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All those guys keep harkening back to a time that doesn’t exist and won’t at any point in the future. It’s either look for a girl with a low body count or go overseas. That’s all they ever advocate
/r/seduction05/04/24 04:17 PM
10

Damn wrong mind right body…you deserve better than that lol
/r/seduction05/04/24 02:10 PM
10

An asshole looking to be an asshole for the sake of being edgy.
/r/seduction05/04/24 02:06 PM
1

You have to at least try
/r/seduction03/04/24 04:15 PM
1

You dodged a bullet and this shit happens all the time. Just wait till you find one that rejects you out of spite and then finds you later.
/r/seduction03/04/24 03:58 PM
5

Rizz is just fucking with people and being yourself and not giving a fuck.
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:56 PM
2

They have to be REALLY interested. It’s happened but it’s rare.
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:44 PM
2

Stop texting her and if you initiate again, just do so to set a date. Hopefully in the meantime she’ll reach out with a fun or playful text.
/r/seduction01/04/24 04:58 PM
1

Most of it is in your control. Make your body >>>> your money. Then buy a few nice shirts. You’ll be amazed at the impact being in good shape has. I was always very tall but I didn’t get women looking at me the way I did when I got in shape. They want guys in shape before they want guys with money. You can’t override biology Also you have to get over shaming language. It’s all they got.
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:32 PM
1

It’s not a small mistake. That’s what I only recently realized. All these mistakes are each likely a deviation from the image she created of you in her head. So you no longer become what she might have thought you were.
/r/seduction01/04/24 12:09 AM
2

Hindsight is 20/20. I’ve made this mistake and probably will again at some point. Don’t beat yourself up. Leave her alone and she’ll probably come around or try to make her presence known.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:36 PM
27

There’s no asking how to progress. You had sex. You did your job. It’s on her now to push it forward.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:33 PM
5

I made the same mistake in not realizing that even if the girl literally jumped you and wrapped her legs around you and you were making out…if she went home and you met up the next day, everything still resets
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:30 PM
21

Gen z is extremely superficial. Just think about this and act accordingly
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:25 PM
5

You should’ve acted like you didn’t want it. She probably got s1ut vibes or something like second thoughts, and the fact that you pushed for it made it worse.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:23 PM
1

She was playing along with your joke and the story. She’s saying the announcement was embellished that the top was out of stock.
/r/seduction31/03/24 05:12 PM
5

Ah that makes sense then. Listen man…you gotta do things for yourself and pull women towards you through your success. Definitely talk to them in the meantime but focus on building yourself in every way. That’s what men do. Build your career. Build your body. Make yourself the best you can. You’ll find that as you do these things you’ll draw women to you and won’t have to try as hard. Physical fitness is something you carry with you wherever you go. You’ll wear a hoodie and people can still tell…
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:47 PM
2

If you don’t love yourself, why should anyone else?
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:41 PM
1

Would you like if they weren’t? Do you think they would like you better in shape or not? Why wouldn’t you put your best foot forward? Moreover why even do it for someone else? You should dress well for you. You should take care of your body for you.
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:38 PM
5

Is this an AI troll post?
/r/seduction25/03/24 01:33 AM
4

The only thing I want to change is “you’re not allowed to blame any part of your looks you can’t change”. Everyone can hit the gym and get a better body at least. They can’t change their height or facial features as much. But this is long term. Short term absolutely focus on behavior.
/r/seduction24/03/24 01:42 PM
17

Stop going to bars and clubs and talk to women irl. Im mid 6’ and even I get rejected at clubs all the time. Some girls actually get off on it.
/r/seduction24/03/24 01:40 PM
5

This feeling is called limerence
/r/seduction22/03/24 06:23 PM
28

If he’s smart he’s gonna dodge you like the plague. We’re in me2 territory now.
/r/seduction21/03/24 06:02 PM
2

They usually know as soon as I look in their eyes and get closer. Once I part her hair or put my hand on the back of their head, they know. She’d lean away if she didn’t want it at this point. I’ve also tried going in for a hug, and as I’m coming out of the hug I just look them in the eyes and since we’re so close I just move in. If she leans in at all during any of this, you’re good. If she leans away…well there’s your answer.
/r/seduction21/03/24 12:49 PM
2

