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Funny how many fuckin' weirdos are out there these days. I think it's a cascade of things all hitting at the same time. Poor parenting, unhealthy maternal age and health when gestated, lack of exposure early on to things mental and physical that would bolster the mind and immune system, and people just not accepting that parenting takes active, vested interest. Notice the pop culture attitudes towards parents that actually give a shit. Busybodies, helicoptering, etc. But hey, toss your kid in th…
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 03:39 PM
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How old are you? I've always hated big asses, but I have noticed as my butt centered friends have watched their favorites turn to burlap sacks filled with cottege cheese they've come back around to healthy size again. Hell, look at the old sir mix a lot video. That was big back then. It's just easier to tell women in your adverts that dudes like a body shape attained by eating and sitting, with ten vanity squats per day. (and a girdle recommended on insta)
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 03:30 PM
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It's impossible to get guys to nut up unless it's literally a founding precept of the group, and anyone who comes along has to agree to them and show some kind of understanding, no exceptions. "Hey guys, I promised this girl I'd take her out tonight, but we've planned it forever, I figured just one more wouldn't hurt, yeah?" "Sorry tom, you know the rules. Go get pegged."
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 03:25 PM
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My dad always told me the son's job was to be the undercover voice of reason, so if the wife starts talking about "all I do around here" you have to be the one she listens to, and subtly articulate "well, you spent about 40 minutes vacuuming, and you ran a mop over the floor, and the next 14 hours are absolutely free, and you're making an obscene amount of money while your kids do the chores. It could be worse, right?" It usually snapped her out of it, she'd only ever started getting all huffy a…
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 03:23 PM
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They have little ones that look like phone chargers that go into the outlet. Grab body cams too, at least two so you can swap them out when one needs charging. Just a little pocket cam on your lapel seems obvious, but no one ever notices it until I tell them I have our earlier disagreement on camera. It's paid for itself many times over.
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 03:17 PM
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The kid likely got exposed to some nasty stuff in utero. Party girl moms aren't the types to swear off drugs, syphilis, and whatever else goes on in their inner dumpster while pregnant. If they were to get the kid checked out you may find what's wrong with him.
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 03:15 PM
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Something I notice is their copious amounts of facial grease and makeup tend to fill up the front face of it with a perfect surface to slip right out of their hands. Combine that with a case, if one is present to begin with, that is nothing but a blob of smooth plastic suspending a handful of glitter. No wonder they drop them every day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 11:56 PM
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That's my line of work, and I literally, in all my time, have seen ONE marriage where I think "yeah, I'd happily go for that". The dude is pretty based, VERY redpilled for an older guy, and has TONS of options on the road to keep his wife on her toes. She of course, was a small town girl, formerly fat, who swan-ed up right out of high school and he married her at 21. I tell him he found a lottery ticket, and it'd be unrealistic to say "just do what I did! Who wants to invest for retirement? Just…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 11:52 PM
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It makes sense, when you think about human evolutionary pressure. The body would have to react somewhat favorably just to survive. If not, then the lack of sexual response would just be replace by massive tissue damage, blood sepsis, etc. Evolutionarily, chances are that anyone who didn't respond that way died off, and their line ended. Many, many generations of people didn't have the luxury of safety we do today. It's a bit unfair that they never talk about it, because it causes a LOT of undue …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 09:35 PM
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And it's just not only about looks. Too often guys will bring out a folder of ugly popular guys that get loads of female thirst, because they project their own thinking processes on women. There are some ugly-ish dudes out there that get swooned over. It makes more sense to the left brained fellas to say she'll set up a slip n' slide in them panties if she believes other women would love to be choked by the guy, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 09:32 PM
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The bar for devastation is quite low, when you live the sufficiently coddle lives we've made possible for the young'uns today. Just meet a group of teens, they introduce themselves by talking up the greatest "trauma" in their life. Too bad, 'dead gramma' and 'litter of puppies run over by truck', this bad guuuuurl has "childhood leukemia' in her hand! Victimization worship is waxing in cultural cachet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 09:13 PM
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The dance analogy is true, but what do you call the underlying threat of violence via state system abuse? I know I'm the statistical outlier, but I've seen two pretty big false accusation cases in my schools, in addition to the ever-present first date "yeah my bf was super abusive" statements all over. Round all that out with a few times of seeing an awkward mofo get shitcanned from work (even the local industry) due to an approach towards dating, and it really lays bare how much power every gir…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 09:04 PM
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You can even make the case that Belle is a total neckbearded NEET. She's living in a time where no one had the luxury of just hanging out and not working, but somehow she can dick around enjoying their version of the internet 24/7.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 04:36 PM
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Been a while since I've been to argent, but I gotta say anywhere but Aires proper, these types are pretty rare. The fact that she doesn't have a dude hanging on to her says a multi volume encyclopedia about how picky she is. Dudes are very forward and I'd bet she's still getting dudes shooting their shot every day. The problem is, she's this traveled, erudite, sophisticated artiste, and she's far too good for some jackass plebian! I wonder if we'd see the same treatment for a dude who spent hist…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 06:39 PM
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EXACTLY! These shifts are so slow the conservative folks never even give themselves a jog in the almonds that what they're so eager to keep around is a leftist/progressive value to begin with. 100 years ago, was there a huge industry built up as nothing but a flimsy excuse for "equality" and affirmative action for college? Was there any actual interest in the concept of female sports? There were some girls' schools and colleges of sorts, but the idea of saddling some poor 18 year old girl with u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 12:11 AM
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For sure. I think even in old age, unless they take a moment and ponder their solitude, they'll just keep waiting for Mike Dexter, CEO/Astronaut/Model to sweep them off their feet. They isolate into hugboxes of other supportive women, and there's no one left to speak the truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 11:59 PM
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It's not just that, either. Once they see more and more pushback from the dwindling proportion of invested, complete families teaching their kids they'll go out of their way to integrate child care altogether. They'll start picking at homeschooling, community education, and anything besides government care. It'll really get spicy once they go after any 'problematic' root belief systems. The Qur'an will still be untouchable for a long time, but they'll have plenty of cucked protestant groups disa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 11:54 PM
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The majority of media is written explicity to tell women what they want to hear. They're the ones spending 80% of consumer dollars in the economy, so it's only natural to entice them with official looking articles like "if you were to hire specialists to do all the functions (an unrealistically hardworking and competent) stay at home mom would do, it would cost $164,000!!!! You'd need a limo driver, maids, dry cleaners, tutors...." Nevermind that few moms these days even do those things. Most ki…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 11:38 PM
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Back when you used to have heroes that had clear character flaws who, through discipline, effort, and struggle managed to fix themselves. Now, even showing the mandatory female hero as flawed at all "sends a bad message to children". No wonder they're such nightmares. Even in their movies, the self insert cannot be chastized.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 09:06 PM
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Except a hyun is cheap. It's more like a bentley, in that it once cost hundreds of thousands, but now requires almost as much just to get it functional. It's a black hole for throwing money away, and dating's even worse- they want their original MSRP!
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 01:18 AM
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It's actually a wonderful video to explain to girls when they project what their life would be like a man. They literally always picture themselves as the apex chad they dream of bagging. Giant, ripped CEO suit man who never diets or works out but gets incredible pay for 2.3 hours of work a day. Spends all his time modeling luxury watches, yachting, and banging the hottest model women who brag about his lifestyle on instagram. They never picture their actual counterpart, which is closer to the h…
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 12:53 AM
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It would be cool, but if you're the type to try and help, you get sick of wasting your time. I've never had anyone take the advice, use the hidden cameras, or actually go to war when it's obvious that they're getting divorced. Guys are too romantic. They always, always think there's some reciprocity of kindness/fairness that their wife will show them, and it never comes true. "Oh, nah I can't record that....that's crazy, why would I need to tape myself all the time!?!? Oh right, like women actua…
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 12:50 AM
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How do you keep a straight face when you hear that? I always crack up and walk away. They want distance? I'm the king of distance. Talk to you in a few years!
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 12:45 AM
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Funny, I talked with a bro a while back about that. College town in sweden, he says he regularly is expected to bail out the progressive know-it-alls when they see him walk by. Turns out they never considered what would happen when they import patriarchal, illiterate, combat aged men en masse. These girls are so accustomed to just saying "no thanks" and the guy hitting on them runs for the hills, they have no tools to use against Hamid and his six closest cousins. All the passive "no thank you, …
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 12:43 AM
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What, and involve the police for some stranger's trouble? Most likely you think you're helping out "Emma Gutierrez Superqueer/Pan activist ACAB Slaughter white men and drink mimosa's Pronouns: She/her". She probably has a couple dozen tweets chastizing police for responding to other crimes already, why not accept her beliefs and live by the standards she sets for others? Plus, in all likelihood, when you see the response, she takes her man's side against everyone trying to help her. Seen it so m…
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 12:35 AM
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When I worked in street-level service, (most LE/EMS types get it) It weirded me out how I used to worry about people in public like that. Now if I were to see a tied-up maiden getting yoinked into a car, my first instinct would be "come on you perverts, can't you leave your fetish play somewhere more private? Someone could get the wrong idea out here."
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 12:31 AM
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That kinda points to the theory that all this immigration politicking is a kind of subconscious shit test. They get to maternally feel like they're caring for this poor little guy who just needs to be nurtured, AND she's basically thumbing her nose at the guys around her, saying "I'm gonna invite a hostile tribe to assault, invade, and take our home, and if you don't sack the fuck up I'm gonna let him breed me like a horny sow, huh? How do you like that, pussy?! Come one, fight back! Why aren't …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 12:14 AM
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We talk about there being no good women, but it wasn't always that way. The boomers even have some of the good ones left, but they're rapidly dying off. As not politically correct as it sounds, women need shame to stay in line. The girls who thought they'd incur societal disapproval if they went out on girls' night, or picked up some job working around single men a lot, or even spoke to a man outside the marriage. (that's why she didn't have single gal pals, either. Couple friends ONLY!) Hell, s…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/07/21 12:08 AM
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I had an interesting chat with a guy from there, and I bet it's about 10-15 years ahead of the USA in terms of the schism between men and women. The men vote against all the unworkable, obviously bad ideas like limitless importation of unvetted, uninvestigated people from "war zones", while the women vote vastly in favor of them. The women are extremely progressive and a total mirror image of the majority of men. They own the colleges even worse than the rest of us, like 90% plus of a class will…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 09:36 PM
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I have a screenshot of a few things he likely took this from. The clip includes a pol convo from 02/05/19. "Sweden has emerged as the country with the highest percentage of local men with Thai wives or life partners. As well as a growing number of thai workers travelling to Sweden as seasonal workers, the number of Thai women arriving in sweden has increased three fold over the last 10 years. Over 80% of Thai immigrants to Sweden are relationship partners or Thai wives of Swedish men and Sweden,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 09:16 PM
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We need to all chip in and do our part to shame traitors! I took a kid aside today and chastized him for simping too much. About 80% of his words were fawning compliments for a new girl at work. It's so hard to listen to. I did tell him he needs to give one compliment to a guy for every one he gives her, so maybe that will help build up some brothers around here.
/r/MGTOW02/07/21 12:31 AM
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We had an owner pull that nonsense a while back. Was talking about making his new 54 yo dust sack "an honest woman" in marriage number four. We cooperated (luckily enough RP dudes) in pointing and laughing at him for a solid 1/2 minute. "What? It's not right not being married!" "What, so you can have sex? Have you been chaste so far?" "Well I'm not just gonna go without sex, but...." "Well what's the point then? You're already living in sin, you think there's a giant difference once the state's …
/r/MGTOW02/07/21 12:29 AM
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Meanwhile, in 3143 A.D: "Omg you're sooooo old fashioned! Who cares what some old stupid book says? Those old men were assholes, they didn't know what we know today, women clearly have more bobular activity which is why they're the only caste suited to rule. Besides, there's nothing wrong with eating children's flesh if they're from a cursed caste. They have the duty to carry the sins of their evil forbears, and it's our right to consume them in ritual sacrifice, we're a nation of science now, a…
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 08:02 PM
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It's great, maybe for once pay will increase for the few doctors still practicing. A lot of the fem MD's bail on it once they have kids and lose the need to work, only worsening the shortage.
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 07:27 PM
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I broached that once and told him he's about three years too early (I'd wait until 21 at least) to even try it, otherwise he loses his career to grooming allegations since he met them once or twice around 18. That's hypothetical, though, I can't think of a more worthless, pointless, foolish pursuit than to scorn the obese single mom and date her kids if you have anything to lose. He'd be one 'creep' tweet away from being fired and blacklisted all over. When I mentioned he needed to keep his dist…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 07:18 PM
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You know it a lot better than me then. I don't have any of that data, to the point I can't think of a time I met a non-thot in these kinds of activities. Like, a girl who is older, and totally sexually inexperienced is more hypothetical than possible when I try to think of meeting one. Granted, I don't go hitting up the kind of girls who receive little to zero sexual attention in life anyway. They're usually obese, outwardly hostile, aspergian, etc. I've been living in more (at least pre 2014 th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 07:11 PM
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It's a lie. If she wanted to be a stay at home mother, she wouldn't have gotten herself $100,000+ in worthless debt just for her ego. If she thinks she's staying at home with the kids instead of a career, she doesn't even need college after she finds her hubby. For a long time more religious schools had degrees like "family studies" that were little more than a flimsy excuse for women to go and mingle with suitors. There's some worth to finishing a 4 year with something that's a family's back-up…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 12:44 AM
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Well, the best we can do is, when encountering a man dating an older woman, is ask "dude what the hell are you thinking? I know you haven't been in the post 2014 dating market, so it seems strange to you, but you really have gone up in your rankings since you were a dweeby nerd in high school. Just aim for the stars, skanks are easier than ever if you're in the upper 20% my guy!" I just met a guy who's in a post-divorce relationship, spectacularly bluepilled, dating an obese 40+ woman. The dude …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 08:01 PM
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It's a testament to the widespread societal failure we're living in though. In ages past you would get these messages from elder males (and even considerate women). Men in general are no longer living up to their roles as leaders governors, and thinkers in the family. They've been dethroned in favor of a culture wide "oh my hubby is just so dumb and simple, he wouldn't know his ass from a hole in the ground without his wife! I'm basically his mother!!!". He's held hostage by the state in fear of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 07:26 PM
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You either swallow the red pill early, or life gives you the suppository.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 07:13 PM
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Just wait until you really start seeing through lies in real time. I used to have a pretty redpilled coworker who just made it his job to let every single person who interacted with him that he contempted them to some degree. In a big training meeting with other regions, I witnessed this (roughly remembered) conversation: "Oh, yeah, I'm new here, just looking for mr. right! I've only had two boyfriends, I'm really inexperienced-" "bullshit" "What? I just haven't met the right guy, I've always wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 07:12 PM
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Has anyone else heard that Archer line "you could drown a toddler in my panties?". While funny enough in a tv show, from a foul monster character, we had a coworker say it all the time and it was awkward.....so, so hard to endure in public. Just wanted to share my pain as a form of therapy, she was a single mother who was a 'proud mamma bear' who tried to get a weird threeway relationshit going with the dude another baby momma working there was hooking up with. Weird shit, the guy bailed so hard…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:57 PM
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Spontenaity is easy enough to fake. You just have to pretend to be impulsive and change your location while together. Just saying "this is boring, let's go grab a drink at this weird place" does wonders at making them feel like they're livin' in a movie. My dad used to tell me the ultimate panty dropper was just getting to know a girl and say "Hey, you wanna skip school and go to disneyland tomorrow? I got free tickets, we'll just fly back in the evening." All you need is befriending someone wor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:52 PM
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I usually expect any rating to be artificially inflated by three points for simply not being in the 'obese' BMI range, even if they're in 'overweight' territory. Truly skinny/slender girls may get even more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:42 PM
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As a kid I always laughed that anyone thought george costanza pulled the models he did. It's a tv show, they gotta have eye candy. I've known guys that set their mental calibration to that standard, though. Takes a lot to sober up from that. No Marisa Tomei comes to NTR a 5'4 bald momma's boy!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:41 PM
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I think it points to her wanting a very specific type of guy, to be honest. Most of the higher end, white collar, professional guys prefer skinny women for LTR's/marriage at least. Sure, the instagram influencer wants a "thicc" 44" cottage cheese ass that turns like a week old banana, but buckling in for the long hall with A cups means you've got a chance at seeing C's by your 40's. I think obesity just really poisoned a lot of us on curves though. Boobs are almost to the point of grossness, sin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:39 PM
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There you go, dude-thinkin' again! That's nowhere in her brain, it's literally "damn, I need some long dickin' tonight! Oh yeah, I can order some in, those guys will even bring free food!" It's like if my dog eats the rat poison buried under my shed, I know he's not thinking it over and weighing his options. He smelled something tasty and took advantage, simple as!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:27 PM
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I always wonder if this gets brought up at high level NGO tables, and some fat cat just shrugs and says "eh, who cares? we need more cannon fodder for the Chinese? Wait, Iran? Who are we gonna be fighting? I can't remember."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:26 PM
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2020 has been called "the great redpilling" for a lot of reasons, but in the sociosexual arena, it did a lot to wake up a ton of guys. They saw their jobs harmed, industries laid low, and women in their circles turn to digistripping and sex work to ride it all out while mocking them for not loving the "mini vacation!" For the first time, they had a window to unshackled female behavior, societal unfairness, sexism, and plentiful chances to see other, wiser men explain the state of the world to th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:24 PM
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It's possible, but the hard part of it is we only really know these relationships work out when we're all damn near dead. I've seen a number of apparently good relationships just fall apart with little warning, when it was the last thing any of us expected. It sounds like they'll stick it out for the long haul at least! If he's anything like the tradesman I know, he's got the respect of the community behind him, which can count as status when everyone knows your name and sings your praises. If t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 01:22 AM
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I don't think hypergamy played as big a role in that case. Societal shaming was much, much more robust, to the point where settling down with a poor choice for any relationship was dangerous without birth control. Getting knocked up out of wedlock would be a black mark for life, suitable for a life of pitiable charity and embarrassment. With actual accountability and consequences hanging over her head in choosing a spouse, it was easier to quell those pangs of horny when she saw the cool dude wi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 12:10 AM
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It's only going to get worse I know this doesn't have much to do with this, but an interesting conversation I had this morning came to mind. Things are pretty crazy after less than ten years of widespread tinder usage. How bad will it be in another ten? Another twenty?! This guy had an interesting point I hadn't considered a whole lot. We were talking about how future guys are already looking at a pretty bleak, materialistic, pointless lifestyle foisted on them from a broken culture/family/schoo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 12:04 AM
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No, it's just a different survival strategy. Women can't compete in direct conflict by picking up a spear and shanking an assaulting tribe, so her instincts push her to seek consensus, popularity, and status in her group. It's why your girl will constantly obsess over seemingly dumb, insignificant statements or comments that a man would forget about ten minutes after the party's over. In her mind, there's that instinct that nags at her, fearing the outcome decreasing her station in the tribe, wh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/21 10:56 PM
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It really is a thing to behold when a naive buddy in the group gets all excited about this girl who he mentally built a whole life with. He's over the moon about her, maybe she's just moved back to their hometown after school, or got introduced by his mom's friend and he thinks he's got a good lead. In his excitement, he shows off a bit and even posts one of her cuter selfies in the group chat, then the rest of the sleuthing squad gets to work. <Ping!> Hey look at that, they found her! <Ping!> H…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 09:44 PM
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So far just rumors, if they were smarter about it, they'd move and spin off a patreon alternative, although I can't imagine why that would work well anyway. Patreon gained a tremendous amount of publicity from the youtube purges, that kind of growth isn't easy to replicate. According to the schizos it's not about making money, anyway, if you dig into the company it does look weird. It's corpo hq is like, a little house or something. The whole site is just kinda slapshod and shitty, too. I'm not …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 09:40 PM
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Which, while not great for her chosen line of work, "flat" is a desireable trait in a gf/fiancee. You can bet your ass that she won't stay that way forever, but there's a chance in 20 years she'll still weigh sub 200 pounds!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 09:34 PM
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And this is why they keep getting angry that guys are "perverts who only lust after young pussy" when they keep hearing tired, burned out dudes throw up their hands and say "fuck, is the only way to find someone even somewhat unspoiled and rotten to get them as young as possible?" I never thought I'd be that guy that wanted "younger and malleable" in my wife candidates, but here I am having had the egalitarian, starry eyed bullshit beaten out of me by a series of what appeared to be good quality…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 09:30 PM
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Once you try out travel with a few millie/zoomer women you realize pretty damn quick it's a waste of time and money. You'd do better to give her some ambien for the "plane ride" then drive her to the nearest downtown shopping center with overpriced luxury shit, then to a pf chang's before a nice hotel. Same experience, same chain stores, the only thing you really need is the beach for her vital photo-op, and even that's optional if the pool looks ritzy enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 09:18 PM
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The older the writings, the more "based" they are. At this point I don't read any scriptural commentary post 1960. People are terrified of censure from the supposedly corrupt, satanic world to the point they're basically in the world's religion. You could build a good case that they've replaced every part of religious life already, they've got saints and martyrs, unaccountable priests, a foundation myth that guides all morality, even their own demons to condemn! All they need now is a weekly sha…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 08:21 PM
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Well let me quote you a fun tweet from the horse's mouth (twitter @ livingmytruth2: "Explain to them (i.e. you) why they're wrong, let them know that society doesn't need them, call them out for their racism, and walk away. they're a lost cause. We need to focus our resources on turning their kids against them"
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 08:08 PM
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Sometimes I ask that they picture the guy of their dreams working hard, slaving away, forgoing so many fun nights out, hobbies, and experiences all to build the foundation of a wonderful life for his future family to enjoy the fruits of. A guy who burned years of his life, sacrificed all kinds of easy happiness to selflessly provide for others would have to deserve something, right? Anyone who puts themselves in such a position would undoubtedly feel like there should rightfully be a pot of gold…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 03:16 AM
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I stopped replacing my gf's when I realized I wasn't dating a girl so much as the committee of friends that backed her up from her phone. Everything you do is reported, assessed, filtered, judged, and "revealed" by her inner circle, and the majority of her friends and family will be too dumb and inexperienced (or better yet, FDS subs) to give her good advice. Oh cool, you mentioned that you loved that song once? Guess what, they looked up the lyrics and it has really inappropriate themes for wom…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 03:06 AM
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It's seeping into the fringes of culture and creeping ever closer to mainstream. Whoever blessed kevin samuels in the youtube algo (and insta too, but that one seems much more authentically grown) let the cat out of the bag. I've heard a 55 year old housefrau use the phrases "roasties" and "buy a dog and die alone" lately, and I doubt she's hanging with zoomers for that.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 02:58 AM
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Kohlberg's stages always get a rise form students when you talk about the points that women tend to stall out at. IIRC they stop developing their sense of morality at stage three or four, which is usually outgrown by their male counterparts by early adulthood. The difference is that women's moral considerations at stage three and four are concerned with what others will think of her for her decision, and whether she'd be keeping the peace in her tribe. (• Stage 3. Good Interpersonal Relationship…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 02:54 AM
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The problem is that the mormons have a very obsequious culture towards their women. They've enshrined their girls as "daughters of god" and hold them in even higher reverence than most other religions, and it will create the biggest schism they've seen since the early founding split-offs. They have very effeminate, touchy-feely men, because they put a premium on being spiritually sensitive and charitable. If you work with them in their more populated areas, you'll hear women often ask "Is he gay…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 02:11 AM
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I think he posts on the chans here and there. I know he's prescribed a bunch of antidepressants and psych meds from the government, but he's proud about always flushing them all down the toilet. He'll drop in randomly and leave some of his exploits by baiting thots into the furthest commute possible, only for their prince model/CEO tinder date to stand them up. The guy's unhinged but it's pretty refreshing to see someone waging a one-man war on the government spending all by himself. The last on…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 01:56 AM
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It's not supposed to. Their positions are meant to make them feel good, not form consistent ideology.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 01:48 AM
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Our culture really did a number on us, they use our natural, healthy inclination to provide, care for, and love our family to perpetuate what's basically slavery, if it were inflicted upon anyone other than (often evil, pale) men. Instead of making conditions suitable for building our own families, they propagandize us into playing along with the gynocratic supremacist dogma that it's far nobler and rewarding to care for someone else's family, to toil, sweat and bleed for a stranger's children t…
/r/MGTOW24/06/21 12:44 AM
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There was a baffling thread on /biz last week where a guy got caught masturbating late at night in his office......while he was four nuts deep. High on ritalin. Using a fleshlight. Watching slaveplay pornography on his tablet. On company wifi. With his pants all the way down. With a bunch of jizzm on his desk because "my medication makes me real horny so I hafta cum at least a couple times or I can't work". It's impossible to feel much empathy for that level of dumbfuckery.
/r/MGTOW24/06/21 12:03 AM
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"If you had no intention of doing this, you should've just said no, you fucked us all by pretending to pull your weight and letting it all fall through." "Yeah but u don get it i was in a really bad place and i was young and didn kno what i was doin so you cant say that i always do my best and since i didn't keep my word that was my best so yall cant yell at me"
/r/MGTOW23/06/21 11:11 PM
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Fathers need to get a lot more interested in helping guide their daughters in dating and love advice. They too often leave all that stuff to their wife thinking it's awkward, and then pretty looking, polished trash like their handbook ends up getting loaded into her brain. The wife dynamic I see a lot is her leading, and falling in with every mlm, fad, scheme, and movement because she doesn't think critically and suspiciously towards new info. She judges its accuracy by how much of her social sp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 08:56 PM
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You would too, if your inbox looked like hers. Guys just don't learn that there're no untouched deals on the market. If they think a 3,4, or 5 out of 10 must not have much male interest he's dead wrong, because 10,000 other guys have that same idea too!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 08:51 PM
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The current system really is quite exploitable if you have no qualms about being a dirtbag. Ever seen that australian guy who protests the modern society by being the most leechy black hole for public taxes possible? He posts here and there, but he's a trip. It's rare to see such open protest against the system like his, to the point it's rebellion. He lives on public assistance, disability, uses suicide watch like a temporary hotel getaway to meet new friends while institutionalized, and baits …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 08:48 PM
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"Oh, you just haven't met the right one yet!" she laughs, squeezing his bicep across the table. "and that right one is me..." she thinks to herself careful to maintain a position that emphasizes her chest, sucks in her gut, and minimizes rolls along her flanks. "Once you get a taste of my bedroom skill, honed through hundreds of thousands of hours defeating you men in the bedroom, I'll have you begging me to marry you!!!" "Why's this chick looking at me like that?" he thought while squinting his…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 08:43 PM
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We tend to evaluate chadliness on stupid guy stuff like logic and reasoning. What makes a chad is how he makes her feel, and most of all: How she thinks he makes other women feel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 08:34 PM
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Those seem to elicit a strong reaction, too. When "chadfishing" got some notoriety, there was a LOT of pushback from the sisterhood online. To this day I think it's a bannable offense to do it all over, even if it's an "experiment". Not sure though, been a while since we all tried it. Was pretty funny though!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 08:32 PM
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Height is something they naturally, instinctively desire, but that's not the sole reason it's become the end-all be-all. Online living, where her entire existence must be documented and advertised every second of the day, leads to an arms race of status seeking behavior. In order to prove her imagined high status to her social tribe, she has to show that she can bait and acquire the best of men, even if it's just for a half hour of squish. There's been a continuous climb upwards at six feet, the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 08:31 PM
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"reason" is just a thin veneer laid over feelings. There's a kind of unspoken understanding between everyone that we all have to pretend to accept female rationale, no matter how absolutely nonsensical or disconnected. We nod and hum along when they talk about the imaginary 'why' they did something, because calling it out just isn't worth the tantrums it would cause. In aggregate though, we're raising one generation after another full to the brim of everyone kicking the can down the road. No one…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 07:52 PM
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It's insane to see how long people can push the "student" grift. They'll start at 18, and before you know it they're pushing 40 without a degree to show for it, just taking the smallest course load to "take care of my kid" while they use government funding to attend some pointless program (pyramid scheme) that has all of five jobs in-state for its graduates. Of course, they matriculate 20 more students every year too, but they're all told they're a shoe-in for the next position, then they can sp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 02:24 AM
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What? There are TONS of jobs for PhD's out there! You can work for starbucks, wendy's, maybe at the school library as you wait for one of the three personnel in your field to retire/die, even onlyfans hires PhD's!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 11:18 PM
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I LOVE the dynamic of "he's jealous and wants to guard me from other guys, but he's very moderne and feminist so he'd never actually guard me because that would take away my independent agency". Even funnier, it results in a guy impotently seething by the sidelines while she flaunts her flirting in the open. Then she gets to guilt him and mock him further for "pouting" and having a lack of trust in her. It's baffling how many times I see this happening, and the girls just get a kick out of menac…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 10:56 PM
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They've gotten better about making content over time, from the initial phase it really just looked like reworded TRP, pick up artist stuff. Like all they did was get a 'find &replace' macro to change the pronouns. Hearing things like "Men only gauge attraction by what they think their fellow men find attractive" is baffling, until you realize they aren't the creative types outside of nest building and status strutting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 07:48 PM
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It's really fun to watch these broads talk about leaving their porno past behind, starting out with a clean slate, and taking out anyone who reminds them of their past......while they still advertise, guest star, and host media using their fake porn actress name. Mia Khalifa did the same thing. Made a big show about being so hurt and victimized by the industry, like she was forced into it at gunpoint, only to keep using her stage name and make an onlyfans. It's just embarrassment because people …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 11:48 PM
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Nice guys propagate because the average person is self-centered. Men assume that women are just like them. Guys want a nice, sweet, laid back, accommodating, loving, doting woman. They mistakenly assume that by being the kind of woman they're looking for, women will like them. The same phenomenon is why washed up hags lie baffled when they get zero interest despite having a "good career", advanced degrees, and bountiful monetary assets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 02:01 AM
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If you still respect "education" you haven't become acquainted with post 2010 collegiate coursework. It's much closer to a badge of political rightthink and conformity than actual critical thought. Feebs are awful in part because they feel lacking in comparison to street cops. They have this attitude of "I'm even MORE badass than a street cop, I got after the REAL dangerous criminals! They gave me a gun and everything!" They've got this nasty idea that they are above any ethical or legal conside…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 01:53 AM
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This is clip-worthy. My big irritation is the knee-jerk, immediate edge case to every statement. "Dating single mothers is signing yourself up for slavery" "YEAH BUT WHAT ABOUT WIDOWS!?!??!?!" "Guys of quality don't want streetwalkin', high mileage, 'experienced' types for real marriage" "OH SO MY COLLEGE ROOMMATE WHO STARRED IN AMATEUR GANGBANG POV PUBLIC TOILET VIDS ISN'T MARRIED TO A MILLIONAIRE?!?" "When the sun is in the sky in the daytime, there's light outside." "YEAH BUT WHAT ABOUT AN EC…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 07:23 PM
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I'd have a harder time naming a profession I don't hate. I think I find teachers and self-congratulatory, "heroic" nurses more loathsome than cops. Actually, I hate feds more. Cops can power trip, but they have nothing even close to the irritation you feel when listening to an obese FBI dweeb brag about "being the only thing between you an another 9/11". They've got the body of an aged accountant, the ego of a nurse, the self-assured moral arrogance of a teacher, and nearly unchecked power.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 07:12 PM
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I knew an old couple that kept their finances so separate that they'd try to keep track of how much scotch tape each one used so they wouldn't go without having to pay for it out of their own pocket. Oh, you need a set of AAA batteries? Well, you'll have to go to the store, or buy these ones from your wife if you don't wanna make the trip. While insane, it's fun to think of that equivalent to the sexual dynamic, wherein a wife finds out, after years of marriage and unity, that her husband actual…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 06:34 PM
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It's a tribute to their complete, total inability to remove themselves from their own self centered existence even in thought. Anyone who thinks hypothetically about the golden rule should intuitively 'get' the idea that slaving away, sacrificing, and struggling all to in the service of someone else's bloodline is foul to a living creature. They can't even not think about themselves for a second, though. To them, they know their kids are theirs in blood, they forged them within their bodies, of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 01:24 AM
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NO!!!! We keep shooting ourselves in the foot trying to solve other people's problems. It's like telling scam artists and conmen the glaring flaws in their grifting technique. Sure, it's off putting to see such flagrant foolishness at work, but their lack of self awareness plays into our interests. It's like when guys break up after finding out about their new GF's "hoeFax". All it does is teach her to stay mum and lie better the next time she dates a 'good guy'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 01:15 AM
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It's like a booster shot to keep your thot immunity working. I like it for being a repository of thottery, so when an old guy at work tells me I'm being too picky, and "the majority of girls out there really want a husband to settle down with! Good girls aren't rare at all!" I can bust out some examples of the average spousal quality on the open market.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 01:12 AM
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Often (IME) it means she wants to be able to "explore her sexuality" with your sanction. You get all the monetary stresses and demands to treat her like a wife, but she gets to live like an amateur sex hobbyist practicing for the pro circuit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 01:03 AM
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Remember seeing old people's browsers showing 3/5 of the web page, because they had a stack 8 deep of spamware toolbars installed?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 01:02 AM
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You get annual, begrudging sex for thirty minutes, a 400% cost increase in insurance, housing, etc. You also get the treat of a demanding brood mother hungry to rise above her station by prodding you into buying more glitzy shit to brag about. Best of all? You get teen boys who live off your wages, who refuse to listen to your authority, leave you to clean up their messes and controversies, and say things like "fuck you kevin! You're just the guy banging my mom, you ain't my real dad!" when you …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 01:01 AM
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If there was one thing I could get them to understand, it's that andy quote: "I wish there was a way to know you're in the good old days before you've actually left them". So many of the divorces/breakups/life altering choices the "unhappy" women in my life have only made their lives at most mediocre in comparison to what they had starting out. I'm convinced there's a widespread modern problem where no one can appreciate what they have without putting in deliberate, conscious effort at recognizi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 12:55 AM
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Yeah, when you look at the stats, even five puts you into scary territory. If you were to plan out your life like an investor, and looked at those "sexual partner count/divorce outcomes" charts you'd bail and order one of those heinously busty dolls everyone falls for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 12:26 AM
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Hitting kids should be seen as the nuclear option. Only appropriate in sparse and infrequent application, when other measures fail to correct behavior. I think every kid should receive a couple good spanks (or the colloquial southern "ass whoopin'") just to learn the continuum of force. We have way, way too many people who think they're entitled to goad, taunt, and mock others because they trust that no one wants to break the rules and lay their hands on somebody. Sadly, we can't count on everyo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 12:12 AM
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That's what dads specialize in. Traditionally, dad is the family prosecutor, and mom the intercessor/advocate for the children. She moderates his punishments (at least from the kids' point of view, even if she agrees fully with what he's bringing down on them) and he provides the much needed, steely muscle to back up the threat of punishment. "You'd better cut that out or your dad's not gonna like it when he gets home!" used to be the go-to threat for kids. In fact, I think a HUGE portion of our…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 12:10 AM
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Well, grandpa always said "be grateful you live in a world where no one gets what they deserve. You're not as good as you think you are." I'm surprised at how many little things like that have stuck with me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 08:38 PM
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I hope you have some game plans for future you when it comes time to gloat. My mom used to get passive snark from her strong, independent friends for years and these days they nearly melt down from the slightest thing. One friend spent almost three decades in the slowest march to a PhD you've ever seen, and has thrown herself behind every "equality" movement as a surrogate for her own would-be children, only to be left a bitter (relatively wealthy) divorcee (ironically, victimized by the very "m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 08:36 PM
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that's alive and well in nippon, at least. They're always surprised when the westerners use it. They do get a kick out of us using slang.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 08:25 PM
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But they don't prepare for the future, and from what I see hardly any set aside retirement. (Lots of the boys don't either, but TBH most of the ones I know like that are jokingly expecting being killed by 'the man' or going out in a high speed plane/motorcycle accident. Men in general now, bereft of belief systems, family, and community, have little attachment to life beyond a begrudging "eh, there's fun stuff here and there I guess." That's a whole different thing though) Women expect a standar…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 08:23 PM
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They love that ridiculous, legalistic fiction thinking where the only goal is to bend words and definitions to lie about total body counts. I've seen boys do the opposite, saying they "hooked up" with five whole women when they only had two long term GF's, and made out with three girls. But hey, it counts! The womenfolk now use stuff like: Not dating long term=Doesn't count. Oral= Doesn't count. Anal= Doesn't count. Handjobs= Of course it doesn't count! One night stands=Doesn't count either. Int…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 07:25 PM
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Well, with chemical enhancement lots of guys in their 50's/60's are rarin' to have a go, and their age band is usually 30's to 40's. It's a win/win!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 07:20 PM
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Then you're gonna love the political end state that results from her daughter and her increasing their power at your expense, to the point your demonization is complete. Ha....I just can't wait to pay my bachelor taxes "to pull our fair weight" because men benefit so much from our patriarchal society, we owe it more of our labor, gratis, to even out the fairness for girls like her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 07:19 PM
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As long as her acceptable suitor remains hypothetical, she can tell herself she'd get whatever ridiculous standards she wants. She can pretend she's got a CEO of a wealthy astronaut company out there pining over her, and until she opens up to dating she won't be faced with the reality of how impossible that would really be. She's dating schrodinger's boyfriend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 07:17 PM
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"Well, no matter what happens, at least I have tommy on the shelf, should I ever need to settle. You guys are wrong, he's totally into me, he has to be! Here, I'll prove it!!!" ......."holy fuck."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 05:16 PM
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Remind your "gamer" friends that they lose all rights to bitch about their circumstances if they buy these shitboxes. "Oh wow, I hate what they did to the franchise" "Well, didn't you buy the $450 collector edition on opening night?" "Well, I thought they'd do a better job!"
/r/MGTOW14/06/21 11:21 PM
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Should've told her the wrong name. That's what we always did. Imagine her going up to Gordon Ramsey and saying "OMG Guy Fire-y, you're my favorite chef!!!!! Can I take a picture with you!??!?"
/r/MGTOW14/06/21 11:19 PM
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I've started to think that standards only really exist in theory for the majority of people now. Maybe in the past they'd feel some debt to their own souls to live by their supposed ideology/religion/creed, but without an overarching moral system it's all just ad-hoc self service. Maybe I'm just sick of hearing the neverending "oh wow, could you imagine if we said that kind of thing? You guys are the real __________!!!"
/r/MGTOW14/06/21 11:17 PM
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Guys really screw up by accepting labels or identities. The worst thing you can do is state/admit anything miggy in your life. It puts a tremendous target on your back and puts you one HR lady's search away from losing your job for "misogyny"! Much better to feign blue pill and say "I'm saving myself for marriage, I really wanna find the right girl", then gate it with impossible circumstances like "well, I need someone who saved her chastity for marriage too, it's my religion. Oh, that's impossi…
/r/MGTOW14/06/21 11:15 PM
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Yeah, that's kinda how people tend to think. If they feel happy with their station they'll want you to join in their circumstances. I'm sure getting to play with the hottest women in Uruk and run the country seems a lot more enjoyable on it's face than hanging out with deer every day. There are only so many conversations you can have about berries and grass before you want something new. Been a real long time since I read TEOG, but I though Enkidu was supposed to stop/reign in Gil, like it was i…
/r/MGTOW14/06/21 11:13 PM
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Worse, she'll couch all of it in terms like "I tried sooooo hard to love him and be a good wife, but....." and pretend she really gave it her absolute best, so her failure becomes unimpeachable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 12:31 AM
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USA demography is weird. If you go off of media depictions of the world, you'd expect the average american to have 50% or more of a social circle make up of black people. In actuality, it's much more sparse throughout the country, with most cities being 1-2% (off the top of my head) and the vast concentration in the south. Overall, they're less than ~15% nationwide. This results in many out of touch fools who watch tv and movies constantly talking about how hip/cool/fun/sexy/big dicked/fun/desir…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 09:59 PM
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Just for a moment, put yourself in that poor baby's position. This woman is your anchor to the world. She's the mom, the responsible adult. She's the human that teaches you everything you'll know about the world, the one who builds the foundation of your personality, education, and life. How would you feel if I snapped my fingers and you woke up in that uterus right now? Would you feel like you're condemned to a living prison sentence? Would it be unfair? Why wouldn't it be wonderful? Aren't wom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 09:36 PM
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Fake? I know we usually suspend our disbelief, but the ending insult is.... unrealistic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 09:32 PM
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They don't care about doing the thing, they only care about adding it to their branding. They love being able to easily acquire titles, certs, and stigmas with the least effort possible. Spending 40 minutes on a 0.6 mile walk up a dog trail, while taking 147 pictures, is perfect for them to add "hiker" and "outdoorsy" to their profiles. Even better, girls that are "hikers" or "rock climbers" tend to be in good shape and have some granola, low maintenance vibes. By calling herself a hiker, she fe…
/r/MGTOW12/06/21 09:30 PM
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Yeah, he needs to talk with one of these. They'll have this dream world where their new ex-hubby is happy to live in a cuck shed downtown while paying all his income to her, while he comes back to the house whenever she has a date with tinder bf #13, or her escape raft ceo/Dr boyfriend. Hubby's got no hard feelings at all, he even tells her "it's about time you focus on you in your life, you deserve to finally be happy!" They're always BTFO when it goes nothing like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 01:13 AM
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Keep in mind it means different things in different disciplines. Any Blue pill is generally accepted as a comforting lie, one that lets you remain content and oblivious, even if it's unhealthy or harmful to avoid reality. Redpills are the uncomfortable, socially unacceptable, difficult, inconvenient, and sometimes dangerous truths about a topic. Pretty much every facet of society, culture, education, labor, and history has some info that's been massaged or suppressed for the benefit of someone w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 01:02 AM
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The only things that can combat this "pussy inflation" or whatever the slang is.....uh, robots? It's a meme, but any alternative that removes guys from the dating pool seems to affect them at a deep level. Watch them react when a guy admits to just never dating, or marrying, if he's a somewhat successful, desireable guy. It's like an instinct. They don't necessarily want 99% of guys, but just the idea that their backup, "break glass in case of emergency" supply of men is removing themselves from…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 12:49 AM
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Yeah, the inflation is just insane. someday, the pussy bubble will pop, but it's a long way off. Whenever I hear someone say "yeah, she's a nine!" I know it's really more like 5-7 at most. Guys see so few women in healthy fettle, they don't know how to grade them. Girls that would've played "Ugly Betty" in 1971 are models now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 12:41 AM
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Yeah, prostitution may scare them off or activate their distaste, but it puts you firmly in the "creep" category in their heads, and it will paint any future interactions together. If it's just socially avoiding them, I find poormouthing yourself and playing poor unemployed loser works well. It's ever funnier if it's a blind setup where the leave thinking you're a zero, only to be told later that you've got a lot of gold worth diggin'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 12:38 AM
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I had a good career trajectory for a while, until I realized I was putting in a ton of effort at building a life that would be taken from me in a heartbeat. When every older mentor, teacher, instructor and friend I knew had experienced at LEAST one divorce, I stopped worrying about getting nothing but money. Now I just work whatever jobs are fun and relaxing, while my friends keep climbing the ladder. I'm happy for them, but worry about them being on the road all the time. My buddies laugh at me…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 08:51 PM
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Don't worry, friendo! Your birthrate replacements are already on the way! They're going to pick up right where you guys left off -aaaaaaaand their birthrate just dropped too. What the hell is going on here? Maybe I'll bring in some more and we'll be able to keep all those decrepit old people's 50+ year retirements! Gotta make sure their upper class trappings last for a few decades more. Darn it all! The newest bunch have an even lower birthrate than the originals! Are you telling me our economic…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 06:42 PM
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If pussy were a shitcoin, marriage is a fuckin' rugpull.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 06:36 PM
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He's getting a lot of love from YT and the algorithm because he falls into the "DERADICALIZER" tick box. Just like how watching a couple of his will pollute your feed with Jordan Peterson flotsam until the end of time. I don't dislike his sort, but it is indeed an audiobook version of these forums. Think of it as an advertisement for this place. It falls into some young guy's feed and he starts gravitating towards the truth. It's a lot easier to play some podcast audio in the background while wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 09:57 PM
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I never get enough of the "wanna guy who's jealous but lets me do whatever I want with anyone!". Like I have my dream car that I love and baby, but I also rent it out by the hour to be used burning out and doing donuts for 18 yo punks' rap singles every day. "Oh no sweat, I love buying new tires again, they're only $4500 for another set, as long as you guys had fun without me! At least I can say I'm a ferrari owner!!! Oh damn, he jumped a curb? That's going to be a LOT to replace the front bumpe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 09:53 PM
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Yet I'm sure she'll talk down to the guys who just "waste their lives playing video games and hanging out". It's mind boggling how common this increasingly is. Even when the writing's on the wall, these ladies will think they can get some guy to fall under her pussy thrall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 09:49 PM
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It's almost like everyone else is playing monopoly, except the gullible dummies who sit on the sidelines saying "I don't see game pieces, we all need to share".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 08:33 PM
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We'll probably never know, because there's too much money, ego, and political capital wrapped up in it on both sides. To insinuate anything wrong with it would ruin public confidence in a LOT of gov't apparatuses at once.. Maybe in 150 years someone can look at it with an objective eye. Luckily there's a liability immunity, so on the off chance you can prove something like alzheimers', or infertility, or thrombolytic disorders someday suddenly increased in frequency, we don't have to worry about…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 04:22 AM
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Hmmm.....nipple diameter limitations? Check the terms of service.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 04:18 AM
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I say do voluntary tube ties/vasectomies for a one-time cash payment of a couple grand. Anyone willing to get sterilized to buy a computer probably wouldn't be great as a parent anyway, and it saves them a lot of time and money. Win/win!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 04:11 AM
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It's an interesting tack to take on the "incel" name, when you bring up the fact that all too often their favorite underdog/pet cause/demographic is actually overrepresented in that insult. Maybe it's just my experience, but my shorter, darker friends aren't phenomenally popular with the girls in school, no matter how many cute supportive acronyms are in the tinder bios.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 04:07 AM
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From now on, the only way to call something a race or not is to see if there's a pointless, grifting NGO taking money in their name. I'm sure everyone but "americans" have some website where I can dump money into for.....well they never say what happens to the money, but I'm sure it's for a good cause!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 03:53 AM
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It's funny how all the worst ones on this sub are only kilometres away!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 03:15 AM
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Once you see the breakdown in consumer spending everything starts to fall into place. IIRC females account for 80% of the money spent in consumer economies. That means whatever catches their eye, gets their attention, or gains their favor becomes the main seller. At least it started that way. There was an interesting comment about runaway algorithms I saw once. In effect, we made the computers analyze what was successful. Like clickbait. They saw what words play best and get the most clicks, so …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 03:05 AM
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Yeah, it said something to the effect of "Moid suicide is just a scrote's final, desperate attempt to lash out against women" and my fave, "when a scrote is depressed, it's because he can't use women's bodies to get off". Now, I haven't gone digging for the origin, for all I know it's from the parody sub making fun of our favorite spinster circle. The fact that the parody is no longer distinguishable from reality from them is good enough to mention though. The post name was "Male suicide is miso…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 09:44 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if all this worldwide immigration could work in the bigger countries' favor too. Everyone keeps talking about people coming TO the USA, but those buses, plains, and boats have to make a return trip, too. maybe Syria, Somalia, Ethiopa, etc. will have a fun bolus of diversity coming their way. After all, who better to work in the chinese lithium slave mines than american bastidge children?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 09:04 PM
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For real, no one ever talks about the immense bond that guys will feel to their kids and the mother of our children. They paint 'em all with this playboy cocksman brush, ignoring the (I'd say majority) of men who literally live and die for their families. Like, we talk about being fit and pretty, but that's for the dating part. That's where you start from. If she gains a little weight and stretch marks and all in the process of building me our children, that's perfectly fine. (that being said, h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 09:04 PM
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Yet when pressed as to the why or how, you get a thoroughly unconsidered choice. It's never thought out or planned, it's just instinctive action with a patchwork of "I feel" or "well it just happened!" statements. If I had to guess, when asked "why would you willingly throw away your stable, comfortable, healthy life in favor of temporary, unfulfilling lust?" you'd hear "Ugh, you don't understand! He was, like- just, he.....argh! I don't know how to put it into words, but it wasn't like that! He…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 08:58 PM
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Okay, okay. So it was a gamble, and she lost. But think about how cool it would've been if she made it! She could've entranced the super stud and had a huge improvement! Who wants the boring, proto-career student when you could have the already established doctor? You're skipping all that boring, poor living with the husband! Cut it out and get to the fun part!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 08:55 PM
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Now they're just as indoctrinated, though. I had a dad tell me to "just have fun" and "not be so serious about dating, it's just to enjoy each other's company" when I was up front about dating his daughter to gauge marital compatibility. It's not like those two goals are mutually exclusive, anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 08:54 PM
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I hear a lot of young'uns talk about getting revenge on their (I really hope deserving of it) terrible monster parents by putting them in the cheapest, most energetic retirement home they can find. Think the ones that have consistent 1 star reviews and recommendations for a nanny cam. I can't imagine how bad someone would have to treat me, for me to be able to inflict that existence on someone, but I won't judge their style of revenge.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 08:52 PM
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I wish there was a sub for stuff like this. I've said it before, but my fetish is "consequences". There's so few chances to see people get immediate commeuppance. Ah, drive over the curb by the offramp to bypass all the people in traffic? Convenient cop! Break up with your "loser" boyfriend because he spends too much time trading made-up internet money? Oh shit, that bit corn thing on the news was his hobby?!?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 08:47 PM
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Damaged people are profitable. They spend more, and their lack of foresight is easy to exploit. Gotta pump up them GDP numbers!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 04:57 PM
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That old quote from a few years ago, applies to any unwanted realization you find on the internet, away from the casuistry and political gamesmanship of day to day life. . "The terrible truth is that it's as liberating as it is horrific. You lie to yourself less, but you begin refusing to accept the lies from others, even well meaning ones. ...In the truth you'll be sickened at the world, yet constantly drawn to seeking this same truth. Instead of locking out reality in your hugbox like a prog, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 04:37 AM
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It's kinda weird to see people now truly, totally "live with no regrets". They do plenty of stuff worth regretting, but instead of living better, they just don't let themselves get sober enough to feel regret to begin with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 04:20 AM
3

