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Is he good to you, a good provider and father? Why six years on an engagement. Edit: re-read and you say you’re unhappy. Yes, move on. Life is too short to settle.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/26 06:12 PM
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It was more so the humiliation part. I get it. The men who got rejected in a certain era of their life may harbor resentment and bitterness. I still like to think a good man will appreciate aging beauty (both physical and personality-wise) but that’s my wishful thinking. lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/26 05:50 PM
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They want to see those young women face eventual karma and humiliation as they age out of the market. I have actually never heard that. Seems rather callous. I just thought people always simply appreciated the beauty of youth.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/26 03:02 PM
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I think he likes you alot as a friend and a crush. But a 28M living with parents and not being more assertive with dating and advancing the relationship doesn’t really scream that he is looking for wifey material. A man won’t hesitate to persue emotionally and physically if he is genuinely interested in making you his. Like you asking to kiss and make things physical just doesn’t sit well with me. One day when you’re in a relationship with a man who knows what he wants you will witness a night a…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/26 02:48 PM
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Even if the man could be with you for being liberal, there are no compromises the other way around?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/26 12:35 PM
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Red Pill Women
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/26 12:57 PM
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But you want to be married to the right man. And not be married just to be married. OP, have you actually dated men who have rejected you due to your career or education? Or are you assuming that they won’t embrace your career?
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 12:28 PM
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He is a loser. Move on. Easy peasy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/26 01:08 PM
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Masculine men don’t really seem to play games. If he wants to be with you he will make the time, harness the energy, make accommodations to his day-to-day to keep you in life. It sounds to me like he likes you enough but not enough to prioritize the relationship. It was his gentlemanly way of letting you down easy. Just focus on yourself, your hobbies, your fitness. I would try to not overthink, though it is admittedly hard.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/26 05:52 PM
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I’ll check out Esther Perel.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/26 11:56 PM
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I used to be that way, too. I still make elaborate meals but I do it without the expectation of appreciation nowadays. I stock up the fridge and whip up meals throughout the day (I’m also a SAHM so I do consider it a part of my “job”) My husband appreciates all this: just on his own time. I realized that my marriage flourishes when we give each other ample freedom. Freedom to come and go, eat whenever, wake up whenever. The only rule is that we treat each other with respect. The less expectation…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/26 11:43 PM
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I love how you articulated everything about submissiveness versus obsessiveness. In all my near 30 years with my husband I have definitely been more on the obsessive side esp in the beginning. Thank you for sharing the practice of Sabr. Love that. I’ll be more thoughtful of thinking that way, continually. 💛
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/26 05:48 PM
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Wow! That chart was interesting. In my head I figured around 25 but 20-21! Thanks for sharing that.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 03:46 PM
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Ahhh, got it. For some reason I misread and thought you slept with all twenty guys. Yes! Developing self love is always the key. I’m happy you have realized this so you’re more discerning now. Keep up with the RPW mindset and I know you’ll find a compatible match in the years ahead. This sub is a good place. I’m middle-aged and have a marriage I’m over the moon for, but I still absorb so much knowledge from the other women (and men- I like when they chime in) here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 03:41 PM
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If you’re not attracted to the alpha type, then just go for the kind of guy you are naturally attracted to. It seems like you’re going for a RPM because of stability or what he can offer you, but if you aren’t strong in your own sense of self as a RPW he won’t stick around. So then you’re back to square one. Or you find you land yourself a RPM but then you find you can’t love or stand him. Then it’s all a waste of time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 01:48 PM
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Spot on. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 12:11 PM
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Hon, you’ve attempted at least twenty connections with guys and you’re only 21? You’re closer to my daughter’s age and all I can think is: Guard your femininity and use discernment when dating. Don’t date just to date. Are you actually drawn to them or are you just wanting to be in a relationship and trying to force something that is not there. The stats you’ve given make it sound like you’re not even interested in a real meaningful relationship. Don’t keep giving your body up. In my eyes RPW kn…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 12:07 PM
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🤞🏻that price goes up by this week then.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 08:43 PM
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It’s the future and crypto is being institutionalized. It’s actually smart of him to invest now before Retail gains traction. Bug only have him invest in Bitcoin and Ethereum. All the other meme coins are junk. Yore only seeing losses now because you’re looking on a short term. In the big picture that several thousand dollar “loss” will exponentially multiple (in BTC or ETH.) Tell him to ditch the other coin. And tell him to hold for years. I’m dead serious.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 08:32 PM
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Also a well-articulated and earnest answer.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 08:06 PM
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Well said. 🙌🏻
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 07:36 PM
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That’s okay. Everyone is allowed to have their preferences and opinions. I only care about what my husband thinks of me. And perhaps a lot of the men spewing such vitriol haven’t met a good woman, and it shows. I really love how growing older and wiser. What some guy who is 25 thinks of someone old enough to be his mother means nothing to me. I’m definitely not offended because I feel like if any of these people met me IRL they wouldn’t utter that nonsense to my face. So much for keyboard warrio…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 07:22 PM
