4derp Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	WGTOW - why do some men resent this? Well done. You smeared an entire group of people (mgtow) with the toxic rhetoric of a few of them, and then ascribed the exact virtues that mgtow actually stands for to wgtow, that they ripped off of mgtow. Extreme wgtows have similar toxic rhetoric to the "incel" mgtows, they espouse similar hateful toxic speech about the hatred of men. Please don't pretend one group is entirely composed of virtuous angels whilst smearing another with their minority of demons. There is literally no difference b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 01:08 AM
1	Would you rather stay lonely or date somebody who doesn’t necessarily pass all your dealbreakers? Desperation makes for bad deals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/21 07:13 AM
9	Satire is lost on these lovely ladies. The comments are hilarious! 😂🍿 Lmao, slay kiiiiing	/r/AntiFeminists	21/09/21 09:58 AM
1	Do you think there is too much discussion and that people make a simple thing complicated? The people with the least clue are defining the rules and conditions to relationships. The people with any sense have opted out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 05:36 AM
1	Q4M: Are you okay with your female SO regularly watching porn? Yes. Next question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/21 10:36 AM
11	How did the genders get to this point? Feminism. Next Question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 12:48 AM
3	A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why? Porn doesn't create itself. Women are just as responsible for the creation of porn than anyone. If you don't want to do "uncomfterable" things, then don't. No one is buying porn for 12 year olds, exposure is on the shit parents allowing their children unfettered access to the internet as a babysitter - usually single mothers. Can you name an effect that your "female equivalent" had on you? Yeah, mommy porn novels gave women unrealistic expectations and subtle rape fetishes in an age when unwante…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/21 12:26 PM
-1	A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why? I don't see anything wrong with any of that, why are you so tweaked and avoiding the opening question? Why the double standard? Also, men always pay for sex - prostitutes are just honest and up front about the cost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/21 04:40 AM
2	If you read the responses to this, it seems like the feminists don’t actually have a coherent definition of “the patriarchy”. They typically use the term as a gotcha but can’t agree on what it means. It's the unifying bogeyman. Feminism was over 50 years ago with the advent of legal equality. A group that has an expired cause needs a new cause, and the best cause for righteous crusade is an external force - in this case, "the patriarchy". An excuse to cherry pick equity outcomes whilst avoiding responsibility and consequences for their actions. The more women that are indoctrinated into feminist ideology, the higher catfood stocks will go.	/r/AntiFeminists	07/09/21 12:15 PM
1	Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely Respected The conditional clause isn't about dating. It goes further than that. Women are loved unconditionally simply for being women. They're treated like they can do no wrong (crime punishment gap), aren't expected to reciprocate any of that unconditional love(women are wonderful effect), and don't have to prove themselves in any way to be worthy of unconditional love - respect, maybe in some cases, but not love. Men have to earn every scrap of respect (you can't love a man that you don't respect) that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 11:22 AM
3	What do you consider to be "realistic standards" for your gender? Nailed it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 10:35 AM
4	What antidote can you suggest to redpiller's, other than enjoy the decline? Don't sign bad contracts. Playing a rigged game just ensures that the rigged game continues. When a rigged game ceases to have willing players, the game ends. Hate the game, be kind to the players.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 12:57 PM
0	If we really think consent is all that matters, why is most gambling illegal? I think you should marry the government and stay away from men. You're not sufficiently licensed to operate your equipment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 09:45 AM
3	Would you date a woman you met at work? I'm not fond of conservative Karen either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 09:27 AM
1	Most can be feminine, not many can be masculine Being kind and empathic is fine, to a limit, but being overly so does make someone easily manipulatable. Many scams take advantage of the better nature of people. Secondly, you will NEVER make everyone kind and empathic, and if you tried, you still will have failed because you would have to become a monster to control / kill that amount of people meaning that there are still people with "undesirable" traits in the world (you). The world will never fall into a "these are the good traits, these ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 07:54 AM
2	Most can be feminine, not many can be masculine I think there would be more rubes that buy into concern propaganda and bait politics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 07:05 AM
2	Most can be feminine, not many can be masculine That's also not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 06:21 AM
2	Democrats tuck female draft into defense bill - September 2, 2021 LoL, no refunds.	/r/MensRights	03/09/21 05:09 AM
0	Most can be feminine, not many can be masculine Not everything you find pleasant is good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 04:35 AM
3	Most can be feminine, not many can be masculine Nice deflect and reframe. Men were held accountable for anything that their spouse did that transgressed the law. Some modern women are absolutely filthy with feminism for breaking the old contracts because of the expectation that they must now work - attitudes change based on the times and perspective. There's literally no benefit to controlling women in the way your inner mythology dictates. Being unable to vote, also made women ineligible to be drafted. In the best sense, making women seem he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 02:47 AM
1	Most can be feminine, not many can be masculine At any given point, you are less than 14 days from such a world. You would do well to keep that in mind, especially in a world dependent on global supply chains in the middle of a pandemic wrought by political turmoil and cyber attacks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 02:23 AM
3	Most can be feminine, not many can be masculine Everyone is the hero of their own story. Feminists have a gendered meta-narrative where they are the just crusaders. Such a crusader needs a villain, just as every cohesive meta-narrative does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 02:18 AM
-1	Most can be feminine, not many can be masculine No, the opposites to that which you were listing "warmness, cooperativeness, empathy, kindness, helpfulness" would be alternative strategies that are less concerned with emotion. Someone who is emotional will be less able to engage logical problem solving. Someone who is always too cooperative becomes a doormat much of the time. Being too empathic leaves you open to manipulation (because empathy is a simulation, not a psychic phenomenon). Being too kind, leaves you with less than you need. Being…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 02:15 AM
1	Most can be feminine, not many can be masculine It's more a statistical likelihood trait. Men are risk takers for gain as a larger part of social and individual strategy, whereas women are GENERALLY more risk averse for obvious reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 02:03 AM
65	Would you date a woman you met at work? For your own safety, you should just ignore the gender of people you work with and treat them as grey paste beings. It's safer that way in this political climate. I don't hire people who have extreme gender / race political leanings if I can discern them in time (social media, interview), and when I discover them on the job, I work to shuffle them off somewhere else. Such people are just legal problems waiting to happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 12:29 AM
1	Is OF porn and sex work predatory on desperate and lonely men? Strap in, the mouse experiment only gets worse (more entertaining) from here on out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 11:08 PM
1	Do you think equality has actually made women unhappy today? https://youtu.be/0xaQP\_8ydBc	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/21 11:43 AM
