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I honestly don't know what they are on about. I go to university and girls there are in 20-27 age range, then near my residence hall, there is a school and I sometimes see those kids passing by, they are usually 13-16 and they do look like children. So I can see the contrast on daily basis and the girls in 20-27 age range are what I find super hot. Those 13-16 yos are kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:53 PM
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Yeah lots of possibilities but you don't have to take into account everything you read online to form an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:54 PM
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how 21 year olds are post wall. Some of the same guys on incel forums will go mask off and call 16 year olds post wall, You know how they reject data samples which are clearly outliers to not skew the data? Similarly, such clearly unhinged opinions should not be taken seriously at all. Heck one could claim that it's a false flag operation considering how insanely absurd it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:45 PM
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Some people are shy and unsure, men included so they don't put it out clearly for the fear of rejection/repurcussions but the hints will continue to flow and become increasingly obvious if previous hints were well received.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:34 PM
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I swear I did not make that up. And your position on it is honestly delightful, your man would be lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:18 PM
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No, you should date whoever you want to, I don't care if it's a 23 yo or a 33 yo. While some 35 yo may be attractive to some women in 20-25 year range, I don't think in general they are in the dating pool of women in that age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:14 PM
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Felt tip penis ??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:29 PM
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Fountain pens > Rollerball pens > gel pens > pencil > chalk > twigs in sand > hand gestures > mentally disabled > ballpoint pens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:27 PM
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I am merely repeating the words of women I have read on various forums across the years. Let's say the woman makes 150k and she has a certain lifestyle, her expectation in man is that he should be able to earn enough so that he can pay for himself while living the same lifestyle as her, if she wants a 2 week getaway to Maldives then at the very least he should be able to pay for himself. Most guys don't think this way from what I have gathered, they go more along the lines of, hey babe, let's go…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:32 PM
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I think everyone should do whatever the hell they want to, and every man should decide for himself what he wants in a woman be ready to pay the price in terms of waiting or even never finding her. Like who am I to tell a random woman or women in general to not ride as many dicks as they want to? However, I have total right to not be with any of them and in turn I might have to be alone for extended periods of time or forever, but that’s the consequence of sticking to your guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:12 AM
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I like her without makeup as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:53 AM
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The point was mainly that the hot girl does not have to do that monkey dance, she can behave very normally and it would work for her, which is why she lacked the skills to rizz other girls. It would work for really hot guys as well. This is probably where "just be yourself" advice comes from. If someone takes pleasure and enjoyment in conjuring funny, interesting, thought provoking things to say to dozens of women a day and 80% of them will not even respond then more power to him. Others will ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:56 PM
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Her titties are nice, but not the main selling point, she's tall and fit which I really dig and I have a thing for a slight underbite and she has that. Also the reason why English bulldogs are my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:27 PM
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Because she's not just hot she's HOT
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:14 PM
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I just copy pasted the original video title.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:05 PM
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Okay my perspective on this is as follows: Imagine you are a normal person, texting another normal person, you don't really conceptualise that they are being hit up on by 100 others, so how do you speak to them? You speak to them normally, what is normally? "Hey! How are you doing?" But that clearly doesn't interest someone who is not awed by your good looks and being bombarded by 100s of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:03 PM
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Maybe they were too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:57 PM
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HOT Girl Finds out what it’s like to be an Average Guy on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:38 PM
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Nah man, getting led on and used for sex would definitely suck so much more. The woman could think that she's only good for her body and nobody gives a shit for her as a person. It's like you like cooking and are happy to cook for people you like as an expression of your love/appreciation for them but what if everyone just starts using you for your cooking skills and don't give a shit about you beyond the food you provide. Sure it sucks to not have anyone to cook for either, but these are differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:53 PM
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I am 30, one of the most beautiful women I have seen is 33, so 33. The youngest would be 23 or more, preferably 24-27.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:20 PM
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While I had already accepted that the practice of indebting someone to express your interest is a shady behavior, also known as the nice guy behavior and I don't condone, yet you are still coming back to it. The premise was that the woman had already accepted the drink and later rejected the man, so she willingly played into it and yet still had her wits about her to reject him. Therefore she knew what she was doing, which is why I consider it a deplorable behavior. But unfortunately I have exha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:14 PM
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None, there is none. Thank you. I know accountability is usually not a strong suite of the feminine. It is always someone else's fault. She knows she is not attracted/interested, but the drink is to being offered to get the ball rolling, yet she accepts the drink and later reveals what she knew from outset. The other examples you had presented earlier were irrelevant, because the giftee knew that it was most likely a friendly gesture and nothing was expected in return, such is not the case here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:01 PM
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They are very nice, but in my opinion such shoes look good only with dressy pants or loose chinos, definitely not with jeans. More versatile are shoes like this:https://www.zalando.se/timberland-terraengskor-wheat-quartz-ti112k05a-b11.html
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:58 PM
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I said artificial abundance in the form of near infinite supply of men through dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:53 PM
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People usually form standards based on what's available to them. Creating this artificial abundance completely short circuits the brains of people and they start treating others like objects who must fulfill their personal imperatives. I have heard first hand from my girl-friends that their friends expect an incredibly fun first date and mind blowing sex afterwards, everything has to be perfect. They can afford to place these unreasonable demands and expectations on mere mortals, because they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:50 PM
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It’s an outdated, grotesque behavior and it’s groveling. I completely agree on that part. However, can you constrain the discussion on the woman's accountability in this situation? Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:36 PM
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for women to lower their standards I wouldn't advocate that but elimination of dating apps would probably be a better solution. Date whoever you want but meet them organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:27 PM
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So now you admit it's an attempt to obligate a woman's time and attention. I don't understand why you are being purposefully obtuse about this whole thing when everyone knows that a man offering to buy a strange woman a drink very early into conversation is him making a move on her and if she is not interested or uncertain, she should decline the offer, unless ofcourse she was to take advantage by feigning ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:19 PM
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I think you are starting to get it. When the woman has no interest to obligate her time/attention, then why does she accept the perks of the contract she has no interest in fulfilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:16 PM
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I don't know why you said that because I indicated nothing of that sort in my original piece, the value I talked about is not accepting favors when you are cognizant of underlying motives and have no intent of fulfilling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:02 PM
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Clearly we have different value system and perspectives on social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:23 PM
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felt cute, might delete later: https://i.imgur.com/S2aUccx.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:05 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:57 PM
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DM me please; I will send you mine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:50 PM
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Slightly different: https://www.onitsukatiger.com/se/en-se/mexico-66-sd/p/1183a838-001.html
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:24 PM
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PPD rules are lifted but one can only be as unhinged as reddit allows
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:16 PM
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What do you think of these: https://www.onitsukatiger.com/se/en-se/mexico-66-sd/p/1183b500-020.html
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:14 PM
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We should have the annual face reveal thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:51 PM
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Unprompted blowjobs for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:47 PM
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Let's look at it this way, you are a hetero man at a quiet pub, a very gay presenting man sits next to you and makes a funny quip, he offers to buy you a drink. You know what the implications of buying a drink for a stranger you met 2 mins ago mean, since you have no interest in fucking him, you politely decline. Had it been so that you were hitting it off for half an hour or so like two long lost friends then you might consider a friendly gesture but straight up offer to buy a drink is just an …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:28 PM
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Okay I have nothing against LGBTQ and neither do I have a problem with abortions, I agree with a lot of aspects of liberalism but I also hold some conservative values. I don't want to pick one side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:36 PM
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Also how in some spaces, non-political means closeted conservative. Being a centrist is disallowed it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:58 PM
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I have never had a stint longer than 2 months on Tinder, but usually about 3 weeks, because it's so much of a time sink and frustrating. I wonder how guys last 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:09 PM
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Whatever fine tuning advice they would get would not change their results because they are fundamentally not competitive. There are indeed situations which require humility to accept the reality and go back to the drawing board.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:50 PM
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Fundamentals! That's where 80% of the results come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:42 PM
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Most of the feedback is bullshit, the real feedback for most of them is hit the gym, trim down to get a chiseled face and build some muscle. There is absolutely no downside to any of this. Unless you start looking good in a plain mugshot, people critiquing the setting of pictures is largely hogwash.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:34 PM
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Browsing /r/hingeapp and look at the profiles of people posting for critical reviews is kinda fun. Half of the time people are nitpicking things about profiles while ignoring the plain truth in the open, the poster is simply not an attractive prospect, it is often guys who exhibit low amount of sexual dimorphism. I really believe that while acting all macho can be a turn off, still, a certain amount of male-female polarity has to be there for sexual attraction and for men it starts with building…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:22 PM
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Next time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:26 PM
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Yes yes. I was like I know this face but couldn't place a name on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:02 PM
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So I live in a corridor (Swedish version of dorm hall, except we don't have roommates and have private bed and bathroom but share kitchen and living room with 8-10 people) and my girl-friend from the corridor asked another girl from the corridor if she could set me up with her friends and the other girl, who is a hardcore party girl straight up said, that while I will be good for her friends they won't be good for me. It was a low key burn and I laughed it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:55 PM
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Does anyone recall the name of this supermodel: https://imgur.com/a/ppAVPJ4
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:50 PM
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In my opinion there would be more women who assume the worst of men then men who assume the worst of women, it simply doesn't get revealed unless the context is correct, like for example, the man would probably not be thinking that the cute cashier is AWALT but if he lingers around a second longer than necessary then she might start thinking "oh my gawd what does he want"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:29 PM
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Women - "I'm going to assume all men are sexual predators unless proven otherwise." I think they low key already do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:23 PM
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I think men being bare chested and women being bare chested is a false equivalency. One could say that breasts are not sexual organs but in the overwhelming majority of cultures, breasts do have sexual connotations whereas male chests do not have. If they did not then women would not be selling tit pictures on OF
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:03 AM
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For me it was becoming a fighter pilot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:18 PM
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Is it bad? I weigh 166 at the same height
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:06 PM
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South Asians should be a racial category separate from Asians because when you think of Asians, you think of Chinese, not Indians.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:16 PM
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Chances fell 80%, now instead of 0.5%, they are 0.1% 😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:20 AM
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Since this post is about OLD, I was talking in the context of dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:07 AM
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Men lack tact, so they go around name calling women who don't align with their idea of a partner, whereas women are more subtle/quiet about it and hence don't draw as much flack.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:42 PM
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I think my refusal is more towards dating apps and by extension everything that is needed to succeed on those apps. You don't know men's side of experience on dating apps but might have heard about it. It frustrating and hugely demoralizing. The choice then is to be a better participant or to quit, and I have chosen to quit after assessment of my SMV, how much effort is required, what I will get out of it. I will however continue to improve as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:36 PM
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Wanting to date tall/attractive men is morally neutral. Slandering ugly and short men and thus perpetuating a prejudice against them is immoral. If you don't want to date them, then don't, but going an extra step by inventing a stereotype is actively harming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:34 PM
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100% agree. Actually most girls don't even say "suck it up buttercup", they are self aware and don't let things escalate to that level or turn them down way more tactfully. It's the dishonesty and phony moral superiority being discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:21 PM
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So what I am saying is, that since you don't want to date less attractive guys, you are honest about the reason, that they don't arouse you, however, if you chose to reason that you gave an ugly guy a chance but he turned out to be horrible, hence never again is a phony statement because you clearly haven't stopped dating attractive men even though one or few of them were horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:48 PM
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And I was saying that not only is it off putting for a 6 to claim she is a 10, but it is off putting even if a 10 made that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:41 PM
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I mean as guy if your friend is an ass then he's an ass, not because he's tall, short, fat, fit, black, white, brown etc. Those are quite irrelevant traits, however if you are looking to justify your prejudice then you could claim that they are ass because of XYZ physical trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:40 PM
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I’m around more socially inclined men Is this implying that I am not socially inclined or don't hang out with socially inclined men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:36 PM
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Background: The stories of women giving ugly guys a chance and then saying that they (guys) treated them horribly hence never again. Or a tall girl saying that she has dated shorter guys but found them insecure hence never again. Commentary: It is entirely believable that you were treated poorly or the guy was insecure, but such people come in all shapes and sizes and the fact that you choosing to stereotype and generalize for the remaining by anchoring the discussion around this trait makes som…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:30 PM
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Even if she's an objective 10, I still appreciate some humility. Let's for a second not even talk about looks, a scientist, a doctor, an engineer describing themselves as 10/10 professionally, would make you think that they may or not be the best but definitely are full of themselves. I think the best way to answer such a question for anyone is: "I think I am alright". What it shows is that they have a healthy self image and you are free to assign whatever number you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:15 PM
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Most social people just have friends and photos being taken naturally as part of hanging out… 📸 Not so much in my experience of hanging out mostly with guys. We might take one or two photos for keeps but that too very infrequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:50 PM
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In my view the best way to overthinking especially in early days is to stop and ask yourself two questions: Is this person treating me the way I want to treated? Would I treat a person I am interested in the same way as the person in question is treating me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:36 PM
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really fresh and funny post dropped in TwoX: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17wj11v/am_i_crazy_or_do_ugly_guys_treat_you_worse/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:24 PM
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If you can't sell yourself, it shows a lack of social skills and relationship skills which are vital. To say nothing of your job prospects. What if I have those skills but I don't want to use them because I don't want to suck up to people who I think are equals/no better than me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:52 AM
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I think cucks/suckers may be going a bit too far because children result from sex and most women have had sex, it's just that this time it resulted in what it is biologically intended to. However, a childless man dating a single mother is a whole lot of additional complexity he is taking on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:44 AM
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I assumed they were quite lenient with drug laws over there. Absolutely not, Sweden especially is very strict on drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:16 AM
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They are illegal in Sweden and Police put up posters in gyms that they can randomly pop in and get urine samples. And I think it's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:36 AM
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There are definitely coffee that taste like shit. I don't like brewed coffee that much, but espresso/lungo with a dash of oat milk just give me dopamine hit like no other food/beverage does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:42 AM
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$600 espresso machine. I would jump out of the bed every morning for the taste of heaven that coffee is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:51 AM
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If there was a business sector that benefitted 50-60% of its male uses and only 5-10% of its female users then I am near certain that it would have been regulated to hell and back to balance it. But now it’s simply: follow rule 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:55 AM
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Well said, agree on all counts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:33 AM
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If the men are not thinking the same way then it is indeed enforcing the gender roles favourable to women placing such demands. Oddly, in countries with high incomes equity, you don’t hear such things this often. Scandinavian countries for instance, people will look at her funny if she said that here, they would be like, make your own money woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:31 AM
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In other reply I said that it's attainable for her, but how is this not enforcing the gender roles that the man must be able to provide and in this provide really well. I would wager that she would not be so keen to hold her end of the gender roles and for everything else want equity and freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:33 AM
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I think if she's at least college educated, which she looks like she is, then $250k man for her seems very attainable. Men don't care too much about raw numbers in income but some tangible proof of her intelligence, a decent degree would do that. Then she's hot. So yeah, very much possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:28 PM
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I mean I don't intend to start a circlejerk here, but I went out a lot, tried dating apps and honestly I did get laid and received some attention, I still do when I go out, however, it's a massive massive time drain and as the popular saying goes "the juice ain't worth the squeeze".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:15 PM
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Actually there are no equally vicious female equivalent. Saggy boob energy or loose pussy energy are don't quite slip off the tongue like small dick energy and saying those unweildly terms makes you feel dirty to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:50 PM
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It’s also interesting how they always attack the man’s pp, And also claim it's primarily men who are obsessed with dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:48 PM
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Very insightful read and I find myself agreeing with a lot of it. Especially these parts: who cite some man of very powerful status they know, who is also a kind and respectful individual. I happen to believe a significant percentage of women are looking for a kind and respectful man. But it's "secondary" criteria. They're looking for a guy who looks like Tom Brady and is kind and generous The logic is: "filter by Tom Brady lookalikes, then filter by kind and generous." If you're extra-extra-ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:43 PM
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yet all they are typically told is that they're not good enough, inadequate, or even creepy If they are trying and failing then there is some merit in these claims. However if you check out of the dating scene then how could someone say that? I honestly find it deeply embarassing to be putting myself out there and being rejected and that feeling of embarassment has increased more than the desire I have for women hence I am gradually seeing myself out of this scene. It seems to be asking more of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:03 PM
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After a certain point, I see no honor in keep trying. If you have put your best foot forward and that too for a period of time then you should just come to terms with the fact that you ain't got it and start making alternate preparations, which means finding contentment through non-romantic relationships (friends, family etc), hobbies and interests. But that's just my opinion, any guy out there still hustling after facing countless rejections, more power to him but I personally can't do it. Mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:45 PM
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"People don’t die from the bullet but the organ damage and bleeding" "People don’t die from the snake bite but subsequent paralysis of the cardiovascular system"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:46 AM
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I like the slightly overlapping top front two tooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:38 PM
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It lasts pretty long though once opened, 6-8 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:20 PM
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Have you tried barista type oat milk? It has higher fat % and gives a lightly sweet and creamy taste to coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:22 PM
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Drinks their coffee with any kind of dairy-alternative milk I drink with a dash of oat milk. I love milk but I think it is disgusting in coffee, and oat milk pairs really well to take the edge off strong coffees like espresso or lungo. But oat milk is disgusting in tea and cow milk goes well with tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:18 PM
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By the same token women should not be worried by the issues that plague other women if they themselves have not faced them. People worry about these things because these things happen and if they continue to happen then one day their own turn might come and if things can be changed for better, everybody will benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:54 PM
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Yeah, vagina doesn't have taste/smell buds and penetration probably feels good (speculating as a heterosexual guy). Taking someone else's junk in mouth is peak submission and places great faith in their hygeine practices. So when I hear about women giving out blowjobs in car on first dates, it makes me barf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:37 PM
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Of course, it has the word "sex" in it. So anal and oral both count. And I have noticed that oral is considered less of a big deal in USA whereas in my experience in Europe, it's a bigger deal than PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:20 AM
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Wdym by ascending?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:03 PM
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As a non-American, I find the concerns about draft rather strange because it is extremely unlikely that they will face it and many other countries like Sweden for example already call women for mandatory military service and women there don’t complain about it. So it’s clear in an egalitarian society, women are not opposed to being drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:49 PM
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Because it’s by choice. I am not eating because I don’t want to is different from I am not eating because I don’t have food. The embarrassment with never having a boyfriend is likely because you want one but haven’t been able to find one without violating the requirements you have. And finding one by majorly relaxing the requirements would not fix it because it’s akin to how the woes of a sexless guy won’t be fixed by paying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:47 PM
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The objective reality is sometimes too complex and multifaceted to be comprehended by our brain so we view it from the lense of our perspective to filter out some parts of it. Too simplistic view means filtering out all nuance, and an attempt to grasp all aspects of the reality may fail or might not be easily conveyed to othered. So all of you making claims so confidently about a topic as complex as interpersonal dynamics, don’t forget that you are viewing each case through the lenses of your pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:40 PM
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Oddly, not so much, my brain just doesn’t comprehend the lesbian sex same way as the heterosexual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:26 PM
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USA is an exception because the only thing that strikes more fear than Allah in the hearts of radical Muslims is the three letter agencies of USA. They will ship their ass to Guantanamo Bay with no recourse no regrets. Otherwise most terror attacks in rest of the world are carried out by Islamic fundamentalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:15 PM
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The year is 1960, a group of friends are shooting shit in the bar. A to B: Do you have a girlfriend? B: Not really A: Oh are you just shagging someone? B: Not really A: Oh you are a celibate now? B: You could say so, or rather involuntarily celibate. everybody laughs. The term has just been invented and is harmless. Describing situation of a guy who is celibate but involuntarily. Cut to 2023 Man makes a comment. In response he is called an incel. Man gets offended due to heavy and serious connot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:15 PM
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Good point, but the distinction is as follows: A group of racist people came together and named themselves Proud Boys, for all we care they could have named themselves Tooth Fairy because the name Proud Boys is quite harmless and doesn't align with their nefarious activities. On the other hand, involuntary celibate is simply a term for an individual who is not able to acquire sex despite trying. That's it. So an accurate descriptor for those people. Since you are a Math teacher, lemme try to exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:08 PM
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Because now the word has so much negative connotations with it, you are finding it difficult to accept and use its literal meaning. 1 year long dry spell while actively trying to get laid makes a person involuntarily celibate by definition. Now because incel is used as a synonym for extreme misogynists, terrorists etc, you don’t want to label that man as incel even though by definition he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:59 AM
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Well the dictionary definition is "a person who abstains from marriage and sexual relations", so if a previously sexually active person can be a celibate by their choice (volcel) then someone could be celibate involuntarily as well (incel)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:37 AM
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Now imagine calling rioters, arsonists: jobless people. It would be true in many cases, however, the collateral damage would be the guy who is a law abiding citizen and doing his best to find a job but is unable to. Now when the statement is "jobless people set a train on fire" and how despicable they are, you have just included him in the criticism because he IS jobless by the literal meaning of the word and it doesn’t matter if you have redefined the word in your own usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:32 AM
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Let me define for you all what an incel literally mean: Involuntarily celibate. It doesn’t mean virgin and it doesn’t mean misogynistic. It means someone who wants to have sex and hasn’t been able to acquire it over a reasonable time frame. He may very well have had consensual sex in the past that he did not have to pay for, yet if he goes an year trying but unable to find sexual partner then he would be categorised as involuntarily celibate for that duration. That’s it. That’s the most literal …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:17 AM
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Yeah? Incel literally mean involuntarily celibate. It neither means virgin nor misogynistic, just someone who wants to have sex but can’t. Now if some members of this group have been found to be women haters or been mass shooters then someone decided, ah fuck it, let’s just assume that all people who are incels are women haters/mass shooters and vice versa. Which is why I equated it with Islam and terrorism, and if I have to tell you the number of terror attacks carried out by people of Muslim f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:09 AM
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Who and when decided to change the meaning of the word? And when are we going to synonimise Muslims with terrorists because overwhelming percentage of terror acts are committed by people of Muslim faith? BTW, it would be ridiculous, it was mainly to illustrate that you can't redefine words and not expect collateral damage because a lot of people don't get the memo and continue to use the literal meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:53 AM
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Okay to all the people here redefining the meaning of the word incel, I ask why? Was the term misogynist not enough? It's akin to the small dick energy thing that you again try to redefine that it has nothing to do with people who actually have small dicks. Why do you insist on using terminology that does collateral damage by default and then you have to explain yourself to define the scope of your insults in order to limit the damage. When you use a word, people's mind first reaches to its most…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:49 AM
