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I don't even believe you. I guarantee, all else being equal, you would not reject a 6'1'' guy whereas you would 100% reject a guy who was shorter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:30 AM
1

But what if one of the other anonymous people on here happens to be someone you know and then they know you post on incel forums and then they tell everyone else you've ever known that you post on incel forums
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:26 AM
5

We know it's very important regardless of what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:24 AM
4

So you think blackpillers only have a point if they've exhausted the option of plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:06 AM
2

I'm not against all of it, but after a certain point it strikes me as inauthentic and I'm not a fan. I'd rather have someone with flaws than someone who was artificially flawless. Maybe even just flawless in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:48 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:02 AM
2

Hinting I'd different than asking I thought we were just friendly, so I expressed interest in one of her friends, and she responded with "why not me?" More of an invitation than a hint. Even in my original comment I thought I said that there can be rare outliers who do have a good experience- it's just not common. Admittedly, I stopped reading before the end. Jumped the gun just a little. Sorry. Only usually when I knew a guy that well, and he feels the same, he was all too excited to ask me out…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:53 AM
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When men on this sub moan about "average women" not wanting "average men" YET simultaneously admitting that the average woman is over weight and that alone excludes her from being anything more than a pump and dump I reckon I'm an average guy facially, but I'm also in good physical shape. Should my league include fat women since they're "average?" I don't think so, but I think women do. When men on this sub say that they want women to "choose better" and vet for less than superficial qualities s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:26 AM
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I've never been asked out per se, it was more like she just made it obvious she'd say yes if I asked, and she took the initiative to get my attention. She got a 3 year relationship where I think I treated her really well that she went and blew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:18 AM
5

You're saying blackpillers have no right to complain if they're not willing to get plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:03 AM
5

i don't think anybody in this shallow world would genuinely prefer to be fat It's not so much they prefer being fat, it's that they prefer doing the things that make them fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:49 AM
1

I have no experience with fake tits, but I don't think I'd like them based on what I've seen. And bad makeup? It really depends what you mean by bad. I've seen bad makeup done well (I really do not like noticeable eyeshadow for example), but I'm still not into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:48 AM
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Birthing people*
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:57 PM
2

If I was ever thinking about having a kid with a woman I'd straight up tell her I ain't signing shit until I get a DNA test. If she doesn't like it she can go pound sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:53 PM
3

It feels shallow Yeah, women are never shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:26 AM
0

Sounds he's a fringe guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:23 AM
1

Just ask if she wants to come over. I get the feeling that's what she's waiting for. Sometimes it is just that easy--or so I hear, I wouldn't know personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:44 AM
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People who want love have to be worthy of it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:03 PM
1

Alright, let's try this a different way. When you have sex, would you say you get yours and then kind of just wait for your partner to finish?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:39 AM
2

Chicks who just lay there, expect head but don't give it, are boring. Just because she's present doesn't mean she's the one really giving pleasure. That's more like enabling pleasure. That's a boring way to go through life, hence "poor guy." I can cum from jerking off too, does that mean I can give myself pleasure that is equivalent or superior to what sex with a woman can offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:25 AM
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Kind of weird to be proud of being selfish, but you do you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:22 AM
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Do what makes you feel comfortable and don't worry about how a guy you've only been on a couple dates with thinks about it. I think our chat was fun, light-hearted but as an example, one time I'd asked him about his last relationship and he quickly answered, said he was an open book but didn't feel the need to ask me these questions, thought I was great. Even though I was attracted to him, I was wanting to go a bit deeper in our conversation, to see the connection before sex. You wanted to ask h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:15 AM
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It doesn't have to be good for a guy to cum. Her original post made her come off to me as boring and selfish in bed. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:11 AM
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Nah, just nothing you said makes you delusional and/or a liar. I'm reading into what sex is like between y'all based on prior experiences of my own, that's all. And I stand by those assumptions, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:10 AM
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That don't mean shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:06 AM
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That wouldn't even make sense based on anything you've said ya goof
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:00 AM
2

That's a bit much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:18 AM
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Jesus gave up on the folks in this place a long time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:14 AM
6

You take pride in that, huh? I'm not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:11 AM
-1

Poor guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:05 AM
5

99% do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:31 AM
2

Why would you assume I haven't?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:07 AM
5

Women are picking the same guys in real life that they're picking online
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:24 AM
7

There aren't enough alphas for every woman who gets married to be marrying one. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:02 AM
1

Small correction, I'm a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:41 PM
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This isn't even a hot take anymore. I see this more than I see people saying In n Out is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:40 PM
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I have a theory for why this happens. Everyone knows the honeymoon period of a relationship is pretty great, and then it kinda settles down and can become kinda boring. These guys leave the stale relationship for a new honeymoon phase, it's comparatively much better than the last relationship, and he starts to think the new girl has to be the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:27 PM
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Being famous nullifies all the other rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:19 PM
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I assumed your username referred to something else. No one likes the Angels. And you're obviously not much of a fan. They won a WS within the last 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:16 PM
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I make this place worse
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:12 PM
5

You said men have even less to offer than I say women have to offer in your last, so what do you care? We're two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:33 PM
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Pete Davidson is pretty feminine though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:21 PM
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Men need to stop being such fuckin pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:14 PM
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I just don't understand what being delusional about your own looks helps anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:13 PM
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If he was 5'8'' and non-famous, you wouldn't think so, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:11 PM
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His dad's a hero, not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:11 PM
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its still a world more than those very same men are offering in return. Such a low bar y'all have for yourselves. Who is "offering" undesirable men anything? You got me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:01 PM
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Everyone's a little unique little snowflake. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:59 PM
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It doesn't really matter how you perceive yourself when you know how the world perceives you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:49 PM
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If they could find loving, satisfying relationships would they be bitching about how men are evil and shallow all day long? Tons of women who that in here claim to have that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:46 PM
3

I'm not even trying to be inflammatory. Once you accomplish most of your life goals on your own, you kinda realize a "partner" doesn't really add much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:06 PM
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I made no comments on his behavior one way or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:52 PM
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Women need to take responsibility for themselves. You can't expect the rights and agency of an adult and be treated like children forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:06 PM
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"why is it still legal for old men to talk to us"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:57 PM
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She's an adult and she's willingly dating him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:50 PM
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Yep. Divorcees are most likely to be divorcees again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:48 PM
2

However if you are dating a 5/10 and you treat her like a 5/10 you’re a dickhead and you don’t deserve a relationship with her This is projection. Women are the ones who do this to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:44 PM
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They now realize it’s all they have to offer men and this upsets them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:31 PM
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Explain how I run my own house and don't even think about that shit enough to have a term for it? If something needs to be done I just fuckin do it. Women gotta make shit up to complain about how oppressed they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:24 PM
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Your posts here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:23 PM
4

Many women are. They will actually say that a very small percentage of men are attractive to them. Yeah, but even the ones that do admit it couch it with "but those men aren't the same for all women" which anyone with a brain sees right through. And like you said, they also shift the blame on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:22 PM
5

Women still can't be honest about it, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:48 PM
1

You absolutely do hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:46 PM
3

Wow. This is a great post.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:43 PM
7

"Emotional labor" give me a break, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:41 PM
6

Women's expectations have only adjusted in their favor. They only want to do half the shit they used to do. They still want men to all the shit they used to do and half the shit women used to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:06 PM
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Yeah I don't care about any of that lol. I was just saying no one's (well, I'm not anyways) offended you're most attracted to the same thing every other girl is. You don't have to couch it. I wasn't born yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:51 AM
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I really have no way to know for sure how a guy like that operates. I know that, even as a guy with nothing going on, any girl who declines a date with me without an immediate and enthusiastic reschedule would be dead to me. I'm all too happy to take no for an answer because it's what I'm expecting. A guy with more success with women might think differently though. He reached out to me first and seemed genuine, otherwise I don’t F with guys like that C'mon, don't insult my intelligence here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:34 AM
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You can get a script for anything if you have money
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:06 AM
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Not if he just does more
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:05 AM
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Is this guy especially good looking? Like, does he probably have a lot of options?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:03 AM
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What kind of message do you think you're sending by declining a guys request for a date and then not reaching out again? You're sending all the signals you're not interested and then wondering why he's not beating down your door to pursue you further. Your behavior and your post here combined are honestly fucking mind boggling. I guess even if a girl really likes a guy it doesn't really matter because one just as good is right around the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:48 AM
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I'm not even denying that women are attracted to him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:33 AM
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Yeah, you feel like you have to lock her down before you lose the only girl who ever liked you. And the ones who are willing to date ugly guys tend to do it in exchange for an accelerated timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:13 AM
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Biden is a disgrace
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:11 AM
2

How high are you? "They'll say, 'Oh, he's sexy,' but women still go for guys who are 6-foot-2," Dinklage, That's the only line about what women think about him. The rest of the is an anecdote about cologne and him accidentally putting Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie on the pay no mind list.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:05 AM
1

I never denied that. He's rich and famous. All the other rules go out the windows when you're rich and famous. That doesn't make him an alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:45 AM
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I'm lazy and I don't bring anything to the table except my depreciating looks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:25 AM
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Peter Dinklage is an alpha male? On what fuckin planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:15 AM
2

I had an ex who wouldn't even step foot in the store, and she wasn't even hot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 11:21 PM
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I never said wanting to get fit is gay. I'm saying there are a lot of actual homosexual men on /fit/. Is it really that surprising? It's a board filled with pics of low bf%, shirtless men. Incels are told to fuck off, but they're definitely still there in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 11:20 PM
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You know that weird looking dude that everyone posts? He has long hair I think, he's very pale, he's got big prey eyes and his skull is kind of a V shape. How does a guy who looks like that become an alpha? Enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 11:18 PM
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Half true. A genetically gifted man can be a beta, but a man who not genetically gifted cannot be an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 11:02 PM
5

He's just not a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:55 PM
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Lol /fit/ is almost entirely gays and incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:35 PM
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No, it's genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:34 PM
4

This post assumes anyone can be an alpha if they just try hard enough and that genetics aren't what matter. That's just not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:25 PM
2

Well if my looks didn't already make me low value...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:08 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:15 PM
3

You let other dudes fuck your wife. You're a cuckold.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:15 PM
1

Lol, then why even bother
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:14 PM
1

I 10000% prefer being single to being with some fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:02 PM
1

"Just become world famous bro" The guy playing some local bar a couple Saturdays a month with his garage band does not have women lining up to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:01 PM
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She's talking about below the average of the guys she's attracted to. The overwhelming majority is below the looks threshold, and therefore not part of the equation at all. Men below her--and every other female's--looks threshold don't even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:58 PM
1

There is nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:55 PM
2

Butt ugly is a big stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:49 PM
2

Not having the freedom to explore other options Does not apply. So you're a cuckold then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:48 PM
2

No one paying politicians has anyone else's best interests at heart
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:13 PM
1

How is it a dystopia?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:05 PM
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Good looking people don't go to Walmart
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:45 PM
1

You know, I remember watching this show when it was on. I don't remember any of this John Connor in love with the hot terminator subplot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:28 AM
2

I'm not sure what one has to do with the other
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:25 AM
0

Yeah I don't get it. The virtual/robot/AI gf thing has less than zero appeal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:32 AM
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He's like a 4. He's fat, balding, etc. Just having one part of the equation ain't shit. You have to have it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:20 AM
2

I think that's how you know the body counts women report in those studies are fraudulent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:09 AM
1

Want and "will settle for" aren't the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:57 AM
1

There aren't enough of the men women want to go around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:17 AM
0

They don't want to give it to men in return though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:14 AM
2

I'm for sure guilty of that as well which is why I was curious about someone else's perspective. Sometimes I get an inkling that there's a curtain here that we're all tacitly agreeing to stand in front of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:44 PM
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I’m saying look at the way women are judged and shamed here and let it roll off your back. I couldn’t be here is I didn’t do the same. No one is entitled to approval of their choices. Interesting. So would you say you actually stand by everything you say here, or are you just reacting and slinging mud back just for the satisfaction of it? Do you most people here are sincere, or do you think it's just mud slinging contest between a bunch of angry/hurt people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:16 PM
1

Maybe all women just suck then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:51 PM
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So you're just criticizing for the sake of getting even or something? How's that doing anybody any good?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:49 PM
1

Yep, you've got it all figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:37 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:21 PM
3

$5k is getting off easy these days from what I hear. You gotta be spending like $20k before she can even think about flexing on her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:15 PM
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Don't women keep telling us that they can demand whatever they want regardless of what they have to offer? Why can't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:59 PM
2

