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You should really stay out of the RP server. It's not good for anyone's mental health, especially your own. Depending on your height, 150-160 might be a perfectly healthy BMI.
/r/RedPillWives12/05/22 01:41 AM
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There actually is a theory that brain inflammation is associated with autism, and prenatal stress plays a role. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2632594/ https://www.academia.edu/download/71400217/Perinatal_complications_as_predictors_of20211005-31213-1ppb27d.pdf
/r/RedPillWives12/05/22 01:36 AM
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This is great stuff, thank you! I guess your wife's disdain for paperwork and lack of responsibility were things you wished you saw earlier, huh?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 10:49 PM
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I would have vetted hardcore the woman I married How would you have vet differently? Can you give specific examples for dummies like me?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 01:53 PM
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The burden of proof isn't on the one who makes the first claim, it's on the one who is attempting to disprove the null hypothesis. AKA the hypothesis that women didn't lose their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:44 PM
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Burden of proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 01:02 PM
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I’m curious, when did you come to the conclusion that marriage isn't something you believe in?
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/20 01:28 PM
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What was the lie?
/r/seduction30/06/20 08:50 PM
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What are those reasons?
/r/MGTOW13/06/20 02:27 AM
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Who are your clients, and what's your niche? I always though only managers with lots of experience made 100k+
/r/MGTOW12/06/20 11:42 AM
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Why board of directors and not a regular employee?
/r/MGTOW12/06/20 11:40 AM
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What were the red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:21 AM
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Could you explain the incentive structure?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:10 AM
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A woman who cares more about character and a sense of humor than intelligence would prefer 1 to 2. That being said, I respect your personal preference, I just don't think you don't need to justify it by trying to appeal to others via a simple anectode. If you do, it opens you up to questions like "would you prefer a rich, funny, good looking guy, who is also a genuinely kind and good person to a 140iq bitter unemployed nihilist who lives in his parent's basement? If it it is 1, how can you claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:23 PM
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The smartest guys I know dropped out and have issues with day to day life But that's unattractive, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:10 PM
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Onlyfans?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 02:55 AM
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It was about building suspense, making sure she operates in your frame I could tell she was so dtf but I kept my composure, entertaining her, like dangling a carrot in front of a horse Why would you do pickup stuff if you didn't want to pick her up? The subconscious thing would only make sense if you had done similar things previously.
/r/MuslimRedPill26/05/20 04:46 AM
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shh, don't ruin the circlejerk.
/r/MuslimRedPill23/05/20 06:13 PM
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Did you flirt with them at all? Or did they cold approach you?
/r/MuslimRedPill23/05/20 05:53 PM
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Could you share a link?
/r/MuslimRedPill22/05/20 06:05 AM
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Looks more like a video game character tbh
/r/MuslimRedPill22/05/20 05:29 AM
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One is socially acceptable, the other isn't. Also marriage =/= intercourse.
/r/MuslimRedPill22/05/20 04:15 AM
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How's her English? Does the language barrier ever pose an issue between you two?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:57 AM
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Why the downvotes? I really hope this sub hasn't become this sensitive.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:38 AM
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Can't the father be the stay at home parent? Can't the mother be the breadwinner? The average member of either won't be happy. Look up marital satisfaction/divorce rates for couples in which the man makes less than the woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:36 AM
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was a 9 and homely and loyal as fuck Then why did he ignore her?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:20 AM
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Curious, how well do you speak Vietnamese? Do you speak Vietnamese or English with her?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:16 AM
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Curious, how well do you speak Vietnamese? At home, do you speak Vietnamese or English?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:16 AM
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Can you DM me the link as well?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:12 AM
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By "shipping her back" do you mean he left the US with her?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:05 AM
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The source says there was no statistically significant difference between the two.
/r/MuslimRedPill21/05/20 11:27 PM
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It's still taboo. One of the women would be a legally recognized wife, which is incompatible with being equnanimous between them.
/r/MuslimRedPill21/05/20 10:04 PM
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I am keeping a database of Ayat and Hadith that will cause feminist to go red in the face Can you share?
/r/MuslimRedPill21/05/20 09:55 PM
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How are they making 7 figures without being fake? What do they do?