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Poor Finns, forced to learn Swedish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:49 PM
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I thought you were Finnish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:42 PM
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^ This guy understands the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:02 PM
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There was a dip in my self esteem when I faced so many rejections but then it recovered when I started to have a more balanced and internal source of self esteem, but when I found my value in my own eyes, I realised that these drunk girls at clubs are not so much above me that I would put myself in the position to be rejected by them. What are they offering? Sex? Companionship? I realised that I was chasing casual sex mainly for validation not that I was mad horny. Now after having had it, I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:49 AM
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This is assuming you have a very thick skin and rejections don't get you down, which in most people's case they absolutely do. A guy asks out 20 women who he fancies, all of them say no, then he would likely conclude that he doesn't want to do 20 more for the chance of 1 yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:45 PM
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I do however know a 10/10 girl (I had posted her picture here and everyone agreed), and her brother is her male equivalent who will likely mog any guy she dates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:55 PM
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I am sorry if I came across as rude, I didn't mean to, apart from that I do stand by what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:44 PM
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I don't know chief, sounds like entitlement to me. We are not dealing with acquisition of inanimate objects here, but actual human beings. If you don't have the opportunities to meet people then work on creating them instead of going out hunting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:38 PM
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If I lose 10 lbs, i might look like him, chonky me: https://imgur.com/a/r19ItRw
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:30 PM
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A) But won't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:19 PM
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Why are people with money so complicated? Why can't a salesman just tell them that I just want your money and don't give a shit if you need this product or if it actually works. I want your money, now give it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:15 PM
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I don't know if they want to be approached or not but I say "if it was picked off the street then it was probably trash". You tell me, what high quality woman would go out with a guy who goes around asking out randos? And I am not talking about saying something that came to your mind while waiting in line at the coffee shop and you two hitting it off, more like approaching a woman you saw from distance, found fuckable enough to go up to and spray and pray because there is nothing inherently spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:18 PM
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They are good ltr candidates for each other in my opinion. Hugely mismatched experience levels are usually not conductive to ltrs. Like someone with n = 2 should not be with an n = 40 I agree completely, however, that's not what is usually said. Instead, it is always "it doesn't matter and you are less evolved to care about such a thing", perhaps the underlying assumption is that men are either incels, or have prolific sex lives (or capacity for) like an average woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:00 PM
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How is years and years of casual sex not a training in disassociating sex from emotions? And how is such a person a good candidate to form long term relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:42 PM
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Humble brag incoming: did 5 strict pull ups with 32 kg and 3 with 37 kg. Now it's safe to say that I am one of the top guys in the gym in pull ups at least. Have ever seen only 2 guys crank out 37 kg. I remember my first few months in the gym and seeing this German guy do 2 chin ups with 20 kg and how impressed I was. Or this other guy who used to do like 8 in a row. But that's the thing, because accomplishing these things is such a drawn out process, it doesn't impress your present self as much…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:15 PM
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Ah, I didn't notice that. I was mainly focusing on muscle definition. Check her out, she's a beast of our gym: https://www.instagram.com/akessonellen/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:24 PM
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there must be 5 like her in my gym
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:12 PM
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Okay story time. I am an Indian guy living in Sweden and barely speak any Swedish. Anyway, I had to go about 5 miles away from the Uni to attend a lab, it was in the middle of nowhere next to an airbase. I decided to bike there and about a mile in my bike broke down. I thought fine, I will run rest of the way but got lost very quickly and I had 25 minutes left to be there and I absolutely could not afford to miss it. I was freaking the fuck out. There was no way my legs would take me there in ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:26 PM
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Yeah actually you are right, it is weird to say 4 weeks when I could just say: kind of person who dates one person at a time and you’re looking for the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:07 PM
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Although I have taken a pause from dating or wanting to date, if I ever dip my toes in the pool again and go on a date with a woman I will tell her in plain words that "I would like to exclusively see each other for the next 4 weeks, during which neither me nor you will sleep or go on date with anyone else and we will reassess after 4 weeks. However, you free to bail out at any time." Multi dating is obviously quite efficient but a heartless endeavor at the same time. I would never willingly par…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:05 PM
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malignant evil in nature or effect; malevolent. "in the hands of malignant fate"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:29 AM
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This is the part where I described the mass shooter: "At times it has malignant manifestations"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:59 AM
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Mother Nature made men a force to be reckoned with, they are capable of creating things of colossal scale and astonishing beauty, and also to raze them to the ground. And everything in between. At times it has malignant manifestations and then it’s disastrous. But when you pose such a question you think of "men" as your equivalent with penis but acting erratically, which I think is fundamental misunderstanding of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:16 PM
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Yeah? Or maybe look a little bit to the east and their family structure, brothers living under the same roof with their wives, children, parents. The solution is not necessarily more degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:19 PM
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Well, it's just a whole bunch of sweeping generalisations about the younger person, the older person, their respective intentions, values, morals etc and a whole bunch of logical inconsistencies. People are manipulative by virtue of their character and not their age. I am 30 now, I am not manipulative now (or not more) and I was not manipulative when I was 18. What I do have more of is emotional regulation and perspective, which I fail to see would be a bad thing. If the argument is that let the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:27 PM
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Scandinavia is what can be considered "good conditions" for promiscuity and here women are able to sleep around to their heart's content. Coming to the second paragraph, and this is merely speculation, sex by design is meant to create tender feelings because in the wild sex will usually cause pregnancy and the child would survive best if both parents are present. So people who indulge in lots of sex, do have to learn to suppress those emotions from developing and as you said, it makes them colde…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:54 PM
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I see no merit in that post, no sane man would consider those hobbies boring or leave their otherwise fine woman over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:44 PM
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I know right? I don't imagine relying on the girlfriend for excitement in my life. Whatever excitement I need, I can create it on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:00 PM
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All these hobbies sound lovely to me, especially knitting and painting. Maybe because I am not the most exciting guy myself. I am very much into routine, predictability, and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:53 PM
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What do you think about it? While the images of those dead and grievously injured children is absolutely heart breaking, I place the responsibility primarily on Hamas and to a lesser extent on Palestinians who support Hamas.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:14 PM
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There is a 33 years old woman in my gym who is probably among the hottest people I have ever seen in my life, but she's an absolute gym rat and has a physique of a professional athlete. I am not saying that you have to be at her level of fitness but 5-8 hrs of dedicated intense workout per week and watching your diet on top of that would keep you very competitive not only at 30 but way beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:08 PM
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I get where I am coming from, but personally I refrain from outright commenting on guy's dating and sex lives because it would sound like a poor man lecturing a rich man about money and ethics. It would come across as bitter and jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:21 PM
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I am like that, I thrive in routine, stability and predictability. There was a video going around a while ago of some 25 year old guy's daily routine. The typical wake up, do some stretches, get breakfast, go to work, come home, work out, play with the dog, cook dinner, watch TV, go to sleep etc. The guy clearly had a good paying job, seemed very well adjusted, seemed happy, had a lovely dog, had a nice apartment, basically doing very well for himself. I made a post describing my ideal life and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:18 PM
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Nope but my happiness levels are about the same as if my beautiful girlfriend of 3 months is at work right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:53 AM
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I have only recently understood this concept. On surface level it seems relatively straightforward, but a man's internal narrative can make it mighty difficult for it to get across. But fixing that internal narrative is not easy. For me it was fixed by improving myself in all ways possible, putting myself out there, having some success and tons of failures, somewhere along the line I found my value in my own eyes and I stopped basing my worth on acceptance or lack thereof from women. And man, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:27 PM
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It takes balls to approach like that in public Yeah sure it does but that doesn't negate the fact that it is inherently a lowly behavior. It's like "hey I find you pretty, and it doesn't take much more than the woman being pretty to get some of my time or my dick, so would you go out with me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:14 PM
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You literally don't know anything about me and obviously you just want to fuck me. This is precisely why I don't cold approach, not because I don't have the courage to do it. It is not much better than a salesman trying to sell you stuff you have expressed no interest in. Sure, a good salesman might convince you to buy something but he won't be able to sell you anything of much value. High value deals are made when the buyer has indicated interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:12 PM
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Late to the party but I made this post a few days ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17cbyyk/daily_community_chat_megathread/k5rar1o/ I am rethinking dog, but if you do the math, from waking up to out of the door 1.5 hrs, let's say 0.5 hrs of total commute. 9 hrs of work. 2.5 hrs at the gym, 9 hrs of sleep, that's 1.5 hrs left between coming home and going to bed, which isn't so much and easy to fill with errands, Netflix, videogames. Then on the weekends, it's sleeping 10 h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:06 PM
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Edit: I don't know so much about Joe Rogan except that he hosts a podcast where he brings all sorts of people and just have a conversation. I don't see a problem with him. As far a Jordan Peterson is concerned, I don't pay heed to his religious or political views because I am not interested in them. But I see nothing scandalous about him giving some life advice to men considering that he has relevant credentials to do so. And if your argument is that some violent incels listen and follow him the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:14 AM
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If he listens to Joe Rogan, thinks Jordan Peterson and Elon Musk are the greatest things since the invention of sliced bread and peanut butter, At this point, most people hating on these 3 men do so because they are taught to, or by hyperfocusing on things they disagree with without looking at the bigger picture that all three of them have done quite well for themselves, and that would be an understatement in Elon Musk's case. I have never met a person who I agree with 100% of the time but as an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:23 AM
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I mean it's the same way we have fixed our relationship with food. Sure fat, salt, sugar tastes amazing and our body craves it so can be termed natural but we all know the consequence of unrestrained indulgence. There is widespread acknowledgement of the relationship between food and our health. Yet, there is apparently no correlation between a sexual history and romantic relationships. I mean the sexual behavior expected within monogamy vs the sexual behaviors exhibited in pursuit and accumulat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:16 PM
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Indeed, and judging people for caring about their partner's past is like judging people for not wanting to skydive. Yeah sure this particular parachute has never malfunctioned but if someone still doesn't want to jump then usually they will be left alone about it. I would still like to clarify that it's not virgin or bust. There is a distinction between someone who had a few boyfriends and those are her only sexual partners vs someone who has no qualms sleeping with strangers and has done plenty…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:07 PM
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For men it's handsome, 5'8 guys that lift. Biggest manwhore I know is that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:30 PM
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but there is nothing natural or especially free about modern technologically-boosted socialization What do you think about the argument that there is nothing natural about causal sex either. Due to availability of antibiotics, anti-virals, a plethora of birth control options, safe pregnancy termination; what would have come at great cost is sometimes no more riskier than getting a cup of coffee. But just because the risk has mitigated by technology doesn't make it natural. Just because you can s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:35 PM
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You all seemed to take offense when Red Pill said "she's not yours, it's only your turn". Indeed, in this day and age counting on finding a forever partner is wishful thinking because your relationship ending is way more likely than sustaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:30 PM
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Seems like I want it all haha https://charts.idrlabs.com/graphic/love-languages?p=90,100,90,95,95,95,70&l=EN But I realized that except my uncle, nobody has ever gifted me anything, primary reason being me being the oldest and my siblings/cousins are all still young.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:32 PM
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Indeed, just like food but overwhelming majority loves food and so do sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:12 PM
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I love sex It's akin to saying I love food.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:35 PM
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What do you call the actions a hoe takes to seduce a man? Thot process.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:46 PM
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I really liked Kim Wexler from Better Call Saul. A competent, hard hitting lawyer who was by her husband's side through thick and thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:01 PM
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There is a girl in my corridor, 23 yo old, I see her walking around with a hoodie saying "Do DILFs not drugs"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:59 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:46 PM
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I guess I put very little stock in what people say in life. Indeed, watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:18 PM
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Man I agree with all that, I totally believe that attraction cannot be negotiated and you don't want to play the game of convincing people to date you. I was just highlighting how she prefaced the rejection with obvious lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:15 PM
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Status thing as in she doesn't want to appear shallow in front of that many people therefore proceeds to lie through her teeth, and/or wanting to be a with a man significantly taller than yourself. Anyway, I don't take issue with wanting to be with taller men. But that rejection preface was a bold faced lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:04 PM
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I first watched this video on Youtube. https://twitter.com/i/status/1664875967993597953 Either she's a liar or a complete retard. I would wager my bet on being a liar. Imagine passing up on a guy who if you believe her is "extremely hot", "kind", "grateful", "nice" and "sweet" because she will be taller than him when she wears heels. Now if you think about it, how inconsequential and irrelevant the heels are in a person's life, how little time you actually spend wearing heels AND being together,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:55 PM
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Many aren’t bettering themselves for wholesome reasons 😔 I really really like overhead presses and want to haul some big weights over my head some day. Makes me feel like Atlas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:10 AM
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saggy balls A cold shower would fix that in 15 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:58 AM
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I have 4 meals a day, 3 of which are smoothies and 1 is cooked food which I meal prep on Sunday and eat throughout the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:06 AM
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I am 30 years old, here’s my vision of a good life for 30s to mid-40s (can’t plan further than that). Have a small detached house with a backyard in a beautiful suburb, the backyard would have a bunch of apple trees, flower and berry bushes. The home would have an antique and minimalist decor. It will have a small office/workshop, I would also have a gaming rig with all necessary equipment for racing and flight simulators. I will also have a fancy espresso machine. I will have a small fluffy bic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:12 PM
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I am self improving for the heck of it. As a means to have more respect for myself in my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:59 PM
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I don't know man, I find it a quite disturbing practice. I neither want to field a competition to be my girlfriend nor do I want to participate in such a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:19 PM
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I think someone else had raised the same points. Overall I think it aligns very well with Western values which equates consumption with happiness. Happiness is pleasuring your senses with food, clothing, travel, wild sex, experiences etc. And the capitalistic values have certainly trascended into interpersonal relationships. Like I was quite baffled to read on reddit that there are people out there simultaneously sampling 4-5 romantic partners, switching people in and out of the rotation, and fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:27 PM
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It's hotly debated from men's side because if they don't like promiscuity in women, and promiscuity in women is encouraged instead of being penalized then their dating pool will shrink. Women debate it hotly because their fears are the similar, if such preferences go uncriticized and scorned then more and more men will fully embrace them and their dating pool will shrink as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:53 PM
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I think everything that needed to be said has been said and most debaters have come to an agreement, except a few who are still trying to establish their way being the only right way. Here's the conclusion: For women: Do whatever you want to do with your body and your life but you have no say in what men should approve or disapprove of. For men: Be kind and respectful to others but do not allow others to bully you into accepting what you don't want to accept. You can screen but not dictate. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:16 PM
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I mean it's logical, if you continually improve your mental health and life satisfaction during abject singledom then a relationship need to significantly add to your life in order for it to be worth your time and effort. Why else would you opt for additional complexity in your life when its impact on your life would be uncertain?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:03 PM
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Imagine having a "girlfriend" at 31, you had 12 years to find a decent girl to marry yet here you are. Imagine being unable to put the donut down and lashing out at random strangers if they find the resulting "creature" disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:19 PM
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I can't get it up for fat chicks, period. My ideal bodytype is a tennis player physique, tall/tall-ish and athletic. I am reasonably fit myself and work out 4-6 times a week, 2 hrs each time and watch what I eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:12 PM
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What a disingenous take. So someone could be an engineer at NASA, or a Navy SEAL officer, or a fighter pilot, or a researcher, or literally anyone outside of USA where such absurd salaries are not paid, that would make him lazy and dumb? If you consider amount of money someone is making a metric of hardwork and intelligence then that speaks volumes about your own intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:09 PM
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Fair enough, the only thing worse than an unapologetic hoe is a repressed hoe therefore I am all for people being able to do whatever they want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:29 PM
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Yes, I care that men insult women they don't know. Insulting other people for not living their lives the way you deem fit is not okay, on that part I agree with you. And I guess one should be prepared for a bunch of shit thrown their way too if they use derogatory terminology to describe their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:34 PM
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You mean humongous chest built by years of bench presses and chest isolations? Yeah I don't like that either which is why I don't do any chest exercises except 3-4 sets of low to high cable flys for upper chest once per week. But I spam the shit out of overhead presses by doing 20-25 sets per week. Humongous chests on men look mildly disturbing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:58 PM
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I was relieved to see that this post was written by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:26 PM
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You will find several women posters here who by their own admission have a high N-count and are also in LTRs, it wouldn't be kind of invalidate that. However, my goal was to get to explore the reasons why don't prefer promiscous women for relationships. My reasons are far simpler, I am somewhat of a possessive nature and I can't concile with the fact that the women I am getting so emotionally invested in has been dicked down by numerous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:44 PM
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Okay if God himself gave you the guarantee that this former hoe will not cheat on you or leave you unless you do something really terrible then would you date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:18 PM
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When you try to find logical reasoning behind your preference then the logic is open to scrutiny, to bulletproof your preference, just say that you don't like it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:39 PM
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Man, beautifully written, initially I misunderstood the trajectory you were on. I also used to think along the lines of that I will never give up, and used to imagine myself a warrior going in the arena, getting beat up and thrown out and still showing up again and again because that was my "dharma". But then one day on the dance floor I had an epiphany and I wasn't the same afterwards. It was something along the lines of "Who the fuck are these bitches? And who the fuck are they to reject me? W…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:43 PM
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My parents didn't because they couldn't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:32 AM
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After spending nearly 15 years desiring a relationship that flame is more or less extenguished and I hope it stays that way because when it burns; I burn and it's unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:06 PM
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it just sounds like expecting success in a field you put no effort in, which is ludicrous. It is indeed ludicrous if you secretly are like "hey Universe, see, I am not looking anymore and I heard that you get it when you are not looking for it, wink wink". You have to be truly okay with being alone and therefore whether or not you find someone is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:21 PM
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High n count: I dunno it kind of depends some people on here think an n count of 5 is extremely high which to me is just ridiculous even as someone who only has a fifth of that count. That’s like one hook up and a normal amount of boyfriends, for an average 25 year old. I think the definition varies person to person, some consider even N = 1 to be too high, others consider a few boyfriends and a hookup or two to be acceptable. But 5 for a 25 yo is A-okay in my personal opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:55 AM
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she's gonna be impressed with you dropping $500 What self respecting person would allow a complete stranger to spend that much money on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:42 AM
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Bhrata, that I don’t know. But you have my best wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:33 PM
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Oof. Your day will come my brother. It will. Just hang in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:43 PM
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I agree, however I would like to add something. One should learn how to be happy all by themselves and do no "searching for a sex/relationship", but if some opportunity comes along then critically evaluate if it will be a net significant change for better in your life or not. People who are going through a period of massive yearning for love will likely not understand what is being said here and to them I just want to say that they can continue on their path and arrive at the conclusion at their…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:17 PM
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Well, as I said in other reply, it was more of a summarisation of the discourse I have witnessed here instead of a fresh piece on how I don’t like hoes (for dating purposes). But I do concede that men should keep it to themselves. People, which includes women should live their lives however they please. As an individual your right when it comes to dating is to screen, not dictate how others live their lives. And if your screening criteria removes majority of people then again it’s your choice wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:40 PM
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Haha, I will fix that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:08 AM
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Nah. I am primarily speaking to men so they know what’s up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:05 AM
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Yeah, sometimes it’s good to summarise and put in perspective what’s going on because too many people get pulled into these traps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:02 AM
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One hilarious argument I see here is: "Men dislike promiscuous women because even a woman who is rather indiscriminate didn’t choose their ass". While it might be true for some men, there are still plenty (like me) who actually have been with such women and have also rejected advances of women numerous times in their lives. So these blatantly transparent tactics of calling men who don’t want their partner to have sucked dozens of dicks as: Young and dumb. Incels with revenge fantasies Insecure a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:14 AM
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How would you spend that much money per year?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:16 PM
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I think it's very little money in USA, but quite okay in Sweden. If you are making 28k after tax and pay 8-12k in rent, 4-5k in food, then you have 11k-16k left for everything else. Healthcare is free, public transport is easily accessible and quite affordable. So yeah, a single person can live comfortably but then our expenses tend to scale with our income and their is no limit to extravagance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:13 PM
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Right now I live on 9000 SEK (Swedish kroners) per month and it's not too bad. Average salaries for a new graduate is 35000 SEK, and it feels like so much money. So when I get a job, I think I will be having a blast with 35000.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:04 PM
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On the flip side, at least it's not alcohol or drugs. In fact I gave up drinking as well so that I can go hard on Monday.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:49 PM
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I think I am becoming more and more dependent on the gym for my mental health, so much so that I am spending in excess of 2 hrs there 5 days a week and the 2 days I don't go for the sake of recovery, I don't feel so good. Both my shoulders are hurt, so is my left knee and right elbow, yet instead of going light and/or taking some time off, I manage them day to day and keep going heavy as usual and just riding out the pain. The only time I relent is when the injury is at the point when pushing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:26 PM
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The only reason why there is a conflict surrounding this topic is because women DON'T WANT it to matter, which explains the anger and hostility surrounding this question and all sorts of moral and personal failings are ascribed to a man who says that it matters to him. They simply cannot allow this to be a thing because then their choices would be to 1) Lie about it. 2) Not sleep around. 3) Have their dating pool shrink down the line. They probably don't want to do 1 and 2 and can't allow 3 to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:47 PM
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You aren’t going to hear much from people who are moving on. Just like I don’t post much these days because I am like: I don’t care anymore and there is no point in engaging in these debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:34 AM
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gangbang 100% Context often is very important
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:17 PM
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I am 5’9" and I have a thing for tall women. I think going for tiny women is more of an American thing also tall girls primarily reject, not get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:46 PM
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Dammit! I feel like I am becoming more like that by the day. I see attractive women and it's a pleasure to look at them and a shallow fantasization about how nice it would be if I could date them but any further scrutiny and I am like nope! I will do no monkey dance and put up with no bullshit to have a chance at companionship. Maybe our genes will die out but I think mental peace is more important than passing on our genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:07 PM
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If the three aspects of a potential partner are: looks, n-count, and how she treats him. Then it’s up to the individual if he wants to enforce as many of these three as he wants. You can’t make sweeping claims that guys are out there making concessions on only the last part. And that former hoes dish out good treatment to their partners. You are just making assumptions to suit the narrative you are trying to push.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:52 PM
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What's with guys who are willing to put up with all kinds of disrespectful, cold, abusive, demanding and all around shitty personality and treatment from women but for some reason are obsessed with filtering by n count? Have any evidence for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:57 AM
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Since you seem so sure of yourself about how it is, let me put forth my personal experience. I never had casual sex then last year in the span of 6 months I slept with 4 women, not earth shattering numbers but reflecting back, it was an emotionally empty experience, sure in the heat of the moment it got passionate and steamy but afterwards I felt nothing and I wished I liked those women on a deeper level because kissing them felt not much better than kissing my own hand. Then I realized that if …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:40 AM
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Yeah, the strange people on Internet who also have to endure the misfortune of reading your willfully obtuse arguments put forth so smugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:20 PM
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Exactly, if they are so proud of their history and think they did nothing wrong then say it and leave the ball in other person’s court. Instead they want to gag you by placing a reputation cost on asking this question. They say it’s none of your business, what really is a prospective partner’s business? If you went to college? Where and what you studied? Work you do? Any chronic illnesses? Information about family? And numerous other things two people exchange information about to obtain whole p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:18 PM
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I am the one who cares yet you will never disclose the number. People can see right through your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:11 PM
