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Social Issues42nanaimobars/r/MensRights14/03/22 07:22 AM
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Social Issues42nanaimobars/r/MensRights04/12/21 03:17 PM
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Una cancion.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 01:06 PM
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El Chico- Conmigo. ¿Puedes ir de compras conmigo? La Chica- ¿Contigo? El Chico- Conmigo. La Chica- No, no puedo ir contigo. No, no puedo ir contigo. Yo quiero ir al cine. Al cine. Al cine. Yo quiero ir al cine. Al cine. Al cine. El Chico- ¿Puedes ir al cine conmigo? La Chica- ¿Contigo? El Chico- Conmigo. ¿Puedes ir al cine conmigo? La Chica-¿Contigo? El Chico- Conmigo. La Chica-No, no puedo ir contigo. No, no puedo ir contigo. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no… No.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 12:49 PM
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Nope
/r/MensRights14/04/22 12:46 PM
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Nope
/r/MensRights14/04/22 12:42 PM
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Well, then gender shouldn’t exist. Or there should be 7.8 billion different genders.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 10:11 AM
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Nope
/r/MensRights14/04/22 06:28 AM
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Nope
/r/MensRights14/04/22 03:29 AM
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Nope
/r/MensRights14/04/22 03:25 AM
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Nope
/r/MensRights14/04/22 03:22 AM
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It’s silly for you to say 0%.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 03:21 AM
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Ya, it’s what my university has done. It’s actually pretty great. We still have the male and female washrooms, but the universal washrooms are everywhere and are actually nicer.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 03:10 AM
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It’s not fully enforceable. There is a basis. The basis is biology. I think it’s an appropriate basis.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 03:08 AM
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It’s enforceable when the person clearly looks like a person of their biological sex/gender. Is this always the case? No.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 03:04 AM
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I’m not wrong. Washroom access shouldn’t be based on looks.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:57 AM
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I’m not veering of course. That’s my main gripe. It seems that your gripe is fashion trends.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:53 AM
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If gender now equals personality traits and interests, how about we say that nobody has a gender since everyone clearly has a different set of personality traits and interests. Or how about we say there are 7.8 billion genders (one for each person on the planet). If we want to trap people into unnecessary boxes, maybe we can sort people into Ravenclaw, Gryffindor, Hufflepuff, and Slytherin. At least that way I know Ravenclaw=Intelligent, Gryffindor=Strong/courageous, Hufflepuff=Hardworking/loyal…
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:44 AM
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I’m not avoiding it. I haven’t clicked your links. I’m not playing your game.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:38 AM
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Why should personality matter?
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:37 AM
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Yes, it can be enforced. The bathroom situation also can be enforced. They’re not enforced all the time though.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:36 AM
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Speeding can’t be fully enforced. Littering also can’t be fully enforced.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:34 AM
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It wouldn’t be fully enforced. It’s impossible to fully enforce speeding, taking only one sample from free samples at the grocery store, littering, only HOV’s in the HOV lane, etc.. It would be great if people generally followed the rule on their own accord.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:23 AM
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I’m not transphobic. Adults can live in delusion if they like. I don’t hate men. Men are great. Women aren’t superior to men. I grew up being told that biological sex is equivalent to gender (purely biological definition). Now, if we want to say that gender=personality, then nobody in my immediate family has a gender (me, my grandparents, my parents, my sisters, my nephews/nieces, etc.). I don’t hate transgender people. I sympathize with trans people.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:18 AM
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Yep
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:10 AM
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Ya, that sounds much better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:45 PM
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By your profile pic., I’m guessing you’d date a guy like Julian… umm.. I mean L!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:42 PM
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You could practice by just going out with friends. Not on dates, but just fun outings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:34 PM
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I’ve edited your message to what I think sounds better: "I know I'm no [insert famous celebrity here], but would you be willing to help me gain dating skills by going on a few practice dates with me? Any criticism and feedback you give would be appreciated. In return, I will pay for your portion of any activities. Note: everything would always be under your direct consent. Particularly, I will not initiate physical touch beyond light contact (like pat on back, hugs or hands touching or things li…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:22 PM
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Well, that depends on which definition of gender you’re using. How do you define gender?
/r/MensRights13/04/22 06:34 PM
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If I met them. That’s implied by what I said…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:33 PM
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If gender now equals personality traits and interests, how about we say that nobody has a gender since everyone clearly has a different set of personality traits and interests. Or how about we say there are 7.8 billion genders (one for each person on the planet). If we want to trap people into unnecessary boxes, maybe we can sort people into Ravenclaw, Gryffindor, Hufflepuff, and Slytherin. At least that way I know Ravenclaw=Intelligent, Gryffindor=strong/courageous, Hufflepuff=Hardworking/loyal…
/r/MensRights13/04/22 01:07 PM
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The whole trans thing is weird because there aren’t female interests and there aren’t male interests.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 12:58 PM
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Basically, they’re trying to equate gender with personalities. Instead of coming up with new personality categories, they hijacked the term gender (it’s kind of suspicious that they’ve chosen to reframe that specific word…. Hmmmm…).
/r/MensRights13/04/22 11:33 AM
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What’s the science behind boxing people in fake “men’s” and “women’s” categories based on interests, personalities, emotions, ways of thinking, hobbies, professions, likes, dislikes, etc.?
/r/MensRights13/04/22 11:30 AM
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Nice! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:16 AM
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Ya, I’m fortunate to have great parents. Honestly, if my parents weren’t my parents, they’d still be good friends of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:14 AM
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My mom was a stay at home mom who was president of our town’s art club (unpaid position). My dad made good money. My mom could have worked but chose not to. I’m glad she was a stay at home mom. I got to go to art club with her. I hated day care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:33 AM
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Well, I guess science is sexist then…
/r/MensRights13/04/22 08:29 AM
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Universal single washrooms
/r/MensRights13/04/22 06:09 AM
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Women should use the women’s washrooms or gender neutral single washrooms. Men should use the men’s washrooms or gender neutral single washrooms. Trans folk should use the gender neutral single washrooms when possible. Anyway, I don’t understand trans folk and I probably never will.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 05:49 AM
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Take a look at the “ban Demmian” movement. I just found out about it, but it seems relevant.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 11:45 PM
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It looks like a lot of feminists who have been banned from the feminism subreddit are trying to get the key moderator Demmian booted. It seems like Demmian is sabotaging the organization by making it appear fucked up (banning feminists who agree with men’s rights activists while letting the crazies have free reign).
/r/MensRights12/04/22 11:43 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:19 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:03 AM
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Cold approaches can be fine. That being said, some people look really creepy. You just look at them and think “yikes, I better get away from this person”. Honestly, I judge books by their covers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:01 AM
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Wow! Toddlers preselect?!?! No way!!! I wonder if toddlers explore, think, and communicate too! 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:19 AM
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I don’t know what else I can say. People have differing values.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:26 PM
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👍
/r/MensRights11/04/22 09:39 PM
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Fair enough. I just don’t think it sounds right.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 11:48 AM
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I know.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 09:24 AM
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In all seriousness, my mom has good foresight and jumped ship faster than my dad and I.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 09:17 AM
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Seduce is the wrong word. Try again.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 09:12 AM
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Done
/r/MensRights11/04/22 08:22 AM
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Oh, those people are weirdos. Want me to edit my original comment to say fuck off to those weirdos?
/r/MensRights11/04/22 08:17 AM
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Ya, the same goes for “male” though.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 08:15 AM
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It’s weird to say “males and women” or “men and females”. I’ve never heard someone say either of those in person. The correct versions are “males and females” or “men and women” or “ladies and gentlemen”.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 08:14 AM
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But the word “woman” has the word “man” in it, too
/r/MensRights11/04/22 01:22 AM
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But woman has “man” in it, too
/r/MensRights11/04/22 01:21 AM
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Descriptor words
/r/MensRights11/04/22 01:11 AM
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I think I get your point. It’s weird to say “men and females” or “males and women”. People usually say “men and women” or “males and females” or “ladies and gentlemen”.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 01:10 AM
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Thanks for the info.. I was going through my quarter life crisis. I started questioning every conversation I’ve ever had on Reddit and even in real life 😮 /s
/r/MensRights11/04/22 12:40 AM
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K
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:46 PM
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Want to voice chat on discord? I can explain when I am and am not using the old definitions of man/woman better.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:44 PM
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???
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:42 PM
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It’s not mandatory though…
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:40 PM
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Not a gender concept.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:37 PM
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Feminine and masculine clothing is just based on fashion trends. I wore mainly women’s clothing. I wore men’s clothing too, though.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:36 PM
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Sex-based bathrooms? Yes. Sex-based pronouns? Yes.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:32 PM
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Like you said, we shouldn’t judge people on physical characteristics like sex, race, body-type, eye colour, hair texture, etc..
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:31 PM
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I think there are fundamental truths like 1+1=2. I’m sure glad gender was never enforced upon me. Growing up, I was naïve enough to think that the whole of my country was beyond that stupid stuff.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:23 PM
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The concept of gender is not a fundamental truth. According to the concept of gender, which I think is sexist, my entire family is genderless.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:12 PM
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Well, obviously the phrase “ask that woman/man over there” sounds right. The phrase “ask that female/male over there” sounds wrong. I’ve never in my life heard someone say the latter phrase. It just doesn’t roll off the tongue quite the same. I still think both versions are fine though.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:10 PM
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Okay, pal
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:02 PM
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Why thank you. Thank you very much. 🙃
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:00 PM
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Hmmm. “I’ve known this male for some time.” Female/male don’t roll off the tongue as nicely as girl/man/boy. The reason why I said girl instead of woman is because girl only has one syllable. I take no offence in being called a girl. A woman is a girl after all.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 09:53 PM
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That’s why I said female human. We know if people are referring to humans through context…
/r/MensRights10/04/22 09:51 PM
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Oh boy
/r/MensRights10/04/22 09:51 PM
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Who’s the man? 😂
/r/MensRights10/04/22 09:47 PM
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But what is a woman nowadays?
/r/MensRights10/04/22 06:03 PM
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You’re kidding, right?
/r/MensRights10/04/22 04:40 PM
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What does the /s mean? I’m guessing it signifies sarcasm.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 04:37 PM
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I know right. I have a way with words…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:13 AM
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But what is a woman nowadays?
/r/MensRights10/04/22 11:00 AM
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It’s okay to say male and female. How could the word “female” dehumanize someone? A female human is literally a human with XX chromosomes. Edit: And to all those weirdos who say “males and women” or “men and females”: Fuck off! The correct versions are “men and women”, “males and females”, and “ladies and gentlemen”.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 10:58 AM
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Blah, blah, blah… commitment is good… blah, blah, blah Pretend I said something profound during the “blah, blah, blah” parts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:10 AM
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I wouldn’t make a choice. I’d let nature take its course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:45 PM
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Prince Harry… Notice how Meghan Markle takes control in interviews. Anyway, my uncle was abused by his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:48 PM
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Sigma men and women are the true unicorns in my opinion. Alphas pale in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:20 PM
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Like you said, medicine and sports are the main situations. I can’t think of any other situation right now. There probably are a couple or maybe a few other situations to consider.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 05:06 PM
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https://youtu.be/hy-4NxJRxNQ Seems like a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:03 AM
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There was a program at either my high school or elementary school that connected younger boys with older high school boys for mentoring and fun activities. Also, there’s Boy Scouts and men’s sports teams.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 06:48 AM
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That leads to an underlying question. When should men and women be treated differently?
/r/MensRights08/04/22 06:45 AM
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Humans have two arms. Some humans are born with one arm, no arms, or more than two arms.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 06:42 AM
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If trans women are women, what is a woman?
/r/MensRights08/04/22 06:40 AM
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I must have an old soul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:34 AM
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I think men are truly capable of being selfless partners. My dad is an example of a selfless partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:41 AM
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The annual Polar Bear swim when it’s freezing outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:38 AM
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Only those who want to get an idea of what it feels like should try a pregnancy simulation. Nobody should be forced into pain.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 07:09 AM
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I’m not evil
/r/MensRights06/04/22 02:42 AM
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Heck no. No way in hell would he be in the army either. There’s a reason why my grandpa never talked about the war, except to say that it was bad.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 02:39 AM
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We’re not aggressive at all. We’re both assertive. My mom is actually more assertive than my dad and probably more assertive than me. My eldest sister is the passive one.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 02:30 AM
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I’m more calm in emergencies (I worked as a lifeguard, after all) and was in competitive lifesaving sport. My dad and I are on par with emotions (we’re not emotional). I’ve never cried while watching a movie, but my dad always cries when he watches this one movie - every single time. We’re both very sentimental though.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 02:28 AM
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????
/r/MensRights06/04/22 02:20 AM
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I guess I’m an alien who’s FUBAR’ed.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 01:08 AM
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Me, my mom, my dad, my sisters, my paternal grandparents, other family members, and my dad’s old work buddies. Some of my friends are acquainted with my parents, but don’t know them enough. There is an underlying understanding between my dad and I that’s hard to describe. When my mom’s older siblings were bullying her, I could talk about the situation plain as day with my dad. Of course, there are differences between my dad and I. I’m more intelligent and creative, while he’s more wise and focus…
/r/MensRights06/04/22 01:03 AM
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Honestly, my father never gave me advice for dealing with inappropriateness from other men. My mom gave me advice. When I moved out to university, my mom gave me a sharp nail file to put in my purse at all times (it’s legal to carry around pretty much anywhere). In BC, Canada, it is illegal to carry pepper spray. You could probably make some sort of chilli pepper spray if you really wanted to. I don’t condone carrying guns around in public. It is my personal belief that guns should only be used …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:01 PM
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Honestly, like you described, humour is a wonderful thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:33 PM
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Say “good morning to you too, (pause, give a mischievous smile) gorgeous” back to the guys. It’ll make them laugh and realize how ridiculous they sound. Humour is one of my top solutions to such situations. If you’re a total comedian, you could do the snap/point/wink thing right afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:20 PM
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You edited your comment to direct away from consciousness and thinking.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 05:26 PM
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I know right, lol.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 05:25 PM
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How do adult female friends cuddle?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:24 PM
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Another hint that we’re living in a numerical simulation. Oh snap, crackle, pop—sicle!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:25 PM
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I don’t suggest cuddling to people. What a weird thing to suggest. Cuddling happens in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:22 PM
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When I think of the mind, I think of thinking because we think with our minds.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:10 PM
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I hate that they got rid of dislikes on YouTube!
/r/MensRights05/04/22 12:51 PM
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Hmmm. Psychology? Yikes.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 12:13 PM
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The last time I celebrated my birthday, I was in grade 6. I’m 20 now. I’ll do something like go to a restaurant with family and have cake, but that’s about it. For my last birthday, I went to a pub that had live music with my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:03 PM
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I disagree. I think male and female friendships are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:59 AM
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The assholes and those you have had issues with weren’t really your friends then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:58 AM
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They do. You guys are both wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:53 AM
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Facepalm. It’s the same for men and women. Both of you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:53 AM
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I think it’s comparing apples to apples
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:51 AM
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Female and male friends are the same. I don’t have many friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:49 AM
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I’m more like my dad than anyone I’ve ever met.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 11:41 AM
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I agree that there is no “male thinking” nor “female thinking”.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 10:54 AM
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There is no patriarchy (in the kinds of countries we’re referring to). If people want to use the term mansplain, then they should also use the term femsplain. Otherwise, just call it like it is: explaining something in a condescending tone. Misogyny and misandry are bad. There is no “male thinking” or “female thinking”. Don’t fuck with matters of the mind.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 10:51 AM
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Ignoring the typo… Sounds fine. I’m probably asexual. I just don’t definitively call myself asexual because I don’t like modern labels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:02 PM
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Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:49 AM
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Here’s what I think: High n count = not good It doesn’t necessarily mean the end of the world though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:43 AM
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Really? That seems strange. I like the movie Forest Gump.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 11:33 AM
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Here’s what I’m doing right now. I’m going through life not looking for a relationship. If I magically fall into a relationship, then cool. What an awesome gift. Otherwise, whatever. I’ve got family and friends and hobbies. I could adopt a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:06 AM
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Idk. If some boys from my school yelled “Run Forest, Run”, I’d think it was fun. It’s not weirder than being asked by random boys at school if I like avocados (which actually did happen one time). I thought that was funny, too.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 03:00 AM
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Anyway, what I’m trying to say is that my grandmas could support themselves without a husband, especially my paternal grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:38 AM
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Well, ya. I’m just not sure when. Perhaps my other grandma’s (paternal grandma) financial situation before she married was unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:32 AM
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For sure. I just don’t know much about The United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:26 AM
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I just looked up The Equal Credit Act (1970). It’s American so it doesn’t apply to my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:24 AM
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My maternal grandma was previously married (with a kid) and I forget when she married my grandpa (he died before I was born so I can’t readily find the obituary; I’d have to ask my mom). My maternal grandpa was also previously married (with kids). My grandpa was born in 1920, give or take a year (so really it’s about a 17 year age gap) and my grandma was born in 1937. My mom was born in 1962. My mom has a full brother that’s just a little bit older than her. My grandma handled finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:15 AM
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Oops, edited. There.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:58 AM
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My maternal grandparents are 20 years apart. My paternal grandparents are 7 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:58 AM
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My paternal grandma and grandpa were 7 years apart. My grandpa died at 96 and my grandma died at 90. They died about 6 months apart (my grandpa first, and then my grandma).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:53 AM
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It’s her lifestyle. She wants that lifestyle. She’s not alone. She has us, her family, who are a short drive away. She could heat her house, but she just doesn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:48 AM
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My maternal grandpa was 20 years older than my maternal grandma. My grandpa died in his mid 70’s. My grandma is in her mid 80’s. She doesn’t heat her house, she doesn’t have a fridge (just freezers), she doesn’t have an oven (just a stovetop), she unplugged her microwave, she doesn’t have internet (she has a phone), she doesn’t have cable TV (she recently got a satellite that gives her a few channels for free), and she doesn’t have a car. She is doing great! Her garden keeps her busy. She doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:24 AM
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Extra! Extra! Read all about it! I have views, and there’s no doubt about it! Could play ‘em on the radio, or maybe the TV But nobody cares ‘bout my philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:34 PM
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Out of all the male leads on The Big Bang Theory, Raj was the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:13 PM
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Obviously if the guy was exactly the same, but my age it would be better because we would have a longer amount of time together, but life can be weird. What kind of autism are we talking about? The kind where it’s actual autism or the kind that my cousin’s kid got diagnosed with so that they can get money from the government?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:00 AM
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My parents were more energetic and lively than most of my friends’ parents (good genetics, healthy diet, exercise, and sleep).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:49 AM
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My mom was 39 and my dad was 40 when they had me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:46 AM
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Cool, I guess I have an old soul. Just so you know, I haven’t dated anyone yet. This is all hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:11 PM
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Omg, I love your username. I don’t know why, but I really like sliced tomatillos on homemade pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:46 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:44 PM
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Aren’t a person’s finances indicative of certain personality traits and values in life such as where he/she lies on the spectrum of short term gain vs. long term success?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:39 PM
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Plus, they retired at age 54/55 so I had plenty of time with them to go hiking and such in my teens
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:09 PM
4

