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I remember when I was 18 I was washing cars at a detail shop in a dealership. There were very few women there, the only others being a few saleswomen and a secretary? When I started there I got a lot of attention (as most new girls [I use girls intentionally]) This one saleswoman approached me on my second day while I was washing a truck. Went out of her way to introduce herself and shake my hand with a huge fake smile. Her eyes stayed still. After that she did just as op described. Completellly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:15 PM
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You would think but he’s one of the most attractive guys there. And waaay to old to be pulling this shit. I’m surprised he even knew this soggy bar mat pick up trick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:47 PM
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That's absolutely right. It's a beautiful thing when the trash takes itself out. Its just sad how much trash and pollution there is. And I agree white men weirdly usually gave me the least about my ethnic background. I look up to my mom in these situations. She's one of the most beautiful women I've met. She's chocolate, modeled, worked and had no trouble snatching two HV white men. And before anybody says its unlikely, my father is 6'4 and was a star athlete and mortgage broker in his day, my s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:07 PM
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Here's an interesting pattern I've observed as a mixed ambiguous woman. In my dating life I've noticed that when men first meet me, they tend to be very accommodating, sweet and full of effort. But when I told them or they clocked that I was black and not mexican or white, the effort completely dropped to bootycall or ghost. Yes that includes black men. It doesn't even have to do with how black you look, just the thought is enough for them. Good on men now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:49 PM
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I had an ex friend who was trying to get with an old coworker who was saving herself for marriage. He said he’d wait for her but it’s kinda moot when they’ve only known each other for a few months and he hasn’t even asked her to a proper date (not drinks or coffee 💀). He then coped by saying she rejected him because she thought he was too good for her. Whatever dude. It’s probably because of the smell of sewer leaking from his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:43 PM
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You don’t even have to point it out, one guy who would always try to get me to compete with other women would rip a decently attractive guy to shreds out of jealousy. On sight! ‘We gEt iT dUde, yOurE frOm LA!1!1!1’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:17 PM
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💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:32 PM
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To this day I think about the instalaza rocket dodged with this one guy who made his old baby mama run away with their newborn. I hated myself at the time for ‘not being good enough’ but I’ve seen enough baby daddy/mama drama to know that was a complete blessing. I would hate to have that life now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:46 PM
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This is a huge part of what kevin s promotes. He tells younger women that the older single moms giving advice are bitter and sabotaging them from marriage. That you should forgo an education or career and focus on ‘relationship skills’ and getting a man. I pray for the young women who are taking him seriously, it’s bad enough he has 1 million subscribers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:10 PM
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I forgot my wallet once when I was out with a friend and just cash app’d her. We live in the technology age there ain’t no excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:22 AM
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Now reading into this I was in this exact situation when I was 18. He did end up ignoring me and that did more damage than the emotional abuse and weird games he was playing too. Fuck. I’m glad the trash took itself out though bc at the time I don’t know if I could have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:04 PM
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That’s why I stopped going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:42 PM
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I have a friend who is genuinely the sweetest girl I have ever met. She loves giving gifts to everybody and never forgot a birthday. For her birthday with her boyfriend of three years she bought them ramen and rented a movie. He couldn’t even spend the 20 bucks to cover that. I don’t even think she realized how sad that was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:52 PM
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This is so important. Men will absolutely think they can get away with the bare minimum of anything if you’re black, and that’s not even accounting for abuse. I’m mixed and look pretty ambiguous but mostly get mistaken for Latina or spicy white. One thing I’ve noticed is once I mentioned or they clocked I was black, regardless of race, the effort dropped considerably and I was nothing more than a booty call. BM will put in effort for caitlyn ashlynn and taylor tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:17 PM
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I used to detail cars in New Mexico. Which means cleaning dirty cars in over 100 degree weather and some girls would still wear a full face to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:21 PM
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I was hoping there was a twist but it is as it reads. Hot, sweet, adventurous billionaire sees SOMETHING different about just some guy. Like he’s hardly above average, he still lives with his parents and from how he led in his girlfriend, seems like a gaping asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:20 PM
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I also worked in a male dominated work place. Every mechanic, detailer and salesmen were cheating or trying to cheat except one. And HE said his wife is the only woman he hasn’t cheated on (yet)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:04 AM
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Omg 18 detailer me is screaming. It was like a fucking hazing being harassed by mechanics, detailers and car salesmen alike as a practical child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:54 PM
