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Rant/Venting4io8/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 07:16 AM
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I think passion and love are two different things. I agree. That's why I used both words. Love isn't unconditional. I disagree about that. For a man anyway. But that's not the same as saying that your actions should only be guided by love. Love and honour can conflict. The feeling of love does not come and go according to rules. You can cut loose even something you love if a higher value calls for it. Its just that it will be painful. Most of your energy should be re-invested back into your own …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 10:05 AM
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Life has not been in a good place for doing anything for a while. Its now settled down and I have some control. Time to make use of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:56 AM
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you're more for every man for himself which i get I have never believed in every man for himself. It comes up as answer on TRP sometimes and I completely reject it. In a way, its the most anti-masculine thing you can do. Its giving up on ever being a man. if you feel like you've made it, I feel like I understand it. I have not made anything. There is the problem. I have been giving advice on this sub for a while. It feels really great to help guys along and its a big reason why I am here. I do f…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:54 AM
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Pre-trp women feel random. Their affection for you feels like it can disappear at any moment. Everything is the result of fickle luck. Post trp it stops feeling random. You can have at least some control. Hence the anxiety disappears.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 10:38 PM
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I did it. Got the superpowers. For me it worked.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 12:54 PM
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Makes you realise how sexualised society is today. When you go porn free you notice how much soft porn is out there. You cannot walk through a shopping centre or watch TV without marketers trying to grab your attention with boobs, ass and legs. I never thought I would ever think this, but there conservatives are indirectly right. There is some value in modesty.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 12:52 PM
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I think it follows that, if a culture is to support mentoring and male role models, at least two things must happen. The puritan, homophobic element that stigmatizes male bonding must be broken. FSM that is so true. Whenever there is the smallest hint of male bonding people's inner Freud comes out and every man is declared a repressed homo. Women are almost incapable of seeing male/male bonding as anything but sexual. Talk to them about any story that revolves around men deeply committed to each…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 12:17 PM
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Bart is actually very capable. He orgainses the other kids. A natural leader. Very determined in all the mischief he gets up to. Its just no-one is interested in taking that energy and enthusiasm and guiding it productively. They just want him to sit down and shut up in school. And at home he has no-one to give him any direction. He doesnt know he is fucking his life up. But no-one else cares enough to really help, or knows the first thing about raising energetic young boys. They fail at raising…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 10:17 AM
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And it had a high acheiving male adolescent in the family.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:20 AM
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Same way women marry beta's all the time. There is a massive difference between respecting your husband, and being seen to respect your husband.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:51 AM
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She never sunmitted to her husband. The whole premise of the show is that she is the all powerful one who is only hiding her power becaue of social norms. And Darren is a fool who thinks he is in charge that is easily manipulated even without witchcraft.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:40 AM
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It goes way back. Darren from Bewitched is the same.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:22 AM
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Good. You might want to keep in mind this is not unique to the Simpsons. Over the same time period it happened to all sitcoms. I thought about writing something about it starting with the evolution from "I Dream of Jeanie" to "Bewitched". The last sitcom I can remeber that included a father/man worthy of being a young boy's role model was "Growing Pains". But even that had taken up the stupid male trope for the son. Since then I cannot think of a sitcom that had a worthy male character. When you…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:17 AM
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Emotions and feelings follow behaviour. Its weird but plenty of science now backs this up. Once the behaviour is second nature you will have the corrsponding feelings. As i said, its weird, but thats how it works.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:46 PM
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Someone will have to do a similar analysis of Bart. Lisa is the high acheiver with a bright future and Bart on the production line to be another under acheiving man/boy from a school system that wishes he would just disappear. That trope is pretty much normal today.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:39 PM
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This is almost a good argument for a bro marriage. Still be straight and marry a mate. Anyone with a dead bedroom -> divorce experience knows the law does care wherther a marriage includes sex.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 08:42 AM
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It was recommended on redpill films somewhere on reddit. I wish we had more movies like this growing up.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 08:35 AM