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:08 PM
1

Hey. That’s not entirely correct. My mom was 39 and my dad was 40 when I was born. I had a better childhood than my sisters who are 20 and 21 years older than me (different biological dad). My mom and dad were healthier than most of my friends’ parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:04 PM
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I’m 20 years old. I would date a 40 year old man if he was the right guy. My sisters are 40 and 41 years old, after all. My maternal grandma was 20 years younger than my maternal grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:02 PM
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It’s not wrong. Think of the character Matthew Cuthbert in Anne of Green Gables (1985). This video will give you an idea of his personality: https://youtu.be/eicY_BvREbg Matthew never got married, never had a relationship, and never even dated. He’s my favourite character in the movie/book (don’t watch other movie versions - the 1985 version is the best). The red head is his adopted child Anne. The deep voiced woman is Matthew’s sister Marilla. She also never married. I know that Matthew is a sh…
/r/MensRights02/04/22 01:24 AM
2

Sometimes the word men is used to refer to both men and women. A general phrase such as “man’s greatest desire is to…” encompasses men and women. So, when people say “it’s a man’s world” I interpret it such that man includes men and women. Man just rolls off the tongue better than human, man and woman, etc..
/r/MensRights01/04/22 09:19 PM
1

I just hated getting my period. Got it at age 14. I’m a swimmer so… still hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:14 PM
4

I want male empowerment. I’m sickened by the fixation on female empowerment instead of male and female empowerment. Actually, it’s kind of insulting that the film industry, Special K cereal, and other companies think that women need empowerment. Frick! I’m already empowered! Why the frick do companies think I’m so weak and frail that I need empowerment?
/r/MensRights01/04/22 11:10 AM
2

Thank goodness my family just does it’s own thing!
/r/MensRights01/04/22 10:33 AM
2

Haha. No secrets. What are examples of these hard times you cling to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:24 AM
2

I do know that they’ve never cheated. Cheating doesn’t make for a “great and healthy relationship”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:41 AM
2

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:11 PM
5

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:41 PM
1

I know how they argue. It’s comical. I’m a mediator sometimes, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:06 PM
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They’ve never cheated on one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:05 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:04 PM
2

I just know for my close family members
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:04 PM
2

Loveless people can be married. Non-soulmates who love each other can be married. There’s a difference between love and true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:29 AM
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That’s because they were never in love enough to have an unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:17 AM
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Yes, anyone COULD wake up one day and decide to cheat. My mom and dad WILL NEVER wake up one day and cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:02 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:01 AM
1

How does a person describe love and how one falls in love? I can’t see a checklist determining love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:00 AM
1

They won’t ever do anything FUBAR’ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:57 AM
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The magic of physics. Lol, I’m just kidding. My physics prof would say that a lot! Um, everything lead up to their love for one another. A love that will never die.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:34 AM
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Their love is unconditional. It is and always will be. They have a reciprocal bond and always will have a reciprocal bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:29 AM
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They would never cheat on one another so the situation you’re trying to describe is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:15 AM
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Here, I’ll edit my comment into English. I’ll try to at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:00 AM
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Refer to my other comment to the previous comment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:53 AM
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I’m editing what I wrote before into English. At least I’ll try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:49 AM
2

Their love is unconditional. I don’t understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:41 AM
0

Nice-Trash-6968 said that “if unconditional love does exist then the majority of it for a woman is directed towards her kids… and for a man it’s directed towards both his wife and his kids.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:15 AM
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I know that their love for one another is unconditional because they would never do awful things like cheat on one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:13 AM
3

??? I was born a year after my parents were married (I have older parents than most). Sure, my mom has gotten mad at my dad and my dad has gotten mad at my mom over the stupidest things like giving the wrong directions while driving. They haven’t gone through rough patches though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:02 AM
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Your last sentiment is very concerning. Why do you make men sound like better people than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:58 AM
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It’s the truth though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:51 AM
1

Matthew Cuthbert in the book (and 1985 movie) Anne of Green Gables was so shy around girls that he avoided talking to them altogether. He never dated anyone and he never married. One could say he was a queer individual (not LGBTQ), based on the old definition. He was weird and wonderful. https://youtu.be/eicY_BvREbg
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:46 AM
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I think there is an unconditional love between my parents, just like there is an unconditional love between my grandparents. Edit: I’ll add that I have unconditional love towards my parents and my paternal grandparents. I have unconditional love towards my sister, who is 20 years older than me, my brother-in-law, my nephews, and my niece. I have unconditional love towards my paternal uncle and his family. I have unconditional love towards my younger maternal uncle and his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:33 AM
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I think that there are feminine and masculine physical traits, voices, and fashion. That’s all I can think of. There are no gendered “roles”, personalities, interests, emotions, hobbies, activities, jobs, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:29 PM
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I’m with you in regards to choosing physics. However, the physics I’m referring to goes hand in hand with intellect. After all, I’m studying math and physics in university. Anyway, I’m just poking fun at your word choice. I would have said physique instead of physics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:29 AM
1

Forget alpha and beta. Be a sigma. That’s where it’s at.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:23 AM
2

That’s so sweet!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:16 AM
1

Unconditional love does exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:15 AM
1

Fun
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:11 AM
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It sounds like he’s a sweet guy. My dad became an instant dad when he married my mom. My older sisters call him dad. He isn’t their biological dad and there is no replacing their biological dad, but he’s still their dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:04 AM
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I’ve learnt not to date people who subscribe to blue pill or red pill stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:42 AM
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Well, it is absolutely in no shape or form comparable to your situation - to say it was comparable would be insensitive and insincere. Before the twist is revealed, the movie really delves into the insecurity of a women who marries a man whose former wife passed away. It is especially interesting to see the profound power a dead person holds over the living. Perhaps I shouldn’t have mentioned it at all. Sorry if I came across as insensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:38 AM
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I would recommend you watch the movie Rebecca (1940, the year is important because there is an awful remake), but that may unnecessarily open up fresh wounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:22 AM
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Embrace the curls. I have thick brown curly hair. When I have a shower and let my hair air dry, it forms nice ringlets. However, when I brush my hair the next day, it becomes frizzy and voluminous like a lion’s mane. It’s a pain to brush, but I wouldn’t want straight hair. Smooth curly hair might be nice, but there are probably hair products for that - I’m just a cheapo who only uses shampoo and conditioner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:17 AM
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I have no insecurities. Life is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:14 AM
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Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:39 AM
1

My maternal grandma was 20 years younger than my maternal grandpa. I live in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:41 AM
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Not in a relationship. Busy with school. One of my good friends bought me flowers for my birthday. That was nice. I’m the person who takes friends on swimming and fishing adventures. I’m really physically fit and am great at motivating not as fit people to do physical activities that they hesitate to take part in, but absolutely love while they are participating in the activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:39 AM
2

Well, I think it’s easy enough to say that more money is better than less money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:37 AM
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Interview a bunch of women to find commonalities for attraction. Present the women with a bunch of men’s profiles. See what happens. A lot of people talk about alphas and betas on this forum. I think sigmas are the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:12 AM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:12 PM
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Ya, it is. I just think it’s fine to be proud of your physical traits as well as your other traits. For example, I think it’s fine to be proud of your eye colour, the curliness of your hair, etc.. In some respects, your physical traits are part of who you are.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 07:58 PM
1

Eww.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:52 PM
2

Think of a classic story like Anne of Green Gables (you can refer to the 1985 movie). The 1987 sequel Anne of Avonlea is where we really see about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:34 PM
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Never in my life have I said that I’m proud to be a woman. It would sound weird to say that I’m proud of having XX sex chromosomes. However, I don’t automatically think it’s sinful for other people to say it or for men to say that they are proud to be men. I don’t think the proclamation itself equates to arrogance, narcissism, racism, or sexism. I think it’s good when people are rightly proud of who they are: achievements and accomplishments (first and foremost), good behaviours, and physical tr…
/r/MensRights20/03/22 10:16 AM
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I think that pride can be a good thing and/or a bad thing.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 09:52 AM
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How far back do we go to consider something as tradition? How long will it be until the older old traditions get replaced by newer old traditions so that when we think of tradition, we think of the newer old traditions instead of the older old traditions?
/r/MensRights20/03/22 09:47 AM
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As of right now, I think of a sigma more highly than an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/22 08:38 AM
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Society can be weird. Be proud to be a man. Be proud to be a woman. Be proud to be you!
/r/MensRights20/03/22 08:30 AM
1

If the woman isn’t interested in the man, then yes, it is best to move on. A man can do some of the things I said to build interest, and then he can make a move. If the women is interested in the man after all, then the man can continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:41 AM
2

What would you do instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:45 AM
3

Sure, women have options. There exists weird women who engage in weird relationship practices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:42 AM
1

That sounds like a weird American party crowd kind of thing. Weird. Red flags translate to sayonara.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:36 AM
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Friendly conversation can just be friendly conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:23 AM
1

I’m similar to you in many ways. I'm a 20 year old female who is a virgin. I’ve never had a first kiss. I've never had a relationship, and have never dated in my life. I've never been interested in asking someone out. I've also never had sex because it's not something that I'd be interested in doing. Unlike you, I haven’t felt sexual attraction. I wouldn’t call myself asexual because I don’t like those kinds of labels. I think that a relationship is a gift. You would have an ultimate friendship.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:19 AM
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If I was a guy, I wouldn’t date that kind of a woman to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:39 AM
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I dodged a bullet then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:58 PM
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I would develop a strong friendship with a woman (I could meet her through school, work, hobbies, wherever). I’d engage in playful banter and take her on swimming, fishing, hiking, stargazing, home movie theatre under a blanket fort, fantastical adventures. I’d give her chocolates and flowers. I’d discuss philosophy and literature. I’d take her out to jazz or theatre performances. Edit: I’d aspire to be a guy like Friedrich Bahr in Little Women (1994/1949), Gilbert Blythe in Anne of Green Gables…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:16 PM
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Also, my dad cries whenever he watches Les Miserables (1998) and some older version of the movie (we, as a family, are scared to watch the new TV miniseries and musical version with Anne Hathaway). The main character only stole a loaf of bread because he was starving. When he makes a fresh start and does good in his community, the guy is still hunted down by the law. Whenever someone suggests we watch the movie, my dad says “you guys are going to make me cry”. It’s the only movie that has ever b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:08 PM
1

Literature: https://youtu.be/ESUdqZoRu3A
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:52 PM
1

I practice stoicism, but I realize that it’s not for everyone. Honestly, I haven’t expressed negative emotions for a long time. I know that I cried when my grandma died.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:46 PM
1

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:40 PM
5

K-pop is popular in Canada. I’m a current university student in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:39 PM
1

The more you know
/r/MensRights19/03/22 05:00 AM
1

Actually running water from the bathtub would probably work better than a bucket.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 04:54 AM
1

Lol. Most women know from experience. Maybe less men know. Cold water and Resolve stain remover work well. Also, it’s time sensitive, but people probably already know that.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 04:53 AM
1

Resolve spray is also good for that
/r/MensRights19/03/22 04:49 AM
0

I was only lightening the mood. I know that.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 04:48 AM
2

Say jello is hairspray.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 03:28 AM
1

I think you guys should ban affirmative action.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 03:27 AM
2

Imagine throwing cloth completely stained with blood in a shared laundry machine (in an apartment). My god… people would think I was a murderer. (I’m just lightening the mood, folks.)
/r/MensRights19/03/22 03:11 AM
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There is a tax in Canada that applies to unessential or luxury products. Disposable (tampons and sanitary napkins) and reusable (sanitary belts and menstrual cups) feminine hygiene products were deemed as unessential whereas disposable adult incontinence products were deemed as essential. I’m so glad that feminine hygiene products are now exempt from that tax (as of 2015).
/r/MensRights19/03/22 03:07 AM
1

Oh my. Idk what to say. Keep on trekking.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 02:39 AM
3

Why do you wish you were?
/r/MensRights19/03/22 01:19 AM
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I believe in The Eagle. Let me know if you want me to elaborate. It effects my life because I value individuality and inner strength.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 01:18 AM
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I think both men and women should aim to be physically strong. We should aim to be empathetic (within reason). We should aim to be assertive. Showing emotion and accepting help is not feminine. Showing happiness is a good thing. I also think that it can be beneficial to be stoic (to a degree). We need to accept some forms of help while declining other forms of help. For example, it’s good to accept help from a doctor when your leg has been broken. On the other hand, it’s bad to accept your buddy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:14 AM
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I don’t want to be called honey, sweetie, sweetheart, sugar, baby, and hun (by men and women). If someone calls me one of those things, I don’t react. I just cringe on the inside. I’m fine with being called dear or love by an elderly person. I really really really like being called Miss. Mam and Ms. are fine, but don’t sound as nice as Miss in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:02 PM
2

Haha, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:50 PM
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Now I’m curious how people would rate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:43 AM
1

Sure, but there are differences. From what I’ve heard, Canadian banks are more regulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:35 AM
1

Cool. It’ll be interesting to look at the differences between American and Canadian systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:26 AM
1

I don’t know what fractional reserve banking is, but I’m eager to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:50 AM
1

Cool. I literally just heard of Ayn Rand yesterday (I watched 2 YouTube videos) and am intrigued by some of things she has said. I want to look more into her views.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:36 AM
1

K, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:29 AM
1

Sure. I don’t know what you mean by weird though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:22 AM
1

What do you mean by weird? I called casual relationships weird. Not all relationships are casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:20 AM
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I’ll think about things more and then respond. I had a very good upbringing.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 08:06 PM
2

Funnily, I think that some of the people who practice stoicism are the most sentimental. I like sentimentality. Emotions like happiness are great. Why not share a smile with the world? That being said, we should always think and make decisions rationally. Personally, I like being stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:46 PM
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I’m not interested in casual (aka weird) relationships. If I’m going to get into a relationship, it has to be the real deal. I’d have to find the Julian to my Annalise (The Princess and the Pauper).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:11 PM
1

:) I was born in 2002 so Barbie movies are ingrained in my memory. The Princess and the Pauper is the best one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:08 PM
1

Lol. True, true. Plus, the person needs to be a good person, intelligent, rational, adventurous, etc.. I’m not looking to date anyone, especially while I’m pursuing my studies, so it’ll happen if it happens. Otherwise, I’m content with life as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:10 AM
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I’m very picky about looks (I haven’t dated anyone, but I’m fascinated by beauty and fashion). I don’t think the extremes - very feminine and very masculine looking guys - look good. Honestly, I have to look at an individual to say yay or nay. It’s tough to generalize. Off the top of my head, I can name more famous beautiful women than famous handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:48 AM
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I’m curious. How did feminism divert your career path so many times? You can private message me if you’re not comfortable sharing publicly. Also, you don’t have to tell me at all if you’re not comfortable. Like I said, I’m genuinely curious.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 07:14 AM
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Hmm. I’ve never thought that. Most of my friends are guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:52 AM
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It doesn’t exist in Canada.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 06:49 AM
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Well, how are strangers of the opposite sex supposed to develop friendships? Only through hanging out with mutual friends??? I don’t know. That doesn’t seem right. I don’t get why strangers date right away anyway. It doesn’t make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:44 AM
2

If you literally say the word “date”, it would clarify things for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:39 AM
1

Actually, the flowers situation isn’t that clear, because it would seem like two friends hanging out if you gave her flowers after a performance (instrumental, musical theatre, big speech, competition, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:37 AM
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It depends on how you ask. If you handed her flowers and asked her out to dinner, then it seems like it would be a date. If you just invited her over for dinner and scrabble after work, it would just seem like two friends from work hanging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:34 AM
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Well ya. It’s a date if the guy says it’s a date. All you said was dinner. Anyway, if it is a date, then it’s wrong to go on the date only for free food.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:23 AM
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It’s not wrong to accept if you’re just going out as friends. Sometimes friends treat each other to special events and/or food.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:11 AM
3

