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Boring, boring, boring. The pictures don't have anything inherently wrong, but they don't have anything to draw anyone in. You face says swipe left. No smiling. No friends picture. You look rigid. Shave the facial hair.
/r/seduction29/06/18 11:36 AM
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This reads like you took some pills again. Stop doing drugs and stop dispensing useless advice masked in shitty philosophy 101 jargon.
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:55 AM
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This is the most stupid reply that you've made. Do you really think anyone wants to read your moronic advice? You're really that narcissistic?
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:52 AM
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Lots of idiots writing comments and have no idea what they're talking about. No wonder no one learns anything.
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:50 AM
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OP isn't trying to improve. OP is saying that learning seduction is a waste of time because there are "better ways" to do so. Some people take "game" or "seduction" or whatever and try to use it as a method to systematically pick up women. For the guys that I've personally worked with and helped, that is not the case. Some guys want to learn skills so they can finally get a date. Maybe some guys are confused about how to escalate and get a consensual kiss or more. Some guys might even want to kn…
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:49 AM
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Lol. I bet you're so fun to hangout with.
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:41 AM
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You're a 20 year old twat that knows nothing of seduction and the game, period. The "real world" is a terrible medium for most men to learn how to appropriately meet and seduce women. There is a ton of terrible role models, toxic masculinity, and society itself doesn't do much to help men. If you took the time to observe the world you live in, youll see that men border on creepy behavior close to sexual assault. They don't know what respect for a woman is or the appropriate methods to interact w…
/r/seduction26/05/18 10:24 PM
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So you're saying learning how to navigate social situations and have a better end result, if it's a one night stand, relationship or otherwise, is a waste of time? No. You shouldn't tell people that improving oneself is a waste of time. By your same logic going to the gym and/or eating healthy is a waste of time, which is certainly is not. You have no authority. You're not a professional. You are some asshole on Reddit with an opinion. You should be ignored.
/r/seduction26/05/18 09:39 PM
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Joanne's Fabric
/r/seduction17/05/18 02:03 AM
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You're a fucking moron.
/r/MensRights23/03/18 03:11 PM
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This is a tough situation. Sounds like you handled things the right way and were working on yourself. Did you get out and date at all? Did you see what other options are out there for you? You could be missing out on something better. What caused her to dump you? By breaking things off with you she was saying that she could do better, but now regrets that decision so much she's asking for you back. Did she realize that dating is really fucking hard? Did she get played by some guys and realized h…
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:54 PM
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You went to the gym a few times and approached once or twice, and women aren't throwing themselves at you? I dunno man. I went to the gym once and the first HB10 I approached offered to be my FWB immediately. I don't know what your problem is. /S Seriously, your entitled attitude is the problem. My guess is you're as dull and boring as your writing. So far we have that you're lazy, entitled, and boring. These are the reasons you're not having success. Fix those things and you will find change. T…
/r/seduction14/02/18 09:27 AM
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Dude, you have no idea of who you're talking to. I'm close to your age, and I have been married once in my life. I'm open-minded, I have forgotten more about ethical non-monogamy, kink and BDSM than you'll ever know in your life, but hey I'm not appealing to your sense of authority, you have no morals to stand on. No, you are pretty much human garbage, and here is why: Seduction, game, whatever you want to call it, tries to help guys not pay for sex, which you've already done. This sub isn't abo…
/r/seduction12/02/18 10:46 AM
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You're married and want to know how to seduce a 20 year old sex worker? No. Nothing in this subreddit is here for you. Go fix your life instead of making decisions that will inevitably destroy it.
/r/seduction12/02/18 09:33 AM
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Therapy. Get into it yesterday. You have the profile of a domestic violence perp. Do yourself a favor and fix your issues before trying to date or find a partner.
/r/seduction09/02/18 01:39 PM
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Yes. Get a gallon of water, mix in some crushed red pepper, cilantro, Lemon peel, and warm it to 179 degrees exactly. Then drink it all down in 5 minutes. Sleep with some wet socks on and then you'll be cured. Is that what you want to hear? A work around to freezing or hesitation? A quick way that doesn't have any risk for you? Well too fucking bad. There is no quick fix. The only way to break this habit is by practicing. It's by replacing it with a better habit. You can hesitate and never go fo…
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:57 PM
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Yeah... I really hope you never get laid after that anecdote.
