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Model looking so a very good looking man but he doesn’t have to be a model just way better looking than the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:01 AM
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They are probably paying for every date and the woman is probably not attracted to them and is waiting till she can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:00 AM
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Cant find sources but it definitely makes sense. Women have lots of options so ofc they will choose the best looking ones. The best looking men have so many options so they will be more inclined to sleep around with lots of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:59 AM
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I cant find a source but I would say not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:57 AM
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For hookups women will use OLD and sleep with Chads. So if I go out and have a social life, she wont see me as potential for anything as I am average and she already has the Chad she is fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:52 AM
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Ive made a fake women dating account and it gets 1000s messages within a week. Whereas mine gets 2 literally 2 as an average looking man!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:16 PM
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Okay. Good looking men date ugly women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:15 PM
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No but its common knowledge. They just do it for money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:15 PM
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Surely you are like 40+ if you think most women don’t have IG. Most women aged 20 do have it. Ive seen women hookup with men through dating sites
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:13 PM
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Lmao. Nah I aint as ludicrous as that. I speak a lotta truth I am sure. Women have 1000s of options to date through OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:11 PM
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Im sorry. I change it to very good looking men (top 5%)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:08 PM
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The escorts just do it for money. Most pretend to be attracted to their clients. Really they want the thing to go by quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:08 PM
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Alright well men who could pass for male model. Im talking men who are very good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:07 PM
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Make some ludicrous ones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:05 PM
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For Instagram its the same plus women get Instagram dms. Also how do you know women use less online dating and why is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:05 PM
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Im not talking actual male models. But males with very good looks and height I dont have a Canadian gf I never had a gf as dating is hard for 5’11 men with average faces
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:03 PM
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Escorts are rarely attracted to men they see. Like seriously do you think an escort would accept the mans advances if he was a guy chatting her up somewhere else outside of her escort based platform?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:03 PM
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Idk how I would. I could send a photo of the woman thats about it. She told me he was 6’4 and buying her food all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:01 PM
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Its going to vary from country to country. Lets do the UK I cant prove its 98% but I think for men and women aged 18-25, 40% are dating someone this doesn’t gaurentee sexual attraction, for the other 60%: 90% of these women have a fwb or have hookups, 10% of these men have fwb or hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:00 PM
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You wouldn’t know people local to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:57 PM
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But these guys had to pay a lot of money for it from a woman who would never do it if he wasn’t a client. Also he would have to wear a condom with an escort. I count sex as a dude who got a woman to be sexually attracted to him and have sex with him. No paying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:52 PM
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The Chad be the desired male tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:50 PM
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I understand I need to put effort if I wish to post. It is no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:50 PM
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It doesn’t count. It wasn’t by a woman who desired them so without escorts plenty of men would be unable to have sex or date women. Are you tryna say you struggle to find love as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:47 PM
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Easy mode for women in dating but fair enough for your echo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:44 PM
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Sorry didnt mean to word it this way. I mean the 400lb men never get gfs who are attracted to them and simp for them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:44 PM
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Why are women out here praising men who are packing. See it more often than not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:43 PM
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Most women they get to choose who they want out of the 1000 men in their dms
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:40 PM
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Have you considered some of these men use escorts to lose virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:38 PM
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No way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:36 PM
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Well either some extremely lucky one or how women have easy dating choices. This guy was 6’4, muscular, his face did have an overbite but still an attractive guy tho and he bought her food
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:33 PM
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Yeah tbh this is the less important trait. Being 6’4 with an 8 inch downstairs is way more important. Don’t forget the money lad as your girl will be expecting you to pay for dates. If you dont do this then she will go on her dating apps and meet another guy with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:22 PM
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These ugly men are probably misogynistic from rejection and realisation that their bad genetics have screwed them over. Tell me why 400lb women are dating male models who buy them food while 400lb men are non existent and even 150lb menn like myself are non existent. This dating game aint equal it aint even close. Men are so desperate its mens fault but women benefit highly from the desperation of men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:18 PM
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Nope looks are what matters to women. Misogyny can be hidden a bad face cannot. Plus women date good looking misogynistic men. Men struggle way more with dating. Havent you seen anything on how many options a womans dating account gets? Have you seen how women get dms on instgram too? Easy mode.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 06:09 PM
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U old guys don’t understand how much social media ruined dating for men
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:52 PM
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Everything i just mentioned is facts lol
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:49 PM
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Therapy for spitting facts and knowing the truth
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:31 PM
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I can absorb new information but it seems like it is lies to m ake me feel better
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 04:13 PM
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I am way more blackpill than redpill. The reason why I still believe in blackpill is because I have seen it to be true from real life expierience. I will only change if the blackpill isn't true but it is. Thank you for your contributions and I will need a lot of luck. Have a great day.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 02:09 PM
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Intimacy and relationships are very important. I am sure if women started to struggle in dating (Lets say 99% of men died), then we would see women feeling sad about their poor love life and it would affect their ability to enjoy life. Its how humans work. Because dating is so easy for women and they never face lonliness, then dating is a small priority. Just like how healthy people don't focus on health much but an ill person thinks having great health is the most important thing. We want what …
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 02:06 PM
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Men are expected to be masculine and not cry. Sure some women will say cry but that can lead to the woman not respecting him. I can see how women have to put their foot down on things before they get too big. Its not so much about my perspective. Its to do with the fact I will never live in a womans shoes so I won't know. Just like how you won't know what its like for men. I think we both just gotta say this is a debate that will probably never end in the community. I bet in 1000 years time we w…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 02:02 PM
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Struggles with sex? Dating?? Lonliness??? I am starting to think the women on this forum are 40 years old+ (Relevance being growing up in different generation), never downloaded any dating apps (Relevance being seeing how many options women get on these apps), never looked into how AVERAGE Men struggle with dating (Relevence being being able to know and compare). I swear you look at your very attractive rich guy friends and think that is how dating is for most men. When in reality only 5% of men…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:51 PM
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You lot usually have fwbs around so sure women may not sleep with lots of guys but they have sex with that special guy or they are in a relationship which is also very easy for them to get. Woman struggling to find someone to date? Then she must have high standards and those standards would be very good looking, 6'2+, whatever size preference she has, money, good personality, masculine.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:38 PM
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I understand women aren't interested in it as much as men. But most of them sure do have that guy they are routinely seeing. Why would she be interested in meeting a new guy when she already has one. Meanwhile most men don't have that girl they routinely see and some men like myself are still virgins. Meanwhile most women have sex once a month or more. They usually keep an fwb around while they try for relationships with other men.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:35 PM
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Is she one of the few women? I mean sure 10 inches is a bit on the bigger size and some women won't like it but 7-8 inch dicks are the most well liked.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:32 PM
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I hear women saying they like big dicks online and in person. I have seen one girl say she liked 5 inches the best and I was truly amazed. Only one case here vs like 200 saying big dicks are better. Also girth is important too. Gotta be thick. As for reddit women I don't know if they are lying to try make me positive. I am hopless because women have too many options to want to date a broke, average looking, average height man, average dick man.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:30 PM