It'd actually be cool to have an informational 'seed bank' like that. Isn't that a book about monks in the post apocalyptic america?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 04:16 AM
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They cannot fathom how it makes a normal guy feel. When you try to explain that the mere possibility of forced sexual activity happening to someone you care about/like/know is a gnawing pit in your stomach, that your protective instincts activate and your body preps for combat. Nope, they just think you get horny and wanna high five the rapist. Evolution has built in some pretty robust safeguarding instincts to keep the non-combat members of our tribes safe and happy. It's why so many have such …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 12:37 AM
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The first time I got that request, I honestly thought she was trying to set me up with blackmail material.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 12:32 AM
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I think the worst though, is the hero complex they have. Even administrative pencil pushers act like they're building society from the ground up. Everything their students do in life is all because of them. "oh that kid who cured cancer was in my 2nd grade class, he probably did that because I inspired him!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 03:07 AM
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And that's the only vice we can't mock. When you see a toothless meth head, no one's there to say "hey, he's living his best life, his body doesn't conform to your ridiculous standards of health, but that's because society indoctrinates you to think people should retain the majority of their teeth!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 02:30 AM
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just The only tangible downside I hear often is that the guy won't shut up about it, and he's constantly horny just for the one aspect of the relationship. It's like he just bought a new sex doll, and he's only interested in doing all the stuff in reality that he's been fantasizing about in his head. Most of the time it's a cope, though. Maybe it's the fact that they intuitively understand that they're not all that attractive, and it's hard to respect a guy who fellates their looks as if they're…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 02:29 AM
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have The best one I've seen lately is about how misogynistic male suicide is. Obviously, it impacts women the most, because they'll have to clean up the emotional labor of his death. Also, did you know guys kill themselves because they don't have access to female bodies? Nifty!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 02:26 AM
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I had an ex that went out of her way to spite me when choosing her next car by going against every bit of advice I gave her. She was mad I helped a previous ex test drive and select a car. The other girl picked out a sexy, Celica GTS suitable for a hot girl, six speed no less. What did my then current GF get? A daewoo. With a salvage title. And a rusted rear quarter. That was a year old. For $1400 over blue book value...for a good condition car. It was truly astounding, thinking that she even ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 02:23 AM
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oh, what's my fetish? consequences.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 11:57 PM
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Well keep in mind you see it a lot because: Women LOVE their convenient, selfish moralities of convenience. If they even have a moral compass, it never points to true north, just to themselves. They'll always propagate whatever truism enables the greatest pleasure for their team as a whole. The majority (at least last I heard) of twitter users are female. Social media is their thing, it tickles their brains in ways guys can't even feel. Anything catering to them will catch on much faster, and mu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 11:56 PM
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I hear this attitude a lot. If you ask what they bring to the table, they're thrown off and dig for the most obvious, non-benefits they can think of. "Uh....I'm great at conversation, I'm supportive....(they never specify how, no matter how often they say it. I rarely see fully supportive gf though, b/c ventures that would require their support are risky and they can't suppress their anger instincts when a guy threatens her free ride. Even if she'll end up with more to show for it later.) "and I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 03:59 AM
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Be careful where you say that.... I'm starting to think it's going to be added to some data bank of "far right hate speech" at the reaction it gets. Maybe we can figure out a way to turn it into a nuclear furnace from all the communal seething it creates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 08:33 PM
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I had a female pseudo friend for a while who would ask guys in her dating pool "what are the duties and responsibilities you would have as a husband?" to see how well they had thought out married life. She actually upheld her end of the bargain, but she was definitely the captain of that ship. Pretty good cook though, and from all indications she's a very committed mother these days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 08:05 PM
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Please, I've been hearing "I'm totally not a feminist!" for years, and you know what? They don't need to see themselves as a member of the team to espouse their beliefs. Even the most trad-presenting churchy gals have the same beliefs their liberal arts counterparts do. "Well, I want to be equal partners in a marriage, Submission sounds really gross, like I'm supposed to be a slave. Ew." Nevermind the fact that a husband is the closest legal position to true slavery we have today. Being a femini…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 08:03 PM
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They really don't know what tradition even is anymore. They haven't had anyone in their family show them what it is, so they have this falsified version invented based on nothing more than old 60's barbecue commercials and period media about how terrible the olden days really were. Elements of my "old fashioned beliefs" that have caused friction in my relationships in the past: - It's not appropriate for either of us to have opposite-gendered "friends" outside of couples' activities. No long tex…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 06:06 PM
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It doesn't make sense for sure, but the branding seems stronger. I heard it in the wild for the first time recently, so somewhere, something's catching on. I wouldn't be surprised if it ends up catching on more just on the ease of use, other turns of phrase have seen that before. Kinda like "I could care less" becoming the accepted variant today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 05:08 PM
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Did you do "SpinCel"? I dunno where it popped out of.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 07:41 PM
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I get that...just make sure you don't park your ship too close to the vortex while sightseeing!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 07:37 PM
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There is a bit of an undercurrent of dissatisfaction with them at least. I was at a social function and one of the coworkers' husbands was a judge (I assume family court) and it was an awkward moment when he introduced himself as "I'm judge puffnstuff" and there was an audible scoff from the table over. I was a punk kid at the time so it seemed way too harsh, but the post-divorce guys in there took him to task for breaking up families while sitting on his fat ass in comfort. The drinks were free…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 10:19 PM
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It's absolutely disgusting to hear the things I have from even "good traditional" girls about it. The mentality that they're this albatross about the neck of a life, relationship, or career is lunacy. I had a date once go on a long, very academic rant about how guys who want kids are only looking to make a clone of themselves as a form of narcissistic worship, making a temple of followers they can abuse and manipulate how they want because they're the big man of the house. She got real mad when …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:33 AM
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I had to explain to a girl that a boy from a single mom wouldn't have a man to learn from until he's half grown. Unless grandpa is in the home, he's waiting. Taught by a woman in preschool, another one in elementary, most likely he'll get to grade 8-12 before he has a male teacher. Maybe he'll get into sports or something, but there's only so much makeshift parenting he can get in game-length increments. She said that was "healthier" than having a dad around all the time "to do nothing but cause…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:15 AM
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Isn't it so much more fun with the kids, too? I just don't get how people think having nothing, just enjoying everything good all alone is better. Seeing all your favorite stuff through your child's eyes is amazing. Plus you can do all kinds of cool super indulgent hobby nonsense with your kids and it counts as quality parenting. Hell, you can tune a car and go street racing with your teenagers, turns out you're dad of the year! ("And BTW sweetie, we need a bigger turbo, it gets here friday. ")
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 09:35 PM
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"We need to raise the age of consent for women to 25-no, 30! if a man older than five years is courting them. Uh, that doesn't apply if she courts them, though. Here's a buzzfeed article pushing for it! See! Men need to grow up and date mature women their age! The only reason you wouldn't wanna date and marry a 35 yo woman is fear, or impotence, or having a tiny shrimp weiner!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 09:33 PM
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This sub is pretty much the only draw for me here.... I only wanted a burner originally but everything cool got pozzed or booted off. Dealing with this site for work-related subs sucks. I don't even think the majority here are human, reddit wide. With no captcha's in the way to post, it's probably seeded by an astounding level of bots. All these other shaming subs never really get to anyone I know, usually because we don't see stuff that seems to reflect us. I've never read a niceguy post or FDS…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 09:22 PM
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It's not so much the chubbiness that guys have issue with, it's the lie. Food can be an addiction as debilitating as any other, but for some reason it's untouchable in polite society. If a friend shows up to work pissing his pants, nearly unconscious, smelling like a zoo pen because he's been drinking for 72 hours straight, no one would force me to sit elbow to elbow with him because it wouldn't be polite to say anything about it. Imagine if we did this with stuff like toothless meth addicts: "A…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 08:53 PM
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That's a good way of saying that. Over time I shifted from "oh, I want an equal, competent partner in a relationship. It's a hassle carrying the burden of command 100% of the time!" to "I would rather have an utterly submissive, accommodating consort after all. I know that sounds awful, I still prefer it." Equal seems to mean combative, and for the guys, subservient. My equal decisions are always stupid shit like restaurant choices, or pointless furniture selections. Stuff like trip destinations…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 08:47 PM
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Or add a "friend" to their health insurance through a lengthy, convoluted, and neverending false relationship because "come on she really needs it" and "do the right thing for once in your life".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 09:31 PM
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Or, depending on the guy, they may have thought "I'm so tired of just banging.... is it so hard to find an actual wife to be a companion? Hey, this girl is average, maybe she'll be appreciative and I won't be putting up with a spoiled princess, since she won't have the ego a hotter- oh shid oh fugg she's just as bad as the rest of them eject eject eject"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 08:22 PM
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I kinda get that too. If she hasn't been in the dating market from ~2014 onwards it can be a very different experience. Everyone learned that it's not for friendships or solid relationships, just squishin'. If you missed out on class, then you have to go to summer school to catch up or keep banging your head against the wall like her. Sadly, there aren't many dependable routes to just trot out and find a husband these days. Guys are getting wise and leaving the poker table in most instances, and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 12:10 AM
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Ours had to explicitly state that oral, anal, and digital sex aren't loopholes, and no one in the room was smart enough to out think God. A bunch of the parents complained that if it weren't for him mentioning it, their teenagers never would've known such things were humanely possible. Guess public school was different in their day, 'cause we learned about that crap in 4th grade.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 01:11 AM
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Well, he gets nothing, but his wife gets status and good girl points to make her seem more righteous in comparison to the rest of them. Plus she gets to rub in the fact that she have a servant to order around for free.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 01:07 AM
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There's a greentext out there that compares it to flowers for algernon, quoted for posterity: "This is the level of redpill that comes after. You pity them. In a way, men have it easier. Even betas. We start our adult lives with nothing. In order to be successful with the opposite sex, we have to learn, practice and fail socially. We cultivate skills and resources that will make us desirable. Eventually, we might get the hang of it. Even if we don't become 10/10 chads, most of us still mature ou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 01:01 AM
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It always brings that line from scrubs into mind: "Hey you want some homemade brownies?" "No thanks, I've already had diarrhea." It doesn't fit but the sentiments is there to me.
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 12:29 AM
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Only dogs like bones!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 12:07 AM
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lol @ semiauto uterus. We need common sense cum control! Marrying these girls is like coming over at 4 in the morning after a raging party you weren't invited to just to clean up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 12:07 AM
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There's something deeply, truly revolting in that to me. Just playing around with the power to create someone, an entire person and people treat it like a couple punk kids who found a gun in the woods. I wonder if people would treat sex differently if, instead of a baby from scratch, it randomly kidnapped someone to reincarnate as the baby. Like, if I lived in fear of being pulled into some single mother's nightmare life, would I act differently in my dating activities? It just seems really blea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 11:54 PM
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It's weird to think that all those reasons not to get knocked up have little to no disincentive for so many of them. But the thing that did work was shame. Knowing she'd be the talk of the town, target of everyone's catty shit talking actually scared them away from single motherhood. Now that they're held up as de facto heroes, strong, powerful victims making the best of a terrible injustice, selflessly raising the next generation of football players, scientists, computer inventors, and social k…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 11:49 PM
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It's an actual fear of mine, having seen guys that talk about all the things they'll never, ever do in life only to lose their mind and do them anyway. I've seen some, shit. Nature plays some tricks on guys, too, if we're not careful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 11:43 PM
2

The best is when they burn out the batteries somewhere out of the way and abandon them. Then no one wants to hump it back to the chargers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 04:22 AM
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It's been explained to me that when he starts playing guitar (and singing, if he can) in front of other girls, she feels smug at being the one to have nailed this fella down, while the other girls just have to want him from afar. Supposedly, they all only really want the musician because other girls want the musician, which is quite a bit like if dogecoin were a talent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 04:06 AM
10

For real, you can get a fleshlight thing for the princely sum of sixteen dollars, and that little motherfucker will outperform 80% of pussy on the market.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 04:04 AM
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"Well we hooked up once, I bet I wormed my way into his head and now he daydreams about finding me again and getting married in a big ceremony with a bunch of kids after he sells his movie star astronaut practice. He just hasn't texted because his phone got stolen, he totally wants me still. There are guys who like heavier girls, right? it's common, it has to be! When I see him again he'll probably be excited to see I'm even curvier than before!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 04:03 AM
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I don't like saying there are 10's any more than a handful of times in the world. A 10 is peak human condition, a measure of beauty I could pluck from any era of humanity and make all men, regardless of time or place, buckle their knees. It's a physiological level of gorgeous that all guys innately understand and respect, to the point where she's infamous all around. I've seen only two girls I'd say are anywhere close to 10. Both blonde, blue eyed, perfectly fair, elfin beauties with perfectly f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 04:01 AM
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One of the greatest slanders for the post 1990 generation is the thought that unlike what they've been hearing all their lives, they're not unique nor special. They're all the protagonist of the movie, in their minds, just the thought that they'd be a supporting foil is bad enough......can you imagine how they react to finding out they're "cashier #1"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 03:48 AM
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Well all you have to do is start brainwashing yourself that it's gorgeous, and any negative feelings within are just societal expectations trying to enslave you in service to big pharma/big diet/big vegetable inc. Then, waddle around telling everyone you're beautiful to the point it seems like you're daring someone-anyone! to lsay the truth out loud, but no one wants to endanger their job so they all stand idly by while you keep packing on more weight, which is totally natural! The body seeks it…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 06:46 PM
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Even then, just a hypothetical obese 4'3" dude would somewhat be settling given her attitude here. I can't imagine she brings much to the table other than massive dead weight....so even if the guy is ugly, he's still obligated to provide for her. Though if she got to that size, she either has gov't income or a job, so maybe she at least has some income to defray her costs. Who knows, maybe with her weight the coronary will bless him with her absence by 55, and he can get himself sommuh dat insur…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 06:21 PM
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I once had a GF who I dumped after she insisted on "just giving a ride" to the frat boy in her math class when he called her piss drunk at 12 am. She absolutely refused to acknowledge the fact that it was a booty call, saying it was a chance to "be a good friend" and pick him and his three buds up. We were literally cuddling on the couch, falling asleep, when the call came through and she parsed the message in between drunken shouts and laughter. She had only known them a week or two, but they m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 04:29 AM
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I got a pack and attached them to my keys, so when I'm put into a situation for work where I'm stuck in close proximity to a woman 1v1, It hopefully makes it seem less like I'm hitting on her. So far it's worked pretty well, but who knows in the future. I just want to defray any of that "oh he's nice to me, so he must definitely be obsessively in love with me!" nonsense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:46 PM
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You're right about mitigating risk, the only thing missing is to make sure you're not jumping into a rebound situation. Most of the accusations from hookups I've seen at school came from girls who stormed out and decided they were going to break up, only to, after railing some fella for a night, come back to the BF the next day. That's where the danger for hookup accusations comes from, a spineless lady who knows her bf won't keep her around if he figures out her complicity in her hookup. It's m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:40 PM
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As the guys below attest, women don't think like guys. Men often like the idea of a down on her luck, fixer upper that they rehabilitate and bring back to life. We like the idea of a diamond in the rough, only needing a bit of cut and polish to bring out some stunning, hidden luster. Women don't want that, they want the finished product.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:32 PM
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That's pretty cool. I have no love for cheaters, but at least they're taking the family thing seriously.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:30 PM
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Not all, but some. Think of it like a MMO item that gives you +60% charm towards skanks, but -50% charm towards prudes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:28 PM
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What world do you hail from, time traveler? Anything past 1970 or so and you don't have to worry about such things as equal application of the law. sure, we say everyone's equal, but no one can believe there's even a tiny chance that any of this is applied against the gynocratic nobility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:27 PM
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"yamma hamma it's fright night!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8v7UCPMc4A
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:22 PM
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Years of constantly changing birth control methods, illicity party drugs, alcohol, and funky pre-bridesmaid panic diets almost guarantee whatever does get fertilized with either be a facehugger or chestburster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:20 PM
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And it helps their "successful career man" cosplay they're always putting together. They think being the older professional banging the young student like a screen door in a trailer park is living the careerist, feminist dream!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:19 PM
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It's actually not that tough, even to add a google voice number or burner card. But that shows how low the bar is for "impossible" with these singlets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:17 PM
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They tend to have this gut feeling that any gains from their friend somehow come at their expense. That whatever new blessing that falls upon their friend was somehow karmically taken from their possession by some cosmic force. Oh no, maddie's dating a doctor? Why can't I find a doctor? I'm hotter than her, why am I dating a boring photographer?! That doctor should be sucking up to ME! Other interesting porqueria is stuff like when you buy your wife a nice new car. Her friends will go a week or …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 10:07 PM
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And too many are so desperate to find it, they constantly brainwash themselves into thinking they found it. "Whoa! I just found a chunk of Astatine at this bar last night!" "You sure, that's really improbable, it's probably pig iron" "No dude, it's got this dark metallic lustre, and it's pretty heavy, it has to be it! I've been dreaming about this day forever! I'm already daydreaming about our perfect life together, sitting on the porch swing on a lazy sunday afternoon, chunk of Astatine in hand…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 09:47 PM
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Guys don't worry about themselves enough, and they tend to blow off warnings if the only one to suffer a loss is them. Something no one really considers is their loyalty to their future kids. My dad always talked about his selection process for his wife because he wanted to give me the highest caliber mother he could find. He taught me that you have a duty to plan for your kid, and everyone by now should have seen the damage a crap mom can do to a fella. "Sorry bud, I know your body is always wr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 09:06 PM
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No idea how lucky. Knew a poor bastard who wanted to get free of his slavemaster/wife, after finally getting the courage to shut it down. (He was the backup option, she had been an online "model" and everyone knew she would offer sex for photoshoots if the guys were hot) He caved when she pulled the bedroom lure, and sure enough, he just happens to be the "father" of a very labor intensive child with special needs. AFAIK he never got paternity tested, being so excited at the prospect of things b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 08:21 PM
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It can work, but there're a lot of variables in it. In a good state you could mitigate the majority of damage that way, at least. Now, somewhere like Ca or california..... I'm gonna guess their very progressive judges will make sure that poor abuse victim doesn't come away empty handed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 08:05 PM
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I think the endless remarriage cycle is mostly contained to the boomer and early X generations. There was that internalized idea that guys would just feel like a loser if they didn't have someone attached to them, no matter how many times they get fleeced. I've known older guys that have gone from marriage #3 when I first met them, and now they're on #5 because they just keep thinking it's a matter of picking a "good one". They're impossible to reason with, though. To ask them to enjoy singledom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 07:57 PM
1

Cool to guys and to young women are totally different worlds. Guys think it's cool to drive around in a "boring" but minty fresh, factory-new Toyota Corolla from 1987. Hell, a 2001 Civic SI is going north of ~$35,000 these days. For status-hungry hypergamists, it's all about obvious opulence. I've heard upper middle class girls talk about how "embarrassing" their parents' cars are, even when they're BMW X series, or Ford Edge's, because in their minds, only premium brands like Jaguar, Rover, Roy…
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 06:14 PM
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My internal furnace is powered by limitless, nuclear-fusion levels of irritation just by dropping by church once a week to hear the old boomer men present whatever washed up driftwood is looking for a bailout with a totally straight face. "You see, R'Jessica here is just a wonderful, beautiful soul, she's had a hard time finding a faithful man for the last ten years, she's been doing everything perfect but she just doesn't see any man that measures up! You know she's only had two boyfriends and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 06:09 PM
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It's really wild seeing that whole "this man is for serious dating, so I hold him to 1930's levels of dating propriety" and "these tinder dudes are for pornographic, bacchanalian sex with no strings attached" idea take hold in American culture. I keep hearing it being put forward as totally normal and ideal, which either means the Inspin Dating Strategies cabal is reaching a wide audience, or the tiktok generation is finding it a convenient way to sate their urges while providing a veneer of res…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 05:57 PM
6

You'll love it. My coworker went to get a Laguna Seca after planning for it for a month or two. when he found one online to head out a state away to pick it up, his wife put it down under the auspices of "it's not fair you get a new fun car, my car is three years old, you should upgrade from this loser subaru to a brand I'm not so embarrassed of. Our daughter doesn't let me pick her up from school because we look like lower class trash!" So after selling his previous mustang to make the swap, he…
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 02:30 AM
2

You don't even need to have them on. Just have some earbuds in all throughout the day, it's like a forcefield that keeps people from talking to you so much. If you have noise-cancellers, you may even get to the point where people have to petition you for conversation by getting in your eyeline and motioning to take them off!
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 02:25 AM
20

The looks aren't even the biggest turnoff, Guys are pretty good about accepting less than perfect, hell, honestly: Guys will even accept downright unattractive women in a relationship if they feel they get a good enough person out of the deal. It's hard to describe the heart, or soul, or whatever you want to call it, but I feel it's a distinction worth making. When we talk about these problems, it's too easy to write off the heart as being nothing more than a chemical, natural imbalance to be fi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/21 07:15 PM
8

His best quote: "Ask a woman what she wants, and she'll fill a book, ask her what she offers, and she can't even fill a postage stamp."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/21 06:58 PM
5

I feel like I should care about height, having seen so many bro's suffer through life at 5'3 or worst of all, 4'6. It's the worst when their dad is 6+, but just laughs it off with "Oh, well, I like 'em petite! It's okay, women don't care about that superficial stuff forever, when you're older they'll come around!" I just feel like I have some duty to give them the best circumstances possible, since I'm inviting them into this nascent nightmare reality we have brewing. If the dating market is THI…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/21 06:57 PM
8

They don't seem to understand that when it comes to marriage, they're more like a job seeking applicant than the employer. They still have the mentality that they'll just open their hiring spreadsheet, sort by wealthiest, and send them an acceptance email and coast on to retirement in opulence. It's like a fry cook at wendy's thinking he can waddle in to NASA and say "Alright, I'm free starting next monday, where is astronaut training school? Oh? No, about 17 years ago you sent me an internship …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/21 06:53 PM
2

A quick image search netted: >https://ifunny.co/meme/arguing-with-holes-women-are-bodily-weak-and-mentairy-interior-UYTpOxtF5?s=cl It's got MAJOR INCEL vIBES for sure, Yikes YiKes, Chief, this is just a No no. It's what I see circulate among the kiddos though, oddly enough. Weird to see the junior high dudes figuring out this stuff, most of us took years. My fave though is: https://i.4cdn.org/pol/1621351708011.png
/r/MGTOW19/05/21 12:54 AM
9

My mom told me after about the tenth GF I brought home "well, I guess I'm just a different breed of woman. I wouldn't be caught dead saying the things these gals tell me with a straight face, and they think they're in the right!" Women are more in tune with their tribe/community/society than men, they're more swayed by the kind of group they're put into. It's a blessing and a curse, much like the men have their own demons by nature's determination. If they fall in with good friends? well, they'l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/21 10:40 PM
4

I'm real tired of having to explain to women that weight 80+ pounds more than me that their retiree's physique doesn't just fade into the background when a man sees her weekly nail and eyebrow update. They seriously just love to spend money over losing weight. I guess the guy equivalent is when a guy tries to create a jawline by carefully sculpting his facial hair, like the multi-chin waddle suddenly appears chiseled and hard because of a hairline.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/21 10:21 PM
1

Well it's usually a rebuttal consisting of "oh sure basement incel/virgin/loser/neckbeard, Who gives a fuck what a fat/poor/unloveable/bitter loser like you thinks, no one ever wants to fuck you". It's that meme image about "arguing with holes" every time. Any time they just do that classic appeal to hypothetical groups of people disagreeing instead of your actual points, it says everything you need to know. Guys are linear, they want something to be right or wrong, no need to consider what the …
/r/MGTOW17/05/21 09:06 PM
1

Non-disclosure also signals "white". Perhaps you should reassess your sexuality? But look on the bright side, without work or a career, you can't reproduce! Oh wait, that's good for them. Huh... maybe ethics take a backseat to survival. It sucks, but save the playing fair and being kind for the kind of folks who take part in that economy. When I work for a small business, I'll have their backs and help them out. Corporations? Eh, I'll do whatever I can by playing from their rulebook. A lot of th…
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 11:07 PM
10

For real, we have got to get past this old, boomer-tier nonsense. I know, it's the first thing that comes to mind, but come on, do you think for a second that would fly? You can't get contracts, you can't get jobs, because the second some "due diligence" researcher opens up the door they'll point to the clause in their contract that says you have to uphold the same standards they do. The only way just hiring meritocratic works if for small scale, community gigs and even then, with the internet p…
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 10:58 PM
7

Yeah but they don't, they're too big to fail, and they have huge, world-spanning support structures. Instead, they'll cancel and absorb your small competitive startup, fine you, and continue pillaging the continent until their fantasy robots finally come online to replace you. They aren't too connected to the reality of economics, just look at our markets. The boeing fiasco is a great example of globetrotting, ridiculous management and nothing happened from it at all. Then it's into the bug-pod …
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 10:52 PM
8

"Yeah but you deserve it, because you're evil scum. You see, guys who look like you did a no-no, and even though you were the ones to fight against it, vanquish them, and take an entire continent back from them, you have to pay for their sins." -Assholes, probably.
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 10:50 PM
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I'm surprised they don't pick up on it. You can usually suss it out pretty easy when they do it to us. Some of those things I've seen and thought it's a little too on the nose, but if you ape the feminine writing style, well, the votes do the rest.
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 10:48 PM
1

Inflation. What would have been a 7 at most in 1985, is now a "10" because we have so little true beauty left. Like everything else, polluted with funky castoff hormones, microplastics, and medicated to death, our sense of beauty has been corroded to the point where seeing a body shape that's literally nothing special, apart from simply not being obese, is pegging the needle at the top of the scale. (Also, 10's are exceedingly rare, and the peak of human beauty. I would hesitate to say there are…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 10:44 PM
10

Something I heard on a radio station once has stuck with me: A 20's girl was in tears, recounting the "awful, terrible" thing she did to girls. Turns out, she was a formerly religious girl who got married at 20, and ran an influencer blog talking about how to be a good wife. One of her pieces of advice was "Greet him with a smile when he comes home!". She was doing an interview talking about how screwed up she was and how awful it is to tell those things to girls. I really need to find that inte…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 10:29 PM
7

My grandpa used to (mostly jokingly) say "Hmmm... that sounds like a you problem. I'll whate'er the fuck I wanna." and do this sassy drag queen snap thing, whenever they started with the "I feel like" talk. It didn't set an easily convertible precedent as I dated, there were a few too many times when I was confused as to why a GF was getting all offended and huffy because I didn't cave immediately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 12:01 AM
7

I wouldn't take shit from him in terms of advice. He's literally put out work saying "There's nothing inherently wrong with being a cuckold." because hey, you're getting off, so take that, virgins. The guy's brain ain't wired up to spec.
/r/MGTOW15/05/21 11:54 PM
3

Usually, they've told me that men aren't in nearly as much danger, because they project their sisterhood on us. Women may hate each other, but they are extremely loyal to women in the aggregate, seeing them all as one team. According to my sources, they fully believe predatory guys don't like to prey upon other men because (as they project female mentality on us) we're "brothers".
/r/MGTOW13/05/21 09:56 PM
2

Oh, you with your "no trust society". It's so overrated, just look all this tasty food we got in exchange!
/r/MGTOW13/05/21 09:54 PM
3

Teachers say it because they take "mature" to mean compliant, quiet, and borderline asleep. boys having energy (as they should, naturally) is written off as childish and immature by the predominantly female education apparatus. It's cruel how we treat boys in our system. It's like factory farming, boxing in an energetic, curious animal in a kennel box then wondering why they just don't give a shit about anything as they grow up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 09:50 PM
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Yeah, for real. Who the hell wants a girl who has no sexual experience? That's sooooo boring! It's just impossible to expect ME to do all the hard, grueling work of teaching and learning our sexual compatibility and enjoyment together. It's much healthier for my future wife to learn how to operate her body through a string of uninterested, apathetic, strangers who use her like a rental mustang on track day! It astounds me when I hear girls turn their nose up like that, as if "experience" is in a…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre10/05/21 10:38 PM
2