I'll just say you seem cranky most of the time and leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:50 PM
2

Your posts here indicate you're very happy with your life, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:40 PM
5

How would you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:39 PM
1

Not really. So that's a yes. Literally no basis in reailty for this load of bullshit other than the projection of extremely insecure men. Yeah, that must be why the cliche of married men complaining about how their wife stopped fucking them after they got married exists. No thanks. this is enough horsehit for one day. The only horseshit is what is coming out of your mouth, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:38 PM
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Yep, we should actually be encouraging the abolition of marriage altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:29 PM
2

You don't think honesty is important in a relationship? Good luck to you too then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:25 PM
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The issue is not making your current man feel like he’s inadequate. That's called lying. There’s no reason you can’t be the best she ever had. There's a myriad of reasons why you might not be able to be the best she ever had. We can start with how women see having to give instruction or "teach" to please her better as a turn off. We also have the fact that most women don't marry the guy that sexually aroused them the most. I can keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:15 PM
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I would argue that they deserve your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:13 PM
1

It's a combination of everything. I imagine the guy that gave her the most arousal is weighted heavily. For guys it was probably the girl who was the most enthusiastic/adventurous. And it's an apples to apples comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:12 PM
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What other reason is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 06:41 PM
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If you want to run on the self improvement treadmill after pussy for an eternity, you go right ahead brother. I'm not stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 06:14 PM
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Men want to feel desired just like women crave feeling desired. And women just usually don't desire the men they're able to get to marry them that way. AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:40 PM
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You should be embarrassed at how weak of an attempt at a troll post this is. Step it the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:37 PM
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Just lie. What entitles them to your relationship history?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:25 PM
0

Well, you can get jacked and make your own judgement I suppose. My experience is, I could always get girls to an extent. It's not like I couldn't get girls at all and thought getting yoked would flip everything upside down. I went from fat to pretty great shape. The quality of girls I can get hasn't changed. You know why? Because my face and height are my ceiling. So while 5-6 days a week in the gym for 5+ years has been great for me in many ways, it hasn't changed anything with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:12 PM
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Okay, remember me when they start bringing up how hot the new guy at work is and how much more exciting he is than their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:56 PM
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When you marry you are the perfect package in your wife’s eyes the perfect recipe of all the ingredients that’s why she picked you. This is fantasy land nonsense. Most people settle when they get married, therefore, the person they marry is not the "perfect recipe." Most people just end up with what they deem good enough. Women especially feel this way because their hypergamous nature doesn't allow them to be content with settling. That's why Rosa_Linda's friends are all bitching to her about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:51 PM
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And maybe, just maybe, they're a little (or more than a little) unsatisfied and it's going to lead to divorce down the road as the resentment festers. I'll just skip all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:23 PM
2

I know a ton a women who married men that weren’t the “best sex” they’ve ever had. I wonder why you know that? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 06:56 AM
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They're just women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 06:23 AM
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I'd actually prefer she be honest above all else, even though it would obviously be the end of the relationship. I'd rather not have it all than be someone's good enough in any respect. I don't want to live my life with someone who's holding a candle for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:43 AM
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Why'd you try to smooth it out? If you meant it, if those were your true feelings, why bother? The biggest thing about being an alpha is not apologizing (unless you have ulterior motives for doing so).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:46 AM
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Autism probably
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:37 AM
2

What did it feel like to be cheated on? Well I trusted her probably the most I've ever trusted anyone who wasn't family, so the betrayal felt insanely bad. It was a bad enough experience where I'll never look at relationships the same again. I had a couple short ones since, but I doubt I'll ever really be able to let my guard down in one again. Did you ever forgive them? The day we broke up is the last time we spoke, so I've never really had to. Do I really wish her ill will these days? Not real…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:31 AM
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Assuming you're at least half way normal, you won't feel bad forever. If it was actually one time bad decision, you'll learn from it OR you'll decide it didn't actually feel that bad and let your worst impulses rule the day once again. It really depends what kind of person you really are. Have you ever gone through a similar situation on either end? Sure, I've been cheated on and came close to cheating myself. What do you want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:49 AM
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If you partially blame them you don't feel that guilty. You just want to be told you didn't do anything wrong, and anyone who does that is lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:14 AM
4

You'll be alright. You won't realize it now, but you'll almost certainly look back in a couple years and laugh at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:49 PM
1

any guy willing to fuck down enough can create an alpha widow. It takes more than [fucking] to create an alpha widow. Those two statements don't really jive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:04 PM
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The guys women are most aroused by all have the same characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:23 PM
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We'll just have to agree to disagree. You're more than welcome to try settling for good enough in a romantic relationship and see where it gets you. A couple girls have looked at me as a good enough, but in the end, good enough ain't really good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:59 PM
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Nope, there are alphas and betas. And contrary to RP, you can't become an alpha. Past childhood you either are or you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:48 PM
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Generally speaking, having a boyfriend or girlfriend that isn't as good as your ex in bed doesn't have to mean the relationship is doomed. I just disagree. I don't want accept 'less than' in any aspect of my life, not just relationships. For example, now that I have my own house, I don't want to go back to living in a shitty apartment building with a shitty landlord, roaches, etc. Obviously if circumstances changed and I had to go back to that situation I could physically do it, but I would defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:46 PM
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He deserves a woman who is passionate about him You either are that guy or you're not. He ain't that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:32 PM
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Ask me how I know even 7.5 isn't impressive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:25 PM
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I mean, yeah Then the situation is note salvageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:23 PM
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Why spend your life knowing you're inadequate for someone? You want a dude who'd rather fuck a fleshlight than your vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:22 PM
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It was clearly everything for the girl in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:15 PM
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There's no figuring out a problem like this. The only solution is to go your separate ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:12 PM
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The girl from the original thread specifically said "more gifted down there." You gonna get dick surgery or wear a strap on? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:08 PM
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I genuinely can't imagine having the mind of a bloop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:07 PM
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Oof I didn't catch that when I skimmed the post. Dude made his own bed, but regardless, she'll probably be holding a candle for old Billy Big Cock her whole life, no matter who she's with. Next time she'll just know better not to say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:05 PM
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In an ideal world we'd control reproduction in such away that only the best of the best (male and female) would breed. Everyone else would be sterilized. Thankfully, females already do this in a sort of crude way. Hopefully the overall decrease in testosterone we're seeing in the male population will lead to males doing on their own as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:43 PM
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Those terms describe a nagging bitch of a wife. Why do you think she's like that? Because she resents having to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:12 PM
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And guess what? Men settle too The difference is, women really resent having to settle. Men generally don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:35 PM
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there is something wrong with you being average and requiring more from your partner than you have to offer Not according to women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:33 PM
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Thankfully, the cynicism keeps me young
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:12 AM
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SMV can vary wildly depending on, say, how much time you spend in the gym. I think you're drastically overstating how much muscles make a difference. Face, height, hair, etc. are much much more important. RMV seems to be much less of something you can concretely put effort into. I can earn more money, I can increase my status, I can do things that make me more interesting, etc. The thing is, none of these things increase lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:09 AM
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I wasn't arguing whether it got easier. Of course it's fuckin easier, you're pursuing table scraps! I was taking issue with your statement that it's all worth it in the end because you'll end up with someone "decent." The scraps from this table are not decent, that I can assure you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:01 AM
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Dating to what end? SMV is mostly inherent. RMV is more affected by effort, but the rate of return is still pretty abysmal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:50 AM
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So you never want to live with your SO? Sounds like a plus to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:04 AM
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The level of woman I expect is relative to my own value. If I'm a 5 I want at least a 5. If go from a 5 to a 6, well now I expect a 6. I won't accept anything less than an equal return on my investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:56 AM
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Are you intentionally being obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:50 AM
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It's not like the human race will go extinct. The muslim world is still breeding like crazy. The west may collapse, but I suspect we're well on our way to that regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:49 AM
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What's unsafe about it? People already generally don't like me. I'd have nothing to lose by being "vulnerable." You're suggesting I'm trying to put my seatbelt on after I've already crashed the car.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:11 AM
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If most women are actually happier alone than* with some guy they feel is beneath them, the outcome will be that women will be happier on average. You're also assuming women do actually want these men, and it's not outside pressure pushing them in a certain direction. People are supposed to pair up. When people choose not to, society views that as weird. Most people do care what others think, and I think women are more sensitive to what their peers think than men are. Maybe if even a relatively …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:00 AM
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Your PCP or a TRT clinic? And I'm not on it, but I've been reading up on it and am gonna get blood work done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:38 AM
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It's just effortless for me. I have to try to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:25 AM
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I'm okay alone. It has its downsides, but it also has many upsides also. There's no I certainly wouldn't say relationships I've been in have felt any better in the long term. Sure, the honeymoon period is great, but that's not sustainable beyond a few months as far as I know. I'm not really sure what power women have over me. I haven't so much as lifted a finger to get with a woman in 3+ years, and there's no woman around to even so much as ask me to do anything I don't want to do. I understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:19 AM
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I'm authentically a fuckin asshole. As it turns out, people don't like being around an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:44 AM
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I'm surprised there are any women who do it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:37 AM
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"Normal" is anywhere from 300-1000 ng/dl. That's the most unscientific horseshit I've ever heard. You walk into a doctor's office with a bunch of symptoms of low T, be in the 300s, and they'll tell you it's all on your head. You want some Zoloft? On the other hand, if a man wants to bolt on tits and take estrogen they'll tell you to have a fuckin ball. I wonder why that is. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:36 AM
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In your experience, how has rewarding bad behavior worked out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:28 AM
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A real alpha isn't trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 11:44 PM
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You're lucky, most guys never experience this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 09:55 PM
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There are no good women over 30 lol. They're all past their prime leftovers when I'm reaching my peak value. Why would I accept that deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:37 PM
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This woman isn't looking to be warmed up. She's looking to avoid the act entirely, and it sounds like you relate to her. You don't want sex, so there must be something wrong with a guy if he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:38 PM
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No one should settle for anything less than they feel they're worth. If I'm a 5 I'm not settling for a 4, no matter how skewed a perception women have of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:34 PM
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Women do the same to men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:30 PM
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Just bend over backwards for months on end while she makes zero effort in the relationship bro Fuck outta here. And if it does work, what, you're just supposed to continue to maintain this above and beyond level of effort forever? It's not sustainable. His marriage is over either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:19 PM
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Sex is icky, who'd want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:14 PM
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If a girl likes you, the supposed rules don't really apply. If she doesn't like you, well she doesn't like you and it doesn't matter. More guys need to realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:48 PM
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That's fuckin weird whether she was trying to sell you the car or fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:37 PM
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if you are male and a woman is nice to you, it's a rare enough occurrence that you may confuse it as an indication of interest. Are most women not nice in your experience? How would you define "nice?" I don't think that many women are into me, but I'd say the overwhelming majority women I interact with are at least nice enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:30 PM
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Asking a girl for her business card and then hitting her up with romantic intentions seems like a bad move.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:14 PM
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1. I think you weren't supposed to know. In these cases, the interest isn't all that strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:40 PM
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Who knows, honestly. An ex claimed she has a crush on me for weeks or even months (worked in the same building) before we even talked the first time. I didn't even know she existed. We finally interacted because I approached her, but there was nothing to indicate she wasn't just being friendly. And then I said something that she took as insult even though I didn't know it applied to her and made it clear she didn't want me to come anywhere near her. Only months after that, when she I guess reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:38 PM
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Yeah, no woman has ever fucked a guy knowing she'd never see him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:28 PM
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I'll never get wanting to survive the apocalypse. That's when life will be really boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:31 AM
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Then why do they all look similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:01 AM
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A woman who makes her own money and does not need his is more likely to challenge him Do you want to be "challenged" by a man you're in a relationship with? I personally want a romantic relationship to be a place of comfort, not another competition. I've already got plenty of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:03 AM
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Yeah I flat out don't care what self-reported studies say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:00 AM
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in real life peoples standards quickly adjust to their actual match after a few years of dating. And resentment that breeds is why divorce is so prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:45 AM
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I guess he's just repelled normal women. Cheating for women is normal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:36 AM
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I don't have time to waste on the wrong person. Please don't put more autistic kids into the world. You don't have time to waste because you've run out of time. And btw, if you actually had real options, you wouldn't be talking about the ticking clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:02 AM
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Wish more people could wrap their minds around this. Sex/reproduction should be about creating a better race and should be reserved only for genetics that are worthy of being passed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:00 AM
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One year can easily be written off as a statistical anomaly. What we're seeing now is a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:10 AM
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Sucks to suck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:50 AM
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That's literally all women ever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:38 AM
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Ya don't say?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:30 PM
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My personal belief is that too many people want that "new relationship love" all the time I think people--women especially--want their partner to continue to put in new relationship effort for increasingly diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:19 PM
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Sounds underwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:16 PM
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women are instantly attracted to Chad on looks alone. I would sign and date this statement right here. Saying this isn't the case to me would be like saying the sky isn't blue. I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:30 AM
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Why does sexual orientation matter? https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/study-says-brains-of-gay/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:19 PM
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Love should never be transactional. Like it or not, it's nothing more than that. It's the reason many more young men are sexless these days than in the past, they can't bring anything tangible to the table that women don't feel they can't* get on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:06 PM
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You could say that about anything discussed here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:45 PM
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The women who truly want kids will either settle in their 30s or 40s or become SMBC. Imagine purposely having autistic kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:50 AM
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I wonder who says shit like that all that time to give them that idea? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:31 AM
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Btw I think most women are beautiful, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:10 AM
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If they're so great why don't they take better care of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:02 AM
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Over 6ft is a status thing it doesn't have to make logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:20 AM
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Balding is a high test trait not low test
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:05 PM
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I'm talking about what would happen in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:41 PM
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This is such a great troll account. I feel like people have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:39 PM
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You're leaving out the option of choosing neither
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:30 PM
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Or you could just stop giving a fuck what women think instead of taking drugs that can give you permanent ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:25 PM
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On my head? I'm sure my employer would love that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:23 PM
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A man not having hair is a dealbreaker for most women. Search for any thread on here where women are asked to list their demands in potential partner. A nice full head of hair is a demand for 90% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:21 PM
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I've lived it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:16 AM
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14 years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:15 AM
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Why did I--on PPD of all places--initially think this going to be a positive story?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:06 AM
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Not sure I'd totally identify with the MGTOW crowd, but it's not so much that I hate women, it's just that I don't see a relationship with one benefitting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:57 AM
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It seems women are actually less sexually adventurous with long term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:41 AM
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I've heard they're big time assholes. Aggressive even.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:39 AM
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I didn't realize until recently it was normal to fantasize about fucking someone else while you were fucking someone. I never have, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:49 PM
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Is that not what many women on here accuse men of thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:42 PM
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Raising wild animals sounds pretty fun ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:40 PM
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as long as they aren't living out these disgusting trashy lifestyles then i don't think it matter They increasingly are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:38 PM
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Fuck that, you shouldn't be obligated to stay with someone when they decide they're a gender you're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:07 PM
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I associate the term "career woman" with someone who sees their career as the most important thing in life. They're borderline, if not totally consumed with climbing the corporate ladder. That's my dad. It--the climb up the ladder and the job itself when he got there--not only made him absolutely miserable, but is a huge reason we have no relationship to speak of. That's just not for me. I'll take $65k/yr for working a maximum of 40 hours and enjoy the rest of my time. Being a "career woman" doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:58 PM
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If the average guy did that he'd have neither
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:00 AM
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Why isn't your equal good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:34 AM
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You're leaving out the bit about the overwhelming majority of women still wanting a man who makes more than her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:18 AM
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"Provide" tends to mean one contributes more than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:58 AM
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You hear that guys? Her money is her money. Your money is our money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:58 AM
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What does it matter what my answer is? You know damn well you don't give a shit what men think. You're gonna do what you want either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:20 AM
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Anorexic isn't a good look imo. I'm most attracted to slim women, but the ones you can tell are keeping it tight through exercise and not an eating disorder. I like to see the outline of a woman's abdominal wall, but not individual abs. I want a 1-pack and not a 6-pack if you will. Can a woman be too big for a relationship, but small enough that you'd still have sex with her? Or vice versa? Yes. Most people are probably going to gain weight as they get older. If I was seeking a woman to settle d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:13 AM
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then I guess all men are rapists, mysoginist, and violent, especially to minors, women and marginalised groups Most women openly admit they assume the worst about men by default. Well, the ones they don't find hot anyway. I think it's high time men start assuming the worst about women by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:59 AM
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I'm 5'10''. It's really rare I encounter a woman who is noticeably taller than me, so I don't really give it much thought. I would date a taller woman, but I also wouldn't pursue one because I operate under the assumption that all women want a man who is taller than them. I'm not intimated by tall women at all, though, why would I be? Should I be afraid they're gonna beat me up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:51 AM
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Looking at it again, I'm a dope. I mixed up the two blue colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:59 AM
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I think it's extremely cold and cynical to choose a partner based on statistical probabilities. I, personally, used my parents as an example of who not to be, but I guess I'm doomed to be judged based on their behavior anyways. Just seems fucked up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:44 AM
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I'm not. I'm trying to understand why you think telling someone to completely change who they are on a fundamental level is realistic advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:32 AM
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Yes obviously if your parents are divorced you are destined to walk in their footsteps. The logic of women never ceases to amaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:11 AM
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Lol, any man with a brain knows women never date down
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:58 AM
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You're just splitting hairs to deflect. I should've said "Lol at your suggestion that shaving your legs and pretending to be someone you fundamentally aren't 24/7 is comparable." Now you don't have an excuse. Or you could just personally attack me again. Breaking the rules is appropriate behavior for a person who's supposed to be enforcing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:57 AM
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No one genocides dissidents like socialists after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:49 AM
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I'm not the one who compared the two. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:43 AM
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You can't have romantic love without lust
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:41 PM
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Lol at your suggestion that shaving your legs and pretending to be someone you fundamentally aren't 24/7 is the same thing. The former takes 5-10 minutes a day max. The latter might drive a person insane. You've never experienced any real hardship in your life, have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:49 PM
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So your take would be that men should pretend to be someone they're not to become desirable to women? That's your definition of putting effort in? Fair enough I guess. Obliviously one can fake it for a while, although I doubt people would be able to keep up the act long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:59 PM
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Can we stop with this nonsense about men "not having their shit together?" If it was about that men would be mostly be complaining about dates happening but never going anywhere because women loser interest upon finding out more about a guy. Instead men mostly complain about not being able to get dates at all. You know what that means? It means it's about looks. No amount of "getting your shit together" will change a man's face and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:48 PM
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No, it's objective, especially according to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:03 PM
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That shit is just expected from us and we're putting up with it Aww poor you. It's such a burden to have the common decency to wake up the person you supposedly love if they oversleep by accident. You sound like an incredible partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:48 PM
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only about 0.5-10% of men look good, Could've just stopped here. The rest doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:35 PM
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And even if she did, she has pretty high standards, so it would not be easy to find the right guy for her. I guess she's "happier" alone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:08 PM
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Well, I guess I've lived alone too long, because I don't feel the household chores are much of a burden. Certainly not enough to pay someone for it. Childcare is expensive of course, but that's not a burden I'm saddled with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:09 PM
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They'll just import more brown people. If you're of the opinion that'll collapse/destroy western civilization, that's another discussion. I suppose western Europe could change dramatically if they just import Muslims. The US/Canada has a central and South America to draw from, though. I'm not saying the collapse will never happen. I just don't see it happening in less than 80-100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:04 PM
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Okay, define effort please. Because the 20% certainly aren't the only ones putting in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:01 PM
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You're looking to exchange household chores that take me a handful of hours per week and "regular" sex for being supported in total. In what world do you think that's fair value?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:47 PM
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I was obviously foolish to think love was ever a real thing. The business arrangement you propose isn't good value for the money. Might as well just buy whores. Don't have to listen to them talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:40 PM
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If I have my house, cars, and money/career, what the hell do I need you hanging around for? I've already built my life, you think you can just come in and reap the fruits of my labor because you have a pussy? Not likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:28 PM
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I appreciate the honesty. Would you agree men outside the top 20% need to stop pursuing women entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:25 PM
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Western civilization isn't going to collapse in our lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:21 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:06 PM
1