-3	Do you think equality has actually made women unhappy today? Yes. It's a case of getting what you think you want and realizing why you didn't need or really want it, but you wouldn't know until you got it. It hasn't even started though. It'll really kick off in a couple of years and we'll witness a couple generations of people realizing that anyone can be THAT generation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/21 11:40 AM
2	Teacher requiring me to do a book report from a "Feminist Lense" Say no. Protest by not participating. The line has to be drawn somewhere. Call the low grade a badge of honor.	/r/AntiFeminists	31/08/21 05:04 AM
–	Masculinity is not toxic, the lack of masculinity is. Yes, I imagine you're in quite a bit of pain right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/21 04:45 AM
–	Masculinity is not toxic, the lack of masculinity is. Grow up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/21 12:17 AM
5	Masculinity is not toxic, the lack of masculinity is. Even engaging with stupid concepts such as "toxic masculinity" is playing a poison game. People inventing these terms need to grow up and get a job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 02:09 PM
6	Societal Shift in Attitudes Towards Becoming a Stepfather/Dating Single Moms in Younger Generations? Nailed it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/21 02:08 PM
3	Societal Shift in Attitudes Towards Becoming a Stepfather/Dating Single Moms in Younger Generations? Single mothers used to be less common. Women at least made an attempt to make their relationships work. Something has changed in the dynamic, and now there are an incredible amount of women who are making bad decisions in partner choices and procreation so they end up single with children. You can forgive a mistake, but a mistake that so many women are making cannot be ignored - the focus on avoiding the drama of single mothers is an adaptation in strategy. Don't hate the player, hate the game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/21 02:07 PM
2	Does effort in dating build value or reveal value? unicorns don't exist	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 06:50 AM
2	Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world? This is the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 01:13 PM
1	Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world? There won't be another 50 years :S	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 01:08 PM
1	Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world? Feminism was over half a century ago. The crusade never ends. Welcome to the inquisition section. Women should be in the workplace. They should support themselves. Marriage is a scam. I like casual dating. I don't like having zero reproductive control should the woman fall pregnant (by accident or on purpose). High n counts are usually a massive red flag. That problem will sort itself out in a generation or two. No family structure. We're kidding ourselves if any of us think they have "values" a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 01:04 PM
3	Science has officially defined SJWs and false rape/sexual harassment accusers. Comment section is glorious. This push back is something that absolutely needs to happen. The line in the sand was crossed long ago and normal people have been far too complacent in responding.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/08/21 12:00 AM
6	From my life experience. Millennial women are the ones telling Gen Z women not to settle down until 30 Misery loves company.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 02:16 PM
4	What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive Women When you're being fired on from both sides, sometimes it's best to just move out of the middle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 02:05 PM
12	What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive Women Correct. Go forth, build your own cities. Farm your own food. Maintain your own infrastructure. Mine your own resources. FIGHT YOUR OWN WARS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 01:49 PM
2	What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive Women Keep getting this debt I never made called in whenever SHTF. Weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 01:41 PM
2	What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive Women I told you guys it was a dumb idea. We could have just chilled for a generation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 01:13 PM
14	What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive Women How convenient you're all feminism and demands until there's "man's work" to be done. Enjoy your afghan holiday.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 12:41 PM
10	What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive Women Came here to post this. I expect a big superhero wahmen power line up as they run into battle too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 12:39 PM
2	Might be the only group in history that can simultaneously be so oppressed by a society while also being so offended and surprised they have to pay for their own food. Some people think equality is a cherry picking event.	/r/AntiFeminists	14/08/21 12:18 AM
2	With the recent wave of reddit bans, you might want to archive your favorite posts - here's how If you're relocating, you're better off seeking out platforms where the SJW/feminist lunatic fringe are unlikely to gain a foothold. Gab is probably the best place right now. Gettr in the future maybe.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/21 11:02 AM
8	With the recent wave of reddit bans, you might want to archive your favorite posts - here's how They've already banned the relocated mgtow groups, you won't last 5 minutes there.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/21 10:59 AM
2	It has started in Britain We live in a society. This society seems to be producing a great deal of unhealthy people. I think we should double down on whatever it is that we're doing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 10:48 AM
1	Stance on porn addiction and availability to kids Coyote ugly. A movie. In that movie, they discuss the name of the bar "Coyote ugly" being based on getting so drunk you wake up next to someone with your arm trapped under them who is so ugly you would rather chew your arm off than risk waking them and dealing with the awkwardness. So I'm saying porn "addiction" is probably a better path to clarity of mind than sleeping with just any random, and then wanting to chew your arm off after achieving clarity. There's another saying. Men have enough bl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 07:52 PM
1	Stance on porn addiction and availability to kids So we should just leave the cookie jar on the bottom shelf so the kids can give themselves diabeetus... Of course not. You obfuscate their efforts regardless and actually, y'know... DO SOME PARENTING.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 11:14 AM
1	Stance on porn addiction and availability to kids edited. "is" became "as" in the autocorrect wizard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 11:12 AM
1	Stance on porn addiction and availability to kids Don't give your kids unfettered access to the internet... Porn "addiction" is probably better as a path to clarity than coyote ugly. Mistakes made while blood is at the wrong end of your body can have life long repercussions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 01:48 AM
6	Age Gap Relationships Discussion Thread Well, as long as the exploitation is consensual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 01:04 PM
10	Age Gap Relationships Discussion Thread It's just gate keepers trying to force larger sections of available mates into their range through social shame. Having said that, dating/marrying someone much younger is a silly idea because you're more likely to get grifted - Gold diggers and such.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 10:45 AM
1	Traditional or Modern: No in Between Modern is just cherry picking the things you like from traditional and then avoiding any traditional responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 10:57 AM
4	Reddit is officially against men and white people. See for yourself. They're trained to do so by colleges and this is reinforced by their peer groups. The philosophy that they employ is neo-marxist post-modern dribble focusing on attacking (their perception of) power structures. They don't like the idea that they might have to put in the same amounts of hours and work in hard fields to achieve equal outcomes, so they're warping culture so as to have "equity" outcomes manufactured through the employment of redistribution (basically communism).	/r/AntiFeminists	06/08/21 11:52 AM
