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ADVICE4_neenondy/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 09:09 PM
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Unfortunately we are divorced.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/25 11:22 AM
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Comparison is the thief of joy. You are enough for your kids just as you are. And as far as family goes, I know that’s hard. Your confidence in your decisions as a parent will grow. But until then, fake it till you make it. Homeschooling is a wonderful option for your kids. We are home schooling too. But I haven’t done anything with them yet besides free play and learning organically through their environment. My oldest starts Kindergarten in the fall and I’m excited to get started for real! Kid…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 01:11 PM
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At 4 and 2, homeschooling should be play based. Your kids are still so little. Take a break from the homeschooling for another year or two and focus on you. Let your kids play independently and get yourself into a daily routine. Make yourself a priority and everything else will fall into place. I have a 4yo, 2yo and a 2 month old. Every day we start with a good breakfast, then clean up from breakfast while my kids play, then everyone gets dressed, brushes teeth/hair, wash faces. I put on light m…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 04:31 AM
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Yes. Get both. And the workbook. Also subscribe to her emails on her website. She does free vlogs all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 08:31 PM
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I second Laura Doyle. “The Empowered Wife” is a great book to start with. I had zero libido until I started implementing her skills and my libido has bounced way back and my marriage has never been better.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 07:03 PM
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The Empowered Wife
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 01:29 PM
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That’s a really good point about vulnerability. Because that’s basically the whole premise of The Empowered Wife, to be vulnerable.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 06:58 PM
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I absolutely agree. Thank you for this. Since I finished the book, I haven’t stopped thinking about ways to be more respectful to him. Apologizing for smaller things feels so vulnerable. I’m trying so hard to push myself to be vulnerable with him again, so I can tap into my femininity and allow him to lead. It’s not easy, and it’s also exciting.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 02:03 AM
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I’m adding this to my list, as well as The Surrendered Wife. Other book suggestions was going to be my next question. Thank you for this!
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 01:28 AM
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The Empowered Wife
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 01:06 AM
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You’re a man, why are you even here? Username checks out.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 11:23 PM
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Okay. And do you think it helps me improve by piling on me and telling me how awful I am? Im here to learn and do better. Do you have any advice for me besides “be a better person”? I didn’t intentionally make him submissive. My intentions were good, trying to help with little suggestions here and there throughout our marriage and acting like a smarty pants know it all. I see that was wrong now, and I’m going to do better moving forward. He was also raised by a single mom, so he never had an exa…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 11:15 PM
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I agree and I thought I made that clear in my post
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 11:08 PM
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I completely agree. That’s exactly what I want to change and what I learned in the book.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 09:31 PM
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I’ll look into it! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 09:30 PM
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I appreciate this. I wasn’t sure if I should tell him I’m doing this work or not. This is really helpful, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 07:11 PM
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I really love this. This is what I was confused about (and also over thinking). The way you explained it makes a lot of sense and I will try this next time! Edit to add: “next time” will probably be today because I’ve already messed up this morning so I’ll report back soon 😅
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 04:19 PM
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Absolutely. It’s going to be a process. I’ve already slipped up this morning. But I’m aware when I slip up now, so that feels like progress
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 02:20 PM
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Thank you so much!! It feels good
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 02:19 PM
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It’s so difficult to let go of that control. But every time I’ve done it today, I’ve felt so much better! I’m excited to see what else I can let go of. It feels so freeing
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 02:41 AM
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Your story gives me so much hope. I want that so badly for us-for him to be the head of the house and for me to just let him so I can thrive in my femininity. Thank you for sharing and for the support ❤️ I can’t wait to see where my marriage goes now that I’m adopting these skills!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 02:38 AM
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Thank you so much. I had to be so vulnerable that night, when I asked him if we could pause the divorce. I was so scared it was too late and that he would say no. I’ll never forget that feeling. I was sweating watching him type, waiting for his response. I’m so thankful he said yes. And even more thankful I found Laura’s book. I bought the workbook and journal too. I’m going to start that when I finish the book. I’ve never been vulnerable. Even as a kid it was just never safe. So this is going t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 12:12 AM
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This is a good point and something I need to practice doing a lot more. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 12:07 AM
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That’s great and super easy to start with. I knew I was overthinking it. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 09:23 PM
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