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Alpha goggles. They see your attractive friend as a human being and do what you do for people. They treat the way you treat a friend. Your unattractive friend is not really a full human being in their eyes.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 01:02 PM
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I think reddit is a place where the genders are dividing. Without the constraints that traditional media operates under there is no need to write stuff with the widest possible appeal. Hence people are writing stuff which appeals to their own gender while not worrying if it offends the other one. Trp is an even reddit in general is a large example. Tumblr is the same thing from the other side.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:06 AM
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I am really struck by the change in advice on subs like r/relationships in the last couple of years. There are threads posted here decrying bow bluepill the commenters are but if you look closely, most of the advice is basically red pill. Compared to what you would seen 18 months ago the change is pretty drastic. Sometimes its like the whole of reddit is criticising trp out of one side of their mouth while agreeing with it from the other. Having dealt with cognitive dissonance in plenty of other…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:47 PM
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Pick up a fighting sport. MMA, boxing. As long as its with a serious trainer with the chance to competively fight. Your height wont be a problem when you know you can take out most of theys who are taller than you. Your inferiority complex will go away. Very few people know how to fight. Simply having stepped in the ring at some point puts you above most guys. If you want personality and social skills I strongly recommend working in some kind of facing/sales role. Can be part time. Does not matt…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:11 AM
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Now that I think about it, not even sure why I wanted a relationship in the first place. You wanted to feel like you hae a place in the world. You wanted to feel connection with a person. Perfecty normal. Its just you were sold the disney version on how to do that which is to fall in love and get ut all from one woman. Thats a story for how women see the world. Find a partner and derive your sense of place in the world from that. Its a feminine approach to life. Love, connection, a place in the …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 08:16 AM
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Golden child. Common amongst children of narcissists.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:57 AM
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Thank your dad every day for putting up with all the shit from your mum. If he hadnt she would have divorced him and cut him out if your life. Who knows what you would be today if she had been your only parent.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:56 AM
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My first thought was, does he have anything? Does she have more than him?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 01:03 AM
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What you are talking about here, particularly the using anger to motivate yourself is the main reason I tell people to to get iver being angry. So much of the discussion and posting by angry guys here is externally focused. Its like watchin the Daily Show or arguing on r/worldpolitics. Just outrage porn. Where people work themselves up in a strong emotional state abou something that has zero direct affect on them. Then "express themself" about it. The big problem with that is most of the people …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:55 AM
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Lower your expectations of relationships. You are simply going to get less out of it than what you believed growing up. Find other things in your life to fill that place in your life that you had set aside for the women you were going to share it with. You can still have a happy life long marriage. But you thought that was going to complete you, that this is what your life was about. Now you realise that was niver going to work. Create a life that is something worthwhile whether the women is in …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:26 AM
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Yes. But its not just for men. There is the mostly monogamous male security-provider/loyal female model of relationships. This is natural and instinctive. Built into the genes of both sexes. But its only appropriate for times of scarcity when its hard to accumulate enough resources to raise a child. The other model is what we have more of today. Where women simply follow overt hypergamy and men compete with each other to be the top of the hierarchy. This is the model for times of abundance. Over…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:07 AM
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So technically, a women could threaten suicide if her boyfriend breaks up with her. The boyfriend wants to break up with her but doesnt due to her threat and they have sex. Then the next day he goes to his college office and deports he was sexually assaulted because he was coerced into sex. Hmm.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:48 PM
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You can do it with anything. Books, movies, tv shows. They will all look different now.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 01:03 PM
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Trust me, there are women who think about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 11:09 AM
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Ahh, the mirage. For a couple of reasons this does not happen. Men have much lower need for material spending. They spend less because they just don't want or need to consume as much. Shows that appeal strongly to men tend to be offensive to women. Google "The Man Show" and then ask yourself why its not still on the air. Even something as simple as Top Gear is being constantly accused of being offensive. Even the NFL these days. If you offend women then they leave your channel. Internet is diffe…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:43 AM
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Nah Sheldon is text book dom at times He's a switch. Watch the episodes with his mother.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:21 AM