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What women say and their actions are two different things. Sure average height and dick may be okay if the guy is good looking. Ideal male height for dating is 6'2 to 6'6. I believe height is way more important. Id rather be 6'6 with 6 inches than 5'11 with 8 inches Edit: forgot to add what it would take to convince me. What it will take is for me to see lots of women bigging up average dicks. Also for height I would need women saying tall men are too tall for them. Instead its oh he is only 6'0…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:25 PM
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I have heard romours that big women tend to like big dicks as the dick needs to be long enough to reach past her fat.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:23 PM
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Im pretty sure size queens are common
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 11:45 AM
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Lol or al being the only benefit to average dick
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 11:43 AM
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It proves looks are the most important for dating life
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 11:42 AM
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If this is true why have I seen women in real life roast men with small dicks? Sure a small number of women like 5 inches but 7-8 inches appeals to a broad amount of women.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 11:10 AM
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Yes how did you know? He is a bit deluded to go this over the top. He does forget there are some good women out there. But they have the easy mode going for them. Now I am going to do a parody of an extremely blue pill kid: Young women hardly have any options even the good looking ones last had a boyfriend 2 years ago. Women face rejection all the time from even ugly men. Women definately have it harder when it comes to dating. A friend of mine got cat called on the street by a guy and now her l…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 11:06 AM
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I don't. Women get all these options so they aint gonna settle. Women complain about some guy catcalling them yet say that makes their lives harder than a 20 year old virgin with no love live. They sit in their fancy apartments paid and built by men, drinking expensive wines with their model boyfriends and having sex and intimacy with him often yet say men like me should be happy with no partners and work hard so I can spend all my money on them when she is a 40 year old single mother and be cal…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 09:07 PM
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It is hard if you arent tall or good looking
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 08:18 PM
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This is just the first post on women having it better. Soon I will post another one which isn't based on casual sex. Its harder now for men to get sex. More and more men are virgins and only attractive men get chosen by women. Also women may not be interested in too much casual sex. But they are still enjoying it when they want it.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 08:06 PM
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Thank you for your very true message. How does frequent casual sex effect women emotionally?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 08:03 PM
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Good points made. Women have the privillege to wear makeup. Men get shamed. I would put 30 mins into making my face better but I cant. Also women tend to have ice cream. Only with the guys they want ice cream with.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 08:02 PM
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Men struggle way more at dating. Has this been a problem for you?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 08:00 PM
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Thank you for this. Her ex is in the past. I wish I was the best looking she had but its not the way the world works. I will buy the book power of now. I take rejection personally because I want a girlfriend or casual sex if I can't get a girlfriend.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 07:57 PM
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She makes no money off this. She is just doccumenting her expieriences. Some women can enjoy casual sex and may not be ready for relationship
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 07:55 PM
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Why not do both? Also I would love to have casual sex with a woman I am interested in as a person. I am sure she would enjoy the expierience more too.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 07:50 PM
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Most women who are single are so by choice. Its easy for women to be single as they get casual sex or fwbs to ease their feelings. Most single men are forced to be due to the blackpill and they are sexually frustrated. Single women are seen as queens by society yet single men are seen as incels. Single women are happy because they get to enjoy sex aswell as tons of simps in their dms validating them. Gosh I wish I was a woman. Maybe next time I will get lucky and be one in the western world.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 07:43 PM
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Women have tons of options so they don't wanna settle for an average man. They know gigachad is attractive, rare and has tons of options so they will do whatever it takes to please him.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 07:39 PM
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I think I need to learn the 'everything else' thing you are talking about. Perhaps I could pick up some modern day feminist books? I do get miserable because of they way I think. I thank that you have shown my way of thinking wasn't productive when I went to the feminist subreddit. I hear TRP say that women just want men to be simps for women as it benefits them not men. I also hear them say she will never respect a feminist man and they like misogynist men. I also believe that if I became a fem…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 07:03 PM
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So even if I am an average looking, young, respectable man? Was Cardi B an escort? What did she say about men who pay for sex in her tracks?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:51 PM
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I get access to easy sex is one reason why I wish I was a woman. However I would still wish to be a woman even if I was an asexual one. So I am basically saying that even without sex into consideration, women have it easier. I do need to learn more about women as not only for womens benefit but for my own because you could say I am deluded but I believe being a young western woman is the pinnacle of the human expierience. This delusion makes me depressed and ruins my potential relationships with…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:41 PM
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So 6 inches is actually good? Bigger seems like it would be better as bigger usually indicates high testosterone levels in puberty which signals a hormonally healthy man. As for height I feel like girls only settle for a man under 6'0 if he is good looking or the woman is looking to settle down with someone nice. Usually when a woman thinks of a sexually appealing man it is 6'4, masculine face, masculine body and good looking.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:50 PM
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Is it really a big deal if a woman is unattractive? I still think she has it amazing. Tons of options still. For porn, I am pretty sure its common knowledge in men that to please a woman you have to lick her out and stimulate the clitourous (I hope I spelt that right as it wouldn't be a good look if I didn't). Also I am sure a woman is going to reject a mans porn sick advances. Like lets say she arranges casual sex with a 6'4 good looking man, then the man starts asking to do sick things to her,…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:46 PM
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Casual sex may not cure lonliness but I think you underestimate how much of an effect a few hours a night 2 times a week would have an effect on improving ones mental health compared with never getting anything like a lot of men. Height is a big factor. For the short men who get laid its usually because they are good looking. Also this generation is different to the old one. Women are a lot more pickier than the woman of the previous generations. This is because dating apps like tinder and bumbl…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:41 PM
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I am guessing the ideal is a man who has a good sized dick aswell as knows how to use other parts of his and the womans body to give pleasure?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:37 PM
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I can desire both
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 06:19 PM
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Get a better job takes a lot of work. I do have to pay because I am average looking. Women can replace the guy with no effort. Lots of men will like her for who she is.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 04:33 PM
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They do women always want a guy in the 7-8 range for casual sex
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 03:54 PM
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That is an interesting new take on it. Women seem like they have more power in dating but that dynamic you said is kind of like how it works.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 01:30 PM
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Yes I can pay for it but thats like 20% of my monthly wage for one time. Meanwhile a woman doesn't have to pay for it and she can keep seeing this guy often. Plus when the woman has casual sex she knows her male partner is attracted to her. Meanwhile with an escort we all know they won't be attracted to the man. So it's really easy for women to get casual sex. But if men use escorts its not easy due to financial cost, time restrictions and lack of chemistry. I do understand and agree with your o…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 01:28 PM
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I do the bins. My friends are male and one is in a relationship but he is good looking.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 01:19 PM
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I know but shit like this is why I hate being a man. I wanna be a woman so I can have the casual sex you lot have.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 01:17 PM
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Why do men have low standards for sex even though in porn they watch surgucally sculpted bodies? Also is it common to come across a man who wants crazy sexual practices? I don't know much about this topic but it does interest me. I personally have no crazy sexual practises I desire luckily but I also don't watch porn.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 01:11 PM
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So why do women have intercourse if its not very pleasureable? Also while orgasm does feel good, its not the only part of sex. The act of penetration for a good amount of time also feels good and I would assume its the same for the woman as long as the mans dick is big and girthy enough for her.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 01:08 PM
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Casual sex does feel awesome and validating but if the girl left after the deed was done it could be very saddening. Why doesn't casual sex help with womens lonliness? Environment does play a role in a persons looks. I have good looking parents, but I mouth breathed, underate as a kid and only ate junk food and not enough protein. This lead to my face being much longer and less masculine than my dads. Also height plays a huge role in a mans attractivness and when I go out there are a lot of men …
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 01:06 PM