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Ask her if she wants to brunch and go shopping for skincare and make-up. Keep it light. Meet there and drive separately.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 05:08 PM
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I think she is closer to 20 tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 01:19 PM
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You say that you feel that Red Pill Women acknowledge a “bitter truth” about relationships instead of the feel-good reason. In my opinion it’s the other way around. RPW understand the balance of polarity in our marriages. We don’t seek to be “equal” in the modern day sense because both men and women acknowledge and celebrate our differences. It’s not necessarily the kind of job, income or level of resources that make a RPM. It’s his earnest intention and life outlook as a whole. We respect our m…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 01:15 PM
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It is indeed the good life. The best dynamic. So happy you found a wonderful man and you’re inspired and happy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/26 06:49 PM
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Stop worrying about a title like “Redpill Women” and just live your life. It sounds like you’re looking into it too much. Judging from your posting history it sounds like you have a lot going on internally. Just focus on improving your day-to-day situation and not overthinking your relationship. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/26 03:20 PM
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I mirror my husband. If I feel like he is a little withdrawn and needs some space I just do my own thing. Refocus on hobbies, try out new workout regimes, exploring the city/country more. No softness lost. Just a gentle reminder that I have my own life, too. He picks up on this and then starts reeling me back in, giving extra attention and affection. We are really connected and have a strong marriage but it’s like little up-and-down waves, too. Just focus on yourself when you feel you need some …
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/26 03:17 PM
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Let him come around, if he does, on his own. Just let him know if he wants to vent or talk, that you’re there as his safe space. A year is still a fresh relationship and there is plenty of time for him to be more emotionally open. Don’t fret, you can be more emotionally close. You just want don’t want to stress or rush it, it will feel the best when it’s authentic and not forced.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/26 06:30 PM
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Just keep up what you’re doing. Who cares what other people think anyway? Your message will reach someone who will take a moment to digest your content and engage, but just keep that skin thick and don’t give any criticism any mind.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/26 12:12 PM
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I ran my own company in my 20s and thought I was a boss babe. Being a SAHM in my 30s and 40s has definitely made me softer, more nurturing, playful and relaxed. For me, when I worked, it was more difficult to reel in assertiveness and being on the go-go-go. About kids. They bring some chaos but the best kind. I will be sad when my kid is all grown and the chaos has settled. Being a SAHM has its own stresses but it produces the best reward, nothing that a salary can even remotely compare to.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/26 04:25 PM
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Yes, sorry, your observation of the rift is accurate.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/26 04:16 PM
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It means if you are deliberating on working full time that your partner or spouse is not at his top provider level yet, meaning he would urge you to take care of the home and take you out of the workforce by default. Of course if you want to work you can, but it’s very difficult to find a balance of working full time and being a feminine homemaker, wife and mother. That’s like having two jobs. Of all the couples I personally know the women who are homemakers have a smoother marriage compared to …
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/26 04:05 PM
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Yes, I agree. Surface-friends are okay. But not close friendships because one person would be open to sleeping with the other given the chance.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/25 01:31 PM
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Love your positive mindset. ❤️ It’s everything.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/25 04:44 PM
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Exactly! Lock it in young and build together.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/25 04:41 PM
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When you are in the cooking mode, just double or triple up so you have plenty of leftovers. It’s weird, some days I have the energy and gumption and will whip up 3-4 separate recipes and then stock the fridge and walk away for a day or two. As long as there is food prepared my husband is happy and satisfied.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/25 03:22 PM
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I always urge meeting young(er) - early to mid 20s - and building a life together. That is, if you meet someone you genuinely love and have compatibility with, not someone you’re settling for. You can date around but I don’t endorse sleeping around and being promiscuous for the sake of being “wild and crazy” in your youth. That way by the time you’re closer to 30 you can have an easier time getting pregnant and will have more energy (generally) for child-rearing. I don’t mean to offend but the c…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/25 03:16 PM
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Damn, you stated that so well. 🙌🏻
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/25 06:49 PM
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It feels so good to take care of your loved ones and get pampered and doted on back! It’s almost like a sweet competition back and forth or who can make each other happier. ♥️ So elated for you! RPW = far happier in their marriages as I have witnessed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/25 05:53 PM
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My vote is to be a SAHM unless your household really needs the income. I had my own company for the first 7 years after my daughter was born. My hours were flexible and I was able to be there for her 21 hours of the day. The other three hours my mom came to babysit and it give us great comfort that we had a loving and doting grandmother helping to raise our child. Once my daughter started school I could be the Room Mom and volunteer in the classroom. After that my husband retired me and it reall…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/25 04:20 PM
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It’s a good thing you are making a transition now. Once a baby comes life just flips upside down (in the best way!) and you realize you can’t control everything or everyone. I didn’t realize how much of a control freak I was until we became parents. But I also think my husband’s masculinity amplified a thousand-fold once he had a child. Right around this time I relinquished control because of our changes and realized how relaxed I was. My trust in my husband became very obvious, whereas I never …
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/25 12:39 PM
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Love this answer. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/25 04:26 PM
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