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:39 PM
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Sometimes you can do everything right and still lose. This sounds like one of those times. You acted right, but she just wasn't into it. It sucks to do everything "right" and be shut down, but it's a good lesson to learn from.
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:05 PM
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I'm going to go with both.
/r/seduction25/01/18 01:49 PM
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Umm no he wasn't. In fact he was so nervous and insecure he wrote out the gestures so that she got the whole point.
/r/seduction25/01/18 08:23 AM
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Did you not read the part where I said "simply introduce yourself"? Go take an improv class if you're having problems thinking about what to say. I think I speak for a lot of people on this sub when I say that I'm tired of seeing this same post every day. Stop focusing on canned openers and work on becoming better at being in the moment.
/r/seduction22/01/18 10:41 PM
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Having a "canned" opener is extremely obvious. People can tell if you've practiced a line. Finding common ground and using what's in the environment is always a better option. When all else fails just simply introduce yourself. There is no magic opener that is better than any other one. Most success is based on body language and delivery, not necessarily what you actually say.
/r/seduction22/01/18 12:58 PM
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Experience requires no prior experience to get, therefore your assertion that the catch-22 exists is false. There is no shortcut to experience.
/r/seduction16/01/18 06:22 AM
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the sizzlers are burning hot You have never turned a woman on before, have you?
/r/seduction16/12/17 06:18 AM
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Garbage cans with lids. Seriously. Also, empty them obsessively.
/r/seduction13/12/17 07:01 PM
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You screwed up by writing a fucking note. No one wants to be with someone that is so passive aggressive, so afraid of rejection that they write a note and run away like you're in 4th grade. Are 4th graders attractive to you? Then why would that behavior entice an attractive woman? Next time ask in person, like a man.
/r/seduction21/10/17 06:30 PM
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Wont follow your own advice then proceeds to talk about others should act? Your credibility is destroyed. Go out and follow your advice then come back and try and say something useful. Maybe you'll learn something.
/r/seduction20/10/17 08:31 PM
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Be direct, ask her out in person if you can. Also, actually have a plan, don't just ask to hangout. Be specific, "Want to go to a show at x bar Friday?" Or "Want to get coffee Tuesday afternoon?" are some examples of being very specific. These little things can increase the chances of a "yes".
/r/seduction16/10/17 09:27 AM
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You were before in your original comment, then you just name called someone trying to give you advice. You can go ahead and stay a virgin until you figure out how to not be an asshole.
/r/seduction04/10/17 12:00 AM
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Are you walking around with a sign that says your a virgin? Are you acting a socially awkward then telling people you're a virgin? It's no one's business but your own. If someone mentions it and gives you shit, find better people to hangout with. I would never mock another person for being a virgin and that should be the standard. If you do get called out for it be cool, and Agree & Amplify. "Yeah I'm a virgin, I just can't find anyone worthy of me." Own your shit.
/r/seduction03/10/17 11:57 PM
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Honestly, I'm a little sick of these posts. 1 If you're a man, it's okay to be a virgin. OP is 21, that is still very young. It might seem like all of your friends are hooking up, but it's not the case as much as one would think. Stop comparing your life to anyone else, it will make you a lot happier. Again, it's okay to be a virgin. Don't rush shit. 2 If your grades are suffering because you are so obsessed with sex that you're not having, then you should seek help. You want to derail your life…
/r/seduction03/10/17 11:46 PM
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Well... You're wrong for one. And two, does this help anyone? No? You're just an asshole troll?
/r/seduction03/10/17 11:38 PM
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Didn't follow instructions, ate mom's spaghetti.
/r/seduction29/09/17 01:12 PM
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Give her some space. Let her reinitiate contact. Just offer her the best of luck with her new guy and move on.
/r/seduction14/09/17 06:48 AM
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Wow. This looks like it was written by bro-dude McBroface. Plus you're looking for places where women are forced to talk to you? Every woman should avoid you until you fix a lot of issues.
/r/seduction11/09/17 11:45 PM
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I'll take one joint, hit, tablet, rail or whatever you are doing. Seems to be good shit.