1	OK:) I have a preference for not her.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/08/21 06:54 AM
9	Are we less accepting today (of people) then we were 50 years ago? Groups of people seem to need to be solidified by a fear of another group. So your super liberal bubble will have a solidifying fear factor of conservative/white/men, which is the current bogeyman for that group. The problem with this is that if you teach people that x group is bad, but then have to deal with that group, you're going to incentivize your group through prejudice to be afraid of x group and x group will adapt undesirable strategies to deal with your group that on average is prejudi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/21 03:59 AM
5	Grandpa Wins Lost 30kg with this mindset. This is the way.	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/08/21 11:48 AM
173	Grandpa Wins I fucking hate these SJW Karens. College really broke a lot of these women. There isn't enough ice cream in the world to console them.	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/08/21 03:13 AM
1	Practical difficulties when it comes to large age gaps Have to be careful with your thrusts for fear of breaking her hip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 12:20 PM
2	Is this considered misogyny Everything men say is misogyny. They're horrible sexist manpigs who only want one thing and it's disgusting! Men exist solely to furnish women with material goods and lifestyle and then they should go away - and they should be grateful. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 12:17 PM
1	AP news article "Dating changed during the pandemic; apps are following suit" The thirst is their greatest ally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 11:26 AM
5	AP news article "Dating changed during the pandemic; apps are following suit" A lot of women are on dating apps for free meals and validation. Combine this with women desiring unavailable men extrapolating that desire as being universal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 10:24 AM
1	What impact, if any, would the overturn of roe v. wade have on dating or any of the other topics discussed here? The supreme court is going to be considering Misssippi's 15 week abortion ban, "the most important abortion related dispute the court has heard in decades" BTC 2012 chad?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 09:06 AM
1	What impact, if any, would the overturn of roe v. wade have on dating or any of the other topics discussed here? The supreme court is going to be considering Misssippi's 15 week abortion ban, "the most important abortion related dispute the court has heard in decades" I was talking to a young feminist years ago about her options if she were to get pregnant and the lack of my options were that to be the case, her response to me was "you should keep it in your pants if you're worried." What's good for the gander is good for the goose I guess - you don't need abortion, you need to keep it in your pants :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 09:04 AM
2	What impact, if any, would the overturn of roe v. wade have on dating or any of the other topics discussed here? The supreme court is going to be considering Misssippi's 15 week abortion ban, "the most important abortion related dispute the court has heard in decades" I would prefer A with early (3 month) limits, but because I know we'll NEVER get the opt out, I hope for B. You couldn't make child and pregnancy support more draconian if you tried. Am prepared to sit in prison and wait it out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 09:01 AM
–	Why do men in trades cheat more? Why do many women seem more interested in men who aren't available? Opportunity + temptation = validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 08:56 AM
–	Is the Red Pill fair to women? TRP is about identifying the current state of the market and adapting strategies to cope with it. Not all of those strategies are "good". Evo psych plays heavily into this as a base, and then observation of current trends (relationship outcome stats etc.) combined with the current dominant female strategies and philosophies. When a feminist asks a red pill "who radicalized you?" the answer is always, "You did."	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 08:48 AM
4	Society often forces men to become the worst possible versions of themselves to have dating success, if we want this to change Women have to change their dating preferences At least it often rhymes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 02:44 PM
4	Society often forces men to become the worst possible versions of themselves to have dating success, if we want this to change Women have to change their dating preferences https://youtu.be/A8MO7fkZc5o?t=85	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 02:36 PM
15	Society often forces men to become the worst possible versions of themselves to have dating success, if we want this to change Women have to change their dating preferences I get the feeling we've been through all of this social stuff before, and people wrote down THEIR path to improving society and then clipped god to the cover for moral legitimacy. I'm not saying all of their solutions are good, or that we shouldn't try different things now and then, but it's obvious we took a wrong turn a ways back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 02:33 PM
2	Society often forces men to become the worst possible versions of themselves to have dating success, if we want this to change Women have to change their dating preferences No, I think we should denigrate young boys and screech at men until men behave exactly as is acceptable to women. /s Seriously though. Feminism has raised at least two generations of men. How do they like them so far?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 02:30 PM
2	Men should pay for sex because civilian girls are not a good deal If you're not playing at some elaborate troll, I hope there are more out there like you to balance out all the simps paying for only-fans content. World would probably be a better place if women knew thirst.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 02:26 PM
4	Men are monogamous not polygamous, change my view. I prefer monogamy but women just aren't viable right now. The market is tilted in their favor. The rules for procreation (accidental or otherwise) are designed for women to be able to entrap men into a financial slave existence. DV and divorce industries are tilted in women's favor (to the point where women can strike men with impunity, and divorce lawyers have a "silver bullet" strategy when they represent women - "he hit you didn't he? No? Are you sure? Maybe he coerced you or said no to buyin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 10:51 AM
13	Men should pay for sex because civilian girls are not a good deal I always wonder if gimpgirl555 is real or some kind of strange bait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 10:42 AM
12	What are the social benefits of being a man? This mythology of men automatically being respected is because women who believe it seem to focus only on the men who ARE respected. They seem to have blinders on to any other male who isn't. Those experiences seem irrelevant to them. Seems more like misattributed gender envy more than anything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 12:10 AM
0	Trying to date over 35? The over 40 "ex-feminist" that confides in you after a tumble that she really wants to be a "50's style housewife" now makes you feel bad as you leave and delete her number.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 11:22 AM
0	Do women care less about men body count than men care about women ? And money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 10:47 AM
3	Kelly Clarkson has to pay ex husband 200k a month in child support. Feminists loose their minds I'm willing to bet in a couple of years, these laws get tuned up so men don't get anything regardless. Feminists will screech until they get what they want, as usual.	/r/MensRights	02/08/21 02:31 AM
14	‘All suicides should be male.’ They won't do anything about it. Men dying isn't a big deal, it's been expected of us for centuries.	/r/MensRights	01/08/21 10:42 AM
1	Empathy I'm not sure empathy is the best path. Perhaps understanding that the market participant's behavior is based on the market action. It's a pretty heated market. The gender war enters its third decade at least. You're seeing a lot of people trying to complain the market into behaving the way they want. There are people adapting seemingly undesirable strategies to game the market. There are even people opting out. The more you associate one of the perceptually undesirable market cope strategies wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 06:14 AM
