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Short answer. No ... don't dread her by telling her you decided to go to the seminar. Do the kickboxing as you originally intended for the reasons you originally intended ... and tell her Girls' Night Out is out of the question. Married women don't belong in bars without their husbands. I don't know when or how our society ever got the idea that was an appropriate thing for married women to do?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/14 04:32 AM
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An excellent example of fathering/husbanding!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/14 04:24 AM
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With regard to the first part of what you wrote above .... Okay .... I'm probably gonna catch some flak from you more modern guys on this, but .... Housework & routine child care are a woman's domain. I do plenty of housework, but I do it on my terms & I don't make deals about this task being yours & that task being mine. If I see something needs doing around the house & it's bothering me ... I'll do it without being asked. Otherwise it's her responsibility. And I won't stand being told to do a …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/14 04:14 AM
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"Yesterday involved a two hour argument (shit test)." Two hour argument? Be a man of few words and consistent behavior. Don't get sucked into "two hour arguments."
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/14 03:45 AM
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The problem with teaching below college level is that it's kind of a "pink collar" profession. If you want to be in the education profession plan to actually teach just a few years (enough to get your street-cred) but plan to move up into school administration beyond that - and you will definitely need a graduate degree for that. Perhaps work in an underprivileged district for loan forgiveness for a couple of years & work on a graduate degree while you're doing that? Lots of better school distri…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 09:36 PM
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Kudos! You can now rest assured she'll never pull that shit in front of others again. Only thing I'm wondering is how many of the women in that room who witnessed your response got secret vagina tingles about one second after you walked out the door!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/14 02:04 PM
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Talking to her about it resolves nothing. By *your behavior you must lead her & punish/reward her like a recalcitrant child. Some wives will take longer .... depends on the length of the relationship and the dynamics that have evolved during that time. You don't change a ten year marriage in a matter of weeks & you don't change a twenty year marriage in a matter of months. You gotta be in it for the long-haul. Maintain frame; increase SMV; use amused mastery, dread, etc. If things seem to not be…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/14 02:02 PM
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A little constructive criticism if I may ... not saying you did all wrong. "I also told her that I did not appreciate being talked down to like a child." Could have left out the part about what you did/did-not appreciate and just instructed her "Don't talk to me as if I'm a child" "She went on about how I have been walking around the house with this high and mighty attitude lately and how it was going to stop. I simply told her that I don't know what your talking about." An amused mastery respon…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/14 01:47 PM
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Guys actually don't hit on these type girls much 'cause they kinda blend into things and because .... let's face it ... most guys are kinda like birds & barracudas in that they tend to be attracted to shiny objects - (not to mention easy prey, and low-hanging fruit.) Find the right one ... shine her up a bit, and you might find a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 01:20 AM
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Some of these comments are excluding a certain type girl. There are 20 year old virgins out there. They are generally nerdy STEM majors, close to their parents/family, have strong fathers, and only moderately religious or not at all. They probably don't have any sisters, might have a brother or two, and often will be an only-child. They are probably the product of an intact family, or if parents are divorced it was amicable and later in her life. They might have a degree of social anxiety or OCD…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:03 PM
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You won't like those big tits so much after she has a kid or two & gets older. As to "not fat" .... look at her mother & older sisters to get an idea of what you might be in for.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 02:05 PM
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Don't know how this might add to the discussion. But beyond Rock Stars & other high-earning celebrities there a whole lot of others out there with some degree of money or other most have never heard of. Seeing I was never going to be a Rock Star, Movie Actor, or high-flying executive, I made a plan when I was 25 to retire before age 50. Did so at 48. I have a net-asset value of approx 1.7 million from which I draw about 70k per year income & live a zero-debt lifestyle in a relatively low cost of…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:15 AM
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Wow! She just sucked you right into that pointless conversation, huh? Doesn't she have a girlfriend to hamster with about stuff like that?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:05 PM
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Turn off the TV dude ... and quit wasting time reading/listening to shit that doesn't bring value to your life. Pay just enough attention to all the "noise" so you are aware of what the lay-of-the land is so you know how to live your life in the world as it is, adapt, and overcome. You can't change the whole fucking world, just your little corner of it and it's just so much intellectual masturbation to spend very much time pondering what's fucked up about it & how you would/could change the worl…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 03:39 PM
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You say it's a two-year LDR. You need to spend some time living in close proximity to each other's lives ... but at this point I wouldn't give it more than six months, max. If you don't know by then you are either just indecisive, she's not the one, or you just don't know what you are looking for in a woman and you are wasting both of your time. Let's take a step back here. You indicate you are looking to be a married man someday. With children, I presume. Let me tell you as an old married guy .…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:41 PM
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So you say there's no common-law marriage in your State. Then don't worry about it ... if she wants to move in with you & you want her to then do it. She has a job right? She pays 50% rent, utils, & groceries ... and makes her own student loan payments. Separate finances. Room-mates with benefits. Don't pay for or buy her shit except maybe the occasional dinner out & birthday/christmas gift. And don't make any of her student loan payments if you're not married to her. If marriage is your goal ..…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 06:13 AM
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You're not married with children, are you?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 09:07 PM
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Sounds like Gretchen Wilson "Redneck Woman" territory. I'd take that over a lot of 7, 8, and 9 "club girls" any day! Pay attention city boys! There's some hotties out there in the hinterlands ... but your city SMV might not measure up. They'll just laugh their asses off at your BMW, "cool" threads, and club-game. It's a different kind of game. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82dDnv9zeLs At the same time, I happen to live on the "Redneck Riviera" (aka: the "Emerald Coast") ... you'd be surprised h…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:22 PM
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Here's my take on it: If you don't have height, you can make up for it in other ways. If you're not uber-fit, you can make up for it in other ways. If you don't have a good body-type, you can make up for it in other ways. If you don't have good-looks (face/hair/teeth/etc), you can make up for it in other ways. If you don't have excellent health, you can make up for it in other ways. If you don't have obviously top-notch genetics, you can make up for it in other ways. If you are of an ethnicity n…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:47 PM
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What struck me about the video was the ending. Here we have an attractive woman making a logical/rational argument about men/dating/sex/mating ... then at the end she throws her logical/rational hamstering argument out the window and tells women to just follow their instincts (biology.) There's a lesson there, guys.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 01:31 PM
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The guy says at the end of his post: (And before the advice comes to just leave her, that's not what I'm going to do, so please don't even bother with it.) Well, given that ... there's just no help for this fucking guy, then.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:31 AM
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Just fake it till you make it. Practice on some less-than hotties. Fives & Sixes or whatever. Faking it is good practice for being the real-deal. Just don't lose sight of actually becoming the real-deal & settle for faking it long term.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 06:17 AM
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Race/Ethnicity doesn't matter if you're in the top 10%. I used to have a buddy who was half Lebanese & half Mexican-American. He was one of our undercovers; average looks but a decent build; was in his thirties; and had "game" & charisma out the ass. A natural AF. A "Hank Moody" of his day. Regularly scored young 8's, 9's, 10's, of all races/ethnicities. Wouldn't even waste his time on less than an 8. And this was 20 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 06:12 AM
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Threesomes are cool so long as it's understood that you are the "main attraction."
