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Felt tip penis ??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:29 PM
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Fountain pens > Rollerball pens > gel pens > pencil > chalk > twigs in sand > hand gestures > mentally disabled > ballpoint pens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:27 PM
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I am 30, one of the most beautiful women I have seen is 33, so 33. The youngest would be 23 or more, preferably 24-27.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:20 PM
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They are very nice, but in my opinion such shoes look good only with dressy pants or loose chinos, definitely not with jeans. More versatile are shoes like this:https://www.zalando.se/timberland-terraengskor-wheat-quartz-ti112k05a-b11.html
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:58 PM
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I said artificial abundance in the form of near infinite supply of men through dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:53 PM
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People usually form standards based on what's available to them. Creating this artificial abundance completely short circuits the brains of people and they start treating others like objects who must fulfill their personal imperatives. I have heard first hand from my girl-friends that their friends expect an incredibly fun first date and mind blowing sex afterwards, everything has to be perfect. They can afford to place these unreasonable demands and expectations on mere mortals, because they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:50 PM
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for women to lower their standards I wouldn't advocate that but elimination of dating apps would probably be a better solution. Date whoever you want but meet them organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:27 PM
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So now you admit it's an attempt to obligate a woman's time and attention. I don't understand why you are being purposefully obtuse about this whole thing when everyone knows that a man offering to buy a strange woman a drink very early into conversation is him making a move on her and if she is not interested or uncertain, she should decline the offer, unless ofcourse she was to take advantage by feigning ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:19 PM
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I think you are starting to get it. When the woman has no interest to obligate her time/attention, then why does she accept the perks of the contract she has no interest in fulfilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:16 PM
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I don't know why you said that because I indicated nothing of that sort in my original piece, the value I talked about is not accepting favors when you are cognizant of underlying motives and have no intent of fulfilling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:02 PM
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Clearly we have different value system and perspectives on social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:23 PM
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Let's look at it this way, you are a hetero man at a quiet pub, a very gay presenting man sits next to you and makes a funny quip, he offers to buy you a drink. You know what the implications of buying a drink for a stranger you met 2 mins ago mean, since you have no interest in fucking him, you politely decline. Had it been so that you were hitting it off for half an hour or so like two long lost friends then you might consider a friendly gesture but straight up offer to buy a drink is just an …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:28 PM
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Okay I have nothing against LGBTQ and neither do I have a problem with abortions, I agree with a lot of aspects of liberalism but I also hold some conservative values. I don't want to pick one side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:36 PM
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Also how in some spaces, non-political means closeted conservative. Being a centrist is disallowed it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:58 PM
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I have never had a stint longer than 2 months on Tinder, but usually about 3 weeks, because it's so much of a time sink and frustrating. I wonder how guys last 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:09 PM
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Chances fell 80%, now instead of 0.5%, they are 0.1% 😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:20 AM
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Since this post is about OLD, I was talking in the context of dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:07 AM
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Men lack tact, so they go around name calling women who don't align with their idea of a partner, whereas women are more subtle/quiet about it and hence don't draw as much flack.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:42 PM
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I think my refusal is more towards dating apps and by extension everything that is needed to succeed on those apps. You don't know men's side of experience on dating apps but might have heard about it. It frustrating and hugely demoralizing. The choice then is to be a better participant or to quit, and I have chosen to quit after assessment of my SMV, how much effort is required, what I will get out of it. I will however continue to improve as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:36 PM
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I’m around more socially inclined men Is this implying that I am not socially inclined or don't hang out with socially inclined men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:36 PM
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Most social people just have friends and photos being taken naturally as part of hanging out… 📸 Not so much in my experience of hanging out mostly with guys. We might take one or two photos for keeps but that too very infrequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:50 PM
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If you can't sell yourself, it shows a lack of social skills and relationship skills which are vital. To say nothing of your job prospects. What if I have those skills but I don't want to use them because I don't want to suck up to people who I think are equals/no better than me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:52 AM
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I think cucks/suckers may be going a bit too far because children result from sex and most women have had sex, it's just that this time it resulted in what it is biologically intended to. However, a childless man dating a single mother is a whole lot of additional complexity he is taking on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:44 AM
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If there was a business sector that benefitted 50-60% of its male uses and only 5-10% of its female users then I am near certain that it would have been regulated to hell and back to balance it. But now it’s simply: follow rule 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:55 AM
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I mean I don't intend to start a circlejerk here, but I went out a lot, tried dating apps and honestly I did get laid and received some attention, I still do when I go out, however, it's a massive massive time drain and as the popular saying goes "the juice ain't worth the squeeze".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:15 PM
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Very insightful read and I find myself agreeing with a lot of it. Especially these parts: who cite some man of very powerful status they know, who is also a kind and respectful individual. I happen to believe a significant percentage of women are looking for a kind and respectful man. But it's "secondary" criteria. They're looking for a guy who looks like Tom Brady and is kind and generous The logic is: "filter by Tom Brady lookalikes, then filter by kind and generous." If you're extra-extra-ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:43 PM
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yet all they are typically told is that they're not good enough, inadequate, or even creepy If they are trying and failing then there is some merit in these claims. However if you check out of the dating scene then how could someone say that? I honestly find it deeply embarassing to be putting myself out there and being rejected and that feeling of embarassment has increased more than the desire I have for women hence I am gradually seeing myself out of this scene. It seems to be asking more of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:03 PM
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After a certain point, I see no honor in keep trying. If you have put your best foot forward and that too for a period of time then you should just come to terms with the fact that you ain't got it and start making alternate preparations, which means finding contentment through non-romantic relationships (friends, family etc), hobbies and interests. But that's just my opinion, any guy out there still hustling after facing countless rejections, more power to him but I personally can't do it. Mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:45 PM
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"People don’t die from the bullet but the organ damage and bleeding" "People don’t die from the snake bite but subsequent paralysis of the cardiovascular system"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:46 AM
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By the same token women should not be worried by the issues that plague other women if they themselves have not faced them. People worry about these things because these things happen and if they continue to happen then one day their own turn might come and if things can be changed for better, everybody will benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:54 PM
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Yeah, vagina doesn't have taste/smell buds and penetration probably feels good (speculating as a heterosexual guy). Taking someone else's junk in mouth is peak submission and places great faith in their hygeine practices. So when I hear about women giving out blowjobs in car on first dates, it makes me barf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:37 PM
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Of course, it has the word "sex" in it. So anal and oral both count. And I have noticed that oral is considered less of a big deal in USA whereas in my experience in Europe, it's a bigger deal than PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:20 AM
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Oddly, not so much, my brain just doesn’t comprehend the lesbian sex same way as the heterosexual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:26 PM
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USA is an exception because the only thing that strikes more fear than Allah in the hearts of radical Muslims is the three letter agencies of USA. They will ship their ass to Guantanamo Bay with no recourse no regrets. Otherwise most terror attacks in rest of the world are carried out by Islamic fundamentalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:15 PM
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The year is 1960, a group of friends are shooting shit in the bar. A to B: Do you have a girlfriend? B: Not really A: Oh are you just shagging someone? B: Not really A: Oh you are a celibate now? B: You could say so, or rather involuntarily celibate. everybody laughs. The term has just been invented and is harmless. Describing situation of a guy who is celibate but involuntarily. Cut to 2023 Man makes a comment. In response he is called an incel. Man gets offended due to heavy and serious connot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:15 PM
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Good point, but the distinction is as follows: A group of racist people came together and named themselves Proud Boys, for all we care they could have named themselves Tooth Fairy because the name Proud Boys is quite harmless and doesn't align with their nefarious activities. On the other hand, involuntary celibate is simply a term for an individual who is not able to acquire sex despite trying. That's it. So an accurate descriptor for those people. Since you are a Math teacher, lemme try to exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:08 PM
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Because now the word has so much negative connotations with it, you are finding it difficult to accept and use its literal meaning. 1 year long dry spell while actively trying to get laid makes a person involuntarily celibate by definition. Now because incel is used as a synonym for extreme misogynists, terrorists etc, you don’t want to label that man as incel even though by definition he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:59 AM
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Well the dictionary definition is "a person who abstains from marriage and sexual relations", so if a previously sexually active person can be a celibate by their choice (volcel) then someone could be celibate involuntarily as well (incel)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:37 AM
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Now imagine calling rioters, arsonists: jobless people. It would be true in many cases, however, the collateral damage would be the guy who is a law abiding citizen and doing his best to find a job but is unable to. Now when the statement is "jobless people set a train on fire" and how despicable they are, you have just included him in the criticism because he IS jobless by the literal meaning of the word and it doesn’t matter if you have redefined the word in your own usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:32 AM
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Let me define for you all what an incel literally mean: Involuntarily celibate. It doesn’t mean virgin and it doesn’t mean misogynistic. It means someone who wants to have sex and hasn’t been able to acquire it over a reasonable time frame. He may very well have had consensual sex in the past that he did not have to pay for, yet if he goes an year trying but unable to find sexual partner then he would be categorised as involuntarily celibate for that duration. That’s it. That’s the most literal …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:17 AM
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Yeah? Incel literally mean involuntarily celibate. It neither means virgin nor misogynistic, just someone who wants to have sex but can’t. Now if some members of this group have been found to be women haters or been mass shooters then someone decided, ah fuck it, let’s just assume that all people who are incels are women haters/mass shooters and vice versa. Which is why I equated it with Islam and terrorism, and if I have to tell you the number of terror attacks carried out by people of Muslim f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:09 AM
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Who and when decided to change the meaning of the word? And when are we going to synonimise Muslims with terrorists because overwhelming percentage of terror acts are committed by people of Muslim faith? BTW, it would be ridiculous, it was mainly to illustrate that you can't redefine words and not expect collateral damage because a lot of people don't get the memo and continue to use the literal meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:53 AM
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^ This guy understands the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:02 PM
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I do however know a 10/10 girl (I had posted her picture here and everyone agreed), and her brother is her male equivalent who will likely mog any guy she dates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:55 PM
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I am sorry if I came across as rude, I didn't mean to, apart from that I do stand by what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:44 PM
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I don't know chief, sounds like entitlement to me. We are not dealing with acquisition of inanimate objects here, but actual human beings. If you don't have the opportunities to meet people then work on creating them instead of going out hunting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:38 PM
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A) But won't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:19 PM
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Why are people with money so complicated? Why can't a salesman just tell them that I just want your money and don't give a shit if you need this product or if it actually works. I want your money, now give it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:15 PM
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I don't know if they want to be approached or not but I say "if it was picked off the street then it was probably trash". You tell me, what high quality woman would go out with a guy who goes around asking out randos? And I am not talking about saying something that came to your mind while waiting in line at the coffee shop and you two hitting it off, more like approaching a woman you saw from distance, found fuckable enough to go up to and spray and pray because there is nothing inherently spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:18 PM
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They are good ltr candidates for each other in my opinion. Hugely mismatched experience levels are usually not conductive to ltrs. Like someone with n = 2 should not be with an n = 40 I agree completely, however, that's not what is usually said. Instead, it is always "it doesn't matter and you are less evolved to care about such a thing", perhaps the underlying assumption is that men are either incels, or have prolific sex lives (or capacity for) like an average woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:00 PM
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How is years and years of casual sex not a training in disassociating sex from emotions? And how is such a person a good candidate to form long term relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:42 PM
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Okay story time. I am an Indian guy living in Sweden and barely speak any Swedish. Anyway, I had to go about 5 miles away from the Uni to attend a lab, it was in the middle of nowhere next to an airbase. I decided to bike there and about a mile in my bike broke down. I thought fine, I will run rest of the way but got lost very quickly and I had 25 minutes left to be there and I absolutely could not afford to miss it. I was freaking the fuck out. There was no way my legs would take me there in ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:26 PM
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malignant evil in nature or effect; malevolent. "in the hands of malignant fate"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:29 AM
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This is the part where I described the mass shooter: "At times it has malignant manifestations"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:59 AM
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Mother Nature made men a force to be reckoned with, they are capable of creating things of colossal scale and astonishing beauty, and also to raze them to the ground. And everything in between. At times it has malignant manifestations and then it’s disastrous. But when you pose such a question you think of "men" as your equivalent with penis but acting erratically, which I think is fundamental misunderstanding of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:16 PM
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Yeah? Or maybe look a little bit to the east and their family structure, brothers living under the same roof with their wives, children, parents. The solution is not necessarily more degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:19 PM