Over a 1/3 of people are on BSD? Has BSD recently become popular as a desktop OS?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:33 PM
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That's the thing that troubles me most about women. They all seem to be able to justify anything they do. That's why when you fight with them, they never say sorry no matter how wrong they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:35 AM
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The fuck is the "other" OS?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:27 AM
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Lucky men: Woman give better gifts!And on average they spend more to: That sample size of men compared to women in that survey is dog shit. And 1 woman is the top spender by ~$25. It's hardly definitive proof that women spend more. And more likely to do favors: In the workplace. Kind of a stretch to say that's proof it carries over to romantic relationships, no? Damn. It sucks for YOU that you really pick shitty people to date. I didn't really have much say in my opinion. It was either date thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:33 AM
1

Just to be clear, you're acknowledging women expect men to put in more than they get out, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:23 AM
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So how much more effort should a man have to put in to a relationship than the woman does to compensate for her entitlement then? 2x as much? 5x as much? 10x as much? You can take attitude and go pound sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:15 AM
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My theory is that if a man is under a certain level of attractiveness she'll always feel like she's doing that guy a favor just by being with him. Like she could/should be doing better--whether she actually can or not in reality. Women know they have a massive upper hand in dating average men now, and they abuse the shit out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:07 AM
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Gifts? Let's not pretend that's equal. The cost of the engagement ring she'll eventually expect alone will eclipse the total value of any gifts a woman will give a guy over the course of a relationship. Even if we assume she gives him little thoughtful gifts over the course of the relationship as much as she expects him to, he's still losing bigly. Favors? I've never been able to get a woman I was with to do one for me that wasn't either like pulling teeth or that I didn't have to hear about how…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:03 AM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:48 PM
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no love, no emotional support, no attention, no care, no commitment etc. Besides negative, nagging attention, relationship guy doesn't get this stuff either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:45 PM
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LTR guy puts a lot more in and gets about as much in return from women as casual sex guy. You all love the idea of commitment so much, but don't act like you value it all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:23 PM
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If running on the self-improvement treadmill after a carrot on a stick to meet the ever increasing demands of women in exchange for an ever decreasing return on investment is worth it to you, go with God brother. I've done a lot of the self improvement stuff, but I've taken it as far as I feel it's worth going. Some parts of it I just don't feel are worth it, so I'm not going to do them. For example, I'm not interesting in spending most/all of my Friday and Saturday nights in bars to meet women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:28 PM
5

Kind of a false equivalency, because most would agree even bad ice cream is at least decent. That doesn't mean Ben and Jerry's isn't better than whatever half gallon is on sale for 2/$5 at your local grocery store this week. And the difference is, bad sex absolutely exists for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:41 PM
5

It's probably not such a great analogy. I just think, as a more or less average guy, women have the odds stacked so much in their favor that it's not even worth showing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:17 PM
6

If your partner has expressed his desire for something that was missing, doesn't that mean something was lacking before? How can you even judge what good is if you've never experienced bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:00 PM
5

When you go to a football game, the spectators are there, but they're not competing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:53 PM
2

Typical woman. Your pleasure is paramount, ours doesn't matter. Starfish is more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:52 PM
5

"Bad sex," I mean idk what that is Sounds like you're having it all the time then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:47 PM
7

Someday you'll grow out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:43 PM
27

The path of least resistance will always be the most popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:29 PM
2

"good girl" There's no such thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:15 PM
7

I don't make a habit of looking things that can't and don't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:13 PM
21

So if you're not rich, tall, or attractive enough, you should stop playing the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:52 PM
4

What women want in men will not change. It's biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:07 PM
1

Why go on 8+ dates with someone you feel so lukewarm about that you're still shopping around for someone better? You don't have to answer, I already know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:45 PM
3

Hopefully eventually men will wake up in large numbers and stop playing a game they can't possibly win.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:05 AM
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Well I guess you're the one who said NO woman is capable of loving you unconditionally. Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:02 AM
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But I do think, after 2 months, the man at least (and probably the woman too) should know that they only want to keep seeing that one person. Men can know quicker than women do because they generally benefit from LTR's heavily and lengthen their lives. It's opposite for women. You can vet within 2 months for a woman who is nurturing and works hard at her job. But to vet for how a man keeps his house, or how his parents raised him to be when women tell him no, that takes a bit longer. I think it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:01 AM
1

Unfortunately, there are some of who really don't have much interest in doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:09 AM
3

