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Yea I feel like everytime a man threatens this it’s like “okay then go”. Nobody’s stopping you but I know you won’t get off your computer to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:55 PM
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I agree with this! You know when you’re with someone and you feel like they just “get it” or “get” you? THATS chemistry. It’s the connection/thread that you cannot manufacture if it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:21 PM
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And I promise, nobody wants to make him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:34 PM
5

Women: “based on my personal experience as a woman and the experience of all my female friends and other girls I’ve talked to as women, I can tell you that this is a girl code thing” Men: “men know better and it is NOT a girl code thing”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:47 AM
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You’re just a cog in the wheel like the rest of us buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:17 PM
15

Gone half the time for work, statistically likely to cheat, may or may not have killed someone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:53 PM
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My uncle and his wife were in the midst of a separation/ divorce when she was diagnosed with brain cancer. When he found out he invited her to move back in and they got back together and he took care of her for the next 5 years until she passed away
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:43 PM
3

Women aren’t pushing for marriage that hard actually! That’s why the rate of single unmarried women over 40 is increasing. But y’all are mad about that too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:17 PM
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Okay but if you look at history, Joe is actually known as a partier and has been for the last decade or so. Currently he is touring and that’s not exactly a time for being at home (as he claims). Sophie (openly a homebody) has been at home for their 4 years of marriage and only picking up small local roles. She’s been in the uk filming her first big project since the wedding for the past 3 months, which means Joe primarily has the kids for the first time in their entire marriage. Joe has always …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:45 PM
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There’s a difference between style and effort though. For me, a dude I’m not compatible with shows little to no effort to pleasure me. A selfish lover can’t be fixed because they don’t want to learn. I’m not going to be compatible with someone who doesn’t eat pussy or doesn’t want to put in the effort to listen to what I like. I wouldn’t try to change someone like that, and they generally aren’t worth teaching
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:54 PM
7

Yea they’re not working as much because they’re raising the fucking children men love to make and hate to take care of
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:25 AM
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There’s also bars with games, bars with live music, bars with food. Saying bars are only for hooking up when we’re living in an age where people use dating apps Instead of bars for casual encounters is such a socially inept thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:53 PM
2

Some of you have never been to a dog park and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:03 AM
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It’s not offensive, BUT simply asking that question is kind of a dead giveaway that you’ve spent enough time in anti-women internet groups. This is why it’s met with such disagreement. I’ve yet to meet a well adjusted guy who would actually ask this question on a date, and most women aren’t willing to “prove” themselves to a guy in a dating market that’s skewed in their favor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:00 PM
3

That’s not what I said, go to bed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:20 PM
6