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Okay, "I've had sex before. Is that a problem for you?" Will be my new opening line. With how many people? You conviniently left out the part which is most pertinent to the current discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:51 PM
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Past doesn't matter. You can't determine much from it. I admire your dedication and persistence in repeating a lie with hopes that one day it will start sounding like a truth. But even if we move on to other aspects of life like job, education, applying for bank loans, healthcare, criminal record etc, past absolutely does matter. And your insistence that it does not matter in this context makes me suspect that you know deep inside that it does matter but you want it to not matter. Try volunteeri…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:09 PM
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Considering how violently a lot of women react to the topic of N-count, I am completely convinced that they are also deeply insecure about it and know that it matters and desperately want it to not matter. Imagine if someone asked how many times you have gone to a movie theater and based on the number you quoted (say between 0-200) they rejected you, you would think they are retarded and move on with your life. You would likely not call them insecure, jealous, and that they should seek therapy b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:00 PM
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I don’t have most of the bad habits you described and I can cook some banger meals, I live alone so do my own laundry and cooking. However, the caricature of man you have painted, you obviously shouldn’t marry such a man but you seem to suggest that most men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:39 AM
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I think being able to do 1 AMRAP set of 15 pull ups with good form is pretty good. If you can do multiple sets then obviously your max is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:54 AM
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Thanks brother
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:54 AM
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Yep it is indeed a very good place to be in. However, I still workout, groom and dress well out of respect for self and wanting to be the best version of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:48 AM
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God tier patience and tenacity otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:41 AM
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I have been increasingly checking out of the dating and it is coming from the place of being actually comfortable with being alone, like the mentality surrounding it now is "my life is okay and peaceful and I would not trade it for anything less than spectacular". I no longer feel any interest in casual sex and have decided that the next person I will sleep with would be someone I would actually like to date. Looking at people making out with randoms on the dance floor just grosses me out. I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:39 AM
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I don’t know how these people have so much patience to stick around, I think the longest I have gone on Tinder is probably 6 weeks after which I would get frustrated and determine that it’s not going to work out and delete it for 6 months or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:22 AM
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Deadlifting 300 lbs isn’t a lot and a lot of guys who don’t look like much can do it, any average person can do that in 1 year of training, I think a better metric would be overhead pressing or the number of pull ups you can do, I say 90% of your BW and 15+ pull ups is where you can confidently say that your physique is not the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:17 AM
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he doesn't like high bodycount women Maybe it’s just semantics but there is no reason to dislike promiscuous women as one can rule them out from being a dating option without hating them. After all it’s their life, their body, their choices, and it’s all legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:12 AM
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The narrative around N-count seems to hit a nerve somewhere considering how active you are in these threads. But overall, good for you, I hope it keeps working out for you. As for the guys who do care about it, your success is unlikely to change their minds and is quite irrelevant as you are not in their dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:07 AM
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It’s okay to be insecure about some things, no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:29 AM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:47 AM
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I think it's probably American phenomena that you treat oral sex as lesser of a deal than PIV but from my experience in Europe, getting a blowjob is a bigger deal than PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:40 PM
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It's human to make mistakes, but mistakes are things you did 1-2 times not what you did throughout your college, then it's just your character.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:20 AM
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It's exactly the same in India. Also the prevalence of religion is another constraining factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:18 AM
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I think to a certain extent this whole N-count discussion is useless. In a free society, women who want to sleep around are doing so and those who don't want to aren't. For you, as a man, it's not a good look to try and control women's action, instead you should select for people who naturally are the way you prefer them to be. The discussion whether your preference is good or not is also moot since you are not answerable to anyone but yourself in this context, so do what aligns most with your v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:52 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/aliens/comments/16hb3u7/more_photos_from_mexico_ufo_hearings/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:37 PM
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Are you guys following the Mexican disclosure surrounding aliens?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:23 PM
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When you are a target demographic of those generalisations then it hurts to read them. And I totally empathise with generalisations made towards women too, they are not okay either and must make them feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:11 PM
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I agree, however my aim was to point out the absurdity of such generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:06 PM
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Yeah? The onus lies on the person making the claim, one could go around inventing all sorts of crazy accusations but the onus lies primarily with them to justify their assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:57 AM
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I did not imply one causing the other, it's more like people create one lazy hypothesis and stick to it for a period of time until a sufficient number of people prove that this is not the cause, then move on to the next one. So right now the onus lies on men who are struggling; to prove that they are indeed at least average and putting in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:51 AM
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After being here for a few years, I have noticed how the narratives have shifted around so many things, let me illustrate the one surrounding average men having great difficulty in dating. It went from: You are struggling because you don't do the bare minimum (shower, brush your teeth, wear clean clothes etc) -> you are a misogynist and women can smell it -> you are only going after Stacie's -> you are actually not average, but below average because the average men I know have no problems dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:22 AM
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In India I would be a 7-8, in Sweden 4-7 depending on who you ask. For the girls who are into Stockholm fuckboy aesthetics, I would be a 4, but then I have been approached, called handsome, and had hookups so for some I could be a 7 as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:25 AM
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I think naturally you are beautiful but your unconventional presentation docks a point or two for people who are into conventional aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:11 AM
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As a guy, I am guilty of this as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:31 PM
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Precisely, I have never asked either but had a pretty good idea each time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:23 PM
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You can’t reason with such people, therefore do what I do which is to start ignoring her because what she is doing is if you trumpet a lie 100 times then people will start believing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:05 PM
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Indeed, sex is not neurosurgery that requires extensive practice and experience to be good at and if you are mediocre at the beginning then you will die from mediocre sex. Give me an enthusiastic partner who is into me and sex will get better by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:02 PM
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Ever since I can remember, relationships and love held this massive importance in my life. I’d say, over a span of 15 years or so, the idea of finding someone was this itch I couldn’t quite scratch. Every other night, I’d lie in bed, overwhelmed by these intense waves of loneliness, wondering why love felt like a jigsaw puzzle I couldn’t complete. Society has its way of making single folks feel like outsiders. I mean, everywhere I turned, there were couples, oozing with happiness, and here I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:22 AM
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He was specifically talking about wanting tall men, so the part of your answer relevant to that was "entitled" but that is barely offensive so you threw in gold-digger in the mix even though it was not pertinent to the question asked, thereby trying to increase the punch of your answer. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:35 AM
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I am very glad to witness that the discourse surrounding this topic has moved on from bullshit reasons to complete ownership of the preference in question. This bulletproofs it. "I don't like it and I don't want it" is one of the hardest positions to tackle especially if you refuse to elaborate further.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:27 PM
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What's your point? If this information is concealed or lied about then obviously men won't be able to make an informed decision, that doesn't mean that it's irrelevant info. It's in the same league as the question for man being "have you every visited a prostitute?" It will be a dealbreaker for a lot of women but if she never posed the question or he lied then by the same token someone could say that it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:59 AM
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My brother from another mother in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:34 AM
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It's like neither of the two sexes like their partner to be fucked by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:28 AM
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What were those hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:44 PM
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Isn't this advice only helpful for the limited number of people who have: A. A hobby that has a group. B. Time to regularly go to that hobby group. C. The demography there includes single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:17 PM
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such as a hobby group or volunteering Honestly I am moderately annoyed whenever I hear this and it is very often. I know literally nobody who goes to "hobby groups" or "volunteering" and when I look at my own hobbies which to begin with are not many, are solitary. Sure I do like sports like Volleyball and tennis but with full time school, daily 2 hrs of gym, errands, there isn't any time for those. Also I don't know anyone who met anyone through hobby groups or volunteering. I think at this poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:15 AM
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Heck we can't definitively tell what our own group likes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:56 AM
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Mind = 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:30 PM
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You probably know that we have locked horns over this many times now but aversion to promiscuity in women has same origins in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:28 PM
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But it's kinda ridiculous tbh, how often do people get in dangerous situations where hand to hand combat is required? And basing your entire dating decision on an event which A) Might never happen. B) Might not go the way you hoped to (the guy gets stabbed/shot) is quite non-sensical. It's like me going out every day with a body armor in the off chance that someone might want to shoot/stab me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:53 PM
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Wanting someone who can protect you from things in the outside world External threats don't scale up relative to the size of the woman, 5'10" man is enough to protect a 4'11" woman but not 5'11" woman? Whereas an internal source of insecurity might be feeling like you’re not feminine enough, such that you need someone bigger than you as a partner in order to feel feminine. The control we have over that is to reflect on the gender roles we’ve internalized, and how we’ve connected those to our gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:47 PM
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https://www.facebook.com/reel/985288532594878 This is quite literally the definition of insecurity because you can switch genders and see for yourself how off it would sound. Yet insecurity in women is far more acceptable than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:28 PM
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I eventually got the hang of dating (specifically online dating) and did really well. Teach me your ways sensei :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:34 PM
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A girl I used to talk to said that she wants to hang off my back while I do pull ups, it is important for me to know how much she weighs so that I know the goal weight for my weighted pull ups. Now she wasn't fat but she could have been anywhere between 55-70 kg and that's world of a difference when doing weighted pull ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:55 PM
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You do not have the leverage. That I agree with. For every 1 man who rejects a woman for her bad behavior, there would be 4 willing to put up with it, thus she has no incentive to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:50 PM
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Do you lowkey want anything to happen? Like subconsciously ... I almost want to talk to my gym crush in the hopes that he has an unattractive, high pitched voice or some other ick, so I can focus on my work out better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:00 PM
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This is the kind of strawman arguments that makes me believe that the other side lacks fundamental understanding. They have moved on from men are single and lonely because -> They don't shower -> They are misogynists -> They are only chasing casual sex. So the progression has been from very fundamental failing in the form of not showering, to having attitude problems, to seeking something they are not good enough for. Whereas from men's perspective the issue is that a significant chunk of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:57 PM
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I am a guy and 90% of the time someone has told me that I am handsome/good looking; it has been a guy. Some women have told me that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:32 AM
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I don't believe what I wrote expressed my agitation or feelings of being offended. Also, I have on three instances showed why just because it doesn't make sense to her doesn't make it invalid. Your response to my original comment was invalid as well because the differentiating factor between hetero/homosexual men is their sexuality, so if you eliminate that difference then they are in the same group. Similarly, young women is a group, within that group you have lesbians, asexuals, women who like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:45 AM
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She is a younger woman who doesn’t like older men, but there are younger women who do like older men, so she doesn’t understand such women, how could she? She’s not them. I am a man, I like women, but there are men who like men, I don’t completely understand them, how could I when our sexualities are different? Let me break this down further, a group of people are similar in all but one characteristic and certain actions are driven due to that one small difference. Now sharing majority of charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:10 AM
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I am not advocating for mandated equity like arranged marriages but we seem to be actively promoting the inequity to the extent that the system is getting broken by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:35 PM
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Don't care much about the childfree ones, bit sad for the infertile women if they want children of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:26 PM
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It’s a game of survival of the fittest. Let's disband all healthcare, law enforcement, constitution and let nature decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:23 PM
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Now imagine a white and 2" taller version of her, lesser muscle mass though because she's a triathlete
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:21 PM
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4 day drinking bender starting Wednesday? He can't do it, he has to work. Skipping class to smoke weed and eat all the pizza? Sorry, he's gotta go to the gym and get a good night's rest. Randomly hopping into a car and driving 15 hours away for an adventure? Nope, he has appointments and errands to run this weekend. What I find quite amusing is women are simultaneously not all the same and the same, depending on how it suits your narrative. The lifestyle you are describing is very obviously not …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:19 PM
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Let me tell you about this woman at my gym. She is an absolute machine. She works out so hard that she makes the machines sweat. She was working out like crazy a few days before she delivered her baby (on a Saturday) and was back in the gym on Monday and by her admission she also worked out in her hospital room on Sunday. Considering how hard she worked out throughout her pregnancy, she didn't get fat at all, she showed me her belly the week after she delivered and she still has a six pack. Abso…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:05 PM
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I don't know, this is not a usual topic of discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:55 PM
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What's rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:01 PM
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While I concede that countries doing it in 60s is order of magnitude more impressive, doing it today is impressive regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:11 PM
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Nah, I wouldn't rule out anyone for being infertile. Kids for me are optional, if the woman I am in love with doesn't want or can't have kids then I am fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:40 PM
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I will never get the whole "homosexual men like dicks" dynamic as a heterosexual man myself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:29 PM
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As I type this comment, India is attempting to land a craft on the South pole of moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:16 PM
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Yeah man, I am especially interested in the military side of aeronautics, so all things that fly and go boom give me a mental boner. Many of Swedish classmates go on to work for SAAB, some went to Volvo, Scania, GKN, and Siemens. Personally I want to found a company here and be part of the Swedish legacy of innovation. What about you? What are you up to in life? You are welcome to DM me instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:03 PM
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lolol Jag vet det
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:00 PM
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Jättebra, du är min PPD-vän nu
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:57 PM
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Studying, wbu? Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:54 PM
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I am an Indian guy who lives in Sweden
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:50 PM
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Lol wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:47 PM
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I see power imbalance here, he's likely better than her at biking and might act abusive and controlling. I think what he needs to do is grow up and get on with one of those ladies whose brain is now fully matured.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:43 PM
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She wasn't even born when he was already in school, OMG. She was 11 years old when he was 18. OMG. Peedddoooooooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:36 PM
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I also dislike how they act like their shallow preferences are more valid and noble than our shallow preferences. I hate this cherry picking where all of their preferences are acceptable but ours are not. It's soft power, and we are too much of brutes to excercise it. Being so crass about it also would make them conceal the relevant information, as is evident by discourse on many women centered subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:28 PM
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100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:00 PM
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35M, dating a 28F artist This is age gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:00 PM
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You all seem to be fighting for change when you should focus on adapting. Your actions will speak louder than words and they will learn. So if you hear someone say: Men who are not attracted to fat women's bodies are secretly gay. Smirk and still date whoever you want to date and watch them seethe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:16 PM
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Yeah, overall poor arguments from her. We do concede that there is non-zero number of men who don't care due to their particular life experiences, personality, belief systems, circumstances etc. That doesn't invalidate the existence of men who do care. But it is obviously in women's interests to lead men to believe that nobody except them cares and if they also shroud such discussions in ridicule and shaming then such discussions won't be had and men will increasingly start to believe in the lie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:06 PM
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Context matters. As he is in 50s, married, has kids, grandkids, his preferences are irrelevant to 20s, 30s men. When I had earlier pointed it out your only rebuttal was that he had a child recently, so what? Most men in his position wouldn't care either. I have slept with obviously promiscous women, I didn't give a shit because I wasn't trying to date them. Now one of them could end up on the internet and preach how men IRL don't care. Yeah sweety, we don't if it's only for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:44 PM
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Yeah, and he also likes BBWs when most guys don't so I don't think he is a representative of an average guy. Anyway, there are young men with good things going for them who don’t care either. I am sure there are, tell your sisters to go find them and leave the rest of us alone with our n-count preferences. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:05 PM
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He's 50 something with kids and grandkids, he is in a different place in life than men in 20s, 30s wanting to start a family. If I was in his place I wouldn't care about her past either because it's not like I was trying to make a family with her, a good pussy and a good personality is all what I would need.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:57 PM
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Yeah? Go on to other reddit subs and respectfully state that you found out that your GF was part of gangbangs and has previously slept with 50 men and you want to break up and watch yourself torn a new one. Or make a fictional post posing as a woman who recently got broken up with very respectfully after she disclosed her past to her ex-BF. That guy will be scorned to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:50 PM
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What is your point really? Someone practiced cuckoldry back then means it was a norm and we should emulate them now? Lemme tell you about this thing where they considered women their property. I mental gymanstics are exemplary, women were historically both opressed and constrained, while also being free to fuck however many men depending on your mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:47 PM
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It's still a conjecture, not a proof. Besides the dynamics that MIGHT work at tribe level may not work at society level. Who's to say that those women were willingly sleeping with all men from that tribe and not exchanging sex for the meat a particular person brought? Or the brothers/fathers not beating the shit out of a man who made pass at their sister/daughter? Which is why I am saying don't play this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:39 PM
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Men have to refuse to cave into pressure to explain themselves, but if they absolutely have to then take a page or two from women's playbook and invent bullshit reasons that don't make them look bad. Heck even neutralize the poison of insults by owning it pre-emptively. Just say that I feel possessive towards woman I love and the idea of other men having penetrated her is distressing to me. I mean if the logic is that previous penetrations didn't ruin her then it logically follows that future pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:34 PM
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It’s more likely that people lived in tribes and slept with different people and all worked together to raise the children, and didn’t know how impregnation worked. Sounds very speculative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:26 PM
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If we are playing the game of making shit up then I can also say "maybe none of that happened"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:24 PM
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The whole “men want low n women to assure paternity” makes no sense. Indeed, it's a weak and feeble attempt at defending a preference, when I repeatedly tell them to own it completely. The buck stops at "I don't like it", men don't need to explain themselves any further. And monogamy is like a relatively new concept in the course of human existence; it likely didn’t exist in the times of our early ancestors. It’s more likely that people lived in tribes and slept with different people and all wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:08 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:58 AM
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Her viewpoints were quite balanced and she was empathetic, at least in the beginning, perhaps the toxicity of this place made her less pleasant over time, but not to the default degree of many other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:07 PM
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I miss that user with "StacysPostWallMom" flair, I think she was a quite reasonable woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:51 PM
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/u/purplish_possum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:59 PM
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Now you are an expert on what people think as well? We have a mind reader among us boys. There are a bunch of things that goes into our heads which are not pretty and we never say them out loud to anyone because it would look pretty bad, and your conclusion is that those thoughts don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:27 PM
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a lot of men see ideals in him that go beyond grooming etc. Oof that's concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:23 PM
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So what “social status” do you think a person with a great body gets by posting that they don’t get by just having a great body to begin with?? Are you pretending to be retarded or you actually are? TBH I have never enjoyed following or engaging in discussions with you because you continue playing dumb. Therefore, let's put it to pause.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:22 PM
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Bateman is some sort of ideal for men I don't know if you are extending on what I said or countering it, but Bateman is not an ideal, some of the things he does are what men can adopt, for example impeccable dressing and grooming. Overall I find the movie a horror-comedy and very entertaining because to me it does indeed come across as deliberately absurd, or a satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:17 PM
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Beliefs are just that, beliefs, only time tells how many of them are practical. The fact that monogamy has been the backbone of the society has some solid argument in its favor. When it comes to some sexual practices that liberals want to normalise then they bring up tribal practices as if they are some gold standards, while conviently ignoring practices like cannibalism, and other shocking rituals and practices. Their shared fatherhood goes hand in hand with other practices which would be unacc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:15 PM
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Let's say I have a nice body and I take pictures and keep them on my phone/PC. This means they are private and I don't want others to see them. Social media accounts which are public have unrestricted access, if I am putting something there then it's for the whole world to see. The "own social media" account only means control over what I post, not who sees it. Then there are private social media accounts, there the content I would put is for my followers to see, again, not private. So if I am p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:09 PM
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I am 5'9" just FYI, click to apply now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:02 PM
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I don't think guys admire the murderous psychopath side of him. In my opinion some guys might admire SOME aspects of that character like self-care, stoic-ness, professional success. And as a guy who love that movie, I do it because it was an extremely entertaining movie, not because I relate to any of the characters. It's the same way many people like Gus Fring, they probably don't aspire to slit throats of their accomplices with a box cutter over minor infractions to make a point, they admire h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:01 PM
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Just to be clear, I meant the women who post their skimpily clad pictures on the internet. Nobody starts endorsing products immediately, they keep doing it to gather a large following and then start monetizing it. If you had asked them why they post these suggestive pictures during the building phase, they would deflect it by saying that it's body positivity and to celebrate my body etc, none would say, "oh, it's to gather a following so that down the line I can get endorsement deals"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:55 PM
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Yeah but the office goers don't mislead anyone that they are wearing those suits for themselves, they say that their job requires it. If e-thots were honest about it then everyone can just move on because what right do we have to dictate what they do with their body? It's just blatant lying that makes you stop and argue (if you choose to), others just know it and keep moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:50 PM
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I am a man with some possessive inclinations, not to unhealthy degree like she can't go out with her friends, or hug her guy friends but the thought of many many men had fucked her is deeply unsettling, especially if being hot was the only qualifier for those men. I am much more accepting of the sex she had in relationships or in pursuit of a relationship because I think that's part of normal human experience, but sucking dicks of guys you met at the club or on the first date is deeply depraved …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:44 PM
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including some tribes where they don't have a concept of fatherhood as we do Yeah, and they are still tribes, means they never amounted to much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:30 PM
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That’s fantastic, as a man, no complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:29 AM
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I am obsessed with OHP and this kid, who's probably between 17-19 starts showing up, initially he's lifting with bad form but comparable weights to me and now he has completely eclipsed me. This is despite me training my ass off and being very deligent about training OHP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:11 AM
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If she is in a healthy weight range then I don’t believe so. Still, nowhere near as detrimental as height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:38 PM
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I can guarantee you that thigh gaps and hips dips are not even in the same galaxy as height in the context of how much they matter. You are basically bringing up these obscure preferences which are still not dealbreakers for nearly any man on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:21 PM
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According to religious funded research with the goal of shaming folks for having sex. I don't think that liberal academia would even fund that kind of research due to the off chance that something contrarion might come out of it. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:39 PM
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True, they are amidst a significant social transition so many are struggling to adapt but eventually they will and be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:30 PM
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I think every normal person starts off with the dream/goal of spending their life with someone, having and raising children. Then there is a period of time when they are trying to find their person and failing, during that period the thought of being alone with the rest of your life is terrifying. Then a long time pass by, you realize that you did indeed spend a decade and a half searching and being still being alone, in the hindsight it wasn't that bad. Now you are adept at surviving alone and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:16 PM
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Of course, no analogy can ever be good be enough, I have never seen a man present a analogy and a woman poster here being happy with it. The main concern in engaging with such people is not cheating but that they have a history of seeking sexual novelty, and you have to believe them that they will be content with sleeping with just you and that you are somehow more special than 50 guys before you, and that the buck will stop with you. Wishful thinking in my opinion. Just because you can jump off…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:47 PM