Anneliese: Do you know why I didn't want to marry the king? Julian: You weren't ready to get married. Anneliese: No, I was in love with somebody else. My best friend. The man who's taught me so much. Julian: But I'm not a King. I can't give you what he can. Anneliese: I think you're like this. (Holding a geode; only showing the rock-like exterior) Julian: A rock? Anneliese: Unassuming on the outside, and a treasure within. (Opens up the geode to reveal the pretty crystals within.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:12 AM
1

True!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:10 AM
1

King Dominick: I can't convince you to stay? Erika: Dominick, I... All my life I've dreamed of being free. Now my debt's been paid, thanks to Anneliese. King Dominick: Where will you go? Erika: Everywhere. I want to sing, see the world! King Dominick: Then, I hope you'll take this with you. (Gives Erika a ring). Erika: I couldn't. Dominick: It was meant for you. Erika: No promises? King Dominick: I'll take my chances. (Erika takes off on her horse and then travels the world singing.) Narrator: A…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:03 AM
1

Yes and no.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 11:53 PM
2

I reflect your question back to you. How do you square that with your thinking it is immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:50 PM
2

I think it’s immoral. They still have the freedom to do that though. They won’t be my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:44 PM
2

Their body, their choice. I’m no expert on the subject, but it that seems simple enough to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:42 PM
2

I don’t value p*rn. Simple. I think it’s bad. I think it’s immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:40 PM
2

Values. Ayn Rand describes relationships in an interesting way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:38 PM
1

Sometimes you’ve just gotta move. If you can’t afford living in a place, you move. If the people in your society treat you like trash, you move. If you’re not fulfilled where you live, you move. That is, unless you want to fight the big fight to try to spark change.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 11:37 PM
5

Oh no! My sympathies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:35 PM
9

My mind would explode from the fact that there is someone exactly like me in every single way and I’d break out in song: “…I’m just like you. You are? You’re just like me. There’s somewhere that we’d rather be. Somewhere that’s ours. Somewhere where dreams come true. Yes, I am a girl like you. You’d never think that it was so. But now I’ve met you and I know. It’s plain as day, sure as the sky is blue. That I am a girl like you…” 🎵 Would be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:31 AM
3

First of all, I don’t think the current definition of gender is a fundamental truth. There are no gendered interests, personalities, jobs, emotions, ways of thinking, likes, dislikes, “roles”, etc.. I grew up with the definition of gender that was logically equivalent to sex. Gender was just the nicer word for sex because the latter has dual meaning. This is besides the point. I’ll use the current definition for gender from now on. The current concept of gender seems weird and sexist. People can…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 01:59 AM
1

Maybe. I’m in a little bit of an unusual situation because my sisters are 20 and 21 years older than me. They are half sisters (different biological dad). One is happily married with kids and the other has struggled with relationships all her life. Let’s just say that their biological dad isn’t that great of a person… Anyway, there are many things at play that shape a person’s personality, values, and beliefs. Oof. Maybe your dad was just trying to jokingly say that your mom is perfect in a very…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:04 PM
0

My mom and dad love each other equally and unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:31 PM
2

I would like my future partner to share these hobbies of mine: Fishing, swimming, clamming, crabbing, foraging for mushrooms/berries, gardening, woodworking, handiwork (maintenance, etc.), hiking, cooking, watching TV/movies, gaming (Wii, DS lite, DSi, 3DS, SNES type Mario, Kirby, Sonic, Elebits, Chocobo Tales, Bomberman, Cooking Mama, 9 9 9 games), snorkelling, paddle boarding, kayaking, adventuring, problem solving with math and physics/engineering, playing music (I only sing, but I’d love to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:19 PM
1

It sounds like you guys might want to consider moving to a different society.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 04:29 PM
-7

I’m saddened that you feel that way about your society. Edit: It sounds like the OP feels that his society wants men to “deal with [sadness] on [his] own”, etc.. I’m saddened that he feels that way about his society. All I can think of to say is push for change and/or move to a different society that doesn’t make him feel that way. I think that the reason why I’m getting downvoted so much is because I said “feel”. I think I should have said : I’m saddened that most people in your society tell me…
/r/MensRights15/03/22 11:49 AM
0

One of the most unconventionally attractive anime characters I’ve come across is L from Death Note. Aesthetic taste is complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:07 AM
1

The men’s team isn’t portrayed as lackadaisical and lazy. It isn’t “women against men”. It’s locals against city folk. Of course they’re going to show more footage of the team that’s not accustomed to the area’s waters who we root for. We’re only rooting for the Vancouver team because of the cheating devised from the lady who has financial interest in the race. If cheating wasn’t involved, I’d be rooting for the local team. The only women/men kerfuffle was the assumption the one lady made about …
/r/MensRights15/03/22 03:58 AM
1

Yes, I watched it. The Beachcombers is a fun show.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 03:34 AM
1

The Beachcombers is from the 70’s
/r/MensRights15/03/22 03:32 AM
2

My nephew is 2 years younger than me so he’s pretty much like a brother. My family has lived for generations with the concept that people are, well… just people. I think it evens out. My nephew thinks it evens out. I’ve never dated anyone, but my nephew has a girlfriend. He’ll probably get married before me! Isn’t that something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:00 AM
1

True, true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:22 PM
1

Ya. When my dad’s colleagues and the people in town were busy buying fancy toys, my mom and dad were busy saving money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:11 PM
3

Gender roles aren’t a fundamental truth. Gender means nothing beyond physical characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:09 PM
1

We’re not upper middle class. We’re middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:39 PM
1

Senior chemical engineer for a pulp mill. Made a solid amount per year. Could have been promoted, but said nah, I don’t want to work that much. Good pension. My grandpa also retired at 55.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:55 PM
1

I don’t think she was trying to silence the man. I think she just made a false assumption of the man’s character and he showed her that her assumption was wrong.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 06:53 PM
1

My dad did in 2016
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:29 PM
1

I’m more so thinking along the lines of live below your means, pinch your pennies, appreciate education, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:34 PM
1

In Canada, 55 is a good age to retire. The housing situation depends on where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:31 PM
1

Oh cheeses. I didn’t even think of that. I live in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:22 PM
3

Enjoy your golden years in retirement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:19 PM
12

He has his kid over for Christmases, birthdays, and maybe a few weeks during the summer. He gives him computers, fancy toys, and such. There are no rules at his place. No discipline, no bedtimes, nada (the kid is in grade 2 now, by the way). He’s a Disney Dad, the kind of dad who will take his kid to Disneyland, but doesn’t know the day-to-day things. If you are wondering, the guy I’m talking about is a Disney Dad by choice. He loves working. That’s his thing. What’s frustrating is that the guy …
/r/MensRights14/03/22 08:03 AM
12

I know a Disney Dad… Weird situation there…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 05:30 AM
1

Dude… what the what… I’m a virgin by choice. If you are curious to know… I don’t wear dresses or skirts (I don’t own any). I don’t want to fatten up to be curvy (I’ve got a small waist and I’m fine with that). I swim for 1.5hrs at least every other day (sometimes everyday). I don’t wear makeup because makeup makes me look ugly. My genetics are great. I’m also kissless. I’ve had lots of compliments though. I’ve even starred in some musical theatre productions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:07 AM
9

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:03 AM
15

It’s just normal for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:01 AM
12

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:58 AM
68

My longest dry spell is my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:25 AM
2

Some men and women stir up drama and manipulate just because it’s part of who they are. My aunt and uncle are mean, manipulative, and narcissistic. They’re perfect for each other.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:22 AM
1

Yes, but not because of trivial things. What is trivial? That’s up to me, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:17 AM
2

I had an iDog, but Furby was better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:15 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:14 AM
0

What time period are we talking about and what country?
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:12 AM
1

What traits (other than physical traits) are masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:14 AM
5

No worries. My grandparents instilled Depression Era values in my parents. My parents and grandparents instilled Depression Era values in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:18 PM
4

I’m in Generation Z, but my parents are from the Baby Boom generation. My grandparents were part of The Greatest Generation and the Silent Generation so I’ve grown up with Depression Era values. I don’t know what to think. I’m too different from most people my age. That being said, I think I want to adopt kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:01 PM
2

Why don’t circumstances matter? Yes, we are all individuals. Yes, some people are lucky and others aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:38 PM
2

“Would you say the same things towards romantically unsuccessful men towards economically unsuccessful people?” Probably not. Two separate topics. “A couple of things are said to guys that can't get dates such as not being entitled to sex or he is unsuccessful with women because he has a bad personality or he needs to put more work in if he wants to or he needs to lower his standards.” First of all, I don’t think anyone is entitled to sex. I don’t know who the guy is so I can’t be sure that his …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:32 PM
18

I was born in 2002. My best principle was my first principle in elementary school (I got his last 4 or so years before retirement). He’d pick us up and swing us around. He used to always put this one kid in the trash can, too! He taught the first grade gym classes and we’d always have a race at the end of class. The girls would race and then the boys would race. Then the top few boys and girls would race. The overall winner would get a high five from the principle. Good times… I’d always win the…
/r/MensRights13/03/22 06:19 PM
1

20
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:35 PM
8

You and your sister are incompatible. Here are a few options: Cut her out of your life completely. Limit your visits and interactions with her. Set boundaries for your visits (type, where, how long, with whom, etc.) Put on a filter whenever you’re around her (just laugh and roll your eyes in your head).
/r/MensRights13/03/22 07:09 AM
3

That’s not true. What is true is that many people “never argue to exchange information or arrive at the truth [and] simply argue to win”.
/r/MensRights13/03/22 07:04 AM
7

It all depends on what a person values in life. Personally, I value love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:44 AM
1

That reminds me of the movie “The Sure Thing” (except that movie ended differently).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:37 AM
1

Lol, well here I am
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:57 AM
1

Well. No guy will have to worry about that with me! I’m a virgin, so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:40 PM
4

Idk, it just seems right for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:05 PM
0

Sounds good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:07 PM
2

Sure, I want to adopt kids anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:06 PM
1

Yep. Anyway, the results you’ve mentioned don’t meld with my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:16 PM
1

I think it’s more individualized than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:02 PM
1

Anyway, I’m not at the mercy of biology in regards to emotions. Periods are just annoying - swimming, accidents, clothes ruined, cost, inconvenience, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:52 PM
1

Mind over matter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:45 PM
1

I disagree in regards to relationships and social issues too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:40 PM
1

In my experience, men and women are equally logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:36 PM
4

My parents didn’t talk about sex at all. I’m a 20-year-old virgin who will never have sex outside of marriage. I’m not even religious. My whole family isn’t religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:20 AM
2

Haha, thanks. I’ve never had an online friend before. I’m currently studying math/physics at university so Reddit is one of my procrastination outlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:17 PM
2

Most of the posts here are weird. It sure makes for good entertainment!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:07 PM
2

Nope. The only reason why I made that comment was because the OP said “women are impulsive, emotional creatures”. I love my grandpas, dad, nephews, male cousins, uncles (except two awful uncles, but the aunts married to them are equally awful), brother-in-law, and male friends (most of my friends are male). Who gives a damn about gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:00 PM
3

My grandma was born in 1927 and she hunted and fished since she was a toddler. I love Mario Galaxy!!! I like Mario Bros. related games, Sonic, Kirby, Bomberman, Cooking Mama, Chocobo Tales, Elebits, 9 9 9, Yoshi, Wario, Starfy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:55 PM
5

Dude. I have been fishing since I was a baby. My first fishing rod was a pink Barbie rod. I caught some nice pinks with that pink rod. I mainly fish for coho, spring, pink, sockeye, and chum salmon. Rock cod and Ling cod are good. Sometimes I’ll keep a kelp greenling. Fishing for trout is also nice. I also go crabbing and clamming. I’ll have to go shrimping again sometime; its been a while. Anyway, my grandparents fished, my parents fish, and I fish. All of us have fished since we were babies/to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:49 PM
2

Family bonds are stronger than DNA relative bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:40 PM
2

My biggest shock was the fish point. I love to fish!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:34 PM
6

Men are impulsive, emotional creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:28 PM
1

Well, I want to stay a virgin forever so there’s that.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 07:11 AM
2

Hell to the no. That’s why I’m glad my university provides free feminine hygiene products in many of the bathrooms. I found it ridiculous that it wasn’t that long ago that we had to pay the same tax imposed on junk foods for feminine hygiene products because they were labelled as “unessential”.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:54 AM
2

I just say I’m straight because I’m not gay.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:51 AM
0

One of my friends’ sister got an engineering scholarship for women. That being said, a lot of scholarships offered by my university seem to be for international students. I’m just glad that I got the prestigious academic based scholarship (solely based on grades).
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:36 AM
-1

Bingo
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:34 AM
2

I got banned from the feminist sub…
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:32 AM
1

I’m a 20-year-old virgin who has no sexual attraction and no romantic attraction. I’ve never had a first kiss and I’ve never dated anyone. I still call myself straight.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:27 AM
2

My family is traditionally untraditional. I’m happy.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:13 AM
1

Most of my friends are guys! Most of my friends who are guys aren’t attracted to me! (Only two fell in love with me, but I put a stop to that real quick.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:03 AM
2

Yep! I can joke with family more than I can joke with friends and I can joke with friends more than acquaintances/colleagues and I can not joke with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:24 AM
1

Most of my friends are guys. Jokes are fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:19 AM
5

It just seems weird, honestly.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 01:05 AM
7

Personally, I don’t wear makeup except for musical theatre productions and on Halloween. My eldest sister told me that she used to not wear makeup, but then she realized that it was seen as unprofessional if she didn’t wear makeup at work, for job interviews, etc.. That bothered me. Anyway, swimming dates sound fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:06 AM
0

Here’s the full clip for context: https://youtu.be/5otYUHbaJX8
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:22 PM
2

https://youtu.be/9B2DGTxxN8w Preminger: “You Simpering Simpleton!” From Barbie’s The Princess and the Pauper Also, the wife in Hansel and Gretel (1987) calls her husband a simpleton because he won’t stand up for himself and demand his full woodcutter salary from the greedy baker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:15 PM
1

Yep.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 06:58 PM
1

I think men and women are mentally the same.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 03:17 PM
1

https://globalnews.ca/news/1887739/tax-on-tampons-is-unfair-sexist-and-discriminatory-says-b-c-woman/
/r/MensRights09/03/22 03:13 PM
3

Free feminine hygiene products are provided for women at my university. I haven’t looked into it much because I buy my own products (it’s meant for those who need it). When I travelled to Nicaragua, I brought period supplies over. Some company made a donation of reusable cloth-based products. That was not our main fundraising goal, but it was a nice donation. To answer your question, I don’t know why rich people spend their money the way they do. I want humanity to reach for the stars. What happ…
/r/MensRights09/03/22 09:46 AM
2

I’m glad that they stopped taxing feminine hygiene products in my province. (There are two kinds of taxes. They got rid of one kind of tax on feminine hygiene products - the kind of tax that’s used for unessential items like junk food.)
/r/MensRights09/03/22 09:40 AM
1

That’s not at all how I pictured agreeableness. Thanks. Looks like agreeableness is good. I guess there are different definitions for agreeableness. I was originally under the impression that being agreeable meant that a person was a passive pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:01 AM
-1

From what I’ve heard, agreeableness sounds bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:41 PM
1

Ya, people need to be assertive. Aggression and passivity are bad. Although people focus on aggression as being the ultimate negative trait, passivity can be just as bad and sometimes worse.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 08:34 PM
2

Assertiveness is a good trait.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 02:07 PM
0

I think men and women should “man up”. I don’t see anything wrong with the term even though feminists and men’s rights activists don’t like the term.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:57 PM
7

Why did you say equitable? Why didn’t you say equal? Could you elaborate?
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:32 PM
7

I just want equality (of opportunity) for men and women. I joined this subreddit and a feminist one. I wanted to support good points and shut down bad points. I got banned from the feminist subreddit…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 04:22 AM
1

The “patriarchy” isn’t real. Gender is equivalent to sex with gender being the nicer word to use due to the dual meaning of the word sex. There. Done.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 04:15 AM
1

I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:07 AM
2

:) I’m the kind of person who likes problem solving on a theoretical and practical level. For example, I like taking apart my boat motor to fix it myself instead of bringing it to a marine shop. Math is the language of the universe. You might like calculus. A lot of physics and engineering-type people like calculus, but don’t like real analysis, graph theory, etc..
/r/MensRights08/03/22 03:20 AM
2

Cool. I like math, physics, and marine biology.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 02:50 AM
2

I don’t have much respect for psychology.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 02:34 AM
2

No entiendo.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 02:32 AM
2

I’m proficient with typonese when I’m not using a tiny phone that has autocorrect.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 02:29 AM
3

Thanks. It’s served me well so far.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 02:15 AM
3

I’m Canadian. I have never confused the two words. I had a long day and just came back from a 2 hour swim. It was a typo.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 02:12 AM
2

50/50 unless you’ve met the ultimate dream person who captivates your sole!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:10 AM
4

If you’re going to correct me for using improper English on Reddit, it’s best that you edit that sentence.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 02:06 AM
2

Fuck if I know
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:58 AM
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It really doesn’t. She doesn’t work in that field anymore anyway. It just reminded me of my sister and I love my sister. It’s not common that people mention waste water, sewage, and sanitation.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:56 AM
2

Are there physical differences between men and women? Yes. Of course. That’s not what I think is under contention. I think men and women are mentally the same.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:54 AM
-1

What can I say? I’m an enginere. engenere. engeneer. I’m good at math.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:51 AM
1

Here’s my own opinion. Women and men are mentally the same. That being said, I realize that I am much different from everyone I’ve ever met. I’m skeptical of psychological studies and studies to do with the social sciences.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:33 AM
0

I don’t think one gender has a higher IQ than the other.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:29 AM
11

It’s funny you said that because my sister studied waste water management.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:22 AM
8