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Scandinavia is what can be considered "good conditions" for promiscuity and here women are able to sleep around to their heart's content. Coming to the second paragraph, and this is merely speculation, sex by design is meant to create tender feelings because in the wild sex will usually cause pregnancy and the child would survive best if both parents are present. So people who indulge in lots of sex, do have to learn to suppress those emotions from developing and as you said, it makes them colde…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:54 PM
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All these hobbies sound lovely to me, especially knitting and painting. Maybe because I am not the most exciting guy myself. I am very much into routine, predictability, and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:53 PM
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What do you think about it? While the images of those dead and grievously injured children is absolutely heart breaking, I place the responsibility primarily on Hamas and to a lesser extent on Palestinians who support Hamas.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:14 PM
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There is a 33 years old woman in my gym who is probably among the hottest people I have ever seen in my life, but she's an absolute gym rat and has a physique of a professional athlete. I am not saying that you have to be at her level of fitness but 5-8 hrs of dedicated intense workout per week and watching your diet on top of that would keep you very competitive not only at 30 but way beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:08 PM
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Nope but my happiness levels are about the same as if my beautiful girlfriend of 3 months is at work right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:53 AM
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I have only recently understood this concept. On surface level it seems relatively straightforward, but a man's internal narrative can make it mighty difficult for it to get across. But fixing that internal narrative is not easy. For me it was fixed by improving myself in all ways possible, putting myself out there, having some success and tons of failures, somewhere along the line I found my value in my own eyes and I stopped basing my worth on acceptance or lack thereof from women. And man, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:27 PM
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It takes balls to approach like that in public Yeah sure it does but that doesn't negate the fact that it is inherently a lowly behavior. It's like "hey I find you pretty, and it doesn't take much more than the woman being pretty to get some of my time or my dick, so would you go out with me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:14 PM
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You literally don't know anything about me and obviously you just want to fuck me. This is precisely why I don't cold approach, not because I don't have the courage to do it. It is not much better than a salesman trying to sell you stuff you have expressed no interest in. Sure, a good salesman might convince you to buy something but he won't be able to sell you anything of much value. High value deals are made when the buyer has indicated interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:12 PM
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If he listens to Joe Rogan, thinks Jordan Peterson and Elon Musk are the greatest things since the invention of sliced bread and peanut butter, At this point, most people hating on these 3 men do so because they are taught to, or by hyperfocusing on things they disagree with without looking at the bigger picture that all three of them have done quite well for themselves, and that would be an understatement in Elon Musk's case. I have never met a person who I agree with 100% of the time but as an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:23 AM
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For men it's handsome, 5'8 guys that lift. Biggest manwhore I know is that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:30 PM
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Indeed, just like food but overwhelming majority loves food and so do sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:12 PM
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I love sex It's akin to saying I love food.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:35 PM
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What do you call the actions a hoe takes to seduce a man? Thot process.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:46 PM
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I really liked Kim Wexler from Better Call Saul. A competent, hard hitting lawyer who was by her husband's side through thick and thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:01 PM
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There is a girl in my corridor, 23 yo old, I see her walking around with a hoodie saying "Do DILFs not drugs"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:59 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:46 PM
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Many aren’t bettering themselves for wholesome reasons 😔 I really really like overhead presses and want to haul some big weights over my head some day. Makes me feel like Atlas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:10 AM
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saggy balls A cold shower would fix that in 15 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:58 AM
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I have 4 meals a day, 3 of which are smoothies and 1 is cooked food which I meal prep on Sunday and eat throughout the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:06 AM
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I am 30 years old, here’s my vision of a good life for 30s to mid-40s (can’t plan further than that). Have a small detached house with a backyard in a beautiful suburb, the backyard would have a bunch of apple trees, flower and berry bushes. The home would have an antique and minimalist decor. It will have a small office/workshop, I would also have a gaming rig with all necessary equipment for racing and flight simulators. I will also have a fancy espresso machine. I will have a small fluffy bic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:12 PM
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I am self improving for the heck of it. As a means to have more respect for myself in my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:59 PM
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I don't know man, I find it a quite disturbing practice. I neither want to field a competition to be my girlfriend nor do I want to participate in such a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:19 PM
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I think someone else had raised the same points. Overall I think it aligns very well with Western values which equates consumption with happiness. Happiness is pleasuring your senses with food, clothing, travel, wild sex, experiences etc. And the capitalistic values have certainly trascended into interpersonal relationships. Like I was quite baffled to read on reddit that there are people out there simultaneously sampling 4-5 romantic partners, switching people in and out of the rotation, and fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:27 PM
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It's hotly debated from men's side because if they don't like promiscuity in women, and promiscuity in women is encouraged instead of being penalized then their dating pool will shrink. Women debate it hotly because their fears are the similar, if such preferences go uncriticized and scorned then more and more men will fully embrace them and their dating pool will shrink as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:53 PM
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I think everything that needed to be said has been said and most debaters have come to an agreement, except a few who are still trying to establish their way being the only right way. Here's the conclusion: For women: Do whatever you want to do with your body and your life but you have no say in what men should approve or disapprove of. For men: Be kind and respectful to others but do not allow others to bully you into accepting what you don't want to accept. You can screen but not dictate. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:16 PM
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I mean it's logical, if you continually improve your mental health and life satisfaction during abject singledom then a relationship need to significantly add to your life in order for it to be worth your time and effort. Why else would you opt for additional complexity in your life when its impact on your life would be uncertain?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:03 PM
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What a disingenous take. So someone could be an engineer at NASA, or a Navy SEAL officer, or a fighter pilot, or a researcher, or literally anyone outside of USA where such absurd salaries are not paid, that would make him lazy and dumb? If you consider amount of money someone is making a metric of hardwork and intelligence then that speaks volumes about your own intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:09 PM
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Fair enough, the only thing worse than an unapologetic hoe is a repressed hoe therefore I am all for people being able to do whatever they want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:29 PM
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Yes, I care that men insult women they don't know. Insulting other people for not living their lives the way you deem fit is not okay, on that part I agree with you. And I guess one should be prepared for a bunch of shit thrown their way too if they use derogatory terminology to describe their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:34 PM
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I was relieved to see that this post was written by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:26 PM
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You will find several women posters here who by their own admission have a high N-count and are also in LTRs, it wouldn't be kind of invalidate that. However, my goal was to get to explore the reasons why don't prefer promiscous women for relationships. My reasons are far simpler, I am somewhat of a possessive nature and I can't concile with the fact that the women I am getting so emotionally invested in has been dicked down by numerous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:44 PM
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Okay if God himself gave you the guarantee that this former hoe will not cheat on you or leave you unless you do something really terrible then would you date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:18 PM
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When you try to find logical reasoning behind your preference then the logic is open to scrutiny, to bulletproof your preference, just say that you don't like it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:39 PM
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Man, beautifully written, initially I misunderstood the trajectory you were on. I also used to think along the lines of that I will never give up, and used to imagine myself a warrior going in the arena, getting beat up and thrown out and still showing up again and again because that was my "dharma". But then one day on the dance floor I had an epiphany and I wasn't the same afterwards. It was something along the lines of "Who the fuck are these bitches? And who the fuck are they to reject me? W…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:43 PM
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After spending nearly 15 years desiring a relationship that flame is more or less extenguished and I hope it stays that way because when it burns; I burn and it's unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:06 PM
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it just sounds like expecting success in a field you put no effort in, which is ludicrous. It is indeed ludicrous if you secretly are like "hey Universe, see, I am not looking anymore and I heard that you get it when you are not looking for it, wink wink". You have to be truly okay with being alone and therefore whether or not you find someone is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:21 PM
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High n count: I dunno it kind of depends some people on here think an n count of 5 is extremely high which to me is just ridiculous even as someone who only has a fifth of that count. That’s like one hook up and a normal amount of boyfriends, for an average 25 year old. I think the definition varies person to person, some consider even N = 1 to be too high, others consider a few boyfriends and a hookup or two to be acceptable. But 5 for a 25 yo is A-okay in my personal opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:55 AM
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Bhrata, that I don’t know. But you have my best wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:33 PM
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Oof. Your day will come my brother. It will. Just hang in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:43 PM
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I agree, however I would like to add something. One should learn how to be happy all by themselves and do no "searching for a sex/relationship", but if some opportunity comes along then critically evaluate if it will be a net significant change for better in your life or not. People who are going through a period of massive yearning for love will likely not understand what is being said here and to them I just want to say that they can continue on their path and arrive at the conclusion at their…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:17 PM
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Well, as I said in other reply, it was more of a summarisation of the discourse I have witnessed here instead of a fresh piece on how I don’t like hoes (for dating purposes). But I do concede that men should keep it to themselves. People, which includes women should live their lives however they please. As an individual your right when it comes to dating is to screen, not dictate how others live their lives. And if your screening criteria removes majority of people then again it’s your choice wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:40 PM
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Haha, I will fix that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:08 AM
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Nah. I am primarily speaking to men so they know what’s up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:05 AM
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Yeah, sometimes it’s good to summarise and put in perspective what’s going on because too many people get pulled into these traps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:02 AM
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One hilarious argument I see here is: "Men dislike promiscuous women because even a woman who is rather indiscriminate didn’t choose their ass". While it might be true for some men, there are still plenty (like me) who actually have been with such women and have also rejected advances of women numerous times in their lives. So these blatantly transparent tactics of calling men who don’t want their partner to have sucked dozens of dicks as: Young and dumb. Incels with revenge fantasies Insecure a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:14 AM
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The only reason why there is a conflict surrounding this topic is because women DON'T WANT it to matter, which explains the anger and hostility surrounding this question and all sorts of moral and personal failings are ascribed to a man who says that it matters to him. They simply cannot allow this to be a thing because then their choices would be to 1) Lie about it. 2) Not sleep around. 3) Have their dating pool shrink down the line. They probably don't want to do 1 and 2 and can't allow 3 to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:47 PM
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gangbang 100% Context often is very important
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:17 PM
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I am 5’9" and I have a thing for tall women. I think going for tiny women is more of an American thing also tall girls primarily reject, not get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:46 PM
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Dammit! I feel like I am becoming more like that by the day. I see attractive women and it's a pleasure to look at them and a shallow fantasization about how nice it would be if I could date them but any further scrutiny and I am like nope! I will do no monkey dance and put up with no bullshit to have a chance at companionship. Maybe our genes will die out but I think mental peace is more important than passing on our genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:07 PM
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If the three aspects of a potential partner are: looks, n-count, and how she treats him. Then it’s up to the individual if he wants to enforce as many of these three as he wants. You can’t make sweeping claims that guys are out there making concessions on only the last part. And that former hoes dish out good treatment to their partners. You are just making assumptions to suit the narrative you are trying to push.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:52 PM
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What's with guys who are willing to put up with all kinds of disrespectful, cold, abusive, demanding and all around shitty personality and treatment from women but for some reason are obsessed with filtering by n count? Have any evidence for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:57 AM
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Since you seem so sure of yourself about how it is, let me put forth my personal experience. I never had casual sex then last year in the span of 6 months I slept with 4 women, not earth shattering numbers but reflecting back, it was an emotionally empty experience, sure in the heat of the moment it got passionate and steamy but afterwards I felt nothing and I wished I liked those women on a deeper level because kissing them felt not much better than kissing my own hand. Then I realized that if …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:40 AM
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Yeah, the strange people on Internet who also have to endure the misfortune of reading your willfully obtuse arguments put forth so smugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:20 PM
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Exactly, if they are so proud of their history and think they did nothing wrong then say it and leave the ball in other person’s court. Instead they want to gag you by placing a reputation cost on asking this question. They say it’s none of your business, what really is a prospective partner’s business? If you went to college? Where and what you studied? Work you do? Any chronic illnesses? Information about family? And numerous other things two people exchange information about to obtain whole p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:18 PM
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I am the one who cares yet you will never disclose the number. People can see right through your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:11 PM
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Okay, "I've had sex before. Is that a problem for you?" Will be my new opening line. With how many people? You conviniently left out the part which is most pertinent to the current discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:51 PM
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Past doesn't matter. You can't determine much from it. I admire your dedication and persistence in repeating a lie with hopes that one day it will start sounding like a truth. But even if we move on to other aspects of life like job, education, applying for bank loans, healthcare, criminal record etc, past absolutely does matter. And your insistence that it does not matter in this context makes me suspect that you know deep inside that it does matter but you want it to not matter. Try volunteeri…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:09 PM