1	Age Gap Relationships Should Be Discouraged Don't get married. Don't have leverage children. Problem solved. Older, younger - who cares at that point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 02:49 AM
1	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" My point is that women needed men to be their defense against survival pressure. This solidified into family groupings as we advanced socially and technologically. Without this arrangement, we wouldn't exist in our current state and would still be the early human tribes you're so enamored with. No twitter activism, no reddit, just you and foraging for what you're going to eat today while you bitch about patriarchy that won't do anything for you. That is LITERALLY what enslaved means. Forced into…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 01:18 AM
1	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Women couldn't simultaneously hold back against survival pressure and raise young. Early human tribes would still be early human tribes and not modern civilization if we did not adapt. Thanks for your opinion on what "enslaved" means. If women can opt in or out of unwanted pregnancies, but men are forced into whatever decision she makes, the man is enslaved to her decisions. You're welcome to take responsibility for your own decisions and not shift them onto men. Surely this will happen one day …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 12:48 AM
0	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" The human race continued because men would sink resources into their offspring and push back against survival pressure. Thus the need to ensure that their offspring were indeed theirs and the heavy social shame on "bastards". Now men are enslaved to women who have complete social control over not only when they have children, but who pays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 11:53 PM
1	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Thanks for speaking on behalf of men. I can assure you that when the "equality" discussion starts up among men, those are among the first things that are said. Then homelessness, suicide, divorce, child custody, alimony stats etc. Men have a monopoly on starting companies apparently. There are women working construction, mining, trucking etc. - but somehow they never got hired... - these women are a tiny minority though. We're really looking for that 50:50 uptake here so we can all crusade for e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 02:18 PM
9	Q4all: education and income/ genders -- why is there a discrepancy Dude, you can't break tyrannical patriarchy code. We'll see you at the next meeting!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 01:27 PM
6	Q4all: education and income/ genders -- why is there a discrepancy Choice. Women spend less time at work on average, and don't work the heavy messy jobs that men are willing to (which makes those jobs more valuable due to labor shortage). Then there's the difference in negotiation due to agreeableness and the fact that women need to stop when they have children for a time. Women still somehow make an overwhelming majority of money spending decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 01:26 PM
4	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Men are risk takers. Men are meat shields. The physical construction and defense of most nations up until today has been the duty of men. We're ready for women to take the front lines on the battlefield and to enter the construction industry or other heavy physical labor industries at 50:50 levels. It would be neat if the workplace fatality stat wasn't 90%+ male. Hunter-gatherer societies? Really? You want to go back to a system that has people hunting and gathering? Or is it now that you think …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 01:13 PM
5	Saying "life isn't fair" for dating inequality is the same as "life isn't fair" for economic inequality Life is not fair. PERIOD. This is something you have to get used to across a wide spectrum of things. You have to deal with the market as you find it, not as you wish it to be. The only reason things in a marketplace are the way they are is because there are buyers at that level. If people would just cease signing bad contracts and becoming horrible warnings, the various markets would have to adjust to meet the current standards. Complaining endlessly about things only enflames negotiations acro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 03:53 AM
0	What women want Getting married and/or locking the relationship into something you can't easily walk away from when the fade hits is probably the first mistake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 10:57 AM
2	It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improve This! It's time to invade Canada, boys!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 10:50 AM
3	Why do women complain about men being boring while they seem to offer little if anything of real interest? https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/did-millennials-finally-kill-flirting Solipsistic feminists want to cherry pick their "equalities" but want to leave the responsibilities and effort on men. They have raised a generation of women to act in such a manner. They live in their echo chambers and fester like the "incels" that they gripe about. Don't sign bad contracts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 02:33 AM
2	I don’t see what’s wrong with “ pick me “ girls I don't like them because they're playing a part to make you react a certain way. Pretending to be something that they're likely not, or at the very least accentuating parts of herself to get that attention. As with most things these days though, it's massively overattributed cope for the reality that people can disagree with you even if you share some identity group. The female uncle tom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 08:45 AM
2	Guys would do better for themselves to avoid dating women who identify as feminist or subscribed to the FDS mentality. Here is why. Feminism is one of the larger red flags men should look to avoid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 01:43 AM
–	Women would prefer for men to make SUB-OPTIMAL dating choices that ONLY benefits them but RARELY do the same for men Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships. You might have to look around a bit more, but if you're up front about what you're after you'll usually find those women (especially at mid thirties and older) who are willing to FWB with the strategy of hopefully gating to a relationship through that. Of course, since you've been up front about your intentions, you have shared your expectations honestly and can keep her on the hook as long as she'll stay there. When s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 01:04 AM
3	Describe the various women you would have sex with, but not commit to. You ARE indeed a Man of Culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 08:05 AM
1	Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop. I have a much better idea. How about men just wait for women to apply to date them and then vet the candidates. Surely Briffault's law won't impact this strategy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 09:18 AM
2	Why blame women for hypergamy? I don't think people blame women for it. Just being aware of it and adjusting your life strategy to account for it is enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/21 10:59 AM
2	Do we need political and economic change in order to et social change to happen? You underestimate the power of mass production.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 09:46 AM
5	Do we need political and economic change in order to et social change to happen? 1) We're going through a collapse. Everything will be fine after the collapse... for whoever survives. Then we'll rebuild a stable society having learned to be more reasonable with each other. That society will exist for a time until a generation becomes ungrateful and selfish again at which point another collapse will occur.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 09:46 AM
1	Why is talking about sexual strategy much more inflammatory than practicing it in real life? It's only going to get worse. There are many unhappy people out there, deconstructing the world around them and complaining that things aren't fair. This subreddit is full of them. It's them, not you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 11:16 PM
-1	Why is talking about sexual strategy much more inflammatory than practicing it in real life? Envy. You negotiated your relationship contract clearly, fairly and got a good deal. Some people seethe when others are happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 08:29 AM