Marie Curie, Emmy Noether, Rosalind Franklin, Emmanuelle Charpentier, Jennifer Doudna, Jane Goodall, etc.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:20 AM
7

That’s not how I feel. I want to achieve something spectacularly profound in life.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:13 AM
1

Statues should be erected based on merit and achievement alone.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:12 AM
1

You inspired me to go swimming today :) Well I was going to go swimming anyway, but this time I was really mindful to take it all in this time around :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:10 AM
2

Same, except I want to adopt kids someday. I love kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:04 AM
3

What the hell would I know? I’m a 20 year old virgin who practices abstinence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:58 AM
1

False. My mom and dad (both attractive) got married at ages 38 and 39, respectively. To be fair, my dad is good looking, 6’3, athletic, has a full head of hair, made 6 figures a year before retiring at age 55, and more. He’s just an introvert. He gets along with people just fine and is great with close friends and family. He just doesn’t party and stuff. He’d rather go fishing with me and my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:20 PM
2

It’s all good. She had a wonderful life. Even though I grew up somewhat far away from family (12hr. drive that was spread out over 2 days: 6hr drive each day for two days), we made sure to visit my grandma every summer and sometimes during Spring Breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:36 PM
1

Life his hard. So be it. Work just happened to be easier than school for my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:24 PM
5

Cool! During the time of Movember. That makes sense.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 09:19 PM
2

I know of Movember, but I’ve never heard of a general Men’s Day.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 09:17 PM
11

Do we have Men’s Day? I didn’t know that. If there is a Men’s Day then I feel a lot better.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 09:14 PM
1

I don’t know. Out of all the colours of the rainbow, the guy you’ve described seems grey. Grey is boring and icy cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:09 PM
2

I would tell my mom and dad to have us move back earlier than we did. My grandma passed away the day before we made the journey back (6hr. drive) to our old community. We were one day away from visiting my grandma when she passed away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:03 PM
2

My dad’s an engineer. It can be great. When you’re in school, they try to weed out the weak. After school it’s clear sailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:00 PM
0

I don’t know what you mean by masculinity. What I can tell you is that there is a decline in adults adventuring and having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:22 PM
3

Swimming and fishing makes me happy. And working on math, computer programs, and physics problems. Singing is also fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:14 PM
8

I think people are being pushed to the extremes at either end in America. My community seems fine. I live in Canada by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:57 PM
3

Yep. That’s one of the reasons why I think the US is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:44 PM
2

I think you can romantically love someone without sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:16 PM
3

It depends on how traditional they want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:15 PM
1

Look at my original comment for clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:11 PM
3

I’m 20 years old. I’m female. I’m safely above 7, looks wise. I would have to know the personalities of the men. My mom was 39 and my dad was 40 when they had me and they have really good genetics and lifestyles so I’m used to older people who look younger than they really are. My parents looked the same age or younger than the parents of my friends. They also were more active than most of the parents of my friends. Anyway, my maternal grandma is 20 years younger than my maternal grandpa. He was…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:00 PM
1

"There should be empathy courses in school that teach people - both men and women - how to date SOLELY based on behavior and intellect instead of looks." Simple answer: No "Cognitive and emotional empathy levels - there should be given a Narcissistic Personality Inventory to everyone in school." No. "Particular physical and mental abilities, like being extremely good at STEM subjects, philosophy, challenging sports, without having physical requirements where it isn't mandatory." These all sound …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:53 PM
2

“You enjoy (nearly) all men having physical power over you at all times?” I don’t enjoy that. “Firearms are the great equalizer - it puts everyone in the same power position regardless of race, sex, disability, etc.” They are an equalizer of sorts. I would not call a firearm a “great equalizer” though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:47 PM
1

"I quote and respond to statements that I have something to say about, or if I think they're valid and counter my arguments. If I ignore them I either agree, find them too inane to bother with, or I've already shared my view on the point and don't want to repeat myself." Thankyou! I just saw this edit!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:00 PM
1

It is true that I have been working with you throughout this discussion. I have not made a single strawman argument. You have not called me out on a single strawman argument. I am discussing the topic with you in good faith - it would be so much easier if we were talking on the phone. To my knowledge, I have not misrepresented you. Please let me know if you think I have misrepresented you in any way. You have misrepresented me. I have pointed it out to you. I have not ignored what you have said …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:55 PM
1

"My point is that women shouldn't care at all about what YOU think her priorities should be, that she should act on what SHE thinks her priorities should be." Cool. This all sounds good to me except for the last little bit. I don't think the woman SHOULD act on what she thinks her priorities should be if those priorities are fundamentally wrong. It's her life and she has the final say so she CAN act on what she thinks her priorities should be. This much is obvious. However, it is wrong to priori…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:41 PM
-1

Hunting non-human animals, duh. Deer, grouse, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:02 PM
1

No. I only favour guns for hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:40 PM
-1

That would work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:34 PM
5

I carry a nail file in my purse. I don’t go out late alone. I make sure I’m in public places when I’m alone. I think that guns should only be used for hunting. Pepper spray is illegal where I live. Also, carrying guns just anywhere is illegal. Edit: what I meant was that guns should only be used by the general public for hunting. That being said, the police/military should obviously have access to guns. Obviously, if someone is trying to kill you and you have a hunting gun handy (you’re in your …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:22 PM
1

I’m a woman who looks best when I don’t wear makeup and I don’t do anything special with my hair. So I only wear makeup for musical theatre and Halloween. I’ve got the rosiest cheeks of anyone I’ve ever met. Also, it kind of looks like I’m wearing eyeshadow even though I don’t (my eyelids are kind of shimmery looking). My eyebrows are naturally dark and thick so that’s great. I sleep 9-10 hours per night. I suggest just getting some beauty sleep. Exercise is great too! The makeup people regularl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:58 PM
1

Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:57 PM
1

Gold diggers suck.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 04:08 AM
2

Sure. It all depends on the context. I’d think that most strangers don’t love men and women for who they are.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 03:35 AM
0

False
/r/MensRights06/03/22 03:18 AM
0

Honestly, O’Leary probably would have made a better party leader than Scheer and O’Toole. I wish Harper, the economist, would come back… I’d vote for him in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:41 PM
2

It’s really unfortunate. I thought Canada was above the nonsense that’s happening in the US, but I was mistaken (historically, we took pride in being distinct from the US in certain ways). Sorry to hear US nonsense has spread to the UK, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:40 PM
1

The boating incident involving O’Leary’s wife derailed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:58 PM
-1

Charisma, virtue, and quirkiness are great. That’s how people find me attractive. Well… and I’m good looking and intelligent. We all need a little more adventure and charisma in our lives!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:04 PM
6

Yep, and I hate that. Ever since Trudeau was first elected, Canada started adopting American stances on both extremes. So dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:01 PM
1

Being like Julian from Barbie’s The Princess and the Pauper or L from Death Note (same voice actor by the way…).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:39 PM
28

I think people are being pushed to the extremes at either end in America. My community seems fine. I live in Canada by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:31 PM
2

Most of my friends are guys anyways. That being said, I have one really good female friend. I don’t think girls are drama. I’ve had two guys fall in love with me, but I shrugged it off and all is well now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:43 PM
2

That’s an illogical thing to say.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 01:47 PM
5

It depends on the definition of feminism. There are too many definitions to count!
/r/MensRights04/03/22 01:45 PM
1

Due to “socialization”, you just made being a man sound better than being a woman in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:58 AM
1

I’m motivated by being a total underdog and rising up to the top. I’m an “I’ll show them” kind of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:56 AM
2

I’m inclined to think that abstinence is an indicator of good mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:19 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:00 PM
1

Dude. I’m going to reply within a week. Off to Calc and Real Analysis. Bye for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:12 PM
1

When I argue people, I try to work with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:07 PM
1

I'm not arrogant and I'm not being sly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:06 PM
1

“It wasn't much of a hint, you made a statement about what you're going to do.” Yep. It simplifies things, but it’s troublesome if the assumptions are wrong. Please cut me some slack and try to work with me a little bit. I’m bad with writing/English/humanities. I can’t Englishes. Don’t cut me slack argument wise though. “I don't see the point in continuing to engage with you though when you've already said you don't have time to respond.” Okay. I’m a student. Just getting ready to get out the do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:57 PM
1

That was my hint for you to pipe up and say: A) No B) Yes C) Yes and no D) (insert text here)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:45 PM
2

I’m going to assume that you agreed with the things I said that you haven’t quoted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:31 PM
1

You’ve misrepresented a lot of what I’ve said. I’ll comment on that when I have time. You also clarified a few things that I was uncertain of, which is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:30 PM
1

Too busy right now. Will probably reply within a week. Would be much easier if I could argue over the phone. Typing takes way too much time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:27 PM
1

I’d feel awkward (I’m a virgin so I’d say no to his request).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:11 PM
1

Message me sometime and I might come up with something to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:08 PM
1

Yep. I’m a virgin who agrees with you, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:58 PM
1

“That's a good example of my point. She needs to evaluate what is more important to her - her desire to avoid being seen as shallow or her desire to be with a hot guy. What is your point with this? It is my opinion that a woman should not avoid dating a man just because others think she is shallow because she is dating the man. Lots of intellectually strong, compassionate, adventurous, …. people are good looking. “This is contradictory advice. She wants two contradictory things - not appearing s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:53 PM
2

Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:12 PM
2

Plus, tinkering is fun. People need more fun in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:08 AM
8

I think both women and men can be content living forever alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:59 AM
1

I wouldn’t say that I’m a prize, but I’d like to think that I’m treasured by those I meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:13 PM
2

Oh, hi again. No worries. Don’t feel obligated to respond. Real life is what matters most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:50 AM
2

Dumb, but sometimes funny
/r/MensRights28/02/22 07:22 AM
1

Weird stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:53 AM
1

Who cares about any ol’ LTR? People want THE LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:14 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:39 AM
0

Of course you earn love. Do the people who earn love deserve the love they have? Oh boy. This has turned into a paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:10 AM
1

I think a lot of people deserve love in one form or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:09 AM
1

K, was only trying to lighten the mood
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:19 PM
1

I’m not superior to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:16 PM
1

I can work with that. One moment!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:54 PM
2

Oh no, it’s exceeded the scale
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:52 PM
1

I like your interpretation. On a scale from green to blue, how would you rate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:50 PM
1

What does it look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:47 PM
1

Edited it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:44 PM
3

OOOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:29 PM
2

I think it’s because I still have a childlike sense of wonder and adventure that reminds them of when they were younger. I don’t know. Maybe that’s not it, but it’s the only thing I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:44 PM
5

Ya. I try not to lead people on. I try to be like a sister or a best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:41 PM
1

But then I purposefully act not wonderful, cool, and distant to get them to snap out of it. That’s not very mature of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:37 PM
1

That’s not true with me. I feel terrible about pushing people away, too. I just wish things could stay as they are. Why must guys fall in love with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:34 PM
11

I don’t know about other women, but I am flooded with options. However, I’m weird about relationships right now. I haven’t dated anyone yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:29 PM
1

I’m weird about relationships. It’s probably because I’m in denial that someone could be attracted to me in that kind of a way. I push people away once they reveal feelings for me. I don’t know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:27 PM
18

I was referring to both men and women. Your assumption is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:05 PM
12

I think there are a few basic things people deserve in a relationship: to be loved, to be happy, to be respected, etc.. That being said, I don’t think that people deserve a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:45 AM
1

I think I’ve unintentionally led guys on. I’m not great at picking up hints. If someone hasn’t officially asked me out on a date, it’s not a date. If someone hasn’t officially asked me to be his girlfriend, I’m not his girlfriend - I’m just a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:40 AM
2

Forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:24 AM
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My dad is 61 and was afraid he would go bald since his hair was thinning out a little bit. Now that he is using Castor oil, his hair has thickened up. Crisis averted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:36 AM
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“It’s hurting women to believe that if we just try hard enough that we can somehow not absorb the harmful lies constantly bombarding us.” Not believing lies doesn’t take effort. Not believing lies does not harm other women. People need to think critically and come to their own conclusions. “It’s not a matter of intelligence, or determination, it’s just a simple fact about how these things work.” Intelligence and willpower has a role in a person’s thoughts and actions. Stupid stuff goes on. Peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:24 AM
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“(I’m a mathematician, and I wouldn’t quote these scientific studies, or say these things, if the logistics weren’t fully credible)” I study math and physics. I’m skeptical of social science that relates to the thinking of people. **”Not that you should ever take my word for it, but I’m hoping that I might peak your interest enough to research some of these things for yourself” Honestly, I’ve grown up with people telling me about this (fellow students, teachers, media, etc..). I hated it when Sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:09 AM
1

“Scientific studies have repeatedly shown that it’s impossible to not absorb these messages.” Social science? I don’t buy into social science. I can get behind regular science (physics, chemistry, biology, geology, etc.). “It’s just the corporations selling us things that tell us we’re too smart to listen to these lies, so just keep buying more things, because you’re a strong empowered woman, and everything is fine, but it’s just more lies to sell you things.” There’s a reason why I don’t usuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:02 PM
6

Yep. That being said, there shouldn’t even be a draft. I’m lucky that there is no draft in my country.
/r/MensRights25/02/22 08:28 PM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:03 PM
1

“Unless you live under a rock,” I think I am metaphorically living under a rock. Either that or I just don’t give a damn about dumb societal stuff. “then you are still bombarded with all of these lies telling you what it means to be a woman” A woman is a human who has XX sex chromosomes. That’s all… “, and they are impossible to not absorb into our subconscious” I’m assuming that I grew up with a much different family than you… Who cares about society when I have my own set of fundamental truths…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:27 PM
1

Sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:46 PM
2

Life isn’t fair. This sub isn’t fair. The other sub isn’t fair. Both subs aren’t balanced. All in all, RP, BP, and FDS are just weird. Just be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:42 PM
1

I only wear makeup for musical theatre. I’ve only ever dyed my hair for musical theatre (temporary hair dye). I’m not religious. (Insert other points here). I’m free.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:43 AM
1

I’m pro choice
/r/MensRights25/02/22 12:05 AM
1

I’d love to be that tall. My eldest sister is 5’11”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:17 PM
1

I know someone who used to be a triple 6. Now he’s 60 years old. He retired at age 55. He’s still over 6ft tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:12 PM
2

My mom is 5’8”, but she went hungry during her childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:07 PM
2

6’1” to 6’2” wouldn’t be a bad height at all. My dad is 6’3” though so if I was a guy, I’d probably be his height. If I was a guy, my parents would have named me John. Also, my middle name would have been Joseph. I like those names. I’m only 20, but I know I want to adopt kids. Does that count? Anyway, I wouldn’t mind being a woman or a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:03 PM
2

If I were to conflate effort with mechanical/chemical work, then I wouldn’t believe him. However, I think that activities that require a large amount of mechanical/chemical work can feel effortless. So, in that sense I’d believe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:11 PM
2

Effortless training? It looks like he’s put effort into training. Effort is subjective though. I think my daily 1.5hr swims are effortless. That being said, I’d rather swim a mile than run a mile, even though swimming takes more time. Running is meh. Running takes effort. Anyway, I think I’d be indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:06 PM
6

Personally, I’m very active and young. I love to swim, snorkel, do stretches, play basketball and badminton, go hiking, paddle boarding, kayaking, and more. Even as an adult, I still like to do front flips on trampolines. It would be so cool if I had a partner who was just as or more active than me. Usually, I’m the one dragging inactive friends with me to do physical activities together. A lot of inactive people lack the motivation to seek out such activities, but are so happy once they are eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:14 AM
1

You’re joking, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:59 AM
1

Oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:54 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:34 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:29 AM
2

Sounds good. I’d only be in a relationship with someone I love who is attractive to answer your last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:25 AM
1

False
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:23 AM
2

90% seems too high
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:20 AM
0

I have no clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:18 AM
5

The only thing I could think of to say back is men and women are trash. I’m a glass half full kind of person so I don’t think men and women or trash, but at least that way you get rid of possible sex-based discrepancies. Deliver the line with humour. Humour is one of the best medicines.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 02:02 AM
1

I have no clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:44 AM
1

It doesn’t affect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:42 AM
3

What was said?
/r/MensRights22/02/22 01:40 AM
3

Most physically attractive: Guy 9 and then 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:17 PM
0

Marriage means the ultimate friendship. Your other half. Your partner in crime. If I were to get married, I’d sign the papers and then go on a fishing adventure or something. I wouldn’t want a big fancy wedding. Instead of a wedding ring, I’d prefer an elegant necklace or bracelet with a colourful gemstone (maybe a sapphire, ruby, emerald, etc.). Gemstones just look so magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:37 PM
0

No I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:22 PM
0

Example A) A woman who is in a coma.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:54 AM
2

I’m actually quite attractive. I swim regularly (provincial record holder) and starred in several musical theatre productions. I doubt they’d let an unattractive person star in a musical. Also, I’ve had two friends declare their love for me so far. I’m an introvert, but I’m sociable and get along with people just fine. I make friends easily and jump around from crowd to crowd. That being said, I’m not a party-type. Like I said, I think I’m just weird about relationships. Perhaps it’s because I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:43 AM
1

Your view is incorrect because there exists at least one woman who is not manipulative and there exists at least one woman who is not entitled. Your view is misogynistic because you are only questioning women on this simple matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:23 AM
2

First I’ll answer why I’m a virgin: I’m only 20 years old. I’m busy studying at university, swimming, hanging out with friends, fishing, etc.. I’ve never dated anyone. I’ve never had a first kiss. I’m a lone wolf who attracts people like a social butterfly. I don’t really want to date anyone (I’m kind of weird about relationships). If I were to lose my virginity, it would only be after marriage. However, I doubt I’ll ever lose my virginity. If I find someone I love, then it won’t matter if he is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:18 AM
2