I have a special dislike for people with totally, completely mainstream views that do nothing but reinforce the beast system while calling their thoughts "rebellious" or worse...."based". As if there's anything based about any current mainstream party.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 10:30 PM
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No doubt. The worst though, is when the kid will always be reminded of how you're an outside interloper standing between his mom and dad, ruining any chance of a happy family for him. At MOST you'll get a sappy toast in 20 years for "thanks craig, for stepping up, you're my real dad. Sniff" and even that's pretty damn rare. It doesn't seem like families are meant to be mixed and matched like lego's, judging from the divorce rates. Sorry, not worth it to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 05:39 PM
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Where did this pernicious idea come from, that children are inherently the fun killers? It always seemed odd that parents just let the kids set the pace and throw up their hands when they don't get the behavior they want. It's like people complaining about how "rambunctious" and "impossible" their dog is, but they never even try to train it, outside of having the entirety of Cesar Milan mouldering away on their DVR. Children are capable of much more than what american pop culture thinks they are…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 11:12 PM
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Honestly I just disbelieve anyone over about 21-24 who openly talks about their virginity, because every case I've gotten to know was a party girl looking to get away from bad experiences (or to maintain family favor). They're not 'real' virgins, in the true sense, even if they're making good moves in the right moral direction. Real virgins don't have it high up on their list of stuff to disclose, because those staying chaste for marriage aren't going to be talking sexuality until they get to a …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 10:44 PM
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Well you're gonna love the sequel her kid's working on then, it's gonna be even wilder!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 10:29 PM
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The guys don't say it because they don't believe in some secret wildlife preserve tucked away in Galt's Gulch with all the wonderful traditionalist single ladies. They realize after playing the game that the cultural shift has seeped into pretty much every last one of their mating grounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 10:27 PM
12

My mom somehow heard about "Pussy tingles" and the wall, and I overheard her using them in conversation with her friends the other day. If the older people are catching on, we must be getting close to culture saturation, and once this hits the mainstream we'll see some serious cope.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 09:08 PM
13

I don't think her generation will ever age out. They'll just keep going thinking "tomorrow for sure, I'll find my soulmate and everything will be great! I'm only 44, after all!" Then....... "I'm only 56, after all!" "I'm only 71, after all!" "I'm only 87, y'know my neighbor down the hall is 105, and she got remarried when she was 93!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 09:04 PM
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No, a dog gets to live in a crate, in a dark room for 11 hours a day, only to be let out on a grass strip before being re-interred, because his owner has a VERY important career screening employee emails for naughty opinions for a medical billing company. She doesn't want her house ruined, with all that expensive furniture, so she locks it away to be taken out when convenient, or for friday night #killinIT! and #SoChildFree selfies. It blows me away how some people treat their dogs like automate…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 09:02 PM
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But that's not the distinction they teach. We have a series of female teachers sitting kids down from age five and only saying "everyone's equal! You can do anything you want to, don't ever let some mean old man tell you that you can't do something just because you're a woman!" They care about the feelings of the message, not the particulars. So they omit the whole angle of legality and just act with supreme bafflement when they're told that one self-defense class in freshman rec center doesn't …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 07:01 PM
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This reminds me of a coworker who bought some funky drug that made him terribly, horribly ill. I think it was LSD or something, but he would just get laid out sweating, barfing, pissing, in total agony....... but every time he had a day off he'd say he was gonna do it again because "shit's expensive, I can't throw it away". People are dumb sometimes.
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 05:24 AM
5

If you're marrying in 20XX looking for happiness, you might as well build your investment portfolio on lottery tickets.
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 05:21 AM
2

Little does she know her "miracle" is gonna be skeezing everyone out in 6th grade, while paranoid kids buy him candy bars to hope he'll spare them if he finally snaps and starts axe murderin'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 01:36 AM
8

It's really come to dawn on me lately how much damage this simple "everybody's equal!" concept does. We teach kids from birth that it's the truest, most fundamental aspect of human reality. We're all just blank, standard-issue human-pattern creatures whose only differences are the result of environmental circumstances or lived experience. Just saying that "equal" is this weird, end-all-be-all principle in so many topics like it's the most consistent, basic root of all truth leads to a whole lot …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 01:29 AM
9

It's always weird to see their descriptions of all the guy zone internet writings. They retell it in this weird, truncated way. if you take their version of older guy advice, it's that we're told to play video games, jack off, and never seek anything more than part time wagery until we've gotten to 30, lost a bunch of hair, and packed on 100+ pounds of fat rolls. Then, we're supposed to go and hit on poor career women with condescending PUA talk and tell them their only hope of having kids is us…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 01:14 AM
5

I can't even be appalled anymore, it's just too insane to watch. We're only in the beginning of the shift, just imagine how bad it'll be when the leadership, government, and old folks have all grown up in a post-shame, post-truth world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 01:02 AM
4

We've fallen for the meme that the "best of both worlds" is having what's essentially your best buddy, your broseph, your homie, but with his factory equipment package swapped with the XX setup. I've found it's more of a fantasy than reality. They don't love stuff the same way, and it's hard to describe. When I've had "cool" bro girlfriends, they just didn't appreciate the same things I did. I use mountainbiking as an example a lot because it was really glaring. On paper, we'd have a grand old t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 03:37 AM
5

What? You're crazy, dutch ovens and football are awesome. Everyone loves having a farting competition with their wife! (Is anyone else noticing there's a ton of people who can't handle regular food though? I've met a number of women in recent memory who act like eating cheese, or milk, or bread, or beer will make them shit themselves to death.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 03:30 AM
5

For real..... it's a sad fact that the people who feel guilty about thinking like that are the ones who need to. If you're feeling bad that you don't wanna burn yourself at the sacrificial altar to help people who wouldn't lift a finger to put the fire out, well, you're the exact kind of person they love to take advantage of.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 03:12 AM
4

My grandma takes aside all the new moms in the family and gives them a talking to the effect of: "now remember, you may love that lil' bugger a lot, but don't expect anyone else to love 'em as much as you do. Most will be too nice to let you know they lose interest after three minutes of showing off cute baby costume pics, much less thirty." It hasn't stuck though, we have one who insists on sitting everyone around the TV to show the entire camera roll of her grubling. Not a bad baby, but it's n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 02:56 AM
4

And FWB is only anywhere near the table if you never see the kids. I really don't like the whole "let's include 'em, you're gonna love them! Instead of going out to eat, let's go to chuck-e-cheese! Oh, I know you aren't looking for LTR's, but little VerBrandyn is just so happy and he really deserves a dad, I don't think he's ever had a chance at a healthy life, so how 'bout we move forward a little bit and.....>?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 01:17 AM
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mechanic I bet this is aimed at her friends with upperclass professional guys, and she wants to take a potshot at their boys for being wusses or something. You see that sometimes, where the girls are jealous on behalf of their bf's, when white collar and blue collar dudes get along just fine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 01:04 AM
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I like that she thinks the norm in the dating competition around her is "skinny blonde girls" like I'm gonna see her and say "fuckin' finally, I'm so sick of slender, healthy women with good life decisions and no outstanding bills. I really want to take care of some dude's chunky, entitled wife and his resentful child"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 01:01 AM
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It's like they're ordering food when they're not hungry. They don't want to embarrass themselves by planning for cheetohs, doritos, and mountain dew with vodka, so they tell everyone they want granole, quinoa, and broccoli with some tea later. Then when they go shopping, they're actually hungry, and that junk food looks a lot tastier than having to prepare and wash a bunch of vegetables...... no! It's not that I don't want the healthy food, I'll just eat it later, yeah! I'll always be able to ea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 12:57 AM
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Well, and age. I think there is a LOT more sway coming from mother nature in our dating impulses than we acknowledge. In her phase of life, the body's not in that young n' huntin' phase anymore, and she's mellowing out towards menopause. IIRC there's some kind of hormonal reprofiling that goes on with time that would theoretically make her a better, more stable, maternal figure or leader. Age rounds those edges and swings, because the young of the tribe need more stability from their mentors. It…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 12:55 AM
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You can use it to your advantage the same way, when you think about it. Aren't we all traumatized? If society tells me there's zero difference between me and my ex gf, and she has ZERO duty to overcome her problems, then why can't I enjoy the same? She told me "I don't owe the world healing, I can address my trauma however fast I want to or not at all!!!!!" So hey, it turns out that that one coworker reminds me of my abuser so I can't be on that team anymore, shucks. Accommodate me!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 12:53 AM
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Easy to make, damn near impossible to maintain on the open internet. Maybe the chinese will be able to do it, they've made some projects work with facial recognition and they can be somewhat based. The second the powerful, immensely wealthy and sympathetic interest groups get a whiff of a database to log consequences for their fertile voting and influencing block? Eradicated. Burned from orbit. You'll find your addresses blacklisted, your servers terminated, and your payment processing put on th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 12:50 AM
3

I had a friend who used to look for women and say "I want someone who's kids look like me, and even better they're young enough that I'd pretty much be their dad anyway, then I'm not the outsider stepdad." Shit's bleak.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 02:33 AM
3

Well they wanna be the one to ghost or dump. As long as she thinks the toy is on the shelf right where she left it, she'll be happy, even if she never wants to see it again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 02:30 AM
4

Yeah but "He just wasn't the right guy for me" and "I could never see myself getting married to him"! Marriage is a big commitment, you know. She can't just shack up with anyone, she has to be selective.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 02:29 AM
3

Well......they can't, judging from the prison population. Or mass shooters. For all the "wow omg such a hero" talk and near worship in pop culture, they really aren't producing anything impressive. We could actually do a lot of good in society if we just honestly took stock and talked about the insufficiency of single motherhood, so we could build things to fix it. Instead we just build this cult that pretends it's perfect and brave, so they're afraid to actually engage in their shortcomings. I'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 02:25 AM
4

"Uh no sweetie, men need to shape the fuck up, she's a queen and they need to get right if they think she's gonna slum it with those loser single dads. If they were so great, why are they single?" -A rough estimate of what you'd hear from her circle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 02:14 AM
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We've workshopped a way to explain why guys are miffed at this situation because the girls at work think it's totally fine, if not the thing to do now. (because of course they all do, they are loyal to their team, and this is their way to have their cake and eat it too.) If they heard a friend say: "Omg I saw that guy you're going out with last night at the bar, he was chatting up this ho and he took her outside for like, fifteen minutes. They came back in and she starts bragging that he had jus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 02:11 AM
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A smoart man will basically assume they're being cheated on from the start. You can actually find out a lot just by dropping little jokes like "what's up? Don't worry, I'm not mad about your little boyfriend, it's no big deal." and get the confirmation that way. Once you know, you can then disengage on political or religious grounds, everyone's got 50 reasons no one belongs together anyway. Just leave the next guy some room to spring it, every time you have your cathartic "a-ha! Cheater!!!" mome…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 02:04 AM
3

I think the Ahnold said something like "Being in-shape is the ultimate status symbol" once, and it's proven totally true now. It shows that not only can you "afford" to eat healthy (even though it's totally possible on the cheap) but you also have the time to spend on it. Though the true wealth is having the self-control and discipline needed for it, which is the greatest treasure of all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 01:44 AM
9

The classic is "bragging about a big rack while obese is like a hobo bragging about all the free time he has."
/r/MGTOW05/05/21 01:31 AM
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According to the hallmark channel, there's a gorgeous, hunky guy who can't stand all the boring, vapid girls in NYC when he takes time off from his CEO job and philanthropy. In the doldrums, he'll visit family in her neighborhood, and fall in love with how precocious her (pre-scripted) daughter is and just HAVE to join the family, then it's all smooooooooooooth sailing. Are you telling me the bitter, obese gromblins writing those movies aren't illustrating reality!?!?!? You really think they'd j…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:19 AM
4

But when you tell them they need to not indulge in the cursing, drinking, smoking sailor they seem to want, it's always "shut the fuck up you aren't her dad". Then when the kid is 13, having college freshmen pick her up "because my car's in the shop", the mom complains to you about how her kid calls her by her first name and only comes home for laundry or condoms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:15 AM
7

I want a bot that rewrites all these "why won't people wholehearted lust after my obesity?" articles as male centered "10 reasons why women need to stop worrying about the income of their partners: It's time to stop finance-shaming for unemployed gamers in their 30's".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:13 AM
6

I can't wait to hear "lol isn't this perfect? We're a starter family, you already have grandkids pre-made!" like it's a good thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:12 AM
3

A particularly black pilled cop referred to them as "very late term abortions" when I ran with them. I think any sane man should be prepared to kill a pitbull when they see the stupid, out of depth owner indulging in the adrenaline rush of people being afraid of her clearly aggressive dog in public. The number of times you'll see then putting all their weight into holding it back while it lunges forward to go munch on kids across the street is high....in certain areas at least. I used to think y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:10 AM
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Oh no, that's a GOOD thing!!!! See, we all need to be good citizen's of the earth and purge the archaic, primitive, natural wrongtthink that our family, friends, and neighbors have. How else can we hep uphold the mandated values passed down from our lords and masters in NGO's, committees, and corporations to extract maximum value from our communities? Also, I've reported this comment to the "office of community wellbeing", so you might wanna pack a toothbrush before the commissars take you to th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:06 AM
3

They keep getting better, too. I've bought the cheaper body cams for a few years and every time I get another, they're smaller and longer lived. I love them, there are lots of weird little incidents that no one gets to see....now I can prove it. I also have them front and rear on my cars, and my bikes. And my helmets. (And my plane). I'd get two or three on-body so you can get through the day with full coverage, even the longest lived is only about four to six hours. And if you're ever in a case…
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 04:02 AM
1

Yeah but isn't it worth it to not be embarrassed when those Europeans make fun of us? Or, best yet, we don't have him saying terrible things on twitter! I'll pay twelve bucks a gallon to be free of tweets mocking rosie o'donnel!
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 03:57 AM
3

Yeah, like, what's the upside? Given the economic reality, a 22yo may just as well be 14, and if you get real with it? So could a 28 yo. I doubt a single mother made a kid who's powering through his combination MD/BA program at 22, so my money is on him living at home..... well, soon to be your home if her penis fly trap works. Just think, how many times have you thought "dang, I have so much free space, I wish there was an angry, fat dude filling this room with pot smoke to call me by my first …
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 03:55 AM
2

Some guys think the whole "do your own thing" supercedes all. It'd be better to think of this as a shared outlook on risk mitigation instead of "hey whatever, you do you." I swear, seeing these things all the time is like seeing a recovering drug addict come into group saying "you guys won't believe this, so I was getting high with my old dealer, and he -Oh don't worry, I'm being very responsible using again, so I totally won't get addicted or anything- so he says to me....."
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 03:52 AM
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Oh wao mr. miss Ogyny over here! So she's at fault for her societally programmed desires and actions? what do you take her for, a man? ridiculous. (I'm kidding)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 03:24 AM
10

Girls like this are like a frostbitten arm. As much as you wanna keep it, it's apparent when it's too far gone. Later on, no matter how tempting it is, only a fool would try to reattach a gangrenous limb. Unfortunately, many guys can't imagine living without the arm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 03:22 AM
6

It's freaky how many times you can cast a critical eye on something and say "why is your character the good guy? Why should I root for them?" and get absolute blank stares. A lot of creatives are painting by numbers with little regard for the end result these days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:43 PM
6

But you don't get it!!! It's not impossible! See, all these people I follow on instagram have it all in their marriage, you think these influencers just prostitute themselves to foreign real estate devs and put on overpriced yoga pants just to lie about being happy? As if! There's no way the government will let people just make stuff up on instagram!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:42 PM
6

It's little things like this that make me think there may be something to those warnings of unseemly think tanks directing social discourse in an effort to "fix" our backwards, old-fashioned society. It's one thing to put out wish-fulfillment, cotton candy media, but the fever pitch that certain franchises manage to hit without having a genuine base of enthusiasm is just suspect to me. The push seemed distinctly inorganic and forced with EPL with a very synthetic vibe that they expected it to ta…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:40 PM
5

Well the are the protagonist, the rest of us are just the cast to round out the background of the shots.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:33 PM
28

It's so weird seeing them try to turn sentiment already. There's legwork going on about not stigmatizing the past, and not being "obsessive", "Insecure", or "possessive" about her homebrew pornography floating around for all to see. They're really gonna be cracking down on the poor class of 2038 in order to curb the mockery. I came up in the newer, enlightened school system and they were appalled to see what the kids did when they discovered Kevin's mom had a few modeling gigs they could downloa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:23 PM
46

I heard this story before, she said something like: "Ugh, why are you so fucking insecure? I told you, I would be a bad friend to just abandon him! He needs me, I'm his only support since he got out and his family betrayed him!!!! It's not sexual, he just needs someone to help him get on his feet so he doesn't fall back into dealing.... besides, it's our anniversary this weekend, and I quit taking my birth controoooooooool. Once I get back from helping him move in to his new place I'm yours for …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:19 PM
16

Going south from the US is awesome. It has it's own set of problems, but it's great living without laws and regulations suffocating every little move you make with fees, taxes, and intrusion. well, if you go to the poorer ones it's more lasseiz-faire, once you get the hang of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:14 PM
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If that's what you're seeing, you're in a very special set of circumstances. The average is what, like 5'4" and 170 pounds? When I was in HS I thought 135 was getting husky. If you're around money, or image, or media, then you may not see the average person. They are a bit skinnier if they have the income and free time to eat "healthier" and sign up for gym stuff. (I know, healthy isn't expensive, but many seem to think it's only doable when prepackaged and grossly inflated)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:12 PM
11

Yeah it's well done. I have a definite weak spot for stuff like this that's obviously beyond the pale for any thinking creature. It's a good litmus test for whether or not the "en-pee-cee"s even try to think for themselves, or if they simply gauge their agreement on the emotional vibe of strung-together buzzwords.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:09 PM
1

You may change as it goes on. Most I know tend to creep their ages down, there's just a lot of soul fatigue and bitterness accumulated in the dating market as it goes on (on both sides, often) and it's not fun being with someone who holds a grudge against you because you happen to remind them of past unjustices. I'm not old enough to see what the difference is though, exp and maturity seem more like nice labels for being tired and lower-energy as time goes on. It doesn't seem like the older peop…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 09:33 PM
3

"ew no, that's gross. This is totally different. See how this big sticker was put over the original label? It's totally different. Also there's a 40% price increase, it's a premium brand now."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 09:29 PM
6

Well there are two divergent purposes a man can date for. Temporary fun, or long-term marriage/family building. I'm a religious type, so I have a lot lower tolerance for that kind of stuff, as do the guys I know from church that share my belief system. To me, I just don't like someone who doesn't think more than three days ahead when she spams nudes of herself. It shows a lack of self-protective instinct and foresight to just think "yeah, this deffo won't bite me in the ass and it's worth it to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 09:27 PM
2

And even the good old fashioned boys who would previously never even consider perma-bachelorhood are now turning. Once you realize that every time you let one of 'em into your life, your unhappiness increases, you start to figure "the good ones" are so rare they may as well not exist. When I hang out with women in their 20's/30's and they talk about settling down (if they know I'm not married at least, I usually keep it under wraps) they can't figure out why I wouldn't be pursuing so many option…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 01:54 AM
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Why do you think they love married guys? If they had their way, we'd all be stuck accidentally knocking up tinder slags because we're locked in to providing. A single man is dangerous to society's interests. (there's a good greentext about that, the "enkidu Gambit")
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 08:59 PM
19

You don't understand! This rolls royce was $194,000 in 1992!!! How could I possibly sell it for any less? I know it's a salvage title but who's gonna be all judgmental and stuck up about that? Motor trend said it was the best luxury car on the market in 1993!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 08:57 PM
19

All the girls on meds I knew didn't need them, and the ones that did, didn't take 'em. For some reason the upscale HS I went to was rife with "oh, my kid is 'underachieving' and I'm embarrassed by not being able to brag about their gpa. Doc, can you pump them full of some cocktail to force them to work? Sweet."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 08:55 PM
1

I just take issue with how everyone seems totally happy to always apply low bars, with lower standards and expectations, to women at large. All it does is keep them from working harder and gaining true proficiency while inflating their ego and making them feel more competent than they are. If we just put them through the same wringer as the boys we wouldn't have so many issues, but any time the older generations in charge of testing see tears and sobbing they call it all to a halt and fold under…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 08:53 PM
10

I used to be very rightthinking and progressive, super egalitarian and even convinced myself I wanted an educated, professional woman with a good job, like a Dr..... until I dated them. Turns out no amount of schooling, training, or work will ever turn your gf/wife into a bro, they'll never think the same as you, they'll never give up emotive thought patterns, and they'll never pull their weight. They'll always expect you to burn yourself on the sacrificial altar of providership slavery, and tel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 08:47 PM
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It's a church with rotating lay clergy, he was some kind of law enforcement training officer who saw some nasty shit. I'd bet he had to clean up when one of those perverted young kids try unlubed anal because their parents gave them an unrestricted iphone. It's freakish how common it is. It used to be that they'd learn about birds n' bees and play doctor, but that's harmless in comparison to what they're learning from pornhub front page hyperbondage/gangbang/analgaping fetish shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 08:41 PM
6

For real, I was gonna start as a teen until I heard a sports med doc tell a friend "Think of your knees like a lifetime wear part. If you take care of them and baby 'em, they'll last a while. But juking, sprinting, and playing hard on them as a kid puts a lot of wear and tear on them, and chances are the lifetime of pain and ACL replacements aren't gonna be worth a $500 scholarship to community college".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 08:39 PM
2

I've already had this convo before, so I'm just going to cut and paste the last time I had it: It's always funny seeing the terrible "I word" played as some verbal superweapon. It says much more about you than anyone here. It just proves your self-centered nature, that a painful insult is just the insinuation that we are undesireable and unwanted by our cohort. It's not going to ruffle any feathers the way you want, because the posters here aren't like your kind. Sex and attention are your curre…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 05:19 AM
2

Hey! Don't you know she got a softball affirmative action placement in some college? You're just jealous you won't go $140,000 in nondischargeable debt to be a professor's assistant for $11/hr!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 04:47 AM
2

Yeah but have you seen that boil?!?!?! It's the size of a GD Golf ball!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 04:44 AM
1

Yeah, like K-Sam says, "Stop wasting time lookin' for a soulmate, what you really need is someone to give ya your insulin shots".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 04:44 AM
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My fave is the new article "debunking" (which btw, is the propagandist's favorite word. Nothing better than something that says "everything I say is truth, and any who question it deserve shame and scorn") the "myth" that there's a fertility cliff at 35. It's TOTALLY NOT TRUE don't ya know. The real cliff is.....uh.....at like, 37. Boom!!!! Debunked!!!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 04:31 AM
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Isn't her dad a felon or something? It's pretty obvious from the start she's got issues, but it's particularly loony to have her put up on the stand as some kind of ideal example of the quality partners sitting on the shelf, that dumb ol' boys are too dense to notice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 04:22 AM
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I see it a lot and aside from the huffy passive aggressive comments from InSpins and cat ladies, it's nothing you can't handle. The only real danger is having the HR lady find out and put a target on your back, or a friend issuing vague, undefined accusations on twitter out of jealousy. Or, after a breakup the whole thing is retconned into abuse, but what relationship isn't nowadays? It's pretty funny how even the GenX desirable bachelors are passing on millenial spinsters-to-be. They're just im…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 04:19 AM
15

It's like she held a stock that grew in value and died. 100 years ago you're doing great holding Sears, then for a time you were on top of the world. Now? Not s'much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 04:15 AM
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For real, I've seen a pastor catch immense hell for having to say across the pulpit "hey kids, just so you know y'all ain't outsmarting God, okay? No amount of anal intercourse is okay, it's not upholding the law of chastity in the church. The parents were angry that he would mention it at all, as if their kids didn't know it was an option until he said it. In actuality, the summer campout had a few kids caught squib-deep in chili-rings with each other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 04:14 AM
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when you see stuff like this in action, it really makes sense why so many guys are thot enablers. Friends visiting my house would freak when my mom would say something like "Hey, don't leave your boots there, there's a new shoe rack by the garage!" and get a "don't tell me what to do, I do whatever the fuck I want!" and mom would just laugh it off. Took me some learnin' that most millenial girls expect near-worship instead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 07:17 PM
23

the They operate on a shame-based social hierarchy, in many ways. They don't get that you can only embarrass and guilt a man into doing something if he's a femme-minded guy, like the son of a single mother who was raised to never, ever decide to act on his own. Instead, he's taught to value "what will other people think? What are they doing? How do I look to people?!" And those types of guys are not all that admired by the lady folk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 12:37 AM
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Ugh, this again? What don't you get, those guys are technically good, but they're not exciting!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 12:34 AM
11

I haven't ever seen genuine, lasting friendship between two diff. genders where there was zero sexual interest. Granted, I'm talking about old-fashioned friendship, where there's trust and loyalty, lasting association. Now, it's been watered down into a kind of loose confederation of people with linked social media accounts. I did have a few "friends" that were girls, but a couple of them were in this weird thing where we both friendzoned the other and were a little lost at the possibility they …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 11:57 PM
5

It is weird to see fem enthusiasm for self improvement when they usually loathe it when guys do it. There's this innate fear that they get hoodwinked by some guy going from toad to prince, yet all their chicanery is wonderful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 09:49 PM
2

People make time for what they care about most. From my experience, the majority of people who say "I'm really busy" are soft-shoeing it to keep from being subject to time/chore/work demands from people around them. It's almost like saying "sorry, I'm not taking any orders, if you have a specific interest, well....if the pay is good...."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 09:48 PM
5

It's a nice sentiment, but this is a rare place where we don't have to play along with the social programming. Hurtful or not, in terms of my duty to myself in ensuring my own health, survival, and happiness, calling it a "parasite" removes that automatic instinct to sacrifice myself for a cute little bugger. It's a betrayal of self to get drawn into the gravity well of sympathy and kindness with the rate these situations abound. Without having strong mental resistance towards "awwww come on, sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 09:18 PM
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Yeah, but didn't you notice the brevity? The slang? That's supposed to make you feel ashamed of your position by wondering "oh no, one of the cool kids thinks I have a bad take!" I don't really work with management types often, but by and large the best fem co-workers I've had were on the same competency level as an average male. The worst? Well, they're just skating by because no one wants to take the political heat for "chasing off" one of the few women we have in the industry, and they keep o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 09:10 PM
1

I have mine, handy in a few ways, but mostly useful for any professional friendliness being construed as "omg that guy was totally flirting with me".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 11:27 PM
3

Inflation. The only thing that can conceivably fix it is dolls/bots. Once a superior product comes to market they'll have to up their game to stay competi-BAhahahahahahahah I can't even finish saying it. Nah, in reality they'll just shame buyers and get the government to ban them in the interest of safety.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 11:20 PM
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Herd creatures follow their "cool" and "unique" companions at the front of the pack. Nevermind the fact that tatted people are the majority now, they're still thinking back to third grade when their mom said "ew, you're NOT getting tattoos, that's for dirtbags."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 09:02 PM
1

Just had to explain that it's not even in the realm of possibility that I'd move my whole life into someone else's nest. That's just.....not a thing I could do and be me, like I won't get up and do loud, drunken karaoke after work. She couldn't figure it out, but she seemed to get it when she put together that a guy who would do it is much more likely to be a jelly-spined beta. He's giving up his habitat, his stuff, his hobbies, and usually his friends, sometimes his hometown. It's just weird th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 09:00 PM
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I bet the attraction and novelty of hooking up with him wouldn't b e 1/8th as strong if it weren't for the "Yeah, my wife sucks, wanna help me get revenge by cuckin' her?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 02:30 AM
1

Nah he'd just say it for even insignificant things as a joke. "Do I need to buy more milk on the way back tonight?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 01:27 AM
8

I've always heard this as one of those feel-good lies they say to make women feel superior. In actual multi-tasking (i.e. how men think of the term, doing multiple things at once, like driving while checking a map) they tend to fare very poorly. Their version of multitasking seems to be all the errands and stuff that come with being a mom and a career woman, because doing such a thing is so inherently loathsome that pop culture brainwashing has to dress it up as a positive for societal stability…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 11:37 PM
9

It's always funny to me how there's this schism in humanity, where the people who first ask "what's in it for me?" need to ask it a lot less, and the people who never even think the phrase need to start. Nice people don't even put themselves in third place in order of their priorities, and they continuously serve as useful servants and cannon fodder for people like this lady. I don't fault her asking what's in it for her, but the fact that her concept of marriage is little more than luxury watch…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 05:06 PM
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One I've tried was "What are let's say, five ways you'll show appreciation to this man who steps up and fulfills your demands every day? How can you be ensure you're being the kind of wife that caliber of person deserves? If he's your dream hubby, do you not need to be his dream wife?" It's funnily scary how multiple generations have now been raised without ever even considering their spouse's needs and desires as separate from their own. They're totally into this idea of a guy happily coming ho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 04:59 PM
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Penis fly trap
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 04:54 PM
0

I just learned about the obscure hobby of Japanese fleshlight collecting, and from the looks of it, $25-50 a pop would be a much better use than wining and dining (even the coffee) than exposing yourself to so much risk (which is lifelong, given their ability to document and passively incriminate anyone without actual wrongdoing in the public eye). This is actually cheap, the most common one is the abortion money, which is a scarier can of worms if they get a hold on your family. Boomers and old…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 04:52 PM
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So I guess he needs to be able to pay for the IVF? I'm sure the standoffish 'coparenting' ideas will fall by the wayside, as they always do, when the bills come. That instinct of "hey, you're my mate-uh, I mean, platonic co-parent! You have a lot of resources, and uh, my instincts are telling me those are mine somehow, how can I rationalize it where I'm in the right? Hmm....uh it's your job to take care of your baby's mom! We're platonic, but I need your support because it's expensive getting re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 04:47 PM
7

They're jealous, too. I had a GF who started kicking her dog when I came over to scare it away, because I gave it more attention than her. She was kooky, like in the beginning she would get all weird and clam up because I wasn't looking at her from the "right angle". It was like she wanted to be photogenic in person, too. The dog is consistently happy and fluffy, why wouldn't I be excited to see it? It's never said "Oh don't rub my back I don't want wrinkles on this shirt".
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 07:16 PM
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There's this odd irritation from socially justie types that hate the amount of attention the japanese media sphere has been getting, as it increases in popularity. A lot of guys are fed up with nonsensical, preachy, message-first media and they're going abroad for their money and attention. Progs have this entitlement that as they take over domestic hobbies and subcultures they'd be on top of the pack, and their would-be subjects leave the plantation every time they come to power. Plus that inte…
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 07:12 PM
1

Depending on the state, they're moving to a better future for themselves. They total cap on how high they can go is much lower overseas, but there's something to be said living like a human, not slaving away for a thousand subscription services for every app you have to have for work and insurance on everything you own. It's not like a lot of guys have a family to look forward to, so who cares if they just do what their female counterparts do and live for themselves?
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 07:09 PM
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They think they're all sex obsessed mass shooters waiting to blow.
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 06:55 PM
0

We now live in a post-shame society for younger demographics.
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 06:54 PM
2

Maybe in private, but face to face they have to be politically friendly and congratulatory. Survival impulses make everything seem friendly and cooperative on the surface no matter what.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 06:45 PM
3

Well you only need to stop four words in to get it. They don't THINK. They feel. The "thinking" they do is a veneer, a thin applique over their impulses to be able to strut to their friends that they're desireable (i.e. masculine as they emulate their dream guys' detached thought processes) and LARP as don draper, if he ran the facebook account for jamba juice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 06:43 PM
4

"Hey! we got you a mug you'll have to use at work to brag about your cuckoldry to the world. Oh, and uh VuhBreckany totaled her escalade when she rolled it, and three of those kids are suing us because she had a ton of THC in her system, so I took bail out of your checking account. I'm going to take her car shopping later, so you'll have to put off that corvette purchase until we finish paying off her new car. Boy, I'm so glad I married a real man, my deadbeat ex would never be able to live like…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 08:07 PM
7

It never bodes well to see the oldies using teen lingo. "E.J" always makes me think of some paramil coca farmers when these types say it, not laughter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 05:00 PM
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"You're not pretty enough to say things like that" And then fwd it to your friends in such a way she gets mockery. If you insult or anything she'll write it off immediately as you losing your cool, but if you act condescending and she sees her behavior ridiculed, it just might turn her around a hair (but most likely not).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 04:58 PM
13

My fave form of "abuse" is when the last-ditch, desperate intervention is recast as gaslighting and manipulation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 10:47 PM
3

Well in aggregate it's true, think more in terms of "How can we get less X, it's too expensive to manage and too risky to keep around. Ideally we'll sell off X, and slowly titrate our portfolio with more tractable, easy to manage Y."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 10:45 PM
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And for that subset of feminine-minded males, it actually works. Like in those people who lack the mental spine, that firm self-concept of unshakeable ownership of their person. People who look to their surroundings for approval and guidance, living for conformity in order to feel at ease will often fall for whatever social mores and attitudes are stated enough. It's funny, because lots of ladies fall for the illusion that whatever is placed front and center in their social media feeds and magaz…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 10:34 PM
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Ah, beat me to it. they sure do love to blubber about "buh buh buh what about single mothers whose husbands died in war and stuff?!?!? You're saying not to date them too?!?!?!?!" Mostly, yes, but they are widows who happen to be single mothers as a result. A bit of a distinction and it reflects differences in her decisions that may bode much better than normal baby momma's. But no matter what, no matter how good and great, how kind and fine, marrying a single mom is akin to swimming out and tryi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 10:30 PM
1

You're definitely not alone. The more of the market they meet and see, the less enthused they are at integrating them into the family. Even the specially selected ones I brought to family gatherings were, at best, only mildly approved. Most of the time they were disappointed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 05:16 PM
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"Gosh, you chuds just don't get it!!! Ur free! Ur totally completely free u just have to use ur freedom the right way, Just Bcuz u have freedom of speech doesnt mean u can jus say ANYTHING" (Oh man, what a verbal beatdown. Super BTFO. They've got a great point! How could I possibly think rights are being infringed just because there's a liturgy of riders, additions, restrictions, and limitations? If only they had unemployed, hyper identitarian social justice stooges at the continental congress, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 02:20 AM
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Well, it's plenty for them. They just need their beau to make 53% more than them, or else....they feel something. Not sure what, it's just this natural inclination that when you demand they put it into words, they hand wring and say "I just.....I...it just feels wrong!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 12:09 AM
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It's mostly true for them too. The ones I know are very feminine in though processes, and it's very much in that "magic spells" usage of language. Really nice, humble, honest people usually feel a little bashful declaring themselves X or Y in it's entirety. They'll couch it as "I try to be a nice person" instead of "I'm nice!".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 12:06 AM
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I bet it's a joke, unless........... That way they avoid any flak they get for their demands, but are open to being taken up on it. Classic teenager move. "Hey, we should make out just to freak everybody out. like whuuuuuuuut? No? oh duh, I'm just kidding, that would be stupid, yeah, it's a joke."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 08:27 PM
2

Yeah, I didn't know how rare my family's example was. My mom would do renovation stuff like that, but the deal was that it was her hobby and and she'd rarely ask her husband to do it. Us kids were the ones to do projects like that, which in hindsight taught us a lot of handy stuff that our future wives....I can't even say it with a straight face. Well, I like having the capabilities. I'm convinced all that pinterest and HGTV is just a dream for whatever combo of industries profit from it. I had …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 08:20 PM
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For real, three down there's a whole thing about "writing for women the internet has forgotten about". Supposedly it's the inspins over 35 who are pretending to age with grace (while palpably seething). It's always amusing to me (after being irritated by it for so long) that the omnipresent self-centeredness just never goes away from them. They're constantly whining about how they can't see themselves in this media, that story, or that position. Everything has to relate to them by making it as e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 07:51 PM
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Hallmark too! Everyone knows the young, hunky doctor fleeing a bad breakup wants the 38 yo mother of four who works part time at a coffee shop and wants to write broadway plays!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 02:20 AM
2

......for how much longer? I feel like this roller coaster is still clicking and clacking its way up the hump.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 02:19 AM
5

He's done dude focused streams for a while. He's a lot sharper with them. "Yeah, I'm an entrepenour, I" "Son you're a bartender, be straight with me. You're not a CEO." It's to the point I feel a little bad, because some of these guys come from a single mom and this is likely the first time they had a good ol' fatherly cane drop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 02:18 AM
5

They are super out of touch with what younger, americanized women in their kids' generation think. They think there's still social shame and pressure to marry within and settle down in the first quarter of life. They take a while to find out that they're really just given an unlimited, blank check that says "You do you, boo!" and "you go girl! Don't listen to them!". After your friends start getting divorced in rapid succession and your buds crash in your couch, or start living out of their truc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 02:15 AM
1

