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6

Funny enough this is the best tip. All this mumbo jumbo about valuing yourself and treating them like humans, sounds great, but doesn't translate to practice fluidly.
/r/seduction22/11/25 10:56 AM
0

Women who date for money do not want the men they are with and sooner or later that becomes apparent. If a man is comfortable with that then he'll be ok.
/r/seduction13/11/25 01:41 AM
1

Would you change your opinion if he was saying the same about a guy friend? Your comment has nothing to do with the post, it's just projection based on an assumption.
/r/seduction13/11/25 01:38 AM
3

I tried but most of them are so fckn boring
/r/seduction27/09/25 05:05 AM
1

Because he's 9
/r/seduction20/09/25 09:26 AM
11

Very rarely will a man turn down first date sex if he finds the woman attractive.
/r/seduction16/09/25 06:29 AM
24

Because they are too afraid to go for it fearing they will get rejected. So they play the 'nice guy' role and get upset when it leads nowhere. That turns into women don't want to fuck nice guys.
/r/seduction16/09/25 06:28 AM
1

They probably arrive late because they are walking slowly.
/r/seduction11/09/25 03:23 AM
1

Haha that makes more sense. I was like baby oil, is this a diddy party? Anyway, that's why I said have basic hygiene. Anyone is gonna smell a little after a day out etc. As long as you don't stink, keep your junk clean, and don't have bad breath, the rest of the fancy stuff has minimal to no impact when it comes to sex. You can do it if it helps with self confidence, but women aren't picking anyway based on that.
/r/seduction09/09/25 07:18 AM
3

If a woman isn't going to sleep with you, doing this 10 times over won't improve your chances. If she is going to sleep with you, not doing any of this won't hurt your chances either. Just shower and clean well, floss and brush twice a day, and use anti perspirant and cologne. Hygiene is simple. Putting baby oil won't make you fuckable lol. Also drink water!
/r/seduction09/09/25 01:46 AM
19

Exactly. Because people believe that who they find attractive tove will treat them nice, and hence give them a shot. Sometimes many shots. But no one believes that someone who is nice will become attractive. I'm sure, just like women, OP wouldn't date a nice girl who he doesn't find attractive. The only difference is women will not admit it, but we already know it.
/r/seduction05/09/25 12:55 AM
17

Just grapple 5 kids at once
/r/seduction04/09/25 07:27 PM
1

Hmm ok I can see that. If a girl told me she wasn't happy om her relationship, it'd be worth checking out.
/r/seduction08/08/25 05:48 AM
1

Did you know she had a bf before you picked her up?
/r/seduction07/08/25 03:19 AM
3

They're probably all dudes
/r/seduction08/05/25 09:22 PM
8

OPs acknowledged not having the confidence to make the most yet. But being fit gets you noticed, where otherwise you'd get drowned out visually.
/r/seduction13/04/25 02:59 PM
1

He needs an excuse
/r/seduction13/04/25 02:58 PM
0

Good girls are everywhere. It's just if they are willing to be good for you.
/r/seduction24/03/25 04:26 AM
22

Gotta pull a Jim Carrey from Liar Liar - "I've had better"
/r/seduction12/03/25 05:57 PM
1

It's your first night out, have fun. Don't pressure yourself on picking up women, you'll have plenty more nights to do play the game.
/r/seduction01/03/25 05:08 PM
9

I don't get why some guys get so offended when people aren't attracted to them lol. To the OP, when you see her next time say hi, and talk to her as if you know her as a friend. Not every conversation has to be targeted towards picking up women, use it improve your social and communication skills. Don't linger on the conversation. Keep it short and move on.
/r/seduction01/03/25 04:43 PM
8

Women say a lot of things they hear other women saying. Most women who say not looking for hookups, are open to hookups with the right person.
/r/seduction01/03/25 04:07 AM
2

No one is saying you didn't do the work. I'm sure if everyone put the same effort as you do, they'd get better results. This isn't about undermining your effort. Maybe you also went to the gym, got fit and became more attractive. But when women are approaching you part of the work is already done. You already know they are interested in you. Of course you still have to hold a conversation but you don't have to guess if they are interested in you or not. And with women, even if they find a guy at…
/r/seduction19/02/25 01:06 AM
5