It’s not a crime. Your view is just incorrect and misogynistic. Not all women are manipulative. Not all women are entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:08 AM
2

Nope. The problem comes from your views on the matter towards all men and all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:05 AM
1

Nope. It’s not based on my opinion and it’s not tied to thought policing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:03 AM
2

Well, I’m not manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:02 AM
1

The word has meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:01 AM
2

I’m not religious. My sisters, parents, grandparents, and all the family I can think of aren’t religious. The exception is my paternal grandpa’s sister. She was a nun. The funny thing is that my grandpa had a kind of disdain for the church since he grew up during the Great Depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:00 AM
2

I can be sure of it. I’m not manipulative. I’m not entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:55 AM
1

The misogynistic label comes from questioning whether or not all women are manipulative or entitled while accepting that not all men are manipulative or entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:53 AM
2

Do you think all men are manipulative? Do you think all men are entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:51 AM
2

Not all women are manipulative. Not all women are entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:50 AM
1

Gregor Mendel was an Austrian monk. He is known as “The Father of Genetics”. He conducted breeding experiments with pea plants. He discovered fundamental laws of inheritance (The Law of Segregation, The Law of Independent Assortment, and The Law of Dominance).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:44 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:39 AM
2

What would you like me to say? This? If a person says all women are manipulative, then that person is misogynistic. If a person says that all women are entitled, then that person is misogynistic. Would you like me to combine the two statements to say: If a person says that all women are manipulative or entitled, then that person is misogynistic. I don’t understand your critique. Please elaborate. Are you just questioning why I said “and” instead of “or”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:37 AM
2

Well, damn. I must be naïve because I don’t think the guys I hang out with are like that. Most of the guys I hang out with are nerdy astrophysics/physics/math students that are usually introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:12 AM
2

Whenever I think of monks, I think of Gregor Mendel and his pea plant experiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:10 AM
2

They shouldn’t be fantasizing about me. I went all distant towards them for quite some time before things went back to normal. I’m pretty sure they’re not in love with me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:03 AM
1

It’s time to move on. Focus on the wonders of life. When was the last time you made a snow angel? When’s the last time you read a fantasy book? When’s the last time you hiked along a trail and stumbled upon a swimming hole? When was the last time you had an adventure?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:00 AM
3

Monks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:47 AM
1

In response to bullet point #2: I agree that most people don’t know what they really want in a partner until “bam”, some person comes along and everything changes. However, I think women don’t truly want mean and unstable men. I think that a woman would want a man who will challenge her, but I don’t think anyone wants a truly mean partner. Mental instability is a huge red flag. I understand that wealth can have importance. Dating advice can really go either way. It all depends on the people. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:37 AM
3

Cool, cool. Some people like to play the hypocrite card.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:59 AM
2

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:58 AM
1

I guess I’ve never been able to accept the so-called mind-based gender traits people have described. I’ve thought this way since I was a toddler (starting around the time I was 4 years old). It really really really bothers me. One could argue that the truth hurts, but I’m not hurt and I don’t think there’s truth in the matter. Perhaps I’m reluctant to generalize certain matters of the mind. In response to bullet point #1: I think we’ve both gone through vastly different experiences growing up. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:56 AM
2

Np
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:12 AM
3

You should also say “than” instead of “then”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:06 AM
2

That’s misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:05 AM
4

You added “for me”. That sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:04 AM
6

Also, I’m a virgin myself if that makes a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:54 AM
5

No worries. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:53 AM
3

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:42 AM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:39 AM
3

I think virginity carries meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:38 AM
3

I don’t get how he took it that way, because the comment reeks of distrust towards women. Doesn’t it say something that I rejected the attempts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:33 AM
1

What do you think is the reason why I’d prefer for a guy I’m dating to be a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:31 AM
7

What do you mean? I’d prefer for a guy I date to be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:29 AM
2

But I have plenty of male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:27 AM
2

Ah, okay. I will avoid them like the plague!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:24 AM
3

As a lifeguard, I made sure to treat people, especially children, in such a way that we were visible and there were witnesses at all times. You can’t ever not be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:22 AM
3

It only seems logical that evolution has significance in this topic. Of course, there must be other factors at play. I’m not entirely sure what we attribute our individual values to - individual experience, family, culture, society, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:15 AM
5

I don’t know if you’re trying to make a point with this comment. A music festival sounds fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:10 AM
9

There’s more to it than social conditioning. It can be revealing of certain personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:05 AM
13

Not serving women does not equate to being misogynistic. Other claims you made are misogynistic. For example, implying that all women are entitled and manipulative is misogynistic. It’s also misogynistic to think that men make better friends than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:02 AM
3

Your views seem a lot more palatable than what other so-called Red Pillers have described. I agree with a good amount of what you said. However, there is something subtle that I don’t agree with. I’m trying to find the right words. Perhaps it’s because I think women and men are more alike then what many seem to think. Sorry, but what is F&F? I’m interested in hearing more about points 1, 4, and 8. I also want equality for all (equal opportunity). Depending on the definition of feminism, I either…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:51 AM
2

You kind of just described “the spark”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:08 AM
2

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:06 AM
2

My mom and dad had the “spark”. They met on a dock.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:02 AM
4

No. I’m not into those kinds of activities. I’d rather go swimming or hiking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:56 AM
3

How would you describe RP? For your situation, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:54 AM
1

It’s possible. Most of my friends are guys and I’m a virgin. To be fair, two friends who are guys kind of fell in love with me, but I politely steered away from that, so all is good!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:49 AM
2

I disagree. (For my country.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:45 AM
1

Lol, American politics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:51 AM
2

Context: I’m a 20 year old virgin. I’m a woman. I’m Canadian. I grew up with two loving parents. I will only share my personal views and experiences since I can only speak for myself and maybe a few close family members and friends. “Why do you willingly have children knowing the father won’t be around?” I wouldn’t, unless I were to adopt a child. I’ve always wanted to adopt a child someday. Even if I was married and even though I have really good genetics, I think I want to adopt. I absolutely …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:44 AM
1

I’m 20 years old and above average in attractiveness (face - I starred in several musicals - and physique - provincial record holder in swimming here). Anyway, I don’t think I get approached very often because I kind of still look like a teenager and I don’t go to bars (I’m more into going out for Jazz performances with friends - those events are usually filled with old people). The odd time I get approached by what I’d describe as a conventionally good looking, really physically fit, party-type…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:28 PM
0

You didn’t give a valid argument. It’s ridiculous that you’d state that I “live in a fascist dictatorship”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:48 AM
0

“I don't care if it's called the Rainbows and Sunshine Act.” Same. Names are just names. “You live under a fascist dictatorship” No. “and either you're in denial” No. “or you're a fascist too (and given that last statement I'm leaning the latter).” No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:47 AM
0

It’s the Emergency Act by the way if you were looking for the name. Two of the few things Trudeau had done right are implement vaccine passports and invoke the Emergency Act for the Truckers’ protest. We need Stephen Harper back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:25 AM
0

I would think that most don’t use online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:29 PM
1

Whenever I think of situations like this, I think of the character of Marilla in Anne of Green Gables (1985). So here you go: https://youtu.be/I5VWnZR1Qps “I don’t know what I’d do if you weren’t here - if you’d never come.” Anyway, my mom got married to my dad at age 39 and had me at age 40. However, she also has children from a previous marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:51 PM
3

Frick that. I write my own destiny. I’m a natural leader and take charge of situations myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:33 PM
1

I refuse to watch 50 Shades of Grey! I still cover my eyes when actors kiss in movies and TV shows…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:32 AM
3

Ya. My mom had the choice to work or do a fricken amazing job of being a stay at home mom and keeping the house in order while my dad was busy working so they could retire at age 54. She ran the local art club without a salary because it was her passion. I went to art club with her because I hated day care and all the artists loved having me around. The mayor was so glad that my mom lead the club, because the artists would try to pull crazy sh*t when left to their own devices. Frick, I don’t thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:22 AM
2

I felt bad when my friend in grade 8, who was chubby, started starving herself in an attempt to lose weight. I tried to get her to go on walks with me and eat more food (and healthy food at that). She was counting her calories like crazy. Sad… She wasn’t complaining about her diet. She was upset about her weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:12 AM
4

There shouldn’t be a draft.
/r/MensRights19/02/22 07:04 AM
2

“Why are you uncomfortable around people that are insecure?” I’m trying to think of reasons why I am uncomfortable around insecure people. If I were talking on the phone, maybe I could articulate some of my thoughts, but it’s difficult to express such thoughts and feelings. “Like if a girl says she's insecure because her boobs aren't big enough in her mind, would that make you uncomfortable?” Yes, for three reasons. The first reason is that I don’t think the girl should worry about that, but I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:59 AM
9

Good on you for holding your ground.
/r/MensRights19/02/22 06:42 AM
1

The Great Gatsby! Love that book! So tragic. I’m a lot like Nick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:38 AM
1

1.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:32 AM
7

My dad feels better than ever now that he’s dying his hair. He sings, “I’ll wash that grey right out of my hair.” My mom uses his hair dye to darken her light eyebrows. My mom was the first to use hair dye for the greys. My dad started getting upset with his greys in photographs so my mom suggested he get the special men’s dye that leaves a bit of grey, but still does the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:27 AM
2

I don’t know why. I don’t get it. What I do know is that I’m uncomfortable around insecure men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:25 AM
9

Picking the right partner. Being the you you’re meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:21 AM
1

From my experience, engineers are usually practical, calm, level-headed, short-term pain for long-term gain oriented, financially responsible, introverted, detail oriented, sentimental, and more. These seem like good traits. Nerds are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:10 AM
1

What can I say? I’ve got people in my family on both sides of the aisle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:56 AM
1

Ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:45 AM
0

“To protect themselves from the criminals that will inevitably have them, regardless of the laws on the books,” There’s risk in both scenarios. Pick your poison. “and also to discourage tyranny.” How would guns discourage tyranny? “Funny, cuz I think you're seeing right now in Canada exactly what happens when the populace is disarmed.” How would guns help the situation? What tyranny? “Aren't you guys under martial law atm,” Something like that. “and having peaceful protesters rounded up and arre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:34 AM
2

My mom is also a true loving hero. She literally saved her sister from drowning!
/r/MensRights19/02/22 12:23 AM
2

My dad is a true loving hero.
/r/MensRights19/02/22 12:22 AM
3

They aren’t heroes though. I want to be a true hero. I’ve wanted to be a hero from the time I could remember.
/r/MensRights19/02/22 12:15 AM
4

“So it sounds like your dad did most of the fun stuff and your mom did more of the hassle stuff like driving you around” That’s totally false. My mom did plenty of fun stuff with only me and with me and my dad. My dad was the sole breadwinner. He worked from before school started to after school ended. My dad drove me around too. “I'd bet she did most of the cleaning and all your laundry too.” My mom did sweeping, mopping, deep cleaning, organizing, and loads of wash. My dad did vacuuming (he’d …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:11 AM
3

I think that being a hero is a good thing.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:54 PM
1

Engineers can be good looking. It depends on what you mean by quirks, I guess. I’m kind of quirky myself. Who cares about “popularity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:10 PM
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It seems weird and gross. Edit: and immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:03 PM
1

For perspective, I’m 20 years old right now so I’m young
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:56 PM
1

Lol. I’ve never dated anyone, but I think engineers and physics/math majors are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:48 PM
4

My mom and dad both went to all my swim meets (provincial record holder, here). My mom and dad both took me to school play rehearsals. My mom drove me to swim practice, school, piano lessons, kick boxing, etc.. My mom would take me swimming more than my dad because my dad only went swimming for me (he’s more of a hot tub guy). We all go fishing, mushrooming, walking, and berry-picking together. My dad takes me for more walks than my mom. We all watch TV and movies together. My dad likes fruits/v…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:42 PM
0

Lol, can you tell I’m picky when it comes to music
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:34 PM
1

Weird. I’m not interested in sports (except swimming! I love to swim!) or communication or common frat boy personalities, so I’d be more inclined to date an engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:32 PM
3

Were they C’s get degrees types? Were they perfectionists? Which fields of study? Also, “want to” and “have time to” are two different beasts. My comment was made with the intension of lightening the mood of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:25 PM
7

My dad cooks the same foods over and over again: seafood, barbecue foods, Christmas dinner (turkey, ham (pineapple and cherry combo), gravy, mashed potatoes (home style), green peas, carrots, stuffing, cranberry sauce, yams, etc..), Thanksgiving dinner, Easter dinner, Roast Beef and Yorkshires dinner, turkey curry with raisins, Greek salads, garden salads, spinach pie, beef stew, chilli, smoked foods, pickles, apple crisp, blackberry crumble, blueberries with ice cream, any kind of sandwich, bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:17 PM
2

Yes. Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:51 PM
0

Oops! I didn’t see the flair! I’m not blue pill. I’m unaffiliated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:49 PM
1

Ya, pretty much!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:44 PM
4

If you’re a student in an intense field of study, you’re pretty well booked solid with homework until age 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:42 PM
10

Yep! I seriously don’t see your point out in the real world. My dad isn’t a misogynist. My nephews aren’t misogynists. My grandpas (deceased) weren’t misogynists. The list goes on and on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:35 PM
6

I hate it when men and/or women speak for all men and/or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:31 PM
4

True that. They also womansplain to men!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:30 PM
7

Also, no. Most men are not socialized in our society to be misogynists. Edit: Seriously… why the downvotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:26 PM
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Looked him up. He’s an American rapper. I hate rap music so there’s that. Most of my family hates rap music. A lot of my friends don’t like rap music either. One of my friends likes “Fancy” by Iggy Azalea though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:23 PM
1

Who is Dr. Dre?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:20 PM
5

“Men are forever shocked that women aren't a hivemind.” Yep. Some men are ignorant. “They can't help it. They're all raised to be misogynists so are genuinely expecting us to be.” Most men in Canada aren’t raised to be misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:09 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:03 PM
2

It’s just my opinion that hunting guns are good. What’s the use of any other type of gun in the hands of your average Joe?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:54 PM
1

I live in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:33 PM
1

I wouldn’t dare say that all “conservative women are just batshit crazy.” What would you think if I told you that I know several women who vote conservative but are non-religious, pro-choice, against guns (except for hunting, of course), pro-healthcare, etc..? Conservatism is different in different countries. I’m assuming you don’t live in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:17 AM
1

It all depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:14 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:13 AM
1

If a lot of women are like me, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:37 AM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:03 PM
2

I’d doubt it would be a military pension. It would only be to do with WWII. My grandpa was a landscaper after the war. Anyway, sounds good.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 01:42 PM
2

Oh. I see. Well, you could be like my grandma who just lives off of her old age pension and widow’s pension. I forget if she gets something because my grandpa served in WWII.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 01:32 PM
2

I’m thinking more along the lines of my dad’s engineering pension
/r/MensRights16/02/22 01:24 PM
2

My parents’ wedding anniversary is on Valentine’s Day. They always have lobster on Valentine’s Day. Anyway, in elementary school it was fun to give Valentine’s cards and candies to everyone.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 12:39 PM
1

Men’s problems are caused by men, women, organizations, natural disasters, freak events, … The list goes on and on.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 12:33 PM
7

We need solid pensions like the good ol’ days
/r/MensRights16/02/22 12:27 PM
1

I’m having all good experiences in STEM so far. The only thing I hate is the whole “women in STEM” diversity fluff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:18 PM
1

Nah, it’s red heads that have full reign over anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:10 PM
0

I know some good movies with female leads if you’re interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:07 PM
1

The most trivial bullet point was #8. I like having my dad’s last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:06 PM
0

Not having to pay for certain necessary sanitary products (at least they aren’t taxed anymore!) Medicine (used to be tailored towards men; work still needs to be done). Cheaper men’s products (similar product, but men’s version) Less risk of a subset of safety threats. I’m not going to list biological ability based stuff. I don’t live in a patriarchy though. I know some dumb views stupid people have towards women, but I don’t think that’s what you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:49 AM
0

I don’t live in a patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:48 AM
2

They’re both fine. I’d prefer to date a tall guy. Maybe my dad’s height: 6’3.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:42 AM
2

Lol, I’m 5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:38 AM
1

I wouldn’t date a pansexual person. I don’t subscribe to the modern definition of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:29 AM
1

They’re not relevant in MY dating world. There.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:25 AM
1

People have to stop viewing Boomers as ultra conservative/traditional people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:21 AM
1

No. I’ve always been weird about certain topics. I’m too innocent? I don’t know how to word it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:04 AM
1

Because I’m weird. I don’t know. I improvised.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:58 AM
1

You already figured out what it meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:46 AM
1

My sisters are closer in age to our mom than to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:44 AM
1

Well, my grandma is 20 years younger than my grandpa. I’m 21 years younger than my sister. I’m 2 years older than my eldest nephew. Age is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:55 AM
2

Well, the story goes as follows. The OP said I was a unicorn in another post. In response, I sent a link to the song The Last Unicorn from the movie The Last Unicorn. Now, the OP makes a post on the topic of regret. In my head I’m thinking: by golly, the whole ending of The Last Unicorn was about regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:53 PM
3

You again, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:23 PM
1

I just saw the topic of regret and had to post this: https://youtu.be/9bmxSt4xcGw Sorry for being half off topic, but I’ve already mentioned the movie to you before. I couldn’t resist sharing the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:57 PM
1