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I thought so too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:44 PM
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That’s right. It’s such a relief once you do tho you can never be too observant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:20 PM
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I’ve had incidences where they spit even if I’m already good to go . Tf is up with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:07 PM
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Omg There was an old coworker me and my friend used to go out to clubs and to play pool with. He deemed super chill especially compared to the super chauvinistic machismo nasties worked with. He just got arrested for beating his baby mama with a hammer and her condition is bad. You don’t know.b
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:51 AM
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When I was 18 a 20 something coworker fucked me up but I remember he confessed to his work friend that he liked me but wouldn’t date me bc I was too young. She said, “ you’re too young to date but not too young to fuck??”. Now that I’m his age I wouldn’t even look at a fucking 18 year old let alone insult, play, rape and emotionally abuse one at my fucking job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:22 PM
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There isn’t. When I’m thick I’m called fat butt when I was thin I was told to eat more and that I lost my curves. The goalpost always moves!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:00 PM
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LVM that groomed me at my old job said he was getting his GED and planned to work at the aquarium two years ago. He’s still at that car wash and posts about how he ‘chooses his path in life’ , he thinks he’s successful because he somehow got approved for a v6 mustang . Pure delusion. He also posted about how he hates when people imply it ‘must be nice’ to have nice things, like bro that’s your only possession, no one thinks you have money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:29 PM
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That takes me back to when nicki Minaj dropped that song only and it came on the radio with my mom and brother in the car. When she said ‘if I did a ménage with them let him eat my ass like a cupcake’ she flipped it off immediately and said ‘how crass’. That song played a week later at my homecoming dance 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:20 PM
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Oooooh girl you messed up!! So I have a cousin, and I love her dearly, but she is THE pick me peach. She settled for a broke life with an abusive, little LVM and had his kid recently. I’ve ranted about it on certain subs for a while lol. But anyways she’d always slightly try to rub in that she had a hUsBaNd. She always calls him her husband, never his name. He used to straight up molest her in front of me and the family (which was cut off when I told them to have some class). And she’s always so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:24 PM
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Let’s gooo!!! This is amazing congrats on all the women/mods involved !! This is huge :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:08 PM
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I often hear that misogyny exacerbates the racism we experience when in reality it’s the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:46 PM
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Right just listen to “wonder why they call you b**ch” or every other song about playing women and using their bodies. Guy makes one song for women and he destroyed feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:21 PM
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Men’s stories are fabricated half the time anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:45 PM
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Ooh you take me back. Me and an old friend used to party a couple years back and we went to the strip club (a dancer was our friend so we showed out) and she literally tried talking to men there the whole night and wanted to go drinking in their cars. I’m like dude even the dancers wouldn’t entertain these pricks without cash, tf are you doing???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:48 PM
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Oof don’t shit where you eat, hard lesson to learn. When I returned to my old job, a NVM that took advantage while I was 18 and made me feel awful about myself (calling me flat one moment, beautiful the next??) tried to hit me up after I regained weight THROUGH the coworkers lmao. One of our coworkers which is one of his close friends was working with me and he said out of nowhere twice, “yknow rock mouthed bastard still works here right?” . Jeez he didn’t have the balls to state that himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:14 PM
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I’m only 20 and 17 year olds look like children to me it blows my mind men that could be our fathers entertain people so young
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:35 AM
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Oh god I got a story So last august I went to a protest and this guy approached me, at least 35. We were chatting and he asked me my age, which was 19 at the time. So we keep talking and he asks what I do for a living and I reciprocate, he teaches middle school history but reaaallly wants to go to high school. Then afterward he proceeded to follow and ask me out multiple times throughout the PROTEST. After that I dipped and didn’t go to another for a while. It was creepy enough that he was tryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:32 AM
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“Hey guys it’s better this way!! Without taking advantage of poor and working class women, they’d start to target us!!(even though they already fucking are!)”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:15 PM
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Nah cuz when I had an old fwb at work he would scorn his ex for taking their newborn without notice back home and cutting off all contact. Should of been a red flag but I was a dumb ass 18 year old who believed she was some ‘crazy b*tch’ rather than considering how fucked things have to be for a woman to travel 2000 miles with a newborn and never return. Last I heard the cops got to her and keep requiring that she bring the kid for visitation but she keeps dodging it, saying she couldn’t afford …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:14 PM
