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LIES MEN TELL4evaneva/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:31 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITY4evaneva/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:08 PM
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This reminds me of when I was on OLD years ago at 25 and matched with a 32 year old who turned out to be friends of friends with people who I would culturally consider to be older brothers. That would already be an unmatch but out of curiosity I kept messaging, and he hit me with the whole party boy lifestyle when the older brothers were all either married or just about to and I was thinking, you’re really 7 years older and still living like this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 12:26 PM
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I’m rooting for you! I’m sure you’re doing and will keep doing amazing :) I hope we both have, as well as find more HVW to be in our lives who share our values so we’ll never be lonely! I also in recent years chose to get really comfortable with being alone just in case and can happily say that I am finally quite content in my own company. And this is coming from someone who was romance and sex-obsessed, and thought the worse thing that would happen in my life would be so to die alone…I welcome …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 02:28 AM
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I had not watched a k-drama in years but then started to watch What’s wrong with secretary Kim. I was so shocked and uncomfortable when the lead male started to touch her breasts! I thought it was completely out of nowhere and had to stop watching because it made me very uncomfortable. (I experienced CSA and was exposed to porn which turned into me growing up consuming a lot of sexual content such as porn and erotica, I believe I had a form of addiction so now I’m practising celibacy and avoidin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 02:25 AM
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I love that so much for you! I’m coming up to 5 years of living out of home, solid job and life skills…but my parents still agonise every few months. The culture is just so strong. And they both seem to have this idea that as I get older, the more I will have to compromise on what I want? I have to keep reminding them that it’s a better life to be alone. I think they worry that I’ll be alone once they pass on… :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 02:18 AM
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I really appreciated Indian Matchmaking. I have a similar background and was born and raised in a western country. I watched the show with my mother who fluctuates between supporting me in being independent but then has a freak out every three months that I’m unmarried at 28. I at first bought into how they demonised Aparna but since believe she’s a HVW and came to realise that Nadia, unfortunately has pick me qualities. I was able to use the show to help my mother understand the flaws in matchm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 02:11 AM
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I really want to shave his beard lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 03:35 PM
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Ouch, did not need to be reminded of my ex like that >.<‘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 04:01 PM
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This is giving me Astrid Leong in Crazy Rich Asians vibes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 12:38 PM
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I have a friend who refuses to listen to me about sex work. Her main basis is how sex workers really help those who aren’t able to have sex through conventional means, as in people who have disabilities. I told her that no one is entitled to sex and her reasoning is not good enough to justify paying for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 12:32 PM
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I really don’t understand it too, like surely after more than 10 women, lady parts and chests can’t get that different? It’s not like I’m out here super keen to try different phalluses…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:04 AM
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Very proud of Deepti for choosing and loving herself. Shake’s behaviour the entire time disgusted me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:27 PM
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It clearly stuck with him considering he was telling me, a complete stranger the story. I also was thinking - you’re basically kind of admitting you’re terrible in bed and I’m even less inclined to meet you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:28 AM
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Is he conventionally attractive? I used to use OLD a few years ago and would hear different stories from different looking guys and I was surprised to hear one story from a guy who was from a non majority background but conventionally attractive about how a woman from the majority background invited him over, cooked him dinner, they did the deed and then she ghosted him. At the time I believed it to be a true story and thought he must’ve been terrible in bed for her to ghost, but I didn’t say th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:57 AM
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So proud of you love!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:44 AM
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Is Niles not HV just because he’s a butler? CC was a pick me when it came to Max but I don’t think she was for Niles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 11:50 PM
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I personally think that it’s not something that has a clear cut judgment for Fran or Max given that they were clearly going to be end game but the tv show was trying to balance that with having as many seasons as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 11:47 PM
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I don’t have sympathy. I just don’t. And I’m saying this as someone who’s had casual sex in the past and seen first hand how men act in those circumstances. A condom disappeared during my first time with someone and we couldn’t find it. I felt physically off so I went to see a female GP the next day, very lucky I could be squeezed in. She found it inside of me. This made me freak out and I got a Plan B just in case. I messaged him to say that it was at least found. Did he ask if I was ok? No. Di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:00 AM
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Oh wow that’s so true. I’ll have to do a rewatch. That fountain kiss was totally my sexual awakening tho 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:09 PM
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Is this true about Telegram? I just got it two days ago and had to use my phone number to sign up. As soon as I signed in for the first time, I got a message straight away from an OLD scrote who I had blocked three years ago. Thankfully was just able to block straight away again but physically I felt like vomiting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:44 AM
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Hon, I read your post and those replies are out of line. When I was on OLD years ago, I got and dated plenty of guys and my BMI is obese. What the truth is, is that there are very few HVM on OLD. FDS saved me because I finally came to accept that I might not have a partner in this life because I refuse to settle now. I hope you find someone who understands your worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:34 AM
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I don’t even care. No one can tell me Nick does not have some deep seated issues. Such messy decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:58 AM
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It was tough for me to watch because I know my past pickme self could have easily fallen into something similar to this. As in if a guy I was dating treated me very well and fell into trouble then I would’ve taken out loans for him but max $5k (coz I have my family to think of first) I would have drawn the line at him having a kid though, not something I’d get involved in, but again this is pickme past me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:50 PM