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Pleasure does come from intercourse otherwise why would women have it especially with the pain and pregnancy risk?
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:54 PM
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What if you are only an average man? I would be invisible to an unattractive woman who has 1000s of options. I see I have come across women who have wanted me to pay for everything.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:52 PM
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Can porn make women develop fetishes for large penises? I am staying away from porn myself as I think its not good for men or women to watch it.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:49 PM
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I understand this but why does she have to say 10 inch dick? That would make me feel like I won't be getting an easy... I would get rejected just on that but then also loads of other factors
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:48 PM
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Im sure a lot of women would rather it 7-8 inches rather than 6
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:47 PM
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I would take your advice as you would know more if you have had sex with over 50 men and spoken to women about this topic. By average do you mean 6 inches? Also I have heard women who are larger in size and weight prefer bigger penises is that true? I can only see slim women liking average size. Whenever I go outside I see the 6'2 good looking men with girlfriends and the 5'6 ugly men sitting alone.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:46 PM
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I would offer her love, commitment and humanity. Also tons of good looking men treat women as objects and get sex. Meanwhile ugly dudes who treat women as people don't get sex.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:42 PM
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Casual sex or a girlfiend ideally a girlfriend but I would be happy with casual sex as right now no one is in my life. Its so depressing that extremely attractive/rich/tall/big size men are sleeping with tons of women. This is because these women fall in love with these men as they have it all. But then these men break their hearts. But because of how great it felt for the woman to sleep with the attractive guy, she doesn't want to settle and go for the average looking man because she wants to d…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:40 PM
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Very true in the rare events an average man does get love from a woman, he should do his best to appear confident in himself.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:30 PM
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It cannot be altered. Small penis is a problem. Yes you can learn all the things to be a good lover but a big dick helps a lot. Plus there are always men who are good lovers with a big dick.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:28 PM
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a) Lots of men are looking for sex but women have a good amount of men looking for relationships. Most men have no options for sex or relationships. b) I agree c) Yes but still tons of single men around Why would a self respecting woman refuse a situation where a man always pays? She has the power to have him pay all the time.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:25 PM
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So it is true most women worry a guy is just spending time with her and dating her because of her body?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:54 PM
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It was a Instagram model who was saying about her sexual experiences she has with 2-3 guys each week. 10 inches is too big though. I think 7-8 is the ideal.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:49 PM
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Thank you for your comment and I will try my best yo stay positive. I do know women will become mature. One fear I have though is will she actually be attracted to me if she has had attractive men in her past?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:46 PM
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I agree with everything said here. Like I said I am not a big fan of being a man.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:44 PM
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Is menstruation painful?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:43 PM
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Not in college and no clubs. I work and I have 3 friends IRL.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:42 PM
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I want to unlearn my own biases against women and understand the disadvantages they face especially when they say men have it easier. It makes me curious why they believe this. Plenty of women have said they would swap places with me yet im verging on depression due to the comparison of my life to theirs. So its time for me to unlearn the redpill, unlearn the misogyny, and learn what women go through because if they wanna swap places with me I must have something going for me as a man. I dont do…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:38 PM
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Just to confirm they were average men, were they tall or have muscles because that can raise a man’s attractiveness outside of his face. I chase all types of women and do understand where you are coming from. What does classically handsome mean? Im guessing its not a Chad. As for the size thing I have come across women who say they like 10 inch dicks. Id say 8 inches is the goldilocks zone and below 6 inches is too small. I am 6 inches myself so on the borderline.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:22 PM
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I suppose this feels similar to men when they worry women will only like them for money (what they can provide). Women must get pissed off that most men are only after them for their bodies.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:16 PM
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I love this perspective just like other commenters. Tbh I think its all my fault. I got indoctrinated by the redpill cult who said things like women live life on easy mode and when they deny it they lying so men can continue to simp for them. But in reality life is just different for both genders. I wish I could experience life as a woman for a bit even without the casual sex just so I can understand what y’all go through. The redpill likes to make men feel like they got given the short end of t…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:14 PM
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Not just sex but also relationships and men struggle to get these too as woman have so many options for relationships. Also men are expected to pay for all the dates and be expected to be lucky to have her as the woman has all the power and the man has to be the one who is disposable.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:02 PM
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Your starting sentence I don’t agree with. All women have access to it easier than men do. Unless the man is in top 5% then he may have it easier than unattractive women. I agree that casual sex could be overrated. However just because it isn’t the peak of human existence doesn’t mean its not a good experience. Im guessing you are a man and I do agree that some women may not want casual sex even if its easy for them to get. I agree these are incel talking points but I am pretty sure things like …
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 01:00 PM
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Yes very true. I am a straight guy but had some gay dudes hit on me online. The attention seemed great at first as I felt attractive and powerful and totally in control over everything. But then I started to feel uncomfortable as these dudes got more pushy and in the end I deleted them. I suppose thats just like how women feel about attention. I suppose they want to come across a dude online who doesn’t sexualise them and wants to get to know them as a person. As for dating being easier I am jus…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 12:30 PM
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I agree its not like “all men have… all women have…”. I wouldn’t say plenty of average men have hookups just a few do. I agree some women would love to have sex but I dont believe the boundaries you listed are much a problem. An ugly woman can easily have sex so looks aren’t a problem for her. A shy woman can easily have sex unless its her shyness is so severe she is scared of people. Theres men out there myself included who would love to be with an awkward woman. Location I mean unless she live…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 12:19 PM
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Wow I am so happy for your two male friends. Have they fully let go do you think? Has their dating life changed?
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 06:05 PM
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I guess your goals in life dictate if its better to be a man or woman. Im not too bothered about education or money. I prefer intimacy and sex so being a woman would be the easiest way to get it. I also would like the feeling of being spoiled by a guy and having him pay for everything for me. So thats why the woman life appeals to me.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 12:57 PM
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What are the social disadvantages?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 09:20 PM
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True. Its a weird one this whole situation men say women have it better. Women say men have it better. It’s probably somewhere in between.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 09:12 PM
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Yes true although these women put no effort I didn’t mind
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 09:11 PM
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Ive only ran into women who didn’t offer to pay on dates.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 09:04 PM
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A lot of women do use this power. Also when they are lonely they can easily invite a guy over to chill and cuddle.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 09:03 PM
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Im glad. I think the blackpill and redpill makes life seem like its hell. But maybe its somewhere inbetween.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:58 PM
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I really dont care if a woman has money. I just like it if she goes 50/50 sometimes
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:54 PM
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I understand it would lose its novelty but it seems like a great power to have. I think getting an escort is the best solution for me because then I will be having sex and that should remove some of my envy.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:54 PM
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Yes I agree meanwhile virgin shows somethings wrong unless he is saving it for special one
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:43 PM
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They probably deep down resent the fact they had to settle. Its human nature men do it too
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:42 PM
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If both these women were the same, id marry the rich one. However a woman with money isn’t something I think about when dating
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:42 PM
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Fair enough. What can I do about hating the fact I am a man? It seems like women live great dating lives and can easily sleep with someone attractive and not have to worry about going years without anything.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:40 PM
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I agree. Also I thought women are attracted to men with high body counts.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:39 PM
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Women seem to love money though
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:34 PM
1