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:45 AM
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I think the Beatles' White Album was absolutely revolutionary and genius. An enormous contribution to the evolution of rock-n-roll at the time. That said ... those guys were a bunch of betas in their personal lives.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:39 AM
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If you KNOW that you don't want any more kids .... get the snip done. And do it NOW, man. Sooner rather than later. It's no big deal so long as you get some ice-packs & a bunch of John Wayne movies (or whatever it is you like) & just lay up in the recliner for two days & it'll all be fine. Don't disregard this advice & try to go out & do a bunch of shit afterwards. You will regret it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/14 05:21 AM
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Her attacks upon your new "attitude" is just a shit-tests. It's the hamster running on it's wheel, not uncommon. Maintain frame. Don't engage in discussion about it, just express amusement at it. It doesn't mean the shit-tests will ever stop completely, 'cause that's just what they do, but they will quickly decrease in frequency so long as you maintain frame. She will appreciate the new-you sooner than you think & whether she consciously knows it or not.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:47 PM
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The error in the title of this thread is that it was "his" money.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:45 PM
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Once a woman has decided to accept the casual overture and engage in conversation in a daytime setting (normal day-to-day activities, i.e. coffee shop, grocery/retail store, concert, etc), you need to quickly telegraph as to your intentions (subtle escalation.) Otherwise you'll get "acquaintance-zoned." If she rejects your teasing hints you were gonna get "acquaintance-zoned" anyway and better off to end the interaction sooner and not waste your time.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 11:56 AM
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Since when did women really want what they "say" they want? They say they want a tall man till they get run over by a short man who pushes their buttons. (btw - I'm 6'2 so this discussion is really just academic to me. I have a short friend who complains about the women/height thing a lot though.)
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:28 AM
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"Of course she is "allowed" to be emotional and stuff but not me! I have to be the fucking Rock!" That's right, brother. You do. That's just the way of things.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 05:25 AM
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Well, that clearly sends the message "I know what you're doing & I'm not gonna play" - and I've done that .... however I wonder if some other more clever/smart-ass/playful response as some have already suggested doesn't do more to increase a guy's attractiveness.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/14 11:25 AM
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As a 53 year old here's some advice I've given to younger people (but only when asked) Go to college for a specific profession (doctor, lawyer, nurse, engineer, etc) Learn a standard trade/skill (plumbing, electrician, computers, etc), work no more than 3 to 7 years as an employee till you are good at it, then start your own business - don't wait too long to start your own business Learn a very specialized trade/skill and only work very high-paying jobs in extreme situations (example: specialize…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:28 AM
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Well, a little more information would be helpful. But, on first glance at the info provided .... just act "amused" at her SJW antics/rantings. Tell her, "that's nice" ... then grab her ass & feel her up.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/14 12:08 AM
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"you have to be ready to go there to sincerely implement the change in the relationship. It's going to be a power struggle at first for sure. If your not ready to take back your power by going nuclear you wont be able to do it. And she wont take you seriously!" The eventuality of the "nuclear option" should be implicit .... there's options before that though. Such as going MGTOW/monk mode. That'll definitely get the hamster running without creating the major and possibly irreversible insecurity …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/14 10:24 PM
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Till she gets off the libido killing medications ... you just can't know what her natural level of sexual attraction to you really is.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/14 04:03 PM
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Good post!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/14 03:58 PM
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TRP Hard-Mode (aka: Married TRP) is a lot different than regular dating Red Pill, "plates", and a lot of stuff they talk about on the main TRP sub. That's why this valuable sub exists. There's a lot of history to overcome & it's not as easy to dread the "nuclear option" with a wife you've been with for years as it is for a young guy with a girlfriend he met two months ago (no kids, no shared assets, no entangled finances, no family and social circle implications.) You can't dread the "nuclear op…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/14 03:55 PM
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"I think the changes have worried her in a 'what is he up to?' kind of way. " I think this is key to dread game for TRP Hard Mode (aka: Married TRP.) You don't talk a whole lot about change .... you just do & let the hamster start running it's wheel inside her head.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/14 03:42 PM
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90 pounds is a lot of weight gain. I couldn't imaging gaining that much. I gained 30 over a period of two years one time & became pretty disgusted with myself & lost it all in about two months. I'm sure it's not the only reason, but if this is indicative of how he's let himself go in other areas of his life/person .... no wonder the BJ's are gone.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/14 01:31 PM
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People used to refer to the "Seven Year Itch." I don't think there's a 10-year magic number. It can start happening at 2 years, 12 years, or 20 years. It can even start happening at 6 months. It's all the same thing though.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/14 01:28 PM