If you read my comment, you'd see that it very rarely happened for me as well and only for very limited times until someone (or all someones) got thrown out of the running. I don't know if I read your comment or not, but that's not the picture most of the women in here are painting. Even if we assume they're being truthful about not fucking them: They're stringing a bunch of guys along eating as many free meals as they can get until they either settle or someone even better enters the fray. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:00 AM
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You are comparing a woman who loves me unconditionally to women who won't and shouldn't. Apples and chainsaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:37 AM
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Most men don't even have the option to date multiple women at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:32 AM
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I love my mom to death, but I certainly would not date a woman like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:22 AM
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This thread is great. Makes total sense why women feel so comfortable and guilty free when cheating/branch swinging. They go from dating multiple guys at once to dating multiple guys at once. You'd have to be insane to ever commit to a modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:00 AM
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That's cool because you can't ever assume a woman is monogamous whether you've had the talk or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:47 AM
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I guess I was just speaking for myself then. I'm currently living under the assumption that I'll never have sex again, and it's not the end of world to me. If I was doomed to a life in poverty I'd probably just kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:59 AM
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You're still paying for sex, you're just adding steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:10 AM
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Nothing women value in themselves is valued by men. Women are humans with rights, but don't expect us to appreciate the same things you appreciate in yourselves. We never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:53 AM
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Getting surgery to get laid is easily just as pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:51 AM
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Women probably felt opening up their legs would put a spell on these guys, and they feel lied to when it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:27 AM
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I suppose I'm not healthy then, because I have no real "desire" to reproduce. Under perfect conditions, I think having kids would be something really rewarding that I'd enjoy, but I've come to the conclusion those conditions will never exist in reality for me. That's not to say I don't have a voracious sex drive, I could easily fuck 3+ times a day and usually jerkoff a minimum of twice a day. I've never had blood work done for it, but I pretty much check every box of someone who has high testost…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:25 AM
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What would you like the rest of us to do about that? I hope they just add a few wings to gitmo and send the radical incels there in that case. Becoming a terrorist or some other kind of destructive radical because you can't get laid is lunacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:22 PM
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It seems, based on their repeated attempts to get me to change my mind, they would in fact being okay with it if I pretended I was attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:20 PM
1

I can't speak for virginal men who've never had sex. If you've had enough of it, you realize it's kind of a luxury more than a need. It's like owning an older Italian sports car. High maintenance and expensive, but cool if you can swing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:12 PM
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And fat women would vastly prefer that men who don't find them attractive keep on swiping and leave them alone. That's been not the case in my experience. The women who've thrown themselves at me most aggressively were disgusting obese women who wouldn't take no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:09 PM
0

Then wouldn’t that mean even less men will be having sex? Yes, men need to learn to live without sex. Or at least not let it drive them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:06 PM
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In most cases sex is the only thing women can offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:55 PM
1

They're all mentally unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:18 PM
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Nah, but the guy they can't resist dropping their panties for will eventually come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:36 PM
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I suppose there's no reason to lower your standards these days if you don't mind being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:27 AM
2

Most people are dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:17 PM
3

Let's say we agree: Chad bucks gets the best and broke Chad gets second best. It's immaterial to those of us who are in the remaining 80 plus percent. The 80% will never be "absolutely desired" by any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:44 AM
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Where do you get the idea that the best sex for men happens in relationships? That's not my own personal experience, and I've heard many women--perhaps even the majority--say they feel more inhibited sexually within relationships for whatever reason. The reason I see most often cited is they're afraid their partner will see them as a whore or look down on them if they're too wild. They're actually less comfortable with the man they should be most comfortable with! How fucked is that? And sure, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:25 AM
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Broke Chad can entice a woman into sex but he can’t maintain a relationship nor maintain lust (the women lose respect for him and their puss shrivels up), Broke Chad gets the best a woman has to offer and then moves onto the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:58 AM
2

What's the difference between some beta bux scenario and hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:45 AM
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When I was around 20 I was broke, but was in a relationship where we had lots of sex. Probably at least twice a day for part of it. At the time, though, I was constantly worried about where my next meal was coming from or how I'd buy gas to get to work. ~9 years later I have enough banked where I could afford to not work for years without skipping a beat. I find that to be a tremendous weight off my shoulders that is way better than sex. So, yeah, I'll take the money without much thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:06 AM
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You would strive for this goal even if you weren’t given a reward from somebody for it. If there's no reward for your ambition you're not achieving anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:58 PM
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Superior genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:43 PM
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Don't go changing your standard now, especially when most women do in fact consider bald a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:31 PM
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Why do her threads always get so much engagement? She plays this place like a fiddle tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:25 PM
1

I'm going bald
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:37 PM
2

Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:35 PM
2

Turns out I'm below average
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:07 PM
2

Lol aren't you a hooker?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:18 AM
2

Women on the internet are lying to you Yeah, we know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:40 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:27 AM
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Is it really all that different than women tolerating men for their money and status?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:45 AM
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Entirely depends on what you're telling the truth about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:19 AM
1

Today's women have nothing to offer besides sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:46 AM
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If they warm up over time to want to be the guy's girlfriend then they often care more about his feelings than their own. Bull fuckin shit. This might be the most ludicrous thing I've seen posted on this subreddit, which is really saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:49 PM
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Single dads are just as fucked as single moms on the dating market, so there's your explanation fort he looks disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:27 PM
1

You think a woman can't treat a guy like shit if he's abusive? Like if my wife is a completely bitch to me and nags me and grinds me down to a fine power and I respond by beating the shit out of her, my actions somehow erase hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:10 PM
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It's just handsome. Facial genetics trump everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:34 PM
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How are the two things mutually exclusive? Why couldn't a woman settle for a guy who also turns out to be abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:34 PM
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Women find only about 15-20% of men physically attractive. Of that 15-20% of men, an individual woman won't find every single one of those men attractive. The remaining 80% of men are not part of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:01 PM
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Actual data: The divorce rate, the fact that women overwhelmingly initiate that divorce, sexless marriages mostly caused by women, etc. Anecdotes: Ugly guys I know are treated like shit by their wives/gfs, while good looking men I know have this issue much less. For example, all the ugly guys have to ask their wife for permission for every little thing they want to do. Handsome men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:49 PM
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then how do you explain all the looks matched couples? All women in relationships with men who are not in the top 20% are resentful over the fact that they couldn't land a man in the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:19 PM
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You think Darren Sproles took steroids too? Everyone in the NFL is on PEDs, except maybe Kickers. You can't play that sport at a professional level without them. I'm not saying you are on steroids, but citing football players is not going to win you any arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:13 PM
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Of course dating requires a minimum baseline attractiveness but the baseline doesn't have to be ridiculously high. And yet it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:03 PM
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The problem is, the homely woman doesn't believe she's homely looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:55 PM
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I personally find that talking about my problems solves absolutely nothing, nor does it make me feel better. Solutions make me feel better, and 99% of the time I'm the only one who can provide those for myself. I also don't find that life shits on me, anything bad that happens to me can usually be traced back to a bad decision I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:55 PM
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They're all the same on a base level
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:51 PM
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he average 40 year return on a bachelor's degree is 500k. That's abominably bad, lol. That's $12.5k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:34 PM
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That's women's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:22 PM
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Most people being looksmatched kinda blows up your whole argument
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:09 AM
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Guess I'm gonna be a volcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:01 PM
1

Congrats you just called all women whores
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:34 PM
2

A romantic relationship based on money is prostitution, don't delude yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:10 PM
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Lol neither of those things are anywhere near as important to guys as a girl just not being fat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:45 PM
2

That's prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:29 PM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:05 AM
3

Confidence comes from success. You don't start off confident you can ride a bike when you first ride a bike. After successfully doing it for a while, then comes confidence in your ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:47 AM
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"just be beta bux" The type of relationship you're describing is transactional relationship where the woman mostly takes from the man and he gets little in return. Not something worth having.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:38 AM
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I'm not attacking you, but you come off like a complete pushover. That might be part of your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:29 AM
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Men and women value looks pretty much the same. Women just value the other shit also.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:30 AM
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The people who are meeting are meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:14 PM
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I love the people who like to close their eyes and stick their fingers in their ears and act like most people aren't meeting online now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:59 PM
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You really hate men don't you? At least she's honest
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:20 AM
2

That's what's happening anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:07 AM
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It is an increasingly commonly held opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:57 PM
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I agree with your last statement. Even going to hard and clubs now, a lot of us women just want to go and hang out with our friends and dance. We’re not really interested in being hit on by men. I can see men would feel OLD is a better option if other women feel this way as well A woman in this thread. Women don't want to be met out in the world, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:44 AM
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whats the point of viewing attractiveness like that? Because that's the way it is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:58 AM
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I think men should give up on dating entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:19 AM
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Look, I'm not saying it's a death sentence, but it significant hurts most guys attractiveness. If you're tall and handsome, you'll be okay. But if you have an average face and you're an average height, things get A LOT harder if you're bald. And the tall handsome guy would probably get even hotter women if he had hair than he does without.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:58 AM
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Yeah bro I know a 4'9'' fat guy who slays too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:23 AM
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You don't have to be attractive to get famous acting. Plus he exclusively makes movies targeted at a male audience. It's not like he's used to appeal to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:21 AM
1

What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:55 AM
2

Rich and famous
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:26 AM
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Because most women readily admit to losing attraction when their husband gets fat. If "husband goggles" as OP puts it doesn't exist* for husbands who get fat, it doesn't exist for husbands who go bald either. Some women are just more reluctant to admit to the latter because going bald is not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:20 AM
5

Why even bother asking this question? They're just gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:17 PM
5

And the reality is that life is not fair. Idk why you're having such difficulty grasping this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:45 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:18 PM
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Horseshit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:14 PM
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There are many other women who are though Not based on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:18 PM
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If you're white it is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:58 AM
1

Having a girlfriend is highly convenient. Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:50 AM
1

Fair point, I entirely forgot about one half of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:20 AM
2

Why should the bottom 80% breed? Why should we be encouraging the proliferation of inferior DNA?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:35 AM
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Sure, I've also seen the argument we should kill every non virgin right on this sub. I've never seen that, but I'm sure basically no one agreed with that and that person was probably banned for saying it. False equivalency. You obviously won't be doing the pregnancy birth or feeding. How are you helping then? However I can?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:29 AM
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If a man is ugly, at least he can boost his status through talent/money/comedy/success. Success and money are the same thing, and that's glorified prostitution. Talent and being funny? Talent if it comes with fame, sure. 99.99% of ugly people aren't going to be talented enough anything to become famous. Being funny enough for women to ignore you being ugly isn't a learned skill really, it's a natural ability. 99.99% of ugly dudes aren't going to be able to do that, either. Ugly men and ugly wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:23 AM
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Companionship, a partner in having children, and sex. I don't place arbitrary requirements on a woman that she must make this much money and have this level of education and have this many friends and so on. If she's reasonably happy with her own life and is interesting enough to enjoy spending time with, I don't care about her status. Women seem to be borderline obsessed with status and arbitrary qualifications. I once saw a woman on here question if she--a teacher making $45k--was dating down …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:03 PM
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Woman do all those things You're expecting men to value the same things in you that you do in us. The way I look at it, if I already have a good career, good education, ambition, a large social circle, and a good family, you bringing those things to the table is redundant and therefore adds nothing to my life. You don't date what a person does for you Tell that to women, because that is precisely what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:37 PM
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What would you like men to value you you for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:35 PM
1

Only because you let them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:23 PM
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If you're not doing it for us, you don't also get to say that's what you're bringing to the table between you and a man. I'm saying that being a woman is more work Being a man with a good career, good education, ambition, a large social circle, a good family, in good shape, nice haircut, good style, etc--i.e. the qualities many women list as mandatory--is a hell of a lot more work than putting on makeup in the morning. Hell, you can forget all the other shit. I do more work just working out in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:22 PM
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Whether I believe it or not is irrelevant. They can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:14 PM
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I think women are either in denial or are lying to themselves because it’s pretty depressing to realize all the effort, time, and money we spend for our looks is just to get validation as humans from males. At least there's something women can do to improve their looks as far as men are concerned. Men don't really have that luxury. Men are mostly limited to just improving their financial situation, and at that point the relationship is just glorified prostitution. Women often end up doing most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:14 PM
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Women literally never shut up about how they do all that for themselves and don't do any of that shit for men. Can't have it both ways. tampons, Are you actually saying if it weren't for men, women would just be free bleeding all over the place?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:28 PM
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I think the issue is, the average guy has to give a lot more than he gets these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:16 PM
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your woman will automatically leave you once a taller and more attractive dude in a moments notice. I don't see anyone suggesting it's automatic, it's just extremely likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:13 PM
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young women are having less sex than previous generations Marginally. It's nowhere near on the same level as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:20 PM
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Yet they fail to explain how humanity has procreated up until now when the majority of e population on earth couldn't be further from a white, tall person. Women having freedom of choice is like a minute old relative to how long humans have existed, and even then it's still mostly limited to the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:18 PM
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Alpha fucks beta bucks You don't actually want to fuck the guy you settle down with at 35, you just want a stable relationship more than you want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:45 PM
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Virtually everyone else is trying to maximize their individual gain. You're a sucker and a fool if you're not doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:22 AM
3

