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4jayc4/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:03 PM
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I agree that men reach their peak way earlier than it is commonly said. The whole "men age like whine" thing is mostly bs, but late teens is absolutely not true. Most people that age are fresh out of puberty, still have skin issues, haven't found their look, a portion still has braces and even the face itself is still developing. The same thing goes fr women btw. Like, of course there are attractive young women but most women look way better at 22-24 than at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:14 PM
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bitch forgot she got a flair lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:35 PM
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Black people, mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:07 PM
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until very recently, they had no choice in who they mated with Your core premise is simply wrong. Females of our species had the choice of who they're mating with for millions of years, then a brief period of a few thousand years of forced monogamy and now they're free to choose again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:48 PM
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Very interesting. Thanks for taking the time to write this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:46 PM
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Do you have a theory on why women seem to have a hard time admitting this or don't even believe this? You're a woman, so you can observe the actions of other women, but you can also observe how you yourself experience attraction. Why do so few women say that looks play a part in attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:12 PM
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what is even the relevance of your comment? His comment is calling your comment irrelevant, which is kind of justified. Your original comment really is irrelevant, since you're trying to refute a general statement through personal experience. I'm not even saying you're wrong, but the way you're going about it just doesn't prove or disprove anything. You're just saying, "Well, in my experience-" It's like when someone says, "Men generally have a harder time expressing emotions," and you respond w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:16 AM
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women make less on average and yet control more than half of the wealth in America. Hm..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:33 PM
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There were lots of women there also saying that the bf should have physically held the gf back and prevented her from going to shove the drunk. They are treating the gf like a child Disagree, atleast on the aprt that this only applies to women, "hold me back" or "don't hold me back" are literal tropes when it comes to physical alltercations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:29 PM
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Globalist forces trying to smeer Trump's good name. Many such cases!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:09 PM
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I think you’re oversimplifying this to an extreme. I don’t really believe there’s such a thing as "societal beliefs" in the way you’re framing it. For something to be categorized as such, I’d say at least 95% of people - give or take - would need to agree on it. Otherwise, it’s not truly "societal." And I think you’d have a very hard time finding a statement that 95% of people agree with. Even something like "killing is bad" isn’t universally accepted - some people believe vigilantism is okay, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:55 PM
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Who chooses to "reward" men for sleeping around? Isn't it women who commonly prefer experienced men? Don't you think inexperienced men have a similair disadvantage to promiscuous women? I also don't even fully believe that men are rewarded for sleeping around. As I said, some women prefer experienced men, but others might judge you the same way women are judged or see you as untrustworthy, a "fuckboy".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:39 PM
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massive difference between ease of access to sex between men and women So if this isn't given, then it is hypocrisy? I know plenty of attractive men that have a pretty easy time getting laid, just like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:35 PM
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they are given baby dolls which condition them to fulfill the roles of mothers do toy soldiers condition men do die in wars?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:30 PM
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I also don’t believe that women who are open to casual encounters are usually scoping out strangers on the street in order to find new sex partners the way it seems many men are. Maybe not on the street. But at clubs and bars more likely You will also see that most of the women commenting are saying the same thing though. Could be that this sub attracts a lot of women that are of a certain type, just like it does with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:49 PM
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Do you think that women who do have casual encounters could perceive attractive differently that from the way you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:21 PM
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THATS WHAT IM SAYING. I always see this but I never see anyone talk about this. It's so funny to me. Especially in r/AskMen and stuff you'll see one thread with 95% of people saying they do not mind at all if a woman has x characteristic and any dating related thread it's 95% saying they checked out because they can't find dates. Of course these men would be okay with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:15 AM
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How common is it for women to complain about dick size? Like, what percentage of your friends and acquaintances do that? I think that's in general... just not something that you do? Maybe some people do it, but I think many people still wouldn't go complain about their partners genitalia to their friends, even if they had an issue with it. I certainly wouldn't. But I also don't have female friends that are close enough, that they would talk about their partners genitalia with me. I have seen wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:44 AM
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I don't know about y'all, but I have seen multiple threads where a man stating a woman feels "loose" was followed by a ton of people saying it's because of his small dick. And yes, never irl, but who even talks about that shit with people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:21 AM
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Not a lot of other people would be comfortable with their partner doing that. Yeah but not necessarily because they think it's cheating. There's loads of different possible reasons why you could see selling pics as problematic. Cheating is whatever you set your boundaries to. I don't think we're really arguing about that (it's a given that different people have different definitions when it comes to cheating), moreso if that boundary is insane. If you - for example - consider looking another per…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:04 PM