Yeah this kind of skews things a lot lol. Most guys have never had a woman approach them. So someone who has numerous approaches clearly has a very distinct advantage in this game. It also gives them confidence which is very hard, if not impossible, to have otherwise.
/r/seduction18/02/25 10:16 AM
11

I have a feeling being famous helped.
/r/seduction18/02/25 10:12 AM
1

I think that's the same for most people, if not everyone. Getting a no is fine, you move on. It's the feeling that you've embarrassed yourself by putting yourself out there that causes the fear. You just have to realize that no one else cares - in fact unless you do something people actually admire that confidence it takes to put yourself out there.
/r/seduction17/02/25 12:21 AM
1

Hope this doesn't turn out to be some Get Out shit lol
/r/seduction17/02/25 12:09 AM
1

Oh I think meant to respond to a reply to your comment, saying that he should make it clear he isn't willing to wait around for her lol
/r/seduction15/02/25 09:34 PM
1

Is this a person you will have ongoing client relations with?
/r/seduction15/02/25 08:10 PM
6

He kinda showed that he would be chase her but waiting there for 2 hours
/r/seduction15/02/25 08:30 AM
16

I'm sorry that happened to you, but you kinda begged for it.
/r/seduction15/02/25 08:29 AM
1

I get it though. It's a 20 yr old who thinks his 7th grade breakup started his vision quest. I probably would have been full of myself if I had a modeling contract at 20 with 3some invitations being thrown at me at random parties.
/r/seduction30/01/25 05:26 PM
3

Funny experiences that contribute nothing to the thread. Yeah doesn't sound like your trying to boost yourself at all 😄
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:18 AM
1

Money and status. Those give men a bigger advantage than they give women.
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:45 AM
1

She felt harassed and bounced without paying him cab fare
/r/seduction23/12/24 10:17 PM
7

Be a woman
/r/seduction09/12/24 09:15 AM
1

Yes. And 27 burpees.
/r/seduction29/11/24 01:34 AM
1

Just skimmed the 5 levels you put there and they seem very normal. Of course you have the feel the vibe and shouldn't try to force it. But when it comes naturally these are very safe steps of escalation.
/r/seduction09/11/24 07:42 PM
-8

Only when it's that time of the month
/r/seduction09/11/24 07:34 PM
2

Approach strangers as if they are friends you haven't seen in a while. Makes the conversation easier as well.
/r/seduction03/11/24 10:42 PM
0

You should've just offered to never return to the gym so she wouldn't have to worry about dating 2 ppl from the gym 😄
/r/seduction15/10/24 09:36 PM
6

She probably had some other guy ghost her and hit you for the rebound, till the guy came back. But hey you got something out of it so it's a win from you. You don't want such unstable chicks for anything more than a good time.
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:54 PM
2

I would suggest by picking one line to practice on people, regardless of gender or attractiveness. If it's spring, people will have their jackets or scarves out. You see someone wearing a nice jacket, tell them and follow up with, I've been looking for something like this. Ask them where they got it. That's it. Don't pressure yourself to carry the convention further. In a few tries you'll automatically think of ways to add more to the exchange and will want to do it. Just keep adding to that. An…
/r/seduction09/10/24 04:24 AM
3

TLDR: move on
/r/seduction08/10/24 05:21 PM
5

If you think that one of the only ways of impressing women is with immense wealth, that's your problem. The ones you will attract with that have no interest in you.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:30 PM
1

While dating advice is absolutely useful, to compare one or series of known tennis players you would be playing against, to an unknown set of women is pretty ignorant. What I will say is that improving your skills in either area will help you win upto a certain level. In dating, unlike tennis, championship, isn't a goal. Being better than average is rewarding enough for most people.
/r/seduction16/09/24 09:46 PM
7

Sounds like you have a good thing going that could become really good. Some girls are just slow to move, so it's ok don't be disappointed yet. And being amongst friends takes the pressure off and let's you show her your best side. You should try to ask her on a private date....something casual like hey you wanna grab coffee at so and so place. Or suggest going bowling or something fun after. If she says no or tries to include others in the plan then it's a lost cause.
/r/seduction14/09/24 06:48 AM
1

Curious about how you kept the convo going after the compliment? Usually it just stops at the thank you, and it can be uncomfortable to move further.
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:55 PM
0