“Do we need each other?” Yes and no. “Everytime I see a couple I see nothing but fakeness in it but that's just my opinion.” I don’t see fakeness in my mom and dad or my grandparents, for example. “I had very terrible and bad experience with woman since my early childhood” I don’t know what you went through, but I know that each and every woman is different. “and that's why I don't believe them anymore” That’s not logical. “or have the need to protect and help them.” You don’t need to protect an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:35 PM
1

“traditional femininity” Dumb. Current femininity is just physical traits and fashion in my opinion (nothing to do with behaviour and matters of the mind such as interests and personality). “Men have created their own version of feminine and then brainwashed women into believing this is how women naturally act.” No. “feminine means “vulnerable, docile, submissive”. “ No. “This, imo, is why a lot of women are rejecting femininity altogether.” What is femininity? Are you referring to traditional d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:20 PM
2

My dad is a lone wolf who attracts people like a social butterfly. He has had strong connection to family all his life. He has only ever had a few close friends all his life. He’s an introvert who always got dragged into doing big social activities like concerts while he was in university. Otherwise, he’d rather just go fishing with family. He’ll go fishing with a friend once in a while, but he prefers family. I’m much like my dad. I think you have to examine people like us, who some people woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:08 PM
2

I’m very happy to have rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:17 PM
1

Ah, okay. Which part of my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:16 PM
1

Are you referring to blue pillers or me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:03 AM
2

That’s complete nonsense. My dad loves flowers (seeing and smelling them), too. But, he’d rather work on the fruit, veggies and herbs. I’m like him in those respects. He’s an engineer. He’s naturally very practical. He also does all the pickling (my grandma’s special recipe). My mom is so great with the flowers that he lets her do her thing while she lets him do his thing. They collaborate, of course, but they have specialties. It’s like how my dad always cooks classics, seafood, blackberry crum…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:26 AM
1

I’ve given plants and flowers to my grandpa. He was the gardener of the family. The last plant I gifted him was a prayer plant. My grandpa passed away some years back and my mom and dad have kept the prayer plant alive to this day. I give plants to my mom and dad, too. My dad is more into fruits, veggies, and herbs. My mom is more into flowers. I gave my nephew (in grade 2) a flowering cactus I had because he was eyeing it like crazy. My sister has set up his own garden in their backyard, too. H…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 04:46 AM
1

“Just be yourself” can be great advice if you’re already great. My grandpa always told me, “Keep doing what you’re doing”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:16 AM
1

A smartass can be fun. Feminism has too many definitions nowadays. Everything else you said sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:55 AM
1

I’m just going to say it… A man looks weird in a dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:52 AM
1

I forgot to say this before, but why would blue pill serve MY interests? You don’t even know what my interests are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:48 AM
1

Take the hint
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:10 PM
5

There’s more of us out there. We’ve just been forced into the sea by the red bull (like the movie).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:25 PM
1

Cool, I don’t know much about the religion so I’m in the dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:23 PM
1

What’s your religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:20 PM
2

https://youtu.be/Enq2pFpBz1s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:17 PM
1

Now you’re just trolling, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:04 PM
1

What are your general thoughts on red pill and blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:02 PM
9

It seems that people make blue pillers out to be politically correct, complacent people who never question the status quo. Blue pillers seem kind of sexist and racist, too. I joined the men’s rights group because I don’t like the idea of equality of outcome. I also don’t think I live in a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:55 PM
1

Good luck with the move!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:35 PM
32

This is just entertainment. I joined the men’s rights group a few months ago and found out about red/blue pill on that forum. I liked how it was a play on The Matrix. That was clever. However, I didn’t like what red pill and blue pill groups were saying. I joined this forum to insert my opinions into the mix. The real world is much different than the online world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:28 PM
25

Redpill hasn’t effected my life at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:24 PM
1

Well, you see, I don’t like saying certain words so I improvised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:18 PM
1

They’re the same reasons why I wouldn’t prefer to date a man with extensive ribrorsheiroqpirht relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:15 PM
1

I forgot to say this before, but maybe you should seek out some physics nerds to hang out with. A good bunch are charismatic. Engineers are good fun, that is, when they have the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:12 PM
1

I know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:54 PM
1

Lol, it all depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:31 PM
1

High five! Math majors unite!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:17 PM
1

Chivalry!!! Even though chivalry is a term commonly used to describe men, I too want to practice chivalry in my life.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 02:05 PM
1

“Manspreading” isn’t an issue.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 02:01 PM
1

I always grew up thinking men and women were equal. I’m 20 right now and confused why people would think we live in a patriarchy. It doesn’t make any sense.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 01:58 PM
1

Want a pen pal (no commitment; can write as much or as little as you want; can stop whenever)?
/r/MensRights14/02/22 01:55 PM
1

Why do I always think of Anne of Green Gables (1985)…
/r/MensRights14/02/22 01:45 PM
1

I’m a 20 year old virgin. If I was dating a guy who was a virgin, I’d be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:01 PM
1

When I lost weight in grade 10 (I grew and was swimming/exercising daily to learn how to do the splits), even my FRICKEN teachers commented on my change in appearance. I’ve always been beautiful though. Here was my exercise regiment: -swim 1.5 hrs mostly everyday -warmup + stretches for an hour while watching TV every other day (sometimes multiple days in a row if I felt like it) -trampoline front flips/handstand flip things/jumps for 1-3hrs at a time when I felt like it -walks with my parents -…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:45 PM
1

I want to stay like a kid forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:42 PM
1

I don’t know what 50/50 financial responsibility is. My dad handles the finances, not my mom. However, my mom seeks out all the deals. My sister handles all the finances and her husband doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:33 PM
1

“1. Is this a relatable experience?” No. I’m a university student. I’m the same age as you. My program is math and physics. Connect the dots… “2. Do you think that this signifies a change in dating culture and that this will continue when my generation reaches our late 20s and beyond?” No. You’re looking at a small sample size. “3. If you are like me and uncomfortable with hookup culture, would you be okay with dating a woman that had engaged in the “college experience” kind of stuff?” I’m a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:28 PM
2

I would prefer to be married because of: Tax breaks, legal stuff, inheritance stuff (it’s also important to have a will!!!!), medical stuff, etc.. Main reason why I’d want to married: marriage is a symbol! If I were to get married, I’d plan on being married for life. I know that many many many people divorce, but I don’t think I’d ever put myself in marriage that would end in divorce. I’m too picky? Anyway, I wouldn’t want a traditional wedding. If I were to get married, I’d sign the papers and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:14 PM
1

Jam or peanut butter and jam
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:09 PM
2

Yay, I did it! Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:28 AM
1

Oh boy, I’ve never done that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:25 AM
1

Ahhh, I give up. I’ll try again tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:24 AM
1

I have a can opener, but it’s a screw on lid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:16 AM
1

I tried running hot water over the lid and then I tried tapping it with the back of a knife. Well, maybe I’ll go for another round. Wish me luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:04 AM
6

Today, I was all ready to have a jam sandwich for lunch, but I can’t open the jar of jam. Currently in desperate need for a boyfriend to open the jar. Edit: The jar has opened! I repeat, the jar has been opened. No need for a boyfriend now thanks to the tips of Redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:45 AM
1

Of course there are forms of work that must be completed in a timely manner (eg. taking care of health/finances). Hopefully a person’s profession doesn’t feel like “work for the sake of work”, for the most part. I’m a firm believer that it’s best, for example, to write up a report as soon as possible. Volunteering sounds fun for the most part. Self-care just sounds normal. Household stuff seems normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:35 PM
1

What type of work?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:18 PM
1

The language of the universe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:36 PM
1

Interesting. I am a very confident person. However, I’m not overconfident. I’m diligent: “get work done, then have some fun”! Hopefully one’s profession doesn’t feel just like “work for the sake of work”. The best professions are the ones in which a person, for the most part, doesn’t feel like he/she is working (the job is a fun passion). I always thought that volunteering was fun for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:23 PM
3

Zest for life and the desire to still seek out the wonders of life is such a wonderful trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:59 PM
4

Disney Princess/Hopeless romantic sounds like the only good category in my opinion. Notice how I intentionally left out the word “blind”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:50 PM
4

I have a kind of respect towards virgins, male and female. If I were to ever be in a relationship, I’d prefer for the guy to be a virgin. However, virginity isn’t a deciding factor since there are more important things to consider such as intelligence, zest for life, and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:18 PM
5

Thanks. I don’t understand why lots of people fixate on virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:15 PM
1

I am really happy. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:13 PM
8

No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:21 AM
0

I keep my mouth shut, even if the guy is an alcoholic loser who cheats. If I were to comment negatively about a friend’s boyfriend, I would unintentionally drive the two closer together!!! In fact, I would drift further away from the friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:45 AM
3

Dress up as a ballerina with a clown nose and start singing “I’m a Little Teapot” while dragging your nails along a chalk board.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:37 AM
27

I’m a 20 year old virgin. I haven’t had a first kiss. I haven’t dated anyone. I’m not shy (I’ve starred in several musical theatre performances and I’m great at public speaking/leading group projects). I’m definitely not insecure. I’m not religious (my parents and grandparents aren’t religious either). I’m too busy studying math/physics (with a scholarship), swimming (provincial record holder and former lifeguard - before Covid-19/university), and pursuing a wide range of hobbies (especially dur…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:28 AM
4

He’s exciting. However, I’m also exciting. Also, I’ve never dated anyone before. Also, I’m weird. Also, I think he’s kind of depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:14 PM
1

I was shocked and amazed when somebody started playing “Bring Me to Life” by Evanescence on his phone in the school cafeteria and my friend who is a funny, shy guy started belting out the song. That same guy loved making fun of movies with me which was great. He was also oddly agile in gym class (I could perform front flips on the trampoline, but he could perform front flips with a twist!!!) That guy is also passionate about astrophysics, rocketry, and planes. However, he’s not that smart. I’m t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:09 PM
1

“I don't imagine it's easy to suffer bleeding and cramps every 4 weeks.” It sucks when you’re a swimmer/lifeguard. (It especially sucks when you have 5 hours of back-to-back swim lesson teaching with no breaks in between.) I wouldn’t mind to have been born a man instead of a woman. My name would have been John.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:18 AM
1

I disagree. There’s less violence in my country than a country like America. I think that guns should only be for hunting and police. I don’t mind not having pepper spray. I only go out in public places when I’m alone and I don’t stay out too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:13 AM
2

You talk about firearms when it’s illegal for me to carry pepper spray. My mom taught me to carry a nail file in my purse because it’s legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:57 AM
1

Wtf, most of my friends are of the opposite gender. Throughout all of school, too!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:51 AM
1

F*ck this. Dating is about the ultimate kind of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:49 AM
1

No social media presence is an advantage!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:46 AM
5

It’s logical for friends to develop feelings over time. I wouldn’t start a relationship with someone who wasn’t already a friend. Two friends fell in love with me, which was awkward…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:44 AM
9

Well, I’m a 20 year old virgin. I think that being a virgin shows how much a person values certain things. I think it has something to do with a strong sense of sentimentality. By the way, I’m not religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:24 AM
1

Anyone who has the right personality and looks can be a friend. A boyfriend or girlfriend is the ultimate friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:40 PM
2

Sometimes it’s best if the rough draft of a book is never read aloud. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:26 AM
-2

Same.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 04:19 AM
2

I bet. Terrible
/r/MensRights09/02/22 04:16 AM
0

Those aren’t “my” stereotypes either so don’t say “your”. I never said that I believe in any of that BS and I most certainly didn’t claim that anyone on this server believes in that BS. I just know that some dumb idiots think that way.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 01:37 AM
5

I see society has a great impact on the matter. I am an unusual person. From the time I was a toddler, I rejected certain ideas from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:27 AM
1

My standards are ridiculously high. I’m a virgin and have no desire for that to change. It’s kind of difficult to find that ultimate best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:27 AM
0

I’m so glad I was born good-looking. It’s been especially helpful for musical theatre and shocking the shy, awkward people I reach out to to becomes friends with. Thanks for the genes, mom and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:21 AM
1

That’s a sucky abbreviation then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:03 PM
0

Here’s some forms of discrimination: People automatically assume women with science scholarships most likely got the scholarships because of their gender. (Of course this happens in many cases, which is unfortunate. However, some of these women received science scholarships purely based on academic merit.) Oh, you’re a girl. You’re indecisive and dawdle. You’re emotional. You’re not logical. You overreact. You’re cryptic. You talk in riddles. You play mind games. You’re manipulative. You want at…
/r/MensRights08/02/22 10:32 PM
0

Just say “most” then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:14 PM
3

I think that some of the most logical people are the most sentimental people on the inside… I don’t value emotional thinking as much as logical thinking. Anyway, I think that men and women are equally logical. I also think that men and women are equally emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:11 PM
1

I think logical thinking is better than the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:05 PM
10

???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:01 PM
2

Also, hair dye and curling/straightening irons damage hair and tans cause damage to skin. Oh, and nail polish/fake nails can have a negative impact over time. That’s why I refuse to wear makeup except for musical theatre and Halloween. I’ve never gotten fake nails. I may paint my nails 2 times a year (if at all). I’ve only ever dyed my hair (temporary) for my lead performance in a musical. Oh, and some lady used a straightening iron on my hair for another musical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:54 PM
3

By the way, I think that talking through one’s problems can be a negative trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:49 PM
6

For starters, I think men and women are equally empathetic. I also think most men take care of their appearances better than most women in my society. Makeup is bad for your skin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:46 PM
8

Ha, are you trying to pull the AWALT card here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:42 PM
-1

It’s 50/50, like you said
/r/MensRights07/02/22 11:33 PM
1

Thanks, I love that movie! Matthew Cuthbert is my favourite character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:59 PM
1

I could become a pen pal by email if you’d like. No guarantees as I’m a busy person, but I could try to send an email a week. I’m much younger, but have an old soul in some respects.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 05:54 AM
0

I am very protective of my family. It’s a blessing and a curse. It is especially frustrating when I know a family member is putting his/herself into a risky situation, but I can do nothing about it because it’s his/her choice and I can’t come across as judgemental… Edit: in my most memorable recurring nightmares as a toddler/young child, I had to save my parents and grandparents from an evil entity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:24 AM
9

I think being single for life without having casual flings is alright. (Think of Matthew in “Anne of Green Gables” (1985). He never got in a relationship. He never married. He ended up adopting a daughter and had a good life. He was an unusual, but kind movie character. Marilla, on the other hand, lived with some regrets in regards to dating. She was also a very kind person who got fulfillment in raising Anne.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:16 AM
1

Yes, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:11 AM
1

By the way, Soul Surfer was a good movie
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:03 AM
1

There aren’t dangerous sharks where I live. Just dogfish sharks that I’ll catch here and there when fishing (an indicator that I’m trolling too slowly).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:02 AM
1

Lol, there you go. My sister’s nickname is Sharky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:59 AM
1

If she was single and you were a marine biologist who studies sharks, then I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:56 AM
2

In your dreams, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:54 AM
2

Lol, she’s married
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:51 AM
5

Ya, my sister is really pretty so basically she wore an item of clothing that the girls normally didn’t wear and stood out. I’m guessing that she wouldn’t have gotten dress coded if she was ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:46 AM
2

Yep, that’s what I figured.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:42 AM
2

My sister (20 years older than me!!!) got dress-coded for wearing plaid pants. My first elementary school: no spaghetti strap sleeves and shorts had to be below finger length. Everybody followed the rules so nobody had to enforce the rules. My second elementary school: same “rules”, but nobody followed them and there was no need to enforce them High school: nothing stupidly showy (underwear showing or whatever), no profanity/reference to alcohol, drugs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:38 AM
2

This gets confusing because people have different values that each shape their own perspective on the topic. Also, some people are more tolerant of other peoples’ behaviours and choices than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:28 AM
1

A guy can do whatever he wants. I don’t really want to be in a relationship with anyone so I’m the wrong person to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:34 AM
16

The past, the present, and the future matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:31 AM
2

Ya, I was actually taken aback when you assumed that I agree with inequality of opportunity. It’s sad that that’s the go-to assumption. What’s even sadder is I understand why you made the assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:28 AM
1

Ah. I’ve only watched the Disney cartoon. However, this version’s trailer played on my VHS tape for Hansel and Gretel all the time: https://youtu.be/5lyME-2ANgE That VHS tape also had trailers for Puss in Boots and The Frog Prince. https://youtu.be/jrCiH6AK8vY https://youtu.be/bzY3tosd6Rw
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:48 PM
3

I know. It needs to stop. It’s messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:31 PM
2

I can see why Gaston was part of the story. It was to clearly show the differences between him and the Beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:29 PM
1

I’m sure that there’s plenty of things you don’t notice, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:26 PM
1

He’s not stunning. I think he looks weird and I’m pretty sure he’s balding. The woman looks great though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:23 PM
1

I never claimed it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:20 PM
1

I know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:17 PM
2

Yep, now everyone has to protect equal opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:24 PM
1

Well, I don’t see a vast difference between men and women in attention seeking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:13 PM
5

Women can be more addicted to attention than men. Men can be more addicted to attention than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:54 PM
5

Ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:02 PM
5

Well, I don’t think you can quantify something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:53 AM
4

Anyway, I don’t think 99% do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:50 AM
2

I guess I don’t understand anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:45 AM
3

It just seems ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:42 AM
1

I wasn’t aware of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:40 AM
5

But the Beast wasn’t truly a bad guy. Gaston was the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:39 AM
1

We both didn’t give valid reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:14 AM
1

“But your reasoning is - because YOU wouldn't do it.” I never gave a reason. Saying “because [I] wouldn’t do it” is not a valid reason. Also, I’m Canadian. Edit: Also, I never said “because” so I don’t know why you’d infer that I delivered my statement as a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:13 AM
6

