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| – | Redpill Men are Usually Right, Still LosingWhich, goes for a lot of ya’ll. For who? Not me! I don’t expect princess treatment from a man. Also, every time a woman says something that disagrees with the red pill logic, y’all call women “liars”. So to you it doesn’t matter what I say or what she says because if we disagree with you, we’re “liars”. Women are not a monolith, yknow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:59 AM |
| – | Redpill Men are Usually Right, Still LosingSo what exactly is “princess treatment” for you and what are you willing to do for a man that gives you “princess treatment”?? Yknow, are you willing to stay at home and cook, clean , etc?? I’m asking because a red piller said you are not willing to cuz women nowadays wanna “have the cake and eat it too”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:51 AM |
| – | Redpill Men are Usually Right, Still LosingIn that case, let’s ask her (the girl who made the comment about princess treatment) what is she willing to do for that man once she’s given princess treatment and what exactly is “princess treatment” for her. I’ll ask her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:49 AM |
| – | Redpill Men are Usually Right, Still Losing😂 why are you posting this poor girl?? Is she your ex? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:36 AM |
| – | Redpill Men are Usually Right, Still LosingI don’t think she’s a 🚩. It seems she’s Hispanic, so she’s probably more traditional. I come from a Hispanic background too and traditional Hispanic men take a lot of pride in taking care of the finances and paying for “everything”. Of course they also expect to be treated as “the man of the house”, but I guess most women don’t mind that as long as they’re given “princess treatment”. Disclaimer: not every Hispanic man/woman is like this. This is just a generalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:30 AM |
| – | Redpill Men are Usually Right, Still LosingSometimes, after sex she would cry, talking about how she'd never been treated so well and how lucky she was while cuddling. The sex must have been pretty good 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Also, I don't understand why the more homicidal sex would also not be the most successful suicidal sex?Men are more apt to be violent and use violence in life to deal with problems. Right. Of course men are more likely to commit suicide than women. Men choose more violent methods to kill themselves than women, like a self inflicted gunshot to the head for example. Women are more likely to have “suicide attempts” because they choose less violent methods like drugs or carbon monoxide poisoning. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:06 AM |
| 0 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Then they’re not progressive. Don’t know what else to tell you. In very progressive countries like Germany, the Netherlands or Denmark, men are not expected to pay in a first date, but women are also not submissive. Every country has their own dating expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?It goes both ways. Also, if a woman wants the man to pay for everything, she’s traditional, not progressive. Progressive women are okay with 50/50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:10 PM |
| -2 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?It seems there’s a discrepancy or a lag between what is expected of a man vs a woman. Splitting 50/50 is seen as a red flag. Sending only 20 dollars to a girl for food is seen as broke man behavior. Not paying for her nails and hair is seen as you don’t care for her. Not opening door and being “chivalrous” is seen as not being a “real” man. By the way, in these scenarios they’re not even married. Now I don’t mind doing any of these things for a girl I like. Because every woman knows that when a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 05:46 PM |
| – | The way TRP describes female submission makes 0 senseHmm you kind of missed your mark with that one Mm no. I’m just using your own logic against you, and guess what? It sounds dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 04:56 PM |
| 8 | The way TRP describes female submission makes 0 senseWho needs a man for protection when you could get a gun? At least I don’t need to be submissive to get a gun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 03:49 PM |
| – | The way TRP describes female submission makes 0 senseI don't need a study to tell me what my eyes can see, but that's because I'm a man. Women are not capable of determining things for themselves and need authority to tell them basically everything. A common place in our modern society they seek authority from are studies, or published "expert" opinions. A “logical man” who doesn’t believe in studies or experts, which basically means he doesn’t believe in science. Interesting. From now on, I will only believe what my eyes can see: The sun rotates … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.I would rather be single and celibate for reasons that have nothing to do with “wanting the perfect man”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Welp, guess I’ll die young then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:29 AM |
