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Well thanks.. I read on a different thread ‘don’t make a tinder girl your girlfriend’ and seemed like quite a sweeping statement, would depend on what she actually did while on it
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:37 PM
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Mine is 6 before her. I think that is def a reason it’s annoying. But more cuz I never plated so I just don’t get it. They were all some sort of relationships (barring 1 or 2) I am outcome independent now that I have my plans sorted out. Just trying to figure out if being with her is the right call - Guess time and my mindset with it can tell.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:07 AM
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I’m 26. Haven’t plated. Discovered TRP only after I met her: my SMV is quite decent but yeah was blue for too long. Sorry, her total is actually 8. Of which 3 were exclusive relationships + 1 where the guy turned out to have a gf already lolz. But the hookup/dating around part was just 4. I won’t wait a few years. I have plans for the next 2-3 years that are my priority. I will give it some more time to see if it’s my BP tendencies or a real dealbreaker - if we breakup I continue on my Mission r…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:47 AM
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In terms of behaviour - she is great with me and wants a future with me (i haven’t committed to that) - in fact if I didn’t enquirer about her past I’d have thought she was 100% LTR material no questions. She will cater to my needs requests and wants almost all the time. Just that knowing about this part of her past makes me see her differently sometimes. Edit: at this point I am just hoping that it becomes old history in a few months. I found out about all this after asking maybe just a couple …
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:36 AM
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My post says she’s done zero ONS or first date hookups or overlapping guys at all. Context was a couple through organic meetings and the others through bumble but stayed with them for a few weeks/months - one guy moved away and she didn’t see it going further with the other.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:33 AM
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Okay. 4. How are you supposed to answer that question? If she has gone ahead with the same trend?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:23 AM
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Yeah I’ve had the CC question/discussion before: where it landed was that she did that for basically half a year with 3-4 people and without overlaps so could be worse. It does bother me still at some level but like you said, I think it’s far worse for majority of the women out there. She’s a HB 8-8.5 at the least and literally checks off all other boxes so far. 8 months so needs a little push now and then but responds immediately.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:37 AM
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From what I know she used it to meet guys too because she’s has a very limited social circle. But she didn’t use it to slut around like ONS.. she did do hookups but like with one person for multiple weeks/months and moved on if it didn’t develop into something more serious.. hence pulled the app once she met me.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:29 AM
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Yeah had lost track of that lately but got back on it now. Definitely taking care of my priorities like business school soon which I told her will likely be overseas - so it’s my future and to see if she fits will be looked at later.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:23 AM
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Yeah she’s been great with me. Listens to my direction, responds immediately to any withdrawal of attention from me and is submissive over all. Only issue is she’s seeing this now as something quite serious and a future but for me I want to enjoy the present. But because she’s been talking about the future I’ve gone into overdrive red flag hunting..
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:17 AM
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I do know because she’s 24 and until she was 23 she had only been in the serious relationships for like 7ish years in total
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:50 AM
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Yep pretty much. I know it isn’t Low, and did express my view on it but whatever doesn’t make a difference.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:56 PM
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Not very high. 8 before me including 3 relationships. She’s 24
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:45 PM
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That’s a joke right. Women like sex wake up. As Long as they weren’t ons or slutty hookups; but people she was seeing just not in a formal relationship it’s fine. She’s good with me, zero interaction with any other guys other than friends for years and is receptive to my Dos and donts and wants.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 10:34 AM
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These weren’t ons, they were for a month or two at a time and were added when she was seeing them (one at a time) . So not sure how this is an automatic exclusion from LTR material..
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:45 AM
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Ignore and dread. It’s amazing how much you can get away with ignoring with women. But act in stealth mode. What women don’t get is that jealousy doesn’t work for us like it does for them. I.e if a girl gets jealous she will want you more, but for Guys we become resentful. If she actively tries, explain that to her. But for this, ignore and dread by telling her something similar a day or two later.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:15 AM
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3 maybe 4 - based on my own perception/knowledge of her past.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:03 AM
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To be honest I haven’t had the chance to plate. But I had already met this chick by the time I discovered TRP - which when applied yielded some fantastic results so I will keep her around until she continues the way she is.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:09 PM
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That is truly sad.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:07 PM
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Why is that the question? If she would have continued then? Sorry just trying to understand. Point is after she met me she didn’t think of seeing anyone else let alone sleep with them
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:56 AM
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That’s the issue. Mine was just 6 before her. I discovered TRP only after getting with her so haven’t plated but definitely applied TRP with her which has worked wonders. She wasn’t proud of the number (came from a conservative background) but has hamstered into it being nothing wrong as such. Guess I have to just get past it as it’s not that bad and continue cuz everthing else is fine.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:41 AM
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Thank you - this is good advice and achievable. The Sex is already very good and she’s tried things with me she hasn’t done before because she said she trusts me (and I believe her). Will work on that basis. Also this only comes up in my mind during periods of Low sex (read period) and if she says something to remind me of this past of hers inadvertently.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:38 AM
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Yeah something like that - I think 3 serious relationships with a hook up between them somewhere: then Long break with 4 guys in a year then me. So nothing to consciously think/focus on to not let this bother me? My own count isn’t very high so maybe that’s what the issue is. As I said, she’s good material just except this that bothers me and maybe it’s not that bad in itself. She knows I can move on and have options but I don’t wanna let go of a good catch for my own BS insecurities.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 07:39 AM
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Well her total count is 8 before me but 4 since her last LTR according to her - I think 24 is way too high/unrealistic for a 24 yo girl tbh but I get what you mean.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 07:07 AM
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Thanks I know the n count is to be taken with a rock of salt but this doesn’t address my question
/r/askTRP20/08/18 06:02 AM
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