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I presume you have watched "The Century of the Self" which talks a lot about Bernays.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:19 AM
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It would an awesome story arc. Its surprisngly easy to imagine Sheldon and Penny in a BDSM style relationship. With either of them as dom or sub.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:12 AM
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If you watch closely you will see quite a few moments of sexual tension between Penny and Sheldon.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 02:28 AM
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They are all like that now. The reason is simple. 70% of consumer spending is done by women. The advertisers on those shows want the women to buy their products. The way to do that is to make them women feel they deserve this stuff. So they make the main female character confident and attractive (ie Deborah) as well as deserving compensation because she puts up with her useless husband. Nothing to do with feminism. Just marketing.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 02:24 AM
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Dont worry. Oneitis is a self curing disease. Sooner or later she will almost certainly break your heart. Every successful player I know can tell you about "that girl" who did it to him. They even used exactly the same words as you. "There's this one girl"
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:23 AM
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WW did not make those decsions. The writers and producers of the show did.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:14 AM
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Then none of this matters. Its not something you will ever have to worry about in real life. Why do you care about something you do not plan on participating in.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:10 AM
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You have not had enough dealings with women to know anything. You are basing it on what you read rather than your personal experience so your opinion in this means shit. I dont want to offend you, but I am going to tell it to you straight. You dont have to think about serious ltr's for years yet. Frankly, it almost siunds like you are looking for an excuse to not try. Get out there and have some of your own memories to judge this from. You do not really learn anything by just reading.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:59 AM
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I am not so sure. I think there is a yearning for it and guys trying to reach for masculinity through a feminine approach. But its mostly illusion and often manipulated by marketing into the same old bullshit. A good example is something as simple as the rise of the muslim style beard in young western men. When I started seeing this I was like wtf? Then I started talking to these guys and realised that despite the beards and the tats and the wannabe bikie image these guys were all women undernea…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:41 AM
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Yeah, but it often requires emotiona detachment from yourself as well as things external to you. Some people have that naturally so trp and game are just another puzzle. For most men they have to learn it and its basically an unpleasant thing. It makes you feel less alive. Why invest time and energy in something that requires you to feel less? Once you reslise that is the nature of female/male relations its time to look for things that have positive feedback cycle between your emotions and your …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:34 AM
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Wow, thats actually what it is.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:24 AM
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For Breaking Bad its the basis of its appeal. But dont forget that the WW character was made into a very bad man whi got nothing in the end and destroyed everything he cared about. The message could not be plainer: Keep repressing yourself and being bluepill because your inner self (masculinity) is a psychopathic selfish monster.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:21 AM
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Can I suggest a principal for modding it: You accept the possibility that the other side of the debate is correct. That is not to say think it is correct. You may be absolutely convinced your side is right. But nobody has perfect information. Nobody is capable of infallibly perfect logic on every occasion. Any thinking thing is of limited mental capacity. It cannot know everything. I am not sayig that possibility has to be very high. It might be only a 0.00001% chance. But as long as you accept …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 08:19 AM
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The article is basically right in saying that guys are in perpetual adolescence. But I dont think she gets anywhere near the mark in the causes. She just goes on a rant about how bad single men are. Which is not entirely wrong, but completely misses the mark because the question then becomes why are men staying single? She does not address that question.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 10:50 PM
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I really dont know about fiction. I would be wary of them. The nature of fiction is for things to turn out well for the protagonist. I heard a writer describe the way to make good fiction is describe real life, but then lie about the ending so its happy. Frankly a lot of blue pill thinking is like that. I am not really sure about this advice though. Looking back I dont think any if the fiction I read or watched helped me develop. But others may feel differently. Perhaps balance it with biographi…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 10:30 PM
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Economic opportunities. They can earn their own money now. The male provider/loyal female model of relationships is dead.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 03:48 AM