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Considering how violently a lot of women react to the topic of N-count, I am completely convinced that they are also deeply insecure about it and know that it matters and desperately want it to not matter. Imagine if someone asked how many times you have gone to a movie theater and based on the number you quoted (say between 0-200) they rejected you, you would think they are retarded and move on with your life. You would likely not call them insecure, jealous, and that they should seek therapy b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:00 PM
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I don’t have most of the bad habits you described and I can cook some banger meals, I live alone so do my own laundry and cooking. However, the caricature of man you have painted, you obviously shouldn’t marry such a man but you seem to suggest that most men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:39 AM
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he doesn't like high bodycount women Maybe it’s just semantics but there is no reason to dislike promiscuous women as one can rule them out from being a dating option without hating them. After all it’s their life, their body, their choices, and it’s all legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:12 AM
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The narrative around N-count seems to hit a nerve somewhere considering how active you are in these threads. But overall, good for you, I hope it keeps working out for you. As for the guys who do care about it, your success is unlikely to change their minds and is quite irrelevant as you are not in their dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:07 AM
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It’s okay to be insecure about some things, no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:29 AM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:47 AM
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I think it's probably American phenomena that you treat oral sex as lesser of a deal than PIV but from my experience in Europe, getting a blowjob is a bigger deal than PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:40 PM
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It's human to make mistakes, but mistakes are things you did 1-2 times not what you did throughout your college, then it's just your character.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:20 AM
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It's exactly the same in India. Also the prevalence of religion is another constraining factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:18 AM
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I think to a certain extent this whole N-count discussion is useless. In a free society, women who want to sleep around are doing so and those who don't want to aren't. For you, as a man, it's not a good look to try and control women's action, instead you should select for people who naturally are the way you prefer them to be. The discussion whether your preference is good or not is also moot since you are not answerable to anyone but yourself in this context, so do what aligns most with your v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:52 PM
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In India I would be a 7-8, in Sweden 4-7 depending on who you ask. For the girls who are into Stockholm fuckboy aesthetics, I would be a 4, but then I have been approached, called handsome, and had hookups so for some I could be a 7 as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:25 AM
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I think naturally you are beautiful but your unconventional presentation docks a point or two for people who are into conventional aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:11 AM
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As a guy, I am guilty of this as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:31 PM
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Precisely, I have never asked either but had a pretty good idea each time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:23 PM
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Indeed, sex is not neurosurgery that requires extensive practice and experience to be good at and if you are mediocre at the beginning then you will die from mediocre sex. Give me an enthusiastic partner who is into me and sex will get better by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:02 PM
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He was specifically talking about wanting tall men, so the part of your answer relevant to that was "entitled" but that is barely offensive so you threw in gold-digger in the mix even though it was not pertinent to the question asked, thereby trying to increase the punch of your answer. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:35 AM
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I am very glad to witness that the discourse surrounding this topic has moved on from bullshit reasons to complete ownership of the preference in question. This bulletproofs it. "I don't like it and I don't want it" is one of the hardest positions to tackle especially if you refuse to elaborate further.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:27 PM
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What's your point? If this information is concealed or lied about then obviously men won't be able to make an informed decision, that doesn't mean that it's irrelevant info. It's in the same league as the question for man being "have you every visited a prostitute?" It will be a dealbreaker for a lot of women but if she never posed the question or he lied then by the same token someone could say that it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:59 AM
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My brother from another mother in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:34 AM
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It's like neither of the two sexes like their partner to be fucked by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:28 AM
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What were those hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:44 PM
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Isn't this advice only helpful for the limited number of people who have: A. A hobby that has a group. B. Time to regularly go to that hobby group. C. The demography there includes single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:17 PM
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such as a hobby group or volunteering Honestly I am moderately annoyed whenever I hear this and it is very often. I know literally nobody who goes to "hobby groups" or "volunteering" and when I look at my own hobbies which to begin with are not many, are solitary. Sure I do like sports like Volleyball and tennis but with full time school, daily 2 hrs of gym, errands, there isn't any time for those. Also I don't know anyone who met anyone through hobby groups or volunteering. I think at this poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:15 AM
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Heck we can't definitively tell what our own group likes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:56 AM
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I eventually got the hang of dating (specifically online dating) and did really well. Teach me your ways sensei :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:34 PM
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A girl I used to talk to said that she wants to hang off my back while I do pull ups, it is important for me to know how much she weighs so that I know the goal weight for my weighted pull ups. Now she wasn't fat but she could have been anywhere between 55-70 kg and that's world of a difference when doing weighted pull ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:55 PM
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You do not have the leverage. That I agree with. For every 1 man who rejects a woman for her bad behavior, there would be 4 willing to put up with it, thus she has no incentive to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:50 PM
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This is the kind of strawman arguments that makes me believe that the other side lacks fundamental understanding. They have moved on from men are single and lonely because -> They don't shower -> They are misogynists -> They are only chasing casual sex. So the progression has been from very fundamental failing in the form of not showering, to having attitude problems, to seeking something they are not good enough for. Whereas from men's perspective the issue is that a significant chunk of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:57 PM
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I don't believe what I wrote expressed my agitation or feelings of being offended. Also, I have on three instances showed why just because it doesn't make sense to her doesn't make it invalid. Your response to my original comment was invalid as well because the differentiating factor between hetero/homosexual men is their sexuality, so if you eliminate that difference then they are in the same group. Similarly, young women is a group, within that group you have lesbians, asexuals, women who like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:45 AM
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She is a younger woman who doesn’t like older men, but there are younger women who do like older men, so she doesn’t understand such women, how could she? She’s not them. I am a man, I like women, but there are men who like men, I don’t completely understand them, how could I when our sexualities are different? Let me break this down further, a group of people are similar in all but one characteristic and certain actions are driven due to that one small difference. Now sharing majority of charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:10 AM
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I am not advocating for mandated equity like arranged marriages but we seem to be actively promoting the inequity to the extent that the system is getting broken by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:35 PM
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Don't care much about the childfree ones, bit sad for the infertile women if they want children of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:26 PM
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It’s a game of survival of the fittest. Let's disband all healthcare, law enforcement, constitution and let nature decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:23 PM
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Now imagine a white and 2" taller version of her, lesser muscle mass though because she's a triathlete
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:21 PM
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4 day drinking bender starting Wednesday? He can't do it, he has to work. Skipping class to smoke weed and eat all the pizza? Sorry, he's gotta go to the gym and get a good night's rest. Randomly hopping into a car and driving 15 hours away for an adventure? Nope, he has appointments and errands to run this weekend. What I find quite amusing is women are simultaneously not all the same and the same, depending on how it suits your narrative. The lifestyle you are describing is very obviously not …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:19 PM
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Let me tell you about this woman at my gym. She is an absolute machine. She works out so hard that she makes the machines sweat. She was working out like crazy a few days before she delivered her baby (on a Saturday) and was back in the gym on Monday and by her admission she also worked out in her hospital room on Sunday. Considering how hard she worked out throughout her pregnancy, she didn't get fat at all, she showed me her belly the week after she delivered and she still has a six pack. Abso…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:05 PM
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I will never get the whole "homosexual men like dicks" dynamic as a heterosexual man myself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:29 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:58 AM
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/u/purplish_possum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:59 PM
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That’s fantastic, as a man, no complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:29 AM
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If she is in a healthy weight range then I don’t believe so. Still, nowhere near as detrimental as height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:38 PM
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I can guarantee you that thigh gaps and hips dips are not even in the same galaxy as height in the context of how much they matter. You are basically bringing up these obscure preferences which are still not dealbreakers for nearly any man on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:21 PM
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According to religious funded research with the goal of shaming folks for having sex. I don't think that liberal academia would even fund that kind of research due to the off chance that something contrarion might come out of it. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:39 PM
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True, they are amidst a significant social transition so many are struggling to adapt but eventually they will and be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:30 PM
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I think every normal person starts off with the dream/goal of spending their life with someone, having and raising children. Then there is a period of time when they are trying to find their person and failing, during that period the thought of being alone with the rest of your life is terrifying. Then a long time pass by, you realize that you did indeed spend a decade and a half searching and being still being alone, in the hindsight it wasn't that bad. Now you are adept at surviving alone and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:16 PM
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Of course, no analogy can ever be good be enough, I have never seen a man present a analogy and a woman poster here being happy with it. The main concern in engaging with such people is not cheating but that they have a history of seeking sexual novelty, and you have to believe them that they will be content with sleeping with just you and that you are somehow more special than 50 guys before you, and that the buck will stop with you. Wishful thinking in my opinion. Just because you can jump off…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:47 PM
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If the issue is, say, insecurity, it benefits the man the most to work that out, to develop greater self worth and esteem, to stop comparing himself to others, etc. I love this general categorisation of all apprehensions under one blanket term "insecurity", do you feel "insecure" when you pass a dark alley at night? Isn't that your limbic brain trying to warn you that based on your knowledge of the current events, this situation is dangerous? When hiring a former DUI offendor to be your kid's ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:54 PM
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deeper issues and problematic beliefs. Let's for a second accept this premise, that n-count related ick is due to insecurity, retro-active jealousy, sex negativity, bla bla bla etc. Alright, the diagonosis is there, but do men in any manner owe it to anyone to "fix" themselves of these "defects"? Are they allowed to continue being defective and thus rejecting people who don't fit in their defective worldview? The consequence is that they might end up alone, let's leave it to them to worry about …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:15 PM
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Now they are also making posts about how one day they will settle for you, treat you proportional to the desire you evoke in them, which is fraction to what Chad evoked, so be okay with it. It’s logical. Why don’t you get it and accept it? Don’t you see that I am 33 and want kids soon? Who will foot the bill? Don’t you want to create a legacy with a former hoe? Don’t you want someone to call you Daddy and come running to you when you get home? Don’t you want someone who half of the time physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:33 PM
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I understand this. But you are making a hell lot of arguments to make men accept that being settled for is their only choice and they should be happy with it. While to those men I am saying that if you are not happy with this fact then don’t get into such relationships with such women. Set them free in their pursuit of more Chad dicks, this is where her true happiness lies and it’s a kind and loving thing to let her find her happiness ;) Fundamentally all the pushback around N-count preferences …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:13 PM
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Indeed, and if you notice I have not said anything about restricting your ability to sleep with Chads. I am primarily speaking to my fellow men, asking them to be cognizant of their own needs and wants, and not settle for sub-par relationships because here you are using logic like "Duh! You are not Chad so don't expect Chad treatment". The response to which is: "Duh! You are not treating me the way I want to be treated so no committment to you"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:15 AM
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I don't "deserve" anything. I don't have entitlements. But, I have the right to make decisions about who to spend my time, energy, resources on. If there is someone I like, they like me back and are treating me best of their abilities then I will return the favor. I can also take the lead and see if they step up. If not then adios. But how can you do that if you are having casual sex? I don't think I said anything about casual sex, so I have no response to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:59 AM
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why men who aren't Chad have an expectation that they should be treated like Chad. The expectation arises from the fact that if you are in relationship with someone then they will treat you best of their ability, but apparently that is a misguided expectation as their best treatment is reserved for Chads, therefore regular men should first drop that expectation and along with it the desire to have a relationship with such women. Then men also have to decide for themselves if they want this kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:16 AM
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Fair enough, and I have no argument to make with you, however, I would really like men to take this discourse seriously and re-evaluate their life goals and plans. Do you really want to marry and start a family with such women? If you do then in my opinion you are compromising heavily on self respect. If I am not Chad and cannot command the kind of respect, love, and devotion that a Chad commands then I don't want whatever scrapes you have to throw my way. It's better to die on your feet than li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:01 AM
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Can you elaborate more on the following: losing the right to education, not allowed to work, expected to be a servant to their man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:32 PM
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The first two does and I am truly sorry for that but I don’t believe that the following is the case: losing the right to education, not allowed to work, expected to be a servant to their man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:31 PM
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That’s right cause woman’s issues like domestic violence, rape, losing the right to education, not allowed to work, expected to be a servant to their man, etc don’t really matter do they? I love it when women living in the West use Afghan women as an example of how bad their day-to-day life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:40 AM
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https://9gag.com/gag/azmv0zx
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:39 PM
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Women don't care about height I have posed this question to many women and in my personal experience it matters 100%. Not saying that there is no woman who wouldn't date a man shorter than her, but they are fewer, and just last night my dorm mate was saying that she has dated men shorter than her but won't anymore. She's 5'10".
