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This is a breathtakingly shallow analysis of normative masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:37 AM
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Yes, they do care. Obviously. Who would women be more attracted to? Depends on the woman. Would women care about a man's lack of social status if he made more money? A high-earning IT professional doesn't have status?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:53 PM
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Source: trust me bro. There is no human culture on earth that does not practice marriage. The universality of marriage is at least as old as behavioural modernity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:03 PM
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'Mental illness' as a taxon of mental disorders is not even a thing. Where in the DSM or ICD is the category for mental illness? The ICD-11 classifies all mental disorders (including ASD) under the heading 'Mental, behavioural or neurodevelopmental disorders.'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:30 PM
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What medical authority proposes a distinct taxon of mental illnesses, separate from the broader umbrella of mental/psychiatric disorders, that specifically excludes autism? The term 'mental illness' is generally used as a synonym for mental disorder (including developmental disorders) by medical authorities. The notion that some disorders are illnesses, and others aren't, is entirely colloquial.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:02 AM
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Women should leave men if they think they deserve better. Where does 'deserve' enter into it? Either it's in your self-interest to stay in the relationship or it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:57 AM
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Agree: * Looks matter a lot. * The general self-improvement advice from TRP is mostly good stuff. * Don't show vulnerability with women. Disagree: * TRP overstates the malleability of looks. They emphasise the mutable features (e.g. physique) and downplay the immutable (e.g., face, height). The immutable factors are generally more important, and there's a point where you can't compensate (through game, looksmaxxing, etc.) for bad immutable looks factors, like a bad face or short stature. * 'Game…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:17 AM
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The distinction is largely spurious. It's likely that all or most mental disorders have a neurodevelopmental component. This debate over what is and isn't a 'mental illness' is foolish because it's an entirely arbitrary category. Autistics love to get offended when people call autism a mental illness, but if bipolar and schizo are mental illnesses, so is autism. But we should really stop using that term anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:25 AM
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DT men are promiscuous and interested in short-term relationships. That's why they have more partners. They're not more attractive; they're just more impulsive and can't keep or stay in a relationship. Some psychopathic or narcissistic men are attractive because they're fun, confident (or appear to be, which is good enough), and put effort into their appearance, but these traits aren't exclusive to DT. A prosocial man can have these qualities as well, and most women will prefer a man who has the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:22 AM
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Abuse is a strong word, but it is improper behaviour. To suggest otherwise is to suggest that spouses in a legally sanctioned union don't owe eachother anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:03 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:09 PM
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Both are villainised really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:19 AM
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Exactly theres nothing desirable about being nice. Studies consistently find a positive relationship between agreeableness and relationship satisfaction. Anyone can be nice. Nope. What planet do you live on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:02 AM
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In this fictional scenario? Sure. The person you're describing is a unicorn, but yeah I guess would marry a unicorn if she was real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:28 AM
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You weren't lying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:29 AM
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In what culture is it not normatively masculine for a man to provide for his family? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:29 PM
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Just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:18 AM
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I can't imagine any reasonable definition of abuse (as amorphous as that term is) that this would satisfy. You know this word has been debased beyond any meaning when people are asking ridiculous questions like this. Next on PPD: 'Is it abuse if I stub my toe??'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:44 PM
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Most autistic people have ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:06 AM
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It's true that women have contempt for weak men, but some insecure and controlling women seek out spineless men. They want to be in control because this allays their anxiety, jealousy, and feelings of shame or inadequacy. Same reason why abusive and predatory men go for insecure women. People don't always go for the person they're most attracted to. In fact, many people (both sexes) are terrified and intimidated by people they're genuinely attracted to. They're afraid of abandonment, unfaithfuln…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:20 AM
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I don't take any issue with it. Everyone gets what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:38 AM
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What 'cheat codes' do women get?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:08 AM
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He's not really in shape, he's just not fat. Isn't that what people usually mean when they say in shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:59 PM
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What is 'manipulative' anyway? Manipulation per se is neither good or bad. It would be impossible to get on in life without manipulating people, and dating and intimate relationships are no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:53 AM
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Yes, but they will give signs of interest to invite said 'wooing.' OP isn't saying (or at least I don't so) to forget any woman who doesn't want to jump into bed the moment she sees you. But that you should move on from any woman isn't showing any signs of attraction/interest to invite your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:10 PM
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Remember girls don't just go for looks. If your looks disquality you, that's that. And even if you have some wonder quality that compensates for it, you should ask whether you want a woman who is only tolerating your apperance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:57 PM
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Most people with 'shrimp dick' never killed anyone but you're having no problem shaming them and associating them with a mass killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:42 PM
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It's not about the killer. Believe it or not, I really don't care about the reputation of Alek Minassian or the genitals thereof. If you shame one person for having a quality, you shame everyone with that quality, and you associate them with the person. Most people with small dicks don't drive vans into crowds. Imagine if you derided a killer for being gay or trans, or for their race, or any other quality. Would that be acceptable because he deserves to be shamed? Elliot Roger was autistic. Woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:41 PM
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Shaming or ridiculing him for being gay would be homophobic. I don't know why this is hard for you to wrap your head around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:35 PM