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Forget about the dealing with women part of it. There is a reason the first instruction is lift. It builds up your confidence and boosts your testosterone. Develop yourself. Pick up a fighting sport like boxing or MMA. Read the books mentioned here. Think about going into monk mode for six months. You are 18 so your body will respond quickly to you working on it. Once you develop some genuine confidence it will come naturally. For now your focus is self improvement. You will know when you are re…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 02:04 AM
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You need to seduce her friends too. If you have the whole group of girls convinced you are high smv then they be practically pushing her into your bed. You cannot treat her friends as the enemy. Treat the entire group as one target. If they all like you then she's yours when you get around to talking to her.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 11:48 PM
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You are talking about something slightly different which is that: Women need consensus. They cannot handle differences of emotion or opinion. In any group they all have to feel the same thing at the same time. Its why frame works. If they cannot change your feelings, then they change their own to mirror yours.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 09:00 AM
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There is this principle I use to analyse women's advice about relationships. All relationship advice from women is sociopathically self interested. For example: She tells you to break up with your boyfriend. Why? Because she probably knows your boyfriend is attractive and if he is single it increases her partner options. Perhaps by only a tiny amount. But that is enough for a sociopathic level of self interest to dictate giving that advice. I use this principle to understand why women say what t…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:34 AM
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ITT guys assuming the reason marriage rates are down is men decding no to get married. Everything being said about the downsides of marriage is true, but its only relevant for the top 10-20% of men who have their choice of women and marriage is just one option. For the majority of men, traditionally its been ltr resulting in marriage. The majority of men still do not get to choose about marriage because the available partners are limited. If women want marriage, then they will be getting married…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:36 PM
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You dont need to be that extreme. Simply get the HPV vaccine http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/adult-hpv-vaccine-guidelines It immunises you against the virus that is responsible for the vast majority if genital herpes warts. Its takes a few shots and you will probably have to pay. But you're a Marine so you are probably used to getting jabs. It only recently came out so people think its just for women and its only mandatory for kids. But imho everyone who is sexually active should be getting…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:02 AM
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You cannot prove she knows. She can always claim ignorance. Medical records are confidential. Ever heard of anyone being prosecuted for this?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 10:38 PM
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One of the fundamental drives of women is to feel safe and secure. They are different to men in the sense that almost always feel potentially afraid. The search for safety is one of their fundsmental drives. The most dangerous thing in the world is, rather unfortunately for women, the human male. Its the most dangerous animal on the planet. But women cannot avoid that threat so they need to find some way to be safe from them. The answer is to fuck them. In a way, a lot of women's sex drive is li…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 10:34 PM
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As I get older i have found this to be so true. Have not dated in ages now and dont feel I am missing anything. Last girl I dated was the most attractive girl I had ever been with. And was outgoing, had lots of good traits. But the amount of work it required to be with her. And the constant testing. And the games her head would play. Nothing serious or mean. It was just obvious that sub consciously she was trying to find a man to look after her. At some point I just realised that despite how gre…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 10:18 PM
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For some reason they do not see themselves as different to other women. They assume that because they feel a certain way, then all other women should feel the same. And if they dont, then that must be because of some outside external thing preventing them from feeling that (ie The Patriarchy and society constructed gender programming). That they are just different just does not occur to them. Without some external reason, the behaviour of other women is inexplicable to them. In other words, sopi…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 10:39 AM
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I think what you are commenting is normal biologically/mentally feminine women attempting emulate the successful femininst women (who had more masculine brains) and discovering it does not make them happy. Which is not surprising because they are not biologically wired for that type of life. Its grinds against their natural instincts. They accept it because acceptance is in their nature. But it feels wrong yet they cannot understand why.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:10 AM
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Most of them are in male related fields. The number of women in STEM is staggering by historical standards. Despite all the talk, the absolute numbers of women in gender studies is tiny. It is not a significant amount of university enrolments. In absolute terms compared to almost any other area its almost nothing. A lot o women are studying it as part of something else but thats hardly anything serious. Its just people following a crowd which has a few hardcore feminists at the fron somewhere. T…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 07:14 AM
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It also explains why feminism was able to change society so rapidly and completely once it finally broke through.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 06:27 AM