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"My wife was in the shower one evening so I went into the bathroom. Grabbed my phone, ripped open the shower curtain, and pretended to take a picture. My intent was great. I wanted to show her in a strong way that I am attracted to her and ready to get down... the problem- I just did not pull it off 100%. I think I laughed or had a weird look on my face. My wife said it was more like "Frat boy silly" than sexy. Oops."* Another woman would have found it "sexy." Your wife chose to characterize it …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/14 10:15 PM
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"I told my wife that she needs to cut off all contact with him if we are to continue to be together. It was met with some hesitation, ..." What! Hesitation? No way! ... there should be no hesitation. Hesitation tells me she wants to keep screwing the guy. She's buying time with you to see if she can rope him into a more permanent relationship - then she doesn't have to be alone. "She has decided that she needs to move out in order to focus more on herself and find out if she really wants to be i…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/14 06:57 PM
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Maybe she's hoping if she sticks around for the guy he'll get out of the halfway house and start up in another cushy job through his connections so she can get back into the lifestyle she wants. Knowing her & having witnessed this whole debacle, that's my best guess of what she's hoping for. Some guys seem to be able to get sh*t all over themselves & still come out smelling like a rose in the end ... maybe he'll be one of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/14 01:04 AM
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Lots of people hang around until this point and then the longed-for freedom has them want to relive their own halcyon days as a single person. She never really had any "halcyon days" ... she got prego in HS & married him soon thereafter. Maybe that's part of it? She had probably been receiving encouragement from her single and divorced friends. No doubt ... she works with a lot of women. Also had been going to a lot of girls-nights-out as her kids got older. "Chances are high that if no one had …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/14 01:01 AM
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Very perceptive of you. They did. Her sisters, other family members and friends .... were and still are all on her side. (with the exception of me of course ... though I knew better than to say much about it except to my wife)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/14 12:56 AM
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Behavioral science indicates that intermittent reinforcements of a behavior is more effective than a guaranteed reward. You want her to be addicted to you ... you gotta be a slot machine.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/14 04:09 PM
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That's what I tend to think .... I just hear all these guys on here talk about having "The Talk" --- and from what I understand this thing is a step somewhere in the MMSL book/program. I just don't see it. If you're gonna have a "Big Talk" seems to me it would have to include a nuclear dread option to be credible ... and if you've gotten to that point, well ......
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/14 04:04 PM
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You're in monk-mode. Hang in there. And don't take your emotions too seriously while you're trying to get the nicotine monkey off your back.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 02:36 PM
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I watched your linked video. What are you suggesting? A lone cop take on a large group of armed thugs all by himself? That's not being a "pussy" ... that's recognizing the reality of the situation and not being stupid. Nobody was being assault, raped, robbed, murdered in the video you linked so the usual response of most officers in this situation would be to come back with the cavalry (and that's likely departmental policy as well) And what does any of this have to to with TRP? TRP is about rec…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 02:28 PM
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"I'm switching back to acting more like the person my wife wanted to marry in the first place." That's all fine & dandy if, and only if, that's the person YOU want to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/14 02:12 PM
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This whole situation described in the OP is a "leadership" problem if you ask me --- OP is dealing with an insubordinate First Mate who is not acknowledging his leadership in this area of their life. I'll leave it to others to suggest how he should address this problem ... but I don't think split-finances is the answer (and the law doesn't really allow for it anyway short of divorce - she can always find ways to legally access & spend the money if she really wants to, so he needs to be dealing w…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/14 02:09 PM
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Then what is all this guys on here are talking about "The Talk"? Isn't this something from the MMSL book? (which I haven't read, but read enough about I don't think I'm interested in reading it.) I haven't had a "The Talk" about the various issues in my marital relationship ... doubt I would because I kind of see it the way you describe above and that's just not me. If I need to verbally address some issue in our relationship I tend to do it more in the form of a statement rather than a lengthy …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/14 01:58 PM
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I'm just laying reality out for you. If you're seeing "butthurt" it's because you're looking in a mirror. You're the one who seems to have a "problem."
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 08:44 PM
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Uhhmmmm, okay then. Good luck to you in your future interactions with cops. I can only suspect your mentality about cops is due to being very young, very stupid, or maybe both. TRP is about understanding, recognizing, and accepting reality ... so, here's some reality for you: There's a lot of forces in the world every man must contend with as he goes through this life. Law Enforcement and government authority is just one of them. Understand that most cops don't give a flying f*ck what you think …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 02:19 PM
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Good idea with the car. Yeah, I don't think when it comes to the red pill on "hard mode" (married) "the talk" could really be much effective without mention of the nuclear option. So if one is not yet ready to go there ....
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/14 02:08 PM
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The first rule of TRP is you don't talk about TRP. I'm talking about the sex/behavior "talk."