It helps to realize you’re losing nothing by talking to them. Separate yourself from the outcome. Outcome independence.
/r/seduction20/03/24 05:22 PM
3

I’d rather have guys be cringy than not approach at all.
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:52 PM
8

I usually compliment them on their last exercise if it’s a barbell movement. Or I’ll ask them if they tried various different forms on a particular exercise. If you have something genuine to say, it goes over a lot better.
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:16 PM
7

Bro they don’t even smile except real subtle when they turn their face slightly. And even that’s rare. The constant lingering looks and stares are all we get most of the time.
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:15 PM
1

You knew from the stares across the gym but I asked the girl out that did that and she said no and stared at me even harder. Now we don’t talk. I don’t have time for that shit
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:13 PM
2

I would also recommend hitting the gym additional to therapy. Therapy is good for teaching you to self analyze. Gym is good for keeping that going.
/r/seduction20/03/24 03:40 PM
3

It’s really not what it used to be too.
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:48 AM
21

No you don’t text her. You wait for her to text you. Your job is done.
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:30 AM
1

I get that too. A lot of times they won’t look but if you approach them they get really excited and talkative. However I’ve gotten good results waiting for a glance. It’s usually as subtle as a side eye when passing. If you’re standing around do they find a reason to put themselves in your presence?
/r/seduction18/03/24 02:01 PM
1

You hear this because it makes women appear shallow (despite it being biological) and our society doesn’t tolerate anything that makes women appear anything other than sweet and innocent (much like children honestly). In reality have you heard women swoon over objectively good looking men like Jason Momoa?
/r/seduction18/03/24 11:58 AM
1

There is no “good enough”. It’s just that the number of women throwing you signs increases as your body fat decreases but ymmv. I dunno how it is in your area but for me it’s really subtle. Usually staring, frequent eye contact, etc… They almost never approach but when they do it’s usually throwing a compliment about my height or my vehicle or something…it took me awhile to realize that was them shooting their shot. I’m very tall but recently got really jacked and lowered my body fat so this is …
/r/seduction18/03/24 11:14 AM
7

If she makes eye contact, hold it and smile or at least wave. It’s easier said than done but this is your first step. If she doesn’t make even very fleeting eye contact, next. Don’t waste your time. Even the most shy girls will throw glances at you if interested. While you do this, hit the fucking gym. You don’t need to be jacked but you need to look decent in a t shirt. Attractiveness goes in the order height > low body fat >> muscle >> money. You carry muscle and a good body wherever you go. M…
/r/seduction17/03/24 02:13 AM
1

Loves doing what? Asking multiple times?
/r/seduction16/03/24 09:03 PM
1

You should be finding other girls regardless but she’s not interested.
/r/seduction16/03/24 01:52 PM
0

Society implicitly pushes this idea that men asking for sex is “rapey” or manipulation otherwise. He should understand that he’s not taking anything away from a woman by fucking her when approaching her or pushing for sex. It’s mutual and consensual for a reason. She should want it as bad or more. It might take her longer to build up to it but it’s there.
/r/seduction15/03/24 04:27 AM
1

One rejection is enough. I know that wasn’t central to your point but I wanted to address it. Once is empowering. You [should] know where you stand…assuming the woman isn’t saying no to make you try harder or a myriad other reasons where no means “maybe later” or just stringing you along for validation. But those types of women are just trouble. It’s a bad way to start things off. If you ask a second time it’s self flagellation with no reward. It’s also disrespectful to yourself to do that.
/r/seduction15/03/24 04:21 AM
0

It’s either fuck yes, or just no. If a woman wants you, you’ll know it…even if she’s playing hard to get. There’s just a sneaking suspicion and she’ll still check you out in one form or another- whether just looking at you from a distance or being in your proximity. If she’s saying she wants to take it slow, after several dates it’s a no dude. She’s dropped so many hints already. By this point you’d have been fucking already. She didn’t even want to kiss you. Drop her, and pursue other women. If…
/r/seduction15/03/24 04:12 AM
2

For me, for a long time it was picking up on indicators, specifically eye contact. I had never even realized that side eye-Ing was a major indicator that I should’ve used to talk to them. It’s also not just your level of value…a lot of women have low self esteem these days and they might think you’re too good looking for them. But eye contact is still reliable imo. Depending on their perceived value relative to yours, they might hold eye contact or dart their eyes away immediately. Both are good…
/r/seduction13/03/24 05:58 PM
1