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Foiled again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:46 AM
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If only having sex without commitment wasn’t so normalised. He clearly spent those days he ignored her with whoever else he’s been seeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:07 AM
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Agreed. That’s so cringe. Like Rihanna doesn’t know her and will never give an f about here but the thought runs through her head that she’s special because they’re both pregnant at the same time. Come on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:31 AM
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Misogynistic men definitely categorise us as NPCs, maybe why they get so surprised if they pay for dinner and we don’t put out. can’t compute error
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:55 AM
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He wants to get clapped for it from other men who fantasise about it 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:52 AM
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Me watching each season praying this will be the one she becomes a bit more HV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:13 AM
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Is this similar to how there’s virtual boyfriends? I’m quoting from the tv show Aggretsuko where Fenneko has one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:53 AM
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I am so bored and utterly dumbfounded at the same stupid jokes in the comments of the men populated subs Reply 1 “His wife” Reply 2 “Yes his wife too” Different post Comment 1 - changes neutral subject to sexual Like how. Freaking. Boring. Do you have to be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:28 PM
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The irony that SY and JT are the only relationship that’s lasted :/ I was very sad to watch SY turn into a pickme and never believed JT was actually interested (fine by me, she deserves someone better than him)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:33 PM
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Call me one too, I love it. I am not a fan of the general oversexualisation of all aspects of life that appear to be prevalent in the West
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:12 PM
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Jia gives me diabla vibes, no hate though it was really amazing to watch how she was able to put so little effort in and wrap some guys around her fingers to the point that one was following her around. SY made me so sad because I could see pre-FDS me in her. Her heart’s too big but also I think she should’ve been more guarded from the initial love bombing she received.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 06:41 PM
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Yes would love a part 2! Thank you for your thoughts :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:21 PM
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For those who’ve watched/watching: What do you think of the people commentating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:06 PM
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This was a fascinating read and I have started just started the show after being interested from your post. Would love a break down of the men, are any high value? Also wow I didn’t realise how much people work out in Korea?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 02:22 PM
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Omg I haven’t watched her so long but looks like they’re married with a baby now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:38 PM
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He became more attractive the longer he spoke - the mullet grew on me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 07:44 AM
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I love you too, my beautiful and kind sister 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 11:55 AM
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My LVM ex said he was 5’9 but later admitted he was 5’7, I’m 5 feet - I couldn’t even tell the difference in him but of course him lying showed me his insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:13 PM
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I now have the ick for all men even ones who were ‘my type’. I’m not sure what to do about it but I don’t think I’m ready to date again. I changed a lot of my life around but I still would like to have a family. HVM just don’t grow on trees unfortunately :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:40 PM
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Was quite disappointed to read on a thread that there are plenty of competing websites that will just take onlyfans place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:27 PM
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I asked my first boyfriend if he even knew my last name lol, red flag as heck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:02 AM
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I thought I had a high drive but I was actually addicted to porn. I quit all sex-related consumption cold turkey and it’s been life changing. I don’t feel any urge for sex or a relationship. Similar to another commenter here I think an element of my sex drive was me trying to achieve emotional fulfilment through sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:37 AM
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asteam 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:58 AM
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I got asked once how long I’ve been single…like what? How is that even relevant? Edit: I didn’t put enough context in. This was a guy who was 35, from a similar background. I was 26, and it was clearly him saying it in a ‘what’s wrong with you that you’re single’ way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:27 PM
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Omg pre-FDS I felt the same, that Aparna was too much. Absolutely adore her after finding FDS. Follow her on Instagram!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:59 AM
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I really like that last sentence!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:20 PM
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How do you avoid this question? Or playfully disregard? I’m not dating currently but my past hoe phase (thank you liberal feminism) makes me feel scared to be honest about my number even though many partners I was with were not fully consensual experiences (thank you childhood sexual trauma). I know there’s a thought stream which is well why even date a man who asks, but I’ve had this question come up innocuously in the past so I wouldn’t be surprised if it came up again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:10 AM
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If a man ever says this to me again my first and only thought will be - “Sure, that’s called psychopathy.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 02:57 PM
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Absolutely, there are some things I’ve heard him say that concern me and that’s because I’ve been moving more and more to radfem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:19 PM
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I have enjoyed watching him, especially for 90 day fiancé and learned a few Psychology concepts but there’s something about him that feels off and I don’t know why! It bothers me that I don’t know why. Everything I’ve watched has all been good, even the way he talks about his wife is very caring. But something just…I don’t know…does anyone else get a vibe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:36 PM
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If they filmed me for a why do you need men, I would say - “I don’t.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:26 PM