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 10:43 AM
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Daniel Craig If had to guess it, I would have estimated his height to be 6'1" - 6'2". He doesn't look 5'9" to me at all, and also makes me feel happy because I am same height.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 10:41 AM
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A girl who can bench 70kg is in the top percentile of strength for women her size, that’s why it’s so impressive. It’s different to a guy who benches 70kg (still a great achievement for them too). My gym is home to many women in top shape and there is one who is an absolute beast, not huge, but triathlete build and she's 8-9 months pregnant and still benched 70 kg yesterday. We had a brief chat and she's going to give birth to a girl, that girl is going to be like Max Verstappen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:33 AM
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Men fantasize about loving a woman and doing anything he can for her. True, in my peak simping days I think at some point I said to a girl that I would walk 50 miles in a day if you were waiting for me at the finish line. Not proud. But yeah, man's way of expressing love has been the willingness to do anything he can for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:32 PM
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God lord, people have said this time and again that who's saying this matters, if it's a woman you are already fucking then it's a good thing, but it's a random woman who wouldn't even go on a date with you then it's not. Which is why I drew parallel with the "nice tits" comment, if it's coming from a guy you are already fucking then it wouldn't matter, but a rando saying that would bother you. But a lot of people wrote comments similar to yours and I don't know if they are disagreeing for the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:12 PM
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Good job man for standing your ground 🙌🏼 A girl showing up to a date with 2 FWB in the background is a dealbreaker in itself for me. I don’t dig this modern dick surfing way of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:07 PM
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Woman then says: "Oh.. but i already have one/two fuckbuddy's so no need for a third.. i'm however open to date you seriously." Oof, that’s rough man. Women probably don’t realise it but it’s like laughing at man’s face. A massive disrespect. At this point I think men shouldn’t even bother explaining themselves and just get up and leave after paying their portion of the bill. Also, those guys are definitely not complaining about getting effortless sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:54 PM
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The last Hail Mary attempt at increasing my SMV is losing 10 kg and getting to ~12% bf, have lost about 3 kg. Been eating in a 500 calorie deficit, eating ~ 2-2.2 g/kg protein, working out 5-6 times a week, 2 hrs each time, strength training along with steady state cardio.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:50 PM
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I meant to say that you aren’t inherently boring, like X chemical may react violently to Y chemical but be neutral to Z chemical
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:47 PM
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mean the person is boring to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:41 PM
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I don't have the kind of solid evidence you are seeking because nobody self-incriminates that blatantly, however, I had once come across a blog post by a woman where she described something along the lines of what I said and underneath it contained unending list of women chiming in with their reasons and consequent regret for doing something similar and feeling sorry/helpless/stuck etc. but I don't have access to it anymore, so your choice is either to believe me or think that I am making shit u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:14 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:08 PM
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it's an insult if you don't think that wives are attracted to their husbands. It's an insult if you realise that non-insignificant number of women marry men they aren't super attracted to because "I wanted to get married and have kids, he seemed great on paper and I just went with it hoping love and attraction would develop". This is one of the case where just because you personally can't imagine doing it, you refuse to believe that it happens or anyone else does it. I cannot imagine myself assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:06 PM
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Precisely, and it wasn't a post for you either. It wasn't for men who see women as sex objects, neither was it for women who use wouldn't date/sleep with the guy now but still consider him "husband material" for someone else or themselves many years later when they want to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:00 PM
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What I said: "Two people, both in 20s, relatively close in age as is common, spending their 20s together developing a relationship and then finalising it into a marriage when they are in late 20s, early 30s." What you heard: "men just want to fuck young women and don't care about personality or value or anything beyond looks." Don't bother replying, I won't respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:31 PM
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If you heard it from me, then point it out, if you heard it from someone else then take it to them and focus on countering what I said if you so feel inclined to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:01 PM
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I find it kind of fucked up men view being viewed as being someone that a woman wants to spend the rest of her life with and fuck exclusively a bad thing. From my perspective, in that situation the man feels like an agent to fulfill her goals of having kids and raising them in a two parent, two income, relatively stable household. He feels like there isn't inherently anything special about him because he's being selected at a juncture in her life when her desparation to start a family is highest…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:40 PM
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Is something wrong with me? I would freak out totally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:16 PM
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Full body massage, the regular therapeutic kind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:55 PM
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So far guys haven't pitched in and all women who have responded seem to be fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:38 PM
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If your partner went for a massage from a massage therapist of the opposite sex, would you be upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:39 AM
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I am a straight guy and this guy is smart as hell and quite accomplished so high value in my eyes and he is not bad looking at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:19 PM
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7-7.5
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:59 PM
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Let’s not play these blame games and who is worse, if you determine something is a bad idea then don’t do it. Hedonism is central to Western culture and values, therefore something like lifelong marriage that requires sacrifices, withstanding conflicts and boredom is maybe not your cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:30 PM
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Very good 👍🏻, however, I would recommend also including squats if you are not doing them already
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:09 PM
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I had said this at the end implying that marriage is a bad idea, so, if men check out of marrying then so will women, there, solved your problem I don't know what's worse, "never married" or "divorced", I will vote for the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:05 PM
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I enjoyed them. Then looked up what’s a good number for someone my age and weight, apparently 79 kg for 1 rep, or its equivalent 50 kg for 17 reps puts you at intermediate level. And I obviously managed it so I was little surprised because I started training legs barely 2 months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:02 PM
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How much do you all leg curl? I tried it for the first time today and did 50 kg for 17 reps after rest of the leg workout (paused ass to grass, touch and go ass to grass, and pistol squats)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:53 PM
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The reason why women initiate most divorces is because most women are in charge of duties. If a guy cheats on a woman and she filed for divorce that counts as “her initiating divorce”. Even if the marriage is slowly crumbling the woman is usually the one who had to put the logistical work to “initiate divorce” This is the most cited reason to explain the disproportionately high initiation rate and I think it is not sufficient to explain such disparity and somehow men are still held responsible f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:52 PM
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they’re 40 and without a legacy of children I am no Royal Prince who must produce a hier, I am simply a son of a farmer and there won't a great loss to humanity if that linage ends. However, it is more important to me to live my life by the values that appeal to me. If marriage doesn't appeal to me now then I am not marrying now with the fear that I might go on to regret it later. You make choices and pay the price.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/23 02:05 PM
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I don't know exactly what to tell you because average guys are perfectly capable of being mean and ass, but I have never had a woman show this level of interest on an app, either they straight up don't respond or reply with closed ended answers, which makes me think that people behave differently when they have plethora of options and that guy was a perfect example of that. I am not excusing his behavior, merely stating what abundance of options do to you, especially when you feel meh about that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:58 PM
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It is unfortunate, I am sorry you had to experience it. Perhaps the regular sex education can include these concepts as well, how to handle rejection gracefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:18 PM
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Men take a rejection well and don’t become angry or aggressive or violent or start stalking the woman that rejected him and don’t turn his rejection into “all woman are whores” etc How common is it? I have personally never done or witnessed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:52 AM
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If you run for president, I will vote for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:51 AM
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It’s all good but the problem is finding women who think like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:39 AM
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Good point but the genie cannot be put back in the bottle, you can mainly make pragmatic choices to deal with the current realities. If 50% of the marriages are ending up in a divorce and no-fault divorce is a thing then what even is the point? I simply don’t understand. Yeah, you get some social brownie points but how do they help or their absence hinders? Being "divorced" is negative brownie points and the risk comes attached with the brownie points. I am speaking mainly from the utilitarian p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:25 PM
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Marriage, in the traditional sense, has lost its meaning. Til death do us part - yeah, no. THIS. PRECISELY. I understand people in conservative societies getting married because their threshold for divorce is stratospheric, but in the society when "no more tingles" is enough grounds for divorce, it is batshit insane to get married. Go to TwoXChromosomes and people there literally egg people on to divorce on the most trivial bullshit. It is absolutely ridiculous that if it is so meaningless and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:48 PM
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So men who advocate for the abolition of marriage are willing to stay with the mother of their children, right? I, for one, believe that the only reason a man could consider marrying is if he really wants to have children. If not he should get a vasectomy asap and never marry, or he is ambivalent about having children and is not married by a certain age threshold, let’s say 40, he should just get a vasectomy and never marry. Also the woman he is selecting to have kids with, he better have a long…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:39 PM
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iSeCuRe, GeT tHeRaPy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:01 AM
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If we were really not supposed to eat fries we should’ve died
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:59 AM
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I think it’s one of the easiest virtue signaling people can engage in because it doesn’t require anything substantial on their part so they milk the shit out it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:50 AM
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A) They don’t bother me in the sense that I want them to stop doing what they want with their bodies or with other consenting adults. B) They are disproportionately represented in the media, even in countries which do not have laws prosecuting/harassing them. They can live normal lives. C) This ridiculously long jumbled string of alphabets is comical and all I was saying was they could consider something smaller, all encompassing. D) Is their identity so shallow and fragile that they have to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:34 AM
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Surveys in Western cultures find, on average, that about 93% of men and 87% of women identify as completely heterosexual, 4% of men and 10% of women as mostly heterosexual, 0.5% of men and 1% of women as evenly bisexual, 0.5% of men and 0.5% of women as mostly homosexual, and 2% of men and 0.5% of women as completely …..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:46 AM
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Not my first fumble lol, but how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:56 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:51 PM
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A funny conversation I just recalled, many months ago I was dancing by myself on the dance floor and a girl came and started dancing near me and looked at me intermittently. Me: Nice dress Her: WHAAATTTT Me: (gesturing to her dress) Nice dress Her: Oh, I thought you said "Nice breasts" Me: (on the defensive) No No No, I said nice dress Her: Haha yeah, that would be an awkward way to start. I am like oh.. okay Me: haha true, but they are nice still. Her: haha thanks, btw I am going to the bar to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:47 PM
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I am 30 but in grad school, I do get a few matches here a there with pretty girls but the amount of effort one has to put is too much. IRL I have indeed done much better because (not to toot my own horn) I think I have good social skills but IRL opportunities to meet new people aren’t that many either. But doesn’t matter, I honestly feel fine being by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:42 PM
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Well, I am 3-4 out of those, which might explain why I got so few matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:13 PM
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I don’t treat it as gospel, more like a random person telling me stuff, ultimately I don’t use it for anything important and double check. For example, I asked it about Sprint format in F1, or the blower they put in take ports, it answered those well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:56 PM
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I think one's assets should be protected in cases of infidelity or abuse of the other party. I agree, criminalising would be too much, but then the onus will lie on the other party to prove that cheating happened. It will get messy and in some cases might not be proved, hence, don’t marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:54 PM
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I know it is a fancier auto correct but I have had numerous discussions with it and in general have found them sensible and often useful therefore I use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:45 PM
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As an AI model developed by OpenAI…. Erm.. cough cough…. My apologies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:39 PM
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It’s not so much positive attitude as it is emotional regulation, you feel inclined to respond in a certain way but realise that it will be counterproductive so you calibrate accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:36 PM
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Dear sir, you are committing a logical fallacy where you are attacking the source of argument instead of the argument itself. If you can counter the stand-alone argument then you are welcome else your contribution will not be missed. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:34 PM
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Yeah, usually home and the belongings contained within, which I think is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:31 PM
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You can’t have any fruitful discussions when you lead your argument with that. It will only evoke hostility in their responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:25 PM
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I think the institution of marriage should be disbanded if it is so easy to violate it without any repercussions. It’s like having a 1’ tall fence. Or at the very least don’t put up that joke of a 1’ tall fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:19 PM
