5tupidest Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	If you're a regular, average guy, you don't need to relate on dating apps The mix of good advice, sound statements, and redpill doomerism is such a toxic cocktail especially for the masculine youth. It’s an ideologically brutal time to grow up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 08:48 PM
4	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum It’s really obvious your information diet is high in processed foods. Social media isn’t very representative of real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 05:48 PM
5	MEN ARE THE OPPRESSED GENDER I really don’t like framing it as a competition. I’m more oppressed than you is a very tiresome conversation.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/26 01:26 PM
2	White knights are dangerous to men issues. If you’re not with me you’re against me vibes. I don’t see these issues as black and white.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/26 10:26 PM
–	Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATION “It’s not me, it’s you” describes such a radical misunderstanding of why things are the way they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 01:22 PM
1	Men try to gatekeep standards Idk everyone stupid seems to try to gatekeep "standards". y'all toxic men and women be doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 10:06 PM
30	Toxic Masculinity Scale (Exposing Bias Against Men in Research Literature) Masculinity shaming. Yeah that makes some sense. I’ve seen lots of this. It can be hard to ignore.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/03/26 07:35 PM
1	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable I think that when we frame “the person for you” as rare, it’s to increase our perception of their and consequently our value. A thing or a relationship or a person doesn’t have to be rare to be valuable. To say that someone has a low bar is to me a bizarre way to frame the love that develops between people. By this logic we shouldn’t value dog’s tendency towards love as much, but that’s what we often admire most about them. I think when I hear people of any gender looking at a lineup of great lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 06:09 PM
1	Why is slut shaming wrong? Eating delicious food does not benefit anyone at all beyond short term gratification. Would it be better if we shamed anyone who sought flavor? I appreciate your question, but if I may criticize, it seems like you’re not exactly considering the issue from other’s perspectives, rather I see arguments that dismiss other’s interests. I wish you well on the road to more insightful philosophizing!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 04:56 PM
1	Why is slut shaming wrong? While I appreciate these are real problems, I want to provide counterweight to the implicit slut-shaming in your words. While what you’re describing is indeed a problem, I think that women can and do seek and enjoy sex—they aren’t all tricked into it. The question of how often of a problem different types of coercion are and the dynamics is a complex topic that isn’t done justice by using what one hasn’t seen as the primary metric. I haven’t seen sexism is the same reasoning I see from people wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 04:50 PM
1	Many women see men as just a means to an end. To say this and focus explicitly on women is so fucking stupid. People get things from each other. It’s like saying that people with green eyes all are just trying to steal from you so don’t be friends with them. There are complex cultural dynamics but you aren’t talking about those; you’re revealing your failure to understand more than your reactionary experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 12:38 PM
2	Men need to drink to get casual sex, but it’s for the woman’s comfort, not theirs I appreciate your attempt, but I’m sorry I still don’t really understand!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 11:36 AM
0	Men need to drink to get casual sex, but it’s for the woman’s comfort, not theirs Great username, I hate how much I love it. Can I ask what your flair means?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 02:34 AM
–	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? Real reality, no I prefer my reality heavily influenced and filtered by my soft and squishy human brain, thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 09:31 PM
–	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? I don’t know what exactly you’re referring to, but I get the impression you’re drawing some pretty broad generalizations. Understanding societal sociological dynamics is super difficult in my experience, and ultimately irrelevant to what all of us experience—individual interactions with individual people. It doesn’t sound surprising that women—and me lol—probably prefer a partner who has a money tree if it’s an option, but what that means about them and society is just not black and white, don’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 09:30 PM
1	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? There’s a lot of bad takes out there. One must be cautious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 04:12 PM
1	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 01:12 AM
14	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? I cannot describe my despair whenever I see people form broad opinions based on SOCIAL MEDIA interactions. There exist social scientists whose whole job is to try to answer these questions.. finding their opinions would be wise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 12:31 AM
1	A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personality There are so many implicit assumptions here that serve to dehumanize both men and women and simplify the sum of billions of complex social dynamics into an idea that is essentially so vague it’s not even useful to think about. This way of looking at relationships makes me sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 12:42 PM
–	Are looks the deciding factor in how much effort a man puts into a woman? If not, what is? It’s complicated, cause it’s the human mind and we don’t really understand ourselves. I think that “attractiveness” is in such flux it’s almost useless trying to define it. There is truth in that we as people think of beautiful people are more deserving of good treatment, and they certainly get better treatment and less critical scrutiny. Look at how often people treat the people they love like shit; that’s not even a gendered problem. Actual science on this subject is controversial and uncertai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 08:58 PM