I really think they are so avoidant towards all work they even try to escape when they should be doing some more reps. Even in that small moment, the inclination to escapism is strong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 09:33 PM
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It's kinda funny when that happens, I've heard women complain "why are they better than us at being women, too?". Granted, they can't distinguish between positive and negative attention, and they can't fathom the idea that people are tiptoeing around trying to defuse the tantrums before they start...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 09:32 PM
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I think if you listen to him and scoff, you're not the target market. He's always on old people's radios, and I grew up rolling my eyes at him, but there's a large ocean of normies that really need to be told not to do stupid shit. They're the types to buy a v6 salvage title camaro at 20% interest and brag that it's an investment because "classic muscle cars always sell". They're the types that brag about (secretly)renting a houseboat for spring break and they have to rebuy the same pair of garb…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 09:25 PM
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Gotta compete with those 22 year olds, because it's the appearance that turns off her age cohort. Not the anger, bitterness, resentment, and greed. Nope, it's an easy fix with face paint and some bondo!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 07:40 PM
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Hormones made my friend 4'9, supposedly. They put them on trying to give him more height and his body just stopped growing. Sure, the HS girls all loved cuddling him and pinching his cheeks but that was all. For height good nutrition and plenty of sleep, with the right amount of exercise should help. A lot of guys should actually be taller than they ended up, with big feet and hands, but they missed out the chance for their growth plates to add height because they stayed up all night too often a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 07:39 PM
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Always a joke, but it comes up when you see other ountries trying to push dating lessons, activities, and anything they can to increase birthrates to keep their supply of tax cattle producing. (Hey, can't let the most wonderful generation reach 100 years old without support! sure, we never thought they'd be retired for nearly half a century, but it's your problem now kids!!!) I've only known one guy to say that and fully mean it, and he wasn't all there mentally. Super into porn, had some spectr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 07:36 PM
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It blows my mind how they think the "state assigned gf" thing is even 1% serious. Only the most butthurt, furious sex addicts get anywhere close to wanting that setup. It's a joke, but it seems lost on every woman these days, when they start lecturing me about the need to "join the adult's table" and ban guns so those disgusting, revolting inkle's can't wantonly slaughter like, 19 people a year.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 07:28 PM
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I got ghosted by a girl after she found out I wasn't as poor as she imagined at first. I had a special love for classic honda's and was driving a very clean, brand-new lookin' '93 SI and the thought I was an impoverished pizza delivering kid. She seemed to get a kick out of paying for once, but after I let it slip that I was actually pretty well off (esp. for a punk kid) she got huffy at "hiding" it from her. She was into the strong malewoman thing, wanted to be a high earner and have a stay at …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 07:26 PM
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I've been trying to subtly redpill this dude dating a family member to little avail. The guy's in shape, makes serious money, and has a full head of hair. He's mid 40's and freshly divorced. In his head, he seems to be that scrawny, nerdy med student still and he keeps dating old women with bunches of kids they want paid for. He's super hungry to get married again and have a happy family with a bunch of strangers, to the point where only a month into dating he's already paying for a big vacation…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 09:45 PM
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And this is even harder today with families in such poor shape. Getting parental approval as an objective, outside judge for the person you're staking the most important bet of your life (and your descendants') on is immensely helpful. Unfortunately so many parents are more interested in being buddies with their kids than a disciplinarian and mentor. Or in the worst case, they put precedence not on their kids' quality of life and health, but on societal cachet and status. Seeing them push their …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 09:05 PM
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Hey! She has good conversation too. She'll ask what you like, then as you explain it, she'll interject with awesome stuff like "huh", "oh, really?", and "k".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 08:59 PM
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But we all had relatives, neighbors, group leaders, teachers, etc. we could look at. I always looked up to adults and asked myself if I'd be willing to step into that guy's life and live it like he did. There were rarely ever guys who had a marriage I'd be willing to try, they're almost all uniformly the subservient one. When my dad would talk stuff with friends like buying a new sports car, their statements of "Whoa, is your wife okay with that? How long are you sleeping on the couch for, huh? …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 08:35 PM
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I've always thought I should do my kids a favor and make sure their mom is as tall as possible. Maybe I just heard too much blackpill commiseration in school, but if things are this bad now, I can imagine those kiddos will need every little advantage they could get. It could be worse, though. Like that lady who's 5'2 and used a sperm donor for her kids......and chose a harvard grad from japan who was 5'4". If my shortest buddy knew she did that to him on purpose I'd be worried they'd find her in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 08:29 PM
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Different world, though. If you met in the ~2014 zone, there wasn't an established culture around stuff like tinder. When it came on the scene, people with iphones could figure it out, which opened up a HUGE block of women who would never touch dating sites before. Having it just tie into facebook and start picking out dudes in minutes meant you had a large bolus of relatively inexperienced women coming out of their comfort zone and getting out there more often. There used to be a spectrum of pe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 06:43 PM
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Guys learn, unlike their female counterparts in the dating scene. A lot of the good boys try to buy flowers, plan dates, plan out thoughtful gifts, and go the whole nine yards. You know why they stop? Because they get mocked by the easy girls as "try hards" or "creeps". Aw, you love how your bf used to pack your lunch with some cutesy "I love you!" post-its hidden inside? Well, that time you tweeted a pic of it laughing at how effeminate he is taught him well. I cringe when I think about the tim…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 06:37 PM
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I take issue with the patently terrible advice, but I definitely don't feel targeted by any of their dogma. I've never read a thread and thought "hey, they're talking about me!" which seems to be a bit of the grumpiness my friends have towards them. But that traces back to the root of most of their dating woes. Women habitually chase the same small carousel of douchebags, dirtbags, cocksman, horndogs, poseurs, big talkers, peacocks, and clownfolk expecting to open a buried treasure chest...... o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 06:47 PM
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At least they're starting to be original. In the early stages it was little more than regurgitated redpillery with a find&replace macro to swap genders. They still have a lot of that, where they talk about what "guys want" and it's just what girls want, of course! Nevermind the fact that sane men, real men, and living males say they don't want a careerist "with good money" and a lot of degrees. Instead of actually looking for what their dream man wants in reality, they just invent a different dr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 06:42 PM
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I didn't know how "hurtful" the "buy a dog and die alone" statement was until I saw someone mention it in person and receive a shocked gasp in return. I guess it hits home.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 06:38 PM
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Whenever asked, I like using the ol' "What do you wanna hear? Comforting lies, or painful truths?" Not sure when it comes from, my grandpa used to say it a lot even when you'd ask him if he had any extra bacon left over from breakfast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 06:36 PM
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I love explaining this to old timers. Once you point out how many apathetic single guys are in their life, they 're stumped, because they can't imagine not being super desperate to have a wife, their programming runs deep enough that even a nightmare spouse is better than nothing at all. Only once they go through divorce number three do those types start to think maybe they aren't getting anything out of those arrangements.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 06:26 PM
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Surely if we were to mount a comprehensive social media campaign on insta, snap, fb, and YT we could convince men to go against their natural biological drives and date the crusty old spinsters! Guys are just like women on the inside, they're just indoctrinated into wanting young, fit, fertile women! All we have to do is make them feel embarrassed to want those things and we can solve the aged female incel issue all at once! What? No way, guys don't respond well to propaganda and shaming tactics…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 06:00 PM
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"Aw man, I don't wanna be stuck playing conversation partner for three bucks......maybe if I keep serving these girls someone will start hitting on her and let me be. I just wanna daydream about nandroids in peace...."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 05:56 PM
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I worked with a dude who was about 6 foot 5, ridiculously tall but had lost about 150 pounds over the last few years when he got a new job. For the first time in his life he was normal size, and he was very open about regaining all his weight the second he got married to his dream girl that summer. The fury towards him was pretty funny, because he would just tell them he got the idea from his sister....and it's okay when she does it!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 04:51 PM
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For me the obesity isn't just about the looks, though. I could accept a bit of fat, everyone ages and it's easy fall into the cycle of eating without watching intake too carefully when so much socializing and activity is based around food. It's something we all have to carefully guard against and struggle with, too, so there's an element of hate for my own weaknesses shown in others. It's what obesity represents that makes me loathe it so much. It's an addiction made manifest, one that has plent…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 04:47 PM
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"Equals" is just a collaborative group lie people are told to think they aren't being subjugated. It usually means she'll let you pick the food choices and the unimportant, stupid things in daily life. In any choice that matters, though, she's essentially a mix between a mommy and a commanding officer. After trying out "no one wears the pants, we share the pants" relationships, I can only see it as nonsensical feel-goodery to make me let my guard down and cede control to my prospective wife. I d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 04:26 PM
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Their "bare minima" and men's are so totally out of sync with each other it's astounding. Yeah, Ideally someone who's nice, not obese, without children, willing to compromise? What's that? I can get none of those? oh, okay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 04:10 PM
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For dating, they're worthless, but it is a fun event to put it on the TV and show the grandparents the horror show if you're bored around the holidays. We did it once when it was new and it's almost a tradition at this point. Plus you get to hear the shocked gasps when stuff like this profile comes up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 03:54 PM
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When people try and tell them, their first instinct is to berate them for supporting patriarchal beauty standards or butting into their business. They don't care enough to learn about prevention while there's time, and any helpful advice causes offense, so.......everyone just watches as they slowly tan their face leather.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 03:34 PM
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Yeah, but she wasn't higher than him on the victim spectrum, she was luh-teen-kss. As long as you predate on people higher than you on the victimization allotment sheet, you're a-ok.
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 05:35 PM
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Yeah but she's so unique, so not-boring, she knows she's not like the other girls because she's imitating girls who aren't like the other girls!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 05:04 PM
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From the sound of it they at least understand equivalent exchange.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 04:53 PM
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But the streets are too crowded, we need more sub-streets, like "backalley wendy's dumpster streets"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 04:52 PM
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When you do get them in that age, you can sometimes find out what their cute younger sister is doing. Could snag a date before they're too far gone, too. Not that I would ever do such a terrible thing. Could you imagine the monster that would? She asks you out, and you turn it down but ask if her 22yo sister is available, then you see her at the family xmas party?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 05:27 AM
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Yeah, to say a pretty girl waiting or bartending is not ambitious is asking something that she doesn't need. working for a few hours every night and picking up ludicrous amounts of cash for carrying a few things around is quite a nice life while she's in a holding pattern for mr. perfect to sweep her away to his mansion. Every waitress I dated made at least $100/hr if they were working at night, usually a good deal more. Horny guys drop a TON in tips.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 05:25 AM
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I always think of uh....what's the term for that one thing? A superClitoris?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 07:28 PM
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If I could have my parent's marriage I'd be wed in a heartbeat. There's no way I can find someone like that, though, as I learned through my dating adventures. My dad is in absolute, complete control of his life, free to do whatever he wants, how, and when. Feel like going on a trip? Tell the wife you'll be back later unless she wants to tag along. Xmas party with the inlaws? Nah, they're boring as hell, have fun without me. Wake up feeling like you want a new car? Hey, why not buy a "cheap" lot…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 07:25 PM
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What? That's crazy. Why have people breed more, when we can just import people from Africa and the Middle east? It's a win for everyone! We get another diverse worker at our super conglomerate, they boost the economy....uh....somehow? And they add to the rich tapestry of American citizenry while paying for baby boomers' immense retirement costs! (An actual argument from our debate class, which was quite successful IIRC.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 07:13 PM
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It's like having someone saying they've never gotten lung cancer and they've been smoking for X years already. All the divorced dudes I know (which is nearly everyone married, those who haven't have all degenerated into little more than slaves to their old lady) were absolutely blindsided by it. They had no recourse to fix and a bunch are stuck on the hook to fund her now lavish bachelorette lifestyle. I know that theoretically good wife material exists, but people underestimate the drop in qual…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 07:11 PM
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I like most aspects of short, faerie like women, with the sole headache being spooning. Having totally different torso lengths just ruins the little spoon position at certain heights. (Granted, around 5' it's still alright, I'm talking lil' pygmy sizes like 4'8")
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 06:52 PM
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For a while the new social sites were kinda handy to gauge a former paramour's level of mediocrity, but it seems like so many things are in place that alert them to you checking them out it's just not worth it. When I kept up with some of my exes every so often, it was almost an event. It's funny to say "Oh yeah, Brickany got court-ordered anger management and ended up sleeping with her therapist..."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 06:51 PM
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For sure. Most SEALS and other squirrel teams come off as surfers, dirtbikers, or skaters when you meet them. Being tall sucks, half the stuff you want in life is harder to find in a good fitmennt, and what is there is pricier if it's any good. Stuff like motorcycles, sports cars, and planes are super cramped and uncomfortable. For the tactical crowd, being ~6' sucks a bit more, since you get the bonus of carrying more weight a little easier at the cost of being a larger target profile, needing …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 06:46 PM
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Unless they come from a family of all guys, that had a lot of chores to be done, they never even get close. They can never quite wrap all three of their brain wrinkles around the concept of guys just playfully razzing each other. Worse is when they raise their bastard child like that, and he breaks down weeping when his new roommate says "hey assplug, you wanna get some pizza?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 06:42 PM
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In an ideal world, tinder would have blockchain technology to verify body measurements for all accounts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 06:22 PM
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The truest bro move is consistently underreporting your height. We've had a long running joke where we all say we're a couple inches under our actual height. I'm a shade under 5'11, but if anyone asks I'm a cool 5'8 and "with these shoes i look a lot taller". Always fun seeing that crestfallen, confused look when they're introduced to the 6'4" fella in the group only to hear him say he's 5'10. "Oh, no way you're a lot taller than that, you're huge!" "Nah, it's actually because we're under fluore…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 06:21 PM
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What? Guys never get subjected to violence, that's why we all willingly walk around the poorest, least-lit areas of the metro cities at 2 AM with giant headphones on, pockets stuffed with cash and expensive electronics. We're very, very safe in the knowledge that fellow males in the patriarchy understand that we are never to subject our own to any predation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 06:17 PM
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I just bail on any of that. I've had too many outings ruined by that one girl who thinks she knows exactly how to act like a guy, and it comes off as an alien imitating a football player in an 80's sex comedy. We had one that joined our flight club who pretty much ruined our hangouts single handedly. She'll constantly miss the mark when razzing you, slug the shoulder, brag about "bangin' rando's", and insist on having the most ridiculously stereotyped "ragers", like any of us would be getting sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 06:15 PM
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I think part of the issue is the lack of fathers. A lot of boys were taught solidarity by their dads, helping them with pranks, ruses, and arguments when mom got angry. That spirit of "come on kid, you gotta have a man's back" helped many a hen-pecked chump pretend that new miata in the driveway is his friends, and he's just borrowing it for a while, like a year, two tops!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 05:59 PM
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Just try explaining that to the super careerist women. I've tried telling them that work and careers aren't in and of themselves fulfilling, but that they're fulfilling because they feed your family and make your kids happy. Nope, I guess working for Jp morgan in their HR and diversity powerpoint factory is innately nourishing to the soul, or else those nasty sexists wouldn't have fought WWII to keep women out of the workplace!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 05:41 PM
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I wonder how many live is super costly metro areas, making it the equivalent of a rural fella making $38k. "But there's just no replacement for the hustle n' bustle of the city! I always dreamed of living in nyce as a little girl watching SATC!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 04:52 AM
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I'd bet it's fights that start when he asks why he has to pay for everything, while she uses her paycheck as play money. If he pushes, then she'll pretend they live off his money and hers is "for emergencies" or "saving for retirement". In reality she burns through it buying frivolous, fashionable, but nearly disposable garbage she forgets about in a year. In her head, she likes having her money separate in case she wants to bail, no loss in the divorce.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 03:58 AM
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Yeah, but while it lasts, she gets to show it off to all her friends and rub it in their smug, bitchy faces. "You see this man? Check this beefcake out, Vah-Jessica!!! Remember how you hooked up with my dad on spring break? well look at your nerdy, husky-boy beta bitch and look at my sculpted, jealousy-inducing cock steed!" When they find a hawtie they seem to front-load the relationship with copious selfie-taking, photography, and recording, just to make sure his presence is documented.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 02:48 AM
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The democrat-aligned populace lost it's sense of humor. They used to be the rebellious, anticorporate group, but now that's just not palatable so no one risks offense with a joke. Even if you love the party, the guy's a jackass, just like he was the last what, five decades in politics? Politician since the 70's, in many ways responsible for the shit situations we're in now. He's hilariously old, spongebrained, inattentive, and (possibly) diapered. It's a testament to just how shallow their "like…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 02:39 AM
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The dude lucked out. Had he lost it just a little bit later, he could've been married already, and be stuck in that riptide trying to get what he could from the jaws of the beast system.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 02:06 AM
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Yeah, given the very low level of tech saviness, I'd bet a bunch of the waddling horde type the initials into the search box every day to find their sub again. Knowing they have the horde of angry do-gooders only a whisper away really emboldens them to start a crusade if they hear something just a shade too spicy. ☞☜💣✌☹☜ ♎♋⧫♓■♑ ⬧⧫❒♋⧫♏♑⮹ Hmm....wingdings don't look as cool as I remember them. Eh, it was probably a dumb idea, y'all do a great job modding anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 01:44 AM
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A lot of the reason I hang around here (well at least this burner) is to farm good exhibits to explain how and why I live the way I do. I looked real hard for a good wife for a long time, and finally got so sick of wading through the debris I no longer felt guilty about laying back and enjoying life unhitched. Being able to say "your honor, here's exhibit A, labeled 'A good, conservative, traditional girl'. Exhibit B is the pastor's daughter, angrily whining that the boy she met at church found …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 01:36 AM
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"Yeah but the cow is really social, it has so many friends, you'll never be lacking for conversation or dinner partners!" That was literally the response when I asked what someone had to offer, when she brings a hugely expensive stack of debt, bills, and medical issues to the table. I think the worst part is the calves, in that you're bankrolling them while they abuse you and continually burn through your money. You spend all your time either fixing stuff, maintaining the house, or constantly wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 01:29 AM
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Have there been more passers-by coming around lately? Seems like they pop up a little more frequently, I'm wondering if we need to start encoding stuff. I love this sub, it gives me so much fodder to show the current state of the dating industry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 09:11 PM
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I kinda bet some are time-shifted accounts of dudes they dated in younger, leaner times. What's the diff? Dating today, twenty years ago, they were dating the same person, what's a bit of chronology matter?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 09:09 PM
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I doubt they will. Admitting their faults is much harder than blaming their male cohort and jabbering about "destigmatizing", "normalizing", and demanding bailouts. We may see some low level gov interventions like the dating assistance in Eastern countries, but it's a hard pill to swallow and it's not worth even acknowledging it in the open. I think a lot of the reason {pilla roja} content is suppressed is due to the innate rage it causes through knee-jerk reactions. Touching that reverse scale …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 09:08 PM
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My family's mandate for wives we bring home always placed kindness/selflessness at the top of the checklist. She can have a lot of faults and issues, but she can't be self-centered. Narcissistic pleasure-addicts make for terrible mothers. It astounded me how rare kindness is in adulthood. I thought all those sweethearts i knew would never change, but.....here we are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 09:03 PM
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Woah, there, mister inkel! Speak for yourself! I love myself a robust, thiccly full-bodied queen with loads of experience! It's so attractive to know that she's had hundreds of thousands of miles of travel, life, feeling, fighting, partying, and loving under her belt before begrudgingly accepting me as a sort of retirement plan. I want to be like a rest home for horses after they can no longer compete in racing, so I can feed, house, insure, and serve them as they bite and kick me for not being …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 09:00 PM
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There's almost an instinctive hate for it, this kind of disgust that someone would reach above their natural, assigned station and become something by their own effort. Women tend to be very hierarchical, so maybe it feels like blasphemy to have a duck thumb its nose at the rankings and turn itself into a swan. Well you can have fun with that, just say you're "normalizing aesthetic procedures" when asking people about their modifications, especially if they likely had nothing. If someone's a lit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 08:56 PM
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I love love love that Tomi rant. It's so perfect to just pass on and encapsulate the attitude you get with "a good conservative woman". Sorry gramps, just because you snagged a cutie pie at xmas mass in 1974 doesn't mean "they're out there, you just gotta keep looking! That's how I got my wife!" Even better when it's kinda thought that she cheated on her Navy seal congressman fiancé with a country music fella who didn't want her for anything more than a rental.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 08:49 PM
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Especially if she's unacquainted with echo chambers with different themes from what she's used to. It'd be expected to get some hatemail if you go out jabbering on about the "obvious" truths of the FLAT DOMED EARFF or that the age of consent needs to be abolished. They're strong stances that aren't commonly held by everyone, and nothing bugs people more in forums than someone who's not just wrong, but arrogantly wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 04:02 PM
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This is why we need to promote ab fetishes instead of big butts and implantable squish. You can't fake your way to abs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 05:14 PM
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Yeah, but once a year you may get a t shirt or mug that says "I may not be the father, but I'm the dad who StEpPED Up!!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 05:13 PM
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Good heavens yes. I'm so sick of people hemming and hawing about doublethink and hypocracy. No one gives a shit, they don't care about what's right, only what feels right. You'll never get the same answer twice from them unless it's a situation that directly, actually impacts them or someone in their circle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 05:12 PM
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Yup, all that talk about suffering building character was right. You hate it in the moment, but no strength comes for free. All my lowest points in life are treasures now, even though I wouldn't jump at the chance to live 'em again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 05:09 PM
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Well, pay attention as you age. Seems like everyone notices the ratio of normal people to "that weird kid in class" is decreasing. They used to be a small portion, now they're a sizeable fraction. Granted, there's a lot in socialization, interpersonal communication, and the like that can turn kids into stunted, awkward types, but I don't need to see someone's dx to know I don't wanna talk to them any more than I have to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 04:56 PM
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It's like demanding a good career, but only accepting brainstorming ideas that don't involve school or training. Oh, and make sure the job itself doesn't have a difficult, junior period with long hours, low pay, zero seniority, and life-dominating stress. Then again, those types always talk about how easy it should be because "so many billionaires dropped out of college, or never even went to school!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 07:09 PM
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Well, I don't see a lot of them giving real, kind, empathetic advice. Happy, fulfilled women aren't all that outgoing or selfless... at least not to the point where they would willingly sacrifice their free time to assist strangers to attain what they have. The women in my life, if happy and fulfilled, can be absolutely selfless and wonderfully enthusiastic about making other people's lives better, but such attentions are limited to a circle of those connected to them directly in some way, like …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 07:04 PM
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It's very fun to talk about those fantasies though, with the activist crowd. When they talk about upending all power structures, they seem to think they'll be the most vicious wolves in the forest. They think they'll be able to sweet talk the other predators into joining their junta as subordinates to help propel their career as a right-think commisar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 07:00 PM
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I had a coworker who argued about that a lot. She thought all society was the result of a Nerv cabal of evangelion dudes directing the world. I remember one lunchtime chat: "Well I believe in evolution, like, if you don't you're just a religious cheetoh voter like (coworker)" "Well me too, but evolution isn't restricted to biology. It would stand to reason that a lot of the elements of traditional culture are the result of a long line of adaptation to optimize societal stability and comfort." "N…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 06:59 PM
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Huh? "Healthy" pregnancy isn't so much the instant maternal mortality rate through childbirth, most of the time it's referencing the outcome for the baby. People always skate by when everything seems fine at first. As long as the baby is breathing, crying, and doesn't have tentacles or fish skin they brag about it. "Oh, well my sister was 44 and her baby is perfectly fine!" All the technology in the world now can't pin down a lot of defects until they're expressed through symptoms or behaviors. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 06:52 PM
7

Yeah, my only beef with him is that attitude of "well, a high value man doesn't fear divorce, because he's wealthy enough that getting wiped out in court and enslaved by twenty years of child support+alimony doesn't hurt him."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 12:33 AM
13

"I dunno, I just feel like you're not open about what you're feeling, like what emotion you feel in the moment. Let me in!" "....is derision an emotion? I've got a lot'ta that."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 11:21 PM
36

well, they've got a point. The male incels got booted, why not the female ones?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 11:19 PM
10

I once went out with a "Ew no guns, they shouldn't be allowed anywhere but in the hands of soldiers overseas" who, upon seeing rack mounted M1 garand, asked me if she could hold it and point it at my head "just to see what it's like to almost kill someone". I never pursued any contact after that....then again, one of my longer term GF's also had a thing for cutting and wanted to integrate knives into playtime. Whenever I'd get a cool pocketknife or edc blade she would want to hold it and put it …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 11:17 PM
3

For what it's worth, I've been using it as much as I can. It's terribly accurate, and it seems to convey the same shame that they think men feel when called an 'Inkel".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 07:24 PM
8

I literally had a girl tell me "well if our society wasn't so stuck in patriarchy, men would be taught to value what really matters in a woman-her experience!" I asked for specific examples of how that would help make a man's life better or happier, and she just sputtered about until she said "Well we're a lot better in bed!" "Experience" seems to be code for barely-concealed wrath and hatred for anything similar to the train of would-be hubbies that passed her by.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 06:41 PM
5

Well congrats! You're essentailly a middle of the pack man, in the dating market (as long as you're in shape and don't have your kids around most of the time, otherwise, sorry! Lower tier) Gosh, this is just so detached from reality I almost wonder if it's a larp. Who's going to buy a widget factory if they destroyed all the machinery and tooling? It's like investing in a museum no one wants to visit. Older guys are the only ones who have any likelihood of buying. At least they don't care about …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 06:32 PM
31

Well pre-tinder it would happen sometimes, but not too regularly. now that they're spoiled for choice, you'll never see it come back, since any time a crush isn't returned, she's only a swipe away from "upgrading". it's kinda nice, actually. It's really, really uncomfortable to be friendly to someone who thinks it's a relationship invitation, then when you turn it down you're the worst guy on earth for having the gall to pass up an opportunity. I had a girl on my bus route in HS who had a crush …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 03:02 PM
40

The guy so based, it reverberates through time
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 02:58 PM
2

For real, one of my "quality wife" items is that she's worked in a customer service/retail job at some point in her life. Teaches you so much about how people are treated. I used to roll my eyes at a GF who always, always tipped ridiculous sums even when the service was awful, like 40-60%, just because she sympathized with how rough they have it with people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 08:38 PM
2

If you go through the effort of finding a good one, they can be good, but that's a big ask. In order to know if they're a good therapist, you have to set out measurable, actionable goals to find in a provider. Then you have to sample a bunch, which may not be allowed depending on who's paying. People get real huffy when you insinuate anything negative about it, but they're really just modern priests/pastors for the modern church of pop culture. Some good, most mediocre, and some downright awful.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 08:35 PM
4

Kinda. Too often it's just a result of fickle, shallow attraction to people, or attempts to induce jealousy. We had one girl come in and try to date one of the boys, who was already taken. She ended up asking his friend out, hoping to "show him what he's missing out on". She ended up hooking up with the dude until he (stupidly) sent the sex tape they made to a friend who (of course) leaked it, and it just spun out of control. By the end I don't think any of them made up, all the guys just went s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 08:31 PM
17

You won't feel guilty when you see how they treat it when they fleece a guy. Like that grift where she asks for his phone to input her number, then opens his apps and sends herself his funding. They'll all laugh at the gullible, horny fool and cackle about how she's finally getting even and "makin' that paper". The ol' "Reverse Grift" is one of the funnest ways to mess with scammers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 11:22 PM
12

Does anyone take "controlling" seriously any more? It took me a while to realize I couldn't possibly have statistically dated nothing but victims of abuse, controlling dudes, and battered underdogs one after the other. Like once: "He was uh...really financially abusive." "woah, did he leave you in a rural home, without a car or transport, and only ten dollars a week to live on? That's crazy, you don't see that level of controlling behavior that much in the states." "Well not like that exactly, b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 11:19 PM
3

But at first, "I love how he's so in touch with his sexuality, so laid back. He's just so easy to be around!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 11:11 PM
3

It definitely has a lot of that "astrology for men" stink on it. I had an employer use them to set up working groups, and it made the biggest difference in working quality and productivity (in his head at least). I'd be a lot of the dudes around here are INTJ, it seems like the result you get if you answer with an eye towards future conditions and changing outcomes. If you're the type to leave options open and try to maintain your hypothetical freedom, it's gonna be INTJ for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 11:10 PM
1

I know a lot of pilots that hate travel. When you're never home, being a homebody is a rare, beloved event! And it's funny to see flight attendants brag about their "travel lifestyle" when it's a series of drinking in hotel bars, banging tourists, and maybe hitting up a mall if you're in town for more than 12 hours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 11:04 PM
2

If you love your hobby, you gotta gatekeep it. Over time I learned to shoot down any hint of "Hey, this is awesome, I'm gonna bring my gf next time!" Too many fun outings ruined, we all know better. "Hey, got a cool plane to try out? Awesome, sounds like the boys are heading out to grab some ribs a few states away. Tell your wife you'll be back in a few days."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 11:00 PM
6

"I love warhammer, but it's sooooo bullshit that they don't even let there be women space marines, the whole thing just reeks of sexist assholes"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 10:57 PM
7

yeah yeah, but doesn't it look slimming!?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 10:56 PM
17

I can't believe guys still do this. After high school that whole dating round robin thing disappeared from my life. Too weird and messy treating everyone's squishy bits as a game of musical chairs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 10:04 PM
6

And children have the urge to bully to help knock outliers back into social conformity. In post-shame society, this is the worst thing ever, but a lot of us had some sense knocked into us once upon a time when someone cut through the fakeness and said "Hey man, quit doing that. It's retarded."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 08:40 PM
5

Gramps used to say he hated, loathed any type of therapist and psychologist because all too often, instead of addressing the issue of poor, spiritually damaging behavior, the "professional" would instead recommend doing away with anything that reminds you of a set of rules prohibiting it. It's come true more times than I'd prefer, judging from the ex's I've heard from. It's hard enough giving up vices and pleasures, even more when the trusted authority you're handing your life's car keys to is b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 08:23 PM
6

They complain that playboys, cocksman, and man whores don't get shamed, but that's more due to the fact that men don't innately take part of the "shaming economy". They don't spend mental effort trying to theorize other people's opinions of their actions, or continually politick their way to hold status in whatever tribe they're a part of. That's why it drives women crazy to see their accusations bounce right off a guy's forehead. "Ew, you're just a loser incel!" "Eh? Who cares?" "But, you- ARGH…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 08:16 PM
5

Porn induced erectile dysfunction is a wonderful, perfect scapegoat for the humiliation an obese woman feels when a main shows a lack of interest in her. Just mentioning it adds so many levels of shame and societal condemnation while insulting him on physical, intimate, and emotional levels, it just HAS to be their new go-to. Just like when they discovered "incel".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 10:26 PM
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I figure she thinks that men were compliant, obedient, and fawning over women throughout history because they were naturally horny. Now that they've been used enough to recognize most of this "dating" talk is just a cover for various scams and free shit expeditions, they don't bother. Plus the old guys bringing up porn, for whatever reason. Wouldn't be surprised if they're going there after having experiences with younger women via apps and being just as shocked at the open hypersexuality and po…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 07:40 PM
6

Guys are different though. They don't lose their minds if you're hanging out on a saturday and say "Ah, this is boring. I'm gonna bounce, see ya around." They also don't have that same attitude where you're supposed to be a provider, social energy engine, and court jester rolled into one. There's a feeling of reciprocal exchange, and I've never heard a dude tell me "You're lucky I even talk to you, do you know how popular I am?" You also aren't held hostage by being in a friendship with 'em afte…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 06:06 PM
6

Half the pressure, if not more, doesn't even fully exist in reality, though. It exists within their own minds. It's the projected, imagined, pressure of what she thinks her social circle puts on her, when most of the time they're too self-obsessed to pay all that much attention to her life anyway. I know it's a survival instinct, but the blame is always put outside in society for women, without accepting there are internal components that naturally arise for everyone. When men feel like a bum be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 06:00 PM
2

But since she'll measure based on the average size of her friends, she's just a little above normal weight!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 12:38 AM
2

Yeah but think about what's in it for you! People will pat you on the back on father's day and say "good job, you stepped up! That's why you're a stepdad!" and give you a t-shirt bragging about how you're the "real dad", who cares about biology?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 12:30 AM
3

Yeast-y? What do you call it when flora starts to coalesce within the folds?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 12:02 AM
3

But even then, they value stuff that most guys don't give a shit about. They need people around, sitting alone in silence affect them differently from the average guy. He's at peace alone, enjoying whatever activity he has. For her, it's torture. When I asked this I usually hear "My companionship! I'm great to just have around, and y'know, have conversation and stuff!!!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 05:35 PM
4

I can't believe how beautiful the Dress size question is. In one word, it cuts through the nonsense of couching measurements in BS, post 2000 American clothing sizes. (take out a sears catalog from the 70's to see how ridiculous ours are now, all to help feelings stay intact) Best of all, it mentions dresses, which appeal to that desire for wealth, fashion, glamour, upscale living, and money that most of these girls have. Just asking puts the seed in their head that you would need your companion…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 05:32 PM
6

Yup. "Celibate" only means "Men should treat me as if I were, and fully believe I was celibate." not "I am celibate". Magic spells, people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 05:29 PM
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Yup, it's an automatic placement in the top ten of her friends circle. And tall guys are more common than wealthy guys. I think there's a primal component, as height is innately masculine just by standing in place and existing. Men aren't allowed much masculine activity or behavior in society now in the higher value careers and environments, so in contrast to an increasingly feminine populace the manliness stands out even more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 05:27 PM
1

Well the idea is that it sours her on any further interest in you, so you don't have any more pressure from your friends trying to push you two together. If you shut it down firm, the guilting and needling will just continue, but if she scrunches her nose up at the mention of your name, you're home free!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 05:19 PM
2

Oof. It takes a bit for a lot of guys to work up that level of spine. Being three dates in and getting guilted into attending a multiday family reunion is a lesson I had to learn by hand until I could just say no.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 05:18 PM
4

Maybe it's the greatest version of "working with kids", the wonderful basement conversion into a preschool. That way you don't just get random kids wandering throughout your home breaking stuff, stealing things, and pissing on the furniture, but you have to spend your whole life in a permanently childproofed domain! On the upside, you will have those funny tiny desks and little chairs you can sit on when you drink too much. Always good for a laugh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 05:14 PM
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I can't stand thot travel though. "OMG I LOVE Miami Beach!!!" "Oh, any good spots there that you really love?" "Oh, so many: there's an awesome Shake Shack there, PF changs is just AMAZING, and the shopping is just insane. They have a Macy's, Sunglass hut, Apple Store, Gap, Anthropologie, and a whole perfume store just for fragrances.!!!! And there's a beach right there so you can get a TON of pictures when you change into a few new outfits!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 05:11 PM
2

I love me some good shelving. If I ever build a home, I think I'm just taking the Garagepill and building a giant six-car bay with industrial storage shelves everywhere.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 05:03 PM
3

The two biggest determinants in quality of life and capacity for happiness are choice in partner and career. I can settle in choice of car, living situation, gas quality, finance, and other smaller stuff, but just taking whatever life offers with a shrug leads to some pretty dark times. Seems like the people who say "Never settle" need to hear it less, and the ones that never say it need to apply it more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 05:01 PM
5

She's the stock, factory-setting GenX mom, reliving her youth through her kids. Bailed on the dad so she too can go on cute dates and travel. Gave her kids unlimited data plan iphones when they were 7, lets her middle schoolers "sleep over at a friend's house" during the school week, even texts the boys her daughters know with made up excuses (which always seem like flirting to me, but no one seems to care.) She never had any sons, just one girl after another and she had them with a cool, rebell…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 04:59 PM
2

Another exhibit for my mental folder initially marked "There's no way projection is a real thing, that's just so....stupid". It's freakish how much of their attraction to something is governed by their impression of what they imagine other women are attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:44 PM
5

Which is just more fuel for our laughter rocket. They constantly try to propagandize guys' tastes and only the weak-minded among them fall for cultural pressure like that. It's going to get so much more common, too, as they try to convince the millenial guys (after finally making their career/life quality good enough to be desirable) to accept all the post-carousel veterans. Part of that new Sup--St. movement kinda shows that no matter how hard the "tastemakers" push, guys definitely have a bott…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:42 PM
3

Or you could use those pop culture touchstones as a checklist to help give you stuff to do and look forward to. Maybe when I'm older it'll change, but I just don't think putting up with the bitterness and vindictive attitude of older dates will be worth it, just so they get my "recess" and "invader zim" references.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:33 PM
2

My mom shut down a thot like that I had brought over as a teen. She was headstrong, super cocky, and "proudly indypyndynt wymyn" or whatever. She was bragging about making her family's table, when she started talking dovetails and asking if she had some flush screw template tools she needed for her next project, it became apparent that it's just hot air. Ikea furniture is disposable, like when you get a job that you're only sticking with for two years, but you don't want to move everything. Just…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:29 PM
2

Depends on your use profile too. Some people are insanely hard on the stuff they own, especially with kids/teens/visitors. I have a buddy who buys the same stuff I do like computers, monitors, headphones, etc. and his always look super worn to the point of breakage within two years, where mine go a decade looking new. Some people just never learned how to take care of things, or treat them with some delicacy. Like opening a laptop to put less wear on the bezel and break it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:26 PM
1

yeah, that's a blink. I want my wood furniture to be evaluated by my great grandchildren.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:24 PM
1

That's a level, and fits for some people, but there are other ways too. We have furniture that we inherit over time, it's built so well. One of my presents as a kid was my grandfather's working desk from the 20's, still going strong today. Heirloom quality stuff is rare as hen's teeth today, which makes it all the more lovely, if your lifestyle is conducive to long-term emplacement. (It does tie you down though, which is why a home base for the core family is so luxurious. Being able to bail and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:23 PM
15

"buh buh buh this Rolls Royce cost $344,000 in 1984! How could it only be worth two grand today??!?!?!?!??!?!?!??!??!?!??!?!?!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:20 PM
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"Blending families" is like an understatement. It's closer to knocking down the walls between adjacent enclosures at the zoo. "Omg these fucking red pandas are soooooooooo dramatic. Like, they always blame the hyenas when their kits go missing, like, have you ever thought of how much stigma hyenas carry every day? We're all mammals in here, jeez, I thought y'all really wanted to give this enclosure a chance!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:13 PM
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The quickest way to shut down single mother dating is telling them you'll only ever consider joining her family if you are given absolute authority and power over discipline in the household. People try to be nice and assume she's telling the truth that she "wants a father for her children", but she'll always see the stepdad as an outside invader unjustly attacking her brood. Openly demanding the 'nuclear option' would be the only way to even hypothetically consider familial mergers, and everyon…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:11 PM
7

Oh boy, more single mothers. I can't wait to to find her kids rifling through my garage at 3 Am looking for shit to steal. Who cares about their wellbeing or quality of parentage? As long as she's sexually sated, THAT's all that matters in her family!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 07:02 PM
18

Back I literally just had to give a dressing down to a mid 40's, fat, freshly single mom to a pack of teens for treating her BF like trash. the dude can do so, so much better, but since he hasn't dated since before med school he still thinks he's that poor, scrawny nerd. It's hard to watch, the guy could be pulling much, much better but he's just stuck in this old way of thinking and he's setting himself up for absolute misery. If the spinsters can find someone who puts up with them, they have a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 11:32 PM
2

It's a useful bar to measure potential partners with. Way too often you end up leaving a date realizing you were nothing more than the battery that powered the cymbal-banging monkey while everyone else just sat by end enjoyed. I think it's a toastmasters thing where you map out your conversation partners when putting together seating arrangements, by +1 for energetic, extroverted people, 0 for neutral bystanders who soak up the good vibes while at most adding reaction like laughter. -1's are the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 08:26 PM
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Sadly.....she kinda is. Just the act of being under 130 pounds in america almost guarantees entry into hot girl status. Guys are so unaccustomed to seeing in-shape chicks in certain circles they'll just lose all sense of evaluation and measurement. That's why no one calls anyone a 6 in their dating pools, even though the majority of them are 6-7 at best. This is the exact girl that would show up to a party with a formerly nerdy but now wealthy friend who never had much luck with women. When you …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 04:32 PM
2

BOYS BOYS BOYS BOYS BOYS!!!!!!!!!!!!! Is this one of those wonderful STEM girls we keep getting told to find? Are they real? Wow, who knew, we can talk engineering all the time! How fun, it's certainly not a lie to sound erudite and sophisticated, when in reality only the bare minimum for coursework is done and immediately shelved in favor of more social media and netflix. And once again, anyone who needs to call themselves anything, is almost never actually that thing. Maybe in a past decade, s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 04:28 PM
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Wasn't there some "over 30" dating blurb here this week where she muses about how one of her main concerns is finding a guy that doesn't mind her intestinal problems after eating soft cheese while they fall asleep together? That just struck a chord with me about how to encapsulate this phase in a nutshell. They want to skip the lived experience that earns that comfort altogether. When my parents hit their fifties, it wasn't ridiculous to fart in front of each other, or pee with the door open, be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 04:19 PM
6

This writing style is so common now. It sounds like whoever puts this crap out into the world is so disinterested in what even they themselves have to say that they weren't paying attention seconds before. They don't give it a readthrough afterwords to see if it sounds like a human, either. It's like a spambot without any RAM. I like how the tables turn in life, where guys who want to learn something new or add to their resume suddenly have to deal with their time being eaten up by ladies with l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 03:25 PM
1

Just met a dude paying at least $5k a month in unofficial, not court mandated alimony + a couple thousand extra for "child support". He's now dating to get married to a lady with a bunch of teenage kids, halfway across the country, that he met online. It's astounding how poor his decisions are. And he hasn't even gotten the court order yet.....imagine how bad it is when the ex can show a bunch of texts where he promises ~$10k/mo voluntarily!
/r/MGTOW09/03/21 08:58 PM
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I think guys want an easily understood, linear, immediately apparent goal/reward system. They innately want to accomplish things, fulfill tasks, and improve. Games tap into that, you feel like you're advancing and improving in something. If we had similar mechanisms in employment, like clear cause and effect, you'd see a lot harder work going in there. They talk up the idea of hard work, promotions, and career building, but anyone in the trenches understands it's all bunk, and only small, intima…
/r/MGTOW09/03/21 08:55 PM
4