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or not get married. I think this is the way to go and I hope more men come to their senses. The conversation needs to be started without it having misogynistic undercurrents. However the way you described it is very scary because you are handwaving it away so casually, "oh it’s complex and takes too much time and resources so let’s split it in the middle and call it day". This is not justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:14 PM
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Very nice 👍🏻 Let’s hear what the ladies have to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:10 PM
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Don’t talk shit about nursing/teaching, it’s an honest and good work that adds value to the society and I rate it much higher than someone busting their assess to make corporations richer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:05 PM
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I mean, someone punching someone might cause damage that heals in a day or two but could land them in jail for assault and battery, but how does emotional damage that cheating causes goes unpunished? I am not saying that throw them in jail, but that should at the very least taken into consideration during divorce proceedings during alimony/asset division.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:53 PM
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I had heard guys go on and on about no fault divorces and how there is nothing in it for the men in marriages but I didn’t pay much attention to it. Today when interacting with ChatGPT I learnt that your wife could cheat on you and still take half of your shit and probably kids as well. Absolutely mind boggling. Why would you knowingly get into something in which you stand to gain so little in terms of material possessions but stand to lose a lot, again, in material possessions. Just do it the S…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:49 PM
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We have a civilised society because we have placed a lot of checks and curbs on “basic instincts". Cheating on your partner is still acting on a basic instinct but is considered wrong in most circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:24 PM
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Why is cheating on a partner not a crime yet? Especially if you’re married because you entered in a contract and cheating is a breach of contract. Also, someone stealing/defrauding you, or slapping/punching you can potentially get them jail time but cheating on your spouse and giving them lifelong trauma goes punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:21 PM
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Really? Man it’s quite ridiculous. And then one day your parents will set you up on arranged marriage and you will be evaluated on your resume and payslip. Which city do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:43 PM
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Do you also refuse treatment for diseases? Because it’s evolution trying to select the fittest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:25 PM
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How are you getting burnt?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:24 PM
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but if you have something going wrong for you Lol, like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:44 PM
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It's a completely logical evolutionary adaptation Before I present what I intended to, I would like to know if we should not interfere with evolulotionary adpatations?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:41 PM
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Nope, because after having spent nearly all of my life being alone, I think I have gotten pretty good at it and I have started to enjoy my own company and the freedom that comes with singledom. So someone has to add significantly to my life for me to give it up. Else flight/racing sims, weightlifting, RC planes, etc are plenty to keep me busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:09 PM
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Correct me if I am wrong because I am not a native here, but what you are describing is how it works when dating in social circles, but quite significant number of Swedes date through dating apps as well and there it looks like more American style and I would assume that multi dating would be more common there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:05 AM
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I lived in India for the first 28 years of my life, I honestly have no freaking clue about dating in India since I lived in a village/small town. But a little bit that I know, these western problems either don’t apply or don’t apply to same scale, especially outside of upper/upper-middle class in big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:15 PM
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Same, but I moved here so it’s extra hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:00 PM
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These are my personal views.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:37 AM
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I like tall women. I am 5’9" and would be fine with someone up to 6’ but would she be fine with me? 1/10 chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:01 PM
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I am terribly sorry but I do not find this reply relevant to what I said. I am a part time gym-bro myself as I spend 10-12 hrs at the gym every week and fit women turn me on like no other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:47 PM
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Jesus Christ either it is a bad faith argument or you lack reading comprehension. I said earlier that man wanting to protect means him vs the threat, it doesn't matter if the woman is 5'2" or 6'2" but from woman's logic, 5'10" man can protect a 5'2" woman but not 6'2". Then they revert to feeling feminine hamstering which is ridiculous to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:44 PM
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Patriarchal obsession? It's the women saying they want to feel protected not men saying that they want to protect small women because it's absurd as it's man vs threat and size of the woman is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:27 PM
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A while ago I had essentially debunked the "protected" part so women who responded fell back on the feminine part. Here's the thread for your reference: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14zk9qz/daily_community_chat_megathread/js2vd4f/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:09 PM
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When women say they prefer tall/taller men because it makes them feel feminine, there is usually no proper counter argument, however, if a man is found wanting something in a woman to feel masculine, he'd face a lot of ridicule. Any ideas why that is so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:55 PM
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I have to give it to you that your argument formulation can easily penetrate gullible minds because it is hinging on demonstrating how our priorities change as we age using some relatively harmless examples. You could have also used fondness for comics, certain type of movies/music and the reader would be like hmmm it's true, I have changed in a lot of ways as well and don't do many things that I used to do. Maybe she's right. Maybe I shouldn't care if mother of my child participated in gangbang…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:35 AM
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I know right? I have just thought about it that actually most women going through hoe phase are actually not as oblivious as they later pretend to be. A 21 yo current hoe who wants children some day knows that she has time until mid-30s so why not have fun now? When she's 32 and interviewing Billy Betas about the position of her housemate she will let him believe that she didn't know any better and her priorities have changed. Nope. She knew she could afford that lifestyle then and can't now so …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:57 AM
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True and fair point but men can decide for themselves if they want to cater to such women. Let's have a pact. We stop telling you how to live your life and you stop telling us how we do ours. So fuck around all you want in your 20s but we want to hear nothing about why it shouldn't matter TO US. Who gave you the power to decide for yourself and for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:02 AM
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Great example, me on the other hand identified my likes, interests, values very early in my life 14-16 and over time I have evolved in the same direction. So I have matured but not changed. Who is to guarantee that the person who has a history of changing in arbitrary ways will not do so in the future? Also, in these situations women are essentially asking men to take them up for their word and promise that they have changed and disregard a vast history to draw any conclusions. Quite convenient …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:56 AM
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I would advise against forming your opinion based on that. I have never voiced my revulsion for promiscuous women with any woman I have slept with. NEVER HAVE NEVER WILL. So one of them could end up on the internet saying it doesn't matter based on the men I have been with. Most men who are not dumbasses know when to keep their mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:13 AM
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Not with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:58 PM
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What does winning at life look to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:54 PM
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I would have to hazard a guess and say that most of them are Swedish because he was born and raised here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:51 PM
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He is of Slavic origin, about 5'9" and built like a refrigerator. 100 kg of pure muscle and unshakable confidence because he is a trained fighter and has been around the world. He has quite a bit of ghetto in him and is very polarising. But his values are good and has spiritual inclinatios, he is like if I get into a relationship then cheating is not an option. What kind of weak ass bitch are you to commit and then cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:43 PM
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Same, I am a FOB in Sweden. If there is a message you want to put out it is that be the best version of yourself and there is no one above or below you. Being really good independently without requiring a stamp of approval of any particular group of people is what we are going for. You work out, eat right, maintain great hygiene, groom and dress well, speak with confidence and conviction, treat everyone with respect and kindness and that's basically all there is to it. After that leave to the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:38 PM
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I know right? It doesn't improve the situation, it only makes it worse for everyone else because you are planting that narrative. People are born with different gifts, advantages, and handicaps, we have to work with what we got to the best of our abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:13 PM
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It's all good but man I feel second hand embarrassment when my fellow brown dudes talk about white girls in particular. Don't do it. It isn't good and doesn't look good. White girl is a girl first and her approval is not more valuable than an equivalent black chick or a girl of any other ethnicity. And because you are Indian doesn't mean you are inherently lesser than others. Work out, dress well, smell nice, and feel like a million dollars. Don't try to whitewash yourself. Be the best Indian du…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:57 PM
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I tend to agree here because I am such a man who is overly analytical and thus try to box people into models. I also took that big 5 personality trait quiz and did indeed rate high on neuroticism. I also have an anxious disposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:22 PM
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Since she has covered all the pain points Red Pilled men talk about, she would stand fantastic chance with men of her age cohort, I personally would have no qualms in dating her and would see her with great respect and admiration. Sure she's not as hot as her 22 yo self but as you said, her youth was not spent chasing dick, drinking and partying. So, I won't hold her age against her. Besides, I have somewhat similar life story where I spent early to late 20s pulling my family out of debt and did…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:21 PM
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I have read numerous books about pick up and watched Julian RSD's Pimp Series, and I don't know if I am retarded or something but the only take away for me was to get your anxiety in control and just have fun with the girl you are talking to. On a more advanced level, it covers escalation and logistics. But I don't recall reading about giving her backhanded compliments or being mean to a stranger for no reason. Or I might have and it didn't stick, I don't know. It's probably dimwits who think in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:42 PM
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Sad noises
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:13 PM
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Is it outside the city?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:06 PM
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Well, I think it ties well with what I said next. I shared what I consider a good life, which is clearly not traveling the world and living in a penthouse, it is to chill and someone similar might resonate with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:01 PM
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I would prefer to live alone tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:56 PM
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Damn bro, but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:55 PM
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Tbh I life is quite mundane so outside of these things I don't do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:52 PM
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What do you mean by tech/nerd type of person? I didn't discuss the fact that inside the home I plan to build a flight sim and a racing sim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:39 PM
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I stand corrected, but was it used properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:37 PM
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Thanks man, it was refreshingly useful read and actually made sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:36 PM
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Lemme test this out for a week or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:23 PM
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Notice the Oxford comma
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:22 PM
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🥺 👉👈
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:20 PM
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I think it may have killed millions but prevented 100s of millions from dying because major powers are too afraid to go to war with each other. Cue the current Russo Ukrainian war. NATO would have steamrolled Russia if it wasn't for nukes. Heck look at what Uncle Sam to countries that don't have nukes. I think it's a net positive, besides it also facilitated nuclear energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:19 PM
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I am 30 now, I have quit trying hard to appear cool. Being sincere and honest is the way to go moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:10 PM
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Yeah, as if women stay out of askmen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:07 PM
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Millions seems a bit of an exaggeration. Besides, he didn't kill anyone. Ironsmith who made the knife/sword didn't kill, the wielder did
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:05 PM
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Rate my Tinder bio My idea of adventure is taking a brutally long hike, or challenging myself in some way. I love working out, and listen to audiobooks often. I want to live in a cozy little home (preferably red) with antique decor, a huge garden with apple trees and preferably have some rabbits or even a goat or two. I think I will get along the best with someone who is chill and likes to revel in the simple pleasures of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:03 PM
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Bro it was long winded way to say that to have a sugar daddy relationship you need to be rich. Well duh!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:20 PM
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These are not the Muslim countries you need to be worried about to begin with, it's Bangladesh, Pakistan, Somalia and other shitholes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:55 PM
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I predict Muslim domination because they are still reproducing like crazy and not slowing down. In the next 100 years there will be demographic reversal in the western hemisphere, Europe is already primed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:53 PM
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Women seem to be right swiping on 5% of the profile https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/mbf6wg/oc_despite_being_far_more_selective_women_still/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:23 AM
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What is DL?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:35 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:33 PM
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Do you think Oscar Isaac is top 5% if he was a regular guy, say a mechanical engineer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:04 PM
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I feel like you are emphasising on the "sugar dating" part to paint him with a lesser light. If the relationship is meant to be casual from the outset then I don’t see a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:37 PM
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Not necessarily sugar dynamic, I was seeing a 25 yo girl earlier this year who thought Leo was hot still and she would date him still. Another girl I used to talk to has hots for Pedro Pascal and Paul Rudd, she’s also mid 20s. We don’t necessarily need to project our preferences on others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:31 PM