| 3 | To what extent are age gaps in relationships due to the preferences of women vs men?Depends on how old. Six years older than me? Sure, I’ll date him. Fifteen years older than me? Nope thanks. The same age gap applies for younger men. Six years younger? Yes. Fifteen years younger? No. What the hell are we even supposed to talk about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.I’m sorry that your sister or women speak to you like that. Just know that those comments made to belittle you as a man are ABUSE. Those women were abusive and they were anyway not worth your time, energy or money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Why would a rich educated person marry an uneducated and unemployed person?? This goes for both sexes. I have never seen a rich educated man marry an uneducated low class woman. Yes, the rich guy may want to fuck her from time to time, maybe even a casual relationship, but marry her is a no-no. Educated rich men know more than that. The same applies for every rich cougar I know; they have sex with younger men but never want to marry them. I’m not saying there are no exceptions, but the possibili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.I don’t see anywhere in your “facts” where does it say that sex is an essential need. It only talks about the benefits of sex in the same way exercising has benefits for our bodies, but sex nor exercising are essential needs. Most old people I know have never exercised in their lives and they are alive and healthy; they mostly eat healthy. I have done research on this topic in the past. It’s all opinions. You won’t find an article from a reputable source that states that sex is an essential need… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.It is abusive towards men. You tell men that they need to make x amount of money, or else they are not worthy of being loved, and then people with that same train of thought complain about a male loneliness crisis and call women “gold diggers”. I know many guys who work at McDonald’s, Walmart and Starbucks who have girlfriends. A man needs to learn to provide more than money to a relationship or he will only attract gold diggers and then complain about women in general because he can only attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.We are not talking about plants, we are talking about human beings. To answer your question about depression: anyone can experience depression /anhedonia/passive suicidal ideation at some point in their life. There’s an array of mental illnesses out there. Mental health exists for more than just depression. I opened my statement saying that “The concept of whether sex is considered an essential need can vary based on individual perspectives and cultural beliefs”. So we can agree to disagree beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:29 PM |
| -2 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Well, Im sorry you see relationships like that. Based on your train of thought, all men should move to Afghanistan where the Taliban doesn’t allow women to work, so women can’t make their own money and men can have control over women. Your train of thought sounds abusive to me for both sexes. There are many other things men can provide to a relationship besides money, just as there are many things a woman can provide besides just sex. Men are not banks and women are not sex objects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.The concept of whether sex is considered an essential need can vary based on individual perspectives and cultural beliefs. Some argue that it is a basic human need, while others may view it differently. The understanding often depends on cultural, social, and personal values. In my opinion, sex is obviously not an essential need if asexual people exist. Food is an essential need, if you don’t eat you die; there are no exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:56 AM |
| 7 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Are you saying that the only reason why women dated and eventually married men in the past was because they depended on men financially, but now that women are making their own money, women don’t need men? So men have to simp for sex? Do you believe women only date for money and men only date for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:47 AM |
| -1 | Is it wrong for an inexperienced older man to prefer younger women due to them also being inexperienced?This same question was literally asked 4 days ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/7qg2IewKmm Young women this. Young women that. Men like to complain about women only using them for their money but then they also wanna try to date women 10+ years younger. Keyword: try. If you don’t have the money (and/or didn’t win the genetic lottery), don’t even try it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 09:25 AM |
| 1 | When women consume media for men, do they wish to be like the MALE main character too?Ragnar is entj??? How you know?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: Why is the % of men/women who have ever had a biological child so low and delayed? Is this a reflection of the changing dating market and sexual behaviour of people in USA?The decision to delay having kids can be influenced by various factors such as career pursuits, financial stability, changing societal norms, and increased focus on personal goals. Societal and economic trends contribute to these shifts. Career pursuits often lead individuals to delay starting a family as they prioritize establishing themselves professionally. Financial stability is another crucial factor; couples may choose to wait until they feel more secure economically. Changing societal nor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 11:14 AM |
| 1 | What’s the social fertility window?Sir, who you think you’re fooling with that “no pill man” flair?? That’s red pill talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | What’s the social fertility window?35 to 40 for women and 40 to 45 for men I know men can still have kids well after their 40s, but I bet most men want their kids to see them like a father and not like a grandpa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Where do these things fall in priority to you?Late 20s F My top 5: Looks. 2. How they make me feel. 3. Positive Personality. 4. Homemaking skills. 5. Education or Career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 11:45 PM |