So these Chad fuckboys with partner counts of 100 deep down desire LTR?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:31 PM
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They will think they deserve him so they will wait or pressure their man to work harder when he doesn’t want to.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:27 PM
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Very true. Caring about the woman is a form of investment. The redpill likes to say that LTRs are bad for men because men should just have STRs as they dont have to invest.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:26 PM
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I think a lot of women will think they can do better and get a man who pays all their bills because they have options.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:21 PM
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Because why should a man spend all this money on his girlfriend when a very good looking man got her to be his sex partner for free. Men might aswell spend that money on themselves and watch porn.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:19 PM
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I understand that women have to raise children. But what if they dont want children? Men have to work hard for this LTR while the woman just has to exist and enjoy being spoiled. Long term relationships benefit women because of money.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:17 PM
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So wouldn’t this prove MGTOW as being the best for 95% of men?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:11 PM
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From a mans perspective yes.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:08 PM
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Wdym its so unfair most guys have to work and give a woman money for this long term relationship. Meanwhile a woman can get sex whenever she wants and long term relationships benefit the woman more than the man too. Dating is a losing game for most men. If nature didn’t select you, don’t negotiate.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:08 PM
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See dating is so unfair to men. Its only good if you are in top 5% of attractiveness. All the other 95% men should give up and go MGTOW
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:01 PM
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It sounds way better to have the short term relationship.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:00 PM
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Idk if an ordinary woman will think she is better than me. Probably most will. However I would encourage women to feel like they are better than men because it is true. Women have huge advantages to dating and men have only like one advantage and its useless most of the time.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:57 PM
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So women are less selective when it comes to long term relationships?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:55 PM
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Yeah men will be selective for long term relationships. I feel like the long term relationships are bad for men because they have to give a lot of money and resources to women whereas for the short term ones the attractive men only get them and they dont need to give resources or money.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:54 PM
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Isnt that like saying an unattractive man should date a single mother because she got the attractive mans sperm and now she wants the ugly guys recourses.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:51 PM
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I dont think they are wild assumptions I explained how because she has a lot of guys in her dms this makes her feel like a queen. She knows I am unattractive so she knows I wont have any other options. This gives her superiority. You are right she was probably annoyed with what I said so it was actually me giving attitude to her.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:47 PM
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Women probably do 80% of dumps. Also just read anisogamy and what I learned is male sperm is cheap and male reproduction is to select anyone. While female eggs are expensive and female reproduction is to select the best genetics. This confirms that in dating women have all the power and that men are disposable.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:40 PM
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She most likely thought she was better than me. She was 400lbs but she knew she was attractive as she had a 6’4 ex bf plus plenty of other men buying her food and sending her money. She knew I was an average looking virgin who had no other women in his life. It was easy for her to know she was the one with all the power. For the attitude thing, she turned her back to me and didnt talk to me all night. Our perspectives on the matter will be different. I do not consider her beneath me. I am the on…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:33 PM
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I doubt men dump women. Its always men getting dumped as women know another dude is 10 mins away while men know another woman is 3 months away unless he is very attractive. I have personally seen this twice.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:29 PM
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No these women dates these guys for 6 months. Im gonna check out anisogamy. I have never heard of it. Been busy working hard today while some woman made the same money as I did from onlyfans. Then I went to the gym (an activity I hate) just so I can look more attractive (women can be attractive without having to lift heavy things).
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:28 PM
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I forgot to answer your final paragraph. My mindset isn’t helping for sure but also I am not womens type physically due to unattractive face, short, feminine. So women can enjoy the tall good looking men instead as it was how nature intended anyway. Arguing isn’t helping for sure but theres not much solution to this. Women aren’t horrible. They are just lucky and doing what I would of done in their situation.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:25 PM
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Sorry to hear about the broken condom thing. Surely the father would of raised the child with you. True I agree I will never understand women. There are disadvantages to being a woman yet I would definitely trade my male life for a female one in a heartbeat. I think I have a low sex drive so being a virgin wont be too much of a problem for me but I am jealous at how women are enjoying sex every week with their man. Plus sex is more enjoyable for women as men do all the physical plus women dont h…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:22 PM
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She could of been using me for money. It doesn’t matter if she wanted to have sex with me. Our dates should be 50/50 and if she wants sex then sure. If she doesn’t no biggie. It was attitude.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:13 PM
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Its not my child. So thats why I will stay away from single mothers.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:10 PM
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Thank you for your support. Also will NoFap 90 days improve my bedroom performance. I am worried I have given myself death grip.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:09 PM
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Ive seen these 6’4 boyfriends stick around and even get dumped by the woman.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:07 PM
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For sex men date down and I am pretty sure for LTR men do date down but not to the same extent for sex. Plenty of single virgin young men yet not many young women are single or virgins.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 12:06 PM
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Very true. She was one of those women that expected the man to pay for everything
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 10:04 PM
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Thank you for this. Yes the women who go on dates are usually interested in me so the hard work pays off. Thank you for helping me understand.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:50 PM
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Thank you. I will go check it out. Question for you in the meantime. If you were an average looking woman would you swap places with an average looking man?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:31 PM
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Im pretty sure rape and assault by a hookup would be rare. Like 1 in 1000. I am sorry that does happen and that indeed is one disadvantage of being a woman. I know casual sex isn’t amazing for women but why do they continue to still do it?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:28 PM
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Men will get rejected for being too short or ugly or bald head. Also cant the man wear protection so the single mother here just remains at one child?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:26 PM
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I said attractive man not supermodel. Attractive man is like 20th to 5th percentile of men. He could be heartbroken if his average gf breaks up with him because now he has to do the work again and find another girl which wont be easy as he is competing with another 25 men just like him. There is plenty of proof that men date down in looks. I have seen very unattractive women get 6’4 boyfriends.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:23 PM
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Even 100 messages is enough. Its simple. If she is getting 100 or 1000s messages, she knows she can replace men easily as there are plenty of offers
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:20 PM
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Yes a lot of men have poor dating lives
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:19 PM
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I understand sex for women comes with risks. But if a guy is bad in bed because he is disposable she can swap him for some other guy. Also women have longer orgasms and dont have to worry about Erectile dysfunction.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:19 PM
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She can get another attractive man. Yes the guy would enjoy the sex and the time he spent with her but he would be heartbroken if she decided to get rid of him over something small like not buying her dinner often.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:16 PM
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A man has more to lose if he loses his woman. The ratio is 1:1 but men are more desperate and men get like 10 messages a month. Women get 1000.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:59 PM
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Yes. Plenty of single mother get boyfriends. Just not high value ones or attractive men
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:58 PM
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Undesirable woman is like 1% of women to me. Ones who are very deformed. Just an unattractive face is fine. I would date a single mother but I dont want to raise her child or provide for the child.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:57 PM
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Dating as a single mum isn’t as easy as dating as a young woman. But it is still easier than the dating struggles of 90% of men.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:45 PM
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I do. Not even an attractive one just a normal or even below average woman.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:44 PM
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Women are disposable when its a high value man top 5% of men. But for 95% of men they are the disposable ones. Once a woman leaves her man she can find a new one within a day with little effort if she wants. If she waits a week then she will have more options that are better. Meanwhile it can take the same man hundreds of hours of effort and rejection aswell as many months of no action or women. So when men get dismissed its a long way back. When women get dismissed they can easily find a replac…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:43 PM
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Not usually but a woman doesn’t need a mans commitment these days. Men are useless we might aswell move to Mars.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:40 PM
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I get in prehistoric times before birth control and things sex with 100 men wouldn’t be as evolutionary rewarding as a mans sex with 100 women. But if we look at it from a modern perspective, while a woman may still not enjoy sex with 100 men. She easily has the power to have sex with 1 attractive man and has the power over him as he is disposable to her. The effort needed by this man is usually high whereas the woman doesn’t need to do much to bring him to bed. I am interested in learning why b…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:38 PM
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Hope you also see this. I went into a ramble and forgot to update you about the woman I was seeing. Unfortunately my redpill insecurities and misogyny got the better of me. I was an asshole and I paid the price. What happened was she had a good looking 6’4 ex boyfriend and this made me incredibly insecure. Also I noticed she never paid her half on any of the dates we went on. So I felt like I was being used for my money and that she felt superior to me. I calles her out on it and she had attitud…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:30 PM
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Ive been down this rabbit hole myself so I think we can relate. I checked your post history and its safe to say whether a woman gets easy sex or not is shouldnt be your priority right now. Your mental health must be. I understand part of your depression could be caused by being physically unattractive and the jealousy of women but if you aren’t happy then these things will make you jealous of sad. Focus on your happiness and watch how what other people are doing with their lives becomes irreleva…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:33 PM
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I understand racism exists. But for dating I dont think race holds a man back if he is attractive. There are also different versions of what is attractive but I do understand that usually looks are more objective than subjective. Women like different things. Some like white guys, some like black guys, some like asian guys. Usually its the attractive guys of these races that succeed but personally I think race isn’t much of a factor in dating. Your looks and personality are way bigger factors. Al…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 01:24 PM
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As an unattractive guy myself. I am in a similar position. I may be white but its not as great as it sounds. Usually its only the good looking white guys and good looking men who are POC who have an easier time dating. So I personally dont think your race is holding you back. But I could be wrong and I apologise if I am. In my opinion the redpill mindset as well as your looks are holding you back. Its a combination cocktail of the two which is the most lethal. I am a man in a similar position to…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 01:09 PM
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That is a good suggestion for today. I have a lot on my plate as my main priority to detox from redpill mindset because it is holding me back in so many ways.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 03:58 PM
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She wasn’t pressuring me into getting an escort she gave her advice and knowledge on the subject. I do feel uncomfortable having sex with a stranger for money but the reasoning is different. I am uncomfortable with having sex in general even if it was with a woman I care about. I would get performance anxiety as I wouldn’t want to disappoint in bed and for the woman to leave me. Its also hard for me to find a woman where we share a connection and she is also attracted to me and vice versa and al…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 03:56 PM
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You are spot on there. I need to have a hard think about things as I am avoiding responsibility of my own life and that needs to change.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 03:50 PM