1	If you were a woman, what would your dating strategy look like? As an attractive woman, would wait for approaches and vet candidates. As an average looking woman, would wait for approaches and vet candidates. As a quite unfortunate looking woman, would improve my looks through exercise/diet as much as possible and then wait for approaches and vet candidates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 01:13 AM
1	"Above a certain income level, all men are paying for sex" Scott Adams You always end up paying for it. You just have to figure whether it's worth the cost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 12:27 PM
0	What are some signs a man is 'settling' for a woman? We settle now? I was unaware.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 10:27 AM
1	So is dating (and hookups) similar to fishing or is it similar to a business and a marketplace? Fishing if you have a mindset based around power dynamics and fortune. Marketplace if you have a mindset focused around value and trade.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 06:48 AM
6	Aside from single-parents-by-choice, why is it that there's so much hatred for single mothers but complete adoration for single fathers? Because almost any woman can be a single mother. Being the child of a single mother is the largest predictor of criminality. A single father has to actually give a shit to gain custody in a split or to retain custody as a widower. The admiration is for opting into the responsibility when he could have bailed and being a minority of single parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 11:56 AM
1	A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorce Even if I get the dance right, the system is still in place to fuck me 100% of the time. Bad contract. Pass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 05:14 AM
5	After reading CRT... Similar level rhetoric to that which Hitler pushed against the Jews. History never repeats, but it often rhymes.	/r/MensRights	27/06/21 10:23 AM
2	A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorce Put in the effort. Give her exactly what she wants 100% of the time, or else be raked over a system designed to screw you in several varying ways. Pass. Never sign a bad contract.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 02:55 PM
2	Q4M: Would you sacrifice things you like, or make unwanted changes to yourself (e.g. shaving a beard) just to get laid? No. Deal or dip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 02:50 PM
1	Do you lean more democrat or republican? The democrats are too pandering, radical and cringe right now. Once they stop pushing faux communism and enabling mob mentality activists, they might be viable again - but these days, they just double down endlessly on race bait communist gateway theories. The fact they put racist Joe Biden forward as the candidate while espousing BLM communist rhetoric is the peak of hilarity. The democrats in their modern form would burn the country to the ground to rule over the ashes.	/r/MensRights	26/06/21 12:07 AM
2	Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? Discussion https://www.amazon.com/WAR-AGAINST-BOYS-Misguided-Feminism/dp/0684849577 https://www.amazon.com/Men-Strike-Boycotting-Marriage-Fatherhood/dp/1594037620 It's amazing how close these WOMEN came to predicting the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 09:16 AM
1	Why the fuck some men are becoming so feminine Haha, I think we're being raided by feminazis.	/r/MensRights	21/06/21 06:12 AM
1	Why the fuck some men are becoming so feminine Yes. We are part genetic potential and part social construction. You will largely choose a strategy that suits your genetics and surroundings. There's just more feminine men because of the current socio-political climate (on top of other factors), and they have chosen the "go along to get along" mindset. You spend your time in subverted institutions that demonize masculinity non-stop from before your critical thinking abilities can develop, you'll start wishing that you didn't inherit the origin…	/r/MensRights	21/06/21 05:49 AM
0	Why the fuck some men are becoming so feminine Adapt to survive. When there's no advantage to being male, but a large advantage to being female, some men will attempt to jump tracks to take advantage of those survival strategy sets. Of course, this isn't going to go well for them in the long run, especially if there are local violent conflicts.	/r/MensRights	21/06/21 04:56 AM
4	Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terrible Why sell a fake reality when I'm going to be an unwashed ugly potato irl? :P	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/21 11:53 AM
9	Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terrible Dear women, Bios and photos: We aren't women. We prefer to share honest assessments of ourselves. We don't cover ourselves in makeup to cover our insecurities, or make it seem like we're having more fun than we are, or pretend we're taking photos of things when really it's all about that third of the screen that has our face in front of the things. Your standards are too high for your market value and you're wishing that there were more "high value" men out there for you. Women's profiles are ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/21 11:13 AM
6	Feminism is nothing more than a life hack for most women. Very few feminists are truly interested in equality. You tell them that you're anti-feminist, the look of shock on their face as if they can't believe what you're saying appears. "Don't you believe in equality", they open with from the cover sheet of their hymn book. I don't believe in the cherry picked equality feminists concern themselves with. They're only interested in the upwards equality statistics, never with that which is beneath them. We won't be seeing half of the workplace fatality stat be women anytime soon because they won't make up h…	/r/MensRights	20/06/21 01:36 AM
1	Read "The Chalice and The Blade" by Riane Eisler and you will understand what is going on. The peaceful matriarchal societies that would still be hunter gatherers or limited farmers at best right now - if they were able to be left to their own devices? Atomic age/information age, for better or worse, bought to you by patriarchy. Extended expected lifespans through medical progress (accelerated by war), most every structure that stands (construction is majority male, construction techniques enhanced by warfare construction), the countries that you would probably prefer to run like comm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 01:58 PM
3	Read "The Chalice and The Blade" by Riane Eisler and you will understand what is going on. They'll probably manage to colonize half the west too. Most men aren't interested in defending systems that demonize them non-stop in order to empower themselves, the rest of the men are too soy-infused to put up any kind of resistance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 07:53 AM
5	Read "The Chalice and The Blade" by Riane Eisler and you will understand what is going on. There have been matriarchal societies before. Do you know what happened to them? They stagnated, and were eventually overrun by organized patriarchal invaders. People walk around thinking themselves so hard done by this "tyrannical" patriarchy, but then whine about it on twitter from their iphone. Peak irony.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 07:51 AM
1	CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it is Because clearly those grapes are sour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 03:13 AM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness Men are looking for that post-nut clarity. Porn is easier to gain that clarity with than the process of approaching, attracting, negotiating and dealing with women. I think women have started to notice that this is the case, so the language is changing into a very puritan form so as to realign the market (demonize and then ban porn) in their favor again so as to increase their leverage. Why would a man take on so much risk for so little reward when clarity is just a few clicks away. It's probabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 01:58 AM
–	CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it is Maybe, but do you really want the attention of muggers and old toothless homeless men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 04:19 AM
–	What are your current dating/sex problems? There aren't enough women into my niche fetish. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Charzarding	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 01:37 AM
–	What are your current dating/sex problems? Be careful when doing "the stranger".	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 01:36 AM
7	The systemic war on men and why nothing will ever change in my opinion Who is John Galt?	/r/MensRights	16/06/21 01:19 PM
1	Discussion about sexually successful deadbeats Doesn't matter, had sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 12:28 PM