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I’m so sorry. I’ve had the same thing happen to me. I couldn’t imagine the devastation of going through that with your career. Fuck him and everything about him, it wasn’t your fault for treating him like a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:12 AM
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Just had a discussion on this in conducts. I said FDS was a misnomer because it’s not about getting a man (which is a great thing) and many commenters were saying ‘FDS is great buuuut they don’t actually teach you how to GET a man’ 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:31 PM
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Well most importantly the planet is dead and the world they’ll come to adulthood in will practically be hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:24 AM
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The AI domination might happen after all.. after men beat them to the point of revolt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:37 PM
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I was just thinking, why was racing cars considered a sport before cheerleading?? Like sports racing is hardly questioned to the point it’s part of the name even though you are using a machine, but there was a debate for decades as to whether practical gymnastics was a sport .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:37 PM
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Ooh I got a story. So first day working at a new job and I’m in the car with the manager and he’s talking to one of my coworkers, being verrry flirty. Like ‘let me take you and your son to the zoo’ stuff like that. He gets off and tells me about how he has feelings for her but he wasn’t sure she felt the same way. Mind you I only know this guys name. Then he said , “I got her stuff when she was sick, I got her flowers in Valentine’s Day! I didn’t even get my girl a gift for Valentine’s Day”. My …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:31 PM
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👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:34 PM
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Be careful please and if you don’t have a gun, get one!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:57 PM
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I worked at the back of a dealership and there was a middle aged mechanic who’d always cat call me or say things about my looks. I laughed at first because I was young and didn’t know how to deal. I left for about a year and when I went back told him to cut the sh and have some respect. My coworkers pointed out how he didnt go there to smoke anymore bc he was mad at me lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:22 PM
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Facts. When I started a job a couple years back guys would fall over backwards to talk to the new girl. Then I lost weight bc of the labor and stress and even the guys that were uglier than me treated me badly. Like I didn’t exist. When I left for almost a year I came back with more weight stored in the ‘’’right’’’ places. They were sooo nice all of a sudden and even gave me free stuff (lunch, weed, even money). They are superficial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:00 PM
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I was seeing a native dude who would constantly lie that he was black because his STEP dad was Afro Cuban..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:36 AM
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My rapist ‘ex’ worked with me and our boss was my dads best friend. He still had the audacity to do that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:50 PM
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Someone did this to me except it was the opposite. Because our job was very laborious I lost a lot of weight, as well as my boobs and butt. He bullied me about it and said I looked 12 even though he confessed he liked me and baby ma’d and like thin women’s pictures. When I was thick he’d say I was chubby too though. It still fucks me il to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:19 AM
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And theyre always so quick to say their homie is SUCH a good guy. Like he may be a good guy to men but not to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:27 AM
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As my grandma once said, “the men back then would treat you like shit but at least they’d take care of things”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:09 PM
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Reminds me of that episode of mad men when Faye tells don that he only likes the beginnings of things. Too many men model him without understanding his character that’s for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:13 AM
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Do not get me started. I used to detail on a car lot and misogyny literally gave me a mental breakdown and I quit to become a stripper. Unbelievably I was more comfortable dancing than detailing. If you are one of few women in the lot, you are pitted and compared to the others, harassed, cat called. Don’t even get me started on the shit they say when they don’t know we’re listening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:53 AM
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I usually slouch so they don’t leer:|
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:20 PM
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Oh my lordosis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:19 PM
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Hey I’m sorry you had to deal with this:(. it’s literally been on my mind for days. I actually raked the sub to find this comment again because it’s so.. blegh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:42 PM
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Ewww I definitely dont miss this part of in person work. God I remember when I was 18 there was a guy who straight up asked to have sex in a sales car a total of SIX TIMES. I still kick my ass fir not getting a recording.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:39 AM
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I had to go to urgent care one time when I was 17 for extreme nausea and dizziness and the doctor chalked it up to me being tall and thin (he was wrong, it was a weird virus). I’m 5’4 and at the time 135 pounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:39 PM
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Hit me right in the chest wi the that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:34 PM
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For men. For women that gets you fucked over big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:01 AM