| – | Marrying and having kids young, risking divorce later vs. waiting till the good men are gone. Which is worse?“No clue what red pill says about age” Really? You’re on PPD and you don’t know. Sure. Well spoiler alert: they think exactly how you think. A let me tell you that your comment only shows resentment towards women because you couldn’t date the women you wanted in your early 20s because they chose a “bad guy” over you (“the nice guy”), and you’re bitter about it. So to cope with it you created a revenge fantasy in which you “only date younger women” in order to “punish” the rest of women who didn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 11:19 AM |
| – | Marrying and having kids young, risking divorce later vs. waiting till the good men are gone. Which is worse?In any case, max verstappen is not the only example of a male celebrity dating a woman over 30. Google is free. Just look up for examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 11:00 AM |
| – | Marrying and having kids young, risking divorce later vs. waiting till the good men are gone. Which is worse?lol yeah sure. If your hypothesis was correct, men in positions of power (like celebrities) would NEVER date any woman over 30 because these men have many options. They are the top 1%. That’s why celebrities are the best example. If even male celebrities date women over 30 when they could be acting like DiCaprio, your hypothesis is invalid. Ben Afflect and Jlo. Nick Jonas and Priyanka. Aaron Taylor Johnson and Sam Taylor. President Macron and his wife. Evan Spiegel and Miranda Kerr. The list goe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Marrying and having kids young, risking divorce later vs. waiting till the good men are gone. Which is worse?No. I was referring to the red pill dudes. They like calling women “leftovers”, but these men never get married and only want to have casual sex with 20 y/o women, or at least that’s what they all aspire to, but can’t do. It’s all a fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Why do women generally view sugar daddies less creepily than older men dating and marrying younger womenWait! So you think that a younger woman that marries an older man is not also trying to “get the bag”??? God, I pity the fool 😂 Edit: if the older man doesn’t make her sign a prenup, she’s definitely getting THE BAG 💰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Marrying and having kids young, risking divorce later vs. waiting till the good men are gone. Which is worse?No. Once they married them, I don’t think they count as “leftovers” after a divorce. “Leftovers” is a derogatory term used to describe women that are still single after 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Marrying and having kids young, risking divorce later vs. waiting till the good men are gone. Which is worse?Idk man, last time I checked Max Verstappen (F1 driver) left his 20 year old something girlfriend to date a 35 y/o single mother. And I know many other men around me that have done the same. So you might want to change that “NO ONE wants woman 30+”. You sound bitter and the revenge fantasy is showing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 02:08 AM |
| 4 | Marrying and having kids young, risking divorce later vs. waiting till the good men are gone. Which is worse?Right! They complain about “leftovers”, but they are the ones creating the “leftovers”. If they’re gonna date young women, at least they need to be honest about their intentions. And even if they marry these young women later on, what are these red pill dudes gonna do once their young bouncy wives “hit the wall” and are no longer young, nor bouncy??? Divorce them?? Their mentality is psychopathic and delusional. We all know they live in a revenge fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 01:56 AM |
| 13 | Marrying and having kids young, risking divorce later vs. waiting till the good men are gone. Which is worse?Hmmm 🤔 based on what you wrote here I think you should change your flair to “red pill”. Who do you think you’re fooling with that “no pill” flair? Please 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 08:31 PM |
| 0 | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsThe craziest thing is that these 20 y/o women getting Botox and fillers because they’re “terrified to look old” are making themselves look 10 years older with all that plastic on their face. They end up looking 35 in their 20s. If your face looks done, you look old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4men: how old are you, and what is the oldest age of woman you are willing to marry?how old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 07:22 PM |
| 4 | Red pill gets a lot of things wrong but the biggest lie is that younger women are sexually attracted to older menI agree with you 100%. Questions about age gap, and about how older women are jealous of younger women should be banned at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 06:17 PM |
| 3 | One of the biggest red flags for guys to look for in women is if they are against paternity testing. By being against it they out themselves as selfish at best or cheaters and manipulators at worse.I think every man has the right to ask for a paternity test, but you also need to understand that asking for one shows distrust in your partner, so you can’t blame, nor control, your partner’s negative reaction. I think everybody knows or believes that a man asking for a paternity test implies that he believes the woman cheated on him, or at least, that’s the general consensus. If you can’t trust your wife/gf on fidelity, then it’s time to break up before you get her pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Cake and eat it too?I had to google what a GO bag is after reading this post. What’s wrong with a GO bag? If your girlfriend has the need of having a GO bag, doesn’t that mean you’re abusive, or she was abused before ?? I’m confused because the post implies that a GO bag is something bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 12:19 PM |