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/14 02:05 PM
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Dude! Quit making all these deals and "agreements" with her. She's a SAHM. You go to work & bring home the bacon. Her job is keeping the home. That means 100% of the housework & kid-chores is her responsibility. Does she help you with your income producing work? Any of her shit you choose to do is gratuitous and as a favor to her or just because you want to. Biggest mistake I made in my long marriage was to assume I had any responsibility whatsoever for routine child-care and housework when my w…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/14 06:54 AM
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This is better from Billy Joel. Dude actually had a lot of RP songs ... for a short dude :) They're always ultimately attracted to be fucked by a guy who can actually DO shit Excuse all the "gay" dance moves .... it was the 80's guys. (and this is also why if you're gonna ride an MC ... you ride a Harley, preferably a custom build & not off-the-rack) Alpha Fux: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hCuMWrfXG4E
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 06:26 AM
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Don't be so quick to paint all LEO's the same. As a 26 year retired Federal Agent (1811 series Special Agent/Criminal Investigator) who has worked with many a State & local over the years, I can tell you there's all kinds of people in the business for all kinds of reasons. (not unlike many other career fields) For me, it was always just a job ... a profession, I had never even thought about being in law enforcement before I got into it, I just kind of fell into it accidentally. And it was reward…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 06:13 AM
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"I can't wait to date again and find a man who will actually stay loyal, but remarrying isn't on my agenda anytime soon." Translation: "I'm gonna ride the cock carousel for a while"
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 03:29 PM
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"she told me that she just came out of something and wasnt really ready," That's the hamster talking. You should have gotten the message right then you'd been friend-zoned. Should have gone your own way after that.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 03:27 PM
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And get fired. And maybe get charged with assault.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 03:24 PM
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This is the same as the old joke: Man asks girl in bar if she would have sex with Donald Trump for a million dollars. She says, "of course". He then tells her he's not Donald Trump and doesn't have a million dollars but can give her $20. She replies "what kind of girl do you think I am?" Man responds: "Well, we've already established what kind of girl you are ... now we're just haggling over the price."
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:26 PM
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You work full-time and she's a SAHM who works ten hours a week & has a lot of downtime where she "just lounges around watching TV?" She needs to be doing 80% to 90% of the household chores & routine child care. Stop doing all that sh*t. Let her do it. Does she really make that much money at only 10 hours per week? Is it necessary to the family budget? If not tell her to quit & she can do 100% of the routine housework & child care and increase both of your quality of life.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/14 06:53 AM
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"She came over, wrapped her arms around me and apologized and said she gets so frustrated that she can't keep the house as clean as she'd like." And did she then give you a blowjob?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:01 AM
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Marital "harmony" is a two way street. When a man takes all the responsibility for "harmony" upon himself, she loses respect for him. You let her know (by actions more than words) what it's going to take to keep the relationship harmonious ... and if she wants it to be she will gladly comply.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/14 01:21 PM
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Well, I'd keep my house clean & fix shit whether I was married or not (did before I was married) ... that's just who I am - so I don't get that whole thing as being "beta" behavior & don't see how it should have anything whatsoever to do with sexual attraction. (other than if you're just a slob who doesn't attend to things any man or woman should) I guess it would be "beta" behavior if you were doing it with some kind of idea it would make her more sexually attracted to you. It's like I had to t…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/14 02:59 AM
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I haven't read the book ... but I've done some reading on their forum and I'm skeptical. Sure seems to me they have a man jumping through a lot of hoops to try & make his wife's panties wet. If you ask me ... if a man has a fit body; dresses well; has good hygiene; is personable; brings home the bacon; takes care of business (financial, fixes things, etc); steps up to deal with the kids & other things when necessary; engages in some man-pursuits; is competent & attentive in bed; ... that should …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/14 08:24 AM
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"LTR's are different than spinning plates" .... yes they are. And married 10 years with two kids & a mortgage is different than two 24 year olds who have been shacked up for 8 months. That's why I'd like to see the marriedredpill sub become more active ... there's just a lot that twenty-something y/o single dudes out there spinning plates cannot completely grasp, not having been there ... but some like to wade into those type topics anyway as though they know everything about it. A slightly diff…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:41 PM
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It's a preemptive strike. She's telling him this story now because of one or more of the following: A. Other people know she screwed the guy at the party; B. She suspects other people know she screwed the guy at the party: C. The guy she screwed at the party has been talking; D. She fears the guy she screwed at the party might talk.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 06:50 PM
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I don't have a lot to offer except this ..... I've known a number of men with foreign wives and I've seen many of those wives insulate themselves by socializing primarily (& sometimes exclusively) only with other women (& men) from their home country/language after they move here. This will not a good thing for your marriage for a lot of reasons. If you marry be sure of the following: *She becomes fluent in English & comfortable socializing with westerners. *She hangs around and socializes with …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 01:47 PM
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Not necessarily true. A lot of men cheat because their wife has turned into a bitchy fat slob and they are totally unattracted to her anymore. Lots of bitchy fat slobs still duty-fuck their husbands .... but he's just not interested anymore (for obvious reasons.) But they can't leave her for some reason or other - usually kids and money. So they deal with it by trying to get some strange whenever they can.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 01:33 PM
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Nothing to see here folks. I'm an older, relatively successful, married guy & had a lot of friends & co-workers get divorced. I've seen it too many times. Don is going to lose his house & half his money & other stuff; pay some child support; pay alimony/maintenance for 5 to 10 years if not longer; and pay for the kid's college. He'll be on the hook for ex-wife's health insurance as well and kids till age 26. Is there a pension plan or 401k? If married more than 10 years she gets half of that too…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 01:23 PM
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Number 3 is the main reason men cheat also.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 01:06 PM
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Haven't read the book ... only read some of the advice given over there, not all of which I agree with on a very fundamental basis.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 01:11 PM
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That may be, but I can tell you this .... they're damn sure not interested in how a man "feels." They may ask .... but they really don't want to know.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 12:53 PM