1	Discussion about sexually successful deadbeats He's over 60, an alcoholic smoker... what exactly are they going to do to him? He's got nothing to lose by being cooperative with a system that hates him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 03:28 AM
49	CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it is Women also often complain that they get too much attention and don’t like it. Until they don't get any attention anymore, and then they spend their time gas lighting young women into man-hate. Misery loves company.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 03:26 AM
1	Discussion about sexually successful deadbeats There's still 20% left over for dudes like that to score with. Best of luck to him, sounds like he's living the dream.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 02:37 AM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? Common ground isn't really possible. The game is broken. Feminism changed what women expected and what men could expect from women and tilted the entire game socially and legally in their direction. Men have been trying to renegotiate their social contract in the same manner, but women seem to want all of the things they could previously expect, whilst cherry picking new "rights", taking up as few responsibilities as possible, the entire time denigrating men as "toxic" and holding them to unreas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 10:40 PM
3	What is “red pill”? I don't have to lie at all. I'm up front about my lack of desire to be in committed relationshits or father leverage children. I also avoid women who display red flags of being actually dishonest about their intentions. Feminists, baby rabies, gold diggers etc. These people are enabled by the "greater good" system to ruin me just for attempting to fulfil my role as symbiotic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 05:27 AM
6	What is “red pill”? So you're saying you agree that I should be thinking about my individual penis and it's lubrication. I didn't realize you were RP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 04:55 AM
2	What is “red pill”? Bad is relative. Using the survival strategies available to them. Some of those strategies go against the interest of those they are employed against. There are a lot of strategies used by modern women that are in this vein, and RP guys are just training themselves to identify these, get in an get what their biological functions tell them that they need and get out before any of those strategies are able to disadvantage or penalize them in anyway. These strategies evolve over time as the strat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 04:19 AM
11	What is “red pill”? Societal harmony... acquiescing to feminine demands and resource redistribution schemes 100% of the time. If only those evil RP men would just shut up, do as they're told and hand over their hard earned cash and resources, we'd be living in a social utopia... I'd rather think about my individual penis and it's lubrication instead thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 04:15 AM
1	Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a mark If you want to know who really likes you, always pretend to be broke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 03:29 AM
2	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert\_Briffault	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 11:35 AM
1	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. Briffaults would like a word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 11:32 AM
5	Financial Abortion and deadbeat dads We should just make it law that all intercourse needs to be performed in front of an impartial legal official to make sure everything is kosher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 07:23 AM
27	Financial Abortion and deadbeat dads Mandatory to inform the "father" on discovery of pregnancy stipulation please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 07:20 AM
2	Financial Abortion and deadbeat dads I'd like for this to happen before I die, but I'm not going to hold my breath.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 07:19 AM
1	Can someone please give me some good reasons why any financially successful man (or woman) should ever get married in today’s day and age? Look into surrogacy or wait for artificial wombs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 07:09 AM
2	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. But in this case, it's the vetting gender telling the applicant gender her demands. If I could understand what the vetting gender person in question is after up front, I would save time in not applying in favor of applying to a vetting gender person who is about what I'm about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 07:05 AM
5	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. If you could just identify that this is your position up front, you could save us a lot of time in allowing us to move onto the next one. Thanks for your candor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 06:48 AM
1	How would you feel if online dating and social media in your country was outlawed tomorrow? There are good and bad things about social media. People have leaned hard into the bad because it's relatively new and they don't realize that there is so much bad in there. It allows people of a similar mindset across an array of issues to find each other and organize, creating mob mentality and echo chambers. In dating, you're constantly shopping for perfection. Every person ceases to be a complete person and instead becomes an advert, so those who aren't savvy marketers might be dis-incentivi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 12:00 AM
7	Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what? Hate the game not the player. Market is rough for everyone right now. Feminism decided to renegotiate the social contract for women, but did not anticipate men wanting to renegotiate too. It is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 11:08 AM
27	I hate what feminism has done to this society We all do. Unfortunately, the only ways out of this is gender collective struggle bullshit along the lines of what made feminism so cancerous, or going john galt. Don't engage with anything that feminism touches. Quit your job if there are feminists in the hierarchy above you. Don't hire or promote feminists. Do not sign any social contract (like marriage or having children) that has been influenced by feminism to the exclusion of men's rights. If enough men just dropped out and took up old scho…	/r/MensRights	09/06/21 04:35 AM
3	How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning? We're in for a collapse very shortly across a wide array of metrics. This has happened before, will happen again. People have a normalcy bias and the misapprehension that they can push radicality forever and eschew traditional values that maintained the integrity of society. They will find that they are in for a shocking revelation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 01:28 AM
3	CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonism This is represented by the saying that's going around. "Women get rights, men get responsibilities." Who cares what women expect from men. Men will continue to be taken advantage of until they cease signing bad contracts. Women through feminism renegotiated their societal expectations and continue to do so without any thought to the damage they do to society at large - men need to start doing the same. Collective gender warfare is a cancer that will eventually kill its host, and men are the only…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 11:57 PM
17	how did we get to this? Never play someone else's save game.	/r/MGTOW	02/06/21 02:59 AM
-2	People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes. People no longer need the opposite sex. Men see women as liability, high risk - both legally and financially, and on top of that, feminists pushing for even more anti-male bias in society (women get rights, men get responsibilities). The reward for all of that risk is very slight. When you tally up the pros and cons, and do a dating business model, it's in the man's best interest to be a unicorn hunter and settle for nothing less - especially after he has established himself. Best case scenario …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 01:02 AM
1	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? They're not really different things, they're the same wherever you are, you're just in a more fortunate position in that those interests don't currently have the leverage to push their BS. Learn from the west. Give an inch, they take a mile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 01:02 AM