| 9 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?Right. Women don’t see a problem with a 30 y/o woman dating a 40 y/o man because we know they’re both at the same stages in life. But a 20 y/o with a 30 y/o man is a complete different story. Both relationships have a 10 year gap, but we know that a 30 y/o has more in common with a 40 y/o, than a 20 y/o has with a 30 y/o. It’s not about age gaps, it’s about life stages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:31 AM |
| 4 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?To be fair, I don’t see 40 year old dudes marrying 20 year old women either. It’s extremely rare. I do know about a few 40 y/old RICH and FAMOUS men that like to bang 20 y/o women. But do they ever marry them? Nope, it’s very unlikely. Men at that level only like fuckin 20 y/olds, they rarely settle down with one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Why is the term “partner” EVERYWHERE“Partner” is the politically correct term nowadays because is genderless. Most LGBT couples I know use the word “partner” especially in professional settings or when talking to strangers. Why are heterosexual couples using the word “partner” now, and specifically, why are they correcting others for not using it?? The answer is that I really don’t know but I guess it has something to do with political correctness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:30 PM |
| 0 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Those 2 last paragraphs were gold ✨ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:17 PM |
| 0 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Girl, good for you! Is he younger than you?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:11 PM |
| – | If men are supposedly violent, rapist sociopaths by nature, women are manipulative and deceptive by natureOh no, look what I found: A meta-analysis on honesty (Gerlach et al., 2019), based on 380 experiments that recorded gender differences in lying, indicated that men were 4% more deceptive than women. Source Previous research has established sex differences in emotional manipulation; specifically, men are more likely than women to engage in emotional manipulation. Source Idk man, if you wanna claim something as true, at least verify the data on the internet Edit: I think you’re confused. No woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 12:58 AM |
| – | If men are supposedly violent, rapist sociopaths by nature, women are manipulative and deceptive by nature👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 12:38 AM |
| 2 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?Okay. Bye! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:42 PM |
| 3 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?I’m not gonna talk about suicide because suicide is an act of violence committed by yourself to yourself so it doesn’t count. Let’s look at the facts: Men are more likely to rape, regardless of the gender of the victim. Men are more likely to commit murder, regardless of the gender of the victim. Men are more likely to commit acid attacks, regardless of the gender of the victim. Men are more likely to commit violent crimes, regardless of the gender of the victim. Men are more likely to be school… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 02:27 PM |
| 5 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?If you know women are more at risk of being injured, murdered or raped due to domestic violence, then what are you trying to prove here? Doesn’t that prove my point? What you’re telling me is: domestic violence happens equally between genders, which I disagree, but then you add that still… women are more likely to be INJURED, RAPED or MURDERED due to domestic violence than men. That’s what I understood. If that’s what you meant, then my question is: Are men who experience domestic violence as li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:50 PM |
| 3 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?I don’t think that’s true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:16 PM |
| 2 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?Lol everybody knows domestic violence is applied to partner on partner violence. You’re definitely reaching here. Why don’t you wanna talk about rape? Or school shooters? Or acid attacks? Or violent crimes? Or serial killers? Why not? Does that destroy the narrative you are reaching to promote (your rp agenda)? You only wanna talk about something that wasn’t even mentioned. Nice try. Do better next time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 12:21 PM |
| 3 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?Stick to the original comment. Did I say “child abuse”? No. Okay, then stick to the original comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:59 AM |
| 3 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?“It goes against the narrative” Lol okay. For your kind (RP) everything is a “conspiracy theory”, everything is a mAtRiX aTtaCk. Delululand. Let me remind you that in my original comment I said “domestic abuse” and not “child abuse”, so don’t try to trip me. I said what I said. Stick to the original comment. Edit: the guy I’m arguing with in these comments had a “red pill man” flair, which he changed to “no pill” a few minutes later after my comment :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:45 AM |