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Well considering that I’m a straight women that’s not a valuable metric to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:00 AM
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My male coworkers collectively lied to cover the ass of my Taoist, who was originally a friend at work. Don’t trust these mfs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:29 PM
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For white women, it’s the bbls...just can’t do it, they always get xxl implants despite being like 90 lbs and it causes their butt to sag over their stick like legs. So noticeable and disgusting. Then you see them with their real, flat, concave booty once the fat redistributes, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 05:46 PM
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Thing is men have a different code for a good personality for women. Sure she should be smart but not too smart because then he feels insecure. She should be ambitious but not too ambitious because then she’ll start out earning/ out performing him. She should be funny but not funnier than him, god for fucking bid, then you’re an idiot or a try hard, even though he’s just not funny. You guys want a ‘nice’ girl who is smart enough to keep a conversation, ambitious enough to not be a bum, and ‘a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:41 PM
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Why would I when you just did it for me LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:33 AM
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Dude it’s like my cousins husband and her are trying for a boy for his ‘legacy’ and that mf don’t even own a car and they (as well as their two kids) live with her mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:37 PM
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Throughout most of history most people were illiterate or not educated. You can go your whole life without an education and survive. You can’t go your whole life without shelter (in most climates) without dying from exposure prematurely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:22 AM
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Education is not an immediate need between life or death yet we subsidize it any way for the greater good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:29 AM
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Oof. Had a white ex with yellow fever too. I felt like bc im mixed and had a very different body type to the girls he’d watch. Then got with this native dude who had it hard for white girls and originally chased me bc I ‘looked white with a fat ass’. Once he found out I was black, the respect dropped. Can’t win with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 01:48 AM
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Hell and even those are lax standards for them. No no no they gotta have a huge ass and tiddies while having the frame for a 100 pound girl as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 01:34 AM
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Tbf I have and it still wasn’t worth it 😂 like the emotional turmoil and confusion surrounding it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:37 PM
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I guess it’s a projection of some sorts. They’re always waiting for the next best thing and willing to settle, so they assumed since you can do better you’re settling for them. Cue the resentment and self sabotage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:33 PM
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In fact you just reminded me about what he used to say. He used to say “people can say a lot about me, b it I’m good at basketball and my wife is hot”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:16 AM
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I have no doubt. He will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:15 AM
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Because beautiful women are a dime a dozen. You know how many fine women I see in the hood on a daily basis stuck with good for nothing baby daddies with no jobs? Rich women who aren’t naturally endowed can just buy it AND they have more connections to marry rich. A man that dates a poor women must be after a certain dynamic (which is encapsulated in sex work, ie sugar babies) or she must be ridiculously attractive, lucky, and have finesse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 10:28 PM
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The only person I can even think of is my old managers wife. She would call every hour to see what he was up to, and he didn’t want anyone to talk while she was on the phone bc she’d get “jealous”. He always doted on his wife, as she was drop dead gorgeous, but admited she was the first woman he never cheated on. In fact he said he cheated on every girlfriend he had and used to be a man whore. Then as we work together he keeps telling me that she’s getting ‘fat’ and such. That’ll end well lol, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:48 PM
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Capitalism and over saturation denigrating the money in an already exploitative profession. I used to be a stripper, this takes me back to the rule of no prostitution! Because if one dancer does it she gets all the clients and the other dancers eventually have to cave too or else they’ll lose money. Good clubs reinforce the rule, but many don’t care as long as you make money. Especially if it earned a reputation for “happy endings”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:22 PM
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My cousin word for word said she’s still trying for a boy because she wants someone to love her like the girls love their “daddy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:24 AM
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My cousins husband hardly helps with cleaning, cooking or the baby because he’s a ‘Mexican man’ yada yada . Okay then, get a job, or better yet go to my 6’5 Arab dad and tell his ass about child rearing and cleaning being a woman’s job. My dad did all of that. I guess he’s trying to compensate for being 5’4 the only way he can 💀. This man also makes up fights he had to seem more masculine and divert from the fact he’s almost 100 pounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:14 PM
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There’s more to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:36 AM
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That would be you. First chick has on lipstick and lashes. Her skin is practically perfect without it and she doesn't even look washed out. Second chick looks better without makeup imo. a bit washed out, but nice features and good skin. The third is definitely transformative and the last one is practically the same. You got to get offline every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 07:20 PM
