5TRC4LIFE Archive

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2	My brother in laws divorce settlement He knows something you don't. I guarentee he held his ground on no alimony knowing damn well she will piss away every dime of that money before she dies and be hard up until death comes knocking.. he will probably be a little more responsible with what is left of his hard earned money and live comfortably pissed off! Easy come, easy go! She won't save it or budget. She will continue to manipulate the rest that come after him.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/12/24 12:47 AM
8	cousin fucker Get your kids outta there bro. I can't even begin to imagine the level of mind bending justifications this woman has given to allow herself or the the children to believe this is normal everyday behavior.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/24 02:29 PM
7	Is this fair? Hahahahaha...welcome to the get fucked game of divorce with children. Either find a cash side hustle and never say shit about it or slowly lower your income with less hours worked or take a lower earning job but don't go drastic.. just slow suttle decreases in income over a few years and have the support reconsidered by the court. It won't drop thousands but maybe enough to afford a decent summer vacation for you and the kiddos.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/24 01:52 AM
3	I’ve finally told her it’s over Don't keep putting yourself through this.. she will continue to play this game with you. It's anything but that. This is your life. Take control of it! Find a distraction. A good solid hobby. If that isn't enough to help clear your mind at times then turn to the group here. We have all been through the ringer. It gets better with time my friend.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/24 09:48 PM
11	keeping a secret My oldest found out well before I knew.. her email correspondence with AP, her office partner, was also going to his phone for 8 months, Amazon recipts, gifts purchased that were sent to another address, hotel stays... she was oblivious as to how a shared Google acct on our sons phone would have allowed this to happen... he also never came and said anything to me. Later on, after our divorce was final and the family was torn apart, he came and talked to me about alot of how he had and was feelin…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/22 11:31 PM
21	Feeling like a failure after divorce Pretty spot on right here... there should be a list of the standard/default moves and the order they will done that every typical female chooses to make while getting divorced. It's almost funny to me anymore reading the same crap happening over and over again. This guy is right. Here is your warning. Don't get sucked into the pick me game and get ready for battle.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/22 04:07 PM
3	[NY] Can a father get a fair judgement in a custody case? I was able to get 50/50 shared custody. I had to fight hard to get it though. Which seems absolutely unnecessary, especially when our children's childhood development is significantly impacted with a split family setting. Then to minimize the amount of time even further is asinine. Im greatful that the Jude in my county was also a divorced father and knew the struggles I faced. Even with 50/50 I still pay a significant amount of CS and am the lower earner.. thanks to my ex having children previo…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/22 12:53 AM
2	To move or not to move? I'm going to be in this same situation myself. We are in the midst of divorce. I'm trying to keep our house so I can stay near the kids and continue to co-parent. She will remain in the same town.. she has been here for 40years and works for the hospital in town. I have no friends here and my job is over an hour away. I have to stay for my children. My youngest is 4.. so I will be here for a while. Im trying to find more things to do around here while the kids will be with their mother and not w…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/21 02:13 AM