5	"Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of men Yeah, but those are probably different women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 05:09 PM
–	Is this incredibly stupid or totally normal? I’m sorry I wasn’t clear enough. I meant to communicate three different things: I genuinely am sorry if you’ve been mistreated. Is your spelling an intentional stylistic choice? The arguments you are making are, in fact, stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 10:06 PM
–	Is this incredibly stupid or totally normal? I saw your comment somewhere else. Please keep bringing real life experience and perspective to ground these things lol really helps my blood pressure. <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 09:43 PM
–	Is this incredibly stupid or totally normal? I am really sorry if you’ve had men in your life who have hurt you. You deserve better than that. I hope you find better people, healing, and eventually peace. I found something as I was looking at some of your past posts and I feel duty bound to inform you of and which I find particularly interesting. The standard spelling of the plural form of yourself is yourselves, not yourselfs. I’m genuinely curious, how are you able to misspell that so consistently? Spellcheck tries to replace that for me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 09:40 PM
–	Is this incredibly stupid or totally normal? I feel like blaming any group’s existence—particularly if defined on inherent characteristics—rather than on the conduct that is at the root of the group judgement, is a super dangerous thing to practice, if one doesn’t want to be the kind of person who cheers on crimes against humanity. It’s fair to say that men doing something are wrong for what they’ve done, but I don’t think it’s fair to say that men inherently are wrong for solely their sex. I don’t think that men are in particular need of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 09:03 PM
–	Is this incredibly stupid or totally normal? I’m wondering if I may, do you consider anecdotes on social media a good way to find out how large groups of people typically behave?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 05:25 PM
1	For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with haste <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 01:30 AM
0	For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with haste What hurts my ears tickles yours with mirth. I envy you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 01:01 AM
-1	For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with haste Every time I return to this sub, I repeat a question I’ll now ask you, u/CauchyRiemann04: Why argue with primarily the stupid?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 08:41 PM
3	An hugely understated "purgatory" for men is being stuck in the "zone" between average and the top 10% Purgatory is a crazy word here to me. I feel like people who make this crazed discourse gravitate to extreme (often black and white) ideas, so they may like to theorize that either you’re gorgeous or you’re hideous, with no in between. It’s one bias I feel I see in these very emotionally charged groups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/25 06:31 PM
–	Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB? “I believe her.” Powerful. I’m not hearing that so much these days!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 04:57 PM
–	Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB? I just want to applaud your consideration of the limits of your ability to decide what’s best for others. It’s so easy when we as humans really dislike something to decide it’s wrong for others without thinking it through, and I appreciate your tolerance. I find it’s the same logic applied by those who believe abortion is always wrong for others. It’s surprisingly hard to imagine someone with fundamentally different desires and comfort. On a more substantive basis, what do you think of other sub…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 04:55 PM
–	Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB? I think for me, when I hear the word objectively in this context, it should be truly universal and actually objective, not something this is individually variable and a subjective moral qualm. Perhaps it’s just that you are a moral realist, but I would say that something can be objectively weird in the same way that 2+2 objectively equals 4. To me, paying for sex might be weird to me, or weird to me and the majority of society who agree with me, but not objectively. The reason this distinction i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 04:45 PM
1	State-sponsored prostitution Thought this was tenth dentist!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 12:45 PM
2	The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women. Not a completely crazy thing to discuss. I suspect this also applies to mathematicians, though mathematical propagation isn’t something that I worry about. If there is a robust public education system that teaches children facts, explains the world from multiple perspectives, and instills value in U.S. constitutional ideals, I’m not super worried. Most of the people who I see saying these things arrived at their political ideology through hereditary mechanisms and view changing ideals with suspi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/25 02:04 PM
1	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women Can you justify this belief? I haven’t done research, but I knew someone who fit this description, and for whom the bargain was worth it; who am I to disagree with her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 06:46 PM
2	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women The state should not dictate who is to or not to marry, unless to protect those who cannot protect themselves, such as children or those with developmental differences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 11:07 PM
0	Gates Foundation ignores men's health, commits $2.5 billion to 'ignored' women's health Why are you implying there is a zero-sum dynamic in which advocating or paying for women’s health harms men’s health? I didn’t even read the whole article, but the areas they plan to focus on are largely concerning reproductive health, which is important and matters and will benefit from deeper research. Why is a billionaire providing money to the research of maternal health in any way problematic for men? Even if you are a misogynist, half of babies born are male and may benefit from this resea…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/08/25 07:06 PM