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I think Leo Di Caprio’s criticism surrounding dating younger women is unjustified for the reason that it’s out in the open what he has been doing for a while and whoever dates him knows what she’s doing and what the likely outcome is going to be (dumped at 25), so they are in a way self selecting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:23 PM
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It was the 70s, being that lean was a lot more common How and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:11 PM
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I am watching Taxi Driver by Robert De Niro, he is very lean in the movie, are there people who are naturally this lean? Do such people eat less and move more than others?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:53 PM
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Because N count discussions on PPD allow men to chip in as well, women here hold a slightly more accepting perspective as in "It's fine if you want to have this preference, just don't insult people who don't fit your preference" and I think PPD men have largely agreed to it. But out in the wild on Reddit? This preference is still scorned at, especially on women dominated subreddits because they don't allow men to chip in and engage in a large circlejerk by inventing all sorts of absurd reasons a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:03 PM
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He must be showering in tall guy pheromones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:20 PM
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My gym has some very fit and extremely attractive lasses and this has turned me off from average bodies that look like they don’t work out. Like these girls are fucking RIPPED and not like American roid head ripped, but like ELITE natural fitness model level fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:17 PM
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Male: 300 to 1,000 nanograms per deciliter (ng/dL) or 10 to 35 nanomoles per liter (nmol/L) Female: 15 to 70 ng/dL or 0.5 to 2.4 nmol/L.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:17 PM
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I don't know man, I am not so invested in winning this internet debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:19 PM
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Nope, it's not this cut and dry. A woman would go absolutely nuts if she had the testosterone equivalent to a low T man. Which means, their body is more sensitive to T levels as compared to a man and they can absolutely match and surpass the sex drive of a normal T level man if the woman's T levels are high by woman's standards. She don't need man's level of T to have man's level of sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:46 AM
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Still, she was wayyyy out of his league. If tomorrow Blake Lively divorces (god forbid), she will still be way out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:23 PM
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"she's out of my league" and "40 year old virgin" comes to my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:12 PM
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I am against the dream Red Pill sells that get rich and bitches will come to you. If you can't get any when you are poor then the ones you will be getting when you are rich are most likely to be gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:58 PM
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I agree with a lot of things Red Pill says but I don't agree with the money part, that get successful in your career and make a lot of money to be successful with women. At that point I think I would be very skeptical if she's with me for me or my money and might not even date anyone seriously. The kind of partner I admire are those who get together in college when they are both poor and working hard to get ahead in their respective fields and stay together. Not those who wait for you at the fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:34 PM
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wonder how the 30 year old boyfriend didn’t feel like he was dating a kid. Does she also wonder why heterosexual men like boobs? Or don't dream about dicks? Has she also contemplated why women's preferred age range extends further up than down (A 23 yo woman's ideal age range may be 22-28)? It's because different sexes respond to different things. I am 30 years old, I wouldn't have a romantic relationship with a 20 yo. But if I find someone who wants to be a FWB then I would be up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:10 AM
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There are a lot of self made people who also possess humility and empathy, therefore I think the poster above you is a non-starter to begin with and you shouldn't try to change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:12 PM
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Because as a man I still have equal liberty to say no to poor prospects, pursue or not pursue those who pique my interest. I say, I have as much control as any Chad or Stacy. But I don’t have control over the outcome. I think what you were meaning to say is that an average man is not able to date as freely as an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:06 PM
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The "protection" element around height is hamstering considering that even women in Northern European countries prefer someone taller than themselves when those countries have very low rates of violent crimes, thus the likelihood of their partner engaging them in hand-to-hand combat to protect them is vanishingly small. Besides, a bullet to head or heart yields same outcome whether your boyfriend was 6'6" or 5'6". Also, apparently a 6' man is good enough to protect a 5'2" woman but is not good e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:58 PM
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🤝🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:37 PM
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And he can say no to it, which I think increasingly more number of men must. Pipe dream but that’s the only solution
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:11 PM
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average looking guy with average height but a fit body
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:04 PM
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True, if the product is you and you are not getting the price you rightfully deserve then you must not sell else you drive the price down across the market, affecting everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:20 PM
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What these asshats want you to do is, casually fuck fatties and when women who are at the same tier as you are done fucking chads then settle down with them. Absolutely brilliant strategy if you ask me. You get to spend your youth fucking men out of your league who obviously won’t settle with you, then when you get older and want to start a family then you find a guy in your league and when he asks what you have been doing until now, you tell him "my past is none of your business" and if you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:16 PM
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Does that mean an average looking guy with average height but a fit body has to make do with an overweight woman because that’s his league? Because most average looking, average height, but fit women are being courted by men of much higher SMV so they aren’t even playing in their own league. Why should the average guy then make it easier for the fat chick or the above average guy by quitting and taking what he can get? I say, get comfortable with being alone and continue shooting for the moon. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:43 PM
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I really don't think we are in a disagreement here when I said that it doesn't happen always but the likelihood of that happening is larger for the aforementioned reasons, still I am not going to stop her from going, not my style.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:17 PM
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Jesus, how did I find myself drawn into this debate. Anyhow, lemme clear this up. I am not saying that every woman who goes out drinking with her girlfriends cheats on their partner, but the presence of alcohol and the fact that it is one of the few places where men have the license to approach makes it more likely for someone to slip and land on a dick, as opposed to when they are out and about buying milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:07 PM
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just tell them you feel like they aren't attracted to you and if they want to continue they're gonna have to make things clea Bruh! Don't do that. What you do is that you stop contacting them altogethe. It's not ghosting. Ghosting is when someone isn't responding to you despite your efforts to contact them. If neither of you are initiating then it's a stalemate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:38 AM
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Man, I have been that guy who has been milked for attention and I am so angry at my former self. Which is why if a girl doesn't reciprocate; I bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:34 AM
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If he's going to cheat, he will cheat. It’s one thing to intentionally seek it and it’s another to put yourself in position where it’s available and all you have to do is say yes and nobody would find out. Going to these sexually charged environments seem to me like putting yourself in that position. That’s how my friend’s GF cheated on him. She would doll up. Shave her pussy and go hit the nightclub. And he was like, what are you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:10 AM
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So millions of women around the world who choose their partners choose men who are similar in age but that doesn't matter because you have a couple of anecdotes that supposedly contradict this? I can form my opinion based on the examples I see around myself and draw logical inferences. My conclusion is that the number of women who are interested in older men is not vanishingly small as women would like you to believe, neither is nearly as large as if you were around their age. But we can sit her…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:03 AM
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Yeah because when you think of a 35 year old man you begin with drawing a caricature and sneering at him. The fact is that 22 yo don't want 95% of 22-25 yo either, if it goes up to 99% for 35 yo cohort, still no big deal. A couple of month ago I overheard an attractive college girl describe a shirtless dad working in his yard and how hot and bothered she felt. I really don't know you but I have posed the age range question to at least 5 women and none of them responded like PPD women like us to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:54 PM
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over 25 so both their brains are fully formed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:20 PM
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The 25 year is an arbitrary cut-off. The brain never stops developing and it doesn't develop linearly. The brain is not 72% developed at 18 (4% per year) and 100% at 25. 95% of brain development takes place by the time you are 5 years old. FIVE YEARS OLD. With age comes emotional regulation, patience, wealth of experience, and perspective. I am 30 years old now, I feel different from my 18 yo self only in the aforementioned aspects, everything else is more or less the same. I haven't gotten smar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:17 PM
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Especially as they’re both over 25 so both their brains are fully formed. Some guy at some point made this claim and a certain bunch of people just ran away with it and parrot at every opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:44 PM
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Some things on PPD never get old. Men going on about how nobody would want post wall women and women coming up with examples of post 30 women having no troubles finding dates and sex. And Women going on about how men in their 30s would never find a girl in her 20s and men coming up with examples from their own life of hooking up/dating younger women. The truth is not black/white and people both men and women coming up with such statements are bitter. In general I like younger women but it's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:40 PM
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yep, over the years I have had few. Right now I have one girl-friend who I would consider a very good friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:42 AM
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It’s been wild and I think climate change wiping out humanity in the next decade is a happy ending. We deserve it. So that other species can live in peace. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:34 AM
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I think that it's because women "fight" using social destruction of another person. This 100%. This one time I asked out friend of a girl-friend, and I don't think there was anything scandalous in the manner I asked, but man, the shit storm from her that ensued was of epic proportions, she tried her level best to paint me as a potential molestor or something. Glad that nobody paid heed to it and rest of our mutual friends continued being friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:32 AM
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Yep, dumb indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:05 PM
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You shouldn’t speak to those who are not willing to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:45 PM
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So women are cohabiting in the same moral hell as they claim men to inhabit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:44 PM
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My contention is that there is nothing wrong about asking for what he wants, she can either give it or let him go. This whole thing is like “how dare he? Didn’t he know what he was signing up for?" He knew, he made the classic error of trying to change your partner. But the guy tried, in my opinion; quite respectfully, at that point she had the clear choice to concede or leave. She didn’t concede so he left as he said he would. The hate he is getting is undeserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:43 PM
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Sex is fleeting, the respect you lose in your eyes is permanent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:38 PM
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That’s true. Some male place will indeed endorse such behaviour. Does that make it right though? If not, it was a moot point to raise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:37 PM
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Or just go home and masturbate with self respect intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:30 PM
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Okay, and so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:26 PM
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Okay, moving on, you said “I will talk to you tomorrow". What should the guy tell her tomorrow? Because the issue hasn’t been addressed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:24 PM
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Of course. 100%. She can state what she wants and be willing to walk away for real. She is in it out of her consent and can walk out whenever she wants if it doesn’t work for her the way she wants it to. She does not owe a relationship to Jonah irrespective of what he does. Now flip the names and you have what played out. But before the flipping takes place, the in-group bias will make it sound totally reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:20 PM
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Bruuuuh! You are still out there getting women’s approval on how to live your life? What are you, 12? Every man needs to sit with himself, evaluate his core beliefs, how much a piece of shit he wants to be, and then go be that piece of shit without remorse. In your case you have decided that you don’t want to be a piece of shit, so don’t let these crazies talk you into being a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:17 PM
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It was a made up situation. And I was asking in good faith because honestly I don’t know what is the right way to respond to it because I will find it upsetting. But I am not completely sure if your response to this hypothetical was in mocking or not. Please clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:05 PM
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Precisely, it’s such a hassle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:59 PM
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Alright, let’s accept this for a moment. Let’s say a man and his girlfriend are at a party and the girl goes and sit on her guy friend’s lap. This is something she considers innocuous but the guy (her BF) obviously never had his girl-friends sit on his lap. How does he articulate his displeasure and discomfort at witnessing it to his girlfriend? As I said in the other post: Jonah Hill, found guilty on 1 (one) charge: trying to make housewife out of a hoe. … He was entirely dismissive and condesc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:57 PM
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It’s not him. The Internet outrage will not affect him but millions of other men who will witness this backlash and internalise that it is not okay to verbalise your discomfort in a relationship. You can obviously silence people by putting a reputation cost on their voice, but you cannot eliminate their feelings, which will manifest in one way or the other. He should have taken a page from modern dating playbook and kept smashing, then dipped when he had another girl lined up. I am low key angry…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:46 PM
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Well, I don’t see how the second charge is contrary to the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:41 PM
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What I have learnt from this is that it’s not even worth it to communicate, make all decisions internally, keep smashing for as long as you can and then dip. It’s like: “you have the right to remain silent, anything you say can and may be used against you"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:37 PM