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That's not a Celine Dion song ... it's a cover of a song by a one-hit-wonder named Eric Carmen back in the 70's. It was all over the radio for a while back then. Back in the days when the media was teaching us young men to be all "sensitive" (blue pill) and shit. There were a slew of whiny popular songs like that back then, as well as a lot of songs that put women on a pedestal. I guess most on here are too young to know that.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 12:44 PM
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I'm an old married guy. Traditional old-fashioned marriage, SAHM, traditional gender roles, Captain/First-Mate, etc. We had one kid which is all I wanted, then I got the vasectomy. It's not a big deal & there's no change in function or anything else. Snip, snip, a couple days of tenderness & you're done. Listen. If you know you want to have kids don't have a vasectomy till you do. The possibility of reversal is not guaranteed. There can be issues with frozen sperm as well. Besides, if your plan …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 01:57 AM
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Sounds like pretty good odds so long as you're in the top 20 of those 100 men.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 04:29 PM
1

Sadly, I'm thinking there's not much this guy can do but seriously threaten and possibly exercise the nuclear option. This is all about what makes her panties wet. Here's my view of these type situations. They've been together for 5 years. The longer a woman has been married to (or with) a man the more her view of his beta/alpha ratio becomes set in stone. Once it tips over a certain ratio he's no longer making her panties wet (if he ever did) Going to be very hard to change at that point no mat…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 02:05 PM
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I can probably help out as mod .... I've done a little bit of it & even created, owned, and operated a forum in the past (although it eventually flopped!)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/14 01:01 PM
3

Glad to see this sub. The main TRP sub, while informative, seems to have a lot of younger never married guys on it whose information about the marital relationship and marital-sex is mostly theoretical. (to put it more bluntly .... a lot of them really don't know shit about it) I don't need marital relationship tips/advice/strategy from some 20 year old kid whose never been married. It's a little different for us married guys because there is a history there and expectations she has built over t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/14 12:45 PM
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This brings up a good question - what steps should a man take to lock down the finances when he's planning a "surprise" divorce? (not that I'm planning one, just curious in case I ever need to)
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:38 AM
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That's usually a "charity" type deal so far as I know .... it's not like begging for money, & I doubt it happens that often. I was an LEO, not FD so have no personal experience with that. In any case, I bet they all have a good time at the bar after a few hours out raising some dough for charity or whatever they're raising it for (and think of the chicks passing by they get to meet) Every girl likes a big strong Fireman.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 01:40 AM
2

You left out "Beta Bux, 0 Fux" That comes after she's got the # of kids she wants.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 01:28 AM
8

"Don't worry. You'll make a good husband for some woman someday." (probably a single-mother of two who has been riding the cock-carousel for 10 or 15 years)
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 01:19 AM
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Wow! The guy let 11 dudes plow his wife? Is that for real or some kind of troll? Where do these guys come from? I get ticked when my neighbor mows the grass over onto my side of the property line. (note to self: need to catch him out & let him know about that)
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 12:50 AM
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I think the first step is instilling in your wife, without ever having to say it out loud, a sense that she can stay or she can go ... and that if she doesn't "want" to be on your personal man-bandwagon than you not only don't give a fuck if she goes, you'd rather she did if she's not happy to be there. Finances and kids be damned. (This is assuming, of course, you've done the things you need to do to make your personal man-bandwagon a place a number of women, including her, would want to ride.)…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 12:42 AM
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I think you missed my point 'HamHungry' - not really what I said. About my putting "effort" in, I mean. But yes, she should love me for who I am ... and if she doesn't then I need to change or we need to split. I want my wife to want to fuck me like I was the plumber or a guy she met in a bar on girls night out (not that my wife is fucking the plumber or goes to any girls nights out) I don't want her to fuck me simply because I'm her husband and asked her to. I'd rather do without. Unlike some o…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 12:15 AM
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Or as Vladimir Putin recently said "It's better not to argue with women."
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 07:26 PM
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Agreed. You shouldn't have to "seduce" your wife in order to get some duty sex. I've been reading a bit on MMSL forum (Athol & Jennifer Kay) and this is where I think I disagree with the info they put out (no, I haven't read their book) I've come to conclusion that men need to be the man they want to be .... and if being that man doesn't, in and of itself, make her panties wet - then maybe it's time for the man to move on. (and vice-versa as for women - if she is being the woman she wants to be …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 07:22 PM
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That deserves restating for emphasis: "Obligation sex is the worst." If who I am doesn't make your panties wet, I don't want to have sex with you.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 07:15 PM
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So long as your daughter is unmarried and in college/technical school; or still living at home with momma, you'll still be on the hook for some support. Don't believe me? Just wait & see. And if you are currently providing her health insurance you'll be on the hook for that till she's 26 or married.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 07:05 PM
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What I & some of my friends with useless degrees did ..... Law Enforcement or Fire Department. If you're interested, here's what I learned during my career: Go with a larger city or State police/fire department or Federal, not some small department. Job security +++++ so long as you don't fuck-up, retirement package, other bennies both financial & social, Early retirement, good salary prospects if you play your cards right, Social respect, Fun work. Often get paid to work out. Also invest a good…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:07 PM
1

How about if I do my own tat, then? lol! You don't seriously think getting a tat makes you somebody else's bitch do you?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:27 AM
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Oh, no! You're hanging with a bunch of 'country/rednecks' talking about their trucks & you're talking about your VW Jetta? Either get a truck yourself or just nod in agreement, admire, and ask questions about their trucks. (please tell me you're not in Monroe, LA)
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:25 AM
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This. (what 'FatStig' said above) I started reading some TRP and realized it explained everything I had come to suspect over the years about men & women, my relationships, and my sex life from age 15 to now (53)
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:19 AM
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From the OP: "After a few minutes of petting and stroking her she took my hand off her downstairs region." And you didn't put it back or continue warming her up in other ways? The fact you were there in the first place evidences she was DTF. A. She didn't want you to think she was a total slut, so she wanted to put up a little token resistance. B. It was a test of your dominance. I'm not saying you should have raped her .... but I think you failed a test. (And especially with your text afterward…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 09:15 PM