They'll let you look, just to play around. There are telltales in different ranges of fakes, like the date window on an Omega being too sunk in and deeply set, or the lume not being the correct color. I got turned on to buying the super nice fakes/replicas after hanging with a collector for a while. After losing one of his nice IWC's, he ended up buying one of the $500 knock offs of his original just so he wouldn't stress about losing it in a hotel on the road again. The chinese middle class has…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 08:22 PM
8

A man who can wield silence in absolute peace is like a sorceror in business. Combined with a good poker face, they can get a lot for hardly any effort. I practiced before an interview and got a good chunk more than the other guys for it, because I had BS'd them that I wouldn't leave my current job unless they matched my pay, which was a comfy margin above the norm for the position. If you're getting them to make promises and compensation deals, I like taking notes and making sure they know they…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 08:18 PM
10

Isn't there some magic bullet insult for them? I thought mocking uppity, enlisted bossbitches by laughing at their non officer credentials really spun 'em up. They demand so much respect and admiration for rank, when it's rarely much more than a measure of politicking or diversity status. It just seems like this situation would be a great LolCow to milk with a "Oh sorry, I don't date enlisteds" (which, if said seriously on its own, would be insane outside of messing with someone. Brand-new offic…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 08:11 PM
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It was. One aspect of American culture that no one speaks about is the precipitous, near absolute decline in the quality and professionalism in everyday conduct. People used to be seen as uncouth and low class if they didn't follow the bare minimum of social etiquette, giving a certain emotional distance and respect to others in and out of the workplace. That's all gone now, replaced by slang, coarse language, and low-effort babble. It's not just the language, either, the days of people dressing…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 08:01 PM
5

People are just interminably stupid. I always heard the point of introducing your prospective spouse to friends and family was to have uninvolved, unemotional people vet your partner to give a solid opinion. Having outsiders who love your best interests is good when you're emotionally compromised.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 07:53 PM
6

We had a girl get those done a while back and it became the running joke to constantly ask her why she was so angry. She'd show up and we'd constantly go "Oh, why are you in such a bad mood?" I swear, 90% of fashion and style is just an echo chamber of girls imitating the kind of girls they think they'd fuck if they had a weiner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 07:51 PM
3

They really don't get how guys' interest is. The dudes see it like bidding on a car, where a chubby, not wealthy (but not bad) guy thinks of having like $28,000 to get a car with. That's a well optioned Civic or Corolla, but when he goes to put in a bid on something he thinks is a cheap fixer-upper, like a well-worn camry with hail damage and faded paint, he's shown the door. Turns out that salvage title thinks it's worth collectible Ferrari GTO money!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 07:49 PM
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"Don't worry, investing through buying lottery tickets is totally possible! Just keep looking and buy the right tickets and you'll be set for life!!!!" I don't entirely disagree, but to act like there's some secret club route where you will find wife material that's guaranteed to stick by you for life isn't something to count on unless you are willing to make serious compromises on what you ask for. Even if you find one that's not saddled with some pill/food/internet/drug addiction, you still ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 07:46 PM
1

Don't use any of this nonsense, but I think it could be handy if you could have a nice, intermittent text service to replicate a wife. If you're in certain jobs, being a bachelor can seriously hamper advancement and work. They see you as a liability without an anchor. Having this thing bug you ever hour or two with tiny flirtatious messages under "<3 Maddie <3" while your boss is hovering over your shoulder could net you some handy career momentum.
/r/MGTOW09/03/21 12:43 AM
5

It's going to be interesting watching the matchup between "based" greater Asian origin AI's versus "woke" hobbled western liberalist AI's. Especially when we see outfits hiring thought commisars specifically to watch for "wrongthink uh...wrongcalculate? What if we see headlines in 2070 about how "XX company found to use racist, Panphobic artificial intelligence through outsourcing Chinese subcontractors!"
/r/MGTOW09/03/21 12:40 AM
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That's a bit like pointing at the lifeboat on the titanic and saying "Jeez, who's wasting all that space just to carry another ship? We're already on a boat, y'know!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 12:12 AM
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Yeah, I know there was a good post floating around one of these subs talking about the smallest "atomic subunit" of society. In our current system it's almost certainly going to lead to people striving to build the easiest, most pleasurable life they can. I can't blame someone for not wanting responsibility, duty, and work. It's the same reason we like cheetohs and mcdonald's in the back of our brains... we still have that innate level of creaturehood within no matter how 'advanced' we think we …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/21 11:58 PM
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I wonder if the guy equivalents is buying a total wreck of a project car for cheap and telling himself that he'll be able to totally restore it for pennies. "Hey, I got this ferarri for only $5k, I'm gonna work on it on my off days and I'll have a sweet 1988 coupe to drive around!" Then every time you visit, you see his garage filled with parts and shit as he's constantly tracking down $600 switches and fuses from Italia while sketching out wiring diagrams until he finally gives up and sells it …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 06:06 PM
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You will as they get absorbed into the collectively stupid borg machine here. They'll take on more of their host culture and with it, all the same detriments. Right now they're a spot rarer because their families are intact, and likely have fully functional shaming apparatus to disincentivize single mommahood.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 06:03 PM
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They were never based, they just need to pay their $900/mo v6 camaro loan. All else is unimportant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 06:01 PM
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IIRC the idea is that if only the head of household votes, then the policy questions won't be about what will be most favorable to the conditions of individual pleasure, but instead about what is most stable and healthy to the family. We've got a weird mix right now, it pretends to put individual rights as paramount, but constantly jabbers on about their duty to society as a means to curtail them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 05:59 PM
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I really don't get why guys even risk it. Maybe I'm just way too risk-averse, but casual sex can't possibly worth the guillotine blade hanging over your head for the rest of your life. If you're very tight on opsec there's a chance, but still.... such hassle for an hour or two of squish? No thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 11:04 PM
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"Well duh, don't they have like, uh, that women's association lawyer thing, but for guys? Like if you can't pay, then then someone will have to give you a lawyer, I got a free one through some charity thing. Boys are jus' stupid, like, they don't even take advantage of all the free stuff that's out there for them like us girls do." -A somewhat paraphrased convo we had in college. Some people think there are systems of support mirrored from the female legal assistance panoply.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 11:02 PM
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For the attractive/very active portion of daters in this tinder era, it seems to be the norm that exclusivity is not to be expected or even brought up for the duration of the relationship. Too often you'll hear confused adults wondering why, after months of sex and dating, their pseudo partner was found to be mingling with others, or that they brought up the idea of reserving each other's attentions to themselves. I guess you aren't supposed to expect exclusivity until you're married? Or even th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 10:47 PM
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It makes more sense if you think about her approaching relationships like a job. Would you hate for someone to offer you their business card and a potential job offer while you're on the clock? Do we think of that as 'cheating' on our employer? Gotta keep those options open, there's always something (hypothetically) better on the next branch upwards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 10:35 PM
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It's funny to say, actually. If you're friendly enough with them, it's a fun joke. I used to BS with the nurses all the time, and when they turned a guy down or stated a lack of interest, accusing them with the classic "Oh come on, you're just too intimidated to date him, we all know it" is great. Even better if you collaborate with some others, so you have a pod all agree at once. Back when pranks were allowed, it was called joking. I guess now it's "gaslighting".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 10:31 PM
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I dated a girl like that for a brief time. I met her through church and she was very proud of her stripper dancing that was not at all sexual as she would constantly say. Seemed like a distinction I couldn't figure out, when pole dancing is removed from a club and performed without complete nudity. It struck me as a way for her to play in the normal girl's dating ecosystem while keeping up a pretense of down home churchy morality, or just for the ego boost of being a sexy pseudo stripper. We arg…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 10:28 PM
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Just a plate, or a rental. Like if you make a co-op garage with some friends, so you can have a motor pool of different cars/bikes to have on rotation. Variety is kinda fun. You don't have to be so attached, and freak out when you spot a new door ding that wasn't there before. Kinda sad that attachment is such a weakness now...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 10:21 PM
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All the social media posturing and party making always seems like a hedge to me. Maybe in the back of her mind she felt he didn't really wanna stick around for this, so she tried to make signboards and announce to the world his presence and commitment. In her mind, he thinks just like her, fearful of the condemnation of others, terrified of being ostracized for going back on his word and abandoning his family. He's not her, though, so it had zero effect on his actions in the end, anyway. All it …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 10:10 PM
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Slightly better, but if they didn't pull good stock off the shelf when they were younger, there's nothing more than just attempting over and over with the low-quality, aged flotsam they're stuck with. There's a lot of those types who just seem to exist solely to burn piles of money in the pursuit of vanity, but I guess someone's gotta pay the hospital.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 11:38 PM
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They never get it either. The best way to explain it so far is telling them "Imagine you're selling your phone on ebay, and when you open the auction, you see that 500 people are all bidding five bucks. Would you feel like that's an accurate assessment? why not, it's a very popular item, everyone wants it!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 11:15 PM
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A lot of it has to do with their lack of a straight shooting father figure throughout their life. They've literally spent their whole life in the political, backstabby, passively congratulatory female tribal framework. After decades where any doubt like "maybe guys would like me more if I got under 150 pounds" would be brushed off with "No way, you're perfect! Only weirdos like bony girls like that, don't EVER change for a man!!!" They now have this innate confusion somewhere in their mind, beca…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 10:35 PM
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It has a bit to do with it, their community is at the forefront in terms of societal shifts that will likely come down the pike for other demographics. They've almost standardized single motherhood, multiple baby daddies, and underemployment as the everyday norm in some areas. Those policies are starting to affect everyone else, even fresh immigrants to the culture. These ladies are a likeness of what everyone's gonna be looking at in twenty to forty years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 10:26 PM
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"What a great look! I LOVE the audacious cleavage going right up to the throat, who said it should be confined to the torso!?!" -No one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 10:21 PM
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Been a while since I heard anyone call 'em that. That's what the old guys in the family would use sometimes. They had all kinds of words just to playfully tease their wives, that would freak out my friends who didn't know what normal comaraderie sounds like.
/r/MGTOW04/03/21 10:00 PM
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When multi monitors were kinda weird, advanced tech (like 2005, not normal at all and you were stuck with DVI half the time) I had a geef bug me for a setup like mine. I used to think she was fuckin' with me all the time, because she'd lose the cursor and start smashing everything out of anger. Even with the giant-ass arrow, the whole layout of a stretched desktop seemed to confound everyone in her family if they used it. Weird people.
/r/MGTOW04/03/21 09:58 PM
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I just had a fight with a single mom complaining her teenage kids were mad at her....she's not even 1 year divorced and they found her making out with some guy on the couch. She could not figure out why, to her, they should just stop caring about their dad now that she can trade up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 08:14 PM
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Or worst case, just being in her kids' life entitles her to claim you accepted a paternal role. Congrats! You now effectively have the same child support burden that her squirt donor would have, had she the guts to go after him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 08:13 PM
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Everyone would be doing a bit better if the older folks would retire. I've been competing with hobbyist retirees for work for years now and it never ends. They'll time out of their original job and "just work for fun". Sucks, because they're much cheaper to insure on paper, even if they suck in reality. It's bizarre how stagnant everything is. We've had the same politicians my whole life, same management, same weird generation clogging everything up. I was so hopeful for a plague, it would've lo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 08:12 PM
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I've always asked friends and roommates about what they'd be willing to marry, and even the "Nah, no single momma's for me" crowd flips for the hypothetical widow. The problem is, most think the guy was something "taken too soon" like a marine, or cop, or rocket test pilot. They don't account for the dad getting shotgunned when his buyers find out the brick of cocaine he's selling was actually 1/4th wrapped around a chunk of play-doh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 07:54 PM
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I feel like it spits in the face of every ancestor that worked and suffered to give us a future. Like if you had to answer to someone hunting deer to feed his family during a lean winter in 924 A.D. you'd say "Well, I know your bloodline is going extinct, but for what it's worth, all my modern contemporaries tell me I'm doing a real nice thing for these kids! Doesn't that make up for it? I'm sacrificing your legacy so strangers give me good boy points!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 07:51 PM
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pretty sure there're many H.A.E.S indoctrinates who bought into the idea that your body shape has nothing to do with your innate health, and guys are dumb enough to buy into such nonsense. In her mind, just saying she's a gym goer will reprogram you from "she's real heavy....oh, but she says she goes to the gym. Oh, she probably just looks heinously unhealthy, that's a swipe right for sure! I wonder if she's free this weekend for a ride on my chartered jet to monaco?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 07:38 PM
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Too much risk for little value. At most, if you have mutual contacts, you could mention in passing why you're ghosting, if you know it will get back to her. Even then that'd be reserved for someone who was particularly mean or nasty back then.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 07:35 PM
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It's a non-starter for me. I won't go into someone else's nest. I can't totally describe it, it just doesn't fit me. Like if you aren't the type of person to do karaoke, y'know? I wouldn't be myself if I just passively moved my life, my environment, and my belongings under the mental yoke of another family, forever a guest in their home. In older ages, combining homes is like taking down a wall in the zoo's enclosures. It's silly to think you can just combine the polar bear exhibit with the griz…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 07:25 PM
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True tomboys need abs. If I can't use her bellybutton as a shot glass, it's not tomboy-flavored.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 07:17 PM
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For real, this has really hampered my belief in a happy ending in marriage today. No matter how perfect your relationship is, your wife will be subjected to a culture of acid and saltwater constantly, incessantly, corroding and rusting away at it. It's not enough to have a parade of males knocking the door, but her female circle-formerly the center of support and love- is now trying to sabotage her as well. There's no longer that nagging fear in the back of her head of being shunned as a spinste…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 06:56 PM
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It's like any other major vice and addiction. Like, if I were thinking about marrying someone and I found out she had been a major drug user for nearly ten years straight. Would I worry about one particular thing, like her pawning off all my stuff to refill her stash? What about staying high throughout pregnancy and gestating some goblin creature because sobriety is too tough? Maybe just garden variety laziness, where she spends 14 hours a day sleeping on the couch as the kids marinate in filth …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/21 06:42 PM
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The other day I offended some girls by saying I'm not gonna date any more college grads, after enough experience I can safely say any college degree is not going to increase the quality of the relationship. They could not understand it at all, aghast at the concept of just marrying "some bitch who works at wendy's". O'neil had it right, I'd happily take a hard worker out of the dumpster she's scrubbing out, she's a hundred times better than the know-all, understand nothing academics out there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/21 06:19 PM
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She CHUNKY. The 36 Yo probably didn't find her all that attractive, but youth can make up for quite a bit, and he told himself he'd get her into healthy eating and exercise. Just a bunch of guesses. Girls who are only called "sexy" are usually getting fake compliments trying to play off why being shaped like appliances is "curvy" and sexy. "Only dogs like bones, mmmmmhhhhhhmmmmmm!!!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/21 06:14 PM
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.......I think I've heard some whales are majestic. Whale sharks, even. They're quite the sweethearts, though. Different thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 09:12 PM
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Even the informal college studies you see bounce around here and there pretty much prove the pareto principle to a T. The great majority of girls on campus are sexually active, whereas only ten to twenty percent of the guys are. 80/20 is one of those things you don't stop seeing once you notice it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 09:09 PM
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My grandpa was superbly based on that. He used to tell me "Get yourself a wife early, if you're gonna get 'em. It's like raising a puppy, or planting a tree. If you get an older one, it's set in its ways and it'll make your life hell if it doesn't want to follow yeh. You gotta find a good one, with a kind heart, a sweet soul, and a nice rack! Then, you can train her while she's malleable." I wouldn't totally disagree, but I had that ridiculous thought that I could find one who wasn't essentially…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 02:30 AM
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For sure. For her, wrestling with the alpha is titillating fun, but she needs a guy who's beta enough to go spend spring break with her family, too. An "alpha" would say "no, I'm not hanging out with those dildos." and leave her high and dry, looking to her social circle like a girl who isn't desireable enough to get a man. For certain events and engagements, she needs a guy on her arm to play the status game with her friends. Her hot sex buddy won't matter too much if she's the single girl alon…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 02:21 AM
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It's a flag for similarly programmed humanoids, it's like popping smoke over a target for the artillery. Once they see that trigger word, sympathizers will immediately bring their attention to bear on their side of the conversation without evaluation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 02:13 AM
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It blew me away how my good church girls I'd date thinking I wouldn't be afraid to bring them around the home were like that. I think for the "good" girls, it gives them a way to enjoy sexual activity without the guilt. If you're the aggressor, she can have fun by being entirely passive and say she's still perfectly clean and virginal. As a bonus, she also has you over a barrel should she ever choose to destroy you. "But officer, we weren't really doing anything wrong, it was just kinky lovin'!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 02:11 AM
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Totally agree. it's real irritating when you seem to be the only one who picks up on the red flags. It drives me up a wall when someone says "I like him, he's a great guy" when you just know you're gonna be getting fleeced.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 02:00 AM
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Great answer. It's a topic we all seem to understand in the back of our heads, but no one can bring it up without getting castigated by whatever do-gooder division the company has. Honestly I keep feeling like we're just living in the giant corpse of a once-great creature. It's as if there was a peak that we don't notice because we're too small to appreciate the size of the curve. We have so many old, outdated, legacy systems that are still chugging along on the frontline, faithfully running dec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 01:53 AM
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Yeah, Sorry if I came off a little brusque, I feel the same. Guys would honestly lose their minds if they had a true, ideal waifu heart and soul in a woman, no matter what her exterior is. Someone selfless, loving, kind, who genuinely loves home building and having a happy nest for everyone to operate out of.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 01:21 AM
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It's interesting hearing about how your industry is going these days. They're getting a huge influx of wokeism, and losing out on innovation as they keep imitating whatever other flavor of the month is working for someone else. It's going to be fascinating to see how things start falling apart when guys like you leave, having in some cases built your job and the systems from the ground up. Like the telephonics area is losing old hands that take a huge body of knowledge with them, with new employ…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 09:10 PM
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A lot of the time, guys are wrapped up in that logical, dating=buying power thought process. A guy who sees himself as a 4 or five, i.e. kinda short, dumpy, not well off, unmotivated to work hard, content for an average life, type. He'll go for what he thinks is his market parity, like a husky gal. He'll assume she has a lack of interest from the market because she lacks desireability in comparison to her competition (which is super untrue, because she has inboxes full of guys thinking the same.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 08:02 PM
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Kinda, but I disagree. Obesity points to a severe lack of self-control, and that will manifest itself in other areas throughout life. i don't wanna get used to coming home from work only to find a full sink, yesterday's leftovers fermenting on the countertop, and an unchanged baby. That lack of discipline bleeds over everywhere, to the point where if it was JUST fatness, it'd be okay, but that's a rare condition. I wouldn't blame her for passing up a drug addict, no matter how apparently well to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 07:54 PM
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A lovely example of why sending kids off to live on-campus is dangerous, without a solid resistance to peer pressure. Easy to get pulled into this kind of nonsense. Quality dudes don't keep company with anyone in these things. Parties? Drugs? Nope, they have an aversion to all of that because they know the kinds of risks it brings. Just being in this environment gives way too many opportunities to get your career ruined, from drugs present, to someone's dumb underage sibling being arrested while…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 07:32 PM
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They're trying to keep guys from running away. Smart fellas realize the only thing keeping them out of jail for banging a 16 year old who faked her Facebook acct and started swiping tinder is themselves filtering out anyone who looks young. Yes, supposedly that's a thing. I've yet to see it firsthand, but it's one of those "OMG kristen's so cool, she's dating this sophmore....in college!!!!" type of thing for younger girls in HS. It's easy to just make accounts at an older age, I guess, and she …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 07:15 PM
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Maybe now, but for a time in the right conservative environment you'd see a fresh faced young MD intern falling for the young, 19yo, cute CNA. Then again, that was back when virgins existed, and people went to church when they left the house, so it 's basically imaginary now. It used to be commonly taught by the families that girls should headhunt themselves a good hubby by putting themselves in close proximity to high quality men, which is why you'd have silly degrees in some religious colleges…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 07:08 PM
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I see a lot of sift in it. They're in demand everywhere, so the good ones tend to GTFO real quick if their team isn't conducive to quality work and comfort, leaving the washed up refuse clumping together wherever they meet the least resistance. Just like any other job, the average crappy worker is worth about 0.6X what they're paid, and the good ones 2X.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 07:04 PM
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As bad as CNA's are, Nurses have their own set of irritations. If you sister isn't that long into the career, the morph hasn't started yet. When people shit talk nurses it's the old, waiting for retirement, "I been doin' this shit for thirty years" type. They're obese, having spent decades sitting in their little hutch, sitting behind their 13" Dell xp arguing with her 3rd kids' dad about custody times, cutouts of calvin klein models taped to the underside of the counter and edge of her monitor.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 07:03 PM
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I hate current Billy, but I'll tell you what- his post-divorce work will blow your mind. He just has to come to terms with the fact "his kid" isn't his, but that takes a while to digest, and his latched on lady will clean him out pretty bad.
/r/MGTOW28/02/21 01:20 AM
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There should be a mileage conversion for pre-tinder and post tinder dating. i think a year of Tinder dating for a girl is about equal to a month of hard partying college lifestyle for the lot of them. By the time you date a graduate at 26, or whatever they take to finish their 6-7 year bachelor degree, you're almost dating someone who basically spend a lifetime of emotional and spiritual abandonment, hedonism, and damage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 01:03 AM
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I know, ain't it exciting? The future looks insane!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 01:00 AM
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Are you saying Teen Vogue lied to her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 12:58 AM
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Well of course it's easy for you, her kids are abusers too! They always brutally force her to do harsh labor like "Mommy wan' mac-cheese". They don't care about her slaving away, adding water to that easy mac bowl, they don't care at all about how much it hurts her to help them tie their shoes, when those abrasive laces cut right through her skin. Hardest job on earth, she has.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 12:58 AM
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My bet is that the companies got real sick of post-nut clarity leading married guys to run a quick chargeback all the time. They're already in the "high risk" processor categories, being the biggest fish in the pond likely caused too much of a headache to be worth it. Saying it's "OMG we gotta save the kids!" is a face saver, lets them cater to their bottom line while reaping points as good guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/21 09:33 PM
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Cool, if that's your way of living then it's just a lot more lasseiz-faire than the rest of us. I judge people by their actions, not their character or personality, since those are easy to fake. It's easy to talk, but a lot harder to walk. Meeting a conman who can smoothly talk you up and give off the impression of being a wonderful, caring person means fuck-all if he ends up leaving you holding a $100k bag when he walks away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/21 09:31 PM
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we tend to follow the "no snitching" rule unless someone starts making fun of everyone poorer than them, or if they push the ideology wherein government takes more of our money to give them more services. I've never met a single woman who had a private income stream that paid any taxes whatsoever. (And only a few men, mostly young guys) I'd start thinking about the IRS snitch bonus if she brags about how much money she saves by skipping out on uncle sam's 30%, or if she starts telling me I need …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/21 09:26 PM
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Always weird to see these old people go through one BF/Hubby after another because they can't just function alone, even at the end of their lives.
/r/MGTOW27/02/21 12:40 AM
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The scariest, most terrifying part is just the mere existence of her kids. No matter what maneuver you play, all it takes is "OMG he's an asshole, he totally didn't dump me, I uh.... I dumped him because he's creepy! That's it! He was creepy to my kids, like he gave them his playstation, and he would like ask if they wanted to go out when it would've been a date with just me and him at the zoo, like, he's totally a pervert, that's why I definitely got rid of him." It's so easy to absolutely nuke…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 07:51 PM
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"Sorry, I can't keep having these conversations, my therapist says I'm giving away too much free emotional labor to you, and I have to focus on me." If only, it would be an interesting reversal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 12:49 AM
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You guys have our condolences. It's a bummer seeing how subverted and used your country is becoming. Don't worry, the rest of us will be joining in the misery soon enough! Stay strong, Swedish brother!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 12:48 AM
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They're only slightly better in some cases because, before giving in to every whim and impulse like their younger cohort, they have a little mental check to think about how she'll be judged for it, how her friends, neighbors, and family will think about her, and if it affects her status. At least the shame mitigated some of this lunacy, but that's gone now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 12:46 AM
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It's always fun to say "At least flush the toilet!" whenever one is in frame, no matter what you can see in it. It's like the seinfeld ep with the nipple, even if they can't see it it'll drive them crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 12:43 AM
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There aren't that many out there, really. At best, they have a weird hobby or intense love of some kind of useful subject, like the stock market, and they can help you out with that. I know of one kid who loved legos and car stuff, at 13 he used his pocket money to do a tear down on a GTI. He was super neat and organized, tore the motor down and everything, and he became their family mechanic. A little odd, but he's great at working machinery. That's amazing, being able to hang out on a friday w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 12:42 AM
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It's too bad there aren't any great foreign powers with systems of allegiance ripe for the shakeup. We sure do have a surplus of cannon fodder these days.... myself included.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 12:36 AM
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All my adopted friends redpilled me pretty hard on the whole thing. Even when being tossed into a rich household as an infant, they still played that "Fuck you TOM, you aren't my real dad!!!" card and ruined their lives. Nature v nuture, yadda yadda, but I came to think nature plays a hell of a lot more into us than we want to believe. For her? Cool, although I suspect it wouldn't really fix her life at all, if anything, any kid who finds success will end up being leeched off of too. "Well we ca…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 12:35 AM
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We can't have the luxury of logic and sanity anymore, as older generations die off and become replaced by increasingly self-centered, largely amoral demographics, stuff like this will be increasingly common. Like it or not, a lot of humanity only behaves itself in accord with a moral code when forced to, whether it's fear of being ostracized, or imprisoned, or shamed. Now that no one is allowed to condemn any action, people will take whatever path instinctively feels good to them, regardless of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 11:01 PM
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Or just get into bots/dolls/tech whatever. Seems like so much hassle when you count the liability too.
/r/MGTOW25/02/21 03:13 AM
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Given the attitudes in academia and culture, we're probably not going to see any more research from the western nations on these. Maybe China will take it up, whatever that's worth. No one wants to lose their career to the walking 'light army.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 08:05 PM
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If this were a guy writing this he'd be getting blasted for being an incellic, porn addicted weirdo who needs to fix himself before feeling entitled to beauty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 07:56 PM
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"Ever since I gave up my 15 year heroin habit, I just have the toughest time feeling true happiness inside. Everything's just kinda bland now that I'm sober. Surely I haven't screwed up my body and soul to the point where all emotional stimulus is bland, right? I definitely won't fall down the rabbit hole seeking more and more extreme experiences in an effort to feel anything at all......."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 07:42 PM
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I forced my parents to come to my college once just to have a look around. They hadn't believed me when I said pickings are slim, thinking of their experience and how fertile the grounds were. They were horrified. Everywhere they looked they just stared aghast.What would have been a 6-7 in the 90's is now 9-10 because no one has an accurate bar to measure against.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 07:38 PM
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IN asia, at least. I don't know if I can count these college-going types as old-fashioned and trad. If she's so traditional, why does she wanna start off newlywed life with a couple dozen grand in outstanding loan debt for a degree she'll never use? They are somewhat feminine, but it's a different version that's not exactly a 1:1 transfer from what western cultures call femininity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 07:36 PM
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You're thinking in old-school, logical and rational, outdated terms. Politics is about appearances, playing to fringe voices in charge of media and pop culture trends, and the whims of interlinked, unaccountable NGO's seeking to alter society to their vision. Bachelor taxes will theoretically raise money for entitlements off the only group of taxpayers that really provide worth a damn, while dissuading them from the single life so they pick up a mommy to force their lifestyle towards the conform…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 07:11 PM
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If that still confuses a reader, think in terms of evolutionary comfort. It'd be like beating someone at arm wrestling or boxing, you have a trophy to point to and think "Yeah, I'm gonna make it in this harsh world, look at what I can do."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 05:51 PM
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She disappeared after a while, supposedly chose classes at another campus or something later on. She lucked out when the teachers and admins made a push to "not harass" women, which led to everyone just ignoring them and leaving a wide berth. The lack of attention seemed to get to her a lot more than anything else, though it was fun asking what her fave breed of dog was.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 12:30 AM
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I've seen multiple NP-caused deaths, and one PA-induced. Theoretically they're competent, but like the doctors above them they're little more than meat-based rubric software, only capable of regurgitating what their dell computer tells them to. When you have people start sniffing around trying to find out why mr x just dropped dead, looking for people to blame, everyone's real quiet. But once they go away, it's right back to "OMG I'm smarter than any doctor because I have street smarts from bein…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 09:52 PM
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They instinctively did where it counted....their kids, (though arguably that's because they identify them as an extension of themselves). Thankfully all this advanced, progressive pop culture has cured them of that illness. They're free! Now they can spend decades in a little cubicle, shifting paper for JP morgan. That's true fulfillment!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 09:47 PM
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An early lesson for me was "An honest, upright man is a wolf among sheep". If you have nothing to hide, you're strong, and you wear your standards openly while living by them, you don't have to play the same politicking games others do. You can just straight up say "No thanks, I don't like being around you, sorry." or just walk away. The first time I saw it happen it was like seeing a wizard at work. The dude was at a big business meeting and he just told this guy he didn't like him and disagree…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 09:45 PM
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Guarantee they'll change that phraseology as more hit that seawall face first. "After more scientific articles, advances in medicine have vastly increased chances of successful pregnancy well into their fifties!" the headlines will read. (While they conveniently ignore the abysmal QOL for those born with multiple issues, defects, and illnesses as completely unrelated, or at best, the father's fault for aged sperm)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 09:40 PM
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I'd prefer Weimar, at least they weren't sanctimoniously arrogant about how much better they were than you for their high minded, super advanced ideology.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 09:39 PM
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"oooooh no, what're they gonna do, vote for someone else who will do the same? Good luck getting a guillotine through miles of guards and fencing, dumbass plebian trash!" -Your local congressman outside of election year.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 09:37 PM
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Knew a girl who did that, when she came back she bragged that she got a bunch of money to model....in dubai. Didn't take long for people to ask the Saudi students for some help digging back home, and next thing you know the secret got out. Dunno why those guys pay so much for chunky blonde gals though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 09:07 PM
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"I'm the cool mom!" is gross. She's the type who tries to get the numbers of boys her daughters hang out with, treating their teenage years like a new game + for herself. She'll flirtingly text 15yo dudes with flimsy excuses like "Oh did you know KeighBrittaknay's bday is coming up in eight months? Have you thought about what present to get? We can go shopping together lol jk but if u wanna hmu" Yet when you tell them you won't let them crash the hot tub party and pretend they're the chaperone (…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 08:18 PM
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Why does a "she" having said this get pity and sympathy, when the opposite would be told to man the fuck up, hit the gym, and build a good career to become someone worth wanting? Even if it'd be right, it's just more of that duplicitous societal conditioning that says half the population are nobility, and the other half can only hope to be good slaves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 08:14 PM
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"But they seem so nice!" is peak naivité. It's like thinking someone's healthy because they weigh less than 500 lbs. Literally the easiest thing to do, fake it to seem nice for a full minute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 08:12 PM
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Labels have kind of lost their sting, as you come to notice how low-quality the people trying to apply them to you are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/21 06:26 PM
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What if I told you that's actually a sophisticated fat suit filled with cash and gold kruggerrands? Hmm? Does that sweeten the deal?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/21 06:14 PM
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It's just so funny to see these ladies drop out of their practice two years into Dr-hood, leaving some chump to pay off both their loans and med school debt (since they likely met there). All that work, all that waste, all to be able to brag to her friends at brunch "I'm a lot more than just a housewife! I'm a doctor too!".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/21 06:12 PM
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I've tried to explain that there's momentum in society. Much like gen x'ers, were raised religious, so they have some measure of restraint towards sex and drugs, but their kids never got it. They're astounded that the younger ones are more extreme than them, thinking that innate guilt keeping them from the outer bounds of acceptable behavior isn't universal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 10:18 PM
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That's insane, and immensely dangerous if they're opposite gender. You can't be the slightest bit nice without hearing "creepy Stepdad" jokes, and you can't keep their behavior in line while you're financially responsible for whatever damage they do. Buy them a car, insure it, and then pay for the property damage when they're high and wipe out some trees on a rich guy's lawn. Boys are slightly less bad, in that you don't have a minefield to worry about as much, but they can be even harder to kee…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 09:51 PM
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Thank you for kinda keeping it light. If we have too many guys saying "oh, kids? Gross" and ghosting then they'll get wise and start hiding it even better. It's already hard enough playing a super sex-positive redditor so you can find out a rough body count estimate before getting too involved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 09:33 PM
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maybe the dates, but usually she'll think you're on her reserve list, so she won't give you any good quality dating leads. I am a sucker for juicy gossip, but I certainly never had fun friendships that were as enjoyable as they were with the guys. Bros will get hyperfocused on what you're into, like putting together competing builds of something and poring over systems, stats, and minutiae. Even my old girl friends would glaze over after about fifteen minutes of hobby talk. They just like stuff …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 09:24 PM
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Midwit normie_'s love the idea of setting two people up for a love story. Some even use it as a constant source of pride and utility. "Hey, you wouldn't even have a family if it weren't for me! You gotta drive me to the airport!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 09:20 PM
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I'd write down a list of qualifications you'd demand before that happens. If you don't set your boundaries now, while your mind is unclouded my mother nature's trickery, you just might end up telling yourself "Well.... she says she learned her lesson and she'll be the best wife ever, and her four kids do look a lot like me if I were born two continents away....hmm...I'mma go for it."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 08:24 PM
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Yeah, everyone has to learn that at some point. No matter how good the burn, the momentary satisfaction of standing up for yourself disappears when you realize you have a loose end out there just lying around to be a fuse. I'd like to try the "OMG I missed you so much, I've fallen on hard times and really need lik $8000 to stay out of prison! Can you help me for old tyme's sake!!!?!?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 08:21 PM
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Well most of the time "nerdy" is used like a kindergartner would use it. They only really conceptualize about 27 different jobs, like "Doctor, engineer (like the guy who makes bridges with the big paper!) lawyer, cowboy, astronaut, CEO, scientist". Whatever you do, it has to be somehow shoehorned into one of those categories. " Oh? you're in actuary stats? Uh....closest match is either scientist, or ceo. "
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 08:50 PM
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Guys will stay there up to the moment they accept that these fabled, supposedly super common, attainable unicorns don't exist. All through my dating career any complaint about the lack of partner quality would be brushed off with "well, there's always another one out there! You're so dour, I met my wife in college! There's tons of girls in schools! Oh, I don't believe they're all more sexually active than the prostitutes back in my day, there's no way the world has gone that crazy!" Turns out th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 08:47 PM
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No biggie, we're all paying taxes! It's what, 60% of the total government budget? If I can feed just one more goblin that invariably hates my guts, it's worth half of my take-home income.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 08:43 PM
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Unless she somehow finds a foreigner who recently came in, having zero concept of tinderism, she's out of luck. Most good/nerdy/sweet guys get turned off to the whole affair after a few months of grinding away for nothing, at most a few hundred bucks wasted to feed a stuck up heifer or two. Chances are, if she wants a guy successful (i.e. likely closer to 30 than her) he's already got her dialed in and knows what she's looking for in him. The unguarded, easy marks? Try whatever work they're in. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 08:40 PM
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The lies collapse under their weight when faced with reality. I'd guess most of us here were good, dutiful citizens that agreed on all the popular axioms. I used to think the only difference between men and women was their ubpringing, that, according to the correct attitudes passed down through educators and leaders, there must be nothing but cultural indoctrination to blame. Over the course of seeing the same patterns, having the same convos, same arguments, hearing the same statements, feeling…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 08:27 PM
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Intergender friends (well, honestly almost ALL friends) are temporary. It's easy to be somewhat friendly and acquainted, but over a long timeline as they get into relationships, marriages, moves, etc. the only real thing keeping them together is the thought that someone is sitting on the shelf marked "BREAK GLASS IN CASE OF SPINSTERHOOD". Friend zone can cut both ways, but generally a guy will take whatever free squish the 'zoned one offers, so it implodes under the weight of a one way FWB. I ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 08:22 PM
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"But trust me, you'd really like this guy, he's a good dude. Anyways, feel free to apply next time we have an opening!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 08:17 PM
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The problem with some of the disorders out there is they're "healthy" for a while, until they get older. I know we're trying to diagnose everything under the sun, but I had a bud who was the miraculously normal, miracle baby and as he got older it became apparent he had some issues that came to the surface. I'm probably setting my bar too high, but I want the tallest, smartest kid I can produce, having seen kids curse their parents out for saddling them with issues. One baffling decision was the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 05:02 PM
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It's gonna be interesting to see this play out in wide scale, when gen X and mil leave a baby boom of special needs adults requiring care and tailored services. Who's gonna pay for it all? Most of these indepyndxnt's left nothing behind after going on cruises for years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 04:57 PM
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Guys need to get redpilled on IVF and fertility early on so they don't fall for it. When you see the medical processes, the emotional turmoil of constant failure, and the immense costs involved.....any logical person would say "let's fire up a different baby factory, salvaging this one ain't worth it."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 04:52 PM
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You did it right. Some dads lose sight of their function when the kid comes back and essentially throw away any pretense of negativity and discipline and it only makes things worse. It's the worst when he's been painted as a dumb old rich guy, who goes on to do nothing but bail her out and shower her with free stuff to make up for his absence. Dad's gotta be the captain for the kids and steer them in the right direction, or else they'll just meander around the coast until they run ashore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 04:42 PM
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That's the benefit of sport coupes at a young age, preferably with the smallest, tightest japanese racing seats possible. With high enough bolsters on the sides, anyone with a waist over 33 inches can't even get in the bucket!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 04:38 PM
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It was always there, but concentrated to certain groups. Everyone kind of accepted that a certan type/clique/class of women was often the sole source of action, and the other girls found it too shameful to join. You'd have some long-term relationships that naturally reached such a point, but that was usually more reserved and private, as opposed to announced to the world. Among guys there was some pride in gettin' some, but the girls tended to keep it to their closer friends, guarding their good…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 03:42 AM
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They just LOVE the idea of changing one of them. I haven't heard one of the gals put it into words themselves, but the concept of getting a dangerous, societally outcast guy and taming him with her superb pussy technique is a major status boost to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 10:32 PM
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For real, it's pretty sad that has become so widespread. I knew a kid who was whip-smart and a hard worker, starting his own business at 17. He came from a good family (intact no less) and has had a very successful life so far. The girls he dated would ditch him right off the bad because he didn't "measure up" to the myth. They'd bail because he wasn't thuggy, or threatening, or titillating, or intimidating. I felt so bad for him, seeing how terribly his female peers would treat him. He got ostr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 10:27 PM
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What's nasty is how you'll hear them constantly jabber about how enlightened, and kind, and charitable they are, but the supposed POC they brag about helping so much is little more than a straw man to them. When faced with a real black man trying to make his way in the world on his own, they'll usually mock him for not following the herd and going all-in on whatever stupid trend she expects him to. It's just so weird that for all the enlightened, collegiate talk about the struggles and difficult…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 10:23 PM
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I do something similar, able to live in a van or trailer when needs be, if the job requires it. It’s certainly freeing, but having strong, lasting roots and a long family history is awesome, if you have them. It’s sad we can’t make them any more, everyone I know who receives family land immediately sells it. There’s no loyalty to kin anymore, no stewardship. I was tsught that the things of the family are in my care for future generations, and I owe them the same care my predecessors did me. But …
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 05:29 PM
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No one knows how much I have or what I make. I started it as a joke, telling people that I was always NEET because it seemed so outrageous. By now it’s just more freeing for people to think I’m dirt poor so they don’t ask me for shit. A lot less blind date setups too. It’s peaceful.
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 05:23 PM
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" I know you think you're fking helping, but you're not so just shut up you don't know my health journey!!!!!" And then her friends text you after they hang out to chastise you too, because no matter your expertise, you "don't know women's bodies"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 05:19 PM
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The more horrors of the relationship market place you experience first hand, the more times you realize you'd have the Same. Exact. Date. so many times, you start to lose any sense of shame about not finding what you're looking for. It's like car shopping when you can't find the configuration you want in town, you're a little bummed to go home empty handed, but you realize it's better than paying too much for beaten, smokered, hard use lease turn-ins when you have the exact build you wanted in m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 05:18 PM
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It's gross just making Plan A be a total gamble, when the kids' life is on the line. I'm sure he'll totally love the developmental disorders she saddled him with so she could live out the sex and the city lifestyle during her reproductive years. It's playing russian roulette with your baby, and it's needlessly selfish. If she's such a wonderful, enlightened person, she can go help out a pre-existing kid and give them a good life. (I know, she'll say "but it's not my blood!" but they never care w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 07:21 PM
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Well, I'd say guys are somewhat empathetic. They have a severe problem in thinking women are just palette-swapped versions of them, so they try to entice them by making themselves the kind of GF they would love to have. Turns out women don't like friendly, fawning, submissive and attentive mates as much as the fellas like them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 07:16 PM
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Make sure we all demand the same terminology their victim friends get. When you hear them say "Ew, he's too fat", they should say "I'm intimidated by a fit, healthy man of beautiful size, I'm insecure in my womanhood."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 06:15 PM
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Theoretically, but saying that gives away the fact that you (likely a sane, reasonable person) hasn't seen what waddlers think "eating anything" means. I don't think the average active lifestyle can keep up with 20,000 calories in a day. I've mentioned it before, but I briefly dated a girl who loved food (the lovely foodie) and her dinners were one full size entree at a restaraunt, like a $1400-2000 kcal "salad" from a burrito place, washed down with a 2000 calorie "healthy" smoothie. I worked w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 06:11 PM
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Honestly I can't totally laugh it off ignoring studies, when you see the way the academic world functions now. It's pretty obvious obesity is a killer, like if you used a 1989 toyota corolla to move two tons of mulch in your commute. The tires are rubbing the wheelwells, the motor is redlined trying to keep 35mph, and it's getting 16 mpg. But you shouldn't need studies to know something so basic, putting too much stock in them is how you'll end up living an amorphous, constantly changing lifesty…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 06:06 PM
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I had a girl I always said I wouldn't marry, but I was fine to keep dating her until I moved away (too lazy to go find a new gf, and we had gotten to that comfy zone already, what's the harm in running out the clock?) We had a classmate she always made fun of for looking oddly feminine and made-up, but she ended up marrying him less than a year later. She did hit me up about three weeks before the wedding date asking to get back together for a weekend and see if we still worked. N'thanks! They'r…
/r/MGTOW16/02/21 05:03 AM
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It's a mix of things, but I'd damn near guarantee that explosion wouldn't happen if western obesity rates in females was less than 20%. Avg option in the guys' dating pool is what, 5'3", 170 pounds?
/r/MGTOW16/02/21 05:00 AM
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I started wearing some open ear buds as a teen and by accident found out how much people will say around you if they think you can't hear them. Just having them in for hearing protection (work sites) or an incoming call will give you an eavesdropping passport to some wild, wild stuff. A while back I was in a waiting room and the secretary was talking to her friend about some very wild, messy, (and bloody) butt-based shenanigans. And I was all of four feet away. I miss having formal decorum in so…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 02:21 AM
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They exist, but they're not enjoyable to be around. Anywhere that takes some measure of effort to live or exist in. Obviously, stuff like Oil pipelines, shops, and small businesses can fit the bill, but any sport or hobby that takes a lot of dedication and work can fit the bill to. I know buds complain about the thottery in hiking, camping, biking, etc. but that's only if you're doing the easily accessible, normie-tier easy shit. Once you're in the zones naturally gatekept by difficulty, the peo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 02:18 AM
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Honestly, after a guy spends about five or so years in the dating pool, he warms up to sex dolls more than he ever thought possible. Turns out there're lots out there that put just as much work into lovemaking as a corpse, so why not save all the trouble and skip the recurring chores and money draw?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 10:22 PM
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You're lucky to have riding friends. All mine have gotten hitched over the last couple years and fallen away. Any time I go finding a group it's got people's ex gfs, sisters, and other hangers' on showing up hoping to hitch a ride with anyone who seems worth their gold digging. It's ideal if you have a pillion cover, easy to point to the fiberglass and shrug. We did have a fun ride through the mtns where one guy has his new BMW supersofa, one of the girls seemed to flirt with him when she was lo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 10:05 PM
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I find that with the increasingly SJW/worldy preachiness coming across so many pulpets, any guy that's able to keep himself from being suckered in by that kind of thing ain't going to be at church very often. I was 22 when I first got sick of a weekly "Men, you are awful and you have a long way to go, you need to look to the lovely, pure women around you for guidance." Any guy mentally tough enough to resist simpin' at 29 is probably reading his scripture at home, not looking for a mommy to boss…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 10:00 PM
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That's part of what the post-mask world really appeals to me. You don't even have to worry about eye contact with strangers anymore, just ignore everyone trying to screw you somehow. Mask+sunglasses is a combo second only to a full helmet with a microphone built in. If you tried that even two years ago they'd think you're trying to rob the place. Now you just play dumb and pretend it doesn't even begin to occur to you that someone is talking to you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 09:57 PM
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They're worse than ever, most places no longer hold anyone accountable for their actions, just giving them a hearty welcome and "great to see you!" while eyeballing the congregation for easy marks to help the new jezebel straighten her life out. I don't even blame the reformed streetwalkers, it's the foolish, naive old men that enthusiastically say braindead shit like "Hey, I found a wife for ya! She's great, she just joined this week, she really needs a good guy to help raise her triplet daught…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 09:50 PM
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There's something very common in Gen X'ers and their like with this issue. They were raised in a church, with certain values that somewhat stood with them over time. They don't even recognize that they still have some vestiges of their parent's moral compass, so they tend to not party as hard. They hook up with someone raised outside of any value system and are freaked out that they don't naturally curb their drugs and alcohol to a respectable level. Even better when their kids take up even more…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/21 08:29 PM
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I'm glad to see him get more traction, because he's right about a lot. Keep in mind, though, he's from an older generation, and despite being through (2?) divorces he still has that gen x NAWALT mindset sometimes. I think he'll bring it up that he's not all that worried about getting these newly married guys an eventual divorce. Because, if they're high value enough, they won't be wiped out by it. Being able to take an immense wealth and freedom hit through the family court system and shrug it o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/21 08:16 PM
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Pre-online dating, even then, it was on the outs. The ubiquity of garbage cable/satellite TV like "16 and pregnant" started giving impressionable, dumb kids other lifestyles to look up to . Even in the mid 00's I heard girls talk about how as soon as they could leave the home, they'd head to NYC and live in a "cute little loft above a starbucks" and dress all upscale while they trot to work at their make-work, BS job. Tinder basically accelerated it to warp speed. Any concept of cute, shy, intro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/21 02:33 AM
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she's got a good title, I'm sure. They love doing that instead of paying more. She's a "Senior Accounts Manager (Beverages)"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/21 02:13 AM
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Hey, go easy on artie lange, he's had a rough time lately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/21 02:12 AM
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They really don't get that even if not gorgeous, or even just not-bad lookswise, if you've built a life with a husband he'll still love you. If you're making a family, the aging, wear and tear from motherhood, the lack of prim and perfect makeup.... aren't awful to the guy who you're acquiring them for. Their mistake is trying to sell the worn and torn, 300k+ mile rental car on the lot next to the brand new 2021 cars for even more than them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/21 03:42 AM
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The embarrassing thing is that they don't do anything about it until the perpetrator (however true the allegations may be) is at his most weakened, toothless, and defeated. You bet the entirety of hollywood was holding their breath on Weinstein. They didn't snitch on it, they all knew about it, but why rock the boat? It gave them a consistent tool to use to get their people ahead in the industry and have continued security in future roles he could give them. I bet there were a lot of dinner meet…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/21 03:38 AM
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Oh she'll never touch him, she married him because he was the cool bad boy all the conservative small townsfolk told her not to bother with. She had to show them! Twenty years later he's perenially underemployed, never sober because his worksite is basically a drug swapping daycare for men. (And he's pretty short from what I hear) It's nuts how on-the-nose average it all is. She's pumped to be snaring a guy with professional qualifications and a nice title! She can finally rub it in her friends'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/21 12:10 AM
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The more I learn the more horrified I become. He's paying $5-10k a month, so the now ex can live it up in her mansion. I don't know if he has court orders, she just texts him "Hey, I need $2000, I need to repair the car or something" and he complies. Now he's daying a chunky, mid/late 40's lady with health issues (that she's keeping under wraps!) and a bunch of teenage girls. But what do I know, he really loves her! Why do I have to rain on their parade? I now just give up and laugh from the sid…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 09:54 PM
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Well now they're pets for weird E-girls to show off online.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 09:47 PM
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Yeah, the old "freshman 15" became the "Freshman fifty".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 05:52 PM
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Yet the guy will blow it off. I've been trying to warn a new bf of an acquaintance that he's basically auguring his life into the depths of hell by going out with this girl. The only reason she's trying so hard to charm him is her feeling that FINALLY she'll get what she deserves in life and have the professional, high status, high earning, guy to come in and pay for her spoiled teenage girls to have nice cars. The guy is acting like being stepdad to a girl who refused to drive anything but an e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 05:48 PM
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The first quip that came to mind was "Han Solo's sleeping bag". "....and I thought they smelled bad....on the outside."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 05:21 PM
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Thankfully, could you imagine how much hassle it'd bring if you could see everything without getting gatekept? The tumblr legions would be heard screeching for miles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 05:20 PM
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I wanna save each one of these profiles for my deep earth doomsday vault, so when future societies think "Eh, what's the harm? Just let people enjoy things!" The wise old elders will drag the youngster into the sacred hall of records and show them the results of their folly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 05:18 PM
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We all get it a few times, that's why you have to pretend you don't remember, and early on get the conversational pace going really quick. Once they're accustomed to answering quick and free, hit them with "Aww, so how old is your youngest?" They'll slip up .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 05:16 PM
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Imagine when other kids find out being a planned, intentional pregnancy is a mark of pride and something they can mock the others with. It doesn't work too well on everyone, but to people with confidence and self-worth issues hearing "Well fuck you beckuh, at least I wasn't an accident" is barbed, and it won't come out for a long time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 05:13 PM
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A reminder to non-American (British too) viewers: all SMV ratings carry a 3-4 point markup in non-obese candidates. An american 8 is a Polish 5.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 05:12 PM
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I like to hope that someday the world will step back from the collective insanity and realize some of the uncomfy truths we see today. Like, maybe, just possibly some of the stuff we see in the average lifestlye ain't healthy. If I had to say a few ways to age super quick and feel like you're 20 years older than you are, I'd say: Spackling your face for 18+ hours every day with heavy makeups, lotions, and sunscreens aren't great for skin quality. To get best results, don't wash it off at the end…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 02:43 AM
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I loved your writeup on that. It's just astounding to me that we literally live at the apex of such a pleasurable, easy life, that someone could be shellshocked and world weary just from sex, drugs, and partying. Nurses behind the trenches in WWI had more life in their eyes than some of these broads. Generations past had to see so much suffering, so much horror to get to their soul's breaking point, yet somehow people manage to find it through a cavalcade of strange penis.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 02:24 AM
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What ever happened to the TH0T Aud1t? (encoded to thwart brigadeers). That seemed to have some success. If they're willing to narc on some 20 year old dude's fencing "company" for IRS shekels, that street has an oncoming lane too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 02:15 AM
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"Don't ever settle for a man who doesn't treat you like a queen" and "If he doesn't love you at your worst, he doesn't deserve you at your best" are the core of every modern, self-righteously spineless christain dad's advice for his daughters. Maybe his boys will get the old fashioned sink or swim teachin', but the girls just get an extended 18 year treatise on how and why-no matter how badly she fails, harms, or errs- she's absolutely perfect as-is, and the world should change for her. After my…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 02:13 AM
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I wonder how many of these girls would be okay with their man doing the same. We had a bro almost lose his Gf because he said he was so desperate for a job, if the interviewer dropped his pants he'd have happily blown him. Just the facetious, joking idea infuriated her to the point she left for a day. Best of all, she was a cocktail waitress (who we suspected sugar babied) I ought to check up on that guy, if he stayed with her he's probably dead by now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 02:09 AM
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Sadly they don't release data but I've heard rumo(u)rs there's a certain.....area. A country, if you will, where the men are so thirsty, so deprived of femalian stimulus, they'll go to any lengths to see the "bobs" and "Ve-jah-ner". But that's kooky talk, there's no way a subcontinent full of horny dudes making seven bucks a month building iphones can afford primo yankee butthole pics! Who else? What about punk kids who don't know any better, who use their (single, proud, independent) mother's c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 02:06 AM
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Is it just me or does she look like the femWojak of Norf? https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/438/179/447.png It's like, a pretty spot on example of british looks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/21 11:54 PM
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If she's keeping company with nothing but hedonistic party types, I can see all of them laughing at the concept of monogamy. But no one should be that deep in that scene, or better said, "the hobby of cock", and be surprised the people in it have no interest in settling down and giving up on exploring the terrifying, bottomless trough of c'thulean genitalia in a lifestyle of bacchanalian glee.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/21 11:26 PM
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I can't believe how hormones are this magic, perfect key for some relationships. I knew a guy who was living in absolute hell, until they happened to hear about the issue and checked it out. She did a total about face and is super nice, chipper, and fun loving. For how common it seems to be, it's weird that no one mentions it as a possible solution.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/21 11:22 PM
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I see this "cheating" happen IRL and many times it's a situation where the man thinks she's just a FWB sitch. He owes her no exclusivity, as she doesn't reciprocate in a NSA/FWB/SexFriends/JustBangin' arrangement. . She times out on her womb-ticker and tries to change the terms of engagement by hinting at longer lasting relationships and subtly steering things into more official activities like vacations, meeting friends and family, the usual milestones for dates. Instead of asking straight out …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/21 11:20 PM
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I think there were a number of families with a window, but they had kids early in life. If they have a kid in their younger years, it really improves their overall fertility in life later. It's like installing all the cool optional equipment when you order a car from the factory, instead of tearing it apart later to route the cabling and install the systems. But it's funny to think we have to look to some of the worst, most stressful, terrifying events on earth to find an equivalent for living i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 05:25 PM
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When I worked in an office there was a dust-up like that where one of the girls invited herself to drinks with the dudes, and later complained they were harassing her. (We never learned who/what happened, she was with us the whole time, I think she embellished a joke someone told to get him out of there) The guys agreed not to make any untoward, haram moves and statements to the women of the workplace. They all ended up complimenting each other all the time, which was a funny skit for a while. T…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 05:20 PM
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Maybe that's how we'll evade the eventual purge. "It's not a harmful thought crime sub, it's a gathering of fetishists! Our kink is misery! We get hard for consequences!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 05:13 PM
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My grandpa read me an old story about hiking mt. everest (or something, maybe the Shackleton expedition, I was 7, okay?) where the guy got frostbite and gangrene had set in. In order to survive, he had to lose the foot. He said "A bad person, maybe a friend, maybe a girl, is like that foot. You think you can't live without it, but you need to see it for what it is NOW, not what it was, or what it could be. If the gangrene is there, don't let yourself hesitate. Cut it off before it spreads."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 05:12 PM
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They've been indoctrinated to believe the most harmed, wounded, damaged person is the greatest. Victimhood nets you coveted attention, coddling, admiration for 'bravery', and special, lax standards in everything from her tribe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 05:07 PM
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I was flirty with a girl like this who stirred shit with an ex of mine, saying she was dating me to spite her (which, after learning about the story, I would've gone along with the revenge, it was well deserved). When she did her stupid stunt for drama and FEEEEEEEELLZZZZZZZ I bailed. It wasn't that far into dating, but hearing her say "Oh no, I didn't mean it I was just testing you to see how you'd act!" tripped my claymores in the treeline. I don't even hate the concept of testing, but that co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 05:05 PM
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It's not the begrudgment of standards, it's the fact that their team can do no wrong, and all preferences are enshrined as inviolable rights, while the other team can't without being banned, blacklisted, and flayed for their wants. Guys are more linear in their thought, so they take the whole "equality!" and "fairness!" at face value, when it's not. The unspoken message is "you have to play by the rules, but I don't have to. That's fair, because in the past people who share an attribute or two w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 05:00 PM
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That's not what she paid $84,000 of gov funded funny money to learn. Her wise, beautiful, indypyndynt womyn profess-HERs taught her the real definition of racism, and as honorary whites, asians are part of the tyrranical patrarch class, ergo whatsoever evil visited upon them is well, good, and just. Hey, BTW, this is a good time to mention the need to write YOUR congress-person about forgiving student loan debts! Did you know female students hold the majority of it! You need to help her fix this…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 04:54 PM
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I had a teacher who was 6'5", who said he always saw their faces fall when he told them where he worked. Even the height doesn't make up for a lack of money once they need nesting dollars to feed their brood.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 04:50 PM
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https://twitter.com/WomenPostingLs/status/1350856490492571648 From the lovely and inflammatory "Women posting their L's online".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 03:24 AM
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Delicious. "I don't get it, why are they confessing?" "They're not confessing. They're bragging."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 11:28 PM
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oh wow found the inkel! Doesn't everyone know average fertility increased since 1900? There was a wetnurse in poland in 1744 that had sextuplets at fifty five! She'll be able to pump out some kiddos well into her sixties! I dated a girl who honestly wanted to have special needs children, and she worked with them. She loved being the lovely, selfless person and get the admiration of her gal friends for being such a great hero. A huge, gigantic red flag was the fights we would have when I said wan…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 11:25 PM
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I need to find a way to avoid this post-healthful fertility window. People at work and family keep trying to hook me up with their leftover and divorced friends, and as bad as I'd love to have a family, I can't do that to my future kids. We owe it to them to give them a healthy start, not a lifetime of special needs and stunted life development. It's one thing to be avoidable, but sacrificing their health at the altar of independent, pop culture, consumerist worship for her "wonderful ", "meanin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 11:20 PM
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Something that's almost a curse to hear, is the concept that women are likely just as frequently autistic or aspergian as their male counterparts, but our culture refuses to assess them accurately. It made so many interactions snap into place for me since, but I sometimes feel like the paranoid one in the room to say "Hey, I think your new gf is autistic.... I know it's cute how she doesn't talk to anyone but only communicates by whispering in your ear, but that's something that needs to be work…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 11:10 PM
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But it's not describing reality, it's a magic spell that's supposed to occlude your vision and convince you she's an adorable, old fashioned tradgirl. Standard operating procedure now, were language is just a programming syntax meant to order male behavior.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 11:06 PM
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Well, if you're going to go around saying things truthfully, you can't do so as what's obviously a member of the patriarchal oppressor class. You need to speak from a position of everlasting victimhood and suffering, then you can say what you want! It's not like socks cost anything here, yah?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 11:02 PM
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I talk about this with zoomers when I can because the cultural shift is crazy. From what I see the majority still have their natural anti-woman-sharing instincts fully active and intact. They mostly stay silent because they don't want to be blacklisted, shouted down, and shunned by their classmates. The kids that say stuff like "I'd happily date a SM, or a camgirl, I support her in everything!" hardly seem to act on it, (though they usually will with time, it's just hard to do so in the teens/20…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 10:24 PM
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The only time I see guys doing it is those who try to sell their beaten, weathered, abused cars for sticker +30% because they think you'll never, NEVER find another base model corvette with 10k miles on it and stretched out, flat bolsters from his now ex-wife's bench sized ass. I may be getting personal on this one. nvm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 10:00 PM
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Not just for shitposting, look ahead and realize we need to decentralize financially too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 01:03 AM
4

