49DivineDayVacation Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The Secret to Boundaries Meh, it hurts because the wound is fresh. The realization that I took my own good position and flipped it into her favor is what eats at me. BUT it also pointed me in the direction of some deeper rooted insecurities that I've been ignoring or thought I had worked through in my early 20's.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 08:05 PM
2	Field report, success story, follow up on Boundaries That's the thing though. It is just a game. It's a test she put out there on purpose to see if I would fail. I passed, then went back and changed my answer to fail. Which is why it's such a good example. You see both sides in action. But yes, she has her fair share of red flags and I'm probably better off without her in my life. Doesn't make it a bad learning experience.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 04:34 PM
1	Field report, success story, follow up on Boundaries I posted this in this commenter's second submission "The Secret to Boundries" It's a personal example that may help you to understand how men should (and unfortunately shouldn't) draw boundaries. Man this post hit me hard. Pretty much just went through this with a girl I had been seeing for a couple of months. She would get around her friends and put on airs, basically trying to prove to them that I was wrapped around her finger. After a particularly rocky Friday night, I shut her out ignoring m…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 04:15 PM
5	The Secret to Boundaries Man this post hit me hard. Pretty much just went through this with a girl I had been seeing for a couple of months. She would get around her friends and put on airs, basically trying to prove to them that I was wrapped around her finger. After a particularly rocky Friday night, I shut her out ignoring multiple texts and I went out with my buddies Saturday blowing off plans we had made for that night. This was GOOD, she recognized a line was crossed and I reacted swiftly with punishment. Now come…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/16 07:36 PM
4	The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon Wow, not my style, but this serves as a good reminder that there are millions of ways to be an alpha.	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/16 03:05 PM
2	Why They Haven't Banned Us I knew someone would come along and point this finger. Gotta be the coolest virtual guy in the room. I gave one additional perspective. ONE. I chose to relate it to the point of this sub, "sexual strategy", since that is a perspective most people here can relate to. Do I need to provide 20-30-40 examples of ways to compare watching TV vs. playing video games to make my point?	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/16 08:25 PM
5	Why They Haven't Banned Us Wow. You need to chill man. It seems you've taken some of this personally. I understand this is an issue you feel strongly about, but your need to be right in this case is shielding your mind from critical thought. Take solace in the fact that neither of us are right or wrong.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/16 06:03 PM
6	Why They Haven't Banned Us Honestly none of us care how much you game or what you want to call it, but now you're thinking backwards to find and overstate the good in it. That's rationalization my friend. Instead of gaming let's use a "hobby" I love. Smoking pot. It too has a great social aspect, taught me about myself and gave me new perspectives on life, but most of all I really enjoy it. That means it must be a good thing for me right?	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/16 05:05 PM
4	Why They Haven't Banned Us Yes, but that is only one of many perspectives you can take in comparing those two passtimes. If you want to take the perspective of talking to/meeting women I'd argue that most attractive women would rather hear about an interesting movie you saw than your last 3:1 kill to death ratio.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/16 04:49 PM
37	Why They Haven't Banned Us I would shy away from calling TRP anti-video game. Even though time spent gaming could be spent doing just about anything else related to your mission, it's a good way to blow off some steam. TRP does however want more men to realize that gaming is NOT a hobby and it sure as shit isn't a lifestyle.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/16 02:36 PM
5	Girls often say: "If I were to choose, I'd choose being a guy any day." I want to quickly combine two thoughts in this post: "It's so much easier being a guy. You don't get judged as much." Women only notice men in the top 20 percent One aspect of being judged is that someone else has to be care enough what you are doing to elicit a positive or negative opinion. Most betas never make it past the prescreening process that opens them up to further judgement, scrutiny and tests.	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/16 06:15 PM
3	BP Example: "So suck it up and date the hot single mom." He's right on about looking for situations in the sexual market where girls become undervalued, but dead wrong about finding that value in single mothers. Instead try to find features you enjoy that are traditionally thought of as flaws and exploit that. Ex. I like horse faces and large noses. Unsurprisingly, I've been able to clean up with women that have those facial features. Before the popularity of big butts that was extremely fertile ground...	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/16 04:16 PM
1	The Sexual Strategy of a Feminist I like the fact that you've tried to bridge the gap between TRP and Feminist ideology by looking mainly at Feminism as a sexual strategy. However, I can't help but think that connection is tenuous. Feminism is a social ideology. While it does hope to influence many aspects of human interaction it was never designed as a sexual strategy the way TRP was. As such, squaring in on Feminism's massive failures in the sexual marketplace is no different than a SJW yelling about how capitalism fails to cr…	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/16 04:24 PM
2	there's a lot of hate for fat women, but let's have an honest conversation about fat men... I'm not one to rage against feminism, likely because they will destroy themselves without our help. However, the blatant irony of this feminist position has always puzzled me. By trying to shield these people from societal pressures they are intrinsically saying that these people are different from the normal population and need additional support. In reality it's the same condescending "support" given to people with physical or mental handicaps. When I hear a girl say to a fat girl "It's your b…	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/16 03:25 PM