1

Being a good-guy & being a nice guy are not the same thing. At all. I'm a good-guy, but not always a nice-guy.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 02:04 PM
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About the age of 35 I resolved to become debt free. I began making payments to myself rather than creditors which I invested & cotinually received interest instead of continually paying it. I was able to retire at 48 & am still debt free. I love it!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 01:48 PM
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From the article: "Without lonely men, single moms would have a much rougher go of it." So true!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 01:45 PM
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Sorry, man. An 08 Jetta does not show "abundance mentality." Don't talk about your cars with women ... they either like it, they don't, or they're ambivalent about it.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 01:43 PM
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As does your comment. So why are you bothering to comment on it? If you personally get nothing from a topic maybe you should just move along?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 01:04 PM
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Not so much into "art" for arts-sake .... but it would definitely have to be something meaningful to me. A reminder to self of where I've been, what I've done, who I am, and what I'm about.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 12:53 PM
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If you don't have anything thoughtful to offer on the topic maybe you should just STFU ... "bro"
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 12:50 PM
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Is this a good example of female "Solipsism?": I learned many years ago not to ever express feeling depressed, upset, worried, etc about anything to my wife, because ultimately all it did was make her angry with me. Why did it make her angry? Because, as I learned, she does not really care a rat's ass for me about how I might be feeling, rather what she really cares about is how the way I might be feeling affects her & her world-bubble. Does that make sense to anyone? (Advice to single guys from…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 12:19 PM
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The only thought I have to offer at this point in the thread is that some of the moralizing white-knights who have commented thus far have never been married for 15 years. They have no clue what it's like. It's not always that easy to just up & walk out the door, for a lot of reasons, not just kids or financial. What the OP doesn't do is explain just what it is about his wife that he has chosen to have an affair. A little more background would be helpful. I've been married 24 years & running som…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 01:22 AM
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I was just today thinking of starting a thread on this very topic. Lots of pop songs with beta lyrics as well. As a music lover ... it's not wonder I was brainwashed into beta behavior for so many years, despite having had an alpha father and 30 years in a very alpha profession. I was listening to my favorite classic rock station today & the song "Lying Eyes" by the Eagles came on .... made me think of so many things I've read here on TRP & other websites. Post-wall woman marries up to beta prov…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 08:37 PM
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<"What OP wants is a good, traditional/conservative, feminine woman which is becoming rarer and rarer. Those woman desire marriage first and a traditional family too. .... OP needs to literally scour for that unicorn"/> Another alternative is to find a woman who is good basic material to work with & make her his unicorn. They are out there ... they just need the guidance of a strong man.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:14 AM
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Maybe for you, but recognize that some men actually want to have children and want to raise them together with a woman as a family .... i.e. Mom & Dad.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:10 AM
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First thing need to know does the OP want to have kids? No reason to ever get married except if one has a desire to have kids and be a family. I've always felt that way & I've been married a long time & have one child. If you want to have one or more kids (married or not) you need to accept there WILL without a doubt be child support if you split up. If you cohabit as a family without legal marriage and later split up you might come off a little better on the preservation of assets depending on …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:08 AM
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Ruth Bader Ginsburg kinda looks like a hamster, doesn't she? (just sayin')
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 02:56 AM
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Suggestions? Quit smoking pot & cigarettes.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:29 AM
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I never use words to implement a little dread. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:00 AM
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Wow! I see I got negative points for my comment. Without having read the article, how would any of you even know what type woman this is when you encountered her on the plane? You know, you don't have to be an asshole or woman-hater to be Alpha. If being a gentleman to a perfect stranger threatens one's masculinity ... then I'd have to think maybe they ought to re-evaluate their masculinity. And for you PUA types .... pulling her bag down for her is a perfect opener. Maybe you'd get a chance to …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 05:53 AM
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Were I in an aisle position to do so, before she even reached for her bag or asked I would step in front of her & ask "which one is yours" - get it down & hand it to her. Not because I am a servile Beta, but because I am mostly old-school Alpha and that's what we do. I wouldn't carry it down the aisle & off the plane for her though. Some years ago I would then have given her a discrete pat on the ass immediately afterwards, but you gotta be careful about that nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 08:40 AM
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Instant Asshole - Just Add Alcohol
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 08:25 AM
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The OP says: "After a few months her attitude started changing. " It's kind of weird the way mine is handling it. Maybe it's gonna take longer with her because we've been married over 20 years. On the one hand, she's started bringing home a lot of junk food lately - chips w/salsa, crackers, potato chips, soda pop, baking cakes, etc .... we NEVER used to eat that kind of CRAP and she knows it's not on my current gym diet. Wonder if it has something to do with my having lost 30 pounds the past 6 m…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 01:27 AM
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The OP says: "After a few months her attitude started changing. " I've have been married a long time & never been thoroughly a Beta but have of late been upping my Alpha. Encountering a lot of resistance/hamstering in the process. She's been trying out anger, aloofness, sadness, guilt-tripping, etc (to no avail of course, I just maintain frame) I am curious to hear from the OP or others as to what kind of resistance/behaviors he or they encountered during that process.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:48 PM
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10 years from now when she has two kids & married that pussy will have suddenly become so "precious" think of the hoops she'll have Mr BetaBux jump through just to tap it once every month or two. If a lot of guys only knew how cheap their wife's pussy was back in the day they'd be really pissed. Actually, I think deep-down a lot of them do know .. but they suppress it because they'd rather not know.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:52 PM