| 3 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?Exactly. Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:33 AM |
| 6 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?Yes! This is exactly what I’m talking about. Thanks for the info. It boils my blood just to think that there are men out there with so much hate towards women that they would commit such a heinous crime against an innocent woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:29 AM |
| 4 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?I meant “domestic violence” as violence against a partner, not child abuse. And still, everytime I see a case of child abuse on tv, 90% of the time a man is the offender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:25 AM |
| 4 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?I don’t think is about mentality, but about facts. Just google any statistic about violent crimes. Facts are facts, whether is about gender, race or nationality. It’s a fact that women are more likely to be killed by a man, than by a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:18 AM |
| 5 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?I’ll get downvoted to hell, but at least femcel rage makes more sense than incel rhetoric. It’s not all men, but for some reason it’s always men: most serial killers are men and most of the victims are women, most acid attacks are committed by men to random women; most violent crimes are done by men; most rapes are committed by men to women; most pedos are men; most schools shooter are men; most domestic abusers are men; and the list goes on. And I’m using the word “most” in order to not say “al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them.What are you arguing about?? If you agree that being a victim has no gender and victim blaming is wrong, then why is it so hard to admit that saying “you need to pick better partners” to a victim, regardless of gender, is wrong? Either you admit it’s wrong or you just… hate women for not picking you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?OP, you need to do this same question but for women. It seems most man would delete themselves if they can’t get a partner, but what about women?? Would they want to delete themselves too or are they okay with singleness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that autistic women have much more attractive traits than autistic men?I explained above why is it that I don’t like those “compliments”. That being said, I give random men compliments a lot. The other day I was at a fast food restaurant and the cashier was not very handsome, but ohmygod, he had beautiful hands. I have no filter, so I said to him out of nowhere “you have beautiful hands”, grabbed my food and left lol I’m weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:25 PM |
| – | Men also care about heightWell… I hope not cuz I really like him lol I’ll find out eventually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:09 AM |
| – | Men also care about heightIdk. maybe because I feel like calling a woman “tall” is not the same as calling a man “short”. I don’t wanna make him feel bad about himself. He’s generally nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 08:35 PM |
| – | Men also care about heightHmm this is a very interesting point of view. I’m 5’5 and I like a guy that is 5’7, he seems to like me too, but sometimes he says that I’m “tall”. In my head I’m like “I’m not tall, sir. You’re just short”, but of course I would never tell him that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Why is it that autistic women have much more attractive traits than autistic men?Let me tell you how I know the difference: because men literally tell me “oh, I love autistic women” or “I bet your body count is lower” or something between those lines. Very predatory. Basically, they think they are giving me a compliment, when in reality they’re exposing themselves. And no, if there was a cure I wouldn’t take it. No no no no. I would hate to love clubbing or casual sex or whatever is considered “cool” now lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that autistic women have much more attractive traits than autistic men?Nope, I don’t have a boyfriend. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:17 PM |
| 11 | Why is it that autistic women have much more attractive traits than autistic men?As an autistic woman myself (mild autism/asperger) the only reason why men like autistic women is because we don’t need as much socialization as the average woman, which comes with traits that men find attractive. Most autistic women don’t enjoy parties, clubbing, loud music, crowded places, etc. We also don’t have many friends, so not much competition for a man looking to date us. Autistic women are usually late bloomers and tend to abstain from hook ups/casual sex, some are even asexual, so I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:03 PM |
| 2 | People here are too quick to dismiss men's lived experience when they tell you many average men peak later in life.Lol so many languages out there and you chose to speak facts. I’ve also noticed this same question has been posted multiple times during the same week. Like, don’t they get tired of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:14 PM |
| 5 | People here are too quick to dismiss men's lived experience when they tell you many average men peak later in life.I had to google that cuz I couldn’t believe it, but it seems she’s right: “Women: 30s and early 40s This time of life may be when your sex drive is strongest. One study showed that women between 27 and 45 had more frequent and more intense sexual fantasies than younger or older women. They also had more sex and were more likely to have it sooner in a relationship.” Source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:56 AM |
