5piders Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	I fucking did it! How i stopped overthinking, got present in the moment and approached! Hell yea keep up the good work. Only thing I'd do differently is make it even more present and positive. Instead of focusing on my needs, I tell myself: Okay why are you nervous? Because that girl excites you I don't get nervous around girls I'm not into. Being nervous is the first sign that you absolutely should approach that woman. When you reposition it as something you're nervous about because you like her (someone you're excited to talk to), your goal will be the fun in the interaction. Bre…	/r/seduction	02/04/21 12:53 PM
7	Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar scene Reading body language is absolutely key. If she's not giving you positive body signals I wouldn't even bother. Personally, I make eye contact with every woman I find cute, and if she likes me she'll often do a very specific move where she catches me looking, looks away, then looks back at me, maybe a few times. She may even close the proximity between us. If I get that signal I'll ignore her for a minute or two, then approach casually. You absolutely have to read people's cues to day game or you…	/r/seduction	20/03/21 12:04 PM
-1	Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar scene Because a lot of women are imagining worst case scenarios or their own horror stories I would guess. Reminds me of that famed Gillette commercial that villainized a man who saw a hot woman on the street and is about to approach her when another guy stops him. You know, the one that became a meme. The message being "Even approaching women is wrong and misogynist. Don't even talk to them. Court them with telepathy."	/r/seduction	20/03/21 11:58 AM
5	Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar scene When you say Anglosphere it reminds me of an argentine friend I had that used to approach women in the park, go on a short walk with them, and literally get laid in the park. People in the US are so sexually uptight haha	/r/seduction	20/03/21 11:50 AM
9	Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar scene Not even on point just not an absolute dunce. Wonder what that idiot thought he was accomplishing?	/r/seduction	20/03/21 11:46 AM
8	Just have fun and stop overthinking it And I'd add that sex without a fun or romantic connection pales in comparison to sex with it.	/r/seduction	17/03/21 10:03 AM
1	For men, being ‘Good Looking’ and ‘Physically Attractive’ are different things I had this problem when I had a really demanding job. Some guys said "just act like you don't care." Well dude if I didn't care I wouldn't try at all.	/r/seduction	16/03/21 09:22 PM
2	For men, being ‘Good Looking’ and ‘Physically Attractive’ are different things Lol @ your personality names there. I fully expected this to go the other way, as I've never been fat or decidedly unattractive, so I really don't know how it is on the other side. But your story reminded me of a girl I knew in college who lost 150 pounds and happened to be hiding a beautiful petite blonde underneath. She couldn't handle the attention, she banged tons of dudes and when she and I hung out (we had a Spanish class together) she was needy and dramatic about everything. It felt like …	/r/seduction	16/03/21 07:08 PM
2	For men, being ‘Good Looking’ and ‘Physically Attractive’ are different things Ok so I'm on the right track already then haha	/r/seduction	16/03/21 04:33 PM
2	For men, being ‘Good Looking’ and ‘Physically Attractive’ are different things I'll keep that in mind, because now I can make it a fun date pretty easily but working on escalating the interaction. I try to avoid strategizing too hard though as it's distracting and feels contrived. So if you've got any simple tips please share	/r/seduction	16/03/21 02:56 PM
1	Is DMing girls on Instagram even worth it? Instagram is a shallow pit of depression. Talk to women in real life, it will instantly set you apart from 90% of guys	/r/seduction	16/03/21 02:24 PM
7	For men, being ‘Good Looking’ and ‘Physically Attractive’ are different things I didn't even get that. If they stick around long enough they tend to like my personality, but for most of my life I haven't had the confidence to initiate, I've just gotten lucky. Now at 30 I've finally stopped giving a shit and I'm realizing how easy it all can actually be when I stop worrying about what she thinks. But absolutely, yes it does make you feel fucked up. And all the coddling of ugly men in the media as if it's easy for us on the other side.	/r/seduction	16/03/21 10:48 AM
3	For men, being ‘Good Looking’ and ‘Physically Attractive’ are different things Completely agree. There are infinite reasons she might not be attracted to you, most of which have nothing to do with you. But if the reason is that you didn't make an effort or you showed her your self doubt, that kills your chances the most. All the rest doesn't even matter.	/r/seduction	16/03/21 10:21 AM
118	For men, being ‘Good Looking’ and ‘Physically Attractive’ are different things I'm naturally "good looking" with a strong jawline, light colored eyes, and a metabolism that scorches calories while leaving my broad shoulders and fairly muscled frame. I have sucked wind with women my entire life. I'm even pretty funny. The success I've had I would attribute solely to making myself vulnerable, forgetting the consequences, and empathizing. I'm finally getting consistent dates and even getting laid simply because I'm taking advantage of opportunities and becoming outcome indepe…	/r/seduction	16/03/21 12:55 AM
2	How to stop chase women and start making her chase me? Don't think about the shyness for now. Get back to you and what you like. There's a topic for everyone, something that you really resonate with and can feel excitement for. For me history is one of those things. Get back to that on your own. Doesn't matter what it is as long as it engages you. I've done sales, training, and public speaking and I can tell you right now, I have major social anxiety. Most people are faking it. And when they're not, it's because they're back on one of those topics t…	/r/seduction	18/02/21 02:40 AM
5	How to stop chase women and start making her chase me? Let me tell you something dude: I've spent my life trying to be cool. I owned a gym, I learned guitar, I wasted 3 years on a miserable sales career to try and make the MOST money, be the most attractive and be the coolest. Don't get me wrong I love working out, I love music and my guitar more than life itself, and I had some fun days in sales (not to mention it taught me some valuable lessons about people). But all in all, these things never helped me win with women. Women saw that I was passion…	/r/seduction	17/02/21 12:25 AM