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First order of business .... go down & get yourself tested for any/every STD that can be tested for. Second order of business .... insist she do the same & share the results with you. Consult with a divorce attorney and do not let her know you are doing so or even mention the word divorce until you do. If you decide to give her the heave-ho you should plan it very quietly. She should never see it coming. Be aware she may already have done the same. Make nice & hamster your relationship together …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:43 AM
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Note I said "given ... there is likely a lot this woman is leaving out of the story." And given that .... her agenda was to obtain the resources the male had to offer (promotion, better work assignment, new desk, whatever) in exchange for the sex she had to offer. From a moral standpoint ... fair trade. She later regretted the deal so decided to characterize it as something else ... that she was "forced." (Note that nowhere in her post does she say the guy told her "blow me or your fired." Do yo…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 10:45 PM
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I agree there is likely a lot this woman is leaving out of the story. Given that be true, then from a moral standpoint I don't see anything wrong with what happened. From a legal standpoint the man was quite stupid.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 09:09 PM
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This post is very true. Sure, women will get in a little panic for a few years to find a beta provider for their babies when they hit the wall ... but once they get him, they're back in the catbird seat again. Unless she hooked up with some broke loser.... if he leaves her, or she leaves him, she ends up with half his money & stuff, child support, and maybe even some alimony. And even if she chose poorly & doesn't get a lot of money/stuff out of the dude ... the State will be there to provide. A…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 02:22 AM
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I used to try to talk to my best bro/wingman of many years about Red Pill - he's a good dude & all, but he just never really got it. We've talked about Red Pill kind of stuff before there ever really was a name for it. I would think he was getting it and then he would go off on some kind of Beta tangent, so I finally quit trying. The first two rule of "Fight Club" come to mind.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 05:58 PM
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Although not currently accepted in Western culture, I think a man having more than one wife (provided he can support and protect them and their progeny) is biologically, evolutionarily, and sociologically normal and natural. I don't think the same about a woman "mating" with more than one man.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 05:19 PM
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Jacking off a few times a week when one is not getting regular is okay & healthy. Playing a favorite video game a few times a week for no longer than an hour or two at a sitting is okay & healthy, if that's what one enjoys. Much more frequency than that on a regular long-term basis & then I'd have to say that person has a problem. Just my 2 cents.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 05:11 PM
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I disagree that a philosophy of "Do whatever the fuck you want to do is alpha."
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 05:06 PM
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Is that how the whole gun restrictions thing got started there down under? Women? Would seem to me if there were any place in the world a responsible man should be able to carry a gun it would be Australia? Strange times we live in.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 04:59 PM
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Not my intent to "shame" anybody ... but some things I read & just want to say "buck up, dude." You made your bed, either lie in it or get off your *ss & re-make it. Whining's not productive. (of course, I guess in a way I'm kinda whining with this thread!)
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:49 PM
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She "said" she committed adultery ... after discovering how emotionally unstable he is. Doesn't sound to me like she wants to be married to him anymore - kid or no kid. I think based upon the info in the article it's as likely or not she's trying to push him out the door ... and figured that just might be what it would take to do it (considering how clingy he obviously is from his statements in the article)
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:15 PM
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Haha! I like that story about your father kicking a woman out of bed for farting. (and I agree with him)
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:06 PM
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I just don't see the point. (unless of course she has wealth or a lot of earning capacity & you want to be a gold-digger)
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:05 PM
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<<< "I've been feeling very scared about what's happening. I love you more than anything in this entire world. I cannot live my life without you. It was never a choice for me, K. I didn't choose to be with you.. I simply cannot exist without your love, this marriage, and the wonderful life that we've built for ourselves." >>> This is the most pathetic statement in an article full of pathetic statements by this guy. No surprise at all she wants to push him out the door.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:00 PM
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It was one and done for me. snip snip. Always planned it that way & told my wife before we got married. It's a very personal preference and don't let anyone decide it for you. There's pros & cons either way. Sometimes I think if I was gonna have one I should have had two, but I never look back and no regrets. I made my choice about that long ago. Btw - I never recommend anyone get married if they don't want to have and raise kids. If you decide you want one or some ... you first need to find a w…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:27 PM
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In the most "blue pill" moments of my 25 year marriage I was never as pathetic as this guy. Sounds like his wife is far more "red pill" than he is. It's not her, it's not the baby ... it's him. He needs to buck-up. What did he get married for if he didn't want to have a kid? I wanted to have just one. We had one. I got a vasectomy. Done. (I could never see any good reason for man to get married except to have & raise a kid) As to paternity ... he needs to have a test done at this point. Her afte…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:08 PM
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Take a break from reading/talking/thinking about it. Go build or conquer something. Revisit the topic when you are feeling better.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 10:55 AM
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My 25 years of marriage might disprove your thinking on that.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:59 AM
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Depends on whether she tries to keep herself up or not. Men's SMV tends to go down as they get older as well ... how much depends on how they keep themselves up.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:53 AM
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"as you get older the sex becomes less important" No it doesn't. My fishing buddy is a "good person" ... doesn't mean I want to go to bed with him.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:51 AM
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No argument, dude. Just I've seen a lot of people who are pretty much addicted to those kind of games, and it's kinda pathetic. But yeah ... if she doesn't truly & enthusiastically want to jump on your dick, then fuck her. I've been there done that. But if that be the case, you also gotta ask yourself why that is.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 02:42 AM
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"Learning pickup lines and how to whisper in a girl's ear you want to fuck her doesn't make you alpha, it makes you nothing other than a man. " I think pretty much every guy's got an alpha side to him, whether he lives it or not. Live your alpha & you don't need to memorize pick-up lines.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 02:23 AM
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"World of Warcraft?" Seriously? How old are you? 20 year marriage you gotta be 38 minimum. Why shouldn't I be surprised if she doesn't want to fuck you? I mean, no offense intended man, but seriously? "World of Warcraft?"
