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I think this crops up because when the most honest answer is often "you're acting creepy/ugly/etc. not successful enough, playing out of your league" but that doesn't really help the person. The best advice is the kind that gives them more confidence to keep trying, even if that means coddling them just a bit.
/r/seduction01/08/17 09:12 PM
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Well I'm 26. Started using this subreddit (or PUA stuff in some form) for the last 2 years, on various throwaways. I'm a bit paranoid about friends/family knowing about it honestly. When I joined I was a virgin. Today i've had sex with 10 women, and the one i'm with now I'll probably marry. This community (and others) helped me accomplish that. Now i browse at work from boredom and I like helping others who are like I used to be.
/r/seduction01/08/17 09:08 PM
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It's a terrible idea. Unless you don't care about your job, and some pussy is harder to get than a new job is. Because that's how you risk losing your job. But still though, good job at generating attraction. Just wrong place.
/r/seduction01/08/17 09:05 PM
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When you have those attributes, you don't have to win a girl. You just have to avoid losing her. Play it cool, follow some cheesy lines you read and you should have no problems at all. This is of course terrible advice for normal looking dudes. lol.
/r/seduction17/07/17 02:46 PM
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I wouldn't stress about it too much. It could simply be bad luck. If you've had success before, and made no major changes since, it is purely luck (or lack of it). I will suggest using OKCupid though. It has worked wonders for me. Tinder, not so much.
/r/seduction17/07/17 02:40 PM
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Get better at recognizing age? If you are ever unsure, ask before making any inappropriate moves. As long as you didn't do anything inappropriate, I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/seduction08/06/17 02:38 PM
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Maybe sit in on a few public seminars that way you have an excuse to be on campus (I actually do this even without trying to pick up girls at the same time).
/r/seduction12/05/17 06:44 PM
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I am exceedingly average in the looks department, and am below average height (5'7") and I manage to get about 75% conversion on first to second dates. Partly this is because I feel I am good at setting up a low-pressure first date, and partly because I make sure to only spend my time on girls I feel a connection with. I, like you, don't do a lot of touching on a first date when they came from an online source. I talk a lot, and listen too. I tell them personal stuff in a very fun way if that ma…
/r/seduction12/05/17 04:05 PM
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Might need to expand your hobbies that you are into that tend to be gender-balanced. I know you don't want to fake interest, but you might just give them a try and find something you like. I took up oil painting so I go to those classes where they let you drink alcohol, and provide the tools to paint something in a couple hours. Other options include University Campuses if you live near one and are still in your mid twenties or below. Walk around bookstores, strike up conversations if they are l…
/r/seduction12/05/17 03:56 PM
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Simplest answer is to ask a few get to know you questions, then move toward leading questions. When I am ready (and she seems ready) to discuss date locations, I'll ask a leading question like "Have you done anything fun lately". I'll take her answer and spin that into a date suggestion. For most women I reach this point within 10 - 15 messages. If the woman is really enthusiastic, maybe in 3 - 5 messages. If she is trying to ask you a million questions, maybe I wait a few days (the other exampl…
/r/seduction09/05/17 03:10 PM
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Everyone knows about premature ejaculation, but not many people talk about performance anxiety. That was my problem when I was new to picking up girls often. It was tied to being uncomfortable with having meaningless sex. Now I only do that with women I see having a relationship with. That cured the problem for me.
/r/seduction08/05/17 09:31 PM
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I get that, I really do. I'm 26 and this line of thinking still occurs for me on occasion. But what matters is that you are happy, and unless you plan to marry her and stay with her til you die, it will only get worse the longer you wait.
/r/seduction08/05/17 09:22 PM
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You are 17. I say if you are already considering dumping your current GF (and honestly you'd be doing her favor if you aren't into her anymore) then you should. Then you could approach the girl you are talking about now and see where that goes. What I would caution though is to not be upset or go running back to your original GF if things don't workout. There are millions of eligible women out there. It's okay to be single for a time.
/r/seduction08/05/17 08:52 PM
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Sounds like she is just really awkward. I think you might just need to be more proactive (while maintaining decency, i'm not advocating forcing yourself on her of course).
/r/seduction08/05/17 08:43 PM
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What I have learned in these situations is that women suck at dating too, and while she may have said one thing she may have meant another. As in, she said those things about you and really meant she just wasn't into you and the other things were some lame excuse. All that is to say, move on to bigger and better things ASAP.
/r/seduction08/05/17 08:40 PM
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