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This discovery is not the least bit surprising to me. Feminist are generally women with more masculine brains who have been extremely frustrated by being forced into the traditional female gender role. Its why feminists always talk about gender being a "social construct". The feminine roles in society feel unnatural and limiting to them. Forced onto them. They are being forced into roles that society pushed onto them because of their physical gender when they mentally dont feel that way. Thats w…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:20 AM
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If you want to make yourself happier you should lift and get in shape. Not because it will make you attractive. There is almost nothing you can have or do that feels as good as being in shape.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 10:18 PM
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"holy shitsnacks, she did this on purpose with full control and awareness of everything!" Its not as simple as that. Think of their emotions like waves on the ocean, and their experience of that like surfing those waves. They can try to choose which waves to surf and sometimes they do it well, but they are never fully in control. And the waves never stop.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 09:18 AM
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I think a lot of women see their children as extensions of themselves. Kind of like extra parts of themselves. Where it gets difficult is acknowledging the children as independent people with desires and minds of their own. They see their kids as just extra versions of them. Not all women are like this, but many are. Where it gets difficult is when the kids stsrt to individuate and become their own identity. At that point the kids of the worse mothers have to basically fight their mothers off to…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:11 AM
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Social media with well programmed bots to keep supplying the validation when real people wont do it anymore. I am serious. Its going to happen.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:46 AM
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Presumably availability of the father to the child is also an interest of the child. Unless you have decided fatherhood is of negible benefit to children.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:32 PM
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I mean this in all seriousness. It is not sarcasm. It really isnt. I know thats hard to believe, but its also literally what is going in their heads. Think about it as long and hard as you want, but you will not find a better explanation of what motivates that behaviour in indian women. You asked why they do it. Be prepared to believe the answer.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:17 PM
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Something happened with you fathers generation. Its like everrthing fell apart in the 70's. Modern feminism was just a reaction to it. Its like the whole world fell apart socially and we've been living in the aftermath for a generation. Perhaps I am old enough and have made enough mistakes to know how to "self mentor" now, whatever that means. Whether it works or not, its the only choice I have. Its not like awareness you need a mentor suddenly creates one.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:47 AM
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I am nearing 40. I have literally never had a male mentor. The closest I came has been writings of people on the internet. I had to figure it all out for myself. I did that very slowly and mostly got it wrong. Every problem I had I avoided because I did not know what else to do. At my school as long as I got good marks everyone thought I had learnt all I needed to know. At university I was an anonymous number that may or may not get through the system. They did not care either way. At my first w…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:51 AM
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I know he is fictional but Marlo Stanfield from "The Wire". The fact that its on tv give you the chance to see it rather than just read and imagine. Its way more powerful that way. I dont agree with violence, but the way if approaching things. The way he is able to judge and build the character of his people. The minimal communication because he everything he says means so much. The acceptance of the game. That his life and winnings are temporary.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:52 AM
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really regular sleep. Get a sleep monitor tool or app. If you can figure out how to sleep well most of your mental and health problems have also been solved.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:41 AM
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I should have clarified about dying. Dying for something is a relatively frequent example of committing to something thats not about you. Its an example of of how, mostly men, commit to things that are bugger than themselves. When you realise that "you" is really just an idea, not always an entirely tangible thing you also start to appreciate that giving up your "self" to something larger is possible. People, again usually men, being driven to do things with no regard to how it benefits the indi…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:29 AM
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The thing which surprised me is that I knew the girl really well. Total opposite of crazy. If even she could do that, then AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:20 AM
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There are a lot of variations. Intermittant fasting. Lean gains. Start researching. All the info is out there if you google enough.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:36 AM
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The mission needs to be important to you. It does not have to be about you. Otherwise almost by definition there would be nothing worth dying for.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:27 AM