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Are those seriously your examples? All of them look the same if not better without makeup except for the third one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:17 AM
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I also notice that men are'nt in shape anymore. Which is definitely an advantage for women because men don't generally pack on weight in a flattering way. Back in the day, when they'd work more labor jobs, and people were just more active, they were much more attractive and trim. Suppose the same is for women, but again women pack on weight better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:05 AM
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Omg are we the same person? Once I cut my losses he had the new kid who worked with me keeping tabs. That kid would accidentally mention all the stories he told of me too in the shop. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:40 AM
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Tajes me back to my cousins wedding when the pastor told them not to confide in their family when they fight, because when they make up everyone will be mad at their partner. Everyone awkwardly shifted their eyes because he has just beat her the month before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:58 PM
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ick I remember when I'd go to my blue collar job to pick up my check the neighboring mechanic would say that I dressed for their attention. Fool what the fuck makes you think I was dressing for your bald, fat, tweaker santa clause looking azz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:47 PM
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Dealing with this at the moment with an old friend I connected with. Which is a shame too because shes always been somewhat picky and dignified when dealing with men in comparison to the pick me culture. At my job (where me and her met) I got a new manager that happened to be her boyfriend. He got her pregnant two months of knowing her. I didn't figure out the full scale of the relationship until I talked to him a couple days ago when he brought her up. He was talking about how he couldn't find …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:33 PM
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I can’t tell if she’s being serious or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:51 AM
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Yesterday I went to my cousins house seeing her in tears, defeated, because she does all the work with their newborn. This makes her husband look good, he won’t even bother to pick her up to feed her if he’s on his stupid fucking game. She whispered to me that’s she’s sick of being treated like shit and being disrespected as his wife. And I really feel for her. She doesn’t deserve that, however, long before the baby we told her to leave. Before she moved we told her to leave him. And during her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:27 PM
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I just recently came back to a job I left. After quarantine, fds, a lot of confidence boosting and healthy weight regain, im a new woman. I came back and an old joker I used to entertain (we were fwb, he was awful; negging, misogynist, and boring) was asking about me again after not talking for a year after he broke my self esteem. It’s funny because I haven’t even seen him, his homeboys just asked if I was interested and notified me that he did, in fact, still work there. They ain’t lying when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:37 PM
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I had an ex who was into this when I was in high school. At the beginning he was always be ringing it into conversation it was just... fuck I wish I had this forum back then. I can’t thank you ladies enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:40 PM
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Hell thats why they call dating game. Not game as in the court per se, but wild game to be racked up for competition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:50 PM
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And I’ve met so many men who’d look great if they just grew out those generic hair cuts or found a better suiting one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 02:02 AM
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Honestly scrap most baby daddy’s (especially younger ones). I was seeing this guy who would tell the whole shop about how his baby mama ran out on him with their baby and he was fighting for custody. Now from what everyone was telling me I was under the impression that she ran months before I started that job. Lmao. LMAOOO. She ran out a month after I started. AND HE WAS NOT ONLY PERSUING EVERY WOMAN AT THE DEALERSHIP BUT HE HAD A WHOLE ASS RELATIONSHIP AND WAS ACTIVELY DATING RIGHT AFTER SHE LE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:20 PM
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Yo this guy at work has consistently tried to solicit sex for a year from me whilst being married. Guess who got his father in laws Facebook 🙃. I’ve been diligently recordings since, waiting for him to try it one last time and I’ll have evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:56 AM
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Not even. Even johns get rooms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:46 PM
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I knew someone would say that. No I mean barefaced naturally. Women are just more appealing and take better care of themselves it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 01:25 AM
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Also the average (5) woman tends to be better looking than the average (5) male.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 12:25 AM
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The last time I had sex with an old ‘fwb’, after intercourse, he was like, “you should give me a blowjob” to which I said no because my front teeth will probably skin him (they’re bigger than the rest lol). He said let’s test that out to which I refused again and he said, “505ithy doesn’t give blowjobs!” Bothered under his breathe to guilt trip me. Lmao foh, even before fds I’m proud I at least got mine and stayed firm🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:19 PM
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Gospel!! It definitely weeds out more ‘intimidated’ men, or the kind I don’t want, so it’s a great thing in that respect. The older I get the more I understand that most men aren’t ‘’’man’’’ enough 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:50 PM
49