So this guys never eaten coochie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:15 PM
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Yeah I think OP is missing the part where he actually needs to convince a woman to have sex, let alone procreate with him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:53 PM
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I think one of the problems is that the “men’s issue” widely discussed here is that men are lonely and not getting sex/relationships like they want. This seems to be a result of women having more rights/money/financial freedom that has allowed them to make relationship and sexual decisions based on “want” rather than “need”. As a result, many women have opted out of the sexual market in general, or are exercising hypergamy because they’re no longer afraid of being alone. We are no longer depende…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:24 PM
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You’re literally wrong, it’s in the original comment in this thread. You just want to be angry for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:16 PM
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I’m actually pro legalization of sex work! That’s one of the topics on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:08 PM
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I know that the answer you want is that women will lower their standards and pity fuck you because that’s what YOU NEED, but you’re not going to get that answer because that’s not something women are willing to change to help you with, sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:53 PM
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Yeah that’s literally the prompt of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:47 PM
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The problem with the sex issue is it’s not possible to fix without women sacrificing their own bodily autonomy. This is a good faith, well thought out list about men’s issues that women are actually interested in helping with, and it’s not fair to respond to it complaining that these things are still not getting you laid. We understand that sex is important to you, but we cannot actually help you fix this issue because we don’t want to give up the sexual freedom that we are inherently afraid of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:08 PM
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It’s not her fucking job to teach men how to have morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:47 PM
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Tbh I don’t think this guys ever been in a relationship. The “love” he’s talking about is the honeymoon phase if anything, and is completely ignorant of how relationships evolve and develop over time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:42 PM
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I do not care at all, that has nothing to do with me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:34 PM
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The average American woman is a size 14, so yes. (American woman is relevant here because this is an American video)
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/22 07:39 PM
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Yeah I’m from Los Angeles and she’s not stunning but she’s still cute enough. Absolutely not a 4 like people here are saying
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 03:35 PM
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She’s clearly above average. This is what we’re talking about when we say men on this site have an incredibly warped view of what average is
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 03:32 PM
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I’m sorry you’re dealing with that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:33 AM
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I had inorgasmia too!! This happened to me after a long time of totally being able to orgasm and it turns out it was because of my SSRIs. When I stopped the pills I was able to orgasm again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:22 AM
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I’m glad you guys are talking about these things and it shows you have a healthy amount of communication. That being said, I wanted to clear some things up about your “free use” solution. Free use is a form of CNC (consensual non consent) that involves the “user” having access to the “used” body at the users discretion. This permission is granted by the “used”, usually because they are turned on by the lack of control or something related to that. I want to stress that this is very much an opt i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:20 AM
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It’s not a bait and switch because it’s not a ploy. It’s not like women are usually pretending to have a high sex drive in their youth just to get a man. Many women actually have high sex drives because they’re humans and are programmed to. It’s not like women want or plan to lose their sex drives after marriage. But cohabiting and kids and age have an effect on libido. It’s not a conspiracy, it’s just life. In these scenarios it’s not like these women are lying about having a high libido and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:39 PM
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Genuine question: how are you able to still go on one date a week while having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:28 PM
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They do, like all the time, to their friends in real life. The difference Is that guys complain here about how there’s nothing they can do. But girls will just develop an eating disorder and then spend a fuck ton of money on the beauty industry that caters to their insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:19 PM
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I think they’d call her a spinster
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:42 AM
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I’m one of the girlies who says they’re attracted to intelligence! I am a scientist so when I say this it’s because I actually usually date other scientists (or people in stem)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:29 PM
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I think there’s a lot of confirmation bias on this sub because men who flock here are usually the most awkward and socially inept of the grand population. None of my guy friends in real life have trouble dating at all. Like yes it’s not always easy to find a “good match”, of course, but the field isn’t as barren as it’s said to be on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:26 PM
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Also not advice for women who… enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:22 PM
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Yeah I live in LA. You definitely don’t get any points for just being thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:14 AM
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Don’t listen to him. I’m a big proponent of pre-marital sex but I’m an even bigger proponent of you sticking to your own values and desires. If you don’t want premarital sex you shouldn’t do it to appease someone else. You should only do it when you want to, and I think it’s cool that you’re firm in your beliefs about what to do with your own body. Ultimately, these random dudes on the internet don’t matter and shouldn’t have any say in your virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:45 PM
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RP loves to put women in boxes and say that women who don’t agree with that box are lying. They take a small sample size of women who fit their mold and apply it to the whole population. They don’t actually care what we have to say or how we actually feel. Stay on this sub long enough and you’ll just accept they want to continue starkly misunderstanding most women, and we can’t change their minds by being honest about our lived experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:15 PM
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Society is declining because 13 year olds are unpartnered /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:12 PM
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Every week this question appears on this sub and every time, this is so obviously the right answer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:49 PM
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It’s not that at all! It’s just that you used the word “investing”. Most (not all) of my friends in relationships in their early 20s (including myself) spent years trying to fix or mold a guy into our ideal standard of what we wanted for the future, pretty much to no avail. The problem is that most 20 year old dudes are immature, most college relationships end, and putting all that energy into someone in your early years when you’re most likely going to break up is a huge bummer. I have friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:26 PM
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Honestly this might have more to do with you not having had a relationship rather than not having been able to get one. People tend to make a lot of mistakes in their first relationship, that they are then able to learn from. That’s also where people have the opportunity to really gain sexual skills. Most women aren’t too keen on teaching a 40 year old man how to be a good partner and lover, so when they find out you haven’t had a relationship, that’s more likely what they’re thinking about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:11 AM
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Jokes on you I watch MILF porn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:02 PM
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Why would a woman want to piss away her 20s “investing” in a dude when she could just simply not do that and enjoy her 20s instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:56 PM
1

