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| 1 | How did you cure or treat your attachment style?Eventually I became so crippled by not only carrying my own issues, but hers as well. My hyper-vigilence became fuel to anticipate her every move and possible accusation, so that when the fall inevitably happened, I was not there (eventually learning to just eventually mentally check out around them, which later became Complex PTSD, severe dissociative disorder, and DPDR). Later, through my recovery, I started to clearly see that became my root of many of the problems I was facing. She had so ha… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | How did you cure or treat your attachment style?The most impactful start for me personally was to really study, inquire, assess, and utilize the dichotomy/locus of control and separate myself from my religious indoctrination that taught me I had no agency and everything I did was God's will, not mine. I was merely His brainless vessel and it showed. Now obviously this isn't true, but when it's taught like that, you believe it until you get new information that counters it in a way that makes it irrefutable/inarguable. The specialist started b… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | How did you cure or treat your attachment style?Disclaimer: Reddit is making me parse this out, so I'll break it up into chunks. I'm going to long form this because this is an issue that deeply affected my life and I want to attempt to provide as much info as possible to see if it helps you through as well. Sorry in advance. I have spent years in recovery for my own issues and have learned some helpful tips that I try to freely pass on to others who are deeply struggling like I was. Obviously therapy with a professional is the healthiest go t… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | I've spoken to 30+ other exes of Red Pillers who suffered significant mental health issues during their relationship that they did NOT have prior to that relationship. Anyone else? What's your story?Jesus, thank you for the backup!!! :) | /r/ExRedPill | 31/08/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theoryWhat in the world? Why is this being downvoted? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 04:29 PM |
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