I went to school in Oklahoma for a year in seventh grade and our sex Ed teacher demonstrated parental boundaries by moving a fish to a bigger tank every time the students cheered for it to move. Then she dumped the fish on the ground talking about, “see. This is why parents have boundaries :)” and we were all bugging out to put it back in. Fun note , that same class the science teacher straight up skipped the evolution unit and said it wasn’t real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:14 PM
14

You’ll always hear me talking about how I scorn Capricorn men but I adore Capricorn women. Capricorn is the sign of the devil! Plus cap men are sooo boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:49 PM
4

Put the blame on mame boyy 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:33 PM
8

And you can get paid for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:56 AM
7

That reminded me of this . And You didn’t even express insecurity 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:25 PM
67

He called me that too before I lost weight! Then when I was thin I looked like a ‘12 year old boy’. You can’t win with these guys and they get off on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:53 PM
31

Exactly! They literally create insecurities to always have you in line. I look at my pics when I was thin and think of how ridiculous my insecurity was. I looked fine! Just smaller, and honestly more toned. And he still chased skinny girls so it wasn’t even about that! After that I now completely disregard what a guy has to say, they’re probably projecting and the bar will always be moved as soon as you catch up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:50 PM
5

Not promoting sex work but back when I was dancing some of the top earners were petite, even over the bodacious women. And not being curvy doesn’t mean you can’t look like a woman, they definitely didn’t look like no damn kids 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:38 PM
20

Oh yeah for sure, it definitely wasn’t weird imo we were basically the same age. But we were also working with 30 and 40 something year old men who shamelessly tried to pick me up as well so in comparison it was pathetic. It’s sad that a 21 year old was concerned about seeing an 18 year old yet the older men weren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:12 PM
9

This sub saved me from a slew of potentially bad people this year. Just a month ago I went to a protest where this man tried to pick me up, he was easily in his 30s (at least) and I’m 19. He asked me a bunch of questions and was curious about taking me to dinner. He asked my age first then as we talked he mentioned that he taught middle school, but really wanted to teach high school. Left right after. He admitted that he wanted to work with the same age group of girls he was knowingly trying to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:03 PM
30

This one asshole I was seeing a while ago, though an asshole, admitted he felt weird about seeing me at 18 at 21! If a 21 can see why it’s weird, a 41 year old definitely can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:00 PM
4

Ugh there’s this disgusting bro culture where I work (as it’s mostly men) and after looking over a year back when I got involved with this awful rapist there I realized A LOT of that was set up and pushed by nosey coworkers. What him and our coworkers failed to mention was that his baby mama had fled across the country with their newborn a month AFTER I started working there. I was told it happened MONTHS (if not a year) before, they were purposefully vague to cover their boy who was trying to p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:47 PM
1

I work at a car dealership in detail and I always wear baggy/bigger clothes to hide my figure. Just a couple days ago a salesman confessed that him and a coworker were fucking leering at my butt while I was working. I purposefully keep the garage doors closed and try to look as unflattering as possible when I work but men sexualize everything 🤮. There was also this mechanic that would always leer and make comments everyday when I first worked there. After my break/ discovering fds I put an end t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:55 PM
3

Read plenty. Lived around white people my whole life. Compared to the rest of the world they’re bone thin. Can tell you don’t travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 03:13 PM
1

The floatie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 01:34 PM
7

“Generous lips”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 01:19 PM
11

And to piggy back off the body type thing!! Sometimes no matter what you wear you’ll be viewed sexually. I work at a detail shop and dress more conservatively than any other woman in the dealership yet still get lewd remarks and looks because the way I’m built. I look like Gabriel Iglesias in a bowling shirt with my work uniform and they still have shit to say. Where is the line drawn for ‘dressing slutty’?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 02:59 PM
4

Let’s be honest on who packs the extra weight a little better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:59 AM
2

r/antinatalism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:20 PM
13

He also conveniently forgets how many girls do makeup at home or dress up for fun. I’ve been on quarantine knowing I have no one to impress and no need to even practice but I do it anyway because it’s fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:15 AM
3

Never heard of sliding in the dms??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 12:24 AM
1

I feel like most bad looking dudes would be so better off if they just worked out and got a decent hair cut. I. Ant name the number of guys who were quite handsome but they’re hair cut fucked it all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:23 AM
2

‘It’s average!!’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:48 AM
5

When they say “Ayye imma get you pregnant”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:23 AM
2

Fr like that’s the point guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:28 AM
4