Having individual friendships without a “group” is totally normal and okay and is still well adjusted. If you don’t have that I’d recommend higher education
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:32 AM
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Once you make actual friends it moves beyond small talk though. You probably aren’t as unique as you think you are, and there are probably a lot of people out there that you have interests in common with. There are plenty of intelligent people in the world who don’t just “mindlessly vibe”, and thinking you’re above everyone is only going to hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:36 PM
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I think it’s an important note that women fall for ROMANCE scams more often. I also see a post every day on r/scams about some guy who sent a nude to a girl on Snapchat he thought was real and is now being blackmailed, despite it being a ridiculously common scam. Something tells me women don’t fall for that scam as often
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:00 PM
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I was actually pretty excited about my Grey hairs because I think they look cool but then I got diagnosed with early onset arthritis at my ripe age of 25 and now I’m more afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:48 PM
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I honestly feel like you’re not qualified to be saying any of this with your level of experience. It’s really awesome that you and your wife have sex that satisfies both of you while being each other’s first partners and I don’t want to negate that. But frankly, you’re not experienced enough to denounce other people’s own personal real life experiences of what they prefer based on their level of (more thorough) experience. I’ve had sex within and out of relationships, and while relationship sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:26 PM
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The girly is extremely right actually -woman, around her age
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:30 PM
1

Honestly yeah, it’s usually men who are deeply lonely and sad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:35 PM
2

Say what you will but I made thousands of dollars doing just that. Also, I work 50 hours a week as a lab scientist so I don’t think it’s super fair to say I don’t know what hard work is. I’m just sharing my perspective as someone with a traditional job dipping a single toe into the other side, I don’t think sex work is the “easy way out” it’s written off to be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:42 PM
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I participated in sugar dating for a bit before meeting my partner. I was working full time as a scientist and saving for grad school so I wanted the extra income. I also live in LA so rent/COL are high. It was honestly kind of difficult because I didn’t do any physical contact, and there’s only so much money they will give you for texts exchanges/dates that don’t end with sex. I ended up giving it up because I realized how much time and effort goes into it, and I didn’t want to dedicate that at…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:57 PM
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Why would a boomer be talking about sex with a teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:27 PM
3

Because having a public Instagram doesn’t mean I’m using it as a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:17 AM
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I receive dms from guys on Instagram semi-often and have literally never responded because I think it’s weird when a stranger I have never met before dms me on an app that I use to share photos with my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:57 AM
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He has a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:10 AM
36

Dude she’s just not that into you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:10 PM
0

Some girls like girls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:19 AM
0

What is wrong with dating someone you actually like hanging out with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:38 AM
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Word
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:59 AM
1

Ditto on this! This is probably because we hang out with people in real life who have healthy and fulfilling sex lives instead of guys who spend all their time on the internet being mad at women for fulfilling their sexual needs without them. As someone who goes outside, the vitriol towards sex-havers on this sub is kind of shocking because it’s a definite contrast from what I’ve actually experienced in real life. OP said “nobody cares about body count in real life” because he’s probably friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:07 PM
1

Girl you have just lost the plot entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:55 PM
1

