean, is sex really that good for men? I can't fathom it. I just can't. It's always been a "meh" thing for me. I'd much rather have a satisfying relationship with someone who gets me on all levels than the sex I've had. Yes, even the rare occasion it was good. Dudes don't seem to understand they can be a god in bed and still have the woman leave them because they're a dick. My kids' dad wasn't bad…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/21 01:47 AM
51	Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor? Men: Damn women for being weary of men they just meet. What are they thinking? Also men: You got SA because you were too friendly. Stop being so friendly and men won't try to have sex with you. We literally can't win.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/21 06:26 PM
75	I did it, thanks to FDS The "oh. Shit. She's really leaving" tears. Saw them myself one time. Best decision ever was ignoring them and walking away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/21 01:06 AM
81	Women that join men to bitch about or laugh at other women, are bottom barrel. I don't wear makeup. Honestly, for a long time it was because I couldn't afford it. And then it was because my kids were into it and I was busy buying the stuff they wanted. After they got out of the more "how do I put this on" and into the "I like makeup" stuff, I started buying them the best stuff I could afford for them. Thank heavens for "dupes" videos, though! I had one man tell me that he liked I didn't wear makeup and he bet that I'd never allow my kids to as well because it looks trashy.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 03:44 AM
49	Myth: Women are “naturally” more monogamous. Men cheat because of “biology” and their “natural” desire for variety. Let's not forget that women in the US alone are only about two or three generations away from not being able to get our own checking accounts, having to get our husband's approval before we can work, and not getting fired for getting pregnant. We're still in a world where if a woman wants to tie her tubes or get a hysterotomy the doctor will almost always ask for the husband's permission. Fortunately, things are (slowly) changing. And with that change, I believe, will come more violence from men…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 01:22 AM
119	A majority of the time, sex is NOT a mutual benefit. Most men erroneously think women are into sex with them as much as they're into sex with us. They don't understand they're lying to themselves just as much as they think we are lying to them. They're stupid for so many reasons. A) I can pretty much get dick whenever I want. I can call up a number of people and say, "You want to have sex?" and they'd come over immediately. I don't have to dress up. I don't have to put on makeup. I don't have to leave my house. Hell, most of the time I wouldn't ev…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/21 07:26 PM
31	This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable. Mountain Dew is too spicy for him. Better make it sweet tea. This dude is divorced or has a wife who dreams about divorcing him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 05:12 AM
14	To the ladies who say FDS is "hot girl strategy" YES! Women love having sex with men who know how to please them. Hell, just look at how many romance novels fly off the shelves every day at book stores. Because in those books, the woman always has the best sex with a guy who gets her off multiple times before himself. I've been with SO MANY guys who did not give one shit if I came or not. I'd be very direct and explain what I needed and half the time they acted like I was offending them. But them grabbing my head and shoving it in their crotch…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 01:07 AM
263	To the ladies who say FDS is "hot girl strategy" Jennifer Aniston got cheated on. So did Sandra Bullock. Pretty publicly, too. I think of these women always when I think of my no-good, lying, cheating ex-boyfriend. I'm so sick of society giving men free passes when it's the women who hurt. "Men are more visual." "Men have higher sex drives." "Men can't control themselves." No offense, but if men can't control themselves around innocent women how the hell am I supposed to trust them to make ANY decision about my body autonomy? Fuck that. Get a …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/21 03:58 PM
11	"You earned my respect by not sleeping with me, actually", said the man who tried to relationship-fake me into banging him I don't get how they don't get we're not falling for that shit anymore. We watched so many women in the 40s, 50s, 60s, etc. get sent to "bad girls" homes to have babies ripped out of them. Then we saw in the 70s, 80s. 90s, and 00s women get ditched by men and raise kids on their own. Women are finally like, "Fuck that shit. What do you have to offer me?" before sleeping with them. You can give me what I want? Cool. I can't give you what you want, either.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/21 03:25 AM
65	Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair? I love the whole "women aren't paying me any attention" vibe of the whole thing. Not just that women are actively ignoring him. But that he is pissed women aren't giving him the time of day. Dude, women are done with men's shit. The only ones who will gag for his attention are low-lying fruit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/21 03:19 AM
89	Currently in the grieving process after YEARS of being a pickme. I am relieved to finally have arrived here. Sadness and loneliness is okay. It means I'm healing I always look back at younger me and think about how I wanted so badly to become what society had deemed acceptable for me. I hate that we live in a world where being married and having kids for a woman is just expected. Like it's a happy occasion but it's still expected. I'm looked at as some sort of broken woman who must've been hurt deeply by a man because I don't want to be married. And that's not it at all. Honestly, it's watching those around me in marriages that are less than stellar and …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 02:23 AM
12	This is so important for every upcoming generation of women! Margaret Atwood is the shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 02:15 AM
2	Preferring a big penis should be seen as being as normal as liking nice eyes or a nice smile. Just saw a confession post where a dude tried to shame women for only wanting guys 6 feet tall and over. My response is "you swiped right on all the others though, right?" I mean, if HE is going to eliminate women for preferring a physical feature in men then he shouldn't have any objections about any physical features in women. I'm sure he has a bio that says "no fat chicks" though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/21 03:12 AM
146	OP drank the LibFem koolaid and posted nudes online... now the same redditors who jerked off are judging 😳🥸 "My wife wants me to stop jerking off to porn all the time and doesn't understand that I do it because she won't have sex with me. AITA?" Cue a bunch of people telling him that he's not the asshole. She should be giving it up and if she doesn't, she should be happy he's looking at other naked women and pleasuring himself. Hardly anyone would tell him the fact she's not jumping on his dick is because she feels like crap knowing her husband is jacking off looking at someone not her and gaslighting…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 05:00 AM