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:28 AM
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The stories of egyptian men are scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:49 AM
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My tinder is fine; my Bumble makes me feel BAD for these girls What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:38 AM
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If most of the couples around you are happy, what makes you think most of the single women around you would cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:04 AM
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That's just ridiculous. Pretty much every pre-Christian civilization absolutely looked down upon premarital sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:54 AM
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What happened during that date that got you to propose in just one week?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 02:30 PM
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Did you see any green flags early on in your relationship? P.S. which industry are you in?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 02:53 AM
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even the guys they’ve been with (lead along) leave them cause they refuse to fuck. Well they didn't refuse you, did they? What do you think it was that made you different from everyone else in their lives, some of whom were likely alpha?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 02:39 AM
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I'm curious, how much of the red pill do/did you share with her?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 02:34 AM
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Can you share some?
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 06:01 PM
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What do you do know?
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 05:54 PM
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and hoping for more of course I think that's the problem. I don't think a woman can really find social happiness if all the people who think she's worth talking to only do so for a reason that has nothing to do with her personality or who she is. That's one advantage men have over women - if someone claims to like us, we can be sure that claim is genuine, so sure that we can sometimes forget that isn't an assumption women can make.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 05:30 AM
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Cool, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 02:21 PM
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What have you learned?
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 03:01 AM
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Which industry are you/they in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:14 PM
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who doesn't want free advertisement? The people to whom you are advertising, in this case.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/20 08:44 PM
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I'm curious, which treatment did you use?
/r/askMRP10/02/20 07:47 AM
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Are you a software engineer?
/r/askMRP10/02/20 07:37 AM
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What's your career?
/r/askMRP10/02/20 07:34 AM
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Whatever you use to first meet the guys you end up dating. Bars, friends, tinder (I hope not), hinge, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 01:27 AM
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While I mostly agree, I'm just gonna play double's avocado here for a bit. Most women aren’t looking back at the guy who she didn’t like at 23 and thinking, they missed out on him at 23. Maybe that's because as (for example) a 30-year old woman, her memory of a 23-year old obviously can't compete with the 30-somethings she's dating now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:51 AM
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As long as you're happier single than with any of them, you can stand proud. I've re-read your first comment and I think if you feel the need, you should focus on your top-level sources of dates and see if they're attracting the right kind of people for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:47 AM
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We have enough data to show that when women filter out men with these supposed "high standards", all they end up having are, like I said in my previous comment: alpha dudes, dudes who hit the genetic lottery, dudes who know and play the dating game very well, dudes who are charismatic, dudes who are also more seductive, more funny, etc. Sure, if their standards are "he makes me feel good", as is the case with the vast majority. Not the case if, in addition to this, the woman sets a hard, objecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:43 AM
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fucking him early doesn't ruin the deal (in fact, it improves your odds), As sad as it is, I've seen a lot of otherwise good men get turned off when someone they're considering for a relationship gives it up early. The important skill for a woman is being able to place a man on the spectrum from casual to relationship-oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:12 PM
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Not all men are the same. Some are R-selectors, some are K-selectors. The small minority who pick and choose aren't worth your time. I can't help but wonder if you've ever seen a real, physical man exhibit both these views.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:09 PM
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It's not about waiting N dates. It's about developing the relationship to the point where the woman can tell the man is highly emotionally invested in her. If you can't figure out when that happens (or tell when it isn't going to happen), all the dates in the world won't keep a guy from ghosting you once he's had his fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:04 PM
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OP is literally asking what men want Yes and he is telling OP to stop caring about random men and focus on her own priorities. Because that is what works (see: all of male pickup).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:02 PM
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I think he is telling women to change, hence the resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:00 PM
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THAT’S when you get shunted IMMEDIATELY. That's OK. You should breathe a sigh of relief when a dickwad leaves. The faster you can filter them out, the greater the portion of your time you can dedicate to better prospects. That principle is 80% of why pickup artists (and businesspeople) are successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:57 PM
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The person you're describing clearly isn't ready for a long-term relationship. If you or OP wants one, then following the advice would filter him out of your life very quickly and efficiently, as intended. The point of having standards is to repel those who don't meet them. You are right about things not being simple⁠—which is why the advice is appropriately vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:52 PM
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Gorillas actually have 1-2 inch penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:21 PM
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Do two wrongs make a right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:44 PM
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Alright, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 08:28 PM
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So 5 years of work in your niche earns less than 20k? Which field of IT does your husband consult in?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 06:20 PM
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A few days work for him can produce more income than 5 years of my work. How?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 03:03 AM
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What does he do?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 11:37 PM
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It sounds like there's a story behind that "too honest" bit.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 01:43 PM
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Which job?