1	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? Communism is a horrid ideology. Working towards it in any capacity must be frustrated as much as possible because simply - I, and others like myself don't want to be communists - and the only way these ideologues can succeed in their totalitarian utopia is by forcing us. Communism becomes bloated with inefficiency and corrupt with uni-party politics as well as being prone to takeover by dictators (which is pretty much what has happened in every single communist country ever). I didn't think LGBT…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 05:24 PM
1	Why do people blame video games on why men are weak Because it couldn't ever possibly be them to blame for chasing men TO video games...	/r/MGTOW	29/05/21 01:29 AM
1	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? "communism cared little about environment, minorities' rights" Bingo in reality, but marxists gaslit people into following the cause only to then discard them later spinning tales of oppression to incite them to "rise up". This narrative is what remains of marxism and has been adapted under "critical theory" to tell tales of alarm and oppression in an attempt to cause one side of the political spectrum to absolutely freak out at any possible moment so as to coalesce a victim culture into a revol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 10:35 PM
1	New South Wales, Australia adopts affirmative consent laws The motive can be payback for any perceived slight (see smart trouble kids who know about the bad touch and will tell an adult that they can get them in trouble with a lie about them touching them as leverage to be allowed to do as they please under their supervision or other gain other benefit), but also I've seen it happen with status gain as a motive. Women compete with each other in a desirability hierarchy paradigm, so to be so desirable that a man could not control himself and took a woman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 06:56 AM
0	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? Because it's not "caring about the environment", or "not hating gay people", it's overblown politically motivated rhetoric. That political rhetoric is spread by people trying to make it seem like the environment is in IMMEDIATE PERIL unless we do the communisms. It's the same with gay people, or insert weaponizable victim group here. Working towards communism, whether knowingly or unwittingly makes a person a "communist soy child." Questions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 06:34 AM
4	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? Most of that list is subjective at best. "(no homophobe/misogynist/pro-lifer/racist/deeply religious etc, cares about environment)" So basically, she wants a communist soy child, but I bet she's passed over a bunch of chameleon soy orbiters in her quest for the ideal far left mindset in the body of a conservative lumberjack. The beauty of the dating marketplace is that you can ask whatever price you want. What you will get will vary depending on what you bring to the table. In my experience, mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 11:42 AM
6	New South Wales, Australia adopts affirmative consent laws It's not worth the risk of interacting with women these days. Don't be alone in a room with one. Always have witnesses. Always decline "coffee".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 02:16 AM
3	Rape convictions fall to record low in England and Wales prompting outrage and concern from activists and campaigners. Looks like someone's been crying wolf and is upset no one is paying attention. Which is a shame because people do actually get eaten by wolves.	/r/MensRights	25/05/21 12:26 PM
13	You can't extrapolate average male attractiveness from dating website No "finding your angle" is misrepresenting yourself." "have an interesting picture that links with your hobby" You don't like video games, don't pretend that you do. "adjust your images contrast and stuff..." I hate those snapchat filters. "be natural, conformable" So find your angle, adjust your images... but be natural. Ever had a horse throw you off because you gave too many contradictory messages? "knowing the thirds rule in photography" only counts if you're planning on putting something el…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 12:24 PM
2	Sex worker says dating her & respecting her is an "alpha move." What say you? "Doing whatever I say is an alpha move is an alpha move. You want to be an alpha, don't you?	/r/MGTOW	25/05/21 10:35 AM
1	What are traditions of gender relationships that you think should remain? Anything I might have wanted is gone. There's very little to gain, so much to lose and an incredible amount of responsibility that I would have to take on to place that bet. No thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 03:00 AM
5	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? This. My preparations for the apocalypse include sending feminists to go and be equal in making up at least half of the cannon fodder and excluding them from any toxic masculine defenses I've set up for myself or my family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 11:27 PM
5	If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers. I disagree. Both simps and pick mes are giving something of value in trade for something they believe to be of value. Don't hate the player, hate the game. Some people wanted to unbalance the paradigm years back under radical feminism, they just didn't account for the equation rebalancing itself. Market sucks, make better trades.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 02:16 PM
4	what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other? The modern dating market leans away from taking responsibility for anyone except yourself. Sex was traditionally used as a bargaining chip to a relationship and being supported by a spouse as part of the deal. Feminism voided this contract years ago by tilting the benefits towards women and all the responsibility towards men. Modern dating contracts are so wretched that men will seek to date a unicorn or not at all (fuckzone, fwb). The incentive to have your life ruined just isn't there. The FDS…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 01:23 PM
1	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. Spotted the serial fake rape accuser.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 01:14 PM
0	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. Yes, sit very still and don't breathe. Congrats, you're not a rapist in this age. Literally everything else is rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 01:10 PM
1	r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why? You're on the money. The explanation feels low effort, but you would need to be doing calculus to get closer to the truth. Women have a higher initial value. Men's value starts low and peaks later, and with feminism's destructive assault on men in the last few decades, many men's value starts low and remains low. There are variety of toxic effects at play elsewise regarding communication technology, shifting employment opportunities, etc. It seems pretty obvious on the face, but sometimes the si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 02:07 PM
-1	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. Navigating the "everything is rape now" paradigm can be tricky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 01:52 PM
3	Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why? Relationships are like responsibility. The more you give a person, the more responsible (relationship compatible) they become. If they're scraping for the scraps of engagement throughout their twenties because women prefer established HVM, then when they enter their high value period, they are not compatible for relationships having trained themselves to be mostly alone except for needing some touch and release occasionally. I'd say every so often the genders fall out of balance in this regard a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 11:44 PM
6	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? Toxic masculinity is just another label modern feminists have made up to justify criticism of what they view as structural power. The ideology that pushes this shit is more about trying to attack capitalism through denigrating western values and these perceived power structures. God help them if they managed to build the communist hell they have in mind again, but right now, they've weakened their own defenses to a foreign invasion of any country that embraces the aforementioned values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 04:13 AM
1	How should balding/bald men under 30 who have average height and average faces approach dating, practically and philosophically? Just like every other man in the middle of this gender war - not under any circumstances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/21 10:30 AM