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I dont think you understand that scene. The Queen is utterly without honour. She is pure women in that sense. When she discovers a man without honour she is very happy. She has found a man she can relate to. That she can understand. Honour is a very real thing. Men would not willingly die by the millions without it. The problem is that honour needs a code. An the honour codes of our world are often deceptive bullshit. So honour gets abused.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:11 AM
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Actually I hate them too. Once I understood its a con game designed to extract work out of you I did not want to be part of it. A lot of people on trp see the success of dark triad and decide to embrace it themselves. Some even try to bullshit that its the next evolution of humans or some other similar sophistry. But even a tiny amount of common sense lets you know that if everyone went dark triad nothing would get done. You see it in the poor corrupt countres of the world loke Mexico where no-o…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:11 PM
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I knew two guys whose wife or girlfriend had a "surprise" pregnancy. I suspect it is much more common than almost anyone admits. It was amazing how powerless both men were to do anything about it. The girl simply refused an abortion despite telling the man before they did not want children or being obviously too young. And there was nothing the guys could do. Their whole life was being decided by someone else who just did not care about the effect on their male partner. This is really going to s…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:57 PM
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Alternate day fasting. Just worked amazing on my energy levels and health.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:46 PM
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The problem is, you need a system set up in which there are people to take advantage of What do you think any modern workplace, corporation or large institution is?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:40 PM
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I once asked a girl I was seeing if she would give a famous singer a blowjob. She gave an enthusiastic yes. Of course I had not gotten an actual bj from her ever. I was sad but could not really articulate why. Now I understand. If she was sexually attracted to me she would be enthusiastic about giving me a bj. Its really that simple. The idea of my penis disgusted her. We were really serious at that point. Either that, or she simply did not care about my happiness enough to do this one awesome t…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:12 AM
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As a former married guy, these are all perfectly valid fears. There would be very few marriaged that dont contain at least some of the above. By default, the marriage and everything in it belong to the wife. The kids, the house, the social life, the money, the family, the values, the religion, the bedroom. If you know how to fight for it you can make some of it shared or yours. The biggest thing I realised about marriage is that everythung in your life will be decided by the woman. Whether you r…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 11:04 PM
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They still judge themselves by the quality of the man in their life. They don't want to, but they do.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:41 AM
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I would be surprised if the fact she shares a building with a sex offender halfway house is completely random. The fascination women have with criminals is one of the stark gender differences. I would bet good money your friend drops the half way house into conversation surprisingly frequently. Bragplaining if she is subtle.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:32 AM
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Sopilism. Their feelings dont exist. Notice she never mentions her husbands feelings in the article.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:35 PM
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Asian ones can. I have seen plenty that are literally more attractive than most woman.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:37 AM
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Alpha goggles / Beta filter The tendency of women to think that beta men do not exist. To be unable to perceive beta's even when they are friends with them. To only see alpha men, and hence think all men are alpha's. Eg: "where are all the good men?" "She hung out with guys who were creeps/losers that don't represent men" edit: Actually that does sound better
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:32 AM
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I have not done it. For various reasons. Its just not that important to me (mgtow). But plenty of people I know have. Not many of them are red pill or players so I cant speak exactly to their results with women. But work wise the difference is enormous. I am in Australia which may affect things a bit. But its nit much different to the ither anglo countries. If you really want to see the difference, test it out in some kind of environment. Introduce yourself to someone, or a group as "Dave" or so…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 11:57 AM
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Just tell them you do it for work. Thats actually the reason people do it. It makes getting a job or anything at work easier. Can triple your call backs for things like jobs.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 10:10 AM
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Definitely not. You can just pick a western first name and use it. People understand. East asians all do it.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 09:48 AM
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I noticed that women fall into one of two categories when they react to Indian men. They consider you a human being They think of you as an "other" Most women fall into the latter. They just dont consider you a full person. They will be polite with you, and friendly even. But if you are paying attention you will realise they treat you differently. Its hard to put your finger on exactly what it is but when you start looking for it, its everywhere. They have this guard up around you, that is just …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 11:07 PM