This is seriously an underrated comment. They chase you after you make something of yourself.
/r/seduction13/03/24 05:56 PM
1

Johnny Sins has entered the chat
/r/seduction13/03/24 05:54 PM
2

So she didn’t originally have mental problems…but then she started dropping acid and ketamine around when she started servicing the dolphin. So she has mental problems
/r/seduction31/01/24 04:04 PM
2

Not really. My ego is perfectly healthy. I’m more than aware of my limitations. My confidence is shot a bit.
/r/seduction31/01/24 05:15 AM
0

Yeah and if she didn’t have mental problems she’d be marriage material, right? We can play this game all day
/r/seduction31/01/24 04:53 AM
2

I don’t care about her. All signs were pointing to her just waiting for me to ask her out. That’s what fucks with my head. That I was wrong.
/r/seduction31/01/24 04:50 AM
11

Yeah so does a whale…what’s your point?
/r/seduction31/01/24 03:14 AM
8

The key is to just not be married to the outcome of the approach. But my issue is when I’m sure she’s interested and then I’m wrong. I don’t even care about being rejected…it fucks with your ego that you were wrong when all signs pointed to clear attraction.
/r/seduction31/01/24 03:04 AM
19

That’s a 10/10 baddie huh? How about with the mental problems she clearly has?
/r/seduction31/01/24 02:43 AM
2

Yes. Being outcome independent helped me more than anything else
/r/seduction30/01/24 10:08 PM
7

I remember the carnie thing. This is a great writeup but I think you should expand more on the anxiety part. Most guys (including me) struggle with it, even though we shouldn’t. Even having confidence and being secure (tall, built, great job) I still struggle with it.
/r/seduction30/01/24 06:35 PM
8

She still needs plausible deniability. Slut shaming is women’s version of creep shaming.
/r/seduction30/01/24 05:44 PM
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This is excellent. You’re validating her instead of the other way around, and you have a gameplan that doesn’t have to do with sex. But you’re trying too hard here. Infusion collection? Seriously? Girls don’t like nerds dude. And that comes off nerdy. There’s a reason why Netflix and chill was / is a thing.
/r/seduction30/01/24 05:41 PM
1

If she keeps looking over at you, it’s usually an invitation. If she’s not interested she probably won’t look at you despite knowing you’re there
/r/seduction30/01/24 04:33 PM
1

You had an opportunity to transition the conversation when you asked the question. Start looking at questions as pretenses.
/r/seduction30/01/24 02:21 AM
5

It’s context dependent. I don’t approach unless I get some clear signals. If she smiles and makes eye contact excessively with me that she doesn’t with others then yeah. Otherwise she’s just being polite and doing her job. It’s not like a regular approach. You have to read the room per se. But if you get green lights you can talk to her and eventually ask her what time she gets off.
/r/seduction28/01/24 04:07 AM
80

Welcome to life
/r/seduction28/01/24 03:36 AM
1

Ok you gotta be able to transition. I didn’t mention that. But yeah I’ve had those. I was able to salvage it sometimes but mostly no. Women often know what you’re doing so if you wait for her to check you out and you know she is, the “I like your jacket” becomes a formality. She has to be attracted to you for this to work.
/r/seduction27/01/24 03:54 PM
17

Just like women have plausible deniability, you can too. Formulate a question to ask them. It’s innocent and starts a conversation. Find something she’s doing, holding, or wearing. Give her a compliment or ask a genuine question. What you say doesn’t matter. Your confidence does.
/r/seduction27/01/24 03:20 PM
9

I mean it’s all cringe lol. It’s the confidence that matters
/r/seduction26/01/24 04:44 PM
20

“I want to see how much bigger my hand is than yours” If she lifts weights, “let’s compare calluses” These are opportunities to hold her hand, which leads to stroking. “I really like your shoulders”, proceed to touch her shoulders and then stroke. At that point you’re close enough to make a move. If she’s really into you, she’ll help you close the gap. Confidence is key and plausible deniability is key in every step. You have to be willing to push the envelope until or unless she stops you. At t…
/r/seduction26/01/24 02:52 AM
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