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If the issue is, say, insecurity, it benefits the man the most to work that out, to develop greater self worth and esteem, to stop comparing himself to others, etc. I love this general categorisation of all apprehensions under one blanket term "insecurity", do you feel "insecure" when you pass a dark alley at night? Isn't that your limbic brain trying to warn you that based on your knowledge of the current events, this situation is dangerous? When hiring a former DUI offendor to be your kid's ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:54 PM
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deeper issues and problematic beliefs. Let's for a second accept this premise, that n-count related ick is due to insecurity, retro-active jealousy, sex negativity, bla bla bla etc. Alright, the diagonosis is there, but do men in any manner owe it to anyone to "fix" themselves of these "defects"? Are they allowed to continue being defective and thus rejecting people who don't fit in their defective worldview? The consequence is that they might end up alone, let's leave it to them to worry about …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:15 PM
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Instead, they tie up a bunch of energy raging about it. Now you are making shit up, Hon. Whoever is saying this is in context of a relationship, not being treated like a chad by randos. So if your solution to men is to "not get into relationships with such women" then you're essentially advocating for lifelong singledom. Which is fine, but definitely antithetical to how most guys here at least profess they want to live their lives. Cool, you don’t need to worry about the guys, their homie got th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:00 AM
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Now they are also making posts about how one day they will settle for you, treat you proportional to the desire you evoke in them, which is fraction to what Chad evoked, so be okay with it. It’s logical. Why don’t you get it and accept it? Don’t you see that I am 33 and want kids soon? Who will foot the bill? Don’t you want to create a legacy with a former hoe? Don’t you want someone to call you Daddy and come running to you when you get home? Don’t you want someone who half of the time physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:33 PM
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the existence of exceptions (my self included) disproves his point. He could make a small edit to include you and that would keep his point valid. Something along the lines of "if she is not someone who doesn’t have casual sex then none of this applies because she evaluates her partners more holistically and engages in sex in pursuit of relationship "
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:24 PM
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If you're $20 worth of happiness The true worth is what something is sold for, not what it is valued at. Because to make a sale the seller has to agree first, if he is not agreeing then whether you value it at 0.01 or $99, it doesn’t matter. You haven’t bought it, it’s not in your possession. Rest of your argument was hard to follow, so I didn’t understand a thing. We have discussed it at length that we cannot and should not expect women to settle, but you all are suddenly very logical about how…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:19 PM
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I understand this. But you are making a hell lot of arguments to make men accept that being settled for is their only choice and they should be happy with it. While to those men I am saying that if you are not happy with this fact then don’t get into such relationships with such women. Set them free in their pursuit of more Chad dicks, this is where her true happiness lies and it’s a kind and loving thing to let her find her happiness ;) Fundamentally all the pushback around N-count preferences …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:13 PM
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Let's say there is a man who does everything there is to be done by a grown man, for example, wearing clean, fitting, ironed clothes, smelling nice, shaving/trimming, regular haircut, moisturising, clean teeth, carrying gum, goes to gym, maintains healthy weight. On social aspects he is fine as well, can hold decent conversations with people from different backgrounds/age brackets and is quite neurotypical. Still doesn't have a girlfriend. What other conclusion can he draw except that maybe he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:49 PM
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What are those things to fix?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:41 PM
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Nah, that would be dumb and entitled. Fuck whoever you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:02 PM
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I find Anal disgusting, but this was a general comment made in response to one of the recent posts where the OP was insinuating that best treatment aka simping is reserved for Chads and that regular men should be happy with polite indifference. I was merely suggesting that men say No to that if they are okay with being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:58 AM
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I highly suspect that this is a rage bait post therefore my goal is not to convince but to have this public discussion so that men can gain some clarity. Coming back, I merely said that I am not entitled to Chad treatment but I never said that I don't want it. I do in fact want it and if a prospective partner is not giving it then I will bounce. I get you original claim "Don't expect Chad treatment if you are not a Chad". But guess what? We don't have to listen to you and cater to your interests…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:45 AM
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"Don't expect chad treatment if you are not a chad" in context of relationships is akin to saying: "You are asking $100 for this but I can only give you $20." At which point you have the option to not make the sale and I urge men to not make that sale. Go to bed hungry with self respect intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:28 AM
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Absolutely not. But I am myself in engineering graduate program and am fairly well read. I place absolutely no expectations on women to accomodate for me. They are free to go for whatever they want and I am free to say yes or no to whatever comes along my way. I value honestly and authenticity in relationships the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:23 AM
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Indeed, and if you notice I have not said anything about restricting your ability to sleep with Chads. I am primarily speaking to my fellow men, asking them to be cognizant of their own needs and wants, and not settle for sub-par relationships because here you are using logic like "Duh! You are not Chad so don't expect Chad treatment". The response to which is: "Duh! You are not treating me the way I want to be treated so no committment to you"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:15 AM
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Can you not love someone who has had casual sex? I can but is contingent on how much. Would you have casual sex if you could? I have had it. It was empty and made me feel numb. I think it's disgusting and I wouldn't sleep with anyone going forward unless it's in pursuit of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:07 AM
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I don't "deserve" anything. I don't have entitlements. But, I have the right to make decisions about who to spend my time, energy, resources on. If there is someone I like, they like me back and are treating me best of their abilities then I will return the favor. I can also take the lead and see if they step up. If not then adios. But how can you do that if you are having casual sex? I don't think I said anything about casual sex, so I have no response to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:59 AM
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Not at all and more power to you. Men should have no say in who you are fucking or not, however they should not agree to be cucks in my humble opinion, and as a man, I think I can speak to other men on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:31 AM
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why men who aren't Chad have an expectation that they should be treated like Chad. The expectation arises from the fact that if you are in relationship with someone then they will treat you best of their ability, but apparently that is a misguided expectation as their best treatment is reserved for Chads, therefore regular men should first drop that expectation and along with it the desire to have a relationship with such women. Then men also have to decide for themselves if they want this kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:16 AM
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Fair enough, and I have no argument to make with you, however, I would really like men to take this discourse seriously and re-evaluate their life goals and plans. Do you really want to marry and start a family with such women? If you do then in my opinion you are compromising heavily on self respect. If I am not Chad and cannot command the kind of respect, love, and devotion that a Chad commands then I don't want whatever scrapes you have to throw my way. It's better to die on your feet than li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:01 AM
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Yep, I gave it my best shot for the last two years but now I am tired and very allergic to bad behaviours. For the first time in my life, being alone has actually started to feel good and peaceful. Wake up, go to school, go to gym, come home, eat, shower, sleep, repeat. I don’t crave novelty and excitement and I don’t have a high sex drive. Therefore this lifestyle suits me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:39 AM
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Can you elaborate more on the following: losing the right to education, not allowed to work, expected to be a servant to their man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:32 PM
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The first two does and I am truly sorry for that but I don’t believe that the following is the case: losing the right to education, not allowed to work, expected to be a servant to their man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:31 PM
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That’s right cause woman’s issues like domestic violence, rape, losing the right to education, not allowed to work, expected to be a servant to their man, etc don’t really matter do they? I love it when women living in the West use Afghan women as an example of how bad their day-to-day life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:40 AM
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https://9gag.com/gag/azmv0zx
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:39 PM
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Broo you suggested me to drop 20 lbs, that's what I am working on. Will report with results in December.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:26 PM
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Other than what I suggested, maybe leaning on protein powders a little bit less, in favor of whole foods. I will try that. I’m assuming you’re female just based on your food choices (so def correct me if I’m wrong), and I don’t know how much you weigh, but the research suggests you likely don’t need more than 1g of protein per lb of body mass. I’d also need to know some other stats to evaluate whether the calories are good or not (like activity level, age, height and weight, etc. you may or may …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:47 PM
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Very interesting, in what ways can I improve my diet? And your overall rating? And as a person educated in this field, what do you think about normalisation of highly processed foods are in our regular diets?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:24 PM
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Do you work in this field? You seem knowledgable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:14 PM
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Do you use Cronometer? Plugging your diet in there would show you if you have any micronutrients deficiencies and whether your amino intake is balanced. It also does calories and such Yep, religiously https://imgur.com/a/glyn1b5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:04 PM
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Wouldn't you need to eat inordinate amount of those in order to make up for highly concentrated form of protein you're getting from pea protein? I have seen them being paired with rice protein isolate, else you'll need to eat a lot of rice and hence a lot of carbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:51 PM
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What inclusions would you suggest to round it off? The main reason why I buy pea protein is because it's much cheaper than whey and I can't afford whey. Like it costs 40% of what whey costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:46 PM
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True, but it's not the only protein source, there is tons of dairy and nuts as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:21 PM
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Women don't care about height I have posed this question to many women and in my personal experience it matters 100%. Not saying that there is no woman who wouldn't date a man shorter than her, but they are fewer, and just last night my dorm mate was saying that she has dated men shorter than her but won't anymore. She's 5'10".
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 10:43 AM
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Daniel Craig If had to guess it, I would have estimated his height to be 6'1" - 6'2". He doesn't look 5'9" to me at all, and also makes me feel happy because I am same height.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 10:41 AM
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Thanks, and the best part is that it doesn't take much time except the lunch, which I meal prep on Sunday for the whole week. All other I just pop in a blender and make a smoothie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:29 AM
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Bad bot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:24 AM
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Rate my diet, I eat this 6 days a week, on Sunday i swap out any one of them in favor of something I want to eat. In total gets me 2300 calories and ~ 160-170 gm protein. According to cronometer all vitamin and mineral intake is well above RDA. Breakfast: 0% fat Greek yogurt: 250 gm Pea Protein isolate: 25 gm chia seeds: 25 gm Blueberries+raspberries+mango+strawberries: 100 gm total Lunch: 320 gm of Oven roasted vegetables containing 7-9 different types of vegetables, ghee as the fat, and light …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:23 AM
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If it's less than a credit card width then it can be cute, if more then you more likely to be offputting than not. I had a gap in my front two teeth and it was huge insecurity of mine so I finally bit the bullet and got braces. Now I can smile with teeth showing as opposed to pursed lips smile I used to give earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:18 AM
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I have seen his videos, it’s good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:31 AM
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Check her out, https://www.instagram.com/p/CuAF1DsNGZn/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:58 AM
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A girl who can bench 70kg is in the top percentile of strength for women her size, that’s why it’s so impressive. It’s different to a guy who benches 70kg (still a great achievement for them too). My gym is home to many women in top shape and there is one who is an absolute beast, not huge, but triathlete build and she's 8-9 months pregnant and still benched 70 kg yesterday. We had a brief chat and she's going to give birth to a girl, that girl is going to be like Max Verstappen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:33 AM
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Because there are some women that go out and dance by themselves Just for the sake of argument. You said some, that means there is another remaining some who do all that undesirable stuff. So while some people could be talking about one some, you could be countering them by talking about another some. Counter them on the same some.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:00 PM
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This guy probably hasn't encountered a truly dumb woman and tried to have an actual relationship instead of wham, bam, thank you ma'am. Because the experience would be just as unpleasant as hanging out with a retarded friend. You know how you are saying one thing and he hears another thing and responds to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:58 PM
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Men fantasize about loving a woman and doing anything he can for her. True, in my peak simping days I think at some point I said to a girl that I would walk 50 miles in a day if you were waiting for me at the finish line. Not proud. But yeah, man's way of expressing love has been the willingness to do anything he can for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:32 PM
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God lord, people have said this time and again that who's saying this matters, if it's a woman you are already fucking then it's a good thing, but it's a random woman who wouldn't even go on a date with you then it's not. Which is why I drew parallel with the "nice tits" comment, if it's coming from a guy you are already fucking then it wouldn't matter, but a rando saying that would bother you. But a lot of people wrote comments similar to yours and I don't know if they are disagreeing for the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:12 PM
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Sure his looks added to it but I also think he played his cards really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:08 PM
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Good job man for standing your ground 🙌🏼 A girl showing up to a date with 2 FWB in the background is a dealbreaker in itself for me. I don’t dig this modern dick surfing way of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:07 PM
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Woman then says: "Oh.. but i already have one/two fuckbuddy's so no need for a third.. i'm however open to date you seriously." Oof, that’s rough man. Women probably don’t realise it but it’s like laughing at man’s face. A massive disrespect. At this point I think men shouldn’t even bother explaining themselves and just get up and leave after paying their portion of the bill. Also, those guys are definitely not complaining about getting effortless sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:54 PM
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She keeps showing up at his door Because how well he did it. He gave her tingles without making any overt moves and thus captured her imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:41 PM
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The last Hail Mary attempt at increasing my SMV is losing 10 kg and getting to ~12% bf, have lost about 3 kg. Been eating in a 500 calorie deficit, eating ~ 2-2.2 g/kg protein, working out 5-6 times a week, 2 hrs each time, strength training along with steady state cardio.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:50 PM
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I meant to say that you aren’t inherently boring, like X chemical may react violently to Y chemical but be neutral to Z chemical
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:47 PM
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mean the person is boring to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:41 PM
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The seduction of Connie by Paul in the movie Unfaithful is in my opinion a masterful display of the principles of seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:39 PM
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I don't have the kind of solid evidence you are seeking because nobody self-incriminates that blatantly, however, I had once come across a blog post by a woman where she described something along the lines of what I said and underneath it contained unending list of women chiming in with their reasons and consequent regret for doing something similar and feeling sorry/helpless/stuck etc. but I don't have access to it anymore, so your choice is either to believe me or think that I am making shit u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:14 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:08 PM
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it's an insult if you don't think that wives are attracted to their husbands. It's an insult if you realise that non-insignificant number of women marry men they aren't super attracted to because "I wanted to get married and have kids, he seemed great on paper and I just went with it hoping love and attraction would develop". This is one of the case where just because you personally can't imagine doing it, you refuse to believe that it happens or anyone else does it. I cannot imagine myself assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:06 PM
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Precisely, and it wasn't a post for you either. It wasn't for men who see women as sex objects, neither was it for women who use wouldn't date/sleep with the guy now but still consider him "husband material" for someone else or themselves many years later when they want to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:00 PM
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What I said: "Two people, both in 20s, relatively close in age as is common, spending their 20s together developing a relationship and then finalising it into a marriage when they are in late 20s, early 30s." What you heard: "men just want to fuck young women and don't care about personality or value or anything beyond looks." Don't bother replying, I won't respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:31 PM
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If you heard it from me, then point it out, if you heard it from someone else then take it to them and focus on countering what I said if you so feel inclined to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:01 PM
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She was also 34 when they divorced and I hear women's SMV plummets at that age on here. Gosh! It's relative to her younger self. As you said, she looked like a model, so she'd always be top tier in her own and adjacent cohort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:33 PM
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I find it kind of fucked up men view being viewed as being someone that a woman wants to spend the rest of her life with and fuck exclusively a bad thing. From my perspective, in that situation the man feels like an agent to fulfill her goals of having kids and raising them in a two parent, two income, relatively stable household. He feels like there isn't inherently anything special about him because he's being selected at a juncture in her life when her desparation to start a family is highest…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:40 PM
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Is something wrong with me? I would freak out totally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:16 PM
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Full body massage, the regular therapeutic kind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:55 PM
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So far guys haven't pitched in and all women who have responded seem to be fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:38 PM
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If your partner went for a massage from a massage therapist of the opposite sex, would you be upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:39 AM
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I am a straight guy and this guy is smart as hell and quite accomplished so high value in my eyes and he is not bad looking at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:19 PM
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7-7.5
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:59 PM
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Let’s not play these blame games and who is worse, if you determine something is a bad idea then don’t do it. Hedonism is central to Western culture and values, therefore something like lifelong marriage that requires sacrifices, withstanding conflicts and boredom is maybe not your cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:30 PM
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Very good 👍🏻, however, I would recommend also including squats if you are not doing them already
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:09 PM
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I had said this at the end implying that marriage is a bad idea, so, if men check out of marrying then so will women, there, solved your problem I don't know what's worse, "never married" or "divorced", I will vote for the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:05 PM
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I enjoyed them. Then looked up what’s a good number for someone my age and weight, apparently 79 kg for 1 rep, or its equivalent 50 kg for 17 reps puts you at intermediate level. And I obviously managed it so I was little surprised because I started training legs barely 2 months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:02 PM
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How much do you all leg curl? I tried it for the first time today and did 50 kg for 17 reps after rest of the leg workout (paused ass to grass, touch and go ass to grass, and pistol squats)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:53 PM
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Same height as me, 20 lb lighter. So, 5'9" and 135-155 lb. (174~176 cm, 60-70 kg)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:13 PM
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The reason why women initiate most divorces is because most women are in charge of duties. If a guy cheats on a woman and she filed for divorce that counts as “her initiating divorce”. Even if the marriage is slowly crumbling the woman is usually the one who had to put the logistical work to “initiate divorce” This is the most cited reason to explain the disproportionately high initiation rate and I think it is not sufficient to explain such disparity and somehow men are still held responsible f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:52 PM
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Congratulations that it is working out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:07 PM
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they’re 40 and without a legacy of children I am no Royal Prince who must produce a hier, I am simply a son of a farmer and there won't a great loss to humanity if that linage ends. However, it is more important to me to live my life by the values that appeal to me. If marriage doesn't appeal to me now then I am not marrying now with the fear that I might go on to regret it later. You make choices and pay the price.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/23 02:05 PM
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Am I unreasonable? If you can pull it off then it cannot be unreasonable. It is unreasonable if you cannot after your best efforts AND you complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:33 PM
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I don't know exactly what to tell you because average guys are perfectly capable of being mean and ass, but I have never had a woman show this level of interest on an app, either they straight up don't respond or reply with closed ended answers, which makes me think that people behave differently when they have plethora of options and that guy was a perfect example of that. I am not excusing his behavior, merely stating what abundance of options do to you, especially when you feel meh about that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:58 PM
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It is unfortunate, I am sorry you had to experience it. Perhaps the regular sex education can include these concepts as well, how to handle rejection gracefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:18 PM
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Men take a rejection well and don’t become angry or aggressive or violent or start stalking the woman that rejected him and don’t turn his rejection into “all woman are whores” etc How common is it? I have personally never done or witnessed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:52 AM
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If you run for president, I will vote for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:51 AM
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And North East Indians look like Asians and are taunted as such
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:07 PM
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That is unfortunately the reality for a vast majority of guys. Put it up as yet another reason to never get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:04 PM
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I wouldn’t care to feel bad for someone else being a dumbass. But I do concede that a lot of Indian guys’ dressing, grooming and hygiene levels are not up to the mark. I can clearly see that when I look at YouTube videos from back home. Without doing the bare minimum my fellow brethren shouldn’t even feel sorry for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:02 PM
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Checking in 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 it should make me feel bad but it doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:56 PM
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It’s all good but the problem is finding women who think like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:39 AM
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Good point but the genie cannot be put back in the bottle, you can mainly make pragmatic choices to deal with the current realities. If 50% of the marriages are ending up in a divorce and no-fault divorce is a thing then what even is the point? I simply don’t understand. Yeah, you get some social brownie points but how do they help or their absence hinders? Being "divorced" is negative brownie points and the risk comes attached with the brownie points. I am speaking mainly from the utilitarian p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:25 PM
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Marriage, in the traditional sense, has lost its meaning. Til death do us part - yeah, no. THIS. PRECISELY. I understand people in conservative societies getting married because their threshold for divorce is stratospheric, but in the society when "no more tingles" is enough grounds for divorce, it is batshit insane to get married. Go to TwoXChromosomes and people there literally egg people on to divorce on the most trivial bullshit. It is absolutely ridiculous that if it is so meaningless and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:48 PM
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So men who advocate for the abolition of marriage are willing to stay with the mother of their children, right? I, for one, believe that the only reason a man could consider marrying is if he really wants to have children. If not he should get a vasectomy asap and never marry, or he is ambivalent about having children and is not married by a certain age threshold, let’s say 40, he should just get a vasectomy and never marry. Also the woman he is selecting to have kids with, he better have a long…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:39 PM
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If you pay attention for long enough you figure out what’s going on, so I wouldn’t say that they are succeeding. First you are like, oh ok, they like/don’t like this, this, and this reason. Although you could start an argument over those reasons but still, it doesn’t appear as if the woman has a moral failing for those reasons and they are begrudgingly accepted because what else can you do? Force them to be with men they don’t want to be with? Then men start saying we don’t like this, this, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:01 PM
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Possum is top dude no doubt, and WilliamWyattD as well. But let’s just say Lift is not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:25 PM
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This is my nth alt and I had never interacted with him one-on-one until the current alt and I always used to dutifully block him and lillith as soon as I get here because these two are just plain annoying. Then I had a one-on-one with him with this one and I honestly think he's retarded. It almost feel like we are having two separate discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:02 PM
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Oh my god that guy! He has something to say about everything and 99% of the time it's completely useless. He must be really popular in his friends circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:08 PM
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Yesterday I was riding home from the gym and on the way I saw my friend walking with his friend (a girl), we talked some and we were discussing how she met her boyfriend. She had met him at the club we frequent to but that's irrelevant, the relevant part is that at some she acknowledged in plain words that at first she thought he was very average and that most girls can have any man they want if they take the first step and I guess the reverse is not true. This came after a girl rode by who my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:35 PM
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iSeCuRe, GeT tHeRaPy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:01 AM
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If we were really not supposed to eat fries we should’ve died
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:59 AM
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I think it’s one of the easiest virtue signaling people can engage in because it doesn’t require anything substantial on their part so they milk the shit out it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:50 AM
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A) They don’t bother me in the sense that I want them to stop doing what they want with their bodies or with other consenting adults. B) They are disproportionately represented in the media, even in countries which do not have laws prosecuting/harassing them. They can live normal lives. C) This ridiculously long jumbled string of alphabets is comical and all I was saying was they could consider something smaller, all encompassing. D) Is their identity so shallow and fragile that they have to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:34 AM
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Surveys in Western cultures find, on average, that about 93% of men and 87% of women identify as completely heterosexual, 4% of men and 10% of women as mostly heterosexual, 0.5% of men and 1% of women as evenly bisexual, 0.5% of men and 0.5% of women as mostly homosexual, and 2% of men and 0.5% of women as completely …..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:46 AM
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I think the lagbtqia2s thing is getting unwieldy and frankly ridiculous. They could adopt something simple like Non-Standard Sexuality (NSS) and stop being clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:47 AM
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Nope, I have never been to USA, you might be mistaking me for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:16 PM
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Lolol! Amen to fucking some female French Canadians 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:13 PM
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Probably they are but I am an extreme late bloomer, I lived in rural India until I was 28 and then I moved to Sweden, so these subtle mating rituals are alien to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:12 PM
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I can be charming but I am very hesitant to flirt with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:06 PM
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Cool man, do you speak French?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:05 PM
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I am a clueless creature for the most part, last year I was talking to a guy and his friend, a girl came up to me and started talking, I thought she was his friend so I was just being nice and polite, after a while she left. I meet the same girl at a house party many months later and she tells me I smell really nice, what perfume is it? I say "Indian sweat" being cheeky, she laughs it off and goes away, then the girl sitting next to me says "I think she likes you". It wasn’t until many weeks lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:04 PM
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Not my first fumble lol, but how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:56 PM
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What really is game? I just don’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:56 PM