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 01:02 PM
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Which projects?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:58 PM
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This was actually pretty savage ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:32 PM
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Let's say a woman is pregnant, and after discussing with the father, she decides she wants nothing to do with the baby. After delivery, she immediately hands off to dad. Well guess what? Dad can still force her to pay child support, can drop the baby off at a safe haven, can forfeit the baby to the state, and can force the woman to subsidize the cost of the child. Which is exactly why a woman who doesn't want a baby will get an abortion, even against the father's wishes. On the flip side, a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:27 PM
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This applies to men as well as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:25 PM
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having a baby is an often risky and sometimes deadly process that we shouldn’t force women to undergo Where are these forced pregnancies you speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:24 PM
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Fun fact: "magnum" is normal size, "normal" is small size.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:18 PM
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How did you earn your wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 05:50 PM
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Which site?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/19 01:38 AM
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How can you tell the difference?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/19 01:37 AM
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Her mother clearly got both.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/19 01:35 AM
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It was cheating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/19 11:17 PM
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Is he a petroleum engineer?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/19 06:32 PM
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It's still asymmetrical.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/19 02:07 AM
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Who are these men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/19 08:57 PM
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Single women are often consumed with the idea of finding a partner, not with cruising for dick. You're completely correct. They focus on relationships and not sex because: having adequate to unlimited access to casual sex means you only have to devote 1% of your life to thinking about sex which frees you up to focus your energy elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:39 PM
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Are you in a committed relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:24 PM
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You gonna add it anytime soon?
/r/seduction10/12/19 01:02 AM
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How do you sell the PhD in a business context without people seeing you as some boffin?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 05:00 PM
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By stakeholders do you mean your boss or clients?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 04:49 PM
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22 FTE days per month How did you measure that?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 11:18 PM
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Which industry are you in?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 11:16 PM
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Just curious, what does your husband do in SA?
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 04:04 AM
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Could you go into some more detail, maybe in a separate post?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 01:03 AM
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In my experience, most of the types of people you talk about are lower in the hierarchy and most definitely are not making 100k. Do you work at a large company in a high cost of living area?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/19 03:19 AM
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Which roles make 6 figures working 20 hours a week?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/19 04:52 PM
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Which industry? What's the work - life balance like?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/19 03:43 PM
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How did you meet?
/r/askTRP28/11/19 03:37 AM
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Which job pays six figures with 40 hour work weeks?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 07:49 PM
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I don't really know how those industries work. Are the highest growth positions as content creators, or are there other jobs which get the limelight?
/r/askTRP24/11/19 07:47 PM
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Which industry are you in? Finance, tech?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:51 PM
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Did he PM you his response? I don't see his reply here.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:50 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for sharing. Edit: Turns out it's illegal to spy on someone without their knowledge: https://criminal-law.freeadvice.com/criminal-law/criminal-law/is-it-illegal-to-install-phone-spy-software-on-someones-cell-phone.htm You worried about getting caught?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 06:32 PM
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This is still lecturing, not leading. What would some examples of leading be?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 10:13 PM
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Doesn't it show up on her phone?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 10:08 PM
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Could you send me a PM as well?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:09 PM
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Depends on what you mean by micropenis. Also, this is the redpill subreddit, not the blackpill one.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:06 PM
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Does she know? When in your relationship did you start using it?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 04:50 PM
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Do you have a prescription for it? If not, where do you get it?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 02:05 AM
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Weird question, how did you meet these people? Are you in the financial industry? I keep noticing people on this sub are either wealthy or have friends who are, and I don't think that's a coincidencr
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 08:17 PM
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you weren't man enough to make a girl line up behind your fantasy and start acting the role you chose her to play. What would someone who was man enough to make her line up have done differently?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 06:50 PM
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I've known a few med students who opted out of becoming doctors because the grind and debt weren't favorable. They were able to modify their own careers paths to get a "nine to five" which pays really well, without the trappings of a given work environment. Can someone expand on this? How can med students find a nine to five job that still pays well?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 07:41 PM
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Only two coworkers? What industry do you work in?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 06:12 AM
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Isn't that already the case?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 01:29 AM
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I have no idea when, how, or why I joined this sub. I’m male. Same here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 05:36 AM
1

What kind of prank did you pull?