/r/seduction08/08/17 11:50 AM
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Did you get this from a motivational poster? I felt like the next thing you'll write will be, "A lion doesn't tell sheep it's a lion"... you know something completely useless that tells one to be alpha. This sub really isn't meant for generic, unsolicited advice. Try r/Getmotivated.
/r/seduction08/08/17 01:10 AM
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I'm not in the business of giving pointers in how to practice or telling you what to do. Off the top of my head, you and your buddy should go take improv classes. You won't be alone with your friend, you'll gain confidence, and you'll learn how to keep a conversation going. Also, learning to think on your feet in a changing environment. Oh, sometimes there are women there too.
/r/seduction28/07/17 02:25 PM
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I don't follow things blindly. There is this thing called the scientific method. It's helped push us to amazing feats and gain a lot of valuable knowledge. Going against it would be idiotic, and usually anyone that supports it is trying to scam you. Go away, scammer.
/r/seduction28/07/17 02:23 PM
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Your number 1 problem: You refer to these women as 'your crush'. I don't know if your poor grammar and English is because you're not a native speaker, but I'm gathering other things from your post as well. Your 'crushes' are interested in other men because they don't see you as a viable option. That's your problem and not theirs. You're not demonstrating enough value to attract them or make them pay attention to you. That means you need to fix whatever is holding you back, my guess is that you'r…
/r/seduction28/07/17 11:02 AM
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I'm glad I didn't have any game in high school. I remember the guys that did, and had sex and I see where they are now. They peaked too early in life, wasted their golden years of life (18 to 29) by marrying and having kids waaaay too young. Most are divorced, and dull to talk to. I shudder at the thought of running into any of them in my life. Not having game in high school helped form me into a deep thinker, and become a more creative person. If I had been able to get with women at such a youn…
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:55 AM
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thats why i said these books are just prerequisites;) so tone down on the cynical shit. I think you missed the parts where I said it was a good book. The cynicism is very low, but I could definitely turn it up, if you'd like me to. Plus, coming from someone who's also well-informed about other dating programs (especially RSD, as I have Max's Natural top tier), the ideas in this book, particularly in the beginning, go way deeper than any other book/program I've had/experienced. I will give you th…
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:31 AM
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Online game is a huge waste of time. You seem to believe there are words, that if I told you what they were, and what order to say them in, then these attractive women would want to be with you. I hate saying it's not going to happen, but the chances of you being successful the way you want to be are just not in the cards. FEAR NOT, I'm not here to just shit on your parade and leave. Online game sucks because it's so low success wise. You have a better shot at working on your day game in a crowd…
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:24 AM
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You couldn't pay me 10,000 anything to hangout with these guys. They are stuck playing the same tricks, doing the same things and haven't adjusted. So if you want to throw your money away, or worse, your time away with these guys, then by all means do it.
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:15 AM
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There is no evidence to suggest that 'manipulating your subconscious' (something that one can't even show evidence that it has occurred) can correlate to real world success. Don't buy into this as an approved method, but rather work on more tangible goals and ideas.
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:11 AM
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How do you know if someone has read 'Models'? They won't stop talking about it. In all reality, it's a coveted book in modern dating/seduction. It's worth a read if anyone hasn't read it yet. My personal beef with it: All these books sell the same ideas to success, they just package it differently. It may speak to certain people, it may leave others scratching their heads (unlikely, it's a well written book.) It's a great read, but that's all it is. Men love to read, but the real thing most guys…
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:07 AM
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You know what your problem is, now fix it. You can't make eye contact with women you find attractive? Then try to make eye contact with women you find attractive without doing all the other things you listed. Will it be awkward at first? Yup. Only through practice will you find the right way to flirt using eye contact, but if you can master this practice, you will find that it's a very useful tool.