That's hatfishing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:29 AM
3

Am I correct in assuming you also would not date a bald man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:29 AM
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Depends on how she looks and what guys she's attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:46 PM
7

I only want to have kids if I find a woman I want to have kids with. I only want kids if I think it's highly likely they'll grow up in a happy, two parent household. I won't know I've found that woman until I've known her for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:43 PM
0

That's nature trying to give them a hint
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:36 PM
5

Women hook up with guys out of their league ==> bend over backwards to try to get guy out of their league to commit ==> rinse and repeat ==> eventually settle for betabux who gets mediocre duty sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:47 PM
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Once upon a time, I ended in a relationship with a girl who had a huge body count and who had done all kinds of wild shit. She let the hookup guys use her however they wanted. What did I get as relationship guy? Only positions she enjoyed and no blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:30 PM
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You only do the things you enjoy with your husband. You do things you may not particularly enjoy to impress the hookup guy. This is why it's a typical for to women stop sucking dick once they get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:11 PM
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I’m not sure where you got “incapable of actually liking”. How would you feel if a guy tells you he's settling for you? Great I'm sure. Great sex life too I would hope so, you're still hustlin' for that rock! 6 years? Bet it ain't really as great as you say it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:33 AM
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You're the one who said women can only settle for an average guy (I agree). If she is incapable of actually liking/being attracted to me, why the fuck would I invest in feeling anything for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:19 AM
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How? Because I'd be getting regular duty sex for a while until she gets the ring? I could argue getting semi-regular sex through being deceptive while not having relationship responsibilities would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:09 AM
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It's not less immoral than a woman settling for an average guy so she can have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:38 AM
1

Suck my dick bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:54 PM
3

It's not obvious since several women in this very thread are selecting option A (or C, stay single)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:50 PM
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I've seen plenty of women (I'd say the majority) say they feel the same way about single dads that men do about single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:35 AM
6

I do expect men to pay for dates and give thoughtful gifts and put time and effort in ' What do you do in return? Just show up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:51 PM
4

Sheesh if Jack Ma is okay looking I'm a fuckin supermodel
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:51 AM
4

You're the one who said an orgasm you give yourself is as good as an orgasm a man gives you. If I could get the thrill of a roller coaster at home, why would I waste the money going to an amusement park?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:18 PM
6

Then why did you bother having casual sex in the past? I think you're deluding yourself a little bit, but I understand if you don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:11 PM
3

You've said it right there. You "crave sex" but you're content to marry someone who is borderline asexual because you don't care if he fucks you because you don't crave sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:04 PM
5

You desired the relationship. You don't desire the man who gives you the relationship. We had a conversation once before, you have acknowledged you don't care to have sex with your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:52 PM
8

You don't care about problems men face either way and never will, just like I don't care about problems women face and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:49 PM
2

Then why ever commit to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:20 PM
9

You're a woman, no shit you want a guy many women want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:00 PM
3

Yeah I'll pass on letting my wife fuck other dudes, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:56 PM
3

How fat were these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:54 PM
4

Keep in mind that you're supposed to bang the same woman for the rest of your life. So choose wisely. Why the fuck would I marry a woman who doesn't prefer monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:49 PM
8

Meaning she ends one relationship and immediately starts another? Meaning she's always looking for greener grass and can't commit anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:47 PM
10

If she's had 10+ "monogamous" relationships by 30, she's probably a branch swinger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:38 PM
12

I'm not paying for something many other guys got for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:34 PM
3

Been walkin alone pretty much my whole life brother
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:07 AM
2

Not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:45 AM
1

Fourth became a serial cheater and because I loved him, I put up with it. I didn't consciously put up with it, but I'm ashamed to admit the difference between that and what actually happened is pretty negligible. Perhaps "I hate men" is the answer, but I'm gonna ask anyways. You ever get over it? Because, while I don't feel much of anything for her anymore, the experience has generally ruined relationships and women for me even years later. For what it's worth, I'm genuinely sorry all that happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:44 AM
5

Probably a little of column A and a little of column B
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:29 AM
5

Where do you think the "men" OP is talking about come from? Why do you think men are so weak today? Because they're being raised by women who are only capable of teaching them to act like *men. Women cannot teach a boy to act like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:26 PM
4

You just don't care about being a shitty person/partner? Are you a sociopath?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:34 PM
4

You're a selfish hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:12 PM
17

Why would they be raising the men we are railing against? Women are incapable of raising a man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:01 PM
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then you get with the girls and realize they are entitled, snobby, brats that you don't want to be with AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:54 PM
75

If you want kids, look into adoption or sperm donors. Oh, great idea, more single mothers raising the "men" you're railing against.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:53 PM
3

Lunch used to be free, and now I have to earn it, It's more like, lunch is free for some people, and back breakingly expensive or unavailable entirely for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:30 PM
11

Lol at thinking modern women support men or take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:26 PM
2

Robert Dinero Sounds a Mad TV parody character
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:15 PM
3

Do you really think the top 15% of tall guys are running around like Wilt Chamberlains? Scraping up all the women? No, but they're still doing a million times better than the average guy, though. We are humans and we almost all love sex Women just love sex with a much smaller percentage of the male population
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:53 PM
6

I genuinely do want to give up if the game really isn't worth playing. It'd be a lot easier. If women can only value me for my status or my money and they're incapable of feeling lust for me, I'm not interested. I'd rather not fuck than fuck someone who's faking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:35 PM
6

It does seem to be coming to that, though. Male sexlessness is rapidly increasing, dating is moving more and more online where only the best looking men succeed at all, etc. It does actually seem like women are content to share men in the top 10-20% in looks than settle for anything less. Probably because they were never really attracted to anything less in the first place. Women just seem reluctant to acknowledge the writing on the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:30 PM
3

Unless someone better comes along, then she monkey branches, or tries to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:24 PM
6

Then why'd you say it would?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:15 PM
1

You called yourself average
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:00 PM
2

That wouldn't result in the extinction of the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:59 PM
19

Isn't the whole point of your original post that women don't want to do that and that they're doing less and less of it because they now have the freedom to do so? And why should a man aspire to be settled for? You're so close to being open about how women really feel, but then you ruin it with this "up your game" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:39 PM
2

The government direct depositing cash into your checking account is a handout.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:28 PM
5

UBI is a handout.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:08 PM
71

If they're not tall, dark, and handsome and you only want tall, dark, and handsome...what difference will an attitude change make?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:06 PM
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Good job putting words in my mouth. 4% is almost within the margin of error. Saying men and women are having less sex is disingenuous as shit, and I couldn't give a fuck about your personal anecdotes, either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:51 AM
1

Of course it starts with handouts funded by people who are more valuable and worked harder than you. How masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:48 AM
103

up your game women say tall, dark & handsome No amount of "upping your game" can make a man who is not this become this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:39 AM
7

None of this would change a fucking thing between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:35 AM
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For women sexlessness rose from 15% to 19%. Not even really close to the 8% to 30% rise in sexlessness men experienced over the same time period. That's almost within the margin of error for fuck's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:26 AM
2

Aren't you 6'3"? Sure the fuck up dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:19 AM
1

I've been with a couple women didn't even give blowjobs in the first place, so there are definitely plenty of women who feel no pressure to perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:04 AM
2

Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Maybe we should disregard each other completely. Everything about men and women is incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:00 AM
6

I don't think guys who are getting cheated on are fucking a bunch of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:48 AM
7

What he's getting ISNT HIGH VALUE is the point. Then what is? Being married to her? LOfuckinL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:43 AM
2

Some of this too dumb to even dignify with a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:18 AM
-1

Then why open your mouth in the first place? Just to hear yourself talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:17 AM
7

there are men women will have sex with that aren't good enough for a relationship. Those are just men they couldn't lock down. You're not fooling anyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:06 AM
1

Let's say I do have a problem getting women to fuck me, how would I go about making them want to fuck me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:48 AM
7

Yeah I'm sure he 180'd into Susie homemaker after you laid down the law!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:34 AM
15

And yet you're still with him, so when women bitch about guys like this, it really doesn't matter, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:12 AM
5

I'd say the same about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:08 AM
1

Lol, the effort women put in declines a bit more every day, but the effort they expect from men is ever-increasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:57 AM
21

She was lusting for that guy all along and was either trying to convince herself she wasn't because she had a boyfriend, or she thought she didn't have a chance with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:23 AM
1

Thanks for the advice, but I'm already pretty far down the self-improvement rabbit hole. Why would I want a woman who doesn't feel lust for me? That's my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:13 AM
2

Getting into a relationship where you're bringing way more to the table than she is is not winning. That's being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:34 AM
3

but a hot body alone isn't enough to arouse most women. I agree, their face is much more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:49 AM
6

Then why are the covers of those books always hot dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:19 AM
2

Whether they enjoy it or not doesn't seem to stop them from engaging in it, so who gives a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:08 AM
2

I know what you meant. I'm talking about guys who aren't anything special in any of those categories. They're basically just good looking. By shitty people, I meant unremarkable. I could give a fuck about someone being nice, we agree that's worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:04 AM
4

When the average woman wants to get laid, she can with ease. That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:58 PM
2

Never happened to me lol. That's fine, fortunately there's no shortage of people who are asleep at the wheel out there. If you’re bitter about the game you’ll never win it. The game is not winnable for guys who aren't Chad. The best we can hope for is to keep the game close by cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:56 PM
7

That's not what I see, personally. Everyone seems to have an anecdote of the 5'6'' guy with AMAZING game/charisma that just slays, except I've never seen it real life. The guys who are fucking a lot are the guys you'd expect to be fucking a lot, and some of them are quite shitty people. Let's be real, it's not personality getting Chad from strangers chatting at a bar to inside of her within 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:39 PM
11

Men would watch a lot less porn too if they could fire up tinder and fuck one of dozens of girls within the hour of they wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:13 PM
3

Yeah, so don't be shocked and appalled when we mislead about potential commitment and then ghost you after we've fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:11 PM
6

Then explain why handsome men that women know they have no future with get to fuck for free while average dudes have to "court" them, be willing to commit, have status, a good personality, and have resources she can mine before a woman begrudgingly spreads her legs for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:42 PM
10

You just went from speaking for all women to speaking only for yourself. I've seen how women react to tall, handsome, athletic men. I won't argue about your personal preferences-- even if I do think you're full of shit. The idea that most women aren't visually activated is a fraud that would make Bernie Madoff blush.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:25 PM
19

Women aren't visually activated the way men are. They absolutely are, just what they're visually activated by is much less common than what men are visually activated by.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:17 PM
7

Find more value and substance in what you have to offer as a person "Just be beta bux lol"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:14 PM
-4

Says the Marxist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:49 PM
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If as much as half are in the same boat it'll just be seen as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:49 PM
11

Define direction insecure Kind of a chicken or the egg scenario here. Is lack of confidence coming from lack of success, or is lack of success coming from lack of confidence. I think it's the former. effeminate Our god awful gynocentric society is telling them to disregard their masculine instincts. lack of basic adult skills. Women on here say this shit all the time, but it's bullshit. You think because you had to pick up a guy's sock once that guys can't take care of themselves. Modern women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:46 PM
7

What is "today's man" in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:30 PM
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maybe it happens to one of their sons/male relatives What makes you think women would care then? My mom couldn't care less if I get laid or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:27 PM
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How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:23 PM
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I guarantee you they're still going to plug their fingers in their ears. Why shouldn't they? They're still getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:22 PM
1

Well, if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:17 PM
1

What's your take on marriage/long term relationships then? If looks are most important (for both sexes), and looks fade, then we should not be looking for long term commitment from one another, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:35 PM
12