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Yes that is the ideal. When I study something Ill keep the job too if I can.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 03:46 PM
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True I do need to turn my life around. For too long I have been content with being a loser and I gotta snap out of it.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 03:46 PM
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Thank you so much it was a great read
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 03:45 PM
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Yes I am optimistic about the coach. She has recommended I listen to subliminals in my sleep. I am not sure if it works lol but its worth a try. My most limiting belief is the importance of looks and height for attracting women. Unfortunately you cant change your looks however I hope there is a solution. I need to get the job done regardless of my looks. I may be at a disadvantage because of my looks and I understand that this will set things in so called ‘stone’. But I must so the best with wha…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:22 PM
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Thank you. I agree that my mentality is poor and is defeatist. Ideally I need to change my thoughts, somehow destroy my jealousy of women, and improve my life by taking care of myself.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 04:20 PM
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I definitely think its over. I cannot relate to people at all. Im glad one of your favourite person in the world has autism. Losing my virginity in 7 years time sounds utter painful! I feel like autistic women have it way easier due to the fact women have dating easier aswell as the fact guys dont care too much about if a woman is autistic My undesirable ambition is that I have no desire to live and am accepting with whatever comes my way. My lack of ambition is a turn off
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 03:09 AM
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I think its over. Im autistic, average looking and only 5’11 short. Women laugh at the way I act. I don’t understand how to socialise. I think getting an escort will be the best way forward but even then I will have performance anxiety. As for self reflection. I would be my friend but I wouldn’t want to date myself due to my looks, ambition and personality
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 10:45 PM
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Yeah the redpill definitely ruines everything about my personality for me and the blackpill made me insecure as hell.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 08:37 PM
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My weak point in my misogyny is that I feel down about the fact that from my perspective women have easy dating lives. Hopefully you are aware that on dating sites they get lots of messages. I have noticed a lot of women tend to usually be dating someone or will have a fwb. Very few go years without any kind of action so to speak. I could be wrong but dating definitely seems easier as a woman and men seem to be easily replaceable unless he is ultra attractive.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 07:00 PM
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Is that why the redpill likes to tell men that women enjoy being humiliated in bed? Humiliating a woman in bed doesn’t come natural to me and would be a forced action
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 06:25 PM
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I feel like I am a misogynist myself but I still have, would do and would use the capacity to give the escort I am seeing respect as I would want her to feel safe and I wouldn’t want to ruin the experience for her or myself.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 06:10 PM
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I understand it could easily turn into a bad habit. Its a big and tough decision to make. Would the best of both worlds be to work on myself and when I achieve something big. Reward myself with an escort visit? Like 90 days NoFap then I can visit an escort?
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 06:08 PM
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I do see where you are coming from. There are downsides to this however I believe a one time thing with an escort is a great way to learn how to have good sex and please a woman rather than being an awkward virgin that turns her off.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 06:00 PM
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Yes apparently some guys can be assholes to escorts I don’t understand why. My intentions when I go there is to feel a connection, respect her, and have a great time with her. Id best comes to best I can become a friend and a regular client of hers.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 05:57 PM
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Thank you and there are countries are know where it is legal. I agree honesty in relationships is very important and I will tell the women I meet in the future that I have slept with an escort. I will also get tested after.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 05:56 PM
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Very true. I need to work on my mentality because I feel very child like. I think it also affects my confidence with women as I feel like their child rather than their equal.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 04:32 PM
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I love the job I am currently doing
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 04:30 PM
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Basically blackpill and redpill made me think in a bad way so I essentially gave up on life but looking to fight back if it’s possible
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 04:29 PM
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The blackpill ruined my life mentality. I slipped into Nihilism and essentially became proud of being a loser who is a virgin. So I didnt go college and was happy with my minimum wage job. My mum pressures me to get a better job but I reply “ill never get a girlfriend and I dont want children so I don’t need more money” its a bit of a mess.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 04:15 PM
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Im glad that a lot of women wouldn’t be too bothered. I agree that if a man slept with a lot of escorts it would be a problem. Do you think it would be a problem if a man slept with only one escort but had frequent visits with her in his past?
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 04:11 PM
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Yes I do have a minimum wage job. I agree that sex is the least of my problems as the money needs to flow in aswell as working on my mentality.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 04:05 PM
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Thats a long story with what happened with the girl. To sum it up my own insecurities and misogyny let me down unfortunately but I am hoping there is a solution. I have paid a female dating coach to hopefully change my mentality on women and the way I see myself.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 04:00 PM
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I do have a job but rent would be like 60% of my total wages. I also have a car and petrol is damn expensive at the moment
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:54 PM
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20 years old and I dont have enough money to move out. I have a few thousand so I can afford an escort though.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:52 PM
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I still live with her and she tracks my location on my phone and always asks where I am going when I leave the house. So she could find out. If I dont answer my phone when I am out the house she gets annoyed.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:51 PM
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I am worried my mother will find out or I will have performance anxiety and my dick wont work. Aswell as catching a disease even with a condom.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:42 PM
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Thank you. It does sound like a positive community. I am going to check it out. Yeah the world was on lockdown for a year so technically I am kind of like a 19 year old virgin haha. On a side note sorry about a few days ago. I was very misogynistic and I need to work on that. Perhaps seeing an escort could offer a better perspective on women but I certainly need to work on it.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:37 PM
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It does sound like a very plausible option. I personally think the decision to do this will benefit my life. I do worry about performance anxiety and inability to get or maintain an erection however its definitely worth the go. How do you think women I meet in the future will react to my use of an escort? Luckily I dont have social anxiety. I just crave sex and intimacy and have performance anxiety.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:26 PM
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I heard some rumours that some escorts on websites are actually male gang members
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:23 PM
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Thank you. Is my fear of getting attacked justified?
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:22 PM
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Yes you are right. She will have dealt with men more unattractive than me and I have had a few women choose to kiss me in the past so I am probably not that bad.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:09 PM
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Yes very true. However I dont want her to be disgusted by my appearance as it will make her feel uncomfortable. I personally wouldn’t enjoy having sex with a 70 year old woman for money so I am sure she could feel the same way about unattractive men, disgusted by the act. But it is just a service and I am probably not disgusting looking I just want the woman to feel comfortable with me and enjoy herself.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:05 PM
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Very true I understand attraction takes time to build. But I am sure the escort would know if she is attracted to the client. If a good looking man turns up she will probably like him physically but if an ugly man turns up she will be put off by him physically. Yes I would like the escort I am seeing to do constructive criticism as I can handle ugly truths very well. I like to know when I am doing a shit job.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 03:01 PM
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I would say fake as in the escort could pretend I am very attractive and say I am doing a good job in bed even if in actuality I am unattractive and poor in bed.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 02:57 PM
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Thank you yes I agree. I do feel ‘dirty’ so to speak with seeing an escort because society makes it out that way. I may also feel immoral by doing this. I understand the whole experience will be fake but I think I can accept that.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 02:35 PM
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Ive seen it myself though. Average looking guys always gotta get the wallet out and be expected to feel lucky in a womans presence. Whereas good looking men are what women truly desire. If the men you desired where actually ‘average’ looking then I do dismiss they were average looking. They were probably above average looking
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 03:39 PM
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They were probably above average and definitely not below average or ugly. Sorry if I came across in a way that suggested you were a sex worker. However that was not what I was implying. The message I wanted to convey is that the average looking guys were expected to buy dinner, buy gifts etc while the good looking men weren’t expected to do this because they have their looks to help them
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 03:28 PM
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80/20 rule my friend. All women and attractive men can get sex easily while unattractive men it’s impossible and average looking men its only possible if they are paying and doing everything the woman says.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 11:08 AM
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Thank you for your honesty. Its better that women tell men what they like rather than saying “its okay to be unattractive or small down there”
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 11:06 AM
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Thank you
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 09:14 AM
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Yes ill give it a read. But guys tend to have low standards so the ugly women would get chosen
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:26 AM
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The thing is ugly women do get dates and have relationships. Ugly men are at a higher disadvantage as they have to work hard to get a relationship
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:24 AM
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I certainly feel like it. The blackpill for me was all about realising I am not a handsome man women desire. The redpill for me was all about ‘female nature’ essentially telling me that women will cheat on you etc toxic redpill things. You could be right and that I was just 100% blackpill.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:22 AM
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I was under the impression the Redpill tells men to self improve so they can get more women
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:20 AM
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He wasnt around much and never around my mum either. As a kid I didn’t hear much misogyny from him but as a teen occasionally some things were said like “women are lazy and entitled”. Thank you for the kind words and yes I am still the same person however like you said shite has been layered atop. Yes I agree the feeling that I am disposable is where my problems come from. I feel like any women can replace me with another guy very easily so I am essentially as valuable as copper while women are …
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 01:58 PM
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I feel like things have changed. I am not sure what it is but older women who dated before social media and dating apps all seemed very content with the average guy they told me. But todays young women my age (20), a lot of them have dating apps or have used them in the past. This has led to their standards increasing. A lot of short guys say that they get rejected for their height. Guys my height sometimes get rejected for their height but most tall guys like 6’2, 6’4 say that women get very in…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 12:34 PM
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Oh I see. Yeah I understand the nervousness is caused by me.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 12:18 PM
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Yeah the redpill very much puts average looking men who pay the bills in bad light. Like they say he is beta and in a dead bedroom while his girl cheats on him with masculine Chad. It is very damaging as a young man to hear this. I really cant work my head around Kpop stars attracting women. Are some of these women around 25 years old? I have always thought of the tall, masculine looking, big man to attract women. I wouldn’t do well with sapiosexual women as I am not that intelligent due to my g…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 12:16 PM
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Thank you and yes I agree. I think attractive men tend to not have misogynistic views because they have pleasant experiences with women. Meanwhile unattractive men are more likely to fall into the trap of misogynistic thoughts.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 11:55 AM
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Yes and I am sure women may envy some things men have. As for disposability what you said is true. Grinding to get value and improving my appearance would make me less disposable. Aswell as improving my attitude and personality.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 02:07 PM
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The problem is I feel envy towards them for it. I need to learn the problems they face. I think I feel envy because I am missing it in my own life. I am sure the envy would go away once I got a girlfriend however they envy is gonna prevent me from getting a girlfriend. I also feel so disposable as a man.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 10:19 AM
1