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I’ve been staying off apps because I had bad experiences but four of my closest friends have all found HVM on them so I think I just had low standards due to childhood trauma. I am forever grateful to FDS for inspiring me to be comfortable in being alone and enjoying my own company as well as not wanting to settle. If I don’t meet him, I’m perfectly happy to be alone and still kick ass in my life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:27 PM
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I honestly thought the first photo was of a male sim...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:40 PM
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What do we think of Daria on this sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:15 AM
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When I used OLD two years ago, I got catfished! I was a pick me back then but severely uninterested in him but I felt too rude to leave the date. Finally I couldn’t stand it and I asked why on earth he looked so different to his photos and he said ‘oh, I used photos of an actor I’m always told I look like’. Newsflash, people are lying to you, you really don’t. (He was of an ethnic background and I wasn’t familiar with this actor so I had no idea the photos were fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:29 AM
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It feels like having standards for behaviour and social decorum is becoming alienated. Men who have just met you in the dating sphere feeling like they can ask you your sexual history for example or in situations where there is an expectation of being kind and polite, people are speaking their mind because ‘oh you can’t cage me’ but there could a more effective time or place...idk maybe I’m a bit elitist but society in general is just less classy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:42 PM
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The bible? XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:29 PM
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I have never had the patience to watch Rick and Morty, would you mind detailing why as my NVex liked the show and I would be curious if I can connect his behaviour with the show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:28 PM
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My NVex showed me this subreddit. Best thing he ever did for me but it also should’ve been a huge red flag because it was direct proof that there are guys who read this subreddit so that they can learn how to con women better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:35 AM
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You are an inspiration!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:29 PM
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The stats are 46% cheat? Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:51 AM
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Love the lyrics but I do miss earlier Eurovisions when countries would sing in their national languages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:50 PM
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Ahh yes that rare form of humour they call ‘dArk aND eDGy’. Honey saying you have that kind of humour is not a flex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:14 PM
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I’ve become asexual no joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:33 AM
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I used to think I had a high libido but after cutting porn (not just visual) out of my life I don’t have such strong desires anymore. Helps me not go back to my previous pickme self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:42 AM
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Yes. Please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:13 PM
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I hope you block and delete sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:09 AM
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This should win the best award for how well you reacted. Tilt that crown straight queen. You’re an inspiration!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:06 AM
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Is Jewish comedian type Andy samberg? Max greenfield?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:01 PM
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Can I get in on this joke? What’s the context and you’re the second violin comment I’ve seen haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:34 PM
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Who is teaching us? Coz of course women can’t look at evidence and learn for themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:49 PM
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I find I overshare my trauma to people who show interest :( I don’t know how to stop because I feel disempowered afterwards, like they now hold my deepest secrets and I don’t really hold anything of theirs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:31 PM
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Minus it from his junk too if he shares that info XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:29 PM
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I’m really proud of you! Go you! I expect to be single on Valentine’s Day unless my HVM drops out of the sky so I’m totally going to take myself out on a date too inspired by you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:28 PM
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I honestly could not scream harder in agreement. Thank you for this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:30 AM
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We have women only gyms in Australia!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:04 PM
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Oooft right in the ex-boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:17 PM
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Omg absolutely too accurate! I now have patience for very little haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:06 PM
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Double d’s at age 10...was referred to as jugs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:17 PM
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I meant if any non Muslims wanted to look into it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:26 PM
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Wasabi 😂 It’s wahabi, I just wanted to mention in case anyone wants to look into it more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:29 AM
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Penis in vagina
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:48 AM
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I notice the time I reply to them 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:46 PM
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Hi love, I used to not be able to orgasm anymore without porn and I have gone cold turkey on anything related to sexual consumable media and it’s helped me a lot! Happy for a pm if you’d like to talk :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:09 AM
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So many of the gorgeous ones are dumb as rocks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:25 AM
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She’s in so deep she had to make up her own acronym...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:07 PM
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Podcasts are called that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:02 AM
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Where do you find him 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:26 AM
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I stand with you sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:01 PM
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I think you should just completely hide your wealth from them for at least two years so you can get to know their character maybe like how Nick did to Rachel in Crazy Rich Asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:29 PM
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She’s pregnant now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:18 PM
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