I shouldn't eat the trash on a Lillith post, but fuck it, I already know everyone else will. Meanwhile, "Alpha Males" who can get dozens of women to hookup with him are considered winners. They're getting what most men have to pay for, for free. Of course they're winning. The majority of the lamenting seems to be that women aren't like the hyper-sexual women portrayed in porn that would just fuck any cock in sight. Men wish women had sex drives to match their own. Shocker. Most women either stri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:29 PM
2

Sometimes the answer really is simple. A lot of people will settle for something that gives them 50% of the satisfaction for 10% of the effort over 100% satisfaction for 100% effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:05 PM
1

men who make us feel special. How can a guy no other women want make you feel special?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:01 AM
1

It's sad our paramount value is something we have so little influence on. Women feel the same way about men. Facial genetics, height, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:52 AM
1

I would tend to argue that they do need to find another way to be happy. I feel like people who complain about being lonely just have fuck all else going on. Find a hobby or two, work out, learn a new skill, build something, whatever. Do something that gives you the feeling of having accomplished something. You won't get that from having a gf anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:39 AM
0

Survival of the fittest. I wouldn't have it any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:31 AM
2

but their ire should be aimed at our capitalist society It's not capitalism's fault either. People are choosing to be lazy when it comes to socializing. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:28 AM
16

i did not want to date a boy who could only afford applebee’s half off apps. Lol, women in a nutshell right here. What could you afford when you were 16?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:27 PM
3

There is a point where blaming yourself is just as harmful as always thinking you're a victim. I have a tendency to always find fault in myself, and you really can trace fault back to yourself for anything that happens to you. Being undesirable for romantic relationships isn't always your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:56 PM
3

Are you saying some overweight/obese men are in the top 30%? Overweight yes, obese probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:52 PM
3

It absolutely does not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:42 PM
1

Credit Livia Soprano
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:47 PM
1

And we've since reached a point where the negatives outweigh the positives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:36 PM
1

The future so far has not been an improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:15 PM
1

So he's beta bux until you cheat on him/leave him for a guy you do actually want to fuck, or just stop fucking altogether. Either way, he loses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:44 PM
1

It’s really interesting that male EDs are on the rise - makes me wonder what is happening internally with men Being fat, low T from being fat, lack of sunlight, poor diet, microplastics, PFOAs, and who knows what else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:42 PM
16

If I'm not going to have a family, I'm going live to have the most fun possible, not reach old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:20 PM
1

Women don't select for 6 packs or "slender arms," they select for genetics. Always has been always will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:12 PM
11

This makes me wonder how many high n count chads are good looking but just can't keep a women. They probably don't care to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:07 PM
25

If we ran into each other once I'd think nothing of it. If we ran into each other like 5 times in a short span, I might change my own habits so she doesn't think I'm the one stalking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:35 AM
4

Jesus, that's terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:16 PM
5

I don't really agree with that either. If she doesn't say yes to a date right away I end my pursuit. If we don't fuck (or at least get close) within 3 dates, at least 1 of which she has offered to pay for, I end my pursuit. It's all based on how things feel more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:10 PM
8

You've decided a consensus female 6 is a >6 and consensus male 6 is a <6 because of your own individual preferences. That doesn't make it fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:58 PM
2

I was just asking. I think you're the exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:53 PM
2

Are you meaning to tell me no man has ever come into your life and sparked attraction during the first meeting?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:48 PM
12

Go to truerateme and explain to me why significantly more attractive women are rated the same 6 as an uglier man who put in zero effort. You just seem to be set on the idea that what you find attractive is somehow objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:47 PM
10

I've definitely had a shot with a couple women that I squandered by being too much of a pussy to make a move. When women feel they're giving pretty clear IOIs, and a man ignores them because he's either oblivious or dismisses them because of low self-esteem, she gets bored (or assumes the guy isn't interested*) and loses interest . I'm telling you this shit happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:30 PM
8

Rateme is a hugbox. Rateme is why the much harsher/realistic truerateme exists, and even they wimp out and ignore the people who are sub-5.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:23 PM
6

I should've been more clear: My position is not making a move quickly will almost always decrease your chances. I don't think you agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:18 PM
2

It certainly can decrease your chances, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:08 PM
11

what there is is some people simply not being attracted to you regardless of how slow or fast you are. It's just telling men that if they have romantic intentions with a woman they should find out where they stand on that sooner rather than later. There's no sense building up romantic feelings toward a woman who will never reciprocate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:00 PM
4

PPW, for the most part, seem to have the most unbiased info concerning their own nature, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:37 PM
2

How many times you gonna repeat yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:15 PM
3

The majority of men don't have big dicks though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:12 PM
7

It's just another instance of women wanting their minds read.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:57 PM
19

Buy me dinners and take me places on your dime for nothing in return! I can't understand why you don't want to do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:52 AM
2

Sometimes I look in the mirror and think 'not bad' and other times 'oh god what happened!'. I rarely think I look like shit in a mirror. It's in pictures where I really think I look like shit. I assume in the mirror I'm unconsciously lying to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:42 PM
10

So they believe that they’re ugly even though they’re having sex on a regular basis. They're the 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:32 PM
3

It's a thread about looks dude. And none of that other shit you listed matters because looks come first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:17 PM
3

So you just ignore the fact that your husband is attracted to a woman who looks like a minor?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:35 AM
2

PS: if I could give you some good, healthy advice, it would be like this: Oh fuck off It worked with my best friend. He's doing great now. Accepting mediocrity is not "doing great."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:19 AM
1

People grow, and learn, and become educated. Sure, I have long suspected that monogamy was a part of the problem. But the thing is, if you aren’t monogamous, you don’t have to be (but don’t get mad when people start calling you a slut/whore), if you aren’t open and upfront... you’re in for a bad time when your strictly monogamous partner finds out you’ve been lying to them about a crucial part of your self identity. I don't personally think monogamy is the issue. I just don't think it's meant to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:31 PM
0

At least in the US, it's just the easiest way to get a mail order bride here immigration-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:21 PM
3

It is depressing, but you just have to recalibrate and operate within the rules of the game. Women use me and I use them in turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:15 PM
4

Being married doesn't mean you are successful with women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:45 PM
12

I know I am not normal, but I am NOWHERE close to as weird as that fuckin guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:15 PM
1

I suppose it depends on your race/ethnicity and location. Being a white guy living in the northeast, at 5'10'' I find that I'm shorter than most other white guys between 20 and 40 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:52 PM
1

You also expect to have a relationship where you don't fuck because he's a not top% male, so I think your expectations are a little more than you're letting on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:26 PM
1

Men and women asking each other leading questions as if we both come from different planets seems equally silly. Our goals and experiences are so different we may as well be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:22 PM
1

Well, I guess it would be hard to put a fresh coat of paint on a house that was on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:36 PM
0

That's a really dumb fuckin hypothetical then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:34 PM
1

What cut of jeans is more flattering on a heavy midsection but skinny legs, You supposedly put so much time and effort into your appearance, but you're fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:31 PM
1

They're not part of my society
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:25 PM
1

They're just not problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:12 PM
-6

If you're so mentally weak that a gym in the basement prevents you from being able to relax, Idk what to tell you hoss.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:12 PM
1

Why? What good reason is there for vaccinated people in America to put their life on hold for another year and wait for shit holes like India to get their shit together? Feels?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:10 PM
1

We need to at least make moves in the direction of trying to become a less shallow culture or we are just going to continue to make ourselves and each other miserable. We can't change our nature
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:59 PM
8

The most shocking thing about this is a guy who's been working out for 30 years hasn't gone the home gym route by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:43 PM
1

Come on, when will it be okay to go back to normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:37 PM
10

I don't want to be a dick, but you're missing some details about this particular user.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:54 AM
0

Way to answer my* question, doomer. You really do want this to continue forever, lol. Yes, I want to live my fuckin life. Sue me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:15 AM
2

This virus does not impact kids on an signifcant level, and breakthrough infections are rare and largely asymptomatic. Clearly, you like the restrictions for whatever reason. I feel bad for you. I mean, what's your solution? Stay locked down forever? Eat me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:11 AM
5

If you're in the US and not vaccinated at this point, it's by choice. For fucks sake I've had the virus and been vaccinated. You people need to accept a return to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:06 AM
1

Lol, covid never ends for some of you, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:45 AM
25

Yep, if I'm average (despite being in great shape), and the average woman is fat, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:36 AM
25

I’m probably going to say no Then what difference does it make? You got an ego boost because a guy 15 years younger than you took a shot? You feel like you still got it? Well whoop-dee-fuckin-do, lmao. A 25 year old woman does not give the slightest bit of a fuck what rejection feels like for an average 25 year old guy. In that moment, he's just annoying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:34 AM
40

an average guy shooting their shot with finesse is much hotter because women understand the courage it takes to approach. This is the funniest line of bullshit I've ever read on PPD. Women could not give a fuck less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:47 AM
1

Maybe they have tried a handful of times and have given up, and now they spend a lot of time on reddit complaining about the opposite sex (or whichever sex they’re attracted to)? I mean, that’s not going to help them find a partner right? Compatible partners do not just fall from the sky. I personally just think men and women are fundamentally incompatible long term. We're trying to fight our nature with this relationship bullshit. Men are wired to make the most offspring, women are wired to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:45 AM
1

I can be friends with women I would sleep with. A woman not being attracted to me is my default assumption, so when I get no evidence to the contrary I don't really give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:27 AM
1

Well, you've convinced me, lol. I honestly don't know how you could be here as much as you are and not realize the score.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:46 PM
0

There may be less men, but, there are women interested in only other women, and I’ve been many happy same sex relationships (women and men). I don't know the stats off hand, but there half to be roughly as many gay men as there are gay women. In that case there should still be more straight women than straight men. I'm just saying, there isn't literally someone out there for everyone. To think that you would never find yourself a compatible partner, blows my mind In this case it's nice to be a (…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:39 PM
3

What gives you think the indication I'm mistreating people? I just realize there's nothing special about romantic relationships between men and women. It's just a business transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:14 PM
3

Life ain't fair dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:45 PM
7

I 100% did until I realized women will uncontrollably lose respect for you if you let any cracks show. Long story short, I was with my first serious gf through some rough shit. I loved her and respected her regardless of the fact that it strained the relationship at times. A couple years later when she was in a better place and I went through some shit for a couple months, she sought out greener pastures. So yeah, no woman will ever get that kind of benefit of the doubt from me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:30 PM
5

Men don't respect men who let their emotions get the best of them, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:08 PM
1

This is one I don't give a shit about. No one can solve my solvable my problems but me. The ones that aren't solvable aren't worth whining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:05 PM
8

Every empire collapses eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:02 PM
5

When people women say they want someone financially stable, they don't mean a guy essentially living paycheck to paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:58 PM
5

“the average person is definitely not good enough for me”. That's women for you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:54 PM
1

a rich woman got Jeremy Meeks. It wasn't just rich women, and it was a rich attractive woman. Usually the rich old men aren't lookers anymore, if they ever were.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:38 PM
1

The truth wants to come out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:34 PM
0

My bad, I misread your original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:44 PM
-2

There are only so many hours in the day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:35 PM
1

Doesn't mean you're happy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:22 PM
1

I mean, that's wrong on its face since there are slightly more women in the world than men. Nevermind the fact that women are attracted to far fewer men than vice versa. And in extreme cases, even if there is a match out there, chances are you'll never meet them for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:13 PM
1

This is how you know women are completely full of shit when they say they'll be just as happy without a partner. You can't even be happy alone for 5 minutes when you have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:11 PM
-6

I don't want to spend every waking moment that I'm not at work with my SO. If you live together and are doing your hobbies together, you're basically never apart. Sounds fuckin codependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:51 PM
1

Who are 6 ft tall with a full head of hair and symmetrical face? I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:29 PM
1

I am not generally attracted to the types of men that men think women are attracted to though. Yeah, what types of men are you attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:21 PM
-5

I spend time doing hobbies. I want to spend time with my husband. Ergo I would like us to have some overlap in hobbies. Do women have any independence at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:46 PM
1

Women have equal desire for the men they actually want, yes. Women don't need to do those things because they can easily get sex without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:39 PM
3

Yes, that's where the problems arise. Most women are with men they don't desire because most women can't get the men they truly desire to commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:24 PM
4

If he's playing into the FDS game he's desperate and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:16 AM
7

Don't kid yourself, women are putting what they want before what their partner wants too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:02 AM
1

The burden of proof isn't on me. I don't to do other people's work without being paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:25 AM
1