Thank you. I don’t understand your point number 2. Why would I get upset with the woman? I feel like I would be nervous but why upset?
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 09:53 AM
1

I am 5’11 yet I get told by blackpillers I am short. Because I need to be 6’6 to have women drooling over me. It made me very insecure. A few months back I made good friends with women and a relationship didnt work between us because of my redpill mindset and insecurities. She wanted to be friends but then due to my redpill mindset I ended up blocking her. I tried to add her back the next day but I was blocked by her. I think it probably hurt her and she probably wanted to stay friends because s…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 09:50 AM
2

Yes when I came across RedPill I thought it was just designed by men to make men have a better dating life. It made it seem like women just wanted to have sex with the alpha male and use the beta male for his money and emotional feelings. This played well on my insecurities because I am a beta male due to my genetics: feminine face, not tall, skinny, weak, submissive. It made me feel like the redpill was just using nature to justify misogyny and that women loved misogynistic men. Its a very easy…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 09:37 AM
2

I do want to fight. This is certainly a long process as I have been fighting it for a month now and slowly getting there then falling back in when the course of my thoughts go back into redpill. Thats why I need to educate myself on womens issues because it offers counter arguments to the redpill. My main redpill flaws that still exist in my thoughts are: - the belief women have an easier dating life - thinking I am so easily replaced and disposable to women - thinking I am not good looking, tal…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 09:23 AM
1