"Boy we sure are lucky the bad guys never won!!! Could you imagine how screwed we be today if they did!?!?!?!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 12:59 AM
1

I bet she's not that high on the food chain, such that guys who see themselves as 3's to 6's try to wigKnit their way inter her pants by offering what they think would be a rare commodity: Oral for an average girl. They're wrong, of course, average guys suffer a dearth of attention, not women. But unless they look outside their own experience and realize that women are NOT re-badged men, they'll keep tilting at that windmill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 12:51 AM
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Yeah, I've just always wanted to have a fat wife, sexless marriage, and teenagers that call my by my first name and steal cash out of my wallet. It's livin' the dream.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 12:48 AM
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Well you're obviously just intimidated by her health insurance costs. You can't handle a bBW fer sherrrrrrr
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 05:53 PM
5

I had a GF that would buy that one juice shop's "healthy" peanut butter and choco smoothie, with extra wheat grass, thinking it was healthy. Turns out it was something in the range of 2300 calories. (now looking it up it seems the XXL/XL size is gone, they max out a large at 910 cal. Still, as a post-meal treat for healthy eating....oof. 28g of fat, 120g of sugars...great eating)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 05:45 PM
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We all need to do our part to teach the younger fellas, though we all tend to learn it the hard way at some point or another. You can't improve people. Chances are, it's just not going to work out and you're gambling your time and effort. Don't plan on working them out and getting into shape. They'll rarely stick with it, and even in the best case there's a chance she'll bail
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 05:39 PM
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"Ma'am? This is a bachelor's house, not a rehab clinic."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 04:42 PM
10

Spend some time eavesdropping on them. They're consumed by the competition between all subgroups of women. Her sisters? family? Friends? Classmates? Instagram plynths? Hypothetical women dating the one that got away? They're constantly using the falsified, bunk yardsticks these groups publish to the world to measure themselves, and they're constantly signaled by the tribe that anything over 6 is good, and anything else automatically knocks their accomplishment out of the rankings. Not to mention…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 04:33 PM
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I've come to realize the worst ones on this sub are always measured in kilometres.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 04:30 PM
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but it's so easy to raise kids, haven't you seen how many educational videos and apps there are on an iphone? All you need to do to have your son be a future bailout for you (because it's inconceivable that he would be anything other than super successful) is get him an Ipod touch when he starts walking. No, not a full iphone! that's spoiling him, just the ipod is fine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 04:29 PM
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Mother nature in the base of the brain saying "fuckfuckfuckfuck girlllll you need to make sure you have a roof over your head and someone hypmo-tized into feeding your ass every day while I build this lil bastard in your guts. Just make sure he can bring a lot of food and he really likes you, we only need him for a few years"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 08:27 PM
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I knew it as old-folks slang for rough, dirty anal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 08:24 PM
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Because it's nice to hear nothing is your fault. Everything can be boiled down to "sure, maybe you shouldn't have done that, but it's very understandable you did, because in the past....." It's like paying an old timey priest for an indulgence and walking away with a clean conscience! If you don't get absolution from the first one, just keep trying out therapists until you hear what you want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 08:21 PM
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Ah, that's cool but just remember slav-uh I mean, taxpaying citizen, you need to pay property tax, and income tax, and make sure your property is properly zoned! We can't have too many of our go-er...beloved people living year-round in the fringes of society. Someone needs to pay the tax burden, and it won't be those in charge. That's your job!
/r/MGTOW01/02/21 08:27 PM
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I think the most common vehicle of "millionaires" is the Ford F150. which is also America's most common car. Granted, a million ain't what it used to be... but an optimist would say that's fine 'cause it's easier than ever to achieve! The richest guys I've seen (at least outside of finance and entertainment, they HAVE to be ostentatious according to them) wear casios, maybe an inherited rolex, and drive normal cars. They'll have some fun toys, but I see far more apparent wealth coming from the g…
/r/MGTOW01/02/21 08:24 PM
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I was always prone to think critically when listening to people, but the BluePill programming ran pretty deep. After having the same few dates with the small cadre of female archetypes I realized I was having the same conversations, the same meals, and the same nights with women of varying shape and hair color. Other than that they're all proudly mentally ill hedonists entitled to plunder everything you own. Just think "Why are they saying this to me? What are they trying to get me to do?" whene…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/21 06:26 PM
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It's a few things all at once: It gives them entrance into a protected class, one that's easy to pay lip service to without having to ever provide physical proof. Now she can be the trendy "cool lesbian" friend in her circle. They think guys find it super hot, chasing the (not all that enjoyable all things considered) threeway. Gets them more gifts, drinks, attention, and catering from horny dudes. Usually the extent of attraction to ladies isn't sexual (at least in my exp) but a kind of "OOh th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 11:23 PM
14

And that's FAST. Much faster than a large societal shift should be. That's not a diff. in generations like always, that's whole cultures shifting away from behaviors as a whole. I like that analogy of sitting on the beach and you see the tide rapidly, swiftly recede. When you tell people there's a tsunami, they shout you down for being a buzzkill and ruining a good time. Gotta find some high ground before the swell comes in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 11:15 PM
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They're all bad though, and from my brief time with a "ballet dancer (separate from the former stripper) they're still in that sexualized, freewheeling environment being the center of attention with hornycharged coworkers in tights. They like to think that their community is tight lipped and secretive while they all screw each other in the down time, but they're not. At all. And if you're dating one, just know "exclusive" seems not to apply to "blowing off stress, er....steam!" by banging her su…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 11:11 PM
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I went out a few times with one of these, she had rebranded herself as a "Oh NONONONO not that kind of dancer, I'm the type that works with silks, I work with the ballet studio" Surprise surprise, she was âlso a stripper for a while, but most of all, her boyfriend she bragged about was actually a 58 year old sugar daddy. turns out she moved away from the metro city in the east to start fresh as a "good girl" and settle down. It took me about 14 cumulative hours of dating before putting together …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 11:07 PM
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Yup, it's a post-shame world. But you can use it to your advantage. Did you fuck up? Tell them they can't "competency-shame" you because you didn't have the same privilege they did to learn and train. The act of yelling at you is exclusionary because they penalize your for your prior educational base. (Assuming you work in some clown zone, not somewhere with cool people)
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 02:09 AM
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You need to establish a line in the sand where you will be willing to, NOW. Think of a dollar figure of damages that, if crossed, you will stand up for yourself no matter what. I know a dumbass who's mom opened a bunch of credit lines in his name, and from the age of 18 he's been trying to pay off $60,000_+ of high interest debt because he's too nice to claim identity theft or bankruptcy. Better, smarter men than you have died on their hill mumbling "But but but, they're family!".
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 02:07 AM
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For real, as far as my extended family knows I can't figure out money and am borderline unemployed. If they were smart they'd see the hints that I'm doing pretty well for myself (or I'd be bleeding debt) but most expect bragging. Plus it's a great way to shoot blind dates in the foot. "You want me to meet your friend? Hi, I'm unemployed, but I'm working on it- hey....ah she's gone. Cool."
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 02:03 AM
4

Makes perfect sense to me. They had to remodel society somehow...
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 02:00 AM
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And it even depends on the owners. I'll treat a scoobie STI's previous owner differently from a Lotus exige's.
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 01:55 AM
3

For real, a friend turned me on to this book of horror stories from the French revolution and it's disgusting. The greatest horror story I've ever read is history. Turns out the good guys didn'twin. They're just the ones who wrote the book.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 11:34 PM
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Just from the frequency around xmas time of families finding out whole fractions of their group belong to a totally unrelated bloodline (thanks ancestry tests!) I can only think it was very common 50+ years ago, when there was a stronger moral fabric and social shaming towards cheating. Now? When the concept of shame itself is being erased in the common home? The only thing keeping the statistics of unwitting, conned men raising other men's dross so low is the fact that the mother feels too good…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 11:32 PM
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Uh no sweetie, you shouldn't force her to do unpaid emotional labor, you should keep all your feelings and issues to yourself and let them out on an approved, empowered therapist. She'll tell you how to fix yourself and undo all that patriarchal damage society put in your brain, for a really affordable fee. That way your life partner won't feel boxed in or enslaved by your incessant need for talk, communication, and friendship. In fact, an obviously correct feminist think tank says that just thi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 11:28 PM
1

Well how else will they be able to find enough rubes to live in germany, sweden, and france? Gotta make it worse in order to get those sweet transition subsidies.
/r/MGTOW24/01/21 10:58 PM
5

The big difference I've seen post 2010 or so has been the removal of any drive or push (even unspoken) to assimilate to a host culture, throughout the west. Everyone's moving around, but they aren't acclimating to the new country, and the thought that they should assimilate is now seen as all kinds of -ists. It's up in the air, from what I see of demographic planning they seem to think everyone will gradually congeal their culture into whatever this neoliberal, enlightened, gormless ideal is. It…
/r/MGTOW24/01/21 10:27 PM
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My family actually has a pre-marriage tradition as a test. If you had a Gf you were serious about, we'd have a game night where people would play some 4 person co-op splitscreen stuff. You learn so much about people under even stupid stress like that. I had one girl completely lose it on my mom and yell at her that "I don't need your fucking help, okay? Shut up!" and even the kids were blown away at seeing that part of her uncovered. We had lots of things like that but they're too rare in the po…
/r/MGTOW24/01/21 10:17 PM
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Hey, the NEETS are doing us a favor by rebelling in one of the few acceptable ways in this society. I kinda wish more guys would just copy them and start letting the system feel the fear of their tax-cattle walking away. If you're successful, it's a bummer to think that almost 40 cents out of every dollar you make goes towards your own disenfranchisement and eventual destruction.
/r/MGTOW20/01/21 08:11 PM
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There was a large clinic I knew of doing this. They made a big deal about the NP's, PA's, and handful of female docs not having patient loads like the old male doctors. They tried moving people around to match their gender to help lady pt's feel comfortable with a fellow woman. The guys basically had a month at 30% business, bbq'in in the parking lot while the women were booked wall to wall. The guys weren't hurting for money, but they finally moved it all back when someone died and there were a…
/r/MGTOW20/01/21 12:57 AM
2

It seems you need to learn more about the essence of victimhood. They could help perpetrate nearly any crime, as long as they sob enough after and say they were too scared not to comply. "I just fel like if I didn't actively help the criminal They would've done something terrible to me!"
/r/MGTOW20/01/21 12:49 AM
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In our medical sitch, we started out with the "never be alone with anyone" rule, but the more careful of us turned it more into "But don't be alone with 2 women, either" because of stuff like this.
/r/MGTOW20/01/21 12:40 AM
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it's called "The spiderman"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 12:37 AM
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Sometimes it seems entirely oppositional here, but everyone just wants people to acknowledge what's bad. This sub feels like, at the end of the day, there's somewhere I can vent. Like, as if everywhere I go, every place I work in, it's like there's a stink in the air, but no one is allowed to address it. It's all over and inescapable. They're different smells, but all very terrible. They've crept into every facet of your life, but you're socially pressured to ignore their existence. When you com…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 12:37 AM
8

Skinny girls with light muscle definition is increasingly my jam.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 12:30 AM
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My dad used to see situations like these and say "Boy, that banana's past bein' ripe,don't expect it's gonna get any better". I can't help but picture that short period of time before it gets all weird, shrunken, discolored, and mottled when you bought it a day before and it looked nice, fresh, and ripe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 12:28 AM
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It's so bad in the states that any girl who's under 120lbs automatically gets her 1-10 value boosted by 2-3 levels. A 90's six is now an eight, simply because there aren't many skinny competitors to gauge against.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 12:11 AM
10

The majority aren't even come-ons. They'll whine that the dude won't take a hint, but their hint is using the machine after him and not wiping it down. "Like I used three weights in a row and left his sweat on it and he didn't do anything! Then when he got up to leave I went out to the parking lot at the same time. He's so oblivious!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 10:51 PM
2

Oh yeah, this one's tough. It's the mini-boss on the 35th floor of the dungeon, it's an easy fight alone but there's usually an orc shaman AND the lil' goblins that keep you out at range. I'd just avoid this level all together.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 10:48 PM
6

I remember the first time I was with a girl who could eat. Skinny little thing, we went out to get pizza and eat it around a bonfire, but after I ordered our large she said "What? Just one? What are we, kids?" and ordered a large for herself as well. I was all of 15 at the time and it was novel, and cute, and different from the normally reserved, feminine behavior I thought was the norm. Then I saw it again. And again. Oh look, Jen Lawrence brags about eating like a truffle huffing pig! How sexy…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 10:30 PM
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Of course not, I was talking more in the general. I'd do it for MY kids. I didn't even think of someone else's, that's so far into obvious 'no go' territory I didn't count that as a possibility. I wouldn't even go hiking with people I haven't already done something of difficulty with, it's always a letdown when they bail, lose interest, break your stuff, etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 10:36 PM
4

I've spent my whole life listening to older dudes going through a divorce, by now I've seen the same pattern of stupidity. They always think the system is fair, and logical, and that as long as the facts are on their side they're good to go. The judge disagrees every time. I've even helped on the female side....oddly she took at least some of the advice. Guys never document enough, even when they want full custodyj. It's one thing to say "my drug addict wife disappears a lot, I'm the sole parent…
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 07:49 PM
3

It's like playing russian roulette, and one of the greatest benefits of an empty chamber is "Hey, you have to pull the trigger again tomorrow, but for today only you get a coupon for 15% off any single entree at applebee's!"
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 07:45 PM
7

As this happens more, people may get redpilled on ferility. It's no secret we're unhealthier than ever (but but our life expectancy! Doesn't matter, we're artificially living on because of modern medicine and a cocktail of drugs) People will keep seeing their high school cohorts miscarry, get hospitalized, waste money on treatments, and realise that the statistics of 1st time pregnancy don't provide a lot of room for their idyllic, fantasy life in their head. Hell, try freezing your eggs at 28, …
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 07:41 PM
38

This is a classic. Sometimes I wanna print a lot of these things out, so fifty years in the future, the resistance squirreled away in the underground anti-terminator bunkers. "Man, I hate being born in 2080... this sucks, I wish I was born a hundred years ago!" "That's what you say, but check this album out, look at this shit! This is what they were saying, and you were in trouble if you went against it!" "Huh, well I guess the terminators aren't so bad. At least we don't have 36 yo OF baby mamm…
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 07:37 PM
3

I'd bet it's not about the looks as much as it is, the guy doesn't wanna have unhealthy, problem-riddled kids when she finds out it's $110k for all the fertility treatments she needs to pump out kid #1 at 33. Timelines are not forgiving, and a smart man owes it to his potential children to give them the healthiest, best chances he can. It's fuckin' selfish to saddle them with easily avoidable issues like health complications, deformities, developmental disorders, etc. because you value the optic…
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 07:34 PM
9

Only if you let it. Kids tend to grow to the lengths you expect of them. I've been on 10+ mile hikes with a baby in tow, papoosed on the chest. The only diff. is younger kids not having long term stamina on their feet. Kids are hardy, it's just this weird western idea that they're all permanently infantile. There are 7 year olds all over the world that have jobs and buy cigs on the way back home for momma.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 07:25 PM
3

I refuse to adopt, after seeing all my nice, well-to-do friends go off the deep end of drugs, gangs, violence, etc. They literally had the lives of the top 5% in the nation (Like Porsche for your 16th) and yet they all, without fail, threw it all away to join the dregs. Parenting and circumstances can only do so much, it seems. After the last one was looking for a place to shoot up while he's out of his halfway house, I cut the last of them out for good.
/r/MGTOW17/01/21 08:49 PM
3

But that's okay, he's an artist!
/r/MGTOW17/01/21 08:45 PM
65

No, you choke down all your anger, play it cool, and start getting everything in order. It's like declaring war, if you have the chance to declare it you'd best get everything lined up to your advantage. Plan out the assets, consult a lawyer, ("Oh, gotta get m'will figured out!") build a plan around a cheating wife and start documenting custody if you're going to aim to keep the kids most of the time. Everyone I know has always blown all that on, gotten pissed, confronted the cheater, and then g…
/r/MGTOW17/01/21 08:43 PM
3

The advice for courtship that's "normal" and "healthy" are more akin to teaching a Slave all the right moves to acquire a master. Be obsequious, selfless, giving, spineless, absolutely accommodating of all manner of abuse, and always ready to do more, because no matter what you've done already, it's never enough for them.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre17/01/21 08:10 PM
6

M E T A L B O O G E R S
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 07:44 PM
7

Oh, see you're making a common mistake. They don't want the country to get better, they want it worse. It increases the desperation of the people for someone to 'fix' it, and the easiest block to boost is a group of pseudo-criminals you invited and forgave. Once you own them, you're untouchable!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 07:42 PM
7

It's kinda messed up how conscious they are of it. I dated one who hated being singled out for it in school all the time, since she was half euro. They'd always do that sensitive, out of touch admin thing by picking on her with "Oh, you're a Latinx, no? How do you feel about this? Is anyone being insensitive to your cultura?" We dated for a couple years, by the end of it I used to joke she was a WigNat by how angry she would get about people talking about her race at all. She went to a nice, ric…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 07:36 PM
9

Pretty sure she can share a wardrobe with my chunky, husky cousin. Ignore the female-led propaganda that dudes like big asses, it's a societal cope. They're willing to accept a wide range of ass size, and statistically they'll exclude 70% of them if they impose any sort of standard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 07:28 PM
6

It's interesting to note (so I heard) that Helen of Troy was the heir in her marriage. Her being taken/run away meant her husband no longer had claim to the throne. All people think of it now is that she was soooooooo beatiful that they waged a war to bring her back. There's a lesson in there somewhere.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 07:24 PM
18

Once you see the breakdown of total consumer spending in the world, everything in culture makes more sense. It's all tailored to women because they're the gullible rubes blowing $400/month on "affordable" makeup. Meanwhile guys buy the majority of their wardrobe in their 20's and don't notice they haven't bought anything new into their 50-'s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 07:13 PM
1

That's what 'm talking about, and it's even scarier than now. We already have a tax on bachelorhood, but since it's not called that by name it'll be much more palatable for the gigantic special interest groups that say we're hateful, disgusting inkle's. They'll say "Well women pay taxes just like you, but they have more needs by nature so it's not fair they're squeezed the same. It's not like it matters, you get so many male priveliges you'll never notice and additional 8-17% income tax!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 11:22 PM
3

I judge people by the caliber of their exes. If someone tells me they "invested" in beanie babies in the 90's and lost every dime to their name, I'll be sure not to give them any shares of my new company. They love playing up how "awful" or "insane" they are like it doesn't have anything to do with 'em.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/21 11:12 PM
1

Whenever I feel bummed I haven't had any kids yet, I think that my life could easily have turned out like this...and I'm fine being picky. Can't imagine spending your life only for one kid to absolutely poison your bloodline. Barf.
/r/MGTOW16/01/21 09:27 PM
14