You could get a bj for a burger in most cities, if you’re that desperate boys..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:54 AM
12

A big rule in stripping is to never ever date a guy you met at the club, for the same reasons. I remember before I was a stripper my friend and I would hit the clubs on weekends after we went downtown and partied, she wanted to meet guys. I told her this is the worst place to go to meet men. Especially for a drink in their fucking car
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:23 PM
9

Definitely not a date but my old supervisor blagh. He’s 35, I’m 19 and texts me at least once a month about how I’m doing or how he’s going to take me out. Two days ago he just sent me a pic of his newborn. That business will probably crash and burn now tho so no need to keep the bridge might as well burn it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:29 AM
2

A guy with genuine charisma and collectibles to him. Only going off when need be. Tall is always nice, great hair (is long hair or not over styled haircuts) is AMAZING. And a strong look in his eye. I love a guy that can hold great conversations too, where you can divulge into things for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:46 PM
1

Not as much as climate change and economic/ecological collapse, those future kids have been given a favor by not being born
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:19 PM
51

I only remember people seriously having them in high school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:33 AM
4

Abuse and poverty are by no means mutually exclusive, there is a high chance that kid coming from a sexually abused home is also from poverty. They both definitely play a role. We talk about using feminine charm and power to get what we want from men all the time on here, it’s very dark triad if you look into it. The reason it’s regarded as just business is because that’s the mode you have to be in to survive in this business. Like many, many others. A good comparison is oil drillers. They prey …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:46 PM
15

Although your disdain for porn, hypersexualization and exploitation of women is justified, you should not blame the sex workers for trying to survive in a hypersexualized and inherently exploitative system that is capitalism. If anything a lot of strippers I know have seen the worst in men and knew fds by heart before there was even a hand book. There are obviously others who excuse it because for many women, especially poor women who can’t make ends meet in another exploitative field with worse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:33 AM
20

This is FACTS. I used to work at a detail shop (almost all men) and I made the utter mistake of having a fwb situation with a guy who I thought was cute. Before we had sex he said out of nowhere, “I don’t mind if anyone knows” I reminded him we worked for my dads best friend and not to spread the word. After that he said, “yeah I don’t want anybody to know” like it was his idea. If anyone wants more info on how men really view women I’ll let them know immediately, they can be delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:11 AM
4

Ugh that took me back to when I worked at an almost exclusively male detail shop. Rage quit before the week started again because it got to be too much, I suggest you leave because you’ll probably do the same..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:52 PM
1

My god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:36 AM
12

I like this sub but it casually ignores a lot of the ills associated with capitalism. Though I like how it shows women to operate in a patriarchal capitalist world in a pragmatic way it can be unrealistic. These days people spend more time at work than anywhere else and if you’re single and someone you’re interested in work is too, there’s a high chance stuff might develop. Though I discourage work flings (I’ve learned my lesson, don’t shit where you eat) that is where many people have the only …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:31 AM
59

Grilled fried and filleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:02 AM
12

That’s the g code
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:10 AM
4

Remember libfems are ideal but FDS is pragmatic. You can pay for half the date all you want but he won’t see you as an equal. This is how to deal with men and get what you rightfully deserve in the world we actually live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:05 PM
25

Please. The nastiest of men will have no shame to tell a woman about every fuckin flaw she has. But you tell a man he has a small dick or he’s short and he’ll fucking kill you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:56 PM
16

So sad but so true. I remember a dude I was talking to said he had a thing for white chicks and I inevitably accepted it’s always be white mediocre girls who paid to look like me, over ‘girls like me’. It’s a blessing too tho bc I can weed out the assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:16 AM
1

We have too many people and the planet is deteriorating. It’s a win win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:45 PM
35

YYYUUUCKK I got the same thing when I talked about catholic school 🤢. It really sucks too because being a dancer/ cheerleader is a hobby that takes so much investment and dedication and it’s a huge part of our lives and you can’t even share it without some douche being like ,” haaahaa what it do thoooooo”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:04 AM
67

Why I never tell guys I was a dancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:32 PM
8

Cleaning takes an hour???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:28 AM
4

LMFAOOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:28 AM
2

It happens to the best of us, don’t sweat it! Let it all out because that genuinely sucks when you think you found a diamond and it turned out to be glASS. Alsooo don’t beat yourself up about calling him back, you probably had more faith that he reciprocated it and got the wake up call you needed. Lesson learned. Don’t dwell on it, think about yourself and moving forward, you already got so far as far as knowing who you are, what you’re worth, and what you deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:31 AM
41