I can see what you mean. However I think that getting a perspective from a lot of women would help and the risk of coming across an extremist misandrist group is slim because tbh. I dont think women hate men as they tend to be more positive and not stuck in their basement like sexually frustrated redpillers and blackpillers. While the odd extremist post may pop up, it would still be best to ask why they think that way and ask myself is it possible this post has a good point and try to understand…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 09:12 AM
1

Thank you for the kind words. The redpill and blackpill definitely down play how important being a good person is to women. I think because they see a lot of bad boys getting women they think thats what women want and nice guys are repulsive. But there is definitely more to the story. Heres what I believe is going on. Some nice guys aren’t actually nice. Also the bad boys probably attract more women however usually these women aren’t so nice either. Although I rarely get attention I have noticed…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 09:07 AM
2

You’re right there. You become who you hang out with and I had been hanging out on blackpill forums for years.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 09:33 PM
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My desire to empathise with women is just down to combat my misogyny as I believe its harmful to myself and dating life. I also wanna know why so many women say being a man is a privilege. It gives me a great sense of curiosity due to the fact I perceive their lives as great. I understand everyone does have problems however I think my inner misogynistic biases have led to me putting the women life experience as better than the male one. A lot of variance here is also true. A good looking rich ma…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 09:30 PM
2

Yes I suppose social media only shows one side. Perhaps these women live completely different lives. I am sure I could hit the club, buy some designer clothes, travel, hang out with people and all of a sudden people could think I live a great life. Maybe women also feel pressured to look good for their Instagram whereas men just take a pic in their bathroom and thats their profile because they dont care. We definitely do need positive movements for single men.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 09:06 PM
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I was redpilled and blackpilled at age 17. Before age 17 the reason why I had no experience with women was due to being a late bloomer. At 16 was when I started taking an interest in women but was too shy to make a move. Then a few months before I got blackpilled I downloaded Tinder yet got nothing. I then searched for answers and came across the red and blackpills. I researched them for 100s of hours and was more dedicated to the blackpill than the redpill. Things I think harmed my dating life:…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 08:53 PM
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I gotta leave their cult and do my best to learn about what life as a woman is like
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 08:06 PM
3

Damn I thought redpill was about helping men. So they dont care if you have a great dating life, they just want you to become a misogynist and a part of their cult. It was never about dating.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 07:54 PM
1

Thank you I’ll give it a try.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 07:06 PM
2

Damn is it easy to make Reddit friends? I feel like if I talk to women in their Reddit messages its incelish and creepy. Plus the fact its not like Instagram so they cant see what person I am if you get what I mean.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 07:04 PM
2

Would you say it could be problematic that I dont have any friends who are women. Plus my job is a workplace where its only men.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 07:01 PM
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Thank you. I will have a read. I probably need to make friends with women too and talk about their experiences.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 07:00 PM
1

Whats your opinion on the redpill valuing the importance of male looks and height? This is the part of the redpill I agree with the most because I think everyone chooses the best looking partner they can get most of the time
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 05:22 PM
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Thank you for supporting me. I will keep updates if you like. Also despite me being very insecure of my appearance, this woman told me prior to dating that she rejected guys sexual advances like: guys who wanted a kiss, guys who wanted to take her to a hotel room etc. Yet when it was our date, she was the one who invited me back to her place and she was the one who went in for a kiss. She also claimed I was in the top 3% of attractiveness in relation to the other men she has dated. I didn’t beli…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 04:13 PM
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By service your gf first do you mean make sure she orgasms first? As for pair bonding my personal belief is that it happens to men and women. Its very mysoginistic for men to think that they are fine to spin plates and not women to do the same. Either pair bonding is real and applies to both men and women or it isn’t real. I am inexperienced and nervous about disappointing. I will care about the clit. I will do my best to listen and service her. If she doesn’t meet my needs I will stay with her …
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 03:40 PM
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50% okay so still a lot of competition. Ill listen to her and give it my best shot.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 03:35 PM
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Thank you for your comment. What you said is true. Most of the time the first partner was a one night stand when drunk or whatever and because I am a virgin its hyped up. This woman said that attractive guys tend to be very vein.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 03:00 PM
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Thank you. I just feel like she deserves a good looking 6’4 man because she is a good looking kind woman. I feel like a manlet at 5’11. Maybe instead she deserves an average looking loyal partner who cares about her.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:58 PM
1