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Are you Indian as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:54 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:51 PM
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A funny conversation I just recalled, many months ago I was dancing by myself on the dance floor and a girl came and started dancing near me and looked at me intermittently. Me: Nice dress Her: WHAAATTTT Me: (gesturing to her dress) Nice dress Her: Oh, I thought you said "Nice breasts" Me: (on the defensive) No No No, I said nice dress Her: Haha yeah, that would be an awkward way to start. I am like oh.. okay Me: haha true, but they are nice still. Her: haha thanks, btw I am going to the bar to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:47 PM
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I am 30 but in grad school, I do get a few matches here a there with pretty girls but the amount of effort one has to put is too much. IRL I have indeed done much better because (not to toot my own horn) I think I have good social skills but IRL opportunities to meet new people aren’t that many either. But doesn’t matter, I honestly feel fine being by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:42 PM
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Well, I am 3-4 out of those, which might explain why I got so few matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:13 PM
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I have had crushes when I was in 2nd grade and I have always been drawn to boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:41 PM
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6 times, approximately 2 hrs each time. 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:24 PM
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I agree on all counts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:30 PM
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Okay, don’t criminalise, only monetary reparations and let the man off the hook and go after the baby daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:28 PM
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due to their parents mother’s bad decisions. Okie. Criminalised, no, but there should be financial repatriation once the child is over 18 (as to not disadvantage child) That’s a start but extremely tricky to implement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:11 PM
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Still waiting for an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:57 PM
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I don’t treat it as gospel, more like a random person telling me stuff, ultimately I don’t use it for anything important and double check. For example, I asked it about Sprint format in F1, or the blower they put in take ports, it answered those well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:56 PM
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I think one's assets should be protected in cases of infidelity or abuse of the other party. I agree, criminalising would be too much, but then the onus will lie on the other party to prove that cheating happened. It will get messy and in some cases might not be proved, hence, don’t marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:54 PM
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I know it is a fancier auto correct but I have had numerous discussions with it and in general have found them sensible and often useful therefore I use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:45 PM
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As an AI model developed by OpenAI…. Erm.. cough cough…. My apologies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:39 PM
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It’s not so much positive attitude as it is emotional regulation, you feel inclined to respond in a certain way but realise that it will be counterproductive so you calibrate accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:36 PM
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Dear sir, you are committing a logical fallacy where you are attacking the source of argument instead of the argument itself. If you can counter the stand-alone argument then you are welcome else your contribution will not be missed. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:34 PM
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Yeah, usually home and the belongings contained within, which I think is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:31 PM
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8 countries and 9 American states recognise them and even then it’s not as bad as proper marriage, so I think men outside of these few places should think long and hard before marrying. What do you think about paternity fraud? Should that be decriminalised?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:29 PM
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You can’t have any fruitful discussions when you lead your argument with that. It will only evoke hostility in their responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:25 PM
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I understand, it’s more of a society problem than law problem because it would be very hard to do justice when shit hits the fan. Therefore, men must be cognisant of what they stand to gain and lose when marrying. Like why marry when you can cohabit? There is no great upside but massive downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:23 PM
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I think the institution of marriage should be disbanded if it is so easy to violate it without any repercussions. It’s like having a 1’ tall fence. Or at the very least don’t put up that joke of a 1’ tall fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:19 PM
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or not get married. I think this is the way to go and I hope more men come to their senses. The conversation needs to be started without it having misogynistic undercurrents. However the way you described it is very scary because you are handwaving it away so casually, "oh it’s complex and takes too much time and resources so let’s split it in the middle and call it day". This is not justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:14 PM
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Very nice 👍🏻 Let’s hear what the ladies have to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:10 PM
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Don’t talk shit about nursing/teaching, it’s an honest and good work that adds value to the society and I rate it much higher than someone busting their assess to make corporations richer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:05 PM
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I mean, someone punching someone might cause damage that heals in a day or two but could land them in jail for assault and battery, but how does emotional damage that cheating causes goes unpunished? I am not saying that throw them in jail, but that should at the very least taken into consideration during divorce proceedings during alimony/asset division.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:53 PM
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I had heard guys go on and on about no fault divorces and how there is nothing in it for the men in marriages but I didn’t pay much attention to it. Today when interacting with ChatGPT I learnt that your wife could cheat on you and still take half of your shit and probably kids as well. Absolutely mind boggling. Why would you knowingly get into something in which you stand to gain so little in terms of material possessions but stand to lose a lot, again, in material possessions. Just do it the S…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:49 PM
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We have a civilised society because we have placed a lot of checks and curbs on “basic instincts". Cheating on your partner is still acting on a basic instinct but is considered wrong in most circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:24 PM
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Why is cheating on a partner not a crime yet? Especially if you’re married because you entered in a contract and cheating is a breach of contract. Also, someone stealing/defrauding you, or slapping/punching you can potentially get them jail time but cheating on your spouse and giving them lifelong trauma goes punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:21 PM
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Really? Man it’s quite ridiculous. And then one day your parents will set you up on arranged marriage and you will be evaluated on your resume and payslip. Which city do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:43 PM
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Do you also refuse treatment for diseases? Because it’s evolution trying to select the fittest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:25 PM
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How are you getting burnt?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:24 PM
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but if you have something going wrong for you Lol, like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:44 PM
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It's a completely logical evolutionary adaptation Before I present what I intended to, I would like to know if we should not interfere with evolulotionary adpatations?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:41 PM
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Well, except information shared my friendships do have all other characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:21 PM
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Why? I mean I only talk about things with people which are relevant to them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:55 PM
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Actually no one in particular, I compartmentalize the information I share among different people. So, it's the case of blindfolded people touching an elephant and describing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:33 PM
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While I haven't had much success in terms of dating and relationships, I grew up with a truly outstanding mother and amazing sisters/cousins, so fundamentally I cannot and do not hate women at all. Heck I don't even hate on women who reject me, if she was even courteous enough to verbalise her unwillingness to go out with them then I remain cordial with her if I see her again. If she straight up ghosted me then I don't speak to her again. But still I don't hate them. If you acknowledge their hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:06 PM
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Nope, because after having spent nearly all of my life being alone, I think I have gotten pretty good at it and I have started to enjoy my own company and the freedom that comes with singledom. So someone has to add significantly to my life for me to give it up. Else flight/racing sims, weightlifting, RC planes, etc are plenty to keep me busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:09 PM
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Correct me if I am wrong because I am not a native here, but what you are describing is how it works when dating in social circles, but quite significant number of Swedes date through dating apps as well and there it looks like more American style and I would assume that multi dating would be more common there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:05 AM
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I lived in India for the first 28 years of my life, I honestly have no freaking clue about dating in India since I lived in a village/small town. But a little bit that I know, these western problems either don’t apply or don’t apply to same scale, especially outside of upper/upper-middle class in big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:15 PM
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Same, but I moved here so it’s extra hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:00 PM
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These are my personal views.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:37 AM
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And that I prefer tall and fit women means I am secure in my masculinity? Tbh, that’s how I have always seen it, you have to be very grounded in your masculine to date a tall woman and which is why I prefer them. Or if they are shorter they better be training their asses off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:53 PM
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Nah, if she is not taking steroids then it enhances her feminine silhouette, improves posture, makes the tits and ass stand out and gives a small waist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:50 PM
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Yep, very tough. I think the language barrier as well as being culturally outsider adds to the challenge, and looks standards are already pretty damn high. Swiping on Tinder feels like swiping through a catalogue of models.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:40 PM
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I have approached women as tall as 6’6", except two tallest girls, one being 6’4" and one being 6’6", all others who are up to 6’1" really have no problems with finding guys because this is Sweden and tall guys are aplenty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:28 PM
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I like tall women. I am 5’9" and would be fine with someone up to 6’ but would she be fine with me? 1/10 chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:01 PM
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I am terribly sorry but I do not find this reply relevant to what I said. I am a part time gym-bro myself as I spend 10-12 hrs at the gym every week and fit women turn me on like no other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:47 PM
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Well, with that we lay rest to this discussion. Good game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:22 PM
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Nah! If it's sexist to make assumptions that a promiscous woman is disloyal, then so is that a man dating a younger woman (and I am not saying 18-20) then he wants to control/manipulate her. You are passing a judgement on an individual you don't know, a dynamic you are unaware of. why do you need acceptance though? just keep your preferences to yourself and move on with life I clearly stated that my goal is not to convince you hence I don't need your acceptance. My goal is to demonstrate to men …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:10 PM
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Jesus Christ either it is a bad faith argument or you lack reading comprehension. I said earlier that man wanting to protect means him vs the threat, it doesn't matter if the woman is 5'2" or 6'2" but from woman's logic, 5'10" man can protect a 5'2" woman but not 6'2". Then they revert to feeling feminine hamstering which is ridiculous to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:44 PM
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Ahahaha "My preferences are acceptable while I will assign immorality to yours" top kek It is misandrist to operate under the assumption that he likes younger women to control and manipulate them and not because they are simply more attractive. About sex. He would be wrong if he shamed or insulted her. But just like there is nothing wrong with being short and doesn't make someone less of a man yet millions of men are out of consideration mainly because of being short. Yet if a man wants to enfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:40 PM
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Patriarchal obsession? It's the women saying they want to feel protected not men saying that they want to protect small women because it's absurd as it's man vs threat and size of the woman is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:27 PM
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Now go on some other sub and say that you are a man and you want to date a younger woman and someone who is not promiscuous and they will come for your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:25 PM
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That's the point I was trying to make, many of our preferences/revulsions are innate and cannot be explained properly. Therefore, if women can exercise their preferences unabated then men must as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:20 PM
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A while ago I had essentially debunked the "protected" part so women who responded fell back on the feminine part. Here's the thread for your reference: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14zk9qz/daily_community_chat_megathread/js2vd4f/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:09 PM
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When women say they prefer tall/taller men because it makes them feel feminine, there is usually no proper counter argument, however, if a man is found wanting something in a woman to feel masculine, he'd face a lot of ridicule. Any ideas why that is so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:55 PM
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What makes them more loyal than non-sluts in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:32 PM
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Fair enough but I wouldn't like to form a relationship with either of those. Would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:24 PM
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I am unable to discern. What is the difference and how to tell them apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:50 PM
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Which is why I drink 3 smoothies a day and eat one solid meal for lunch. So one smoothie for breakfast, then eat lunch, one smoothie 1 hr before working out and one after working out. Optimization and streamlining of processes is my mantra.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:18 PM
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Bro 7-10 is still quite moderate, there are girls with 30+ body count at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:12 PM
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Which is why I train in the evening and go hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:11 PM
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I personally don't need any crutch to justify my preference. I don't like it and would not up with it and I have no explanation on offer. When you start leaning on "reasons" those reasons are open to scrutiny and attacks. Just stand on the legs of your right to self-determination and you are bullet proof. They will be very afraid to come after your right to self-determination because then they will make their own right to self-determination vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:01 PM
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I appreciate your solidarity with your hoe sisters but you are misguided. Most guys are A-okay with a girl having a few ex-boyfriends, any normal well adjusted person who has the option to pursue a relationship would do so, man or woman. The opposite of hoes is not virgin and majority of guys are not asking for virgins, they are just saying no to hoes. So you being virgin will get plus points mainly with virgin fetishizers, which most guys are not, but if you also want to rule out guys who don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:56 PM
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Us guys really need to shut the fuck up about n-count because sluts are gonna slut but they will start lying as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:36 PM
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I have to give it to you that your argument formulation can easily penetrate gullible minds because it is hinging on demonstrating how our priorities change as we age using some relatively harmless examples. You could have also used fondness for comics, certain type of movies/music and the reader would be like hmmm it's true, I have changed in a lot of ways as well and don't do many things that I used to do. Maybe she's right. Maybe I shouldn't care if mother of my child participated in gangbang…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:35 AM
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I know right? I have just thought about it that actually most women going through hoe phase are actually not as oblivious as they later pretend to be. A 21 yo current hoe who wants children some day knows that she has time until mid-30s so why not have fun now? When she's 32 and interviewing Billy Betas about the position of her housemate she will let him believe that she didn't know any better and her priorities have changed. Nope. She knew she could afford that lifestyle then and can't now so …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:57 AM
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True and fair point but men can decide for themselves if they want to cater to such women. Let's have a pact. We stop telling you how to live your life and you stop telling us how we do ours. So fuck around all you want in your 20s but we want to hear nothing about why it shouldn't matter TO US. Who gave you the power to decide for yourself and for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:02 AM
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Great example, me on the other hand identified my likes, interests, values very early in my life 14-16 and over time I have evolved in the same direction. So I have matured but not changed. Who is to guarantee that the person who has a history of changing in arbitrary ways will not do so in the future? Also, in these situations women are essentially asking men to take them up for their word and promise that they have changed and disregard a vast history to draw any conclusions. Quite convenient …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:56 AM
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I would advise against forming your opinion based on that. I have never voiced my revulsion for promiscuous women with any woman I have slept with. NEVER HAVE NEVER WILL. So one of them could end up on the internet saying it doesn't matter based on the men I have been with. Most men who are not dumbasses know when to keep their mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:13 AM
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Not with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:58 PM
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What does winning at life look to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:54 PM
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I would have to hazard a guess and say that most of them are Swedish because he was born and raised here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:51 PM
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He is of Slavic origin, about 5'9" and built like a refrigerator. 100 kg of pure muscle and unshakable confidence because he is a trained fighter and has been around the world. He has quite a bit of ghetto in him and is very polarising. But his values are good and has spiritual inclinatios, he is like if I get into a relationship then cheating is not an option. What kind of weak ass bitch are you to commit and then cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:43 PM
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Same, I am a FOB in Sweden. If there is a message you want to put out it is that be the best version of yourself and there is no one above or below you. Being really good independently without requiring a stamp of approval of any particular group of people is what we are going for. You work out, eat right, maintain great hygiene, groom and dress well, speak with confidence and conviction, treat everyone with respect and kindness and that's basically all there is to it. After that leave to the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:38 PM
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I know right? It doesn't improve the situation, it only makes it worse for everyone else because you are planting that narrative. People are born with different gifts, advantages, and handicaps, we have to work with what we got to the best of our abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:13 PM
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It's all good but man I feel second hand embarrassment when my fellow brown dudes talk about white girls in particular. Don't do it. It isn't good and doesn't look good. White girl is a girl first and her approval is not more valuable than an equivalent black chick or a girl of any other ethnicity. And because you are Indian doesn't mean you are inherently lesser than others. Work out, dress well, smell nice, and feel like a million dollars. Don't try to whitewash yourself. Be the best Indian du…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:57 PM
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I tend to agree here because I am such a man who is overly analytical and thus try to box people into models. I also took that big 5 personality trait quiz and did indeed rate high on neuroticism. I also have an anxious disposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:22 PM
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Damn, I didn't say it but pygmy goats are what I am eyeing as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:22 PM
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Since she has covered all the pain points Red Pilled men talk about, she would stand fantastic chance with men of her age cohort, I personally would have no qualms in dating her and would see her with great respect and admiration. Sure she's not as hot as her 22 yo self but as you said, her youth was not spent chasing dick, drinking and partying. So, I won't hold her age against her. Besides, I have somewhat similar life story where I spent early to late 20s pulling my family out of debt and did…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:21 PM
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I have read numerous books about pick up and watched Julian RSD's Pimp Series, and I don't know if I am retarded or something but the only take away for me was to get your anxiety in control and just have fun with the girl you are talking to. On a more advanced level, it covers escalation and logistics. But I don't recall reading about giving her backhanded compliments or being mean to a stranger for no reason. Or I might have and it didn't stick, I don't know. It's probably dimwits who think in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:42 PM
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Indeed, people can be different in compatible ways and that would be fun as they can enjoy each other's interests from time to time while pursuing their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:57 AM
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But I don't have them rn, I want them one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:54 AM
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Sad noises
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:13 PM
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Is it outside the city?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:06 PM
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Alright alright, she can live there and share chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:04 PM
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Well, I think it ties well with what I said next. I shared what I consider a good life, which is clearly not traveling the world and living in a penthouse, it is to chill and someone similar might resonate with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:01 PM
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I would prefer to live alone tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:56 PM
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Damn bro, but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:55 PM
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Tbh I life is quite mundane so outside of these things I don't do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:52 PM
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What do you mean by tech/nerd type of person? I didn't discuss the fact that inside the home I plan to build a flight sim and a racing sim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:39 PM
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I stand corrected, but was it used properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:37 PM
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Thanks man, it was refreshingly useful read and actually made sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:36 PM
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Lemme test this out for a week or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:23 PM
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Notice the Oxford comma
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:22 PM
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🥺 👉👈
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:20 PM
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I think it may have killed millions but prevented 100s of millions from dying because major powers are too afraid to go to war with each other. Cue the current Russo Ukrainian war. NATO would have steamrolled Russia if it wasn't for nukes. Heck look at what Uncle Sam to countries that don't have nukes. I think it's a net positive, besides it also facilitated nuclear energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:19 PM
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I am 30 now, I have quit trying hard to appear cool. Being sincere and honest is the way to go moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:10 PM
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Yeah, as if women stay out of askmen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:07 PM
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Millions seems a bit of an exaggeration. Besides, he didn't kill anyone. Ironsmith who made the knife/sword didn't kill, the wielder did
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:05 PM
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Rate my Tinder bio My idea of adventure is taking a brutally long hike, or challenging myself in some way. I love working out, and listen to audiobooks often. I want to live in a cozy little home (preferably red) with antique decor, a huge garden with apple trees and preferably have some rabbits or even a goat or two. I think I will get along the best with someone who is chill and likes to revel in the simple pleasures of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:03 PM
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Touché
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:44 PM
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From the way you are framing it, it obviously doesn't make sense and most women are really not limiting their sexual behavior for a future partner, they are busy living in today and fucking whoever they want and can. So this argument is somewhat redundant, especially in Western society. But to expect all men to be totally on board with your life choices is asking for too much. You do as you please with your body and with a consenting adult but if based on this someone wants to rule you out of da…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:00 PM
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After witnessing it for the umpteenth time I am starting to believe that women fundamentally don't understand what analogies mean, because dating and sex is equal only to dating and sex. Analogies which are absolute equivalent to the process in question do not exist because no two processes are identical and nitpicking on the ways the analogy is different from the process is just bad faith argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:42 PM
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This is a good kind of circumstantial morality, other one would be to kill someone while defending your family. For most people, men included, morality is not this cut and dry. A while ago I saw a prime example of circumstantial morality displayed by several female PPDers where they condoned cheating by women when they were cheated upon. To the male posters it was baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:31 PM
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I can relate to that and my conclusion is that some people are more inert than others, even though there is nothing wrong with them. In a way it's not your personal failing, it's just the way you are and if by luck you haven't come across people who you just click with then people will ascribe all sorts of moral failings to you to explain your lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:25 PM
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Would you say it would be harder to trust someone for whom morality is circumstantial?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:19 PM
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Can you theorize why most female responders to this question have been supportive and male have not been?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:08 PM
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just to have a wild/fun experience Yeah I think we differ on what constitutes wild/fun experience. Porn is degenerate, creating porn even more. I think spreading your butthole on camera is a person whose brain is a scrambled mush.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:47 PM
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I have read many interviews of porn stars, their mothers seem to be far more accepting of their choices and in some instances, started managing their business, but fathers almost never got on board with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:15 PM
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if she felt she had to do it for money and had no other choice - mega disappointed. If she's just doing it for the luls, more acceptable. I feel more in reverse, I would be understanding and disappointed in myself first if she did it because she really needed money. But if she did it for lulz then I want nothing to do with her anymore because she's clearly nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:14 PM
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It will obviously break my heart but she will most likely be disowned with instruction to never contact me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:16 PM
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Look man, I am of the belief that pursuit of relationship is different from pursuit of material possessions, as it involves will and consent of another individual, therefore, "trying hard" is not appropriate in my opinion. The only improvement you should subject yourself to with regards to women is the ability to express your personality in a true and unrestrained manner, after which leave it up to her to take it or leave it. Playing games or acting in the way which is contrary to who you are is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:35 PM
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What kind of coffee do you like? How do you have it? I love espresso based drinks with a little bit of Oat milk to take the edge off and add a nutty flavor to it. Cow milk in coffee feels absolutely disgusting in comparison even though I consume shit ton of dairy otherwise, so it's not like I don't like milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:05 PM
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I can't "enjoy" iced coffee, as soon as it hits my lips I chug the fuck out it. It's hot coffee that I can sit down with and enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:00 PM
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It definitely didn't go as they hoped/planned but West has left them no choice. What do they do now? It's sunk cost fallacy and they might end up the same way as they feared so no backsies now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:37 PM
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It is retarded to expect women to occupy top positions in the same proportion as women when they are not occupying the bottom positions in comparable proportions. You can't have same number of CEOs and senators when the number of women starting businesses and getting into politics at grassroots level is much smaller. Do you want them to be injected to the top or given undue favors to make up for the numbers on the top? It might come across as misogynistic but I am arguing from statistics. Let's …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:13 PM
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Only in the context of the ease of finding someone to have sex/relationship with. Otherwise absolutely not. Overall I would still choose to be a Billy beta over a top tier Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:01 PM
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Russia is the monkey with the bomb. Says the only country to have ever used it. Funny. I can see why a country which was invaded by Russia years ago might want to get more protection for itself. Hey BTW, Pakistan and China have invaded and are occupying parts of Indian state of Kashmir, where do we send the NATO application? All three of us are nuclear states so we tread carefully. I am pretty sure China would go absolutely NUTS if by some miracle India is admitted to NATO by the same token you …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:54 PM
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I think it could vary society to society. In all my hookups, they were willing to jump on the dick way earlier than giving head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:44 PM