I don’t see how that confirms or denies the statement I commented on. If I were married to a man who cheated on me or did something morally unforgivable, I’d divorce him. A man being broke is not an automatic divorce cue for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:52 AM
1

Which Disney Princess? I don’t know why, but I wasn’t really a fan of Disney princesses. Growing up, I liked Barbie in “The Princess and the Pauper”. I liked the movie, not because of romance, but because of other themes. However, I will admit that the romances shown were executed well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:22 AM
7

Lol. It’s just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:59 AM
2

Well, I think I’m quite generally just an unusual person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:15 AM
1

I’m good friends with a very unattractive man, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:32 AM
7

I don’t know. What I do know is that I connect with very few people. I usually connect with awkward, nerdy guys who are shy, but funny at the same time. Most of my friends are guys, actually. Sometimes I feel like people are surprised that I initially approach them (not for dating, but just approaching - I’ve never dated anyone).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:25 AM
8

I don’t think that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:19 AM
5

I’m a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:17 AM
18

Some women don’t feed off of attention and validation. Some women want to live a quiet life, live below their means, save enough money to retire comfortably at a fairly young age, and then spend their golden years fishing and gardening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:16 AM
1

Well, yes and no? It’s complicated. She should dump him because of stuff… but it’s weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:13 AM
14

I want equal opportunity. I want to earn things based on merit alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:11 AM
10

I think most men and women want a fairytale relationship. However, I’m not quite sure what qualifies as a fairytale relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:50 AM
7

That’s vague. One could argue that most PEOPLE want the same things and mostly do the same things to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:49 AM
2

Also, I know a happily married couple who isn’t like that. The guy is the dreamer and the woman brings home the bacon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:48 AM
6

Ha, I know a woman who had a relationship that was the opposite of that. The guy was an unemployed alcoholic! The woman has a science degree, owns her own house, etc.. She was supporting the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:47 AM
1

Something I’d never want to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:50 AM
1

Going by your definition of gender, gender is not a fundamental truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:49 AM
2

Well, the thing is… Conservatism is different in different counties. I live in Canada. Generally, my parents have always voted for the Conservative Party (past track record, finances, etc..). That being said, my parents are pro-choice, non-religious, anti-gun (except for hunting, of course!), pro-healthcare, pro-vaccine/vaccine passport, pro-climate science (aim for sustainability without putting people in the poor house) people. I could probably go on and on. Once Trudeau got elected, the Conse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:38 AM
3

Here’s my opinion. (I’m going to use your definition of gender from here on out even though I grew up with a different definition for gender). Gender is not a fundamental truth. A woman is not a gender. A man is not a gender. A woman is a sex. A man is a sex. Women and men have different physical characteristics. Women and men have the same thoughts, interests, behaviours, so-called “roles”, personalities, etc.. Why mess with matters of the mind? I’m going to get a lot of backlash with this opin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:48 PM
2

Ya! My paternal grandma had short hair all her life. She was born in 1927.
/r/MensRights05/02/22 11:24 PM
15

Audrey Hepburn had a nice short hair cut.
/r/MensRights05/02/22 09:49 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:44 PM
1

I suppose encouraging my friends to join would be too much. I guess I’d just go up by myself and my friends could join if they want. Where I live, people respect that kind of action. I’d actually be praised for it. Also, I was the star student growing up, so I could get away with something like that. My parents would appreciate that I tackled the manner quietly, but effectively.
/r/MensRights29/01/22 10:00 PM
0

If I was a student at the Australian school during the event, I would stand up alongside the boys and apologize to all the girls along with the boys (I am a girl by the way). Then I would encourage my friends who are girls to join me. Edit: Why the down votes?
/r/MensRights29/01/22 09:50 PM
2

Yep, and that is absolutely terrible!
/r/MensRights29/01/22 09:42 PM
1

“And lets also remember that the blame was placed on all men, society and especially anti-feminists.” I wasn’t born then, but I can see how 10 weird, crazy people in the world would idiotically blame all men and anti-feminists. I take solace in knowing that most people didn’t and don’t have that idiotic opinion. “It was said not to be the isolated work of a madman, but a result of how deeply misogynistic society is. “ I wasn’t aware of that. I grew up being taught that Canada is not misogynistic…
/r/MensRights29/01/22 09:22 PM
1

I haven’t read all of what you have wrote yet, but here: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marc_Lépine The guy literally separated the women from the men before… That’s why, in Canadian universities, there is a day to remember the incident. Anyway, I get that this was a ONE-time incident in Canada. I still think that it is important to remember what happened.
/r/MensRights29/01/22 09:11 AM
5

Just buy a bunch of valentine’s cards and candies to give to friends (like how we used to in Elementary School). It’s fun!
/r/MensRights29/01/22 09:06 AM
-1

What is in-group preference and what is out-group preference?
/r/MensRights29/01/22 09:00 AM
3

I feel bad for white men because of certain attitudes held by weird people. Particularly, there is a narrative of hatred towards old, white, straight, English-speaking men. It’s terrible.
/r/MensRights29/01/22 08:57 AM
3

There’s a third group of people who you are missing. There are hunters/fishers. I, myself, catch and prepare my own fish. Also, there are better farming practices out in the world. Oddly, I’m a person who doesn’t mind the eating of cats, dogs, Guinea pigs, horses, turtles, etc.. I wouldn’t each such animals because I prefer to eat locally hunted meat (I’m also super picky). I think we can all agree that factory farms and the like partake in terrible practices.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:53 AM
10

Preferences just serve as a beginner’s manual for communicating what a person thinks is aesthetically/intellectually pleasing. In the real world, each person has to observe the situation in front of them and make a decision based on their observations. There’s always a surprise. Like how p=mv (p is momentum, m is mass, and v is the velocity vector) applies to certain cases, but doesn’t hold up in other cases where you need relativistic momentum (the true formula for momentum), the beginner’s man…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:33 AM
1

It all depends on the relationship, the man, and the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:10 AM
2

Someone who wants to find a hidden beach where the sun shines a perfect circle of light in the water. Someone who wants to snorkel and observe the beauty of marine life. Someone who jumps into the crystal clear waters of a lake with their clothes on because he didn't think to bring a bathing suit. Someone who ditches their plans on a hike, when they see something captivating - the trip ends up better than expected. Someone who will boat out to a peaceful island and explore the terrain. Someone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:24 PM
1

My claim is not worthless. I can easily back up my claim. I just don't want to. ​ I don't agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:16 PM
1

Girl Guides
/r/MensRights28/01/22 11:35 AM
1

I’m not quite sure what you’re asking, but I like stoic, self-controlled, serious, but passionate people. I’ve never dated anyone, but I’m only just barely an adult so ya… My advice is probably worthless. I’m a very sentimental person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:12 AM
3

“There's no point in being grown-up if you can't be childish sometimes.” - The Doctor Adventurers are fun Edit: Creative and adventure-type engineers/physicists are fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:05 AM
1

Cheating is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:26 AM
-1

Women aren’t more shallow then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:14 AM
1

“You haven’t provided any argument as to why that’s the case.” Yes, I haven’t provided an argument. “Like I said, waiting is misleading,” No, it’s not. “you’re show interest in the person by being willing to meet up with them several times.” Yes. “If you’re not comfortable having sex with someone after 3-4 dates, it’s best to not waste their time” Hanging out with someone isn’t a waste of time. “and just tell them you’re not interested.” A person can wait and still be in a relationship with some…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:17 AM
2

But you’re correct that I shouldn’t be on Reddit. I made an account a few weeks ago (Christmas break). I should just delete the app. ‘Twas an interesting few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:18 AM
1

Lol, it’s not due tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:15 AM
1

I’m preparing for my lab tomorrow. I want to write a “mock” lab report (objective, intro, derivations, formulas, uncertainty formulas) before I actually perform the lab. I’d rather write about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:03 AM
1

It is perfectly acceptable to wait. It is completely unacceptable for a man or woman to pretend to want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:49 AM
1

Too much effort for something I don’t like writing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:39 AM
1

I don’t know how I should elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:36 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:31 AM
1

No, I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:29 AM
1

No, I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:13 AM
1

I don’t know of any gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:07 AM
1

There aren’t “gender roles”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:05 AM
1

What do you mean by demonic. In terms of “Beauty and the Beast” are we talking about a Beast or a Gaston?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:34 PM
1