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You spend so much time thinking about your appearance you sound like a woman. Something about the way you are writing sound exactly like how a girl think about attractiveness. She wishes she had lips like that girl and hair like that model. What colour eye shadow works with her face type? . Kind of like Brad Pitt Fight Club? Not skinny, but not buff either. Low BF%. I feel that is the best look on short men like me. Maybe aim for big forearms, since they look good on any guy. You need to start s…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:17 PM
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They almost never know when they are dealing with physical reality. Women value perception over reality. To them the only reality is the social one. Everything a woman wants and every problem a woman has can be achieved or solved by changing how someone else feels. Usually to match the way they feel. Its one of the fundamental differences between men and woman. Its not a feminist thing.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:00 PM
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Marlo: You want it to be one way. Security Guard: Man, I don't... Marlo: You want it to be one way. Security Guard: Man, STOP! Stop, sayin' that. Marlo: But it's the other way. http://youtube.com/watch?v=PwuckTkE7T4
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 09:54 PM
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Dont do it anonymously. One day he will notice your success with women and comment on it. When that day comes be ready with a couple of posts or preferably a article from the sidewall and just tell him you started reading stuff in the manosphere and its helped alot. Dont mention the redpill or try to explain it yourself. Its a delicate thing changing someone's mind and the articles in the sidebar do it better than you will be able to. You just demonstrate that it works by living well and being a…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 09:38 PM
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Put yourself in difficult situations. Challenge yourself. Do stuff that makes you afraid. Do stuff you dont have any idea how to do. Older generations were good at developing up young men by really challenging them. Todays world is crap at it so you need to do it yourself. This is how people find their passions. Not by sitting in bed reading stuff. Proving yourself in two ways. a) What you are passionate about. b) The stuff society needs from you. Building up your network of friends. This gets m…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 11:35 PM
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This. They often have an almost psychologically disturbed level of need for attention and they simply cannot get enough from female friends. Female friends require give and take and these tom boy girls are simply unable to give attention to other girls because that would mean getting less themselves. As soon as the attention is not on them they get bored, stop listening and look for ways to get someone else to pay attention to them. Almost alwas most easily achieved by getting attention from guy…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:54 PM
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She's always a woman - Billy Joel http://youtube.com/watch?v=kI3MwwWYC3Q Listen to lyrics. Especially the line "blame it all on yourself". And the whole tone of the song. Its not angry. Its just a little wistful. Like someone who spent a long time chasing the unicorn has just found out they never existed in the first place. A man realising childhood is over.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:33 AM
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You're on the right track. That feeling of jealousy will be gone for the rest if your life by age 27 at the absolute latest. Probably in only a couple of years.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 03:18 AM
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It sounds like they are helpful if you are wealthy but not complete firewalls. And it never gets you out of basically being her social security option. Which is a big problem for guys who dont have much money to start with and who are also more likely to marry women who will need social security. Especially in this economy.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:32 AM
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Tyson is a good example of someone who was in part destroyed by hasing women. He was not his own master. Child of single mother and fell apart when his only male mentor died. Take away his natural ability and he would likely be reading this sub like the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:19 AM
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People at the top get there because their ambition never ends.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 08:51 AM
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I say this as an older guy who was twenty quite a while ago. I say this out of respect and because I have learnt that every boy/man needs guys in their life who will kick their ass to keep them moving in the right direction. For fuck's sake go out an live. You dont need a woman to do that. You can learn to fight. You can travel to the middle of asia. Set yourself some kind of difficult but realistic target and them move heaven and earth until its done. You might hate every second of it but by go…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 05:25 AM
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They love themselves and their kids.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 12:10 AM
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It all makes sense when you realise that your love was never meant for just for one woman. Thats a lie you are sold by society. You can love anything. From a dog to your country. Your boat or a sport. Your bro's. Even just an idea, a dream. When you realise this it sets you free to love the things that are worth giving your whole life to. Things way more meaningful than the fickle feelings of a single woman. To me, thats the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 11:48 PM
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In almost every tribal society there were/are difficult rites of passage a boy must go through to be recognised as a man. They dont exist in the west much. Not all boys passed.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 11:18 PM