| – | Why is redpill mostly full of men?Why does it sound like you’re talking about a certain demographic ? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:08 AM |
| – | Why is redpill mostly full of men?A bunch of pick-me girls who somehow can’t get a single man to marry them. The president of the pick me girls club, Miss Pearly Things, is single, overweight and looks 40 when she’s only 27. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 11:59 PM |
| 2 | If you were to move in with a guy that makes significantly more than you, would you be okay with splitting household expenses roughly 50/50?If he does make more money than me I personally believe he should spend more money than me. The amount of money you and your partner spend on household expenses should correlate to the amount of money each of you make. So no, I wouldn’t be okay with 50/50 if he makes more money than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?I personally don’t measure high standards based on the examples you provided. I measured it like this: women on average would rather be single than date a man who doesn’t meet their standards, and theses standards are usually: a tall man who makes more money than her, who is also attractive, a provider, a protector. That’s what women are looking for in a man, and if he can’t be that way then women would rather stay single than lower their standards to date that man. That’s what I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?I believe the standards are very high, and this is coming from a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:08 PM |
| – | Most of the gender war stuff is just men angry women wont have sex with them and then women being angry at ugly men wanting to have sex with them.Spot on!! Attractive successful men don’t know what “red pill” even is cuz they’re too busy being successful and dating women. You don’t need to understand red pill dynamics when you have women willing to sleep with you in abundance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:56 PM |
| 4 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenWell, most 18 y/o who date older men do it for the money/financial stability anyways. You think an 18 y/o is gonna date a 30 year old brokie?? Naah! Its more likely for an 18 y/o to date a 20 y/o brokie than a 30 y/o brokie. So at the end of the day, they’re both taking advantage of each other. What’s the problem with that? And I’m a woman btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | As a woman why should I get married?I know manny divorced women that are happier now single than they were when they were married. So miss me with that bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | As a woman why should I get married?Yeah yeah, the only facts I see are a bunch of lonely and sad men that want to convince women that being in a relationship with them is better than being single, and … it’s not working. If anything, women prefer singleness and antidepressants over men below their standards. That’s the sad reality for men nowadays, since they’re the one who don’t wanna be single. Edit: have in mind that women are always single by choice. Women always, at any age, have more options than men around their same age, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 03:58 PM |
| 2 | As a woman why should I get married?Don’t you get tired of trying to convince women that they have to get marry in order to be happy? Happy or unhappy, women don’t care. I don’t see women trying to convince men that men should marry and have kids. Women are not afraid of being single. And you, as a man, are projecting your fears on women. Deal with it! Women would rather take antidepressants and choke on them than being in a relationship with a man that doesn’t meet their standards. Period. Men, on the other hand, are afraid of be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 03:06 PM |
| 2 | As a woman why should I get married?Women are happier without children or a spouse, says happiness expert Why So Many Single Women Without Children Are Happy Unmarried Women With No Kids Are Happier Than Anyone Else, According to Study Why having kids doesn't necessarily make you happier, according to research Having children does not automatically result in a happier life There’s always gonna be some article, some study in the internet that backs up whatever your/my claim is. If you search “does coffee cause blindness?”, there’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | As a woman why should I get married?Right! I used to work in a facility where most of the patients were women, and noticed a lot of women are doing TRT due to the effects of menopause. Some of the symptoms of menopause are low energy, depression, anger, anxiety and irritability, regardless of the marital status or number of kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:08 PM |
| -1 | As a woman why should I get married?That’s not true according to the CDC here’s the link here’s more information In any case, if women over 40 are more depressed than women in their 20, it has nothing to do with being single or childless. It’s because of hormones. Women in their 40s (regardless of their marital status or number of kids) go through menopause, which lowers women’s testosterone and estrogen levels. This abrupt change in hormones causes depression. It has NOTHING TO DO with being single or childless. Married women wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:25 AM |