Sometimes chicks are just not right in the head. You have to realize that women often grow up with a whole different perspective and experience than me. Their youth often earns them a lot of free stuff which they take for granted and develop a sense of entitlement. Of course not all women go through this, but the hotter they are the more likely it is. The entitlement is what makes them feel they can treat people in certain ways and get away with it. Usually as they older they get a reality check…
/r/seduction31/08/24 12:38 AM
1

Be famous
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:05 AM
19

Make sure to check it first
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:37 PM
36

This is a good tip. Also helps to have his charisma, clout and looks.
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:36 PM
23

Rule #1 and #2
/r/seduction21/08/24 02:12 PM
13

The ones who can do that comfortably and get results, aren't asking for help here. Some people needs tips and practice to get better and home their natural skills.
/r/seduction16/08/24 02:20 AM
4

Text her you just found out you have crabs
/r/seduction01/08/24 11:22 AM
14

I say this on behalf of everyone here, salute!
/r/seduction27/07/24 06:34 AM
1

Look at it like this. No formula works everytime. You just wanna to tilt the odds in your favour. Like in blackjack there is a specific method of betting but that only increases your chances of winning doesn't guarantee it everytime. lesson
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:18 PM
0

Very true. It's almost like if you believe it will work there is a chance of failure. But if you know it will work, whether that is confidence or delusion, there is no chance of failing from tour perspective. So you'll be carefree and just go with the flow. Often people who are plain stupid think exactly like this. Even if it doesn't work they don't care.
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:14 PM
1

What are your physical stats? Height, weight, build, ethnicity. As shallow as that sounds those matter a lot, esp for day game. Most likely they are just telling you they have a boyfriend because they don't find you attractive enough. Of course confidence and game can make up for some of that, you'd need really good game to actually make a difference.
/r/seduction23/07/24 03:22 PM
13

Dude no one is saying approach 99 models and then an average girl. The mindset is mainly so you can get over your fear of rejection and embarrassment. Once you learn that you'll get better at talking to girls and people in general. Stop looking at it as getting her number is the win ie validation from other people. Instead look at it as if you were able to confidently hold a conversation, then no matter what the result is, it's a win ie self improvement.
/r/seduction17/07/24 11:12 PM
7

2 weeks and you haven't asked her out? She might avoid it at first, but just ask her out. Forget abt a phone call, what more is that gonna do?
/r/seduction02/07/24 09:57 PM
1

So what kind of messages would you open with? I get the find something interesting on her profile but that also only works if you are attractive, or the girl isn't, from my experience. But I'm curious to hear your input/advice based on your experience.
/r/seduction13/06/24 04:01 PM
2

Huh? That went dark
/r/seduction13/06/24 02:19 AM
0

I mean this is completely accurate when it comes to online dating. Have run tests with average to good looking well built white guys with basic profiles, ans good looking non-whites with deep profiles. Ave white - 20+ matches/day Good looking white - 100+ GL NW - <10 I'm sure this female behavior and attraction isn't just limited to online dating and translates to initial attraction in person too, which more or less decides how much opportunity is available to take it further.
/r/seduction13/06/24 01:58 AM
8

Hahaha that's a good one. What happened after, assuming this is real lol?
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:56 PM
1

Yeah I guess what have you got to lose at that point. But most, including me, are often afraid of ruining the 5% chance something that happen and not go for that long shot.
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:54 PM
4

Her: sort of seeing someone You: smiles...who isn't these days This dismisses her claim alof being special and also shows that you have options has as well. Her: what do you mean You: its pretty normal for someone to be talking to multiple people Of course, this depends on the age group and can still have varying effects, but at least doesn't count you out completely. Just my 2c
/r/seduction10/06/24 03:18 PM
1

This all the way. Assuming you are a woman, is there any way to turn that convo in interesting or positive direction. Any way to arouse that interest?
/r/seduction10/06/24 03:28 AM
2

Fwiw asking her straight up might not have worked either. She didn't seem interested anyway.
/r/seduction10/06/24 03:26 AM
4

The convo is one sided from the beginning. You're asking and she's answering. She's clearly not interested enough to know about you, and yet you give her attention and validation, which probably she already gets enough off. While I can say that, I unfortunately can't tell you what you could've done better. Maybe you could've been playful instead when she said 'Adult'. But who knows if that would've worked either.
/r/seduction10/06/24 03:25 AM
2

This isn't related to the thread and might be self promotion, but the content and tips are actually good and very realistic. Not something that's trying to sell you some 12 step program bs.
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:16 PM
2