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I think they were in a lose-lose situation. Ukraine in NATO/EU threatened both their security and their purse and Ukraine was on the way to replace Russia as EU's top gas supplier from the gas they found in the Black Sea and were exploring with Eurpean help. On the other hand, why the fuck they want to be in NATO? Would you be okay with Mexico, Canada joining an alliance formed by Russia, China, NK, Iran? Even if they claim it be purely defensive alliance? Russia poses no threat to NATO, NATO is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:38 PM
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I like Oriental, and Hamilton watches. Look at this bad boy ($300ish): https://www.amazon.se/-/en/gp/product/B0B6VL9BXS/ref=ox_sc_saved_image_1?smid=ANU9KP01APNAG&psc=1 and this ($1000is): https://www.hamiltonwatch.com/en-int/h38475751-american-classic-intra-matic-auto.html
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:30 PM
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I know right? Vagina doesn't have tastebuds. You are literally putting the dong in your mouth. You can taste it, you can smell it. What can be more personal and submissive than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:24 PM
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America literally orchestrated it and letting Russia stomp and take over Ukraine is obviously not what the plan was. The plan was to lure Russia into the conflict, flood Ukraine with as much weaponary as possible to draw out the battle and fight Russia on their behalf, weaken it, and hope for its disintigration. Quite dangerous game to play against a country with largest nuclear stockpile. Full disclaimer: This is my interpretation of it and feel free to call it a conspiracy theory but I simply …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:20 PM
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Nope, I am hearing it just now. What? How? Why? What was I even talking about until now? OMG I feel so stupid. I take back everything I said. Pootin bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:50 PM
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Not yet, there is still a lot of money to be made for the friends in the military industrial complex. MIC is heavily entrenched in your economy; largest economy in the world. You need constant wars to keep those gears whirring. What would poor America even do in a world without wars?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:47 PM
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Taller men are seen more as a leader? Would that justify keeping women out of leadership positions? "I like tall men, they stand out and other men look up to them. They are like natural leaders". "Alright Susie, no promotion for your 5'6" ass, the 5'9" Kevin would be a more inspiring leader" I am half joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:32 PM
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isnt having bad genetics Bad genetics in my opinion is something that primarily affects your survival/quality of life. So congenital disease or pre-disposition to diseases is bad genetics. Being 5'6" isn't bad genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:26 PM
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Tell me more about your exploits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:18 PM
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I don't know what you are talking about but I do not live in America and do not watch American news. I am Indian and India didn't take a side in this conflict largely due to our close relationship with Russia and recognition of Western hypocrisy. But we do sympathize with Ukraine and do send them non-military aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:15 PM
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I had tons of success in Sweden Yeah, Swedes tend to have quite polarised opinion on Americans it's usually grouped in Yay! or Nay! Instead of being neutral, like for example say, Belgium or Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:05 PM
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Okay so you have done a whole bunch of fucked up shit but not annexed land, so you will stick to "show me an example of when we annexed land"? Poland is losing its shit and being overzealous because it is in NATO, I am pretty sure it would act in a more agreeable manner if it wasn't. You tell me, how would you react if Mexico, or Canada started getting cozy with China/Russia. You didn't sleep well when USSR stationed their nukes in Cuba, and you expect Russia to just stand and smile while you ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:56 PM
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Well, India has nukes too so ummm... nope. If we can send stuff to moon and mars we can damn well send it to any corner on the planet if we want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:46 PM
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Obviously, as a third party I know it's a war between empires and Ukraine is a pawn. I am glad you admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:38 PM
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You ever hear the phrase two wrongs don't make a right? That's the only rebuttal Americans have when their history is pointed out. Two wrongs don't make a right but it seems quite convenient for you to be able to commit your wrong and stop others from doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:37 PM
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Someone taking Ukraine's side is not problematic because Ukraine is not the bad guy here and they deserve all the help and sympathy. My point was that situation was orcherstrated by West, led by USA primarily. I am not supporting Russia's action and if I had a dollar to give I would give it to Ukraine's effort to protect and fight for their soverignity. There is nothing nobler than fighting for your motherland.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:33 PM
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I have no monkey in this circus, you can send every last piece of military hardware in the world into Ukraine and cannot push Russia out of Ukraine if they don't want to leave. What's stopping them from using tactical nukes and breaking Ukrainian spirit? What will you do then? "Turn Moscow into glass"? Drown their entire Black Sea fleet? Send boots on the ground? I refuse to believe that YOU would have the balls to start an all out war with Russia at that point. You can act belligerent only with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:29 PM
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That's a big yikes from me boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:14 PM
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Nah, this is one of the several motives Russian actions are painted with to distract people from West's action that led to this. You need all the lies to maintain "we are the good guys it's Pootin who's being an ass". You have a history of "liberating" every country whose leadership didn't align with your interests, you have been behaving the exact same way as Russia is towards Ukraine but since you control the narrative, they are the baddies (I think they are the baddies, I am not excusing them…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:13 PM
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I feel for the Ukranians but this war shouldn't have happened in the first place. My views, unsolicited and conflicting, are that it's West's proxy war and Ukraine is a pawn. Russia should have shown restrain and chose not to attack but West could have also minded its own fucking business and left two of them alone. I know you guys (primarily USA and UK) have some idols surrounding liberty, justice, democracy but given your history you sound very phony. From outsider's perspective you behave exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:53 PM
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I love it because it has 3 layers. (Pardon me but I like talking about all 3 layers even if you already figured them out). Ken came (nutted) in a different box (pussy). Ken came (packaged) in a different box (so they didn't have the chance to have sex) Ken came (nutted) in a different box (packaging).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:40 PM
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It's my favorite joke so I told it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:32 PM
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why i eat box Why are there no pregnant barbies? Because Ken came in a different box.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:21 PM
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Bro it was long winded way to say that to have a sugar daddy relationship you need to be rich. Well duh!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:20 PM
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But women can't? I don't like casual sex, but I have done it, but I found out after having engaged in it, similarly, I am willing to make concession for a girl who gave it a brief try and found out very soon that it's not her jam, not someone who spent years fucking around to figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:19 PM
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For some reason I consider blowjob a much bigger deal than having PIV sex, so if a girl tells me that she sucked off a dude on first date, I would be completely turned off. And if I learn she sucked off a dude she met at the bar/club then that's top tier gross. I think oral sex is gross unless you very recently showered and it's an act of total submission because the only pleasure you are receiving is psychological. Also I am really ashamed for A) Giving head to the girl I picked up at the club.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:07 PM
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Nope, I think if a guy is with a girl who he really wants to be with then it will be much harder to sway him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:32 AM
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I have done a lot of pondering and tied it with personal experience and concluded that the 80/20 rule is oversimplified and misunderstood. It would be tricky to present but I will try. It is not that all women are attracted to the same top 20% men, it is more like if you were to line up 100 random men on the horizontal axis and create a dot chart, that is, number of dots = number of women interested in a man, you will notice that some men have a lot more dots than others and if you rearrange tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:26 AM
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So because you got no likes on Bumble you think its a ghost town. OMG that makes such sense. Why are you being such an ass? If you sign up on Bumble,set your preference to 22-29 and 10 miles and run out of women to swipe on in less than half an hour then is it reasonable to conclude that there aren't many people there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:02 AM
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These are not the Muslim countries you need to be worried about to begin with, it's Bangladesh, Pakistan, Somalia and other shitholes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:55 PM
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I predict Muslim domination because they are still reproducing like crazy and not slowing down. In the next 100 years there will be demographic reversal in the western hemisphere, Europe is already primed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:53 PM
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Women seem to be right swiping on 5% of the profile https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/mbf6wg/oc_despite_being_far_more_selective_women_still/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:23 AM
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And you know that how? There is a mall in my hometown which is absolutely rundown, how do I know? Because I have been there. Jesus Christ. Why do you men keep touting this incel talking point? Ah the obligatory adjective insertion. But go look at /r/dataisbeautiful or /r/tinder when women post their tinder stats and look at their right swipe %. I have seen it in 0.5-2.5% range.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:17 AM
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What is DL?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:35 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:33 PM
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Do you think Oscar Isaac is top 5% if he was a regular guy, say a mechanical engineer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:04 PM
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For example in Sweden, I was once talking to my friend who I think is a total Chad, at some point he said something along the lines of "of course you won’t hear guys saying these things if the girls are present because they want to get laid too"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:35 PM
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Very rightly pointed out and I can relate it to my life in rural India and urban Sweden and how what you said plays out. In rural India people have great social life so even if they can and do disagree with their neighbor on certain issues, they will still be able to maintain a social life. People in Sweden on the other hand are comparatively more isolated so they don’t want to say or do anything to jeopardise their social lives therefore you will be hard pressed to hear any contrarian viewpoint…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:27 PM
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Lololol and you are a misogynist for pointing it out. I have observed my thoughts and I think I am not a misogynist but I don’t consider women above criticism either but the environment is such that any criticism unless it is EXTREMELY carefully crafted will be classified as misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:07 PM
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I see your point therefore I concede it’s a form of sugar dating. However, the point I was making was about the criticism he draws for it. The girls are knowingly going into it what business do we to criticise it knowing the ways both are benefiting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:52 PM
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I feel like you are emphasising on the "sugar dating" part to paint him with a lesser light. If the relationship is meant to be casual from the outset then I don’t see a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:37 PM
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Not necessarily sugar dynamic, I was seeing a 25 yo girl earlier this year who thought Leo was hot still and she would date him still. Another girl I used to talk to has hots for Pedro Pascal and Paul Rudd, she’s also mid 20s. We don’t necessarily need to project our preferences on others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:31 PM
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I think Leo Di Caprio’s criticism surrounding dating younger women is unjustified for the reason that it’s out in the open what he has been doing for a while and whoever dates him knows what she’s doing and what the likely outcome is going to be (dumped at 25), so they are in a way self selecting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:23 PM
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It was the 70s, being that lean was a lot more common How and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:11 PM
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I am watching Taxi Driver by Robert De Niro, he is very lean in the movie, are there people who are naturally this lean? Do such people eat less and move more than others?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:53 PM
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Because N count discussions on PPD allow men to chip in as well, women here hold a slightly more accepting perspective as in "It's fine if you want to have this preference, just don't insult people who don't fit your preference" and I think PPD men have largely agreed to it. But out in the wild on Reddit? This preference is still scorned at, especially on women dominated subreddits because they don't allow men to chip in and engage in a large circlejerk by inventing all sorts of absurd reasons a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:03 PM
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Bruv I think you should trust your judgement on this one. She makes it sound like women have to walk through literal minefields while men stroll around a park.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:59 PM
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He must be showering in tall guy pheromones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:20 PM
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Jesus christ you are a lost cause. Anyway, have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:38 PM
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I still fail to see how that negates anything I said, my assertion was throughout human history men held the power because they needed to be better than at least the average man they were leading in terms of physical strength and better than almost all of them in terms of leadership skills. But the strongest women approach the strength levels of an average man and they had to be simultaneously possess great leadership skills. Statistically unlikely. To summarize, to lead you needed high level of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:22 PM
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I think you are a moron who is still completely missing the point as I was talking in historical terms as modern post-industrial human societies are a blip in the span of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:09 PM
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I think he started off with the intent of criticizing and invented meaning along the way. The whole point of my write up was that back when physical strength was valuable trait, people who were weaker would have had harder time reaching leadership position. That means most women were starting off disadvantaged so they were required to make up for it in intellect but assuming parity in intellectual capacities therefore it was simply mathematically unlikely. In simpler terms, if you assign 10 poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:06 PM
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I think you misunderstood the point I was making and assigned malice to it. I was merely stating that when human life circumstances required use of strength and mastery over their environment, then those traits were more valuable, thus men, naturally possessing more physical strength started far ahead of their contemporary women in the race to the leadership position. Currently race to becoming a CEO or a politician places no emphasis on physical abilities as they are irrelevant, but it's also n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:56 PM
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I think Patriarchy is the default societal order or a reason and it doesn't have anything to do with women in particular and everything to do with biology. Men allow themselves to be lead only by those who are superior to them in contextually relevant manner, and if that contextually relevant competence is absent then they will either not follow or replace the leader very quickly. Because to them the logic is very simple, this guy is sitting on top and I am better than him, so why should I liste…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:15 PM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:45 AM
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My gym has some very fit and extremely attractive lasses and this has turned me off from average bodies that look like they don’t work out. Like these girls are fucking RIPPED and not like American roid head ripped, but like ELITE natural fitness model level fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:17 PM
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I think they all looked very unremarkable, the only redeeming factor was clear skin and low body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:11 PM
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I have always been a big Special Forces fanboy and I watched numerous documentaries covering their selection process and one thing I often heard irrespective of the country was “it’s all mental". I heard it but never truly understood what it meant until today. So for cardio, I usually walk on 15% incline at 4.6 kmph for 40 minutes, it’s moderately challenging but very manageable that I do it 2-3 times a week. Today I thought let’s challenge myself and throw in some weight in the mix so I hopped …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:07 PM
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Male: 300 to 1,000 nanograms per deciliter (ng/dL) or 10 to 35 nanomoles per liter (nmol/L) Female: 15 to 70 ng/dL or 0.5 to 2.4 nmol/L.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:17 PM
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I think because dating apps still play largely in women's favor, it's highly unlikely that this space will see any government interference. Regulating dating apps so that women have fewer choices and regular men have more would not fly, at least not in Western hemisphere where these apps are primarily prevalent. It has to be a private effort and even then I can imagine the ways in which it will come under attack for trying to bring equity to dating landscape. As another user had put it here: Peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:41 PM
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I don't know man, I am not so invested in winning this internet debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:19 PM
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See if you want to hate men then you don't need approval of random people, you lead the way. But most normal men don't dream about harming women, sure they may fantasize about having sex with lots of them but I see no problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:41 PM
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That is precisely the problem and why Tinder is so successful. It's easy to use and wildly successful for top 10-20% men and top 60% women. These people wield a lot of power on Tinder and they would not like to be put on a level playing field against other plebs, therefore they will not use it. Therefore such an app will never be as successful as Tinder. However, it can develop in its niche of non-toxic dating app and if it's largely well intentioned people using it then perhaps it can grow, alb…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:51 AM
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I agree, when I am out and about I have been told by stranger drunk guys that I am a handsome guy numerous times but been told by a woman only maybe 2 times perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:36 AM
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Tbf a perfect solution either doesn't exist or is very hard. Where I live Bumble is an absolute ghost town. Because women's tendency to flock to and engage with the same 10% men makes it even more frustrating for the man because not only he has to wait to get a match, he can't even get the first word in until sanctioned by the woman. Therefore not that many men use Bumble, as a consequence not that many women use it either. Also, commonly bad behaviors displayed on the app have to be penalised i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:33 AM
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As long as the dating app companies keep treating their users as their customers, they have vested interest in not facilitating a connection and instead want to create a carrot on stick model. Tinder is blatantly like that but other companies do the same thing but in less obvious manner. An open source app developed and maintained by the community and operating costs paid by donations of the users will have no incentives to follow this carrot on stick model and can instead focus on facilitating …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:04 AM
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Nope, it's not this cut and dry. A woman would go absolutely nuts if she had the testosterone equivalent to a low T man. Which means, their body is more sensitive to T levels as compared to a man and they can absolutely match and surpass the sex drive of a normal T level man if the woman's T levels are high by woman's standards. She don't need man's level of T to have man's level of sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:46 AM
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I respect the hustle
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:16 AM
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Is she still going about it? I think at this point most people have moved on and she’s just catering to a niche audience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:26 AM
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Still, she was wayyyy out of his league. If tomorrow Blake Lively divorces (god forbid), she will still be way out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:23 PM
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"she's out of my league" and "40 year old virgin" comes to my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:12 PM
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Bench is gay. OHP is the manliest lift there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:05 PM
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I think the definition varies person to person based on the traits they value. There are some unremarkable looking guys you wouldn't look at twice if he passed you on the street who have made it through the toughest special forces selection programs in the world like SAS, DELTA etc and are held in high regards by their peers. They do not posses the body of jocks, their spirit is indomitable. There are men who have dragged their families out of generational poverty through sheer determination and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:13 PM
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I am against the dream Red Pill sells that get rich and bitches will come to you. If you can't get any when you are poor then the ones you will be getting when you are rich are most likely to be gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:58 PM
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I agree with a lot of things Red Pill says but I don't agree with the money part, that get successful in your career and make a lot of money to be successful with women. At that point I think I would be very skeptical if she's with me for me or my money and might not even date anyone seriously. The kind of partner I admire are those who get together in college when they are both poor and working hard to get ahead in their respective fields and stay together. Not those who wait for you at the fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:34 PM
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wonder how the 30 year old boyfriend didn’t feel like he was dating a kid. Does she also wonder why heterosexual men like boobs? Or don't dream about dicks? Has she also contemplated why women's preferred age range extends further up than down (A 23 yo woman's ideal age range may be 22-28)? It's because different sexes respond to different things. I am 30 years old, I wouldn't have a romantic relationship with a 20 yo. But if I find someone who wants to be a FWB then I would be up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:10 AM
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There are a lot of self made people who also possess humility and empathy, therefore I think the poster above you is a non-starter to begin with and you shouldn't try to change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:12 PM
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Because as a man I still have equal liberty to say no to poor prospects, pursue or not pursue those who pique my interest. I say, I have as much control as any Chad or Stacy. But I don’t have control over the outcome. I think what you were meaning to say is that an average man is not able to date as freely as an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:06 PM
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No no, your input is valuable and provides a perspective which misses a lot of people engaged in bodybuilding. For examples, I see a lot of guys, who despite having fairly large chest and arms still somehow look weak, why? Because they have thin necks and less developed trap muscles. Then you look at greek god statues and they don't have big chests but they look strong as fuck because all the muscles which actually move weight are big. And we subconsciously pick on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:13 PM
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I agree that him being her partner are not sufficient grounds for her to change her life choices, but my boy just respectfully asked, apparently she declined and he bounced. You can say this what he asked for was unreasonable and I have nothing to argue against that, just say no and everyone can move on. Jonah Hill is a living, breathing, pooping, farting human like you and me, not some evolved divine being devoid of any personal flaws. He had some insecurities, he aired them seeking resolution,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:00 PM
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I didn't say "what is the point?", I was asking "what is THAT point?" where the proportions start appearing off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:49 PM
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after a certain point for male height What is that point? But I do agree. Silhouette of men of different heights would look different even if they were scaled up/down so that they are same size.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:45 PM
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Women like big men because for big men were more effective in their environment than smaller men throughout human history. And I am not even questioning the preference itself, I know it makes sense biologically but in the current environment it doesn't. Which brings me to my next point, promiscuity, it was simply not possible for a woman to sleep with 4 dozen men without having some combination of multiple kids, infertility, STDs. So men never had to deal with such women. Most men weren't sleepi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:42 PM
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We get it, he made a mistake in selecting a partner. You'll lose your shit when men tell you to choose better and here you are saying the same thing in so many words.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:35 PM
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Which is why I called it hamstering. It's masquerading an innate preference with a made up reason which cannot withstand the scrutiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:20 PM
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I don't think proportions are affected by magnitude. It's not like an average 5'8" guy has worse proportions than a 6'4" guy. Everything just scales up in the same proportion. About primal preference, men's primal preference for non-promiscous women is logically deconstructed (albiet unsuccessfully) and the conclusion is made that they should not have it. Whereas the primal preference for height can also be logically scruitinised but no recommendation for abandoning that requirement is made.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:18 PM
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I was meaning to write hamstering but autocorrect messed it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:09 PM
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Copying my reply from another thread: The "protection" element around height is hamstering considering that even women in Northern European countries prefer someone taller than themselves when those countries have very low rates of violent crimes, thus the likelihood of their partner needing to engage in hand-to-hand combat to protect them is vanishingly small. Besides, a bullet to head or heart yields same outcome whether your boyfriend was 6'6" or 5'6". Also, apparently a 6' man is good enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:04 PM
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The "protection" element around height is hamstering considering that even women in Northern European countries prefer someone taller than themselves when those countries have very low rates of violent crimes, thus the likelihood of their partner engaging them in hand-to-hand combat to protect them is vanishingly small. Besides, a bullet to head or heart yields same outcome whether your boyfriend was 6'6" or 5'6". Also, apparently a 6' man is good enough to protect a 5'2" woman but is not good e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:58 PM
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Someone may rightfully call someone insecure but insecurity doesn't exist in vaccuum, it is related to one's perception of self and predictions based on life experiences and partner's behaviors. So while you might get slapped with the label in 0.5 seconds, it will take tremendous amount of effort to work your way out of it. Also, generally it is used as an insult in order to mold your behavior to be more agreeable to whatever you are protesting against and is completely unhelpful to the adressee…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:56 PM
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🤝🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:37 PM
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And he can say no to it, which I think increasingly more number of men must. Pipe dream but that’s the only solution
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:11 PM
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average looking guy with average height but a fit body
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:04 PM
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True, if the product is you and you are not getting the price you rightfully deserve then you must not sell else you drive the price down across the market, affecting everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:20 PM
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What these asshats want you to do is, casually fuck fatties and when women who are at the same tier as you are done fucking chads then settle down with them. Absolutely brilliant strategy if you ask me. You get to spend your youth fucking men out of your league who obviously won’t settle with you, then when you get older and want to start a family then you find a guy in your league and when he asks what you have been doing until now, you tell him "my past is none of your business" and if you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:16 PM
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Does that mean an average looking guy with average height but a fit body has to make do with an overweight woman because that’s his league? Because most average looking, average height, but fit women are being courted by men of much higher SMV so they aren’t even playing in their own league. Why should the average guy then make it easier for the fat chick or the above average guy by quitting and taking what he can get? I say, get comfortable with being alone and continue shooting for the moon. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:43 PM
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I really don't think we are in a disagreement here when I said that it doesn't happen always but the likelihood of that happening is larger for the aforementioned reasons, still I am not going to stop her from going, not my style.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:17 PM
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Jesus, how did I find myself drawn into this debate. Anyhow, lemme clear this up. I am not saying that every woman who goes out drinking with her girlfriends cheats on their partner, but the presence of alcohol and the fact that it is one of the few places where men have the license to approach makes it more likely for someone to slip and land on a dick, as opposed to when they are out and about buying milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:07 PM
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I find this argument moderately baffling, because have you EVER seen ANYONE fucking in the middle of the bar? And how often do people who meet in the bar go on to fuck? Infinitely more times than fucking in the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:00 PM
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The two parts you quoted were tied together. Her going out to the bar with her girlfriends is not testing the trust. Her going out to the bar with her male colleague, or the real life example, hanging out with the friend one on one behind closed doors is what is pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:53 AM
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I don't know, I guess we have different value system. I consider it respectful to the relationship to not even get to the point where the trust is tested. I think most people know this innately and don't behave in that manner. I have been to 100s of parties, I know what goes down there, people get intoxicated, the judgement is impaired, an attractive stanger is throwing themselves at you, you are slowly pushing the boundaries, one thing leads to another, the frog is boiled slowly and then bam. p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:50 AM
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Sounds great on paper. But it is mentally exhausting to put trust to test all the fucking time. Consider this, you are not fan of bungee jumping, somehow you ended up all rigged up and standing on the ledge with your best friend holding the trigger to send you flying down. You have expressly told him not to do it and if he does it then you will no longer be friends. What ensues is half hour long of teasing. Him fumbling around the button, pretending to press it. In the end he doesn't and you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:51 AM