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You know those unicorns you talk about? The ones who listen to your problems and support you? Who dont talk about themselves but actually give their man what he always imagined a loving partner to be. And fucks like a pro. For $800 she is being that unicorn. For one hour.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 10:55 AM
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Whats your is ours. In their mind he is stealing from her. For a lot of them the money spent on another woman is perhaps the biggest thing they are upset about. They are imagining that money in the form of their handbags and shoes being given away.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 10:51 AM
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I thought about doing the same thing. But i am not dating for the moment. How is it working out for you?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 01:50 AM
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What did you end up doing when you decided to avoid post walls?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:09 AM
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Its not what she said thats giving it away. Its what you said.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 01:25 AM
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Its always because some of the guys want female attention and letting women into their all male space is an easy way to get it. Its social laziness and turning on your own gender from both sides. Girls trying to get male attention by having male friends instead of female ones and guys using their friends as bait to attract women. If its happening figure out which guys in the group are the weak link an either talk to them or exclude them. Its very hard to keep a male only soace unless there is an…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:23 PM
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No, she is probably more talented and capable than you.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:17 PM
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In a ot ofblue pill marriages, one ego is destroyed. But only on,0.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 11:03 PM
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I hate to say it, but they also love plausible deniability for their own decisions too. With the success of feminism there are far fewer ways to acheive this. This reaction of a woman to something designed to protect against rape is almost inexplicable without trp.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:54 PM
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The studies about this issue is one of the data points that led me to trp. I used to find the stories about date rape drugs quite disturbing as it implied a lot of men are horrible rapists. When studies revealed that the actual rates of date rape drug use were vastly lower than what was being alleged it opened my eyes a bit. This is one of the studies about the issue http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2658214/ Objectives To assess the scale of drink spiking in our area and identify whic…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:43 PM
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My working hypothesis is that the only reason for a monogamous LTR is procreation. I dont know if thats right, but its a wirking answer. If you are not planning on having kids with her soon then why are you with her? What are you hoping to acheive with her in the longer term? Are you just after regular sex? Then why LTR her? Sounds like you are feeling guilty about not creating a deeper commitment to her when that is what she wants in some way. Let me put it another way. What are you both commit…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 06:02 AM
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Thinking back we kind of had the Captain/FO model sometimes. Whenever there was a problem, or my partner was stressed about something, then she was happy with the Captain/FO model. She would come to me, I would tell her what to do and problem solved. But wen she was not under stress and was happy and comfortable the Captain/FO model went out the window. This is a much bigger problem than it sounds. If i tried to make any long terms that she did not care about right now then she would not do anyt…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 04:30 AM
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There is a difference between intellectually understanding someone else's mental state, and instinctively feeling it. The latter is empathy, the former is just being intelligent. Sociopaths have to resort to the former as they dont have the latter. When they exercise "empathy" it does not generate the corresponding feelings, whivh is why it is easy for them to inflict pain.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 12:08 AM
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I don't think this really happens much any more. At least in my experience. I put it down to two reasons. I suppose its because almost all the things you describe as nurturing are seen as socially backwards. They are seen as subservient activities that women should be discouraged from by a feminist society. A women taking pride in the food she cooks her boyfriend is looked down upon. Also, I think on some sub-conscious level, most women don't think highly enough of their partners to feel they ar…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 03:47 AM
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But haven't we evolved Human beings have only been living in civilisation for about 5000 years. For the 500,00 years prior to that we lived in tribes of 30-150 people who were often in violent conflict with their neighbours. Our DNA has barely changed in the last 5000 years. Evolution happens much more slowly than that. Genetially we are little different to our wild ancestors. past the point where we act like wild animals? We can use self control and conditioning to somewhat limit how we act on …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 02:30 AM
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Google translate. I don't do pick up much, but a while back I tried to talk to a couple of south american girls. Turned out they did not speak any english. Having a brainwave i pulled out my phone. It was fun. I typed something in, then they typed something in. You end up using lots of body language to convey things and laughing at misunderstandings. And you don't have to have a smart conversation as its hard enough to communicate anything. Just asking where someone is from becomes fun.
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