/r/RPChristians15/10/19 04:56 AM
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Go to a quiet place, by yourself, for 20 minutes and allow yourself to feel whatever it is that you are feeling. Don’t whine to your wife, but sit by yourself and let the feelings come. The less you resist them, the faster they will run their course. Did you just trick us into meditating?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 04:23 AM
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Which job involves public speaking?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:19 AM
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How do you know it's tax sheltered?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:57 AM
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Well then I guess I'll have to stick with my low-but-not-low-enough T levels.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:47 AM
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Then how did you get it? Isn't it prescription-only?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:42 AM
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Did your doctor prescribe it due to you having low T?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:20 AM
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Act as if straight is taboo, watch it, and self-insert into the male.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:54 PM
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https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/497/040/471.jpg
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:53 PM
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Construction seems to be a really popular RP career. Did you start as a civil engineering graduate or as a construction worker? How long has it taken to move into management?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:48 PM
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What role in which industry?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:38 PM
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What was it that you achieved?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 12:13 AM
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I don't mean to argue for the oxytocin stuff, but both men and women do prefer their first child over later ones. https://qz.com/650783/science-proves-that-parents-really-do-play-favorites/ And here is the study mentioned in the article: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16402879
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 12:07 AM
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Was his bachelor's in chemical engineering as well? And by postgraduate, do you mean a masters or a phd?
/r/askTRP29/09/19 09:50 PM
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She said you'd never felt that, not that she'd never felt that good.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 08:52 PM
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Ah, it and data science are what interest me. Without prying too much, how are your long-term career prospects looking? One thing which I'm concerned about is what happens when I turn 50 or 40 and the tech stack has moved faster than I could keep up with it?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:24 AM
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Web design? It seems to be more popular in nomadic software engineers than in the normal population.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:21 AM
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Too bad he hasn't been grinding leetcode since he was three. He'll never make it into FAANG.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:20 AM
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I assume he means set out a goal, then work backwards, at each stage thinking "where do I want to be at this point" while keeping the end goal in mind. Kind of weird of him to suddenly bring that up uncalled for, but w/e
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 08:12 AM
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Do you work as crew or do you own the boat?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 08:11 AM
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How did you meet him / convince him to let you stay at his house?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 08:10 AM
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And which jobs pay such a salary?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 08:07 AM
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This is great stuff!I always find it difficult to specifically explain to myself specific actions which lead to my success, which leads to my successes being difficult to replicate. Being able to get a peek inside the brain of someone who can do both really helps me look more critically at my own mental models.One thing which stuck out to me is the fact that none of this is industry-specific. If you had told me your were investment banking or management consulting I wouldn't have batted an eye. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/19 06:29 PM
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Do you have any articles or books which you think would be good places to start?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 03:43 PM
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Well then, I suppose my question is: how can you leverage soft skills in a way that makes you a high-demand employee?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 03:13 AM
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Which parenting book?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/19 11:15 PM
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Any tips on developing in-demand skills? I've heard that it can be hard to quantify your impact when it comes to efficiency-boosting roles such as IT.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/19 10:09 PM
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Curious- Which industry are you in?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/19 04:55 PM
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Is that investment banking? I've hard pretty much all of high finance is very competitive- how did you make it?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 03:43 PM
1

how would you recommend we get omega-3s?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 11:00 PM
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Can you share some of them?
/r/RPChristians14/09/19 10:24 PM
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>From a behavioral science standpoint, I went pretty deep Which books did you read?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/19 02:52 PM
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