| 17 | As a woman why should I get married?“Why does everyone on this sub have some cartoonishly broad and pessimistic view of the opposite gender? “ Well, this sub is called Purple Pill Debate for a reason. Every sub that ends with “pill” seems to have a very cartoonish pessimistic view of the oposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:57 AM |
| 1 | As a woman why should I get married?I’m going through this exact same “problem”. Soo I’m here to read the comments and let you know that you’re not alone or wrong for thinking like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?I have an aunt who told me that if the man she’s dating doesn’t pay for EVERYTHING, she doesn’t want him cuz he’s “not man enough for her”. She would rather go out on dates with her friends than go on another date with that guy. She’s very picky The crazy part is… she’s overweight and in her 40s!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:37 AM |
| 6 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?Women’s standards are higher now than ever before because women are making their own money now, are financially independent from their partners, and more importantly, would rather stay single (and choke on antidepressants) than being in a relationship with a man that’s broke or unattractive. Whereas men would rather date a promiscuous/unattractive woman than being single. This is all, of course, based on what I read here and my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 03:15 AM |
| 18 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Right! Why would I date a man that outright says he likes dating younger women like myself because “biologically speaking” men are attracted to young women and that’s completely normal [or insert any other bullshit excuse here]? You mean to tell me he’s no longer gonna be attracted to me once I hit 30? He’s gonna ditch me just like DiCaprio does to all his girlfriends once they reach 25. Miss me with that bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:10 PM |
| 3 | It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying itI’ve been single most of my life and I just wanted to add that I don’t feel lonely, but I do feel bored sometimes cuz I don’t have anyone to talk to about my hobbies or a movie/tv serie I just watched. But then I remember that being in a relationship requires for me to share my personal space, and then I no longer feel bored hahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:45 PM |
| – | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?Yes.. because the average man goes to the gym everyday, never eats junk food, doesn’t drink alcohol, doesn’t work like a slave in a job he hates, has a stress free life… and the list goes on. If anything, im being empathetic with the male population, you on the other hand, sound red pilled af. Also, according to what I read from your posts in your profile, you call everybody a “lefty feminist muppet” and seem to complain a lot about women, confirming my assumptions that you are a red pill dude. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 05:16 PM |
| – | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?Here’s some science for you too: https://www.healthcentral.com/slideshow/what-happens-to-testosterone-as-you-age https://www.hss.edu/article_muscle-mass-testosterone.asp https://www.webmd.com/men/features/low-testosterone-explained-how-do-you-know-when-levels-are-too-low Again, you sound like a red pill dude. Just accept plain biology. Testosterone declines 1-3% after 30, and that percentage increases as you age. That’s why most athletes retire around 30, among other factors. What’s wrong with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:55 PM |
| – | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?And you sound like a red pill dude. Every research I’ve read from trustworthy websites back me up. But yeah man, whatever, if you wanna believe that men’s testosterone levels increase as they age, believe whatever you want. The sky is pink. 2+2= 5. Enjoy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:39 PM |
| – | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?I have to believe everything you’re saying because I don’t know you irl. But if everything you’re saying is true, CONGRATULATIONS, you’re the exception to the rule. You worked hard to achieve that and it worked, so good for you. However, the average man doesn’t look 10 years younger and doesn’t have your determination to improve themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 01:54 PM |
| – | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?Lol your reality is not my reality. Women might have it harder these days than 2 decades ago simply because since they no longer depend on men financially and they’re making their own money their standards are getting higher for men, and as women age they still don’t wanna lower their standards. And some of these standards for men are a little ridiculous when you don’t look like a model, but it is what it is. Like seriously, women would rather stay “forever alone” than settle for a man that’s br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 01:42 PM |
| – | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?Hmm what I said about the testosterone levels is not an opinion, it’s a fact. You can google it. Whether you have more testosterone now than before, you can’t know that for sure since I’m pretty sure you weren’t worried about your testosterone levels in your 20s as you are now in your 40s, and hence, you probably never checked it up. If you do have more testosterone now in your 40s, it’s because you’re probably doing TRT (testosterone replacement therapy), which in that case, congratulations. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?And my answer was that if it wasn’t easy in your 20s, is not gonna be easier in your 30s. Simple as that. Edit: also, I don’t think women are more desperate. I know more women that would prefer staying single than men that would prefer to stay single (unless this man has a lot of money and good looks, which in that case he doesn’t count as the average man). I usually see men settling down for fat girls, hoes and just under attractive women because that’s the best they could get, whereas women pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:32 PM |