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just tell them you feel like they aren't attracted to you and if they want to continue they're gonna have to make things clea Bruh! Don't do that. What you do is that you stop contacting them altogethe. It's not ghosting. Ghosting is when someone isn't responding to you despite your efforts to contact them. If neither of you are initiating then it's a stalemate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:38 AM
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Man, I have been that guy who has been milked for attention and I am so angry at my former self. Which is why if a girl doesn't reciprocate; I bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:34 AM
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If he's going to cheat, he will cheat. It’s one thing to intentionally seek it and it’s another to put yourself in position where it’s available and all you have to do is say yes and nobody would find out. Going to these sexually charged environments seem to me like putting yourself in that position. That’s how my friend’s GF cheated on him. She would doll up. Shave her pussy and go hit the nightclub. And he was like, what are you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:10 AM
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So millions of women around the world who choose their partners choose men who are similar in age but that doesn't matter because you have a couple of anecdotes that supposedly contradict this? I can form my opinion based on the examples I see around myself and draw logical inferences. My conclusion is that the number of women who are interested in older men is not vanishingly small as women would like you to believe, neither is nearly as large as if you were around their age. But we can sit her…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:03 AM
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Do you need any more evidence that people you hear online, even articles you read on news websites are often numbnuts? Ignore all the noise and live your life the way you deem fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:40 PM
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They are clutching to any piece that may vindicate their resentment and bitterness. Then they have no answer to why you let 18-25 year olds do the following: Vote, get driver's license, get pilot license, join the military (handle a rifle, drive a tank, fly a jet worth $100 million, kill themselves or others), do porn, take a loan, chop off their nuts, donate an organ, and countless more life changing decision. But god forbid if she fucks a man bit older than their comfort range without getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:00 PM
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Yeah because when you think of a 35 year old man you begin with drawing a caricature and sneering at him. The fact is that 22 yo don't want 95% of 22-25 yo either, if it goes up to 99% for 35 yo cohort, still no big deal. A couple of month ago I overheard an attractive college girl describe a shirtless dad working in his yard and how hot and bothered she felt. I really don't know you but I have posed the age range question to at least 5 women and none of them responded like PPD women like us to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:54 PM
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The claim that the human brain doesn't stop developing until around 25 years old is grounded in neuroscience research, specifically studies of the prefrontal cortex, the region of the brain responsible for complex cognitive behaviors, personality expression, decision making, and moderating social behavior. -- Source ChatGPT 4 I personally think that this scientific research is cited in bad faith. For a successful relationship you need to have mutual respect, empathy, ability to communicate, simi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:50 PM
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over 25 so both their brains are fully formed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:20 PM
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The 25 year is an arbitrary cut-off. The brain never stops developing and it doesn't develop linearly. The brain is not 72% developed at 18 (4% per year) and 100% at 25. 95% of brain development takes place by the time you are 5 years old. FIVE YEARS OLD. With age comes emotional regulation, patience, wealth of experience, and perspective. I am 30 years old now, I feel different from my 18 yo self only in the aforementioned aspects, everything else is more or less the same. I haven't gotten smar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:17 PM
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Especially as they’re both over 25 so both their brains are fully formed. Some guy at some point made this claim and a certain bunch of people just ran away with it and parrot at every opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:44 PM
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Some things on PPD never get old. Men going on about how nobody would want post wall women and women coming up with examples of post 30 women having no troubles finding dates and sex. And Women going on about how men in their 30s would never find a girl in her 20s and men coming up with examples from their own life of hooking up/dating younger women. The truth is not black/white and people both men and women coming up with such statements are bitter. In general I like younger women but it's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:40 PM
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I agree, you can find insanely good looking women in any occupation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:08 PM
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Oof that's rough. How did she frame it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:27 PM
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There was a girl who lived in my hall who looked like Margot Robbie but younger and taller. In Sweden. Women here are absolutely stunning, especially in the younger cohort. When the school is in session, swiping on Tinder is like going through a catalogue of models.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:25 PM
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She was such a fucking bitch about it. It had absolutely nothing to do with her. I had asked her friend, who obviously declined. Yet she wanted me to apologise to HER and her friend for "making them feel uncomfortable". I was like what? I had asked her if she wanted to go to the concert with me, not if she wanted to bounce on my dick. I completely stopped talking to her and that was an issue as well. She did try to make a scene and threatened to tell the University that I make her uncomfortable …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:03 PM
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yep, over the years I have had few. Right now I have one girl-friend who I would consider a very good friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:42 AM
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It’s been wild and I think climate change wiping out humanity in the next decade is a happy ending. We deserve it. So that other species can live in peace. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:34 AM
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I think that it's because women "fight" using social destruction of another person. This 100%. This one time I asked out friend of a girl-friend, and I don't think there was anything scandalous in the manner I asked, but man, the shit storm from her that ensued was of epic proportions, she tried her level best to paint me as a potential molestor or something. Glad that nobody paid heed to it and rest of our mutual friends continued being friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:32 AM
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hedonistic, horny, curious, pleasure seeker. Hedonism in itself is a dealbreaker for me regardless of her N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:34 AM
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body count almost never matters Does not matter in what manner?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:05 PM
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The amount of hard work and self sacrifice doctors make is one of the primary reason why I have so much respect and admiration for them. You are my hero internet stranger. Can you put your foot down and say that I will work only this many hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:27 PM
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Yep, dumb indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:05 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:52 PM
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I really am not trolling. I am just illustrating that any discomfort a man may express about the boundaries in his relationships can easily be eviscerated like I demonstrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:48 PM
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You shouldn’t speak to those who are not willing to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:45 PM
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So women are cohabiting in the same moral hell as they claim men to inhabit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:44 PM
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My contention is that there is nothing wrong about asking for what he wants, she can either give it or let him go. This whole thing is like “how dare he? Didn’t he know what he was signing up for?" He knew, he made the classic error of trying to change your partner. But the guy tried, in my opinion; quite respectfully, at that point she had the clear choice to concede or leave. She didn’t concede so he left as he said he would. The hate he is getting is undeserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:43 PM
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Sex is fleeting, the respect you lose in your eyes is permanent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:38 PM
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That’s true. Some male place will indeed endorse such behaviour. Does that make it right though? If not, it was a moot point to raise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:37 PM
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Wow what a jealous insecure asshole. She is not his property and he needs to get his mind out of whatever gutter it is in. A girl sitting on her friend’s lap (not dick) who she knew before she knew him means nothing. What’s next? He will banish her from hugging her friends because her boobs touch their chest? What a piece of shit. She should leave him. — /r/relationship_advice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:35 PM
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Or just go home and masturbate with self respect intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:30 PM
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Okay, and so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:26 PM
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Okay, moving on, you said “I will talk to you tomorrow". What should the guy tell her tomorrow? Because the issue hasn’t been addressed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:24 PM
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Of course. 100%. She can state what she wants and be willing to walk away for real. She is in it out of her consent and can walk out whenever she wants if it doesn’t work for her the way she wants it to. She does not owe a relationship to Jonah irrespective of what he does. Now flip the names and you have what played out. But before the flipping takes place, the in-group bias will make it sound totally reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:20 PM
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Bruuuuh! You are still out there getting women’s approval on how to live your life? What are you, 12? Every man needs to sit with himself, evaluate his core beliefs, how much a piece of shit he wants to be, and then go be that piece of shit without remorse. In your case you have decided that you don’t want to be a piece of shit, so don’t let these crazies talk you into being a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:17 PM
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It was a made up situation. And I was asking in good faith because honestly I don’t know what is the right way to respond to it because I will find it upsetting. But I am not completely sure if your response to this hypothetical was in mocking or not. Please clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:05 PM
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Precisely, it’s such a hassle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:59 PM
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Alright, let’s accept this for a moment. Let’s say a man and his girlfriend are at a party and the girl goes and sit on her guy friend’s lap. This is something she considers innocuous but the guy (her BF) obviously never had his girl-friends sit on his lap. How does he articulate his displeasure and discomfort at witnessing it to his girlfriend? As I said in the other post: Jonah Hill, found guilty on 1 (one) charge: trying to make housewife out of a hoe. … He was entirely dismissive and condesc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:57 PM
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It’s not him. The Internet outrage will not affect him but millions of other men who will witness this backlash and internalise that it is not okay to verbalise your discomfort in a relationship. You can obviously silence people by putting a reputation cost on their voice, but you cannot eliminate their feelings, which will manifest in one way or the other. He should have taken a page from modern dating playbook and kept smashing, then dipped when he had another girl lined up. I am low key angry…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:46 PM
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Well, I don’t see how the second charge is contrary to the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:41 PM
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What I have learnt from this is that it’s not even worth it to communicate, make all decisions internally, keep smashing for as long as you can and then dip. It’s like: “you have the right to remain silent, anything you say can and may be used against you"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:37 PM
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Jonah Hill, found guilty on 1 (one) charge: trying to make housewife out of a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:29 PM
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Another dilemma is that, when men try to present themselves as "nice", the bar for them is raised higher than Mount Everest. As soon as the self proclaimed nice guy says anything that can be taken for toxic or bad, he'll garner a negative reputation immediately for being a "fake nice guy" and all of his other efforts of trying to be a nice person will get erased as though it never happened. A man who comes off as flawed from the get go, though, usually has a lower bar set for him. He can get cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:56 AM
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Man after reading all these discussions surrounding promiscuity, Jonah Hill, men having to chase women, women dumping men because he yawned the wrong way etc. I wonder despite all of this why do you even want to date/have relationships with them? You have to decide for yourself what’s more important to you. Does the thought of her having sucked 50 dicks before you is more distressing than the love and affection she provides? Then be the 51st dick being sucked and fuck off. If you can exercise di…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:04 AM
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Yeah, I think both are filtering each other out. So it’s working as intended
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:25 PM
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I was like wtf am I reading
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:37 PM
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Don't try to justify your standards and expectations to women. Don't argue with them Man I really wish this gets drilled into head of every man out there. Men holding tight on to their standards and expectations will change the dating landscape way more than the endless arguments which never reach a conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:05 PM
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Assuming the girl is good looking, fit, doesn't have any serious mental issues, and not virgin for religious reasons, I just cannot fathom how she can be virgin past 22 (I would say, even past 19) in a Western country because men will be constantly throwing themselves at her and at some of them are likely to catch her fancy and sex would happen. Someone who is fit, attractive, mentally healthy and saving themselves for marriage is extremely rare in my opinion However, it is certainly possible th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:51 AM
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I am an Indian but moved abroad 2 years ago. Rape accusations need to be proven in the court before someone is sentenced. And I don't really think that courts will start sentencing men willy nilly on word of mouth. It is unfortunate that actual victims of marital rape will find it difficult to prove that the crime occured. Even in regular rape cases if there is no conclusive evidence other than victim's testimony the accused will likely not be conivcted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:12 PM
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I don't understand what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:58 PM
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The primary issue issue is that we are just too fucking many. If 12 out of every 13 Indians were to suddenly disappear, then we will have a population density similar to United States. Societies are dynamic system and when that dynamic system is so large, dense, and largely unregulated then weird shit is bound to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:57 PM
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I know it's a loaded question and you are asking for either an outright No or a yes with all the proofs that yes I indeed do like women. But I see women as people first and I don't like or hate them any more than I like or hate men. There are tons of women I have deep respect for and look up to them, and there tons of dumbasses as well who I wouldn't want to be in the same room with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:36 AM
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If you are 17 then I would be 25. For me to me 20 you have to be 12% 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:14 PM
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The problem is men aren’t attracted to the body type women with a similar lifestyle have… Bullshit. I have so many gym crushes on women who look fit as fuck. In fact, it is getting so out of hand that regular soft/weak women don’t turn me on anymore. My ideal woman has to be lifting weights on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:08 PM
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I would have guessed yours at 12%, where did you get the 17% figure? But I completely agree that I am carrying more fat than necessary so I went on a 300-500 calorie deficit 3 weeks ago and I plan to continue eating less than maintenance at least until December. Will report with results
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:04 PM
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What would you estimate my BF%? I haven’t worked a lot on mirror muscles so I don’t look that muscly but you can’t be skinny fat and do 3-4 pull ups with +30 kg. I can also overhead press 60-63 kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:56 PM
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Ah I think I misunderstood this whole thing. You are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:45 PM
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Women assume that adults already know that fitness and exercise, healthy eating, good hygiene, and a decent wardrobe are baseline requirements. Why would those need to be specified? When you use the word "women" you seem to be implying collectively, that also mean that women themselves should know about fitness, exercise, and healthy eating. But obesity rates in both genders are approximately equal, so it doesn't seem that they know it any better than guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:37 PM
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I know man. Before I started lifting I thought my dream body was 1 years of regular gym away. Bullshit. However, if you start lifting at 15-16 i.e. during puberty then you are on natural PEDs and the kind of gains you will make then will be astounding. But someone is like me and starts in late 20s then brace for a long, hard slog for every PR.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:57 PM
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True, need to keep a strict eye on food intake as well to stay trim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:39 PM
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That's the plan. I have never had 12% BF as an adult, and it's time to get it, even if muscle building is put on backburner for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:24 PM
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I know absolutely nobody who looks like MBJ after 2 years of lifting. I do know guys who have been lifting for 8-10 years who would look like MBJ if they go on a cut but 2 years of consistent training only puts you in intermediate lifter category and MBJ's physique is not early-intermediate. And that's easily verifiable, StrengthStandards website puts intermediate as someone who is lifting for 2+ years and the associated lift standards are not outstanding and won't result in an outstanding physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:22 PM
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Doing it. But it's funny when I wake up I can clearly see all 4 top abs if I stand straight but have quite a bit of fat around the waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:18 PM
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Good for you man but I have been lifting for 2+ years and look nowhere near like that. But I wouldn't accept accusation of not working hard enough, I had been going to the gym 3 times a week, 2 hrs each time and have recently upped it to 5-6 times a week, at least 1.5 hrs each time. And yeah the actual lifting is fun but stalling and plateus are not. BTW what are your numbers on the bench, deadlift, squat, overhead press, and pull ups?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:08 PM
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Do you have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:01 PM
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I remember a long while ago a woman here said "I don't like too muscly men, anything like Michael B Jordan is fine." and I had spit out my proverbial tea reading that comment because Michael B Jordan level physique is like 5 years of intense training with extreme discipline outside the gym and/or a lot of PEDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:38 PM
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Source: myself https://ibb.co/7vq4MP2 with so called "swimmers body". Bro the image is not loading. But that's me after 2+ years of lifting. https://imgur.com/a/q3DIy38 Granted I can use a cut and I am in the process right now. But the "average" physique in modern day sedentary lifestyle is built after toiling several years in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:33 PM
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Man these are the exact mistakes I made. Inspired from the Chinese weightlifting team, I have added bodybuilding type training in addition to high intensity strength training. Mass moves mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:37 AM
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Man I had been texting this girl for 1.5 months, tons of flirting and banter. Regular texting, and good vibes but for a couple of days I noticed a shift in the vibe and her pulling back. I thought she was tired of texting all the time so I didn’t text her… in fact it has been over 2 weeks and we haven’t texted at all. Initially I thought maybe she wanted some space and will reach out when she feels like it but she never did and then I just concluded that she was pulling back because she wasn’t i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:10 PM
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And it’s not the woman’s desire for new partners The sentence formulation was bit confusing but how does a woman rack up to 40 sexual partners? I reckon consensually in most instances. Nobody other than her is responsible for that number. These men are taking women as sexual partners and believing that by sleeping with them, they are making them incrementally worse off, less valuable, dirtier, what have you. And then they’re projecting their sexual shame onto the woman, and blaming her for “lett…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:36 PM
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but sex with him added to her n count, which seems to be all that these types of men care to consider. There is a threshold above which it doesn’t matter. N = 40 and 80 are all the same as far as I am concerned. She was promiscuous before meeting him and nothing changed after sleeping with him, except a marginal increase in her count which was already high enough. Then you might say that it all adds up but that’s not the man’s concern. He can only add 1. It’s up to the woman how many 1s she adds…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:12 PM
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Of course it’s mainly a me problem. I only say that I am not okay with it, not that she did something wrong. So many men just want to have sex with promiscuous women and then be angry that they’re promiscuous. Makes no sense. I know but lemme offer some insight. A woman is promiscuous out of her choice. A man having casual sex with her is still consistent with who she is. He didn’t make her promiscuous. He is also not angry at her for being promiscuous. At least I am not/was not. He is giving he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:29 PM
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5x5 stops working after a while my dude. An intermediate doing 5x5 with his working weight will drive himself into ground pretty soon, I learnt the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:00 PM
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Not every high n person has baggage. Low n women can also have baggage, like if they’ve kept their n low because of religious reasons and they’re now struggling to disassociate sex from shame since they’ve found a partner, for example. Again, it’s the nature of the baggage someone is willing to deal with. Existence of dozens of men who have fucked her in the past is an absolute no-no type of baggage even if there are no other mental issues existing. I also want to admit that it’s a “me" problem …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:57 PM
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Ultimately it’s give and take. Do I want mind blowing sex upfront from the girl who has fucked dozens of dudes and all the associated baggage. Or do I start off with medium-good sex with a girl and over time approach the same level, sans the baggage. And then there are also people who don’t prioritise the pleasure over everything else. I love pizza and cheesecake. I don’t eat it because I will get fat and that’s worse than momentary satisfaction. Similarly the girl may blow my mind in the sack b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:36 PM
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Funny thing is, people who actually are from hotter climates know that if it’s hot and sunny out there you want to cover up by wearing something light and free instead of exposing your skin to direct heat. Also, you don’t see guys wearing shorts shorter than their own boxers. It is pretty clear that the purpose of booty shorts is to put the goods out on the display, heat is a flimsy excuse to hide behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:31 PM
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Someone coming in with a lot of skill and a lot of history is not that big of a bonus as it often touted to be. Give me a girl who likes me and is enthusiastic about hitting the sack together and she will soon learn everything she needs and I will learn what I need to to please her. All it takes is communication and a bit of practice together. Sex is not exactly neurosurgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:22 PM
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I commend you for putting the information out there and allowing the men to make an informed decision, unlike some feminist spaces which advocate either not disclosing at all or giving absurd answers. I also commend men for ending it amicably, nobody has the right to insult you for whatever your number is, it was your and only your choice. However, I would like to add a suggestion that the high N-count doesn’t necessarily correlate with being good at sex, one could have net 100 times sex with 40…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:04 PM
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The obsession with height and body count is bizarre. What I also find it bizarre is women’s insistence, especially that their body count has never mattered, because they were never asked or found that their partner’s body count was equally high and both laughed about it. A) For a guy, it is in a very bad taste to bluntly ask that. Even if the girl’s is low, there is a huge risk of offending her still. Guys don’t do that, instead they rely on other information to get a ballpark estimate. B) Getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:37 AM
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He/she is bullshitting. They may not have absolute egalitarianism but dissuading young girls from STEM is a level they have crossed probably 30 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:58 PM
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I can’t recall that study but even the women who were excelling in Math and sciences in high school still chose liberal arts majors at the Uni. I study at a Uni in Sweden, there are tons of really hot chicks studying Mechanical engineering and related subjects but they are not equal in proportion to guys. My program had 4 girls out of class of 27, out of which only 1 was Swedish and 3 were foreigners. What we see is a society that still pushes young girls into a mentality that they cannot be eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:56 PM
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What is the appropriate age range for a 30 yo man to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:17 PM
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a rich, tall and handsome guy is most attractive to women regardless of personality He is, as I have conceded in other reply, in the sexual marketplace. But my point was someone having huge success in sexual marketplace largely due to immutable characteristics is not a HVM in my eyes. I am not saying that being gifted in that manner makes him incapable of being a what I consider HVM, I am merely saying that being tall, rich, and handsome isn't enough to be considered high value holistically. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:07 PM
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Wouldn't you do that if you were in their place?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:52 PM
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Maslow's pyramid It's not the law of nature, it's some guy who thinks that's how it is. I haven't had sex since Feb, I would be long dead if I hadn't drank water, ate or slept for the same duration.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:03 PM
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Sex is one part of life and it matters only as much as you allow it. You can be fucking Goblin who gets zero female sexual/romantic attention but if you don't care about it then it wouldn't affect you in the slightest and you will go on living your life happy. But it's easier said than done, a healthy man always desire female companionship and its lack affects him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:40 PM
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I concede that they do play a massive role and will get you tons of poon but high quality relationships are an unlikely outcome when filtered for these traits primarily. So if you are after tons of casual sex then yes, in those contexts that's what sells. But my contention was that this is not objectively and holistically a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:55 PM
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His concept of HVM comes from Andrew Tate, and Fresh and Fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:44 PM
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Man this write up is primarily focused on a very beginner level where the guy hasn't even put in the basic effort of getting off his ass, grooming, dressing up, going out and actually talking to people. The people who have actually done that face different set of challenges and those challenges are still quite significant. I don't hang out with any Indians because they are not living the life I want to, my Swedish friends tell me that I have excellent "game" and social skills, though I do lack t…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 12:11 PM
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Lol. Nah, those men are just insecure. From your POV, what position do you think men should ideally hold surrounding women who have slept around a lot in the past when it comes to deciding if they should pursue a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:37 AM
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If you look at it mathematically (which a lot of dudes tend to) then the chances are slim, so the only viable strategy is to become really good at being alone in tandem with reckless abandon when approaching and interacting with women. The volume of approach will increase the probability of meeting someone who likes what you have to offer, but when that happens is uncertain, so you would have to be okay with long stretches of alone-ness in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:46 AM
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Man it's good that it worked out for you and I am happy for you but I don't think that it's repeatable for every other 5'6" guy out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:25 AM
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You are tying the concept of HVM to immutable characteristics and material possessions and that's where our disagreement starts. If you think being tall, handsome, charismatic, rich makes you high value and you are not bound by the demands on the character then that's a peacock. Pretty to look at but useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:22 AM
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An average family spends $30-50k which is usually their 3-5 years worth of income (sometimes more). It has gotten ridiculous recently, it wasn't like that in 30 years ago and before that. My maternal grandpa married his three daughters and two sons while working an ordinary factory job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:43 AM
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I don't understand Red pill critics' obsession with literal interpretation of everything they say in those forums. I think the critics know the concept behind those absurd sounding statement but it's easier to tackle the superficial absurdity of the statement than the core message. For example: A woman is dating a man who used to simp majorly for all previous partners, buying them gifts, paying for everything, etc. Now he insists that he will do those things only if he get sex right away. From w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:39 AM
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I walk at 15% incline at 4.6 kmph for 35 minutes and it says that I burnt 420 calories. Online calculators put it at 398 calories. But I have sweated way more from this than running at 10 kmph for 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:24 AM
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Thank you very much ✨😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:44 AM
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I 100% agree and this is in line with my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:43 AM
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Well, you have approval of this internet stranger regarding how you go about your dating life. And you are in an excellent relationship already so I hope it will go a looooong way. All the best. 🙌👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:35 AM
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What makes her a great mom? I just can't recall a single instance of when she has failed or disappointed me. She has been deeply loving and nurturing, not just to me but to the whole family Then I have 2 sisters as well who are also excellent. I think that's the reason why I primarily see good in all women unless proven otherwise. Do you feel that your mother has shaped your expectations of what a woman should do as a partner, wife and mother? Yeah, I think I expect certain amount of warmth, sof…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:31 AM
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I apologise, it was indeed wrong of me to make assumptions about you. But as I said earlier, Red Pill notices and summarises general trends which are not applicable on every individual. I have asked several women about their height preferences and every single one of them wanted someone taller, and I am not talking about about an inch taller, often 6" taller being the sweet spot. But then there was a super cute, tall, green eyed blonde in my class who was in a LTR with a skinny guy shorter than …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:00 AM