-3	Gates Foundation ignores men's health, commits $2.5 billion to 'ignored' women's health I joined this sub hoping there would be reasonable and nuanced discussion on the real and unique issues facing men in contemporary society. This isn’t that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/08/25 06:52 PM
1	I believe women are more sensitive to negative feedback than men. This study supports that. Disentangling cultural artifacts is basically impossible here. This is not useful research in quantifying essential male or female characteristics. You’re cherry picking a study that shows your separate conclusion, but doesn’t demonstrate it. It is useful in relating to people who likely had similar life experience to the subjects, however. Older ladies in this society apparently have a tough time emotionally with criticism, interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 07:40 PM
1	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? Omg this should become standard. Classes for useful skills but where everyone is looking for love. Singles media literacy class. Singles cooking class. Singles first aid. Singles bowling. Singles SCUBA. Singles rock climbing. Singles knitting. I love it! Great way for those businesses to bring in people who otherwise wouldn’t, and if you don’t find someone, you get the skill!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 02:38 PM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? Turning negativity into motivation. Love it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 02:05 PM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? You are the vindictive people I’m talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 02:01 PM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? You clearly know more than I do about her, certainly I get behind the idea that we should all recognize that we all struggle and we should all just get along. Cheers!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 08:22 PM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? The human tendency to dehumanize and irrationally blame is universal! lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 07:23 PM
2	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? lol beep boop. 🤖 /s I’m surprised that the sentiment that women cannot be met in society is coming from a married man, and I’m sorry to have judged you incorrectly. There’s a reasonable conversation to be had about how these dynamics progress and fail to progress. I think how forward one is is a tough line to walk. You seem unwilling to recognize there is a middle ground here. Society is incredibly diverse, there are lots of people who want lots of different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 07:22 PM
1	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? It sounds like you’re having a hard time finding people. I wish you luck on your journey. If you really want advice on where to find people, I have found that chilling out, and looking to have fun, with no pressure on meeting someone is more likely to lead to activities where you are doing something where your mutual attention is on the thing you are doing, not on each other. When it’s a straight up romantically or sexually explicit analysis, it is a more intimidating and high stakes situation m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 06:34 PM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? While I understand the aggression, I think the best response to this is to say, “I was born in 19XX, I have always tried to be kind to everyone I meet, and it has a deep and negative affect on my self image and wellbeing when you associate me with insert relevant accusation solely on the basis of my gender. Have I done these things?” If we let vindictive people win, society crumbles into feckless factional fights that are more trouble than they are worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 05:58 PM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? This makes it sound like she killed herself because she lived as a man. Her Wikipedia states she did a social experiment where she lived as a man for 18 months, wrote about her experience, and talked about it. She was admitted to one or more locked psychiatric facilities at some point after that. The book she wrote about living as a man was published in 2006, and her death in Switzerland was in 2022.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 05:51 PM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? I know that the LDS (Mormon) church pushed participation in Boy Scouts, and I have heard they more or less seceded once girls were allowed in. Don’t quote me on this, I don’t really know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 05:38 PM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? For my part, Girl Scouts meeting to do crafts and “girly things” while we Boy Scouts met to do crafts, explore nature, and learn outdoor skills never sat right with me. In my area, the Girl Scouts weren’t really available after primary school age, while the Boy Scouts were. It felt sexist and stupid, especially in contrast to what I now know to be Title IX mandated equal access to activities in the public school system. To be sure, having girls around would have certainly changed the vibe, but I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 05:35 PM
8	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? Re-reading your post, I was reading what wasn’t there, my apologies. You’re right that getting to know someone very casually is a good idea before asking them out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 03:26 PM
12	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? Borderline stalking someone by engineering “random” interactions to try and intuit whether she may be interested in me doesn’t sound very fun or respectful, and isn’t something I would necessarily want someone doing to me. If I happen to see someone extraordinary, whether I want to be friends or something else, striking up a casual conversation that may turn into an offer of a number or a date proposal or whatever feels like the most respectful, mature, human maneuver. Most connections happen th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 02:37 PM