These days.... Theoretically, I would have a guarantee that my wife is a high-quality, super invested, enthusiastic mother to our children. That is not something I can buy off the shelf. Caretakers can be nice, but they will only go so far in making a superb, functional human adult. Luckily, no one needs to lower herself to parenting, thanks to the advent of ipads and 24/7 cartoon channels for children. It's like they raise themselves!
/r/MGTOW16/01/21 02:47 AM
7

I wonder if we'll ever see how authentic that journal was. My grandma was excited about old joe (he's so charrrrming) until someone read her a "heartwarming account of biden family values". Don't worry, redditors. She still voted for him!
/r/MGTOW16/01/21 02:44 AM
11

People used to take care of their own when they're unified. Families support each other, churches support their parishioners, and everyone gets along just fine. Their allegiance and effort goes towards their own, not to the government a thousand miles away. Make society all about the individual and you gain IMMENSE institutional power. Vulnerable people can't rely on their family, instead, they rely on the state. Their allegiance isn't to their community, it's to the political machine that feeds…
/r/MGTOW16/01/21 02:43 AM
28

The bachelor tax has to come into being at some point. They'll pull out the charts showing single dudes are smarter with their money, save, invest, build, etc. and say "well they obviously benefit from a crooked system, they're stealing from their female counterparts because the womxyn have to pay for childcare those dirtbags saddled them with. Hey, those boys don't even spend 30% of consumer purchases! That's not fair, they need to constantly burn through money on makeup, low-quality clothing, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/21 07:29 PM
3

Had to lock up a drinking buddy once when he found out his live-in Gf aborted his kid. Very catholic, and she had been playing along super religious for a couple years. He was furious to the point we worried he'd kill her, (this is in a country where that's not super uncommon, and he wasn't a squeaky clean type anyway) so everyone got him shitfaced and warned her to leave and not come back. She went over to her secret BF's place, thankfully an hour away so she essentially ceased to exist to him.…
/r/MGTOW13/01/21 03:22 AM
2

I always liked "pre-ghosting". It's when you start dating someone you tell them you get a new phone number every year. Maybe an angry ex constantly signs you up for spam calls. Then it's not surprising, AND you have the out of "you didn't get my new number? I was wondering why you disappeared!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 02:59 AM
6

Wildly different ideas of "chubby" and "curvy". Guys tend to be pretty objective from my exp. Girls sugar coat it. Girl chubby can be 5'1" and 215, where a guys idea on that height would be ~120.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 02:58 AM
16

Keep in mind when gals talk about people "telling them" things, it's usually their mental concept of someone that did the damage. It's not likely some beefcake looked her up and down and said "Aw, sorry, you're too rolypoly/husky/fat for me, not interested. Thanks though." She's saying that cute boy in calculus with the curly brown hair turned her down because every time she borrows his book she huffs "geez, I wish I had someone like you to tutor me..." and he makes a joke about his C+ average i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 02:57 AM
5

I had a few "Oh come on, she likes you!" guilt trips and every time you stand firm and say there's no interest on your end you get tons of guilt and pressure to "just give it a try!"s. Post tinder, it's much much rarer because everyone's accustomed to just tossing their crush out and buying a new one off the shelf. I think these posts are kinda focused on the past, and the girls aiming for the hot lifter all her insta friends like are racing to be the one atop the pile. Being verbally denied rui…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 02:53 AM
6

There was a girl in our dude circle that would end up driving hard to start dating a couple of the guys in series, and only once. After it happened the 3rd time someone let the secret slip when they asked if they would be a steady FWB or not. He said "Oh, uh....probably not. She smells real, real bad. I can't take it, even trying to ignore it. I'll let someone else try." I don't think she ever found out, she was cool enough but no one wanted to drop the grenade.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 02:46 AM
7

And even that rule is outdated post-tinder. There's so much date 1 bangin' it's almost confirmed that there's zero interest if some sort of action doesn't occur.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 12:30 AM
4

n't As correct as it is, it's like saying "How can I get over my meth addiction?" and hearing "well dumbass, you never should'a started doin' meth in the first place!" Even mentioning abstinence to the teen crowd is 'shaming' now, so it's not gonna catch on any more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 12:18 AM
9

I talked to someone who did photography for stores or fashion. After working with so many irritating models, he just gave up on hiring real women and bought a couple loveDolls in different sizes and posed them instead. Somehow models still make it out to be the toughest job around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 12:21 AM
10

"Oh, you've been working hard and saving up for your dream car? That's wonderful, have you ever considered, instead of wasting hard earned money on a Mercedes SLS, buying this spinster a nice, well appointed porsche cayenne turbo? You'll love giving up your passions and paying for the maintenance, constant wrecks, insurance, tires, while never being allowed to drive it. Just think! You get the feeling of being a "good guy" 'and helping someone's life! Who needs fulfillment and goals?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 12:03 AM
19

I'm seeing this guy passing around not just in the men's circles, but the women's too. Gotta say it's a trip, the non-black ladies seem torn about disagreeing, since it would make them seem evil, so they have to tiptoe around the arguments and focus on bizarro outliers like "well what if she gets preggers and he dies in a car accident? She's not allowed to be happy?" Finally a palatable RP-ish guy who can put it out clearly and effectively.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 11:59 PM
12

Every time I mention my (lifelong) moratorium on mommies, that's the immediate "but but but but what about war widows? Cancer widows!!?" It's a fantastically small percentage in my experience, but they would likely get leeway to a certain extent. But not a free pass. She's still an adult, and she'll be judged by her reaction to her life circumstances. It's not a freebie to rack up mountains of debt, eat out nonstop, pack on pounds, and demand a rescue man to come in at the 11th hour when the car…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 11:57 PM
16

Welcome to society, where shame is abolished and every decrepit, rotting system is crumbling around us. You can't point out the ever increasing cracks in the foundations, it ruins people's good times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 11:53 PM
5

It's funny how many Si-Ma's I hear guaranteeing the idea that "I've got it totally under control, if I date a guy he doesn't have to do anything! No reason to be afraid, I don't need a dad or nothing! Just some attention!" It's the most hollow promise. They always toss it out when the guy refuses to drive the kid to the dentist when she forgets, or when she's looking to hang out with her friends and he'd rather play vidya.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 09:59 PM
4

They'll fuck his up when they break into his garage to steal a motorcycle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 09:57 PM
11

Yeah but look at how successful that iteration of Christ became in pop culture. They focused on the nicest, meekest, most merciful, forgiving, and loving aspects of the messiah and cut away all other attributes. What's left for many now is basically a patron God of (Guilty) Hedonism. Do whatever you want all the time, as long as you feel a little bad, you're good to go!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 09:55 PM
3

those Yeah, he's right! And they should stop doing drugs all the time, and-and-and havin' nasty sex with strangers! And they should always give 110% at everything they do to make an honest dollar! *Resumes whittling on a wooden duck, rocking on the porch*
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 09:54 PM
16

This month has been a red suppository for so many comfy, complacent people. They're finally realizing that everything they've been taking at face value may just have been edited and reframed to suit the teller's purposes. If they're this brazen lying to our face now, how much worse was it when news was sent across the world by two guys in a telegram card?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 09:51 PM
3

There's seldom anything more embarrassing than the idea of that sub. It's like the nerds dressing up in the debate room and play acting they're the cool kids, except they can't actually party, smoke, swear, or have fun. Bizarre. But it makes youtubers a lot of money.
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 08:33 PM
4

Guys put pretty much zero thought into picking a good mother to make a kid with. They focus on the stupidest shit like her liking lego's, or watching the same shows, maybe even how well their personalities match but they never ask what came to be my primary dealbreakers: Is she kind? Is she selfless? Can she love a child more than herself, or is everything just a monument to her narcissism? Good luck, when you hold entire generations to the standard of "do whatever makes you feel good in the mom…
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 08:31 PM
1

FB really fucked the internet by letting in the waddling, stupid hordes. Now they expect moderation and content standards everywhere they go, and like it or not their herds of eyeballs are needed to show 'popularity' to entice creators to come in and perform for them. Lately I finally got normie people asking to be let into the cool kids' part of the school bus, but they're instantly spooked by seeing "illegal stuff everywhere." Oh no, someone's selling information! That sounds so sinister! That…
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 08:16 PM
1

It blows me away the kind of concessions you can get for the super replaceable crap like furniture. For some reason they'll get all wrapped up in the $900 sofa and give away all kinds of stuff they can't just run to ikea to get.
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 08:13 PM
1

Isn't that all the P2P stuff? I think zeronet had issues with that too.
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 07:30 PM
25

I like "My labor my choice", anything that sounds more palatably woke will help me blend in more in a hostile work environ.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 06:59 PM
7

Because focusing on school and work in your youngest, most healthy years to have kids keeps playing out in a pattern. They procrastinate family building, saying they don't want it, that they've risen above primitive impulses like that..... And then they toss all that off and try to rope someone into an ill-fitting, poorly-arranged, unfulfilling marriage of convenience to try to outwit nature and pop out some kids as the window closes further. I know, it's not the kind of thing we're supposed to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/21 09:17 PM
2

That's the fun of the modern, morally righteous person. They can be as hateful and derogatory towards (only the approved! Don't worry, they'd never subject an inappropriate target to negative speech) anyone they please, but they have the toughest time coming up with hurtful names. Is it because our thought processes are so different? I've found their name-calling is based around mocking other's perception of their target, whereas male insults are based more on material, intrinsic embarrassments.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/21 08:53 PM
9

I've known few men to be all that particular about looks and weight, since they put thought into finding their looks-parity in the market. Even if she can stand to lose 40-50 pounds, they'll lie to themselves and say "well after the wedding she won't have to work, so she'll be able to finally work out a lot more and THEN she'll be gorgeous! I found a diamond in the rough!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/21 08:46 PM
1

It's tough to watch guys drag these dead birds onto our porch with a "See? Look! I brought you something! I BTFO that birdie with facts and logic!" I wish we could teach people that no logic-based argument works on people like this, only embarrassment and shame. A paragraph of stats n' rationale is useless against her. Better to pretend she wrote something that seems obviously ridiculous to everyone else, but not say exactly what's wrong. The enigmatic mockery lingers long after the comment is d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/21 08:44 PM
7

Most of the female come-ons I've heard about muscles are never the ones guys think of, anyway. We'll focus on traps, bi's, etc. but all that work is wasted when you hear "OmG i love how your elbow has like, a muscle there that's so heeeet"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/21 08:41 PM
1

"Don't listen to the Japs for ideas on how to live. We stopped trying to grow up in 1946" -Old japanese man at the corner by me. They have a very unusual society that hasn't grown naturally, going from peasantry to rapid industry, then immediate imperialism, then a hard coup-contra-coup over to weird, yankee neoliberalism. It's a jumble of ideology inherited and forced, and they're miserable for a reason. Their manga chars are beta to us because that's what they think is "heroic' behavior, being…
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 08:32 PM
1

If you can say that with a straight face, you haven't lived much. No matter how bad, these are still the greatest times mankind has ever seen. At least be grateful to the suffering of those before you, because of them you're able to shitpost in comfort. Things will get much, much worse, but we're only as good as what we defeat.
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 08:28 PM
3

He didn't do much all that pefectly, but this is about the last time there was sufficient momentum to change anything at all. It's been an issue for decades but only a small group would bring it to light and let it go when they got smacked down by the machine. Now it's here to stay, hope everyone like corporate wagecuckery!
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 08:26 PM
3

>I've always wanted to be a traditional stay at home mom, just taking care of the house and kids. Then why did you rack up $80,000 in student debt for an art history degree?
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 08:24 PM
3

THis is underrated. as fun as it is to call BS in the open, it poisons the well for everyone else. Every OF skank that gets blown off will let her friends know to hide it in the future.
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 08:23 PM
20

It's honestly revolting to hear "Ew, I hate kids, I never want them" from a lady. It's just so self-absorbed and indicative of such severe, nihilistic, selfish brainwashing I can't believe I hear it so often. Even ten years ago dysgenics like that were fringe weirdo's, now they're pop culture tropes of independence and "fulfillment".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/21 07:00 PM
38

Not even humor, it's an ego trip with a thin veneer of "heheh" to be able to post it and show all her friends with kids "See? You show off how happy you are and your stupid kids, but I'm better than that. I'm fixing the world!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/21 06:49 PM
26

Yeah, when you treat cock as a hobby you ought to settle down with another weiner enthusiast like yourself, so you can share fun weekends on the coast going dick-spotting or painting miniatures. But nope, everyone on earth has to love the same things they do. Why can't bitches get into miniature railroads? (I wanted to say 'trains" but....well they like those too)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 09:39 PM
30

Good luck out there! I really feel for you in that situation, it's crazy how much the market has changed in so short a time. I have a friend who just divorced too (got cheated on) and she was married in '96. She's open about what happened, and having one partner under the belt is proof of good conduct and loyalty. I thought she'd have a hard time with it but she's been pretty popular, mostly because she comes off as good, stable, family-building material. (Not to mention she was very fair in the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 09:36 PM
26

Ah but you're thinking about life in the before time. Before the tinder, before the bumble. Before the tumblr convinced them all that no matter how grotesque, they were perfection given body. That used to be a good idea, finding the diamond in the rough, but now they get so much attention and approval they think the rough is just fine without a cut. All the uggums I've seen post ~'12 or so have a constant stream of dudes approaching them online because guys go for looks parity thinking she's mor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 09:05 PM
21

My friends who are seriously about marriage and family rearing have spent their mid 20's moving further and further down the age slope in dating. At 22 they'd happily go out with a hot 28 yo, but now they're so turned off at it they're capping it at senior year of college. It's insane the kind of dating mileage people are putting on themselves, imagining that all it takes to clean the slate is moving to a new town. I think in the far future we'll learn that it affects the hormones and brain a lo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 08:56 PM
56

Borrowing a ferrari is awesome. Finding out you're now on the hook for the service and tire cost.....eh. Maybe it's not that fun after all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 08:54 PM
166

"You're so inescure, why won't you lick this dog turd? Ha! Everyone look at how intimidated this guy is by a dry dog turd! what a dumbass, all my fellow dog turds constantly tell me I look delicious!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 08:51 PM
1

Don't let them hear you say that, they'll come around and brad about their uncle in the country having plenty of firearms, like a double barrel 20g for pheasants and a K frame with an 18" counterweight. When that passed in '95, the entirety of our family pulled out of Britain for good. Haven't been back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 08:48 PM
2

How young are you? I find this phrase gets more and more common the longer we all live. I still can't believe it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 08:46 PM
1

Is there a way to dress it up as a "pro-choice" argument? Maybe a trans-dad finds paying child support is a cause of dysphoria and stress to be forced by the government to take on a "male" role.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 08:45 PM
1

Even at best it's still someone being taken advantage of. If it weren't for societal pushes in media and make-believe pop morality, we would treat it like any other person allowing others to take advantage of them. Ever seen an identity theft case within a family? "Oh well, i mean it's only forty thousand dollars of credit card debt, if I reported it then my mom would get in trouble, y'know? I hate her, but I can't send her to jail, she's family. I'll just pay this debt off in wage slavery for a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 08:44 PM
9

People used to joke about 'pregnancy brain'. It dawned on me at 14 when my GF went on hers and seemed a lot less sane. But hey, small price to pay for "better skin and regular cycles". (Except for her constantly trying to kill herself)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 12:25 AM
6

There ain't a whole lot of money left over for a lot of docs when you account for malpractice insurance, student debt, and the crushing hourly load. If you wanna make a lot of money, the only way you can enjoy it is in your forty minute porsche commute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 12:18 AM
6

But it's still only mid-afternoon. Gotta get a lot darker before any of that.
/r/MGTOW06/01/21 11:59 PM
4

It's no sure-hit for success to move somewhere else. Being a guest abroad exposes you to some considerations you don't think of at home. Moving into the US won't have your locals telling everyone you're an american spy agent and having gov't shadows tailing you all the time. Fitting in and buying the trust of your neighborhood takes a long time, and even then they'll still turn on the guy who doesn't belong there.
/r/MGTOW06/01/21 11:59 PM
1

BTC has it's fair share of problems but it's the name brand coin. It'd never get where it is now if it weren't for being the only coin most fat old people recognize on the crypto exchange list. The question is if that ever gets usurped. Ideally the crypto market can mature and some more private coins can circulate more. So far most old timers jumping in BTC are pretty much buying and holding to sell off to their friends when they get desperate.
/r/MGTOW06/01/21 11:56 PM
8

All my life I've been hearing about the moves the reps are gonna do, then they always manage to stumble on their own feet and do nothing at all. For all the control they've had over the years, I can't think of anything they've done but only slightly dial back the most recent dem changes. Almost like everyone in politics has gamed the system for apparent equilibrium, so they can all enjoy the profits.
/r/MGTOW06/01/21 11:53 PM
11

"I can't articulate the human soul without $114,000 of debt and six years of classes from fart huffing narcissists" is the vibe of pretentious "uneducated artists are nothing more than amateurs" crowd. If they said you could produce good work without spending the money, it devalues their credentials.
/r/MGTOW06/01/21 11:49 PM
5

It's different to encounter it the old fashioned way, in bits and pieces, castaway VHS tapes and crinkled playboys. Imagine being five years old when you first see it when your mom gives you a tablet to keep you quiet. Imagine you get a phone in first grade "for emergencies" and it just happens to be on the families unlimited data plan. It's wildly different when you grow up with it, it ends up inoculating them to some measure of sexuality. Developing brains adapt to the environment they think t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/21 03:09 AM
1

Come on... do you really think a hooker would just lie? Why? It's not like she has any interest in getting more money or free trips and gifts out of it.....huh. You may be on to something. Next you're gonna tell me police aren't required to identify themselves to you!
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 09:48 PM
2

You think they'll ever let you escape? Guys smart enough to wanna leave animal farm are too useful to let go of. We're here forever.
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 09:33 PM
0

She's not fifteen, she's from an older generation. Chances are in her country especially the whole "marital-X" thing was talked up, along with the old traditions like crossing the threshold, etc. I'd put the probability of falseness at 20%, tops. It's a bit too linear and casts her in a poorer light than usual, but it does have that working 'professional' tinge to the drama queen, emotive base.
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 09:13 PM
3

Exactly. As good as it feels to stand up for yourself in the moment they have far too much leverage to make it worth it. You can use their own games like: "OMG I'm so sorry but I can't drive anyone, I have major anxiety attacks when someone's watching me drive and it makes me so stressed and I get panic attacks really bad-" "Oh nvm, I'll get someone else to drive me" This kid is now going to pay for the blow-off when she comes to work talking about his extremist political views, drug use, or inc…
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 08:08 PM
5

Lots of political activists seem to somehow stumble into leadership positions lately. Out of touch boomer fucks think popularity on tiktok and twitter will translate to real world attendance. They won't.
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 08:01 PM
1

I don't know how so many people believe themselves christian yet feel no anger at the continuous, corrosive, and degrading presence of worldly attitudes seeping in from all corners. All it takes to stem the tide even a little bit in people's minds is speaking up and pushing people to reassess, but, again, people don't really care about what's right. They care about what's perceived as right, since church is now much more about community building, group cohesion, and social belonging. It's why so…
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 08:00 PM
5

There are already orgs built to oppose any advancements, constantly placing fluff pieces in friendly journos about how robots and dolls need consent architecture built in, or to be banned altogether. It's a threat to their marketplace and strikes at the core of their value, just the thought ignites a primal panic in the deep part of their brains.
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 05:42 PM
2

Those seats really are a great sifter. I miss having tight seats, it's great at scaring off forced carpooling. "Oops. Can't fit in with a waist over 35", sorry folks. Guess I'll drive alone. See ya there." is always nice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/21 02:56 AM
5

"OMG just be a f'n man and buy a gas-powered plunger already! You're lucky I even think about dating you!'
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 10:40 PM
1

At a certain point we'll be have crypto versions of these to bet on too. (Stock tip: The most successful one is dogpill-coin)
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre04/01/21 10:37 PM
9

It's funny how guys get older and their willingness to play along erodes by the day. When they're young they'll sit and say "well, I get where you're coming from, maybe what you're saying is somewhat true, we just don't see any evidence of it...but hey maybe you're right." At a certain point it becomes "Bullshit, feel how you want, but it's wrong and you can't re-write reality."
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre04/01/21 10:35 PM
6

It doesn't shatter them unless it's put into words. Othewise it's like wanting a bag filled to the brim with dollar menu shit AND a nice $100 steak. She's always gonna be hungry again, why can't she alternate and have what she wants? All those pretty girls online get what they want! It needs to be fair!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 07:48 PM
8

Excellent! Perfectly describes why I don't date chicks over 25-8.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 07:43 PM
11

I love this tweet, it's definitely in my compressed collection of "Dating in 20XX" images that show just how shit the market is. Welcome to the pool, divorced gen x-er. Here's what you're fighting tooth and nail for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 07:40 PM
24

Well look at it from the people in charge's view: It's much much cheaper to indulge in the fantasy of kingship than to try and fix anything. They'll be just fine paying all the same structures fleecing them if they're caught up in some fantasy of a past that never was.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 07:39 PM
14

They physically mature faster, I.E. their bodies hit puberty just a short while before the equivalent boys do. Psychologically, at fourteen or so, they're pretty much set for life unless something big happens.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 01:24 AM
3

People tend to overstate the amount of work and stress a task takes if it forces them to engage in self-reflection they've been desperately avoiding. Bet she hated the time it took to even think about her 'pluses'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 01:19 AM
16

Narcissism. People are so self-absorbed they don't think about the possibility that the people they're chasing don't think like them. They think everyone must be no different than a copy of their brain. It's why so many guys think the secret to courtship is being agreeable, malleable, giving, supportive, and near worshipful towards girls. It's why spinsters think they're a better, more attractive commodity at 33 with an MBA than they were at 22 with a GED.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 10:32 PM
9

The other day I saw a girl like this seethe as a handsome, uniformed guy asked out the young secretary working the desk. She seemed to think the guy owed her a night out first, but he wasn't having any of it. I love how these top-tier guys owe their allegiance to her first, before considering anything else. After all, it's not like she wanted him at his worst....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 04:34 AM
12

"Can I have your dad's number? (obviously I'm going to ask for his daughter's hand in marriage)" "Why? WTF? I can't believe you're so sexist! You act like I don't have any body autonomy my friends won't believe this shit go away I don't wanna look at your stupid sexist male face I'm gonna call my friend brendan, y'know, that guy from the work retreat." "So not so old fashioned, huh?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 04:31 AM
7

"strong" should mean that old, western settler grit that had a mother holding up the house, carting the water, and gutting the meat for the homestead. Strong should mean discipline of mind and willpower, control over one's desires, and the spine to stand for what her belief system entails. I don't know how strong she could be while living for herself, it just seems like aside from forms of abstinence, exercise, and career work there's only so much development the soul can do without such a funda…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 04:28 AM
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D A N C I N G S A N S
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 04:24 AM
21

It's scary working in close proximity. My go-to is to be very private about my sexuality and say something about "figuring it out before I start meeting people". Joke's on them, I'm android-sexual. Just a few decades ahead of the curve.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 04:21 AM
5

Our society has coddled emotions for so long, for so many generations, that the act of harming them in any way, shape, or form has been demonized. It only makes the reaction worse as time goes on, and the demand that all the world plays pretend with whatever false narrative we present is basically accepted as the only moral thing to do. It's how you have obese, unemployed singles in their forties telling their friends they're waiting for 'mr. right' and demand he make mid 6 figures and own a few…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 04:18 AM
1

maybe he's super smart and it's meant to lull potential dates into a sense of acceptance. "yeah, that's right!" "Oh, do you know any workers? It's always been my dream to settle down and travel the world, burning through the considerable trust fund my grandfather's oil company provides.... only someone who's extremely knowledgeable about sexuality could come along, someone, uh, I dunno, like a stripper or former escort." "OMG what a coincidence! I'm an escort!!!!" (Objective completed, engage gh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 03:57 AM
3

I think everyone needs to decide where their line in the sand is before going into the market. Make that decision while your mind is clear and you aren't all horny whether or not you'd build your life around someone in these lines of work. This guy was smart and stood up for himself. Good to see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 02:14 AM
1

I'm pretty sure those "Hey fellow men, I'm a shy man, here's some advice" articles were written by the same woman. Nothing about it seems like it was written by a guy.
/r/MGTOW31/12/20 02:58 AM
2

If you wanna be successful, being your own boss is a great way to spend pretty much every waking moment at work. It's a curse, you always feel like you should be using that time to work and advance the career. At the end of the day you can leave your stuff at work and not think about it 'til morning. There're upsides to that.
/r/MGTOW31/12/20 02:42 AM
13

For anyone with a hankerin' for upchuck-erin' should go check the OF subs, it's really astounding to see what some people present as beautiful spank material. Like, mind bending to see zero self awareness condescendingly saying "If you like this garbage back full o' lawn clippings jammed in a six dollar thong, you can see even MORE if you pay me $12 a month!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 11:31 PM
3

A good relationship, with a good woman, can do a lot of beneficial things, not just enhance your productivity and life happiness. The problem is the sorts of environments, social support structures, and cultural norms that produce such people are critically rare. Chances are, even if you have one, the paradise won't last forever as new friends, new coworkers, new classmates, and so on will pollute your home with the same hypergamous nonsense as the rest. It's cliché to say "they don't make 'em l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 11:16 PM
4

I like that old comment about these articles being nothing more than sales pamphlets trying to sell you on the idea that "there are good timeshares out there! Bad timeshares give them all a bad name but come on, there are some great investments out there, boys!" It just sucks that guys don't just get burned out of the game entirely, but they often either see it or experience it firsthand. Having a tradwife decide to pull stakes and bail a few years into marriage basically shows that no one is sa…
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 09:51 PM
3

Has internet service gotten pretty good down there? Even if it's just handing out hotspots it was always a weak point of rural livin'. Did you need a local to buy land? I know some places give you problems if you try to buy a couple acres without a native "partner" to vouch for it. If you're rural, do people let you belong? I've been wanting to accelerate my plan to move back to LatAm. but with things the way they are I wonder if they'll always treat you like a spy. (Not that I blame them, but m…
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 09:48 PM
3

Sometimes they see the light if you treat them like a woman. "Are you serious?! You know that's financial abuse! You shouldn't be treated that way, does she hit you? Belittle your achievements and contributions? Does she hurt you? You know you can get a restraining order if you need it....it's okay, most victims of abuse have a hard time accepting the truth."
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 09:38 PM
7

"Everything you bring to the relationship can be replaced with a fifteen dollar fleshlight, and even then you lose because I don't have to worry about other dudes knocking it up."
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 09:36 PM
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I really think it's that projective idea, fembrain seems much more amicable towards the idea of taking on the definitions and beliefs of the people around it. She's come to believe some things that should be repulsive and innately disgusting are now wonderful and brave traits, that there's no wrong at all. They don't get that no matter how many times they repeat some slogan or word, guys don't look externally for a sanity check. No matter how much you drill in the "correct" idea in guys' heads, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 09:31 PM
5

Even worse, the fresh imports needed for care for a non-reproducing population will mean her last 10 or so years of dementia will be spent shitting herself while the recently arrived mauritanian guy keeps rolling his eyes at her rambling about the carousel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 07:13 PM
11

And “dead cat bounce”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/20 04:11 PM
2

After skanking around for 15 years, they get desperate and "return" to the fold. Almost everyone gets suckered into the grift, and they trot her around thinking they're doing the right thing by hooking up this lost, prodigal lamb with some poor victim who thinks she really had a change of heart. I've seen it at least 10+ times, they weasel out of telling the truth of their past and pretend they've been nothing but a victim. "I've had two boyfriends! (Teehee, sex with strangers doesn't count as r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 10:51 PM
1

but it might not. Look at how hard they're constantly cracking down on digging into the past and user-generated content. There're a lot of ladies who will finally be willing to settle who know deep down all their homespun porn won't help their search. Gotta delete it all! Quick, pass a law that lets me veto anything online!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 10:47 PM
11

"Not in the mood? Eh, that's fine, I'll find someone else."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 10:44 PM
14

The euphemism I like about complaining about terrible men: "I hate Iphones, every one I've bought has a bunch of cracks in the glass and the battery lasts like half an hour tops." "Huh? where the hell do you buy your phones from?" "Oh I get all mine off craigslist, anyway Iphones are trash, they need to start making some without broken glass for a change!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 10:43 PM
8

I used to think it was bunk, that everyone was better than instinctive, habitual creatures. The more I see the more I think those instincts are still totally in control, with rationalization forming a veneer of logic. Evolutionarily it's best to use up her valuable gestation time with a guy who will thrive in a cruel world. Someone who can be a predator amongst prey, who can fight his way past survival to enjoy life at the top. It's easier to find someone like that in a prison over an accounting…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 10:37 PM
5

Well you're already a step ahead, smart enough not to get married in med school. The stress is like a pressure cooker and you'll be going through so many job swaps and changes it's just too much to ask of a marriage unless you have a real solid foundation. Granted, dating will maybe be a bit harder after, as you find the gold diggers think it's a ticket to instant riches and convertibles. (Which may be, depending on malpractice insurance AFAIK) I've heard that it kinda helps to sift them out if …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 10:25 PM
4

I think there's an old parable that an old maid is like a grown oak, one that lost its flexibility and can no longer grow intwined around another. Wish i could remember the translation because it seems apt. She's fixed in her ways for better or most likely worse. Doesn't do dishes until they fill the sink? Too bad, she's always done that an no one cared before. Doesn't look before sitting on the toilet, but it's your fault? Eh, why should she have to change, you're the lucky one, after all- you …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 10:15 PM
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But it rarely seems to last. I don't know any guys that stay home and play domestic that made it past their kids' teen years. At some point she starts getting antsy or embarrassed when all her friends trade up of mock her 'house hubby'. I'm sure there are a few stable, long-lasting relationships with a sugar momma but I wouldn't bank on it working out. Esp. if she has kids and realizes playing with them beats work most of the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 10:12 PM
13

I'll confess "intimidated" is a valuable tool in the relationship avoidance box, at the cost of further inflating aged egos. It's just so effective when you wanna avoid dating in the workplace but any other let down will inevitably cause too much anger at the rejection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 09:59 PM
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"She make pp harrrrrrd! Duh! It's worth it!" (Except after spending $117,000 on fertility, multiple IVF's, and finally having triplets with DS she reveals that she just ain't feeling the whole marriage thing and she'll be getting the house and retirement if you take full custody.) HOT? Worth it. End of story. If you're only dating/marrying for sex then you may just as well invest in lululemon yoga pants and Amway intro packs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 09:55 PM
1

Some get thot credit and outcompete their friends, seems to happen in those post-conservative places that are flipping super progressive where only the old boomers still believe in not whoring around. They get to play the "I'm so oppressed for my hypersexuality OMG everyone gimme asspats" while not actually feeling any shame from anyone but grandma. Also comes down to their lack of empathy or understanding for dudes they chase. They get to publicize the number as a badge, empirical proof that th…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 09:49 PM
6

Just cross your eyes with a picture of the moonscape next to hers. Close enough approximation, like a magic eye painting that kills boners.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 09:21 PM
2

When you see this call is out for the abhorrent racism we all know it is underneath. usually messages like this come from people new to our culture, we should be understanding and welcoming to them as they navigate the difficult new multicultural world they're now in. (?)
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 09:11 PM
3

Not even traditional roles, this idea of women being pregnant and living like shieks on a sofa for a year straight is fantasy. They worked their asses off too, survival has only come easy in the last hundred years. Also, "female diplomacy" is invariably spinelessness and capitulation based on hypotheses of possible response, rarely ever useful in actually working in reality.
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 09:06 PM
1

You can learn a bit about someone by their nails. Guys who are chill usually don't have immaculately kept, perfectly symmetrical ones with zero cuticle, they clip them when they notice and keep living. Women with long nails signal that they care much, much more about what other women think about them over all else. Comfort, convenience, tranquility, utility, even whether their guy likes it- all is superceded by the opinion of the tribe. Most guys hate them for being dirt traps, smelling weird, a…
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 09:01 PM
1

I hate it when they pretend to care. It's so patronizing.
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 08:52 PM
4

It's easier to quietly roll your eyes and keep on livin' instead of risking your livelihood over an argument.
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 08:49 PM
4

I suspect it's from guys raised by women, it's a very feminine thought process to look for support and consensus from a group. Dads will teach you to be strong and stand alone with your convictions, moms teach you to fit in, mold to the collective, and have everyone else fight your battles for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/20 08:00 PM
3

It gets worse. I've seen families that keep that down to the stuff they use at home. Everyone keeps tally on how many batteries, paper towels, etc. they use so they can all split the payment. Very weird, but it does cut down on waste.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/20 07:56 PM
7

There's a kind of relationship inflation that's been getting stronger as they all go on instagram. All it takes is one skank influencer showing off the five course french meal every friday to sour all her followers on their guys not doing the same. Some guys are little more than slaves to their women, and they're all too proud to show it off. "selfishness" is her label to affix to the guy refusing to play the game with all her friends. She wants to brag about all the time and effort she's worth …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/20 07:50 PM
5

I can't think of a single non-mistake the government made in the last 100 years, seems like it's nothing but making it all worse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/20 07:46 PM
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We're still heading up on the roller coaster. Just wait until we have the majority of our power structures controlled by women born prior to 2000. Hope you have an exit plan or some land in the boonies! (Granted you'll likely get wAco'd anyway for not living in bugville)
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 07:37 PM
5

You're lucky to have one, I'd be absolutely disengaged from society if it weren't for wanting kids so bad. Having kids is fantastic, people just dislike it because they choose to make shitty ones with shitty mothers and put as little effort into parenting as they can. Every dad I know said the happiest moment of his life was seeing his first kid, bar none.
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 07:35 PM
12

I had a gf for ten years straight, always bouncing from one to another. I felt like I had to keep getting one to say I was trying in life, because I kept picturing this happy family that was always just one year away. Each one would constantly reveal huge inconsistencies of belief systems and goals that would start the hunt all over again. After realizing for ten years straight I had only met one girl that I'd happily marry (who not too long after got hitched/divorced to a druggie, so she proved…
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 07:31 PM
6

Well, some cute, but mostly it's mother nature hoodwinking you with the magic of youth. If you look past the whole peppy, fresh faced young lass vibe and mentally age them up a few years, you can inoculate yourself to such tricks.
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 07:27 PM
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They let the furor die down, then rinse it after people stop looking. That Nike ad was pretty much perfectly timed. Everyone hates it, then two weeks later it's full of supportive, astroturfed bullshit.
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 07:24 PM
4

Didn't he set it up in the UK, too? Come on people, why does anyone expect anything right, true, or just to come out of that wretched hive of scum and villainy.
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 07:22 PM
9

That's a very good idea....if you're nine. If you take a look at these types and see what they're paying for the simplest things you realize 9 mil will last maybe a year or two, since they've never had to use self control to stretch it out they'll just keep on truckin'. "Oh my house payment is eighteen grand a month? No worries. Ooh! Let's fly to colorado to ski! Ew, I'm not flying public, just charter a jet, they're cheap! Only nine grand for a private jet? Nice! Make sure you buy me a lotta co…
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 07:21 PM
17

A sad fact is that no one likes a co-worker enough to go to their funeral. Why waste a day off for that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 01:21 AM
4

They hate him because there's a western inferiority complex towards asians, especially japanese girls. Pretty much everyone is at least heifer-sized in the states, just the thought of forgoing their dating market and heading to skinnier pastures incites this knee-jerk panic in american women. It's like they sense one more guy leaving their pool of available chumps to skim money from. Also, don't date japanese girls if you're looking for good, stable, long term tradwifery. You may make it work by…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 01:04 AM
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You can play that game too. At a certain point I got tired of sharing a life story every time you meet someone new, it's easier just to say "Eh, that's a bit personal, isn't it? I'm not comfy with talking about myself that much. How about-"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 12:57 AM
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Not to mention all their talk of basically getting into a special needs relationship. Having to walk around on eggshells and augment the already tiresome act of being with a woman with an entirely separate, custom-made owners' operating manual for a relationship is ridiculous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 12:45 AM
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I pressed for a description of an ex's though process and when she talks about empathy, she's not thinking "what is it like to be this person in these circumstances? How would I feel in their position?" She thought "putting yourself in their shoes" meant to judge your reaction to their issues. So she would hear some sob story and think "Oh, I have to mirror that sadness or else she'll think I'm a heartless monster. Can't have that! Yeah, yeah, boohoo, see? I'm super caring and nice!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 12:44 AM
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No, she shouldn't be sitting at home, she should be making a home. It's not just keeping it clean and tidy and making sure there's a happy home base for the family to operate out of. She should be raising the kid and spend a lot of effort literally building the kind of adults they want. Modern homemaking is a joke, since they've mechanized and automated every chore to a t, then, as if it wasn't easy enough, decried any labor left to do as equal duty for the breadwinner. Lots of 'em now think it …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 12:41 AM
4

Used dto kinda date a girl like that, got set up with her through a friend and she was really, very pretty. Eyes like a husky, super clean, pale skin, dark hair down to her chest, it was just insane that by the third time I hung out with her I couldn't pretend she didn't smell absolutely, completely, awful. When I complained to her friend she said "yah, IDK she hates showering, she always says she only does it like once a month, my parents won't let her in my car. She says it's too hard to do wi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 01:06 AM
2

Popular culture has been in a war on organized religion for decades. They hated the political power of a hardline, static belief system. It's now been successful enough to the point where pretty much any of the out-there sins that would've been spit upon fifty years ago are openly committed and accepted. The push to secularize religion now brings us non-believers vested and propagandizing from the pulpit, the entire thing being twisted and bastardized to accomodate the world's carnal desires. Pr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 12:58 AM
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A large part is the mandated silence of any criticism of them as a whole. Anything that makes them feel negative, instrospective, ashamed, etc. isn't kosher to talk about. So they never improve, lacking any reason to change since everything's fine as is. our popular culture caters to their desires in pretty much every way. It's why they're simultaneously courageous, saintly, innocent, victimized heroes who brave the hellscape of daily life for doing nothing more than existing. It makes them happ…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 12:54 AM
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It seems to fill this weird niche where it's a kind of social status that anyone can attain and improve upon, unlike looks or body type, money or intelligence, it's free to do and easy to attain so it becomes a mini-niche in the tribe. The thing I can never quite figure out is how it would ever help attract men, but then again it's pretty much a survival instinct to raise their position and guarantee outside protection. (But I dunno what I'm talking about)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 12:49 AM
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The internet ruined it for them. They would find it fulfilling and happy, but their innate hunger for status and social station has polluted their perception of the world to the point where they can't just settle down, they're always in this dating/seeking mindset so domesticity is seen as a failure or retirement from the skank race.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 12:02 AM
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Like so many things they see in the world they emulate the action without the purpose. They think guys love going to work everyday because the work itself is somehow innately fulfilling in and of itself. It's not. Guys find worth in their careers when it's able to pay to feed their family and find happiness at home. That's the purpose and drive that they saw in contented career men for so long, not this weird ego trip where they suck in their paunch and jabber endlessly about how strong and inde…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 11:55 PM
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Can ya NOT? It's like you want to summon the harpy flock here. Every time we get a little more attention here their brigading gets a bit more intense and the time remaining drops more. Once we're on their radar we'll be blasted into the ether with the other guy subs. I love this sub for a bite-size illustration of the modern dating market. It saves me the time of farming profiles myself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 11:43 PM
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Well when you only really have one selling point in the modern dating market, you'll do anything to prop it up. "Who the hell want some ridiculous machine from that ford fellow? Can your automobile greet you, can it prance around in excitement when you feed it carrots? Anyone who doesn't think horses are peak technology is an incel. "
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 11:40 PM
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There's a big matrix of "Are you being abused?" with a list of a couple hundred examples of abuse. Some are no-duh's, like forced sex and beatings, but they flesh out the list with "criticizes your efforts as a mother" or "Says you are lazy" in there too. So not only is abuse abusive, but anything to you would do to possibly assist a methhead with some tough love is also abuse. It's almost like the truth and reality of the situation doesn't matter to the justice system, it's just about making pe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 02:50 AM
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Her realistic audience for an upper middle class dude should be in his fifties. At least then they both get what they want out of it. It's sad to think of what happens if she wins what she thinks is hers. Imagine going through all the work, all the toil, all the focus, all the fun you deny yourself to build an excellent position in life. All along you give yourself drive by thinking about the future you're going to earn with your efforts. A great house, wonderful wife, happy kids, a little haven…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 01:30 AM
3