Dwight in The Office said a version of this very well too.
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:13 PM
8

If you want something you've never had, you gotta do something you've never done
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:10 PM
1

Gotta specify now or you might end up kissing a dude
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:20 PM
9

Hahaha exactly the same here. It could've progressed into something serious but she was down to just keep it casual for a bit, despite saying life partner on Hinge. Men will dangle relationships to sleep with women. Women will dangle sex to lock down men.
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:03 PM
3

Wow not sure what's up with you but you sound very triggered at him claiming to be a playboy. Maybe he isn't one but you just sound bitter reaching for straws here.
/r/seduction29/05/24 08:37 PM
57

Did you tell her you're an astronaut?
/r/seduction19/05/24 04:43 AM
9

That might be even better. There used to be a asian/white in uni who had a t shirt - half Asian half awesome. It's like he even acknowledged it.
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:37 PM
9

Yeah I've heard that 80% of women only go for the top 10% of men on dating apps. While apps are not reflective of real society, there's still a lot of truth there. Also no source on these stats.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:02 PM
24

Women want to be selected by good looking or high status men to elevate their self worth. But eventually when it comes to settling down they will pick a guy who will not leave them, which is generally the complete opposite to what they wanted before.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:00 PM
27

But money and status need to be earned, unless you're born into wealth. Beauty is luck of draw. If you're pretty you have to put very little effort comparatively to maintain it.
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:56 PM
25

If you're white
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:46 PM
-9

So you're advice is to stop cold approaching people for someone who is asking what they can ìmprove about their cod approach?
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:27 AM
1

Just tell her you deleted it to hide from your ex wife
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:58 PM
1

What do you think about the first message being a date opener? Like a drinks, sat night, rooftop patio. I've had moderate success with that, but wonder if some women find that too forward.
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:09 PM
41

You don't look for them, they look for you.
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:45 AM
1

Wow really showing off your intellectual prowess there eh
/r/seduction24/04/24 03:33 AM
0

Don't worry about the haters, most of these bozos have never closed. Props on you for asking for help. Every mistake is one step closer towards a success.
/r/seduction24/04/24 01:01 AM
1

And then you'd jack it
/r/seduction24/04/24 12:59 AM
10

Cmon man, the guy is asking for help, which isn't easy to do. Let's not be a dick about it.
/r/seduction24/04/24 12:57 AM
0

You can say something like "before your calendar fills up let me grab that spot for drinks on Saturday night. A rooftop bar (or wherever you want to take her), some laughs and we'll see where the night takes us" My messages are something like this and they work more than anything else.
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:57 PM
10

In the real world, women will rarely, if ever, approach a guy who isn't either very attractive or clearly has money, if that's what they are looking for. They won't approach an average guy just because he is talking to a cute girl.
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:41 AM
3

Depends on how attractive they find you (your face, physique, confidence). A woman will not reject someone she is interested in and find attractive, regardless of where they are approached. So try to become as close to the person who can approach them anywhere anytime.
/r/seduction14/04/24 02:57 PM
3

Thank you for not requiring me to spell it out 🙌
/r/seduction08/04/24 06:35 AM
12

Just like the boob job and the BBL, most of them need to be bought.
/r/seduction07/04/24 05:25 PM
2

Well you could pull a rabbit out of your pocket, or find a coin behind the other dude's ear.
/r/seduction04/04/24 01:45 AM
2

What do I do if I have a woman like this but am not physically attracted to her?
/r/seduction03/04/24 12:48 PM
0

Bro have you even watched Wedding Crashers 🤔
/r/seduction31/03/24 05:15 AM
9

If you had sex you gotta pay
/r/seduction25/03/24 03:02 AM
26

Exactly, because MJB has already done the work, and has had enough fortune, which majority don't. That's like if you're handsome, rich and smart you don't need to do much. Well duh.
/r/seduction18/03/24 04:59 PM
22

Both these situations sound like they just threw themselves at you and had to just play along. That's awesome, but this is not happening for majority of the men, unless they are aiming for low hanging fruit.
/r/seduction18/03/24 04:56 PM
4

This is so true, but I never thought of it before. I believe I got much better at appealing to the emotional side of women after I got promoted and learnt to manage people well. I won't say lead, because I still have ways to grow in that aspect, but whatever I have learnt has helped me in relationships, and vice versa as well.
/r/seduction15/03/24 06:58 AM
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