Oh, so no citation on that 2.5x a week figure? Yeah, I knew it was bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:08 PM
2

Raaaamoooooooone I can't say that's been my experience, but I'm probably just ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:11 PM
12

You can't make it up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:49 PM
1

You want to cite that? Because everything I can find suggests you're way high.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:47 PM
3

be more politically involved Yeah most people's definition of being politically involved is whining/arguing on social media about distraction issues that don't matter. I've got better shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:10 AM
7

Confidence is confidence when you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:48 AM
2

Don’t they ever have some existential crisis.......like everything they focus on is ultimately of no significance since it’s all made up entertainment. For the most part, politics is just another form of entertainment. People bitch, politicians pretend to care around election time, and then they go and do what they were gonna do anyways for the most part. None of us are moving the needle all that much one way or the other. Doing things you enjoy and the connections and experiences you have with …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:44 AM
1

Fat girls need love too. No one needs or is entitled to love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:47 AM
1

80/20 comes from an okcupid study from years ago about women only rating about 20% of guys attractive based on pictures. It's based almost purely on looks. Money isn't a factor there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:46 AM
1

I forgot fame, but that affects such an insignificant portion of the population that it's not really relevant. So I guess it isn't only genetics, but for the overwhelming majority of people it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:39 AM
0

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:30 AM
2

80/20 is genetics. Face, height, and frame in that order. What you're saying is akin to saying hookers find their clients attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:27 AM
5

80/20 is genetics. You can bump yourself out of the top 20 by being fat, but you can't get yourself in by not being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:20 AM
0

What don't you get? The 80/20 rule applies to genetic characteristics men can't change, while your 70/30 rule applies to a characteristic women can change. I also said money has nothing to do with the 80/20 rule, but you seem to be arguing as if I said it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:19 AM
1

So? What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:07 AM
1

You've lost me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:59 AM
2

I don't believe that's how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:37 AM
1

No. That's veiled prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:29 AM
5

It's the biggest black pill of all. It's not even just the obesity, everything generally seems to be trending worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:16 AM
5

How is that so different from 80/20 that women get all this vitriol? The 80/20 rule applies to characteristics men can't change (height, face, frame). Women can change their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:14 AM
4

No, hence the threshold she proceeds to mention in the next comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:57 AM
5

Woman who doesn't care about politics > right-leaning woman >>>>>> left-leaning woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:44 PM
6

You sound like you just want an excuse to be a slob. You're not going to get one for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:36 PM
7

I said an embarrassing lack of willpower and discipline. So yes, I do mean easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:29 PM
8

An embarrassing lack of willpower and discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:25 PM
1

They tried to fight nature, and obviously failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:16 PM
0

The genetically superior will always rise to the top. It's what's best for the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:12 PM
2

It's really not that hard imo. I've quit smoking and gone from obese to abs. It's way easier for me to control my diet than it is to not smoke. When I get in a good routine I don't even think about food. I still think about firing up a heater several times every day even though the last time I did was 3 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:08 PM
5

It's not just men who want it to be this way. Women do too deep down. Women don't give a fuck about the losers either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:04 PM
7

The winners don't care about the losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:54 PM
5

I think it's sugar addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:46 PM
7

Men want a society where the alpha with the best genetics has a monopoly on all the women and they want to be that alpha with the best genetics. Women want to fuck/breed with the alpha with the best genetics. Our society is trying to fight nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:42 PM
4

What are you looking for in a guy that makes you think all the guys in your city are clowns?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:37 PM
2

Yeah I'm sure it's suddenly going to become a problem at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:21 PM
1

I noticed that women tend to fall hard for a man, They do, but this doesn't last long.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:50 PM
2

Sure I could, I just don't know why I would given the option. It enhances the experience, and it has never been a problem for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:15 PM
1

People say this a lot on PPD, but it's just no true. The front page of that sub right now is ~90% men not getting laid, 5% women with low libidos talking about how the dead BR is their fault, and then 5% the women you're talking about. Women have a lower libido in general, and it plummets rapidly as they age past 25 or so. You can’t say that porn addiction can only result from not getting sex from your wife I never said that. The idea that men and men alone are responsible for these so-called po…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:38 PM
1

It was rhetorical question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:09 PM
1

How often do you take the stairs instead of the elevator?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:53 PM
7

Yeah, it couldn't be that men are turning to jerking off because their wives have stopped fucking them more than once a year at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:41 PM
3

Don't pull statistics out of your ass. It makes you look stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:24 PM
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the problem is people don't like it, so they go to great lengths to weasel around reality. And it's usually women that do this, which I really don't get. Why do they pretend to care about hiding their own nature? They don't even do a good job of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:40 PM
5

You do realize women have no control over what they find attractive right? Then why are women always telling men to lower their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:21 AM
1

Good, I'm fuckin bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:12 AM
3

So you want a guy to openly befriend you in hopes you'll change your mind down the road? You realize how unhealthy and pathetic that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:08 AM
2

Sociology is pseudoscience
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:05 AM
2

Being friends after the fact hoping she'll change her mind is deceptive. Not to mention pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:53 AM
2

That's just as bad! Then he's only befriending you because he has ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:40 AM
2

How can a man prove to you he's trustworthy unless he continues to pursue you after being rejected i.e. creep behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:25 AM
3

unless one really shows me he is trustworthy". "Act like a creep to prove you're not a predator."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:51 AM
2

I think this sums it up pretty well Way to suck all the fun out of it and distill romantic relationships down to a business transaction. And women in their 30s wonder why men chase younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:44 AM
1

So a bunch of guys got fun with you for free, and now the guy you settle for gets to pay for...what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:31 AM
2

Obviously you deserve an elaborate and expensive first date. You are so special, he knows that already, because he's clairvoyant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:26 AM
2

but the average woman gets a walk date. The entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:57 AM
3

To do once? Idk, I'd basically have to already have everything I want already with a very secure income. Even then, it seems like something that could be addictive. I'd probably want to be loaded enough to be able to do it all the time before I'd ever do it once.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:07 AM
1

I could see myself paying for really high end escorts, like the ones that cost mid-high 4 figures for the night if that kind of money ever became inconsequential to me. It's almost certainly the only way women that hot are ever going to sleep with me. I'd rather just beat off than pay for the ones you used to see on Craiglist, for example, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:53 AM
1

Where did I come anywhere close to admitting that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:39 AM
5

You don’t have to respect him to date him or marry him. Hey, at least you're honest. It's obvious a lot of women believe this without saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:41 AM
2

I think they fail to realize that growing old alone sucks I fully realize it, that's why if I don't find what I'm looking for by a certain point I'll stop planning on growing old. Honestly, I don't exactly live my life like I'm planning on it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:50 AM
3

if there is such a thing as love. I think it does exist, but it's fleeting. Men and women just aren't meant to work long term. Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:36 AM
1

Not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:22 AM
1

many men are stay at home dads these days and people make fun of them, especially women make fun of them more. Does this surprise you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:01 AM
10

Let's be honest, you don't want a guy who'd accept that kind of arrangement anyways. You wouldn't respect him a visceral level.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:59 AM
-1

Why do you care if a woman thinks you're creepy? It's not illegal to be creepy. Like, what's the worst that can happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:30 PM
4

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:30 PM
3

Overweight women, like overweight men, need to be removed from your social circle. Based
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:24 PM
1

You're one to talk calling yourself a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:17 PM
2

I always thought that was just referring to a woman with big tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:13 PM
3

No one who's in good shape wants to fuck fat chicks dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:58 PM
1

It's like pornography, you know it when you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:44 PM
1

He's a cuckold
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:52 AM
2

How often do you think about upgrading?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:18 AM
18

Are people really this cruel? Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:09 AM
13

All that matters is how they perceive the situation, and they perceive it as settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:22 PM
9

I would never breed with a short woman. Not going to condemn my sons like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:11 PM
1

You thinking that you having to filter through "A LOT" before your standards to be met is some kind of burden is hysterical to me. Most guys don't have enough options to avoid compromising on their standards in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:51 PM
4

You want to be the one being pursued. You want men to approach you, flirt with you, ask you out, plan dates, etc. That's your prerogative, but he has decided the effort isn't yielding the returns he'd like. You want him to keep trying when he's specifically looking to filter women like you. That doesn't mean that I dated on easy mode or that things fell into my lap, because that definitely wasn't the case. This is akin to trust fund kids who were born on third base and think they hit a triple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 06:23 PM
1

Women who are available past 30 almost always have issues that are dealbreakers for me. I'd rather go without entirely than accept less than I feel I deserve. Believe me or not, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:55 PM
5

If he's lazy for being passive and wanting something to fall into his lap--and you did call him lazy for that--then so are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:23 PM
8

If he's having to pay for several dates he'd probably get more value out of an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:21 PM
5

If he doesn't want to play the game he doesn't have to. I'm sure he's aware of the potential consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:12 PM
6

We're acutely aware of your laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:04 PM
5

You take any sport, women are inherently worse at it. Sorry, that's just the reality. I'd support my hypothetical daughter in whatever she wanted to do. Doesn't mean I gotta be delusional about it. I also find it ridiculous how you place children’s value on sports lol. Don't put words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:56 PM
2

I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:46 PM
4

Lol no one gives a shit about women's sports
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:44 PM
13

The ROI on maxing everything out is very poor. You'll bump yourself up a point or two at the absolute maximum. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, everyone should seek to be the best version of themselves they can be, but don't do it for women. You'll probably be very disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:10 AM
14

And you either do that and get whatever you can, or you resign yourself to mediocrity and stay single/pickup whatever scraps are left at the bottom. You're getting relative scraps either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:56 AM
2

Dawg, you're not dad bod, you're teetering on morbidly obese. I'm not saying women like dad bod, they don't, but dad bod is like 15-20% body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:32 AM
1

Abs are all pretty much all diet and genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:27 AM
11

Your face
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:15 AM
4

That's how you move the conversation between the genders forward, Now that you mention it, there's no reason for a conversation beyond what you said. You're either in or you're out, and by a certain age, you probably know. Discussing it to death can't change our nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:06 AM
1

Once every couple months probably
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:44 AM
1

Looks get you a foot in the door, personality keeps you in the room, but if the looks aren't there, 99.9% of the time you won't be getting a foot in the door even with the greatest personality. It comes secondary. You can be fine af but if you are boring, stupid, an asshole, then your looks definitely won’t matter because no one is going to want to touch you. That guy can absolutely get laid, at least when everybody's young. In my late teens/early 20s, I was a minor league scumbag who hung out w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:36 AM
1

Are you actually saying looks don't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:52 PM
1

If you're speaking the context of wanting to attract the opposite sex, what kind of human being you are is secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:25 PM
2

That's just because almost no men in real life are able to live up to the unrealistic expectations of women. It has nothing to do with what turns them on visually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:12 PM
1

your pleasure or mine I don't think it's healthy to see it as an either/or situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:16 PM
2

Eat clen Tren hard Anavar give up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:08 PM
1

So you're just selfish in bed, it has nothing to do with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:48 PM
2

Men with common sense know that women are more cerebral when it comes to getting turned on. I disagree that they're more cerebral, they're just turned on by different body features. They're turned on by a guys face, height, hair, and maybe abs (in that order). They're not turned on by seeing a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:25 PM
1

I'm not looking for any sympathy for my problems, so no, I'm not going to sympathize with anyone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:19 PM
2

You think porn creates unrealistic/unhealthy desires from men, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:07 PM
4

You specifically listed "asking for" by itself as being wrong. I thought you realized you were being a hypocrite and didn't care. Turns out it's much worse! Yikes. And taking a “no” once is more likely to result in a “yes” later I wasn't asking for your advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:42 PM
6

Yes, I know some women ask for it. Notice the word “ask” So it's okay for women to ask for "porn moves," but if it's men asking we're wrong for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:30 PM
2

If only women cared about the same thing men do looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:30 PM
1

I'm more just insulted by the laziness of it tbh. I can't speak to how your bf feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:20 PM
0

Доверяй, но проверяй
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:17 PM
9

Jane Average is fat in America. Of course I don't see her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:15 PM
2

That’s why every dude I had sex with tried pulling porn moves, right? Can you define "porn moves," please?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:12 PM
1

I mentioned nothing about supporting her. You implied it. You said women are looking for a man to secure them financially. If he can't support her in addition to himself on his income alone--should the need arise--she's not receiving any benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:34 PM
1

a good hand job No such thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:06 AM
1