Interacting with someone in real life and having them see my boyfriend jerk off and my boyfriend watching a pre-recorded video on the internet are two very different things. I personally wouldn’t have a problem with it because I’m not particularly monogamous, but that’s besides the point that interacting/ meeting up in real life and watching something behind a screen that has already been filmed are completely different experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:48 PM
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Girl here, totally fine with me. Like obviously if my boyfriend were watching porn for hours on end that would be weird, but also I think watching porn for hours on end is weird in general? I think that masturbation is normal and healthy and should happen even in a committed relationship. I also know that porn is often used as a means to an end for masturbation. Especially if you started watching at a young age, porn is sometimes a compulsory part of it. If it gets to the point where you can’t g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:51 PM
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I’m more interested in the backlog of rape kits actually being completed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:23 PM
6

Those “great guys” actually have terrible fucking personalities though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:59 PM
2

Condoms exist and so does regular sti screenings. This isn’t the Middle Ages
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:39 PM
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Yeah the actual winners are the ones who like… go outside and aren’t constantly thinking about how other men are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:38 PM
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Hmmmm which girls do you hang out with because this is just not true in my girl group
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:05 PM
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Money is limited though, sexual desire isn’t. If you spend all your money, you don’t have it later. If you act on your sexual desires, you’re not actually losing anything. You’re not spending your limited sexual energy which you will have less of as a consequence. The only thing you’re losing is “purity”, which is a stupid concept to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:40 PM
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Yeah guys on Reddit seem to really care about this and I am just begging them to go outside and meet a real woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:59 PM
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“Women ignore me, I am invisible” woman goes out of her way to sit next to you, asks basic question “She was bothering me and is trying to use me” -Seek therapy dude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:10 AM
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Being asked a question in computer lab is definitely the same as rape /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:05 AM
1

This isn’t true, that’s in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:49 PM
2

Yes because “staying together for the kids” always turns out great? Growing up in an environment where your parents are always fighting is also super unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:30 PM
3

Honestly it’s because women now have the ability to leave unsatisfying relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:30 AM
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Because women now have the power to leave unsatisfying relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:24 AM
4

Also like, if you spend all your free time on the internet wallowing in self pity and hating women, you aren’t going to be attractive. It’s not because you’re short!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:15 AM
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I’m in LA and second this!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:13 AM
2

This is a hard question to answer. My boyfriend is good looking. The hottest guy ever? No, but a certified cutie. However, I wasn’t really thinking of how fuckable he was when we met since I met him at work and we had a professional relationship. We fell in love after being friends for a while, and after getting to know him I realized how beautiful of a person he is. If I met him at a bar, would we have hooked up? Honestly, no. This is for a few reasons. 1. He doesn’t do casual sex so there’s th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:20 PM
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I’m having a hard time understanding this though. Yes, we all have irrational feelings, and you have every right to feel them and act on them. But if you’re acting on all your irrational feelings and insecurities, you’re going to live a very sad and lonely life. You have every right to dump a girl you love because she once fucked someone hotter than you. It’s stupid but you have every right to do it. What men on Reddit don’t understand is that actual real life healthy relationships are multidime…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:14 PM
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Not with that attitude!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:23 PM
1

The thing is, generally you have the chance to be your partners best sex. Honestly, i have a relatively high body count. My partner does not. He is the best sex I’ve ever had because I love him, and I’ve taught him what I like and he listens. Guys on Reddit have so many reasons they don’t want to date “sluts”, mostly stemming from insecurity. But they also forget that you can also just… get better at sex. Like that’s completely possible. You don’t have to leave your girlfriend, you can just ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:11 PM
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Yea it would suck for you if she had enough of a sample size to know you suck in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:01 PM
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I think it has to do with the “single” state for both. Women tend to be happier than men single because they tend to have more solid support systems. Female friendships are usually much more emotionally close, and women can rely on each other for support and emotional fulfillment more so than men can. A single mans life is usually far lonelier. Many times, having a girlfriend is the only time men are able to truly express their emotions at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:52 PM
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I just wanna know how he knew she was smiling with a mask on
/r/seduction18/10/20 01:20 PM
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