I remember the supervisor who worked for my company who was grotesquely obese, ugly, and dim witted had a huge crush on a younger GORGEOUS employee. He was married and way below her level so she kindly rejected him and he was soooo bitter, I even made a post about him. I remember one time he had the audacity to be like, “I don’t get what she doesn’t see in me she’s not even my type! I like thick girls she ain’t even thick!!” Like he could have any fucking standards LMMAOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:36 AM
16

“I respec womun “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:33 AM
19

I realized looking back I would’ve been better off just telling them to fuck off and deal with the initial reaction rather then the excruciating bullshit I smiled through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:00 AM
6

Nah, that’s his number 1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:29 PM
2

I think they mean ‘give them power’ because the dynamic is usually catered to the guy. So even if you find a boy toy often times he’ll make you commute and won’t give you an equally pleasurable experience. And if they know it’s purely casual they tend to play mind games to feed their egos. If you can that’s fabulous but looking for a decent fwb can be almost as hard as finding a man 😂. I think the stigma in the sub is also kind of catered to the people really looking to get serious as opposed to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:21 PM
17

Read my friend to filth. Legit got pregnant a couple months ago with her baby daddy who not only beat her and her 3 year old, but would also come to her house drunk to the point of her having to call the cops. Did I mention she makes minimum wage? To top it off it’s been 7 years and they met when she was 14 and he was 21.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:54 AM
13

Like proposing at a damn hooters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:46 AM
6

Also just checked your profile, YOU ARE STUNNING!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:35 AM
19

I know some people loathe the Marilyn Monroe comparisons but I think she was at her most beautiful in her 30s as opposed to her teens and twenties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:33 AM
32

Tbh I was paranoid he was fantasizing about the chick from work with a big butt. Don’t matter anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:07 AM
15

I remember a dude I used to know talked about going to a bar out of town with a friend and how a cute girl and an “ugly ass bitch” came to talk. Ofc the “ugly one” was flirting with him and he was pushing it away then once he asked his friend to dip she followed him outside to which he replied “fuck off ugly”. Lost whatever remnant of respect I had for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 04:42 PM
11

DUUUDE don’t even get me started. I even did a whole ass post on him and the bullshit he pulled and that’s EXACTLY what he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 01:03 AM
23

When I started working my detailing job the supervisor had a huuuuuge crush on one of the girls that worked there and often confided in me about it. So it was my first week and he was driving me and talking about all he did for her, “On Valentine’s Day I got her a gift!! I didn’t even get my girl a gift!!!”. LMAO YALL SHOULDVE SEEN MY FACE. And later I found out, not only his girl, his WIFE OF 20 YEARS with FIVE KIDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:04 AM
5

Nope, granted she was narcissistic and abusive. I was in a serious relationship of convenience before I was even 18! Thank god for the internet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:01 AM
7

You want a book or the series?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 11:33 PM
4

He raped his niece to the point of suicide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 09:56 PM
54

When I moved and broke it off with my ex he started hitting me up and said, “all I wanted was a girlfriend and I had that and now it’s gone”. I’m like fuck this dude, is that all I was ?? He was a pity boyfriend anyway so I didn’t mourn it but this put into perspective very early the view men, even guys that say they love you, feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:04 PM
13

My old Fwb and I said we didn’t want a relationship but sometimes he’d have me come over just to smoke and not say shit 🙄. Sir if I wanted to sit in highlence I would’ve just stayed in my ducking house. Also tried the jealousy thing on me and I just stopped talking to his bunk ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:57 PM
1

To be fair big and Carrie weren’t originally canon, it’s a disappointment she did end up with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:18 AM
1

I broke it off on a move but it was a relationship of convenience and we were pretty young. I was being abused at home and used him as a crutch, he wanted a girlfriend. Blegh what the hell was i thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:45 PM
35

My fwb would try this despite us saying we didn’t want a relationship. Blockt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:30 PM
3

Also mixed! Black, white, Arab and from my experience the anti blackness can poison it. Most guys will just leave you for a white chick. And if they don’t it’s probably bc you’re Anderson for one reason or another ugh. It’s been a great filter though imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:45 AM
1

Playing dumb fox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:20 AM
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