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Jonah Hill, found guilty on 1 (one) charge: trying to make housewife out of a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:29 PM
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Another dilemma is that, when men try to present themselves as "nice", the bar for them is raised higher than Mount Everest. As soon as the self proclaimed nice guy says anything that can be taken for toxic or bad, he'll garner a negative reputation immediately for being a "fake nice guy" and all of his other efforts of trying to be a nice person will get erased as though it never happened. A man who comes off as flawed from the get go, though, usually has a lower bar set for him. He can get cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:56 AM
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Yeah, I think both are filtering each other out. So it’s working as intended
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:25 PM
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I was like wtf am I reading
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:37 PM
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Don't try to justify your standards and expectations to women. Don't argue with them Man I really wish this gets drilled into head of every man out there. Men holding tight on to their standards and expectations will change the dating landscape way more than the endless arguments which never reach a conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:05 PM
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Assuming the girl is good looking, fit, doesn't have any serious mental issues, and not virgin for religious reasons, I just cannot fathom how she can be virgin past 22 (I would say, even past 19) in a Western country because men will be constantly throwing themselves at her and at some of them are likely to catch her fancy and sex would happen. Someone who is fit, attractive, mentally healthy and saving themselves for marriage is extremely rare in my opinion However, it is certainly possible th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:51 AM
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I don't understand what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:58 PM
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I know it's a loaded question and you are asking for either an outright No or a yes with all the proofs that yes I indeed do like women. But I see women as people first and I don't like or hate them any more than I like or hate men. There are tons of women I have deep respect for and look up to them, and there tons of dumbasses as well who I wouldn't want to be in the same room with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:36 AM
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I would have guessed yours at 12%, where did you get the 17% figure? But I completely agree that I am carrying more fat than necessary so I went on a 300-500 calorie deficit 3 weeks ago and I plan to continue eating less than maintenance at least until December. Will report with results
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:04 PM
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What would you estimate my BF%? I haven’t worked a lot on mirror muscles so I don’t look that muscly but you can’t be skinny fat and do 3-4 pull ups with +30 kg. I can also overhead press 60-63 kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:56 PM
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Ah I think I misunderstood this whole thing. You are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:45 PM
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Women assume that adults already know that fitness and exercise, healthy eating, good hygiene, and a decent wardrobe are baseline requirements. Why would those need to be specified? When you use the word "women" you seem to be implying collectively, that also mean that women themselves should know about fitness, exercise, and healthy eating. But obesity rates in both genders are approximately equal, so it doesn't seem that they know it any better than guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:37 PM
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True, need to keep a strict eye on food intake as well to stay trim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:39 PM
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That's the plan. I have never had 12% BF as an adult, and it's time to get it, even if muscle building is put on backburner for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:24 PM
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Doing it. But it's funny when I wake up I can clearly see all 4 top abs if I stand straight but have quite a bit of fat around the waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:18 PM
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Source: myself https://ibb.co/7vq4MP2 with so called "swimmers body". Bro the image is not loading. But that's me after 2+ years of lifting. https://imgur.com/a/q3DIy38 Granted I can use a cut and I am in the process right now. But the "average" physique in modern day sedentary lifestyle is built after toiling several years in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:33 PM
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Man these are the exact mistakes I made. Inspired from the Chinese weightlifting team, I have added bodybuilding type training in addition to high intensity strength training. Mass moves mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:37 AM
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5x5 stops working after a while my dude. An intermediate doing 5x5 with his working weight will drive himself into ground pretty soon, I learnt the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:00 PM
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a rich, tall and handsome guy is most attractive to women regardless of personality He is, as I have conceded in other reply, in the sexual marketplace. But my point was someone having huge success in sexual marketplace largely due to immutable characteristics is not a HVM in my eyes. I am not saying that being gifted in that manner makes him incapable of being a what I consider HVM, I am merely saying that being tall, rich, and handsome isn't enough to be considered high value holistically. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:07 PM
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Wouldn't you do that if you were in their place?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:52 PM
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Maslow's pyramid It's not the law of nature, it's some guy who thinks that's how it is. I haven't had sex since Feb, I would be long dead if I hadn't drank water, ate or slept for the same duration.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:03 PM
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Sex is one part of life and it matters only as much as you allow it. You can be fucking Goblin who gets zero female sexual/romantic attention but if you don't care about it then it wouldn't affect you in the slightest and you will go on living your life happy. But it's easier said than done, a healthy man always desire female companionship and its lack affects him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:40 PM
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I concede that they do play a massive role and will get you tons of poon but high quality relationships are an unlikely outcome when filtered for these traits primarily. So if you are after tons of casual sex then yes, in those contexts that's what sells. But my contention was that this is not objectively and holistically a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:55 PM
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His concept of HVM comes from Andrew Tate, and Fresh and Fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:44 PM
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Man this write up is primarily focused on a very beginner level where the guy hasn't even put in the basic effort of getting off his ass, grooming, dressing up, going out and actually talking to people. The people who have actually done that face different set of challenges and those challenges are still quite significant. I don't hang out with any Indians because they are not living the life I want to, my Swedish friends tell me that I have excellent "game" and social skills, though I do lack t…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 12:11 PM
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If you look at it mathematically (which a lot of dudes tend to) then the chances are slim, so the only viable strategy is to become really good at being alone in tandem with reckless abandon when approaching and interacting with women. The volume of approach will increase the probability of meeting someone who likes what you have to offer, but when that happens is uncertain, so you would have to be okay with long stretches of alone-ness in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:46 AM
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Man it's good that it worked out for you and I am happy for you but I don't think that it's repeatable for every other 5'6" guy out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:25 AM
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You are tying the concept of HVM to immutable characteristics and material possessions and that's where our disagreement starts. If you think being tall, handsome, charismatic, rich makes you high value and you are not bound by the demands on the character then that's a peacock. Pretty to look at but useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:22 AM
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Thank you very much ✨😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:44 AM
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I 100% agree and this is in line with my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:43 AM
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Well, you have approval of this internet stranger regarding how you go about your dating life. And you are in an excellent relationship already so I hope it will go a looooong way. All the best. 🙌👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:35 AM
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What makes her a great mom? I just can't recall a single instance of when she has failed or disappointed me. She has been deeply loving and nurturing, not just to me but to the whole family Then I have 2 sisters as well who are also excellent. I think that's the reason why I primarily see good in all women unless proven otherwise. Do you feel that your mother has shaped your expectations of what a woman should do as a partner, wife and mother? Yeah, I think I expect certain amount of warmth, sof…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:31 AM
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I apologise, it was indeed wrong of me to make assumptions about you. But as I said earlier, Red Pill notices and summarises general trends which are not applicable on every individual. I have asked several women about their height preferences and every single one of them wanted someone taller, and I am not talking about about an inch taller, often 6" taller being the sweet spot. But then there was a super cute, tall, green eyed blonde in my class who was in a LTR with a skinny guy shorter than …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:00 AM
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Thank you for an elaborate reply, I enjoyed reading this real life love story. There are a few things that stand out and I would like to discuss: "There's that really cute guy again," I would normally have thought he was out of my league The physical attraction was there right off the bat and his personality and your interpersonal chemistry sealed the deal. I guess this is all why the redpill ideas about what women want make no sense to me at all. Because he's not tall, he's not outgoing and ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:31 AM
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Loved reading this. I am happy for you internet stranger. I think I would prefer a painter partner instead of a musician partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:45 PM
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Sounds amazing. would you like to recap how you met him and early days of your relationship? Also, if I were to pose the same question "What do you love about your partner" to him, what would he say? This is your chance to brag about yourself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:42 PM
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I would pose a weight question to a normal looking woman purely out of curiosity, not as a judgement. A girl I used to talk to used to joke that I should do pull ups with her hanging off my back, now I need to know how much weight I should aim for in my weighted pull ups, whether it is 60 or 70 kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:37 PM
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In that case isn't it highly contextual? Put a proficient coder in a programming class and he will be very confident, whereas the guy who can't write "Hello World" code wouldn't be confident in that class. Now put both in a club environment and if the coder doesn't have extensive clubbing and in general great experiences with women then he will struggle. Whereas if the other guy has those skills and experiences then he will be confident in that environment. I basically explained how the same 2 p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:14 AM
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Well, you can't beat the math of Calorie In Calorie Out. If you have more going in than out then you will gain weight. How you do that is up to you but the complaint is entirely useless because you can't beat biology and thermodynamics. I want to lose weight so I am eating in 500 calorie deficit. I have 4 meals a day and eat exactly same thing every single day in order to be in tight control of my calorie intake. Monotonicity is the price I have to pay. If I am unwilling to pay the price then I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:16 PM
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Also, it's not like Tinder is ez-mode if you're a tallish white guy in Sweden either. I wouldn't be surprised if women's standards were higher here compared to the US. I live in Sweden too, but I am an immigrant. Have you used Tinder in Sweden? I think the two prominent ways to date here are through social circles and Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:02 PM
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Ghosting doesn't make you any safer. If the person was already going to psychopathically murder you, do you really think ghosting is going to help with that? Stop trying to justify being an asshole with the "safety" card. This 100%, one could argue that it could in fact increase their likelihood of acting in an unhinged manner. All it does is hurt decent people and does fuckall to keep crazies at bay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:24 PM
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And accused him of being autistic unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:17 PM
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I don’t have money for it. It will be expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:56 PM
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Yeah but don't take it for granted. Draw confidence from it but still pretend to chase her a bit so that you don't make her feel like a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:28 PM
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I think it's true that I am a hardcore simp and just can't help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:26 PM
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Yeah I think so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:16 PM
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Man I didn't know until a few months ago that when a girl tells you that you smell really good; she wants you D in her V. Because at a party a girl told me that a couple of times and I totally missed the cue, then another girl sitting next to me said that I think she likes you. Next time she saw me she straight up asked if I wanted to make out with her. Then a month later we banged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:13 PM
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There is girl I text and have flirty exchanges with but she lives really far away, like 300 miles away. I am pretty sure that she'll never actually meet but she is attractive and talks so sweet over the text that I just can't resist texting her the whole day. I just wish she would meet someone around her and let me be because I know I am being used for validation and digital company for the time in between her relationships and as soon as she meets someone she'll stop texting me without second t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:11 PM
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I like tall women with tennis player physique or medium height girls with gym rat physiques, I also like traditionally feminine bodies. My attraction to strong and confident women doesn't stem from the fact that I want to be dominated but that them being quite confident and competent would motivate me to keep bettering myself because you can't lead such a woman without being really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:53 PM
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should temper their expectations about how objectively well received or broadly agreed upon the idea of a "confident" person actually is. Man I have done my fair share of approaching girls, it does fuck-all. The girls who I shagged wanted it themselves. I walked through open doors. Either it's a lie that your confidence can open closed doors or I simply lacked skill. The most confidence can do is open an unlocked door or not get the open door slammed shut in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:42 PM
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It's just that in the latter case there's a mismatch between the person's self perception and the way they are perceived by everyone else around them. This one time I asked out the friend of my friend, and my friend was absolutely livid. At some point she said that I have a very deluded perception of self. I think she was trying to tell me to stay in my lane. Needless to say, she wasn’t my friend anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:11 PM
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I was getting startled and my Uni email was especially anxiety inducing, I was like “what now". Now my life feels so peaceful. And people don’t really call that much these days and I can always call them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:06 PM
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How many of you keep your phones permanently silent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:41 PM
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Holy shit, you touched my heart, especially with this part: on top of others blaming you for not doing enough, trying hard enough Because when it's not working out people say you are not trying hard enough, or trying too hard, and you are left feeling stupid, unable to figure out what's the right amount of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:59 PM