You speaketh the truth
/r/MensRights26/01/22 09:29 PM
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No, not Ontario. West.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:28 PM
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Cool. I like learning about WWII history because both of my grandpas served. I also liked learning about WWI history because of relatives who served. I also have family artifacts like a 100 year old newspaper and war money. My cousin has my paternal grandpa’s war medals. Other than that, I don’t have much interest in the military. In regards to history, right now I like watching “The Curse of Oak Island”. I also like watching documentaries on Egypt and such. My favourite kind of history is scien…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:21 PM
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I can only speak for where I live. Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:14 PM
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I think egalitarianism between genders exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:12 PM
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Here are my thoughts: I don’t live in a patriarchy and “toxic masculinity” does not exist. By the most part, I agreed with everything else you said. I honestly don’t know what hypergamy is so I’m not going to comment on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:04 PM
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Now I’m curious. What did you get your Ph.D. in?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:56 PM
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A lone wolf who, without trying, attracts people from all sorts of groups like a social butterfly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:09 AM
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What’s a manbrained nerd?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:57 AM
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Ha, F_net=ma , nice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:55 AM
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I also live in Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:59 AM
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Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:20 AM
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Well, in the grand scheme of things, I don’t think that I live in a patriarchy. Never have, never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:34 PM
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If you raise the age of adulthood/consent to 21, the following could happen: The drinking age could get raised to 21. They won’t let you get a tax free savings account until you are 21 (even though you are working!!!) Other financial age limitations may apply until 21, too! Scary… They might raise the age for getting a driver’s licence. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:32 PM
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Yes, it is semantics. I get caught up in the details. I’m detail oriented and a bit of a perfectionist. I don’t think semantics are stupid like you implied in your previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:26 PM
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My grandpa had to drop out of school in grade 6 to work on the family farm (Depression era). My grandma grew up in a different generation. She completed grade 13, which existed at the time. She worked as a bookkeeper at her family’s plumbing business. Her parents died when she was a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:23 PM
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No. It’s not stupid. It’s logic. I’m a logical person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:18 PM
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I’m from Canada. I don’t understand the whole female/male nonsense. It never has applied to me and my family. I don’t get why people should “love” what I just commented. It’s just normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:16 PM
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That doesn’t prove your point. You said “women”. The only thing I have to do to disprove your argument is to list one woman who is in one of the careers you just listed. (A classic counter example (mathematical logic) to disprove a statement regarding all women.) My sister’s friend (female) is an electrical engineer. In fact, my sister has another friend who is an engineer (I can’t remember which area of engineering). My sister was a geologist and worked in the oil and gas industry before it tan…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:12 PM
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My grandma (she would be almost 100 years old or so if she was still alive) was more educated than my grandpa. She was smarter than my grandpa too. She worked. She also kept the finances in order!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:04 PM
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You said “women don’t want that responsibility.” Here, I’ve corrected your statement: Men and women want that responsibility. Men and women don’t want that responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:59 PM
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What patriarchy? I certainly don’t live in a patriarchal society. My country offers technology, infrastructure, trade, commerce, and more, but isn’t patriarchal. My country isn’t matriarchal either. What the heck?!?! Competition, ambition, and emotional resilience are not masculine or feminine traits. They are human traits that we should all strive to have. “Feminine” and “masculine” personality traits and matters of the mind are BS. That way of thinking is FUBAR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:55 PM
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I’ve corrected the second last sentence in your paragraph for you: “Men [and women] crave admiration and respect, [men and] women crave love and adoration.“ There. Fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:53 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:15 AM
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You just don’t want you. You’d rather swim and hike and explore and draw and paint and garden and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:13 AM
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Many just want a free outing. That’s all. Free outings are nice. I give my sister a present (a free item) because it’s nice to get free things, especially if thought was put into the gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:33 PM
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“1. Had an average extroverted social life” I think an average social life is alright. I’m not really focused on social life, lol. “2. Had a good education” Well, a phenomenal education would be better than a good education, I guess. “3. Lives the blue pill fantasy of getting a degree, getting a job and getting engaged ASAP, and don't care about self establishment “ A degree and a job (especially a job) are practical; however, there are a variety of ways to support oneself in life. It all depend…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:22 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:08 PM
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Women and men are more alike than they are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:07 PM
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I will say that I am a young, thin, university educated woman with a pretty face (yay for genetics and exercise - of the body and the mind). I avoid dating. The last time a guy fell in love with me, I became all distant with the person (totally unlike my normal personality). I kind of feel bad about how I handled the situation. We’re still good friends despite that blip of awkwardness. A total of two guys have fallen in love with me so far (yes, I’m young). I’m too much of a lone wolf (who is ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:18 PM
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“Men are MORE likely to use one set and women are MORE likely to use the other, this isn't up for debate and is well known in the psychological field.” I’m not entirely sold on psychology (biology is where it’s at). I like physics. “the use of the word "you" is the royal you.” That makes much more sense. Thanks for clarifying. “Just because you (actual you) are not like this doesn't mean that women or men as a whole on average don't act a certain way, women share a lot of traits and men share a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:16 PM
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“Girls and boys use different tactics to bully others.” Every individual uses different bullying tactics. “If you think men and women are the same then I'm afraid you are wrong.” Men have XY chromosomes and women have XX chromosomes. “It has long been known that each gender uses different tactics when it comes to getting their own way.” Every individual uses different tactics to get their own way. “Men are learning to use psychology due to not being allowed to use violence anymore” Yep. Same wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:31 PM
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“Yes they are, they are used in conjunction with "siding" with someone and is part of the female manipulation tactics of getting males on her side against any competition.” The same can be said for men. “Fighting is punishable in our society so men can't use it like they used to” Yep, this goes for women and men. “while the women's tactics” They’re not “women’s tactics” like physical fighting is not a “men’s tactic”. They’re human tactics. “are still fair game,” They’re terrible tactics. People …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:03 PM
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“Or you're not very observant.” I’m very observant. I always have been. “it can subdue it but it doesn't alter your natural instincts.” I don’t think bitchiness and passive aggressiveness count as natural instincts. “Yes, women are far more likely to be like that while boys are far more likely to be aggressive and physical.” You said that you’d rather work with men than women. If men are “far more likely to be aggressive and physical”, wouldn’t you be afraid that working with men would result in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:43 PM
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I have views that oppose a lot of people’s views here. Perhaps I could change someone’s mind. I also answered this question in a different post so I’ll copy and paste the answer I gave there, as well as some poetry: Entertainment. Duh. ——————————————————————- One pill, two pills, red pill, blue pill. ——————————————————————— Pills are red But also blue I hate this forum And so do you ——————————————————————— There was an old lady who swallowed a pill That seemed to change colour at every will Firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:28 PM
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“It's not an assumption, its an observable thing even from kids.” My observations have been different than yours. “Irrelevant where we are from humans are humans.” Where we are from has an effect on our beliefs, behaviours, values, etc.. Location is not irrelevant. By the phrase “humans are humans”, do you mean that you think “bitchiness and passive aggressiveness is just part of the female human condition”? I’m not sure what you mean by “humans are humans”. Obviously, humans are humans. We’re n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:16 PM
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“It means if I wanted a person to be ostracized a woman would be better at it.” I know what you meant, but I don’t think your assumption is valid. “Because you appear to be blind to how men and women work.” Well, I don’t mess around with the matters of the mind. I’m going to guess that I live in a different country than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:29 PM
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What’s your definition of love? I don’t see how one could define love, but I’m open to here about your experiences. Have you ever loved someone? Has someone ever loved you? Do you want to love or be loved? Do you like love? Do you hate love? Are you neutral about love? Do you fear love? Do you welcome love? Do you think that love even exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:59 AM
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Well, love is beyond words in my opinion. If there was a mathematical formula for love I’d give it to you. I’m not a fan of writing non-scientific/mathematical essays. I could write creative stories demonstrating love; however, I’d rather compose stories from my dreams of underwater cities and whatnot. I can say this. I think that there are “kindred spirits” in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:48 AM
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My family told me that marriage was about love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:36 AM
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My family, friends, community, etc.. taught me what love is through their words and actions. I hate romance movies. Gag me with a spoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:34 AM
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“Yes there are outliers, but in general this is how men and women differ.” There are definitely strange and unusual people. However, my experiences tell me that a roughly equal assortment of men and women are passive aggressive and bitchy. “If I wanted to character assassinate someone I would choose a women to do it.” I think that’s a rather strange thing to say. I don’t get it. “If I needed to work with someone to get something done I would choose a man.” Well, that seems illogical. “If I neede…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:32 AM
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What the heck? Marriage is about love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:16 AM
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Some men and women are like that. Some men and women are not like that. I’ve seen glimpses of it from both genders. However, I’m kind of a lone wolf. Anyway, the most bitchy, passive aggressive, mean spirited people I’ve met were husband and wife. They deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:11 AM
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I don’t like this generalization at all. However, I’m distrustful of statistics to do with thinking/personality/thought processes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:07 AM
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“Well compared to average men average women seem like poorly functional human beings, I mean...” What a dumb thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:02 AM
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“The highly paid specialists in any given field are and always will be men.” I don’t agree, especially when you said “always will be”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:58 AM
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Women can “fathom making more money than a man and having a relationship.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:55 AM
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In my head, I think that if you find find your lifelong partner, you marry him/her. Simple. Try to marry the person on Valentine’s Day if possible, unless you’re travelling/planning something truly extravagant. You don’t have to marry the person. I’ve just always grown up with the concept of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:40 AM
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Here are things I wouldn’t mind doing: -handling finances -taking care of the vegetable garden/fruit trees (the guy could take care of the flowers) -checking the mail -keeping track of birthdays, Christmas cards, etc. -shovelling the driveway -house maintenance, repairs, etc.. -maintaining boat/fishing gear -building things we need (garden beds, etc.) -weeding the gardens (I am afraid to mow the lawn!) -dusting (and maintaining old wooden furniture) -planning fun trips -vacuuming -blackberry cru…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:20 AM
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I’ve never watched those kinds of films and I never will. I wouldn’t like it if I dated a guy who watches those kinds of films.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:01 AM
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Well, I’m a virgin. I’m also weird about certain stuff (think of Sheldon Cooper from “Big Bang Theory” in terms of relationships, but less exaggerated).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:57 PM
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I’ve got a kind of respect for male virgins. Honestly, if I were to date a guy, I’d prefer for him to be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:56 AM
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Nice to meet you too. Now you’ve got me thinking of the movie “The Last Unicorn”, lol. The whole premise of the movie is that the unicorn is trying to find others of her kind. Anyway, back to the topic at hand. Just keep looking, I guess. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:26 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:45 PM
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To be fair, I don’t go to the gym (I swim at the pool/beach, hike, and perform warmups/stretches at home) and I’ve never been to a bar (Covid messed that up). Also, I’m a student so I’m busy as heck. Honestly, I make good company, but I don’t mind being alone. I’d guess that there exists an assortment of women like me in those respects.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:37 PM
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To what degree of submissiveness? Submissive in what ways? Is submissiveness good or bad or neutral or weird (recall, that I said “better” in the previous comment). So, “what if a man influenced a woman to be more submissive”? Hmmm… Is increased submissiveness better than a lack of submissiveness? Or is a lack of submissiveness better than increased submissiveness? Or is it best to have a moderate level of submissiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:41 AM
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Np. Ya, I definitely thought the video was interesting, especially the ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:44 AM
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What can I say? I’ve used up all my logic in my real analysis homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:54 AM
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Then I guess I think that “potential” can mean something totally different from the two options you gave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:38 AM
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I wasn’t sure, because you misinterpreted what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:32 AM
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That’s not true of my thought process. If a man influences me in a positive way, then that’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:30 AM
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I said “influence each other for the BETTER”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:29 AM
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Your last paragraph is exactly what I was thinking! When I initially looked at this post I thought more along the lines of lightening up a grumpy person or reining in a dreamer who needs more focus, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:17 PM
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But shouldn’t partners influence each other for the better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:13 PM
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I guess it could be interpreted in that way. I always thought of the phrase differently. More often I hear that a guy is a “work and process”. Maybe he’s grumpy around strangers and needs to learn to lighten up a bit (I knew someone who was like that). Maybe he’s a dreamer that’s not smart with money (he needs to have more focus and learn to be frugal). The list goes on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:11 PM
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I’m not debating. I could write my life story and give valid points, but today I just want to share my opinion in a sentence (give or take). I think your definition of gender is sexist. If you’re interested in my perspective, we could chat via Zoom videoconferencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:04 PM
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Clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:58 PM
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K, then I think gender is sexist and doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:58 PM
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“Then you'd be going against quite a bit of psychology.” Yep. “Got a good reason for that that isn't just rooted in not wanting to accept trans folk?” I accept trans folk. I have a trans friend. I don’t believe that “gender identity” exists because it seems sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:56 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:54 PM
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I think that some people respect others’ desire to have a “gender identity” while believing that “gender identity” does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:47 PM
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What is your definition of sex and what is your definition of gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:45 PM
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If there’s a difference between sex and gender, gender does not exist in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:43 PM
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Bigots are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:42 PM
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I think the World Health Organization’s and your definition of gender is sexist. I grew up with a different definition of gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:40 PM
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I think it’s all luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:34 AM
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I think it’s interesting that you mentioned “the spectrum”. I always wonder what is and isn’t considered as “neurotypical” nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:14 AM
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You know someone “knows their worth” through their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:09 AM
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That reminds me of this video (Beauty Tax) I watched: https://youtu.be/f6qzWXDS1Wg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:37 PM
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He didn’t want custody of the kids.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 08:06 AM
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Entertainment. Duh. One pill, two pills, red pill, blue pill. ——————————————————————— Pills are red But also blue I hate this forum And so do you ——————————————————————— There was an old lady who swallowed a pill That seemed to change colour at every will First red, then blue, then something new Then purple, then black as a matter of fact But what did it matter by the end of the day When the pill was no more, what was there to say
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:38 AM
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Well, in the scenarios directly related to my family: The guy was destroying himself so the woman divorced him. She took care of the kid and herself all on her own. No payments. No house involved. The guy didn’t want custody of the kid. The woman remarried. The woman and her second husband raised the kid together. The old husband dies at a fairly young age. The new husband and woman are happily married for years and years (until the husband’s death). The new husband also had kids from a previous…
/r/MensRights12/01/22 07:09 AM
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I guess the family members I know who got divorced dealt with those kinds of issues outside of court. Too much of a hassle.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 05:31 AM
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I’m not religious, but I think marriage is generally a good thing for men and women.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 04:49 AM
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I guess that if you’re going to marry someone, you better make sure you marry the right person.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 04:38 AM
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What’s a sigma?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:57 AM
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If I were to form a relationship, it would be with my best friend who is a guy. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:55 AM
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Insecurities can be alright. It depends on the insecurity and it’s severity I guess? I’ve never ever had an insecurity. However, I did know I guy who was shy in an oddly endearing way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:51 AM
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I think men and women are sympathetic and compassionate. Simple as that. I don’t know why people would try to gender sympathy or compassion. There are probably several reasons that I won’t like.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 12:48 AM
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Why hook up with guys at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:40 AM
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I don’t think I live in a patriarchal society. Yes, income splitting is nice - brings you into a lower tax bracket.
/r/MensRights11/01/22 07:25 PM
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I’m not getting dizzy because I was only trying to ensure that our conversation was laid out with precision. I don’t like vagueness. It’s so easy for people to misunderstand each other when they use vague language.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 09:33 PM
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Slapping is a type of hitting. Slapping is not logically equivalent to hitting. I’m guessing that we both agree with those statements. After all, the definition of slap is not hit. The definition of slap is a “hit … with the palm of the hand or a flat object”. You viewed the word “is” as meaning “is a type of” and I viewed the word “is” as meaning “is logically equivalent to”. I think we’re just misunderstanding each other.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 09:11 PM
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Generally, I think healthy, athletically fit, tall guys with short hair, no piercings, and not too many tattoos look good. It’s too difficult for me to describe an aesthetically pleasing face and figure (too many variables; too many surprises). Here is a list (in no particular order) of some guys who I think look aesthetically pleasing: Akira Takarada as Ichiro Sakai in the movie Godzilla Vs. Mothra (1964). He’s the middle person in this picture: https://greatoldmovies.blogspot.com/2014/11/mothr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:03 PM
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Well said except for the following snippet: “This process reaches far beyond the scope of women.”
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 08:04 AM
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If people want to name family members in the way that you described, then they should go for it. Good for them.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 04:44 AM
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I just don’t know what you mean by a man’s nature and a woman’s nature. It’s very vague. Depending on what you mean, I could agree with you or disagree with you. Thanks for your wishes of luck, I guess.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 04:30 AM
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Okay. I asked him just for laughs. He said: “What?”
/r/MensRights08/01/22 04:18 AM
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I’m asking you.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 04:04 AM
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Like I said to someone else, a person can’t get away with being a vigilante like they could in the past.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:52 AM
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A person can’t get away with being a vigilante like they could in the past.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:33 AM
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I think it’s true. I wouldn’t risk it.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:32 AM
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Man, I sure got lucky that the definition you gave supports my case. I didn’t look up a formal definition for this conversation, because I thought I had a good sense of the word already.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:09 AM
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That’s good that you see where I’m going.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:04 AM
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Where was what?
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:03 AM
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Yes I am. I assume “is” is referring to logical equivalence.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:51 AM
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Nope
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:51 AM
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A person can’t slap just anyone with impunity. You sound like Cathy Newman.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:42 AM
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I did get a concussion when I was in grade 2. I learned about mathematical logic in university.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:41 AM
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Nope.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:39 AM
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Logical equivalence would require transitivity.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:27 AM
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Well, what do you mean by “are”? Do you mean “type of”, “form of”, etc.. or do you mean “logically equivalent”?
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:26 AM
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Would you agree that slapping is a type of hitting and punching is a type of hitting, but slapping is not equivalent to punching?
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:13 AM
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Yep. Exactly. Except slapping is not hitting. Slapping is a type of hitting.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:08 AM
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Terrible stuff.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:07 AM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-humber-59497533.amp Anna Krolikowska https://amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/29/penelope-jackson-guilty-stabbing-husband-death Penelope Jackson https://www.cheshire.police.uk/news/cheshire/news/articles/2021/6/woman-found-guilty-of-murdering-husband-in-neston/?__cf_chl_captcha_tk__=FvDF4jhUbXu2ximdArhOtSPzpTEypIGQVmaqGWsuykI-1641603059-0-gaNycGzNB5E Corinna Smith https://www.khon2.com/local-news/woman-sentenced-to-20-years-in-prison-for-killing-husband-on…
/r/MensRights08/01/22 12:48 AM
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“So if a woman punches a man so hard that his bone break she is fine?” No. That’s not fine. That’s unacceptable (unless she is acting in self defence). “By swore i mean hit him sorry...” Okay, that makes a lot more sense. I took what you had originally said for face value. “Even if a guy swores at a girl and gets slapped evrryone says he was an asshole.” Slapping is different than hitting. Previously, I had thought that you used “hit” to refer to a punch. Slapping usually doesn’t injure someone.…
/r/MensRights08/01/22 12:45 AM
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That’s sad. Domestic violence is terrible. My uncle was in an abusive relationship. Police are supposed to help male victims in cases of domestic violence.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 12:19 AM
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A woman who gets jailed for killing her husband.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 12:10 AM
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What does DV stand for?
/r/MensRights08/01/22 12:08 AM
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“Oh so a guys is an asshole if he hits a girl.” Well, you didn’t tell me how hard the guy hit the girl, why the guy hit the girl, etc.. I just assumed you meant that a guy punched a girl because she swore at him (since you said the girl cussed at him). “The fuck is wrong with you?” I have asthma and I have to wear glasses/contacts. “It is okay for a woman to hit a man?” No. “And when women cross line no one says anything.” People should say something. “Either support a man or be a feminist.” I s…
/r/MensRights08/01/22 12:07 AM
-5

Well, I live in the real world. I’m not a famous movie star and I don’t live in the US.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 11:52 PM
1

I know. It’s fucked up.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 11:45 PM
0

You’re damn right I would.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 11:41 PM
-6

“THIS.i know i agree with self defense but even if a woman does self defense people support her if she break a guys bones.” Of course people should support those who had to protect themselves through self-defence. If bones were broken, so be it. “Breaking bones should only be self defense if someone is killing you.” Self defence should be used when “someone is killing you” OR when someone is attempting to physically harm (burn you, break your bones, cut you, etc.) you OR when someone is trying t…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 11:39 PM
-18

It doesn’t work like that in the real world nowadays. If a woman hits a man (not out of self-defence, but maybe because the guy groped her or something) and the man becomes injured, the woman’s life is derailed. It’s not worth it. Edit: When I said hit, I was referring to a punch. After all, a punch can hurt a person. I was not referring to a measly slap.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:58 PM
4

What’s masculine about swearing?
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:47 PM
2

Well said.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:41 PM
1

There’s no draft where I live. Thank goodness!
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:36 PM
2

👍
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:35 PM
2

What the heck? You really lost me here.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:34 PM
0

Marriage is useful: medical emergencies, finances, death, etc. Surnames are useful: tracing family lineage
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:31 PM
5

“No person should have to change their name unless they want to. “ Yes, I agree. “It's an outdated expectation.” I don’t think it’s outdated. I don’t see anything wrong with expectation alone. Personally, if I were to marry a man one day, I’d keep my last name the same. People would expect me to change my last name. So what? I don’t care.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:23 PM
3

Quebec has weird laws. The rest of Canada isn’t like that.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:15 PM
0

Well, I don’t see anything wrong with expectation alone.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:12 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:57 PM
3

You both were totally misrepresenting what the other was saying. Both of you didn’t express your points well either. You both were derailing the conversation by diverting from the topic at hand.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:52 PM
5

Cussing can be a fun trait in men and women. A toddler girl saying “come here you assholes” to her older brothers (true story) is hilarious.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:50 PM
2

I copy and pasted this from a comment I made earlier: “People talk about being frustrated with the expectation of surnames. I don’t see any reason to be frustrated about that expectation. This type of expectation goes hand in hand with tradition. On Easter, I expect that kids will hunt for chocolates. When a kid loses a tooth, I expect he/she will receive money in the morning. When I gulp down a spoonful of cough syrup, I expect that it will taste awful. It’s only tradition.”
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:45 PM
3

I completely agree. I can only think of administrative issues with name changing in my country (present day).
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:41 PM
3

I don’t think that a woman choosing not to take on her husband’s last name can be equated to the woman “[throwing] away [her] own [marriage]”. I agree with everything else you said.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:38 PM
2

Well, what is a man’s nature and what is a woman’s nature?
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:21 PM
1

I don’t think that’s true. My sister is currently the breadwinner for her family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:29 PM
0

“TBh the tradition of wifes taking their husbands name always sounded insane to me.” Sure, “the tradition of wives taking theirs husbands’ [last] names … [sounds] insane to” you. I don’t see how the tradition is insane, but if that’s your opinion, so be it. “I would never do this, so I dont except my wife to do it.” Okay. “This is extremely strange, how can you not see it?” Women obviously aren’t “owned” by their father or their husband in my country presently (also well in the past such as my g…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 07:12 PM
0

“It’s not even their own name, it’s there fathers, or their mothers fathers, women don’t have a last name because that defeats the purpose of the surname…” Women do have their own last name. Usually, it’s their maiden name (their father’s last name) or their husband’s last name. “…the surname isn’t some oppressive part of a patriarchy, it’s there to show paternal lineage (observe my first comment) and for everyone to know who’s child that is, easy enough to track a child’s maternal lineage, but …
/r/MensRights07/01/22 06:19 PM
2

I’m only going to speak for my country in the present. Surnames are tradition. Surnames identify a person’s paternal lineage. I’ve never met anyone against surnames, let alone “violently against surnames”. People talk about being frustrated with the expectation of surnames. I don’t see any reason to be frustrated about that expectation. This type of expectation goes hand in hand with tradition. On Easter, I expect that kids will hunt for chocolates. When a kid loses a tooth, I expect he/she will…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:01 AM
5

I don’t agree that a patriarchy exists in my COUNTRY NOWADAYS so I see surnames as tradition.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:33 AM
0

Weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:40 AM
1

Just approach. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:32 AM
1

I would want to be good friends with a guy before I start dating. Some men don’t understand that. If a guy doesn’t explicitly say an outing is a date, I think we are just hanging out as friends. I’ve had two guys (who are friends) fall in love with me. Each time, I freaked out and said something stupid like “oh” and then started acting all distant (completely out of my character). I felt really bad for being so distant. I was polite, but still… I should have said something. I’m too stubborn and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:22 AM
3

What the heck?!?! I’ve never seen that type of leggings before. They look ugly and weird. I don’t go to the gym though. I go swimming at the pool and perform stretches at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:40 PM
5

Baby changing stations are commonplace in women’s public restrooms (malls, major stores, recreational centres, etc.) and change rooms (swimming pools) in Canada.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:17 AM
3

Find some like-minded people to hang out with. Hopefully, she’s just going through a phase. I guess you’ll just have to be careful about what you say around her.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 05:52 AM
3

Honestly, I just wish I was a Time Lord with a TARDIS. Who cares about dating when I could just travel through space and time and go on cool adventures with cool people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:18 AM
2

I respect engineers. They work in the real world. Practical. It all depends on the individual though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:44 AM
1

No individuals are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:18 PM
8

Well, I’m almost 20 and I’m a non-religious virgin. I’m going to guess that a lot of women in university for math and science (probably depends on the field of science) are virgins. I don’t think 20 is too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:18 PM
2

That reminds me of the book “Unwind” which I read in grade 9.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 08:02 PM
1

Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:16 AM
2

Yep. And the less you say, the better. Be clear and concise.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 07:35 AM
2

I don’t think that rejecting that is telling a guy he’s unwanted through action.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:40 AM
2

Well, I guess that’s unfortunate for some men? I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:08 AM
3

Having the ultimate duo/partnership. Having the ultimate kind of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:55 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:24 AM
3

I’m a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:23 AM
2

What do you mean by “just because it sounds bad”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:18 AM
4

I’m just weird. I don’t get how it would be a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:17 AM
6

I agree that how a person rejects that is crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:15 AM
3

Well, I guess I value things differently than you. I don’t think it means you don’t desire to be with the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:10 AM
2

At least I live in Canada, so I’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:57 AM
3

I don’t think the rejection of that is to be unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:48 AM
2

True. (In my opinion.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:47 AM
12

Make dated notes (including time of day) of all interactions. Include threats, key bits of conversation, witnesses, locations, etc. Screenshot/save all of your messages. Make note of the work completed by each person. If the situation arises, the guy would be well off if he got one of the girls to admit to a wrongdoing via recording or online messaging (not completing their fair share of work or making threats). This would have to be done tactfully and could go wrong real quick. Proceed with cau…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 12:25 AM
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