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 02:15 AM
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I disagree. Why deprive yourself. Get right back out there. Just quit "talking" to women so much. You are playing a woman's game when you start "talking" about relationships. There's never any good reason to get into an argument with a woman. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 01:05 PM
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I'm kinda new to this whole "red pill" scene on the internet - & from what I've read I guess I can assess myself as having been 70% red-pill & 30% blue-pill most of my life. But I just don't "get" this whole MGTOW celibacy thing? What's that about? Why would any man want to give up on fucking women?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 12:55 PM
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I'm gonna copy/paste my recent post from another thread because it's applicable here. I'm an old married guy, btw, and not averse to getting some strange on the side from time-to-time (which I do, no judgements please) ... I don't do a lot of "stuff" with my wife, she holds down the fort, mows the grass & keeps up the yard, does most of the cooking, does the routine shopping, etc ... and fucks/sucks me. It's a happy arrangement. I've found most women are just not that interesting to hang out wit…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 12:46 PM
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I'm thinking the former doesn't quite "get" the concept of the latter. Getting laid is awesome (usually) but after 10 minutes of obligatory after-sex cuddling I'm generally ready to go back to conquering or building something rather than just lay around the house or go shopping.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 12:39 PM
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I've found most women are just not that interesting to hang out with for extended periods with as "just-friends" ...... I spend a lot of my time doing things like scuba diving & spearfishing; Harley riding; off-shore fishing/boating; fishing for monster shark from the beach at night; fixing/maintaining mechanical things & building stuff; ocean & river kayaking, etc. I've done those things with women from time-to-time and found most women don't have enough knowledge, physical stamina, and/or need…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 12:06 PM
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So now there are rules of behavior made by women as to how men are supposed to behave when women are acting bitchy? I'll be damned! In the old days a lot of 'em would just get a spanking. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIp3VTJ1GZY
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 03:58 AM
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Get your own place. Preferably in a complex where friends/acquaintances of yours already reside.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 04:24 AM
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Don't know how many on here watched the series "Lost", but for those who did think about the character "Sawyer" a lot of women swooned over ... quintessential alpha bad-boy, an asshole in a lot of instances ... but he liked to read in private & the leading lady was surprised to later discover he was well versed in pretty much any literary topic. Juxtaposition.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 11:34 PM
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If she portrayed herself as "a little chubby" on the dating site .... I'm thinking you shoulda known better. I've never tried to meet a woman on a dating site, but my view of it would be if they're not telling their height/weight stats upfront, or a full body pic, they're trying to downplay it. Don't sweat it though .... we've all been lied to by women before. At least you still have your self-respect by not doing the deed with her.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:20 PM
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Yup.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:14 PM
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"Being a beta isn't so terrible." .... until the sex slows down to a trickle, which it usually well.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:11 PM
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I wouldn't do it. The cuck's an acquaintance, mind you ... not like he's a close friend. Not my job to go around saving every sap in the world whose woman is screwing around on him. That kind of shit can backfire on you sometimes anyway. As I said in my previous post, I'd just use the information as an opportunity to instill a little dread in my wife. Any woman one is in a sexual relationship needs to know clearly that despite what the media/feminism may have taught them if she screws around on …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 12:04 PM
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I don't think you "won" or "lost" ... it's not like you were rejected. You just didn't follow up with a woman you were attracted to and who was apparently attracted to you .... simply because she mentioned during the course of the conversation she currently had a boyfriend. So, essentially you cock-blocked yourself based upon that information, so far as I can tell. Boyfriends come and go. If you were the better man than the reported "boyfriend" you might have "won" her simply via hypergamy. But …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 11:58 AM
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I doubt I'm "the exception." It's not like there's tens of millions of men running around with all kinds of medical problems, angst, or in therapy due to having been circumcised. I'm guessing there's at least the same percentage of men with angst about their uncircumcised cock as there are the other way. Unless being circumcised or uncircumcised has caused one a medical problem (possible and uncommon in both situations) ... it's really a non-issue so far as I can see. A lot of hyperbole going on…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 11:26 AM
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Don't feel bad for me. I get plenty "spectrums of pleasure" and have never gotten sore after "fucking for so long."
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:43 AM
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I don't feel violated or mutilated.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:41 AM
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It's just the custom here ... and expected by many.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:40 AM
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Circumcised as an infant and happy that I am. Plenty of sensitivity, no loss of function, no chafing/irritation, and certainly no emotional scars over it. My personal informal survey of not a few women over the years (& I'm not a young guy) informs me most American women prefer it. I can't imagine ever wanting or needing such a device as linked in the OP. If you are happy with yourself however you are in that regard, then that's all that counts.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:00 AM
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You can't change other people. You can only change yourself, how you respond to other people, and lead by example. The more immediate question I think is .... why are you living with these people?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 10:08 PM
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A lot of women subconsciously know they don't have to maintain themselves in a manner appealing to men ... because if they don't have a man to provide for them the government/society will, and if they do have a man to provide for them the law will force him to. (as to getting laid ... there's always some dude around who will fuck a fat girl, unless she's just horribly obese of course)
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:56 PM
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If she had not told you she had a boyfriend would you have asked for her number or FB? Ask for her number anyway. In a situation where it's not likely you'll bump into her again, what have you got to lose? Did you ask any subtle probing questions to garner more information on the "boyfriend" situation. Information like how long he's been her "boyfriend."; how deep is their relationship; do they live together; is she satistified with him (remember hypergamy), etc? Some single women, especially yo…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:58 PM
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This is why the Betas in our lives must be marginalized at every opportunity and the women in our lives need to see that happen. Otherwise, in subtle ways they attempt to undermine our power and authority. For example, I have two very Beta neighbors. I don't visibly dislike them and I don't talk to them a lot, but when I do it's from a position of the superior male. (Their wives like me a lot, btw.)
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:40 PM
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Good post.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 09:56 PM
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It's the Betas that give them an overinflated sense of importance and self-worth. It's the Betas that have voted for the media, Hollywood, and the government to lean feminist. Used to do it myself from time to time. I've since learned better, and a little disgusted even at some of my past Beta behavior when it comes to women. Don't be angry at women. Women are gonna do what women are gonna do when left without the guidance and correction of a strong man. If Red Pill men want to be pissed at anyb…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 09:21 PM
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