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Not OP but: I agree with the porn is bad for you part and also that is has definitely been proven. However, I don't think watching porn has to involve fantasizing about fucking other women. If you were doing that, you wouldn't need porn. It's more about just getting a visual stimulus to get off, not necessarily thinking about fucking these women or picturing yourself in the situation. just jerk off to your gfs nudes lol some aren't cool with sending (which is of course okay)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:57 PM
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Those bums with 5 baby mamas are... all of a certain ethnic heritage, aren't they? Prime noticer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:37 PM
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This is also a hella blackpilling comment. Really happy that this is the case but how many men out there are the ones were the attraction fizzled out? Or even came after this guy that she saw as: the person I’ve most been sexually attracted to guy who just made me want to do things I’d never imagined doing before at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:10 PM
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You're paranoid
/r/seduction11/10/24 01:06 PM
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Dude, do you have a small dick? I'm a regular 6. I'm not talking about myself, just making a point that the shit you say doesn't mean anything when you're packing 3 inches. And we don't have to argue about that, there's enough studys and surveys about female satisfaction. You're 5'11, saying "height doesn't matter". Also think it's kinda foul to go this route. That's why terms like "small dick energy" and shi are still around. I've never seen a man in person call this out, because there is an im…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:02 PM
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I believe the root cause of the bitterness among RP men/Niceguys/incels, is women's preferences changing over time I like this. I think it's put very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:47 AM
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Maybe it's out of your control? Do you think attractiveness/looks plays no role when it comes to sex? Doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, the visual stimulation is definitely a part of it. Maybe her ex looked better (and no not because of well fitting clothes or hygiene or the gym or his haircut) and she was simply more attracted to him. Also: Believe it or not (and this might be a shocker) but some women do like big dicks. What are you supposed to do when you're lacking in that compartme…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:43 AM
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Not the same situation, though, because you did end up becoming her best... If this wasn't possible, would you still be okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:09 AM
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He was found not guilty. That’s not “innocent”. I mean yeah you're right on that. Point still stands, though. I mean, was there anything more than allegations? (asking, I don't know) His case was actually proof that it wasn’t just about women but about all harassment since women came to the side of his male victims. Barely heard people talk abt it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:21 PM
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As I said: Im not familiar with the case All I know is that there was a trial and he was found innocent. If there is prove that he sexually harrased men, then I'm interested in seeing it and I'll apologize. If all the prove is "someone said he Kevin Spacey sexually harassed him" then you're kinda proving my point here...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:04 PM
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I guess it isn't really about "jailed", because in order for you to go to jail you have to be proven guilty of a crime. However due to the publics reaction many people that were never prosecuted or investigated lost their career over allegations that were never proven or even turned out to be false. Just as an example: Kevin Spacey was edited out of a whole movie he was shooting at the time. Im not familiar with the case, but he was just found innocent, though you'll never see that man in a holl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:56 PM
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This is cap and reads like a vent related to personal experience. If you are actually attractive and are dating below your looksmatch, you will 100% have the upper hand, even as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:53 PM
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majority of people have acceptable personality I agree with this heavy. I think one of the most common Bluepill talking points is that "looks get you into the door, personality lets you stay" / "a pretty face has no use when you have no personality / if I can't talk to you". And in some way that is true. But the thing is that, like, fucking everyone has a personality. I have only met a few people in my life that I would say had "no personality". I've also met only a few people that had an extrao…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:25 AM
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You think that everyone not dating their supermodel celebrity billionaire ideal imaginary dream partner is settling? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:21 AM
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Women control the majority of wealth in the US (51%), despite earning less than men on average. This is probably the case because the generated income is shared with the stay at home partner (in most cases the woman). I don't see why you would have to pass laws to make sure this distribution happens, when it is already happening. Just from a purely political perspective, I don't like the state having a say in what I have to do with my salary besides the taxes I pay. Are you a fan of that? The di…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:13 AM
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As soon as you would choose differently, if presented with different options, you are settling. You can genuinely like and be attracted to a person and still be settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:55 PM
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I generally agre with this. In the video however, she specifically talked about attraction and not compatibility (which is what you mentioned). She also says that all her friends are usually attracted to the same man, which leads to him being able to freely chose and "having power" (her words). Which is funny, because this is basically what Blackpillers mean when they talk about muh hypergamy and muh chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:53 PM
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That's kinda ridicoulus. Like women are just physically unable due to hormones to take risk and push through anxiety. Come on...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:04 AM
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I feel like blue pill is a chad ideology. If you are the one that has to make the first move, but constatly get rejected, thsi will not "force you to gain confidence". Quite the opposite. There's no way you like making the first move when you're not somewhat successful (attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:22 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:17 PM