2	Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true love "True love" is a myth. The closer we are to survival state, the more the genders have to work together. Over a long period of time of having kids and fighting together against external threat and survival pressure, the more trust you build with your SO. It's kind of like a credit rating. We don't live in that state, so we never struggle against a common enemy. Even children become pawns in a sort of gender war within relationships. Probably safer not to bother with any of it tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 10:59 PM
35	Feminist shuts down men’s suicide awareness event. Political indoctrination by college professors.	/r/MensRights	19/04/21 11:26 PM
6	Why the fuck is society forcing men to commit? Don't sign bad contracts.	/r/MGTOW	19/04/21 11:12 PM
1	Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you? Actually, I just want you to stop moaning about being hit on. A guy has to try his luck. You could take each attempt as flattery instead of moaning about how guys only want one thing and it's disgusting. That'd be neat. I didn't understand the fuss until I got older and was being pursued by the type of women I wouldn't want to date. I still wouldn't moan about being hit on, even though some take rejection real ugly like. I'm just flattered that after I've established myself and after women have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 11:47 AM
4	CMV: The woke crowd is doing little to nothing to address the legitimate grievances of men. They can't expect acceptance and support in return. They're not here to address counter grievances or even find common ground - they're here to stoke division among as many groups as possible to force conflict.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/21 08:41 AM
1	Why do men have such low and underdeveloped standards? >bell hooks You lost me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 08:46 AM
1	Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted to Apex fallacy actually goes the other way. Women are more attracted to the apex. 20:80 rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 08:44 AM
2	Feminism Mega Thread Accelerationism is where it's at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 08:35 AM
1	Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double Standard LTRs are a waste of time and money. Get what you can and get out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 03:18 AM
1	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." Why don't we just make it illegal to talk to women at all. You cannot be the passive gender and expect men to be the active gender and then complain about it all the time. You have to be uncomfortable in receiving attention and then vetting responses, we have to be uncomfortable making approaches and risking rejection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 10:08 AM
9	CMV: Men are only the victims of their own actions, yet they blame women for supposedly manipulating them TRP seems more intent on just making men less prone to making "mistakes". If we're talking about gender war gaslighting, that didn't start with TRP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 10:15 AM
0	is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive? Few men want an LTR. The conditions are unreasonable risk for little reward. The behavior is unacceptable none-the-less, they probably should have told you from the outset what they expect. Most men on dating apps are just trying to scratch that itch and then get out of dodge with their lives intact. Sad reality. If you're after an LTR, you might be better served getting a dog.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/21 08:53 AM
1	What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you? Being a resource battery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/21 12:12 PM
2	Why are both men and women flakey these days? Also do flakey people realize they burn bridges by being flakey? Gender class warfare philosophy enters the game. Pop dating psychology has entered the game. Dating negotiations reach collective stand still as one gender "class" solidifies and bargains collectively, the other copies tactic having had the precedent set by the former. Tactics become derivatives of making the best deal you can and getting out with whatever it is you're bargaining for without getting any of the responsibilities or detractions. Cultural activism has entered the game. Legal activis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/21 12:06 PM
6	What is the future relationship between men and women? If men are sought or required to protect women, I doubt they'll be men from these last few generations. Those guys are majority disillusioned with women and society in general. Thoroughly demoralized. I think women will be protecting themselves. Look at the larger attitude of men towards men who want to do things and help women. "SIMP!" is the mark of shame they'll use. Let's just hope it stays at some level of the divergence, sexlessness, more porn, sex toys etc. stage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/21 05:17 AM
1	"Smart people have fewer friends" - a discussion Yay, more pop psychology cope I can use.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/21 08:27 AM
1	Questions for Purple Pill Men. A) Yes B) Yes C)Yes D) Yes, No E) Probably not but couldn't hurt F) No G) Some I guess. Some behavior of men too. Still more are my own. H) Family	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/21 08:23 AM
9	Why are most men never taught how to attract women? Because all approaches towards women are sexual harassment now. Feminists have indoctrinated kids for years into "listening to women" and "believing" every story they have to tell, and most often you'll hear that men are rapists, need to be taught not to rape or harass and most of them just end up not bothering with the actual HUMAN approach and instead go for the old >first we get the money, then we get the power< art of attraction - if women come on to you, then you didn't harass them. This is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 02:15 AM
1	What's the point in marriage? While we're changing what men should expect from women, we should be changing the concept of men as resource batteries - but then we get Briffaults and everyone moves to onlyfans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 08:07 AM
1	Men should be expected to make the first move and pay for dates. Not your resource battery...	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/21 11:06 AM
5	Even if men admit that they over-prioritize sexual attraction and promiscuity, they don't recognize the consequences of doing that. Women aren't sex objects, men aren't resource batteries. Welcome to the world of denial where trading honestly is now impossible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 05:28 AM
1	Does "pussy privilege" grant benefits in online conversation? Everyone on the internet can be thought of as a grey paste until they start identifying themselves as otherwise. Someone might identify as being a certain race, gender, other group in an attempt to improve their argument from experience clout. In most cases this should be fine - however in some gender related instances where a woman will identify as such, it can be for attention or to gain simps and other yes knuckleheads. Identifying as a male generally does not provide any additional benefit a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 06:16 PM
1	An Argument Against Paper Abortions "Biology is sometimes unfair. You take on that risk when you decide to have sex. It is what it is. " Yes, when a man and woman have sex, a woman might get pregnant. That's unfair - abortion being the intervening measure. If we're going to go the biology is unfair route, you can't excuse murdering a fetus because that's just the way the cookie crumbles, biology is unfair. Your own arguments defeat themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 05:51 PM
1	Sex - Big Deal or not? How do you feel about it? It was a big deal, and occasionally I might feel like it's a big deal for small amounts of time, but most of the time not so much anymore. Too difficult to get, pay off is short lived, possible risks are too many for such little pay off - end up with post coital regret 90% of the time. Everything is rape now too, so I don't go out of my way to engage most women. I don't need that kind of hassle in my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 05:10 PM
9	This women complains that there are no good men left LOL! 😂 But your gender has spent all of their time trying to disincentivize relationships and children, and now we see no value for the risk.... You're surprised?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	02/03/20 10:16 AM