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:02 AM
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Is it possible? Yes. Are there better things to do at 17 with your time? LOTS. I don't want to cast your hopes and dreams of working on yourself, but at 17, there are many things to focus on that will help you go further than focusing on seduction. First, I'm going to guess that you still live at home. Living with family makes it hard to 'seduce' anyone. Where are you going to take someone back to? Your mom and dad's home? Not many women find that attractive, because it's not. What's that mean? …
/r/seduction28/07/17 09:57 AM
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Nope, it's your lack of confidence. I know, Im a stranger on the internet, and no matter what I say you won't believe me. A big part of that is because you don't believe in yourself. You HAVE to be tall and good looking to succeed? BULLSHIT. There are ways to succeed and meet a quality person to be happy with. You're hung up on superficial shit, lack confidence and EVERYONE and their mom can see it. It's a turn off. The only way to become more confident is to approach people, but you're giving u…
/r/seduction25/07/17 01:40 PM
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Why is this asked in every thread? You're going to point out that it's got to be the fact that he's tall and good looking as to why he's successful, right? This question smacks of insecurity. If you wonder why you're struggling, that's why. Even if OP is good looking and tall, that has nothing to do with your own methods. Don't use the "I need to be tall and good looking to be successful" excuse, it's getting fucking old. Im so tired of seeing this comment everywhere. It needs to be banned.
/r/seduction25/07/17 01:23 PM
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1.) Beating yourself up for missing an opportunity has negative consequences for you to build on. Don't do that. 2.) Sounds like you did the right thing. Sometimes you see an attractive person, but you don't have a good opportunity to approach. Opening a conversation while someone is with their parents is pretty damn bold. Could you have? Yes, of course, but looking at the environment, the probability of success was pretty low. You mentioned there was an age gap, if youre 31 and the person you'r…
/r/seduction26/06/17 11:14 AM
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Detail isn't the problem, it's what you focus on. That might be the issue with your game as well.
/r/seduction14/06/17 05:08 PM
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This write up is terrible. Sorry to be so blunt, but that's the facts. We don't get a good idea of what you're doing from your anecdotes, and we can't make any criticisms that way. You don't mention anything about you, just what you're doing. You also seem only to be in it to get paid, which is fine, but that goal really is what keeps you from what you want. Might I suggest instead of approaching thousands of women that you use that time for self-improvement? Sounds like that would be more usefu…
/r/seduction14/06/17 04:45 PM
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Grinding on women doesn't even come close to anything known as seduction. That is the absolute most PATHETIC way to try and engage any woman, anywhere anytime. Use your logical brain for a second, if you have one. The type of woman that gives you a three second look and then decides its okay for you to grind on her is probably not the type of chick you want to do anything with. The ones that do are desperate, crazy, or too drunk to care who you are. You don't want any of those three. What do mos…
/r/seduction01/05/17 07:55 AM
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That kind of thinking gets you the worst of the worst calibur women, because its the worst and laziest method.
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:17 AM
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This is common with women. Thing is, they make definite plans to go to a concert. They wouls make definite plans to see a celebrity. The would be there for a ton of things. If they cant say that about you, then move on. Tell them like you worded it. Dont take a maybe and if thats all they give, then do something different. Always leave the door open to getting back and dont be a dick. Just say, when you want to make solid plans send me a message, or better yet, call. They can change their minds,…
/r/seduction16/01/17 07:03 PM
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My point was get new friends or go out alone. If you're fighting friends, are they your real friends? Don't be that guy that says "Im going to focus on xyz, instead of women". They are annoying and hurt their social development. Get new friends, DONT DRINK (Seems like a break would be good) and go practice.
/r/seduction13/01/17 08:01 PM
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I am well aware of how my gender operates, but thank you for enlightening me further. There are times and places to "Give shit back", but in this case the dealing of shit is not conducive to OP's goal. Giving shit back and forth isnt always attractive to women, and I'm willing to bet friendly conversation that builds up friends is even more attractive to them. But hey, if that attitude works for you keep on keepin on. I just know how to actually help people and want to do that. You want to perpu…
/r/seduction13/01/17 05:01 PM
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Great advice. What other gems do you have, dad? Hit them back? Don't be a pussy? Your half assed reply isn't helping.
/r/seduction13/01/17 02:18 PM
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The "How do I get laid?" Posts are obnoxious. There is no set of actions that will guarantee you getting laid. Sorry if that bursts your bubble. Sounds like you've got a good start, you need to learn how to meet people, interact with them and change your own social behaviors to things that will increase your chances of getting laid. 1.) If you want to have sex with anothet human, you have to actually meet one (unless prostitution is where you want to go). That means getting out to where people g…
/r/seduction13/01/17 02:13 PM
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