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He specifically choose to use the word whore. In an example about irrational men, no? Isn't that the point? That the man in the example calling the woman a whore is in the wrong? Isn't that literally the point? He then says that's the same as how men feel when women simply pass on their advances and that makes those women shallow whores. For just.... saying no. That's not what he's saying... he's saying that the men calling women "shallow whores" for rejecting them are similair to women complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:42 PM
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I don't think it's a big deal to say someone dresses in a way that "violates modesty". I just think there's often an unfair double standard and women are held to standards that men aren't held to and that's why they think there's automatically a problem if you critic women for what they're wearing. Same thing with men though, like, if youre in a public gym, put on a damn shirt bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:02 PM
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the whole point of virgin as an insult to men is that it's so undesirable to women. No, p sure the main point is that he can't get laid Same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:50 AM
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That's actually nice. I think most men would like to be seen like that by their SO. Can i ask, out of interest, is he actually conventionally handsome, also considered so by other women, or is this beauty more something that primarily you see in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:34 PM
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Men are more likely to be victims precisely because they haven't been raised to view their safety as their personal responsibility. So do you think that if men changed their behaviour, they would be less likely to become victims? Maybe if they... avoided certain places? Didn't went out after certain times? Didn't surround themselves with certain people? Hmm..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:32 PM
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a LOT of people are removing value and meaning from sex. If you're having sex with strangers, then you're doing just that. I don't mean to say that that is necessarily a bad thing, just a meaningless thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:41 AM
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If you’re asking me personally, no, because I don’t and never have had casual sex. But what I can say pretty strongly is that if she’s keeping it casual, the odds are really really high that she’s not having the kind of mind-blowing amazing sex with you you praise yourself for giving. How would you know if you've never had casual sex? It's not that you take experiences that you've had and project them on other women, it's that you take experiences you didn't have, and project them on other women…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:23 PM
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It puzzles me, tbh. It's so crystal clear that what OOP said was clearly fucked up, but so many copes and justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:41 PM
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I had far more chemistry, attraction and compatibility with the people I've had serious relationships with than I did with the people I just wanted to have something casual with. Why would you think that your experience is the experience of all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:24 PM
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For most women, she liked you enough for sex for its own sake and actually enjoyed the sex, it wouldn’t be casual for her. She wouldn’t want to throw you away at the end and wouldn’t think of you like throwaway trash because great sex is actually hard to find for a woman. What are you saying? Would you enter a relationship with somebody just because he is good in bed? Would you not have casual sex with men that you couldn't see yourself in a relationship with? I really dont understand. she liked…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:17 PM
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No, that's not even what I care about. They probably won't leave, because if they could get with the type person they truly desire long term, they probably wouldn't even be with me in the first place. Knowing a girl will still desire other men more than me to a point where she would be with them if she could is enough to make me not want a relationship, even if the girl would stay with me. And tbh I dont even know how being settled for is so widely accepted or if people just don't know or if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:02 PM
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As someone that feels that way: I mean, I probably have some things to offer, it's just that there's men out there that offer way more. So even if a girl likes what I offer enough to be in a relationship with me, naturally she's still going to desire the men that offer more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:56 AM
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The importance of genetics (looks, height) in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:54 PM
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I feel like the worst way to practice for a relationship is "hoeing around" though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:39 PM
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I've also seen ugly women date very attractive guys. Can I take this information and generalize it to "men don't care about looks"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:48 AM
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Over when you're this Blupilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:40 AM
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He's probably also good with women or gl though. 6' is like minimum height requirement for many, often not even a halo.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 09:22 AM
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How tall are you? Are you 5'10?
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 07:36 PM
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Men use this all the time If she rejects you over [height, whatever], you dodget a bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:18 AM
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Owns up to his mistakes, doesn't have a vixtim-mentality and blames others. Takes responsibility
/r/seduction14/05/23 05:42 PM
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"I don't mean in a pick-me kind of way, as I have a lot of negative opinions about men too" lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:07 PM
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"most men don't see women as people" You spend too much time on Reddit. Not even trying to insult you or anything but that's simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:50 PM
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Women are more likely to die in pretty much other area including car accidents because seatbelts and other safety fratures are built and designed for men's bodies. You sure that's why women are more likely to die in car accidents? ​ /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:16 PM
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