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Thank you for an elaborate reply, I enjoyed reading this real life love story. There are a few things that stand out and I would like to discuss: "There's that really cute guy again," I would normally have thought he was out of my league The physical attraction was there right off the bat and his personality and your interpersonal chemistry sealed the deal. I guess this is all why the redpill ideas about what women want make no sense to me at all. Because he's not tall, he's not outgoing and ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:31 AM
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Loved reading this. I am happy for you internet stranger. I think I would prefer a painter partner instead of a musician partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:45 PM
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Sounds amazing. would you like to recap how you met him and early days of your relationship? Also, if I were to pose the same question "What do you love about your partner" to him, what would he say? This is your chance to brag about yourself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:42 PM
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I would pose a weight question to a normal looking woman purely out of curiosity, not as a judgement. A girl I used to talk to used to joke that I should do pull ups with her hanging off my back, now I need to know how much weight I should aim for in my weighted pull ups, whether it is 60 or 70 kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:37 PM
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Sorry, I didn’t understand your reply
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:23 PM
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men's sexuality is somewhat used to imply corruption Because to the caveman part of a man’s brain equate sex with procreation, so men’s sexuality is indeed corrupting, it gives you a baby. In my theory this is where the disgust for promiscuous women originates from. Before the advent of reliable birth control, which is a blip in human history sex came with a huge risk of pregnancy, it wasn’t possible for a woman to sleep with 50 men and not have children unless she was infertile. —————— On a sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:20 PM
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that’s what most men say as well I meant the men who say they don’t want to be in a relationship with a former/cuurent hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:01 PM
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I think this is what you like to believe, I have slept with promiscuous women and I neither liked them nor hated them, it was like yeah, I want to get laid and she’s willing to with me, so why not. But I would have never considered any of them for relationship and that’s what most men say as well, that you can have consensual sex with them but don’t have a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:36 PM
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In that case isn't it highly contextual? Put a proficient coder in a programming class and he will be very confident, whereas the guy who can't write "Hello World" code wouldn't be confident in that class. Now put both in a club environment and if the coder doesn't have extensive clubbing and in general great experiences with women then he will struggle. Whereas if the other guy has those skills and experiences then he will be confident in that environment. I basically explained how the same 2 p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:14 AM
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Well, you can't beat the math of Calorie In Calorie Out. If you have more going in than out then you will gain weight. How you do that is up to you but the complaint is entirely useless because you can't beat biology and thermodynamics. I want to lose weight so I am eating in 500 calorie deficit. I have 4 meals a day and eat exactly same thing every single day in order to be in tight control of my calorie intake. Monotonicity is the price I have to pay. If I am unwilling to pay the price then I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:16 PM
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In the world obsessed with optics, it is becoming increasingly hard. We see perfection on Instagram and try to emulate it IRL. We read about people being told to dump their partners at mildest inconveniences. And how every display of insecurity, anxiety is a death keel to your chances at a relationship, we learn to conceal all flaws, worries, anxieties.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:56 AM
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Swedes don't marry so much anymore, instead they maintain sambo for a very long time and might marry them much later in life. Earlier it was bewildering to me but now it makes perfect sense. Why make a promise that you are not sure you will keep? But staying together for 15-20 years and deciding that yeah! We aren't going anywhere, and then marrying means that marriage will last.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:47 AM
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Edited with ChatGPT My epiphany revolves around the significance of vulnerability—within appropriate bounds—from both parties in a relationship to cultivate a profound emotional connection and mutual trust. This conclusion stems from the understanding that imperfections are an inherent aspect of our human existence. The inability to display our true, unguarded selves in front of our partners triggers a reciprocal response. Consequently, they too maintain a façade of perfection, all the while gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:41 AM
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Also, it's not like Tinder is ez-mode if you're a tallish white guy in Sweden either. I wouldn't be surprised if women's standards were higher here compared to the US. I live in Sweden too, but I am an immigrant. Have you used Tinder in Sweden? I think the two prominent ways to date here are through social circles and Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:02 PM
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Ghosting doesn't make you any safer. If the person was already going to psychopathically murder you, do you really think ghosting is going to help with that? Stop trying to justify being an asshole with the "safety" card. This 100%, one could argue that it could in fact increase their likelihood of acting in an unhinged manner. All it does is hurt decent people and does fuckall to keep crazies at bay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:24 PM
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And accused him of being autistic unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:17 PM
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I don’t have money for it. It will be expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:56 PM
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Yeah but don't take it for granted. Draw confidence from it but still pretend to chase her a bit so that you don't make her feel like a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:28 PM
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I think it's true that I am a hardcore simp and just can't help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:26 PM
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Yeah I think so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:16 PM
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Man I didn't know until a few months ago that when a girl tells you that you smell really good; she wants you D in her V. Because at a party a girl told me that a couple of times and I totally missed the cue, then another girl sitting next to me said that I think she likes you. Next time she saw me she straight up asked if I wanted to make out with her. Then a month later we banged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:13 PM
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There is girl I text and have flirty exchanges with but she lives really far away, like 300 miles away. I am pretty sure that she'll never actually meet but she is attractive and talks so sweet over the text that I just can't resist texting her the whole day. I just wish she would meet someone around her and let me be because I know I am being used for validation and digital company for the time in between her relationships and as soon as she meets someone she'll stop texting me without second t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:11 PM
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I like tall women with tennis player physique or medium height girls with gym rat physiques, I also like traditionally feminine bodies. My attraction to strong and confident women doesn't stem from the fact that I want to be dominated but that them being quite confident and competent would motivate me to keep bettering myself because you can't lead such a woman without being really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:53 PM
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should temper their expectations about how objectively well received or broadly agreed upon the idea of a "confident" person actually is. Man I have done my fair share of approaching girls, it does fuck-all. The girls who I shagged wanted it themselves. I walked through open doors. Either it's a lie that your confidence can open closed doors or I simply lacked skill. The most confidence can do is open an unlocked door or not get the open door slammed shut in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:42 PM
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It's just that in the latter case there's a mismatch between the person's self perception and the way they are perceived by everyone else around them. This one time I asked out the friend of my friend, and my friend was absolutely livid. At some point she said that I have a very deluded perception of self. I think she was trying to tell me to stay in my lane. Needless to say, she wasn’t my friend anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:11 PM
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I was getting startled and my Uni email was especially anxiety inducing, I was like “what now". Now my life feels so peaceful. And people don’t really call that much these days and I can always call them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:06 PM
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How many of you keep your phones permanently silent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:41 PM
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Yes, it was very unkind to put it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:25 PM
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Holy shit, you touched my heart, especially with this part: on top of others blaming you for not doing enough, trying hard enough Because when it's not working out people say you are not trying hard enough, or trying too hard, and you are left feeling stupid, unable to figure out what's the right amount of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:59 PM
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It's not like he started smelling it after 5 minutes, he smelled it from t=0 but was a trooper enough to withstand it for 5 minutes before calling it quits. And mind you, when eating pussy, it's slightly fazing in the beginning when the smell is still new, not after 5 minutes. It had to be pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:51 PM
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Agree 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:26 PM
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They should be canned and shipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:31 PM
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I'm a mom who flies in business class while my family stays in economy. We see it as a lesson on feminism. Recent viral TikToks and articles have sparked debates about the fairness of fathers sitting solo in Business or First Class while their wives and children remain in Economy It's a family unit and they should stick together, whether it's the man or the woman. No, this is not some grand lesson in feminism. Who the fuck said that women don't belong in the business/first class? You probably ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:26 PM
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Good luck with that in Sweden, Scandinavian doctors are the most prescription averse on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:01 PM
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Okay I don’t care is much about hormone therapy for underage people, whatever they want to do doesn’t impact me. However, I also think that men should be able to go on TRT under medical supervision if they want to because right now the bar for medical intervention for low T is too damn high. You basically need to have T levels of an 80 yo man before the doctor would prescribe TRT. If there are medical professionals doing stuff like breast reduction, enhancement, nose job, liposuction and bunch o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:53 PM
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You can absolutely participate in casual sex while simultaneously not being interested in seriously dating girls who have a lot of casual sex. It's like saying that you can litter and can still reserve the right to complain about the litter. I was in the same camp earlier where I thought men should have as much casual sex as possible and can still maintain a preference for a low N-woman. Then I actually went on to have casual sex, I have been that guy who women lets fuck raw on the first night. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:15 PM
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I admire Israelis wayyyy more. They go to extreme lengths to protect their own country and people. If you leave them alone they won’t bother you, but if you fuck with them then they will bring a lot of pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:30 AM
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My $200 Huawei phone had ZERO bugs and my Pixel has so many despite being built by the OS creator.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:16 AM
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While I think it is more risky but it is not my primary concern, I find it gross and that's the primary reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:26 PM
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It grosses me out. Consider this: Some people have fear of heights, their brains are anxious that they will fall and die. The fear has valid basis. Then there are people who jump out of perfectly good airplanes because the parachute allows them to do it relatively safely. That doesn't mean that humans are built to jump from 10000 feet. Just because modern antibiotics/anti-virals can treat most STDs, you can have abortions, or use hormonal or barrier contraceptives doesn't negate the fact that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:54 PM
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Let's first address high n-count, even 10 is too much ideally between 2-5, but I was being cognizant of realities of current times. I think about it but I can't properly verbalise it. I just don't know, I guess I am just conservative surrounding sex and nudity. About a single mother, if I am like 50 and she's around the same age and her kids are all grown up then I wouldn't care but if she has young children then it's just a highly complicated situation for the man and I don't want to type it al…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:21 PM
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But before I go on to make my point, would you date someone with a “high n”, previously divorced or a single mother? Previously divorced is okay as long as she's not a single mother or has slept with more than 10 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:48 PM
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But then you are assuming all men are Red Pillers. I mean, I have read plenty of Red Pill material and I agree with quite a bit of it but ultimately it's up to me how I lead my life based on what my values are. I am not going around calling women names. I see you are upset about those things and rightfully so, the discussion surrounding dating landscape often involve people with charged emotions. And honestly, I do admit that the concerns women have about an older man dating a younger woman are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:34 PM
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Are men saying don't marry at all? And labelling wives of other men as gold diggers, cheaters, sluts, etc? But women definitely are saying don't date someone older at all and using all sorts of colorful adjectives for the men who date someone younger. Just like women flip out when men use colorful terms for their promiscuity, men don't take it on the chin like a champ when they are called pedos, creepy, and that no woman their age wants them. Women can definitely put forth their concerns and pot…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:19 PM
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Okay consider alcohol, some people become raging alcoholics who destory their own life and families, some simply binge drink and cause gradual and compiling damage to their organs, some handle it responsibly. But what is the current discourse surrounding alcohol consumption, especially by young adults? I have heard absolutely nothing despite a majority of young adults regularly drinking. On the other hand, a small fraction of young women might be in a consensual relationship with older men and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:01 PM
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But then they easily lie as well, I have a friend who's slept with 150+ women, if some girl asks then he just says 12. But then I also think you can't sleep with that many people without being at least somewhat fucked in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:38 PM
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I wonder what people’s thoughts are on a woman wanting a low N count in a man for non religious reasons? I don't think most men would view it negatively, especially since you have a low N yourself. Similarly a high N man wanting a low N is a perfect candidate for being hypocritical. Yes I know it's harder as a man to do it but if you think it's gross to sleep with many people then why did you yourself do it? Yes mountain lion's piss is hard to find, doesn't make it less gross if you drank it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:25 PM
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If women had a delusional idea of "short men being beta and cuck", would you be offended by that idea if you were short? Okay plenty of women do have this idea and I am like fine, you don't want me, I don't want you. Let's gooooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:43 AM
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I might understand why it might feel for you that way, but there's NO ACTUAL DATA that would indicate even the correlation between these things and the n-count. But I get why it would feel intuitive for men. He hadn't actually made that claim, he said that guys come up with these rationalisations for an innate feeling. I personally don't use these rationalisations as crutch to support my stance on it. I don't like women (in context of LTR) who have slept around a lot and that's it. None of this …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:39 AM
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I have never asked either, but had a fairly good idea who had been around vs who hadn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:29 AM
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But splendid job on his part. Tell him he has the respect of an Internet stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:28 PM
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So I am 180 lbs or 80 kg, a 30% BF would put me at 56 kg lean mass and to have 12% BF I should weigh ~ 64 kg or 140 lbs, which I think is quite low for 5’9" guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:17 PM
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But that’s the thing, when you are overweight it’s not like it’s fat and bones, a fat guy still has more lean mass, and while losing fat his caloric deficit doesn’t affect his strength/muscle gains the same way it would for a guy who’s not that fat. I weight 180 lbs, I need to lose 20 lbs to look lean. Your BF probably had to lose 100 lbs to look lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:09 PM
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But call it consequence of modern life or shitty genetics but I have reached this “average” after consistently working out for 2 years. My focus was primarily on gaining strength and not aesthetics so I don’t look much remarkable but in some lifts I am definitely above average. Also I didn’t train mirror muscles so while my chest and arms look quite unremarkable, my back is pretty thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:03 PM
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In my experience, social game dominates in Sweden and then you have open market on Tinder where looks is the main currency. All but one lays I had were friends of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:15 PM
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Thanks man, it makes me feel good about the work I have put in. 🫶🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:13 PM
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women here love Arab/African/Asian men I think these men still have an in if they were born here but if they moved here in their adulthood then they are at the bottom of the pecking order because they often don’t even speak the local language and don’t know the cultural references.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:06 PM
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Yeah man, I have been hammering the shit out of Overhead press and weighted pull ups and haven’t benched in over an year now, neither do I train biceps/triceps, so indeed they are lagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:59 PM
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I agree, I need to lose 20 lbs. How much strength can I expect to lose if I lose that weight over 4-5 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:57 PM
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How much of a dad bod do I have? https://imgur.com/a/q3DIy38
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:55 PM
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This is true but the conventionally attractive Kenyan or Chinese man would have a better dating life in Sweden than in the U.S because of their culture regarding interrracial relationships If you don’t live in Sweden then I am afraid you have wrong idea about Swedish dating. Sweden is one of the hardest countries foreigners to date in, they prefer to stick with their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:39 PM
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I am an Indian guy in Sweden, yes the dating life is better here but it has more to do with Indian dating scene being extremely restrictive not that European women love Indian men more than Indian women love Indian men. And because we don’t bring any social capital, don’t speak the language, don’t get cultural references, don’t fit the stereotypical "hot guy" aesthetic, I would say that number wise the chances are significantly smaller but the volume makes up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:31 PM
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I see your point but you are taking it too literally. Attractiveness is not quantifiable in absolute terms like you can quantify 1 kg of mass because it’s subjective. What I meant to say was, that an individual has an internal scale, which is personal to them, and they treatment they give to a 6 vs 7 vs 8 is not linear, it’s not factor of 10 either. I would put it at sqrt(pi). So an 8 would be treated about 3x better than a 6, not 1.33x. Might sound a bit daft but it was mainly to illustrate the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:17 PM
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with no real-world numerical values to correspond with, linearly or otherwise. What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:49 AM
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Nah, you’re downplaying it. I go to student nightclubs, that means I get to see the same girls at the campus as well. Oftentimes the difference is night and day, literally and metaphorically. I agree with the OP that makeup gives women a 1-2 point advantage on 10 point scale. And since it’s not a linear scale, the advantage is massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:33 AM
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Lol I live in Sweden, what are you talking about? The dating landscape is very much like anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:50 PM
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if someone were to break up with me or turn me down for the amount of people I've fucked that would really hurt. There, you said it. You want this thing to go away so that all the fun you had bears no consequences to your future relationship potential. And this is the fundamental sentiment behind people arguing that past shouldn’t matter. What it translates to is: "I have done some things. I should not be judged for it and my relationship potential not affected" I am a guy and I have never been …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:22 AM
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Man, although a tall ask but can you DM me that post instead? I promise I will keep it to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:12 AM
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No I mean you could pretend to be a stranger and put your side as if a stranger is speculating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:43 PM
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Can you share that post? Would be funny to see. Do you also comment under her posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:27 PM
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Fair enough, 38 is indeed quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:46 PM
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How much was it? How and why did your relationship end?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:45 PM
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As a man who has had sex only a handful of times in his 30 yrs of life, I have to still stay that it’s not a need. Granted I am not as horny as I used to be but even back then I didn’t feel like I was being denied of a vital need. If I was too horny then I would take the matters in my own hands and deal with it. Sex is something that happens when you come across a person who wants to have sex with you and you with them. It involves consent of another human being and your "needs" cannot override …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:31 PM
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The halo effect is completely real and it happens in man-man interactions too. There is a fat guy who used to show up class in sweatpants, unshaven, greasy hair etc. Basically extremely unappealing to look at. I didn’t want to be caught dead speaking to him. That’s my shallowness at display. However, in my defence. If you can’t even take effort to groom yourself and put on proper clothes to show up to a graduate level class then we just won’t vibe at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:54 PM
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If you look at this users other posts, they are thinly veiled rage baits. I forgot to check that before I made this comment, could have saved me time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:31 PM
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This is the most ridiculous thing I have read in a long while. I can’t even begin to conceptualise where OP got these caricatures from. I go to gym regularly and I regularly see super hot women who are not stick skinny. Their fat percentage is in healthy range and have decent muscle underneath the fat thus giving them a feminine yet a reasonably strong adult woman’s outline. I also go to university and I would say about 60-70% of the young women are in healthy weight range. Although BMI is not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:27 PM
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At least the parent comment is mainly about describing something that happened. What is misogynistic about it? Do you think all of them are lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:51 AM
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Fair enough. I am in this peculiar situation where I am 30 and finishing grad school, so compared to other 30 yo men/women, I am 7-8 year behind in terms of career, so while someone might say that a 27-30 yo woman should be the ideal range, in my experience, they have higher expectations of a 30 yo man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:27 PM
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Weird that you had a larger range at 18 than at 24. Usually it's other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:15 PM
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I am not religious and I don’t watch it. It has been 12 weeks since I last watched porn. I quit because it was causing sexual dysfunction and I realised it’s actually quite pathetic as well and I don’t feel so good about myself after consuming it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:14 AM
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Well, for your sake I hope it works as well as you believe it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:39 PM
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Lol! That’s something I would say to save face. Whereas the fact is that trained professionals in law enforcement can’t get a confession most of the time and here you are claiming that an average woman knows advanced techniques to uncover if a man secretly holds any such views.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:22 PM
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Totally agree. There are some retards who find red pill and say dumb shit like referring to women as females and spewing trad-con ideals are dead give away. Whereas a person of sound mental capacities consumes red pill knowledge, relates what he read to what he sees, adjusts based on his environment and experiences, and most importantly, shuts the fuck up. When a woman is starting to give glimpses into her colourful past, he doesn’t pull up 2 dozen studies correlating N-count to infidelity and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:07 PM
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I don’t have any aversion to someone who’s not good looking but I absolutely despise people who don’t put in any effort. Poor hygiene and not putting any effort in their clothing choices are the biggest reason why I wouldn’t want to associate with some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:58 PM
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The other day I was having this discussion with my girl-friend. I said that when a woman is approached and she turns it down saying that she’s committed, it sounds more serious as opposed to saying "oh sorry, I have a boyfriend". She disagreed, according to her boyfriend is more serious and being committed is not. Also she’s 23 and I am almost 30
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:03 PM
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l need to find myself… …a new dick or 20, dunno, we’ll see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:00 PM
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Or do most just assume and guess? 👆 If the guy himself seems successful with women and open-minded then women tend to spill a lot of beans. Based on which one can conceptualise their views surrounding sex and decide which box to put them in. The actual number doesn’t matter so much. 30, 40, 50 at 22 are all the same. So early on you have conversations surrounding their dating history and their views surrounding it and you learn plenty. Also the circumstances you met in. If she came over directly…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:59 AM
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Now give them equal pay, Agree to this. equal representation at high earnings positions, and equal representation in congress since you want to give them what they ask for Disagree to these. I can agree to what’s rightfully yours, that is, equal pay for equal work, but insisting to have equal representation on achievement based positions is like asking for special concessions. Earn it and it’s yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:16 AM
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Before engaging, look at OPs post history. She seems to fit the caricature of the woman that Red Pill describes so it would be quite a waste of time engaging her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:59 AM
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I would go on to say that the way teachers are treated is an indication of where the society is headed. This kind of asshole behaviour is backed both by the family and the administration. In Asian countries if you pull shit like that then first you’ll get your ass whooped at school and then at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:17 AM
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Same answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:27 PM
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Lol why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:27 PM
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I am friends with one such girl. I don’t know what concept do you have of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:26 PM
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Indeed, it's important to not make all encompassing statements about humans. There are also some people whose dating woes are largely their own doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:58 PM
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To some people's dating woes there is no better explanation than just plain shitty luck. You could be a reasonably good and worthy person but if you aren't meeting right people at right time then your dating life will suck. Also, the way we are, we didn't consciously chose to be like that, it's a lot to do with genetics and upbringing. If you developed a certain way (shy, restrained etc) then you will spend a lot of time changing a fundamental characteristic just to widen the range of people you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:50 PM
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He’s also dumb, a bad combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:13 AM
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In general it is true but a little room can be left for exceptions, for example, in my gym there is a guy who is about 5’7-8" and he often works out with this girl who I assume is his girlfriend because they just can’t keep their hands off each other even in the gym. She’s probably 5’10" and very pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:24 AM
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Man I hate strawmans like this. The fact is that any man can have these views and not let his sexual access to women be affected as long as he has enough brain cells to keep his mouth shut and is attractive enough. I have a “friend” who spews similar rhetoric and he has been with over 50 women and married a 25 yo when he was 35. Then I have another friend who is shy, overweight, very average looking and I don’t think he holds any such views because we have had many discussions surrounding dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:03 AM
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Precisely my experience as well in dealing with women and through the pillow talks. For the large part Red Pill is correct, needs some individual fine tuning. My disagreement and criticisms is reserved for PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:58 AM
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True that and noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:05 PM
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That has actually happened. I have solid good vibes with some girls I met at the club. But I feel wary of hitting on friend’s friends because this one time when I asked out a girl’s friend, she made a big scene about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:58 PM
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maybe club girls just aren’t your thing This is precisely it. But I have no other avenues of meeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:53 PM
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I was speaking on a more macro scale but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:15 PM
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They do not want to have their wardrobes dictated to them by men. I hate to break it to you but the wardrobes have absolutely been dictated by men but you didn't realize it. Men and women both operate on feedback loops. Wear a certain type of clothing >> receive positive/no/negative attention >> wear more/less of that type of clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:08 PM
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Let me chronicle the changes in me I have witnessed going out to clubs every week for about 18 months. First 6 months or so, just straight up afraid of talking to women. I would grab a drink or two, occasionally dance or just hang around in morose mood. Then gradually I started interacting with more and more women, so or the next 9-10 months, I would go out and talk to tons of women, I became really good at it and had a few hookups, some makeouts but it wasn't like I was slaying left and right. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:58 PM
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What does my username reads?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:22 PM
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