But how can you sleep at night (well, without barbiturates like so many of them do) knowing you're leaving the most important fight of the century? How can you not do your fair share of making clickbait opinion pieces cloaked as "fact checking" to take down the most evil being since the last nazi superdevil? How will people know what their truth is if we don't force feed it to them in every bite of media they consume?! Come back to journalism, they need you so badly! Just think, without you who …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 01:27 AM
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One of the most wounding things I've ever heard come from a woman was a crazy ex who told her rival girl "You know when you leave the room everyone starts laughing at your make-up". It's like a brainworm, it corrodes any kind of validation after that with the constant though of "are they all lying to me?!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/20 07:27 PM
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"I don't look 37!" is code for "Please play along with the pretend act that I look young, all my friends do it, come on!" Could anyone here get away with "It helps that I'm not as poor as I look"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/20 07:21 PM
1

If you're paying netflix, you're even dumber than they think you are.
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 02:07 AM
33

I'm sure the answer is "Take him to the therapist and make sure they put him on a cocktail of drugs to force erections." instead of the most likely one: "have you been gaining weight? Chances are he doesn't find you attractive in your current form." Guys are forgiving in their attraction, they don't need to be anywhere near perfect, but come on, sub 200 pounds is now "too much" to these fat fucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/20 11:23 PM
38

Gramps called them "priests of a different robe" and got mad when he found out I was dating a therapy girl. I shouldn't have laughed him off as much, back them he seemed too harsh. Now I think he wasn't harsh enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/20 11:19 PM
41

Uh, that's not possible. I was assured, very strenuously, by a highly indignant college student that women never use their inherent systemic advantages to weaponize the legal system. Are we just gonna act like a 19 year old upper class girl is wrong? (This is sarcasm)
/r/MGTOW21/12/20 03:23 AM
21

It's the dream! Everyone knows hunky dudes just wanna take an old, soon-to-be spinster out for a three hundred dollar dinner, only to hear "oh, can I grab some more food?" then to have a couple entrees added to-go so the kids have something to eat tomorrow. Unfortunately, "no sex tonight, it's another twenty bucks for the sitter if I'm not home in an hour!" Sounds wonderful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 11:04 PM
3

Similar is how banks and card companies hire telemarketers to sell additional charges to their holders, each of them is usually called an "accounts Manager" or, if they sell enough, a "Senior Accounts Manager"! All about the titles, I think the majority of women prefer an improved title over a raise in their jobs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 11:01 PM
7

I saw a vast, terrifying disparity in dating girls that would almost give off the idea that they prefer this. I think it's a combo of getting the attention of that struggling, heroic special needs mom along with having a never ending instagram following where you chronicle your issues and get a constant stream of dopamine. I literally had a fight once because a date said "I wouldn't ever date a man who wouldn't want to have a special needs child, that's disgusting!" I bailed quick. Esp. for thes…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 08:25 PM
1

My dad would see girls like this and say "See that, buddy? That's the kind of gal that demands ten inches of dick to push through 12 inches of fat rolls." He's a cool dad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 08:10 PM
2

What's infuriating is that instead of rectifying their mistakes, they're just trying to buy out and infect their competition that does it better. Unless they're domestic, in which case they get a cancel campaign and fans are demonized. I can't wait until woke-ism infiltrates all the otaku shit too, the weirdness of people who make will they / won't they harem shows infected with feel-good politically correct GOODTHINK will be terrifying.
/r/MGTOW20/12/20 04:12 AM
55

That's a good point. It's hard to describe to older folks how fundamentally different pretty much every facet of the social fabric is. They've been in the same house, had the same friends, and gone to the same job since the 80's. Chances are they don't know how tattered everything is outside their subdivision. It took a couple years of bringing dates home to the parents to meet before they started saying "huh...maybe you're right, maybe there aren't that many good ones out there."
/r/MGTOW20/12/20 03:24 AM
91

Pshaw, duh, all we have to do is bring in enormous populations from completely separate, dissimilar cultures and let them live here with us. Then the birthrate issues are solved, and.....wait...somehow that fixes it. We can't promote integration, that's evil. Oh well, I don't have to understand it, I just read the Huffpo, cnn, or media piece and it said "It's about time we get over our fears of immigration" and "Of course you're being replaced, here's five reasons that's a good thing!".
/r/MGTOW20/12/20 03:21 AM
3

Hey, he's assessing accurately. In saner times six ain't bad, it's above average. I'd say Jennifer lawrence would be in that neighborhood. We all just have weird standards because so much of the market is fat, it's like inflation, everyone elses' rating goes up a couple points.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 02:59 AM
3

I've had to explain this to someone and she didn't really get how rare it would be until I said "You know Pewdiepie is probably in the top 5% of youtubers. You've heard of him, right?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 02:54 AM
3

It's a payment processor, and since porn is always a very risky market, they get to take a much bigger cut than something like patreon. The industry has a LOT of people cancel, reneg, and chargeback once they attain post-nut clarity. Now you have a service that takes as much out of her money as she (should) pay in taxes! Even funnier when you see them brag that people are "donating" or giving them "allowance" by paying for it. Like 20% of the money is worth throwing away just to have one more fo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 02:53 AM
5

I've heard that a large amount of interest for creators isn't even in western, 1st world countries. It makes sense that a couple million horny Indian guys get suckered into it, but there's likely a few payment analyses that would show that everyday people are buying into it lest the company basically admit it's nothing but a POC fleecing service. I don't know of any people that pay for it, and that seems pretty common. Someone's gotta be pumping money into this, and it can't all be the kids' of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 02:50 AM
2

The big mistake cocksman make is using terminology and explaining it openly. Gotta couch it all in subtle terms and hand wave any accusations of "game" away with "Eh, I don't pay attention to that online nonsense". The zoomer crowd is pretty wise and the sisterhood will sound the alarm the second they hear "hypergamy" etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 02:10 AM
24

As soon as we have a good, somewhat private AI chatbot voiced I'd bet you'll see a big chunk of simp-bux disappear. These days fellas have all the sexual pleasure in the world, but none of the intimacy. Kids now are getting to college and only the smallest fraction of them have even gotten a genuine expression of love from a girl. It really is 80/20 if not worse. Just wait until they get a bot/doll that they can spoon at night and whisper sweet nothings without the fear she's gonna post it on ti…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 01:32 AM
30

Nothing destroys a 20's age girl's attention span like hearing the phrase "no sex before marriage". They can't fathom the idea of holding themselves back when all their friends can raid the cookie jar without a hint of anything less than congrats and atta girls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 01:29 AM
33

"Yah but you don't know anything there was a wetnurse in 1844 who got pregnant with her 9th kid when she was 47 and he was so healthy...." For some reason they always point to the weirdest edge cases. Like their great grandma's were pumpin out kids in their late teens, eating mostly natural food, and living away from the city. A far cry for having lost a few IUDs, smoking pesticide laced weed, etc. today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 01:26 AM
15

Texting is fun and flirty and all, but then you turn seventeen and you realize you're pretty much stuck having the same call/response convo everytime you meet someone new. I can't think of a single time I've enjoyed a text conversation. It's like homework.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 01:23 AM
11

I had an argument with someone this morning about that thing. I was laughing at hearing someone say "my therapist always makes me cry, she's just brutal" and the girl was offended we would say anything negative about the fix-all, flawless art of therapy. I think it keeps coming up as my age group gets closer to their 30's.... for some reason every beat-ass roastie feels like the statement "that's all behind me, because i'm in therapy now!" absolves them of all sin and error.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 01:21 AM
4

Well, that's the cover story. Kinda like "we need to be able to search the internet for stolen kids, give us the tools we need!" suddenly morphs into "Oh BTW, it just so happens funding this allowed us to build a toolkit to protect and monetize stuff in our copyright registry. How lucky, now pay up!" The Hub (though until we get more leaks it's only inferred) got sick of hosting and paying out the ass to provide services that didn't do much to increase revenue, while increasing workload and liab…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 01:12 AM
9

I would think it's pretty obviously nonsensical, if you step back and think of the scale it'd have to be some finesse of info to coddle the users. Other sites like youtube, soundcloud, will have names that are at least somewhat familiar in the top couple percent. The highest earning monetized people are world famous, it's hard to believe that some middle school dropout with bingo wings and a saggy paunch are raking in thousands of digital dollars (or rupees, so the rumour goes) It works well tho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 12:57 AM
4

I guarantee she's been fantasizing about rocketing to household stardom as "that hot paramedic" because she's not just a looker, she's a badass life saver that can hang with the boys!!! Fuckin' dolts that self-dox are so bothersome to listen to. What did they do to that guy writing for Carlson under a pseudonym? Cancel campaign and he's out on his ass. But when it's one of their true believers? "How dare you shame her!".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 09:11 PM
1

Every place around here can run two shifts of idiots willing to work for free. Lots of adrenaline junkies go for it because the training is very simple and quick, so there's always a glut of people willing to work volunteer for the connections or experience. If she wants more money she needs to get higher level training, unless you're a paramedic level some agencies will just have you drive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 09:06 PM
2

It drives me crazy trying to tell normies that these things happened before, even to the point where the flag waving anti-fascists did the same things! It's soooooo crazy how things just coincidentally happened all over again, it's certainly not indicative of long-term political aims and organized astroturfing. No sireee. Totally organic. I don't have much hope the world will move right without severe cultural resets. We've gotten so much better about pleasure in all its' forms. Before they were…
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 08:59 PM
7

People overestimate numbers, what most call 9's and 10's should really be called 7's and 8's. 10 is the theoretical max of human beauty, it needs to be rare. For those outside the western countries, you likely see a lot more "high tier" women because we tend to overestimate hotness in the small minority of women that aren't obese. It's to the point where simply being not fat as shit makes you start out at 7.
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 08:55 PM
2

These days as bad as they are, we're not too far off ourselves. It's possible that they'll be able to phase out all independently posted, non-vetted content. "You cannot upload to your youtube account, please upload an image of proper identification to unlock this feature" is something that seems eerily possible. Esp. when you have an "unsociable" ideology or something that doesn't subordinate yourself to state desires.
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 08:51 PM
9

"What the fuck? What's all this cobbled-in shit? I left you a nice system, now you have it all clogged up with income tax?!? Unlanded people voting? What the hell, what's to stop them from just plugging in whomever promises to pay them off the most from the treasury? What's all this extra shit?! BATFE? IRS? I don't even know what I'm looking at anymore, you're on your own kids." Maybe not great. I think it would piss me off to see so much be changed and adultered while still pretending it's as i…
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 08:45 PM
3

It was more than I expected out of her. The charter schools around here are awesome, and taking down the insanely powerful, vindictive, academian courts in the system was a total win. Do any of these people get in with good experience? Isn't Buttygig gonna lead the Dept of transportation, and his experience with transportation was listed as "I really like riding trains!" and "I proposed to my hubby in an airport!" The machine selectively picks which nasty political actions to build outcry around…
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 08:42 PM
2

Can you really put a price on fitting in with your female coworkers? No one can call him and incel, checkmate, Chuds! (No, it's totally not worth it if you aren't one of those weird, effeminate primates who focuses entirely by survival through conformity and appeasement to other tribe members)
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 08:36 PM
5

Poly for ladies, maybe. They hate the idea of MFFF, on it's face they assume the guy is in heaven. Tons of poly quadrangles are one sow orbited by a few perverts, and that'll catch on as their side of the internet propagates it. It's really fun watching parents fret at their kids going off the deep end, never realizing the reason they didn't do it was their upbringing with some kind of moral system. Then they abandoned it, let their kids go free-range..... now they have to play along at xmas or …
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 09:39 PM
5

I think I literally saved a friends marriage by "confiding" in his wife that he seemed really down and I was worried about him because that's really dangerous at work. "Holy hell stop being a child, he buys you anything you want and you get to be a millionaire while he does everything for you. If you don't fuck him at least once a week we're going to find him a better woman who will." They seem genuinely happy (as well as can be) and every so often we'll ask him how things are going. It does hel…
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 09:00 PM
8

They brag on their social about how they cut it off to spite their dude/ex/whatever. That one girl was pissed her bf dumped her when she got some shitty tattoo, as part of her "Fuck you I'mma indepe't womyn" dance she shaved her head. You go, girl! Long hair is awesome. Especially when it's long enough to walk around the house topless and still be covered. It takes a certain level of healthy hair, self care, and maintenance and that's just too much to ask of modern folks. Longest I see around is…
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 08:56 PM
4

Because they're generally spineless in relationships. With such an immense disparity in wealth though, he's gonna spend a lot of money hiring private counsel for his prospective wife if it has any chance of sticking. Regardless, he'll take it up the ass. They always do in family court.
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 08:52 PM
6

Holy shit mah boi. The zoomer rule is now "Pay no more than $200 minus her weight" for any date or date adjacent outing. Great rule. All we need to do is somehow couch it in pro-SJ speak so it's palatable to tinderellas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 08:47 PM
4

The more they talk about it, the easier it is to get. They have horny fellas subsidize them by offering it to hang out. Some of them never even buy it, they have no idea if it's expensive or not. Kinda like rich kids saying a gallon of milk costs "what, like ten dollars?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 08:42 PM
10

This is what I hear most of all. it's irritating because guys that are only on year five or seven of this perfect marriage will waddle in here and tell us we're being 'unrealistc' and 'ridiculous' because they managed to find one of the good ones! Sadly we won't know the quality of a marriage until both of them are in their 80's, the time bomb can go up at any moment. But hey, you're here, so you'll fare better in the split than someone goin' in blind. I can't stand hearing dumb friends count on…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 08:32 PM
9

Hasn't everyone had a friend that never tried eating out until they're old? The dude who went to olive garden on one special occasion and mcdonald's once in a year? According to him, the 'garden is the best restaurant in town!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 08:19 PM
7

For guys with seniority it's awesome. One friend is literally getting paid 75% of his usual pay to not come in and fly, their union has pay minimums and it's cheaper to give him min than pay him to fly empty boats around. If you're young, you're fucked. Many are going into their backup jobs. Worst of all are the married guys who's whole life dynamic rests on them only being home a few days a month. They're finding out their family only likes him when he's on that "finally, I'm off for a couple d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 08:09 PM
17

I just wrote it, seen a lot of it happening. Flight attendants are a nightmare. They are immensely prideful and they see themselves as gorgeous, world-traveling, inspirational, strong, ceiling breaking professional women. They're basically waitresses that have to lift bags and learn CPR, and most of their "travel" isn't beachside photoshoots with the local beefcakes, but hanging out for an all-too-short layover in Tulsa that gives juuuuuust enough time for a quickie, a drink, and her only chance…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 08:07 PM
3

It's just silly to talk about "making a difference" in work and careerism. Most jobs out there derive the majority of their value from the fact they let you provide for your kids and family. They have this weird idea that guys are always super fulfilled working wherever, but they completely miss why they're fulfilled. In 150-500 years no one will ever give a fuck about how much you increased sales for the NorhEast sales division for Epson, or how you improved the actuary tables to save people fi…
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 01:04 AM
6

Guys do think it's easier to court a fat girl. In male projection, they think the chunk monster will have lower self-esteem like a man does, so she'll understand she can't chase the top 30% of the man pool. They are wrong. ​ Females also push nearly obese women as hot pinups and goddesses because they don't have the same instincts to see if someone's attractive to guys. All they can do is emulate it based on criteria, so when they hear "BOOBS=good, ASS=good" they think by default, BIG ASS=big go…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 12:41 AM
4

It seems to be something they believe shows off their experience in the market. I think we're supposed to say "whoah, she's been very busy with all those guys courting her. This is a rare chance for me to nab her, before the swarms of guys find out she's single again!" They find experience sexy, it means the guy has passed muster with women and he's desireable. They don't know what they want, they just want whatever other girls seem to desire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 12:39 AM
71

Old FA's are just a whole 'nother realm of bitter. Imagine every day at work you're the center of attention, people hit on you as they walk past, the captain always lingers around when you're finishing up hoping to take you to the hotel bar....you're a goddess. Randomly, after rising through the ranks you're now at the top of your game. Not only are you gorgeous, but you're promoted, traveling and immersing yourself in a dreamlike procession of sex, food, and instagram locales. One day you hear …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 12:36 AM
7

There used to be an interesting argument in my fam about what to do in such a case. Oddly I think one of the preferred ones was (if the kid is a good addition to the family and looks like the rest of 'em) then it would get into the main family, while the mother has to live elsewhere and prove herself a good influence. Then again, we want a big family, so adding to the roster is a luxury that is pretty desirable. I do like the idea of tossing the whole kit n' kaboodle out, but I would think twice…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 10:59 PM
4

Exactly. As cucked as they let themselves become, they were pretty clear about knocking down the political influence of catholic/protestant blocks back even as late as the 60's. They ran a long time propaganda war on religion and consistently attacked it in popular culture to get us where we are today. It's not like a shadow cabal was pulling every string but groups of similar thinkers and similar backgrounds tend to share the same dislikes, and with enough of those hands on the control panels t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 02:24 AM
3

If you're not willing to take care of it, maintain it, improve it, and put in all the upkeep (or pay to do it) then it's not a great idea to buy it. With most expensive stuff like nice cars, boats, planes, houses, etc. buying it can often be the cheap part. If I had to rely on unreliable, scatterbrained roommates for solvency I'd really second guess that house unless I could definitely flip it quickly and at least cash out even. Yardwork is something that's easy to forget unless you're contracti…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 08:27 PM
8

Yeah, if it touches the internet, it's not exclusive. I do wonder how many people are clearing their custom porn stash when they turn 18. All the nudes you get in High school quickly turn radioactive with time, but they were earned and mine. I had to get rid of all of 'em because I didn't have a safe storage space going in/out of the US and you never know when border folks will think your electronics need scrutiny. It's just hilarious how they do shitty marketing speak to play up the nonexistent…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 08:21 PM
8

It really picked up once the third world discovered faceber-uh...book. It took a while to figure out how to troll for money. In the myspace days girls would use their friendlist as a trophy case of beefcakes, hoping they had the most thirsty, desperate hotties flattering them on an endless wall to one-up their bitch friends with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 08:16 PM
3

I'm so happy y'all found this. I was just trying to explain to a young bro how women continually overvalue themselves because they grade their tests using the Male answer key, not the female one. A bunch of that stuff is great for a 39 year old guy. For a woman? Hahahahhaha!
/r/MGTOW14/12/20 06:20 PM
1

She's dumb enough to take society at it's verbal statements instead of thinking. Chastity and marriage have increased in value to those who always wanted it, but they're shamed and cancelled for putting their statements into words. If she were old-fashioned and virginal she would be able to snag some superb quality guys to marry. Unlike their counterparts, the guys in my cohort were pretty old-school, a couple have settled down to be dr's and dentists with their young wives and everything's goin…
/r/MGTOW13/12/20 10:02 PM
1

I would think about playing up the antisemitism angle because of the first line. AFAIK "Tiny Hats" is surely ADL listed hate speech, no? Oh wait I forgot a buzzword. Right. Alt-right Dogwhistle. Now only add twenty more words and this is a buzzfeed article ready to publish!
/r/MGTOW13/12/20 09:58 PM
1

It's so irritating having to bite your tongue around people like this. They see a group of guys doing their own thing and but in with their jowly, pointless "hey hey hey you men know I'm a girl?!? Isn't it crazy? I bet you guys were bummed you didn't have any women around here, so let's catch me up and make sure I'm included at the core of everything!" Every friend circle, every team, every breakroom shenanigans, every secretive post-work drinking table, they ALWAYS worm their way in, usurp it, …
/r/MGTOW13/12/20 09:51 PM
2

Well it's a good think our testosterone is mysteriously going down all the time! Could you imagine a world where men acted like masculine animals entitled to protect themselves? No thank you! It's much healthier sharing a fat broad with your WoW guild and collecting funko pops!
/r/MGTOW13/12/20 09:46 PM
1

It really is sad to think of the thousands of ancestors watching this dude say "Well she doesn't have my blood, but who cares? It's not a big deal to me!" All the suffering and living they did hoping to create a better world for their kids and it all comes to nothing with "eh, I'm above petty, primitive feelings like that. we're an evolved age now, blood ties are pointless!" All while freaking out over conserving whatever desert turtle is being harmed by construction. Conservation for thee, but …
/r/MGTOW13/12/20 09:42 PM
2

Many investors now tie their money to 'representation' rules. They'll tell you they fear some social scorn, so it'd alleviate their worries if you give them a photogenic company they can advertise without being called whisky supes on twitter.
/r/MGTOW13/12/20 04:15 AM
11

IIRC these guys are polish. People point out these things, but they never focus on what's really important. Where are all the puerto ricans? Not even a single Filipina! Get it together poland, this is rookie shit!
/r/MGTOW13/12/20 04:14 AM
10

Boy, I sure am glad so many ladies got into those DNA tests totally organically. It definitely wasn't a forced trend to spur interest so originally private, secure data can be bought out in corporate takeover to have a baseline gene map of the population! "Hey kids! For christmas this year I got all of us tests to see what percentage of races we are! You won't be left out from the posts this year, isn't it great? We fit in, now let's hope we have something funky in our bloodline!" is coming soon…
/r/MGTOW13/12/20 03:54 AM
6

"Guys, f'real, let's not make it. It's far too dangerous in the wrong hands." "You're right, let's shut it down." Meanwhile, in xicheng..... "Excellent, we're only a year or two away from completion! We'll finally be able to separate the wheat from the chaff.... You think this will be enough that they'll let us be an upper party member? My uncle said if I have enough accomplishments I could even have a secretary!"
/r/MGTOW13/12/20 03:41 AM
13

The relief when you finally say "fuck this" is similar to the relief you felt finally moving on from a terrible, low-paying job. E ven in the social market in proximity to singles, just the mere specter of "hey, you seeing anybody?" is like hearing your old boss offer you a sweet telemarketing gig.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 03:52 AM
15

It's much like fat acceptance. No one's really into it in the bulk of population, but they can't vocally say so for fear of being castigated. Their silence is understood to be support. It's so dumb to me still. it's like giving a ton of money to be forced to wear your favorite t-shirt at 18.....for the rest of your life. "Yup, I LOVE game of thrones! I'll love it forever! I'm going to represent this until I die in my eighties! After all, I can hardly wait for the second season!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 03:46 AM
3

Who knew cat meat was so fattening? Ya learn something every day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 03:43 AM
2

I wonder if there's an average number of hours of exposure until an uninterested party finally finds something they can convince themselves is 'attractive'. She just needs enough data that she can brag about with a straight face when her friends see how non-beefcake the guy is. "Oh he's a little short, but he's so driven his company is worth...."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 11:36 PM
1

It's not entirely fair to compare modern reproduction to former generations though. Pregnancy goes much, much easier if the pump is "primed" early in life and they've got healthy kids under their belt already. When we talk about post 30 fertility it's less the idea that they'll have any child and more the idea that they're unlikely to have a healthy child. People now treat their bodies like chemical toilets, hop between ten versions of hormonal birth control, smoke pesticide laced mystery weed, …
/r/MGTOW10/12/20 05:23 PM
7

More common is "InSpin" for Involuntary Spinster. Portrays that while capable of obtaining sexual activity, they can't get lasting relationships and tend to simmer in bitter solitude. It is fun to use "Incel" on women, they feel like it's a very effective arrow in the quiver, when it's pointed at them it really sets off that knee-jerk anger. (No matter how untrue the application may be.)
/r/MGTOW10/12/20 05:15 PM
2

I find it's often an excuse to get out of something they don't actually want to do, but are too weak-willed to give you a straight 'no'. "Oh, a 14 hr road trip dirt biking to get BBQ? Uh....lemme check with the wife oops sorry she said no. Ah, the ol ball and chain. Oh well. See ya." If you swap positions they'll be asking her if she needs to be smuggled to a battered women's shelter. Just imagine hearing "Oh, my husband would never! He'd kill me!" without being followed by a gasp.
/r/MGTOW10/12/20 01:36 AM
1

Not to mention the design studios are increasingly american. I used to love imports, now they all look like shit. I remember that can opener grille for the acura was a big deal, it used to have ads bragging about how it was the first one designed by a woman. Same with the malibu IIRC. pedestrian stds really did a number on styling, but this mishmash of hard edge +weird curves will look pretty dated in twenty years. In other countries stuff like the Hilux feels more like their classic stuff, but …
/r/MGTOW09/12/20 11:19 PM
8

They can't in most western countries. It's like saying "How can I enjoy the pleasures of illegal, daily narcotics without losing my self-control, my career, and my lifestyle?" The risks are hard to mitigate and there're enormous challenges that you don't have a ton of control over. Even if you play the part of the perfect husband, the social and legal systems incentivize your wife's divorce, where she can walk away with all the trappings you provide now, with the added bonus of getting "Poor her…
/r/MGTOW09/12/20 11:16 PM
13

All my best lessons from dating happened when I just gave up chasing and accepted someone from the friend zone. Having very little interest in your GF throws the entire dynamic on its head. "Oh you don't approve? I get it, see ya. Your replacement will love motorcycles."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 10:20 PM
9

How did he turn out? Seems like most of these guys left behind a solid body of work we reference today, but when we look at their current lifestyle they've taken on something totally different. They either pivot into totally different content or go into hiding lest the angry mob attack their livelihood. Maybe I just miss the days when writing was mostly on separate pages and harder to censor/squash. Seems like most guys stepped away like him, but at least it's there. The good stuff here may be b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 10:13 PM
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They really are. In our mostly female office the few guys were there would undersell our heights by about half a foot. We had two guys legit 6'2" who said they were 5'8" and all the nurses were bummed about it. The most disbelieving I heard was "Really? wow, I wouldn't guess you're five eight at all, I guess crocs really do add a lot of height!" I assume their resulting disinterest was somewhat genuine, none of them showed much interest in the single guys after that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 09:56 PM
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I find women generally (at least in my dating in the U.S, Mid/West half) don't like guys who want kids until that desperation switch is flipped. They laugh about how serious and intense he is about dating, right until the first person at work or school says "Oh, aren't you thirty already? better start pumpin' out those kids!". One of the weirdest dates I ever had told me that any guy who wants to be a father is obviously a rapist pedophile, because she understood men's thought processes revolve …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 09:20 PM
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Obviously you're just spouting incel propaganda. You see, she's actually the protagonist of this reality, so of course things will work out in her favor. She's the exception!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 09:15 PM
2

I'm thinkin' he may not fit in the seats......
/r/MGTOW09/12/20 03:12 AM
9

Sometimes I wonder if it's their one psychic weakness somehow. If there were hordes of vampires out there wouldn't they always be jabbering about that evil, disgusting garlic? Or maybe it's just the fact that they all drove mercedes, porsche, and wore hugo boss. Deep down it's everything they want.
/r/MGTOW09/12/20 02:26 AM
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It's the result of people living like dogs. "Oh, food is available? I'll just keep eating. Oh more? Nice." on repeat, over and over. I don't think it's much better than any other addiction in society, as much as they wanna write it off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 11:32 PM
2

They've had a rough, rough time in entering the modern world. I think a lot of their issues came from growing paints, jumping from older-fashioned society into the industrial era, then almost right into post-war American-mandated western ideology. It's like a psychic whiplash, from hardcore dutiful imperialist to de-fanged, super egalitarian types in only a couple generations. Maybe it's the result of externally forced cultural beliefs that kinda bring out this melange of conflicting undercurren…
/r/MGTOW07/12/20 11:29 PM
2

from what I see, they end up explaining to the dude they met at church that "well I mean I'm a virgin now, because I decided I was leaving my past self behind. No we can't have sex, I'm a good girl! My ex's account is still up on PH? Uh, well he bullied me into anal with all those guys because he's abusive, I'll never do that kind of stuff again. And you're a nice guy, you would never make me relive those memories, right? Oh wow, I looked so good back then. I wish I was still that skinny...."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 09:09 PM
1

I think it's the female equivalent of when dudes see a rusted, beat to shit hulk of an old car and buy it for $300. Sure, it could be work $100+ when they're done, but they've never turned a wrench and don't own any tools. That possibility is there, though, taking up space in the garage for the far-off day that they manage to figure out how to do a frame-off resto.....but most often it's sold by their widow for scrap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 09:06 PM
3

Can y'all imagine how bitter she would be had she been born a man? She probably has a word for that kind of fella.... If only we had a super strong, monolithic state apparatus that could take the advantages of others and distribute them to her and them equally. Then BOTH of them can be miserable!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 09:02 PM
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I'm sure the IG/influencer nonsense indicates some degree of inherent modern shittiness, but something tells me people wouldn't be going out of their way to help unless she was nice and charming. Granted, everyone's kinder to hot people, but the "nice young married couple" struggling along is a common, beloved underdog everyone wants to help.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 09:00 PM
5

Well by that reasoning it's dumb to eschew dating a heroin addict, because they can always just quit doing heroin, duh. You're not totally wrong, it's just so unlikely because every system of societal shame is being dismantled. Even a doctor telling her to lose weight will be ignored because "well the medical industry is fatphobic, it's stupid bullshit I'm perfect as-is." People like this are basically hedonistic, pleasure-focused animals, and there are precious few incentives to motivate the dr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 08:56 PM
2

With the niche interests in the market, even depreciation can be somewhat optional. I've got a buddy who bought an Evo VIII new, who still refuses to sell it. Bone stock, family car, and I'm pretty sure in current condition he can get about sticker +30% from the offers I head him swat away. Had a coworker with a turbo supra Mk IV too, he stupidly pitched it when F&F got popular and bought some old-man porsche he took a huge loss on. I hate hearing guys give up their dream car for an unappreciati…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 08:51 PM
3

Guys like this that get wise to the grift remind me of the poor fellas that would head to the west in the 70's only to return to russia. "They have supermarkets that have every shelf filled with goodies! Even the most valuable stuff you can just walk up and grab as much as you want! It's amazing, I think they call it cap-ism or something. It's the idea that whatever you make is yours, and you don't inherently owe everything to the st-" and he's hauled off to the gulag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 08:46 PM
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Which is the power of youth. My grandpa would point out girls like that and say "no pay attention, she'll look good for about five more years, then it goes all to hell. You gotta look past the youth and see what they'll grow into."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 08:40 PM
12

what are you saying? Everyone knows teeth that look like a cattle pusher are universally recognized for their beauty. oh you mean in humans? NVM.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 08:39 PM
3

Who'd've thought the omnipotent, omniscient creator of all reality would be outsmarted by whores with some enema pumpin'? Needs a better contract lawyer to catch that kind of thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 07:36 PM
4

But if you explain this they always seem to think they're rare, because I'm not like the other girls. There's only one of me, so I must have stratospheric value!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 09:49 PM
3

I'm 5'10/11 or so, but routinely tell women I'm 5'6" or less. No one can tell, I'm pretty sure a 6'2" guy could say "Hi, I'm five one" and get nothing but "Tsk, that's too bad, you don't seem that short, but......sorry you're not really my type."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 09:09 PM
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When I was actively wife-hunting I'd tell people that despite going out with girls (though not online dates, usually in-person church meets) I didn't really like any of them enough to build a relationship, I'd get shouted down about having ridiculous expectations. "You need to give them a chance, you never know! You'll grow to like them after a few weeks. Maybe it takes a few months together before you feel it, don't just throw it away!" Nevermind the fact that if you find no-go issues from the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 09:06 PM
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We had a double date set up with some tinder girls while we were in town once. We had a private plane (Da40) that we were gonna take a little night time scenic flight around the city. When the girls showed up to the airport they were doing nothing but photo-op nonsense chronicling their newfound Jetset lifestyle. When we got out to the plane they balked, started throwing a tantrum about how "embarrassing this piece of shit is! You made me look so stupid! How can I show this to anyone now?' My bu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 09:01 PM
2

Any time I hear "level up" it's never about becoming something a guy wants. Nothing about getting better in shape, working on a temper, being less selfish, or looking outward for ways to make other people's day better. Those things would be attractive to men, and that's misogyny to benefit guys. Instead, it's about becoming the man they want instead. Level up with a masters degree in fine art, learn another language, or buy a nicer house or car! Explore new sexual horizons with hot strangers! Ho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 08:49 PM
3

Somewhere in the carribbean, there's a mega yacht pulling anchor and readying itself to head to the next exquisite port. A lush, sun soaked beauty's slender, flawless hands dance away at the keys. The help quietly lays down a fresh margharita and a plate of brunch goodies before disappearing back into the galley. The gorgeous model's perfectly manicured brows pique in incredulous irritation at the absolute gall the MgTOW chuds have in commenting on her sub. She lets out a short, charming huff of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 08:46 PM
5

The best thing I found one can do for a wannabe artist is ask for a tour of a company that has them. It redpills them really quick when they findout they won't really get credited for their work and rarely leave the office, all for much less than they expect. CTE classes are full of kids saying they'll for sure be the head dev manager for some video game franchise, making a quarter million every year. The girls usually want web cartoons/strips/comics that basically end up with them making furry …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 08:32 PM
3

It was a few years back, I would bet she was much slimmer back then. A couple years of party life and living off take-out, weed, and booze catches up quick when they have a sedentary life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 08:24 PM
6

My friend's mom married a poor, basically orphaned guy when she was 19, banking on the fact that he would go somewhere in life. Her older sisters would condescendingly tell her she was wasting her youth by missing out on dudes, parties, and living it up like they were. All of them wasted their time, married someone they thought they slummed it with, and quickly divorced. All are out of shape, fairly angry women wondering why they have to work all their lives while their younger sister gets to sp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 08:23 PM
3

Most guys are way too generous in their ratings, it's so irritating hearing them sling about 9's and 10's like it's common. Those should be somewhat rare, instead they seem to use: 1-6 Obese, greasy, or ugly 7- Not obese, but chunky/chubby 8-Average healthy weight, no glaring ugliness 9- hot, in shape, well-made-up, (in reality a 6-7) 10- A hot girl they feel is out of their league.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 08:17 PM
1

No, I just asked my phone and she said "Micheal Phelps the swimmer is 93 years old next month". Crazy how time flies!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 08:12 PM
3

That's a risk though, hookups like that can come back to bite if they decide to make a vague accusation and try to sue him for some misconduct. Then the lawyers will say "eh whatever, even if she's making it all up just pay out a settlement, it's easier than going to trial and she should be bought off cheap. How's $60k?" and he's post-paying for pussy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 07:59 PM
12

I just had to teach a young guy about that. He's talking to one of the teenage girls in the family, and she got all pissy that a (possibly hotter) woman was flirting with him on insta and he responded. They aren't even dating, she's just trying to get him into orbiting her so she can have the cool, desireable guy on a leash to brag to her friends. He was guilted into apologizing to her in front of everyone. I couldn't watch him do it so we had a quick aside to learn when to say sorry and when to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 07:56 PM
5

No, it's the opposite. Lots of pudgy fucks use facial hair in an effort to hide their double chin, so it gives it a bad look unless the guy's obviously in shape. A full, good beard is sexist, but a weak, patchy, dead lawn of sparsely placed, but freakishly long hair is better...? The intersectionalists I've talked to a don't like anything done well, but beards are only acceptably kosher when they look un-masculine for some reason. Full on blade shaving is supposedly an "alt-right" thing, accordi…
/r/MGTOW01/12/20 07:18 PM
2

That's why our society is embracing that mentality. Dads teach you to fight and fight hard. It's the duality of parenthood. In modern society it helps to come up with a good preemptive plan of action for your kids in case they are tossed through the ringer. Maybe they've been a "victim of hate speech" because of their ethnicity and religion. The system is quite fucked but you can exploit elements to your benefit.
/r/MGTOW01/12/20 06:57 PM
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"What bullshit, I eat sugar and mcdonald's because I like them, not because of some stupid, primitive evolutionary survival instinct. I'm not some simple creature tossed about by its base desires...." -People in denial.
/r/MGTOW01/12/20 06:54 PM
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After some experience, I began to think of 'disability workers' as a red flag of sorts. I dated two separate girls who loved it to the point of wanting intensively needy kids, even through adoption. It just didn't seem all that genuine, like they wanted the social cachet of being a good person. Not to mention they bend over backwards for their charges, which when they're kids is cool.... until your 22 yo gf is hanging out alone iwth a 25 yo dude telling you you're being paranoid because "there's…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 06:51 PM
2

It really sucks how that spirit of dudely comaradery is dying off.. It used to be normal to jokingly refer to your friends with epithets, now in most places eavesdroppers will report you. Then again, It's always been the single mothers' kids that didn't understand it. Now we have to use positive words only and it just ain't the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 06:10 PM
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If guys watched seinfeld like women watch sex and the city, every George costanza Lookin motherfucker would be expecting Marisa Tomay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 05:51 PM
19

One of my hard line rules for spouse consideration was always "no medication/drug dependency". It served me well, there are so many seemingly common, average girls on all kinds of batshit meds, counting on the system to always have them in stock. That's like living with a tiger....all it takes is one trucker's union strike and she's gnawing your balls off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 01:41 AM
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Don't talk about your successful marriage until you reach your eighties, because you ain't out of the woods yet. We don't hope for it to fail, but I liken you types to the ones saying "Smoking is fine, I'm almost 30 and I've never even had a cough! All those statistics are just numbers, It's not like you're definitely gonna get lung cancer." Your marriage is doing fine (for now.) Your wife is faithful (for now.) Many of your peers have been in the same position and assumed their life would keep …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 12:00 AM
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You still can't convince me that the whole idea isn't some prank from an aspergian scientist. He could've seen the success rates and said "eh, maybe this isn't the perfect solution people want" but they left it out there anyway. People have way too much faith in it and it sets them up for misery.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 11:48 PM
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Being "fiscally responsible" isn't all that tough when you effectively have a court-ordered slave sending you 50-80% of their gross income for almost twenty years straight. Not to mention the free house, free car, and whatever else you can grift from him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 11:43 PM
3

She'll continue to stash her money safely away from the family under the auspices of "retirement", knowing she has it all to herself AND his portion if she gets bored of stickin' around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 11:42 PM
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"But isn't it the same for guys? I find a 45 year old man WAY more attractive than he was at 25. Your thinking process surely must be the same, the only difference is you wanna jam your dick in stuff right? I know how guys think, I read jezebel."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 11:40 PM
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