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Good luck with that in Sweden, Scandinavian doctors are the most prescription averse on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:01 PM
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Okay I don’t care is much about hormone therapy for underage people, whatever they want to do doesn’t impact me. However, I also think that men should be able to go on TRT under medical supervision if they want to because right now the bar for medical intervention for low T is too damn high. You basically need to have T levels of an 80 yo man before the doctor would prescribe TRT. If there are medical professionals doing stuff like breast reduction, enhancement, nose job, liposuction and bunch o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:53 PM
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You can absolutely participate in casual sex while simultaneously not being interested in seriously dating girls who have a lot of casual sex. It's like saying that you can litter and can still reserve the right to complain about the litter. I was in the same camp earlier where I thought men should have as much casual sex as possible and can still maintain a preference for a low N-woman. Then I actually went on to have casual sex, I have been that guy who women lets fuck raw on the first night. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:15 PM
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But before I go on to make my point, would you date someone with a “high n”, previously divorced or a single mother? Previously divorced is okay as long as she's not a single mother or has slept with more than 10 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:48 PM
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But then you are assuming all men are Red Pillers. I mean, I have read plenty of Red Pill material and I agree with quite a bit of it but ultimately it's up to me how I lead my life based on what my values are. I am not going around calling women names. I see you are upset about those things and rightfully so, the discussion surrounding dating landscape often involve people with charged emotions. And honestly, I do admit that the concerns women have about an older man dating a younger woman are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:34 PM
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Are men saying don't marry at all? And labelling wives of other men as gold diggers, cheaters, sluts, etc? But women definitely are saying don't date someone older at all and using all sorts of colorful adjectives for the men who date someone younger. Just like women flip out when men use colorful terms for their promiscuity, men don't take it on the chin like a champ when they are called pedos, creepy, and that no woman their age wants them. Women can definitely put forth their concerns and pot…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:19 PM
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Okay consider alcohol, some people become raging alcoholics who destory their own life and families, some simply binge drink and cause gradual and compiling damage to their organs, some handle it responsibly. But what is the current discourse surrounding alcohol consumption, especially by young adults? I have heard absolutely nothing despite a majority of young adults regularly drinking. On the other hand, a small fraction of young women might be in a consensual relationship with older men and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:01 PM
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But then they easily lie as well, I have a friend who's slept with 150+ women, if some girl asks then he just says 12. But then I also think you can't sleep with that many people without being at least somewhat fucked in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:38 PM
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I wonder what people’s thoughts are on a woman wanting a low N count in a man for non religious reasons? I don't think most men would view it negatively, especially since you have a low N yourself. Similarly a high N man wanting a low N is a perfect candidate for being hypocritical. Yes I know it's harder as a man to do it but if you think it's gross to sleep with many people then why did you yourself do it? Yes mountain lion's piss is hard to find, doesn't make it less gross if you drank it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:25 PM
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If women had a delusional idea of "short men being beta and cuck", would you be offended by that idea if you were short? Okay plenty of women do have this idea and I am like fine, you don't want me, I don't want you. Let's gooooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:43 AM
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I might understand why it might feel for you that way, but there's NO ACTUAL DATA that would indicate even the correlation between these things and the n-count. But I get why it would feel intuitive for men. He hadn't actually made that claim, he said that guys come up with these rationalisations for an innate feeling. I personally don't use these rationalisations as crutch to support my stance on it. I don't like women (in context of LTR) who have slept around a lot and that's it. None of this …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:39 AM
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I have never asked either, but had a fairly good idea who had been around vs who hadn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:29 AM
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In my experience, social game dominates in Sweden and then you have open market on Tinder where looks is the main currency. All but one lays I had were friends of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:15 PM
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women here love Arab/African/Asian men I think these men still have an in if they were born here but if they moved here in their adulthood then they are at the bottom of the pecking order because they often don’t even speak the local language and don’t know the cultural references.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:06 PM
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This is true but the conventionally attractive Kenyan or Chinese man would have a better dating life in Sweden than in the U.S because of their culture regarding interrracial relationships If you don’t live in Sweden then I am afraid you have wrong idea about Swedish dating. Sweden is one of the hardest countries foreigners to date in, they prefer to stick with their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:39 PM
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I am an Indian guy in Sweden, yes the dating life is better here but it has more to do with Indian dating scene being extremely restrictive not that European women love Indian men more than Indian women love Indian men. And because we don’t bring any social capital, don’t speak the language, don’t get cultural references, don’t fit the stereotypical "hot guy" aesthetic, I would say that number wise the chances are significantly smaller but the volume makes up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:31 PM
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I see your point but you are taking it too literally. Attractiveness is not quantifiable in absolute terms like you can quantify 1 kg of mass because it’s subjective. What I meant to say was, that an individual has an internal scale, which is personal to them, and they treatment they give to a 6 vs 7 vs 8 is not linear, it’s not factor of 10 either. I would put it at sqrt(pi). So an 8 would be treated about 3x better than a 6, not 1.33x. Might sound a bit daft but it was mainly to illustrate the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:17 PM
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with no real-world numerical values to correspond with, linearly or otherwise. What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:49 AM
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Nah, you’re downplaying it. I go to student nightclubs, that means I get to see the same girls at the campus as well. Oftentimes the difference is night and day, literally and metaphorically. I agree with the OP that makeup gives women a 1-2 point advantage on 10 point scale. And since it’s not a linear scale, the advantage is massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:33 AM
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if someone were to break up with me or turn me down for the amount of people I've fucked that would really hurt. There, you said it. You want this thing to go away so that all the fun you had bears no consequences to your future relationship potential. And this is the fundamental sentiment behind people arguing that past shouldn’t matter. What it translates to is: "I have done some things. I should not be judged for it and my relationship potential not affected" I am a guy and I have never been …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:22 AM
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Fair enough, 38 is indeed quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:46 PM
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How much was it? How and why did your relationship end?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:45 PM
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As a man who has had sex only a handful of times in his 30 yrs of life, I have to still stay that it’s not a need. Granted I am not as horny as I used to be but even back then I didn’t feel like I was being denied of a vital need. If I was too horny then I would take the matters in my own hands and deal with it. Sex is something that happens when you come across a person who wants to have sex with you and you with them. It involves consent of another human being and your "needs" cannot override …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:31 PM
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If you look at this users other posts, they are thinly veiled rage baits. I forgot to check that before I made this comment, could have saved me time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:31 PM
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This is the most ridiculous thing I have read in a long while. I can’t even begin to conceptualise where OP got these caricatures from. I go to gym regularly and I regularly see super hot women who are not stick skinny. Their fat percentage is in healthy range and have decent muscle underneath the fat thus giving them a feminine yet a reasonably strong adult woman’s outline. I also go to university and I would say about 60-70% of the young women are in healthy weight range. Although BMI is not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:27 PM
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At least the parent comment is mainly about describing something that happened. What is misogynistic about it? Do you think all of them are lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:51 AM
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Fair enough. I am in this peculiar situation where I am 30 and finishing grad school, so compared to other 30 yo men/women, I am 7-8 year behind in terms of career, so while someone might say that a 27-30 yo woman should be the ideal range, in my experience, they have higher expectations of a 30 yo man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:27 PM
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Weird that you had a larger range at 18 than at 24. Usually it's other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:15 PM
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Well, for your sake I hope it works as well as you believe it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:39 PM
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Lol! That’s something I would say to save face. Whereas the fact is that trained professionals in law enforcement can’t get a confession most of the time and here you are claiming that an average woman knows advanced techniques to uncover if a man secretly holds any such views.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:22 PM
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Totally agree. There are some retards who find red pill and say dumb shit like referring to women as females and spewing trad-con ideals are dead give away. Whereas a person of sound mental capacities consumes red pill knowledge, relates what he read to what he sees, adjusts based on his environment and experiences, and most importantly, shuts the fuck up. When a woman is starting to give glimpses into her colourful past, he doesn’t pull up 2 dozen studies correlating N-count to infidelity and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:07 PM
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I don’t have any aversion to someone who’s not good looking but I absolutely despise people who don’t put in any effort. Poor hygiene and not putting any effort in their clothing choices are the biggest reason why I wouldn’t want to associate with some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:58 PM
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The other day I was having this discussion with my girl-friend. I said that when a woman is approached and she turns it down saying that she’s committed, it sounds more serious as opposed to saying "oh sorry, I have a boyfriend". She disagreed, according to her boyfriend is more serious and being committed is not. Also she’s 23 and I am almost 30
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:03 PM
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l need to find myself… …a new dick or 20, dunno, we’ll see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:00 PM
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Or do most just assume and guess? 👆 If the guy himself seems successful with women and open-minded then women tend to spill a lot of beans. Based on which one can conceptualise their views surrounding sex and decide which box to put them in. The actual number doesn’t matter so much. 30, 40, 50 at 22 are all the same. So early on you have conversations surrounding their dating history and their views surrounding it and you learn plenty. Also the circumstances you met in. If she came over directly…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:59 AM
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Now give them equal pay, Agree to this. equal representation at high earnings positions, and equal representation in congress since you want to give them what they ask for Disagree to these. I can agree to what’s rightfully yours, that is, equal pay for equal work, but insisting to have equal representation on achievement based positions is like asking for special concessions. Earn it and it’s yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:16 AM
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Before engaging, look at OPs post history. She seems to fit the caricature of the woman that Red Pill describes so it would be quite a waste of time engaging her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:59 AM
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I would go on to say that the way teachers are treated is an indication of where the society is headed. This kind of asshole behaviour is backed both by the family and the administration. In Asian countries if you pull shit like that then first you’ll get your ass whooped at school and then at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:17 AM
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Same answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:27 PM
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Lol why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:27 PM
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I am friends with one such girl. I don’t know what concept do you have of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:26 PM
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He’s also dumb, a bad combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:13 AM
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In general it is true but a little room can be left for exceptions, for example, in my gym there is a guy who is about 5’7-8" and he often works out with this girl who I assume is his girlfriend because they just can’t keep their hands off each other even in the gym. She’s probably 5’10" and very pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:24 AM
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Man I hate strawmans like this. The fact is that any man can have these views and not let his sexual access to women be affected as long as he has enough brain cells to keep his mouth shut and is attractive enough. I have a “friend” who spews similar rhetoric and he has been with over 50 women and married a 25 yo when he was 35. Then I have another friend who is shy, overweight, very average looking and I don’t think he holds any such views because we have had many discussions surrounding dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:03 AM
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Precisely my experience as well in dealing with women and through the pillow talks. For the large part Red Pill is correct, needs some individual fine tuning. My disagreement and criticisms is reserved for PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:58 AM
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True that and noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:05 PM
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That has actually happened. I have solid good vibes with some girls I met at the club. But I feel wary of hitting on friend’s friends because this one time when I asked out a girl’s friend, she made a big scene about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:58 PM
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maybe club girls just aren’t your thing This is precisely it. But I have no other avenues of meeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:53 PM
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I was speaking on a more macro scale but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:15 PM
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They do not want to have their wardrobes dictated to them by men. I hate to break it to you but the wardrobes have absolutely been dictated by men but you didn't realize it. Men and women both operate on feedback loops. Wear a certain type of clothing >> receive positive/no/negative attention >> wear more/less of that type of clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:08 PM
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Let me chronicle the changes in me I have witnessed going out to clubs every week for about 18 months. First 6 months or so, just straight up afraid of talking to women. I would grab a drink or two, occasionally dance or just hang around in morose mood. Then gradually I started interacting with more and more women, so or the next 9-10 months, I would go out and talk to tons of women, I became really good at it and had a few hookups, some makeouts but it wasn't like I was slaying left and right. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:58 PM
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