What I have a problem with trp about numbers is to be proud of overcoming the rarity they created... It feels good to be the exception to the rule, at least that's the way I see it. I want a woman to desire me so much that she can't resist. And I don't believe men created the rarity. The men women are attracted to are what is rare here. And having the same numbers where its too high for a woman, whatever her age is I agree, there should be a sliding scale. And the more I see society evolved, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:07 AM
1

Another problem is the idea that women are sluts if they are as promiscuous as men Whatever you want to call them, they're not (monogamous) relationship material. The few men who can get laid easily and take full advantage of it probably aren't either, so I'm not applying some double standard here. I used to be a believer that a woman's sexual history didn't matter, but then I had a long term relationship with one. Fool me once...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:39 AM
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And what I'm telling you is that people want to be love, to have sex, before having kids, so it happens before too Yeah, fine. Settling is still settling, though. Feminism is promoting right now that basically every woman is a goddess, even at 400 lbs Part of it's feminism/our shit society, and part of it is most men being desperate dogs who will fuck anything just to add another notch in their belt, which leads to inflated egos on the part of women. If I could just load up a Instagram or Tinder…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:56 PM
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The point is that the value we give ourselves isn't necessarily related to age Eh, women who want kids, which is most of them, are motivated to find a guy to settle down with. They won't get commitment from guys they really want who are out of their league, so they 'settle' for the guys in their league. This makes them miserable. A guy can be average for one woman and handsome for another one I have to disagree here too. There's a reason every woman I've been with has acted like they're doing me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 10:36 PM
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You're not fooling anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 10:22 PM
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I wasn't referring to aging. More that you know when you're born ugly that you won't end up with a top model So you go for what you can "afford" And there's a process to find them genuinely attractive, in your subconscious I was bullied a lot when I grew up and that was what happened. I thought I was ugly. I felt lucky to be looked at Which lead to abusers taking advantage of that situation I don't really understand what point you're trying to make here. Never said you said that, but that's a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 10:15 PM
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There's a point where a woman knows her own attractiveness and average will be enough. Being settled for as a safe landing spot as she descends out of her prime isn't what I'd call the basis for a healthy relationship. She'll be unsatisfied and she's going to make the guy she settles for feel it, consciously or otherwise. Also what I hate is that people think we all like the same thing I never said you'd find all attractive people attractive. I just said you won't find average/ugly people attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:42 PM
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I know this is your sister we're talking about here, so no disrespect, but it sounds like there are other factors at play here. It could be her looks, low self-esteem, or something like that. Or she's dating down status wise with guys that are exceptionally handsome, tall, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:44 PM
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If facial attractiveness isn't there to begin with, nothing else matters. So yes, a man with an attractive face can hurt himself with other qualities. An ugly/average face cannot be overcome by improving other qualities, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:34 PM
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Men don't understand how the face is important Thank you for saying this so openly. Literally nothing else matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:06 PM
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Your sister's ex-fiance was dead on. Women don't date/marry down. Even if a lot of us don't know it consciously, we know it subconsciously. Being with a woman who projects to make more than you is just asking to get monkey branched.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:52 PM
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I just meant "financially stable" is code for more money than she makes, and definitely more than $40k.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:43 PM
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I gotta be honest, if you want a sex bot or a girlfriend bot or whatever, you are a fuckin loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:31 PM
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You treat us like objects so why should I not do the same. Do whatever you want, but don't pretend it's only because you see it as some kind of justice. That's just disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:52 AM
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Gotta love female logic. In your eyes, it'd be better to keep people who are assholes in my life because we share DNA. It obviously indicates I will abandon any family I make in the future...or something. And any woman who understands the situation for what it is and doesn't try to predict the future based upon that must be mentally ill! You guys are hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:38 PM
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I guess it's more accepting being alone for life, because accepting marrying down just isn't something I'm gonna do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:55 AM
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Yeah, I still haven't totally come to terms with the hypergamous nature of women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:52 AM
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Most of the tattoos people get are either poorly done or unoriginal and lame. Not a dealbreaker, but they throw up a small red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:49 AM
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I'm pretty good at it (tongue game, stroke game, etc), her pleasure is my pleasure, and I have a pretty big but not too big dick (7.25x5.5).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:38 AM
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What I said came out a little strong. I just meant my primary focus is on my relationship with my hypothetical wife and whatever children we have together. I really just need her family to not be shitty people, my relationship with them exists to make her happy. Based on what I've seen, that's a pretty normal dynamic for in-laws. And if she doesn't have a relationship with some people she's biologically related to, or they don't exist, I wouldn't make any assumptions about her based on that. Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:25 AM
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Yes, I'm aware. I'm also aware she's mentioning it because she's expecting the guy to be bringing that to the table. I'm the thread yesterday about what women are looking for in a guy, they pretty much all listed a guy having a good family as a non-negotiable trait they must posess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:47 PM
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Yes, making a new family. Not becoming part of the old one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:41 PM
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Non-problematic doesn't necessarily mean good, though. In my case they're just mostly non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:31 PM
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What is there to deal with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:10 PM
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Do you want to deal with crazy, expensive, dangerous, annoying people for life? In my case, there's no drama, just no connection. My father and I have pretty much mutually agreed there's no relationship to be had there and we haven't spoken in 10+ years. By extension, his side of the family has more or less cut me out too. I'm close with my mom, but her side is pretty much just her. So I don't have a good strong family, but there's no real baggage there. I guess this is a red flag, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:01 PM
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relatively stable childhood/great relationship with family Never knew this was such a big deal, but most women here list it as pre-requisite. Gotta love how much women care so much about shit that's completely outside your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:08 PM
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We experience it too and it can be frustrating for us too. You can't take a passive approach to anything and then get mad when you don't get what you want. That's just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:02 PM
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Just confirms the game isn't worth playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:34 PM
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No, I don't. I just observed a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:31 PM
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That's how I see most women behave. You can be the aberration if you want. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:28 PM
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Actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:24 PM
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When women say they're looking for a guy who is financially stable, a guy who lives within his means on $40k ain't what they're talking about. They're talking about a guy who lives within his means on $100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:22 PM
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and he’s only single because his standards are too high Are you implying that a guy in phenomenal shape should have to settle for a trashy, overweight single mother? That's his league?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:01 PM
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the single woman fairs way better than the single man. I'd prefer to find a good woman to spend my life with, but I'll be fine without a woman in my life. I'll probably die a lot younger because any woman would probably nag/guilt me into being less reckless with my life, but that's adrenaline seeking behavior for you. A longer life doesn't necessarily mean a happier life. That's not to mention women are the ones demanding marriage, not men. I'd be perfectly happy in a regular relationship that g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:30 AM
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90% of people are on the bottom? WTF is that number. If you're not first you're last
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:23 PM
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why would anyone want to let themselves go? People absolutely use long term relationships as an excuse to get fuckin lazy about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:17 PM
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Deep down, women know that men only see them as sophisticated sex dolls. That’s their primary purpose above all else. All the love, attention, education, career progression can’t erase that. I don't think that's the case at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:10 PM
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Vice versa what? She be the best I've had
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:45 PM
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at least i know if i gained some weight Do you mean gain weight just because you want to let yourself go, or temporarily gain weight because of child birth? If the former, why do you feel that's acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:44 PM
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I'd rather be the best someone has had and vice versa, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:18 PM
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a woman he loves and is in a relationship with? I would certainly feel a duty to do so, and there have been instances where I was absolutely willing to risk injury/loss of freedom/death to protect women I cared about in the past. Does that even count though? In those situations I wasn't even thinking about the consequences, I was pretty much just acting on instinct, but I also know I'd do it again. I've never been faced with having to protect a random stranger. Not sure I feel any obligation to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:00 AM
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they’re, typically, not gonna be where you find the hot girls with shit personalities. And where is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 06:48 PM
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I feel the same way women do. I want women I'm attracted to to hit on me. The women I'm not? I could definitely do without that. I feel like only guys who've never had any attention from women get themselves wound up over who approaches. Once one woman who I was attracted to reciprocated interest in me I realized there were probably a few more out there who would too. Who cares about the ones that reject me in between? Even if it's hundreds or thousands (ok, thousands might be enough to break my…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:49 AM
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or 8 of the women will have sex with only 2 of those guys, and then, since those 2 guys are so overwhelmed More or less, except they're not in a room together and they don't have to have sex with all the women at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:03 AM
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perfect relationship There's no such thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:23 AM
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wasn't liberal. Well hold on a second here, maybe she's not so bad after all!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:39 PM
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I don't need or want someone else to take care of me, certainly not the fucking government. You guys who whine about being "disposable" need to stop being such fuckin pussies and take charge of your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:36 PM
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Yeah, you were in love, and then you fell out of love with that person, hence the past tense. The state of being "in love" is temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:10 AM
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I took a communications class in college that featured a paper about how we're always performing in all social interactions. I really identified with that. If there ever was a "real" me, I learned a loooooong time ago that people overwhelmingly don't like it, and I have absolutely no idea what is even is at this point. Even in a 3 year relationship I had, I still felt like there were interests I had or things I liked that I could never tell her about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:43 AM
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You're splitting hairs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:52 PM
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And my point is exactly that it's only worth dating anyone you have a connection with, witch is not the case of the random cute girl in the Starbucks line But we might be able to develop one. If we never met, we'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:56 PM
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Most people just don't feel like you do. Most people do want a connection with another person. Crazy I know. No one's stopping you from being single for life. Have a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:50 PM
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Being committed to someone who you love and who loves you back is actually a bad thing? Because I know love doesn't exist in the way you mean it here. It's just a business transaction based entirely on what the other person has done for you lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:45 PM
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Men are still the ones who have to escalate in most cases. If there's mutual attraction, but the guy doesn't make a move, most of the time she'll completely lose interest in a couple months and the opportunity will have passed. We have to pursue, you guys get pursued. That's the way most of you want it, so that's the way it is. I think you'd just prefer guys be passive because you only want the guys you're interested in to pursue you. Sorry, it don't work like that. Being apparently half way dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:41 PM
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Sure, if you happen to never some across someone that you think would improve your life and who's life you can also improve your can stay by yourself How is a guy supposed to even meet this woman if he's not out looking for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:26 PM
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It would never happen for most men if they just sit back and let it come to them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:13 PM
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Years back I really connected with a girl I wasn't physically attracted to. Maybe even more than any other girl before or since. Didn't change how I felt about her physically. And there was nothing blatantly wrong with her, she was just very plain looking. Either way, I don't want any girl who warms up to me over a period of months or years. Something about that is off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:41 AM
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I've always believed you never want to be the guy befriending a woman with the hope it'll turn into something else. You're just setting yourself up for failure. I don't see the most amazing personality increasing a woman's physical attraction to a guy from zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:59 AM
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Sounds like you want a guy who has no incentive to settle down in his mid-20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:05 AM
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I have many questions, but I don't think any of them would elicit useful answers. Do you think guys should pursue friendships with women hoping it'll eventually turn into something more? (I definitely don't.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:55 AM
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they don't value taking care of themselves (unless you mean by working out and developing an eating disorder) What's your definition of a guy taking care of himself? Eating disorder?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:26 AM
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How close were y'all? Like "friends" as in the same social circle only ever spending time together among other people, or hanging out one on one regularly? Assuming you were single when you met, if he'd made romantic advances at the time, would you have rejected him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:28 AM
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I've seen you reference this before. You sound like the guy in 6th grade with the girlfriend who goes to another school and no one else would know. Just tell us the books you're talking about or shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:05 AM
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I know many people who were friends for a while before dating, including myself So you're telling me you either didn't consider whether you found your partner physically attractive within minutes of meeting for the first time, or you did and found him physically unattractive at first? So how'd it come about then? One day you woke up and decided he grew on you physically because of the friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:47 AM
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If a woman was judging you based on the male equivalent of this chart you’ve posted, you’d probably fail. I know and accept that they are. What about my post makes you think I'm under the impression women will be any more lenient on me than I will on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:39 AM
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It might get her to give a second look to a guy who's on the bubble of being attractive to her, but can a personality alone generate physical attraction? I don't think so. I've even heard of women who have gotten angry at themselves for not being physically attracted to a guy with a personality they really liked, but at the end of the day, the physical attraction just isn't there. In most cases I imagine the idea of a romantic relationship with this hypothetical guy probably never even enters th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:20 AM
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I'm all for enhancing their looks with makeup. No woman looks worse with makeup that's done right. There is such a thing as overdoing it, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:45 AM
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