| 14 | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?If you didn’t know how to get women when you were younger, better looking and with more virility, what makes you think you’re magically gonna get better after your 30s when you look fatter and barely have any experience with women??? What’s different now, that you have money? Well, in that case you are only gonna attract gold diggers. By experience, if a man wasn’t good at getting women in his 20s, the probability of getting women in his 30s are slimmer, unless he has money. That’s just how it w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Yea it's true that wealthy men tend to marry wealthy women but this has nothing to do with attractionMatt Damon did WHAT?! I didn’t know that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Yea it's true that wealthy men tend to marry wealthy women but this has nothing to do with attractionI says this all the time!!! If the couple in the movie have money, the genre of the movie is romance. But if the couple is poor, it’s called drama or a tragedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 05:09 AM |
| 2 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?Girl, SAME!!!! Plus a man that wants to know my body count sounds like a huge red flag 🚩. I wouldn’t wanna date him, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:13 PM |
| 5 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?I never said that women as a whole were liars. There are women that are liars, the same way there are men that are liars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 02:45 AM |
| 4 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?That’s what liars do. They lie to win you trust and manipulate you or get something from you. If a woman is a liar, you won’t know until you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:29 AM |
| 10 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?So, how are you gonna know if she’s lying? I woman could lie about being a virgin and use you for money/attention/whatever. You’ll never know until it’s too late. Also, what makes you believe that a virgin would like to disclose such a personal information to a man she’s just starting to know so he can lie about his true intentions and take advantage of her? Many virgins keep that information until the last minute. My point is that there’s no way to know who is a virgin or who has a low body cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:17 AM |
| 1 | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…Ask him. Let us know 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:37 PM |
| 9 | It is hard for wealthy and successful men to find good women for love and marriageI agree with everything you said. I think red pill dudes don’t understand that old money doesn’t behave like new money. Completely different worlds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 09:18 PM |
| 6 | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…I never said she was “groomed”. I said they were/are in different stages of life. He’s 34 now and wants to stay home and live a more “traditional lifestyle”, while Sophie is still in her 20s and doesn’t want to give up the “party lifestyle”, or whatever. That’s the problem with marrying young: joe changed, he is no longer interested in going out and he was expecting the same from her, while she stayed the same. If he gives her a few more years, maybe she’ll settle down too, but I don’t think tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 09:07 PM |
| 3 | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…I understand your point. Of course there’s women out there that still wanna party in their 30s. The difference is that on a 20 y/o that behavior is understandable, while on a 30 y/o it can me considered immaturity. I’m not saying 30 y/o women can’t have fun, but there’s different ways to have fun in your 30s, specially when you’re married and with kids at home. Idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:51 PM |
| 2 | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…I’m in my 20s and I never liked partying, don’t think I’ll ever like it. But it has always seemed to me I’m the exception to the rule and most people my age prefer to have fun and go out with their friends on the weekends. And there’s nothing wrong with that. Also, that story about the woman who was out partying while her husband was at home taking care of their kids sounds INSANE to me! If I were a man, I would NEVER tolerate such behavior, the same way I wouldn’t tolerate that in a man myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:38 PM |
| 11 | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…That’s what happens when a man in his 30s marries a girl in her early 20s: they’re in completely different stages of life. He’s done with the party lifestyle of his 20s and he’s now in his early 30s and wants to stay home and chill; but then he married a 20 y old girl who’s still very young and rightfully so wants to have fun and go out party because SHE’S YOUNG! What did he expect?? My point is not that the age difference is the problem, because a woman in her early 30s and a man in his early 4… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:56 PM |
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