2	CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating I wonder if she offered to buy anyone she was interested in a drink? I feel like there have been ideas that have trickled through culture in mildly counterproductive ways. For example, the idea that what you are wearing doesn’t give any form of sexual consent is in response to people dismissing victims of sexual assault on the basis of what they were wearing, and is a correct idea. As this idea is discussed, it also can be fairly reasoned that what someone wears is not a basis upon which one sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 03:13 PM
1	Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative). It sounds like you came into contact with lots of problematic opinions online, and that made you scared and angry. Through that you are trying to justify generalities about men as a group. What makes me more worried about you is that you say, “large percentage of the dating pool”. How large matters, and more importantly, what to do about it. Taking reasonable caution, being overtly hostile, and being implicitly biased is a complex web of dynamics that is hard to do right; hating all from a group…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 03:14 PM
1	The market depicts your value, not you I notice this too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 08:01 PM
14	There is no reward for being a male centered woman. lol hey now let’s not associate sex workers with such an immoral business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 11:52 PM
2	Would you guys do "duty sex" if women needed it but you didn't ? Yes, but it sometimes leads to different social dynamics from normal, mutually enthusiastic sex. When you’re doing something you aren’t excited about for some other reason, the vibes aren’t always perfect. Huge emotional variability in this realm. How a partner reacts when there is a request to do something is very complex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 08:21 PM
3	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. Thank you. I also find this sub extremely frustrating. It’s not psychologically healthy for me to engage with lol. I feel deeply sad for the posts where it’s clear that instead of seeking romance people with no lived experience and no valuable insights are here arguing about the nature of gender and actions of gender groups. I also notice that the popular posts are those most moronic, which makes some sense. I do have my conspiracy theories regarding the moderation intention.. Alas, that’s life!…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 06:59 PM
7	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. In response to another comment that was deleted: I think this is true (that men aren’t surprised but are frustrated that people don’t believe them when they confess their frustrations), and it’s everywhere, and it’s the biggest limit on democratic progress towards equality. When someone says “I’m treated a certain way for a certain reason”, others say, “well, I’m not, so I don’t believe you”. To me it demonstrates a complete failure of reason. Of course they don’t experience that social dynamic,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 03:09 PM
7	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. Do you think that women will not be and are not attracted to men in a general sense?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 02:54 PM
12	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. “…why do we have these gender wars…” -> “Men protect and provide…if they don’t…[they] may as well not even exist…” There is a difference between the way things are, and the way things should be. In 1890, things were a certain way, in 1965 things were a certain way, and in 2025 things are a certain way. Many of our social conditions aren’t permanent or immutable. The reason we talk about these things is because we can decide as a society what we value, and try to live by those values. There are t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 02:54 PM
0	Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual. We humans have a tendency to like clear and unambiguous categorizations. I think that in trying to simplify a complex dynamic into straightforward categories, you are essentially ignoring the complexity of the reality. From a rhetorical perspective, regardless of your personal life or your political action, that comes across as fairly biologically reductive, which on a metaphysical level rhymes with someone like Charlie Kirk, and while I don’t think you see yourself as doing that, and I can see …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 04:47 PM
2	Sexual Shame in Women Alas, it’s true. Except for you and I… we of course have innate reason. ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 04:15 PM
1	Sexual Shame in Women I employed the word animal to emphasize many people’s moral failings. Also social ostracisation is absolutely present in the animal world. Also humans are animals. lol why am I responding. 🤦	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 02:45 PM
4	Sexual Shame in Women Sometimes putting others down is the empowerment that feels natural to people. We truly are animals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 02:08 PM
19	How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default? This is so true. It’s also the case that it’s not just gender but other aspects of your circumstance that affect your experience and how people treat you. So often people imagine a specific archetype. For example in the United States, there would likely be a large experiential difference between two 16 year old girls one of whom is a 6th generation Presbyterian Irish immigrant, and the other a 1st generation Muslim Syrian immigrant. Whenever I see posts that complain unilaterally about the privi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 01:32 AM
3	(Some**) Women have a hard time understanding analogies I was angry, now I am calm. Thank you u/toasterchild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 12:42 AM
5	(Some**) Women have a hard time understanding analogies I’m going to go out on a limb like a lemur and tell you clearly that your life experience is not sufficient to make the extraordinary claim that women or female humans are less able to comprehend analogies or metaphors. To say that in a public forum is what bigotry is, that is you’re associating a whole group with a characteristic that is negative and for which you don’t have enough evidence. You presented equal evidence that you presented that you make insulting analogies solely towards women. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 12:39 AM