I definitely need to continue to battle the redpill within because its harmful. Yes I have been interested in why some people believe the sex after marriage thing. Maybe its to do with pairbonding? The woman I am seeing is Christian and planned to wait until marriage however she got a boyfriend and said “the plan went out the window because he was pushy” sounds like he took advantage of her.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:56 PM
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My communication was poor. I was too afraid to tell her that I was scared of having sex because it would make me look like a loser compared to other men. I know I should of just told her.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:53 PM
1

Thank you so much. I am going to beat the insecurities I have and do my best to become that 5 star 3 course meal.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:52 PM
1

Thanks man. Do most guys really emulate porn?
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:50 PM
2

Im so surprised its very small. If so why do women continue to hookup with guys? Do most guys just want sex without any intimacy?
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:47 PM
2

True. Love wins. I shall give this woman my love.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:45 PM
1

True. I think the best man is in fact the most intense partner she has. The first love thing is most likely overplayed.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:44 PM
1

Thank you so much. I think she will respect the truth because I dont think many men tell it.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:43 PM
2

Thank you for your take on this. I will take your advice.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:41 PM
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She has had two long term relationships so she will have had sex hundreds of times with a certain partner. Yes you’re right all the hookups were a one time thing except one guy who had sex with her twice. Do guys seriously not do what a woman says in bed? I find it hard to believe. I thought guys want to please their partner so they can come back for more. I desire the woman I am seeing heavily and believe I will never get tired of her. I find it very very hard to believe that just liking her an…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:35 PM
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Ofc I will never know what kind of men these ex partners were. She told me that some were pushy with her in bed, that her good looking ex boyfriend was aggressive and that she had to end the relationship. Are most men dickheads and assholes in today’s hookup culture? What do you mean by misogynistic ideals can hookups commonly be a mysoginistic experience for women? Yes very true I would probably have a much better sexual experience with a woman who is expierienced and knows what she wants. Is a…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:22 PM
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Thanks peeps I’ll take a look.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:15 PM
1

I find that fascinating coming from the fact my redpill background has taught me that “once she has dated the 6’4, good looking, wealthy man its over”. Also paired with the fact that I have always believed that people tend to find physical attraction very important in dating. Your story is a way to prove the redpill wrong however my redpill mindset is still up there trying to make excuses like ‘its rare that happens’ but tbh it sounds like the reason why this happened is because you love the con…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:15 PM
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The theory I came across said it was more like people can pairbond with someone new but the more they do it the less intense the bond gets with the new people. So kind of like 1st partner 100% bond, second partner 50% third 25% etc. However I feel the bond would depend more on how serious the relationship was, how much time they spent together, the partners physical attractiveness in relation to the previous partners. However some women are saying that the pairbonding theory hasnt been true in t…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:06 PM
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I have somewhat instinctively felt that intimacy is more important for pair bonding if it was to exist. I could have a hookup with a woman and it most likely wouldn’t affect me much. Whereas if I had been with someone for a year and had been very intimate then it would take a lot of getting over and I may be feeling like I want something similar to that experience in my next relationship.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 02:00 PM
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Yes I need to pay attention to the present and not worry about the future plus the future is likely to bring good experiences of us two together.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 01:57 PM
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Yes I need to not fear how she or I will feel in the future. Its the same as fearing I am going to be hit by a truck. I think being her best man is the way to roll. The more her and I get to know each other, the less the memories of her exes will matter to her.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 01:55 PM
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I agree. I need to get rid of the redpill fully first. The two times she tried to hookup with me, I was nervous and couldn’t get an erection. You are right about porn and masturbation. It could be having a big impact as I overconsume it daily and have done for years to cope with not having a girlfriend. Thank you for the advice.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 01:52 PM
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I have told her I dont have experience and she doesn’t seem to mind. I wouldn’t know her true thoughts on the matter: maybe she likes the fact she could be my first (all her ex partners weren’t virgins). What you recommended is actually how it naturally played out. I was sitting on the sofa not making any moves and she probably wasn’t used to that behaviour from a guy. So she said “I feel like you just see me as a friend because you’re not making a move”. I replied “I like you” then she went in …
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 01:47 PM
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Thank you. The odds are very stacked against me because I still have Redpill thoughts plus I dont get the good looking advantage lol. But as long as I can be kind, entertaining, positive, thoughtful and honest with this woman then I think I have done the best I can do. Aswell as staying away from redpill videos and asking questions on this subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 01:35 PM
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Yes I think hookups dont create much of a bond whereas relationships where you repeatedly have sex create a strong bond. Thats so interesting theres not much difference between a virgin and a seasoned pro.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 01:31 PM
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Would accepting that my girlfriend may want to have sex with a new man later down the road be a good thing? I know it sounds cucked so to speak however pressuring my girl to stay monogamous could be a large task.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:38 PM
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The thought of humans not being monogamous terrifies me. I feel like I’m a monogomous man however maybe 10 years of the same partner even I could get bored. The redpill likes to think of women as used up if they have had a lot of sexual partners. Does this come from the fact they are jealous that woman have casual sex easily and the fact that redpillers are insecure? So kind of like reasons I listed in my post.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:15 PM
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I think the woman is just open in general tbf. She really isn’t afraid to be herself or speak her opinion. She probably does tell other men she has had hookups. She said to me before we started dating that if I gained 20kg of muscle she would pursue me as a hookup. Back then we were just friends. She said skinny isn’t her type but she likes me and she encourages me to eat more because I usually eat only 1200 calories a day. Damn dirty talk I have a voice that definitely holds no authority lol. I…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:10 PM
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Its human nature to be jealous especially if you love your partner. She may get it easier but like you said its the reality for most men and the man who is a king wouldn’t be worried about that. Once the man and woman get to know each other sexually and the man is competent in bed, then the previous men are not a threat.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:01 PM
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True especially if the new man is better.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 05:59 PM
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Very true I have a theory. Maybe the redpill men are trying to project a small subset of women onto every woman. What I am saying is a woman who has had 100s of sexual partners, does drugs, addicted to partying etc will probably have bad relationship traits. Then they project this onto a woman who has had like 5 partners and say “see she cannot pair bond” based from the woman I previously mentioned.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 05:58 PM
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We haven’t made it official yet but she wants to see me again this weekend. Maybe my gf could just be a very honest person or maybe you are right she sees me as emotionally mature and wants to share her past to me. What you said could be very true. In 2019 I was in the talking stage with a woman for 3 months. In the end we finally had a date but I was awkward and she blocked me when I got home. I was distraught and it made me deeper into redpill. I was hungup on her for 2 years until in November…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 05:50 PM
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Thank you. This advice you brought to the table will be followed as I believe in it as our experiences seem to have been similar. I also fear there is an alpha round the corner or one swipe away. But the fact she chose me says she sees something in me, hopefully. I say hopefully because I am not fully in the mentality that I am the king yet due to the redpill telling me she wants someone better to come along but I must be willing to fight this.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 05:30 PM
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Thank you. This is perfect advice. Do you believe the pair bonding thing is untrue or over exaggerated at best?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 05:26 PM
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