1	How would you feel if your now boyfriend had masturbated to online pictures of you, before you got together? Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I think that in one sense, you are right, this is how most people operate. Most people are not considered or consistent in their understanding or application of their own ethics. In another sense, your answer of common sense is begging the question, it doesn’t clarify anything, it just moves the question to what common sense is or means. In this ethical discussion of whether or not one should tell their partner something, I’m looking for a more clear answer than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 04:36 PM
4	How would you feel if your now boyfriend had masturbated to online pictures of you, before you got together? Thank you for responding, but I still don’t understand. I’ll ask in a different way. Without reading your mind, how ought your partner determine what they should or shouldn’t tell you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 01:49 PM
2	How would you feel if your now boyfriend had masturbated to online pictures of you, before you got together? Where do you draw the lines on vulnerability. How well do you want to know your partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 03:29 AM
5	The average woman has a lower libido than the average man Especially if you think something is obvious, it is crucial to look for well founded counter evidence, not supporting evidence. Trying to prove yourself wrong is the only way to increase your understanding of the limits of your hypothesis. If you look solely for supporting evidence, you can prove almost anything. It cannot be overstated how epistemologically dangerous this approach is, despite its popularity. Also, look for quality research and thinkers, do not assess on the basis of outcome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:23 AM
1	“Most criminals are raised by single mothers” is just code for “We blame women for the actions of men”. Thank you for asking, but I’m not sure I understand what you are referencing. I say explicitly, “…women are often unfairly blamed for things…” and go on to say that my experience is different, but that my disagreement with OP is largely in their lack of any citation, making it impossible to have productive discourse. Specifically, if I may ask, what did I write that made you think that I was claiming that single mothers do not experience animosity, or that men don’t commit the majority of crimes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 01:06 PM
6	“Most criminals are raised by single mothers” is just code for “We blame women for the actions of men”. It sounds like you’re frustrated and perceive that women are being blamed unfairly. It’s true that women are often unfairly blamed for things, but that’s not what I have ever taken from the reasonable discourse around divorce/parental separation. I see blame directed at parents of any gender that make children and then separate, especially if they leave the kids to their ex to raise. Women are more harshly judged if they leave the children with a man, but I think most people who aren’t children …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 03:18 PM
2	Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age. OP explicitly states your case and agrees with you: “…unless…I wanted it to be the first time for both of us.” OP cites age 18 which I interpret as meaning young generally, which is close enough to your 22 year old example. I don’t believe OP is talking about what you’re talking about at all, do you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 05:04 PM
2	Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age. There is much cultural history that underpins how most people conceive of sexuality, and it often shapes how we think of others, and what we think we find attractive. Because for most the lived experience doesn’t usually include consciousness of this fact, people think their desires and feelings are less shaped by their cultural context than they actually are. Possibly relevant to your musings: -Conceiving of women as sexually desirable when passively submitting. Those who are inexperienced are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 04:57 PM
-1	A case study on why dating is absolutely horrible for men and all men should go MGTOW Case study on how most people seem not to be able to draw sound conclusions based on the context of the forum to which they are referring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 02:22 PM
6	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed My standards for women for whom I’m romantically interested in are drastically different than your list, which I find immature and shallow. I wish you better luck in finding ways to participate in healthy social relationships. I fear that social media is so drastically warping and narrowing your perspective that you are not able to mature and participate in a mutually respectful set of relationships. I counsel deleting TikTok immediately. Best of luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 02:13 PM
–	If a girl has a celebrity crush in a relationship would she leave her partner for them ? u/julymoonrise, thanks for sharing your experience. Everyone is different, and I think it’s okay that you have a strong value for monogamy in your relationships, even to the extent of thinking that fantasy crushing isn’t okay. I believe that is not most people’s experience, but ideally we can all find someone with whom we’re on the same page! I would not be happy in a relationship where discussing our desires, even for other people, wasn’t a part of our dynamic. I value that my partner has sexua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 06:58 PM
1	Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics 100% of lives end in death. Most agree that life is still worth living. Accepting risk is hard. Remember that meaning isn’t something rooted in the outcome, it arises through the process of life. If you would rather not marry and you think that will be a better life, then don’t get married. If you fear being alone after a marriage ends, then avoiding marriage won’t solve that problem. If you fear losing money, then you could: 1.) Change your reason to marry to one focused on the value of the rel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 07:10 PM