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It wasn't the loser part he was objected to. It was the body shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:31 PM
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A: I hate John Wayne Gacy, he was gay! B: You can't say that; that's homophobic. A: What, you're getting offended on behalf are you a serial killer? what's your problem, you like serial killers bro??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:26 PM
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Lol being on the spectrum actually has a higher likelihood someone has a very high IQ compared to average. Nope. High IQ autistics are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:34 AM
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It also doesn’t sound realistic in ancient times for a small handful of the men to fuck all the women while the rest of the men sit around like losers. Female mate choice is probably part of it, but male intrasexual conflict also played a role, as it does in e.g. chimpanzees.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:47 AM
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The modern fashion industry was largely originated by gay men. They didn't much care for the feminine form.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:42 AM
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So arrogant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:49 PM
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No, they just don't want to suffer your condescending lecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:51 AM
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Is it really? You have a high opinion of the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:31 AM
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Lol, if you're exclusive it's not fwb any more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:16 AM
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Doesn't own a pet? Care to explain why that might be worrying? I agree with the other items.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:39 AM
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You go to a therapist so they can help you identify and find practical solutions to your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:26 AM
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Venting is super useful. No it isn't. 'Venting' (complaining) is an unhealthy coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:07 PM
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Lol, I never shot up a school. You're talking about a very, very small minority of men whose brains aren't wired up right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:43 PM
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If it's done for exploitative reasons, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:56 AM
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How much of this is cognitive dissonance, and how much of this is just that there is more than one man on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:42 PM
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I don't believe that such an expectation exists at all. Our culture hates awkward men, now we label them 'incel,' and that's even if they don't demonstrate overtly inappropriate behaviour as you describe here. I'm sorry, but who is pressuring you to have sex with Mr. Tails lover??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:35 PM
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Point is, what you really is want is the sort of man who treats you right because he has integrity. Not a would-be abuser whose malevolence is limited by external factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:25 PM
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Men are far too likely to treat you like shit when there's no mutual friend group accountability/reputation to risk. Is it so much better to have man who only treats you well only because he has to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:29 AM
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It's not so much fear of rejection but the real social consequences of rejection. The anxiety is reasonable and substantiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:30 AM
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11/10=1.1 11% is 10% more than 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:39 AM
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that's 10% more
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:50 AM
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People in this thread are retarded. If we exclude homosexual encounters, the arithmetic mean for both sexes should be roughly equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:28 AM
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The child can't stop being their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:00 AM
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She isn't religious so it kind of confused me as to why she would want to. You don't have to be religious to want a level of familiarity and intimacy before you have sex. We have been seeing one another for about two months now and everything has been great. Okay, cool. If you're happy to wait, then there's no problem here. I asked her why is she wanting to wait and she doesn't give me a direct answer. You don't always need a rational articulation to explain the way you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:45 AM
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Yep. It all comes down to self-gratification, one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:36 AM
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Yes, humans also have similarities with banana plants; and, excluding the possibility of a shadow biosphere, every other living thing on the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:45 AM
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Uhh, sure, I guess so?? That's a prescriptive statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:41 AM
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So humans can't share features with two different animals at the same time? The point of the lobster analogy is that dominance behaviour is so deeply ingrained that it works on the exact same biological systems in both humans and lobsters, animals so different that they don't even share a skeletal system.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:52 PM
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Monogamy is neither here nor there because humans are polygynous. The question is whether we naturally engage in long-term relationships with an expectation of sexual exclusivity, at least on the part of the female. And the answer to that question is obviously yes. You see that in every hunter-gatherer group on earth. These mating behaviours are hardwired into us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:43 PM
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Where in the world did you get that idea? Did you just wake up from a 70-year-long coma? Nobody in the scientific establishment disputes the heritability of personality. This has argument has been settled since the 90's. First law of behavioural genetics: all behavioural traits are heritable. Some are more heritable than others. FFM/big five traits are in the neighborhood of 40-60 percent heritable, and this appears to be the usual range for normal personality traits. Common mental disorders lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:00 PM
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Maturity doesn’t come naturally Well, for the most part, it actually does. We intuitively attribute our maturity to learning and life experience, but it mostly comes from neurobiological development. The person who imagines his maturity comes from life experience is like the savage who believes that the rain falls because the gods will it so; it's just a story we tell to explain phenomena beyond our understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:27 PM
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I have Aspergers. I also have a very high notch count (triple digits). If true, you must be really good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:53 AM
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Which is why they're "the caring and nurturing sex", right? Or is it just grown human men they don't get attached to for some reason? Well, yeah. Women are caring and nurturing to children because they exist to raise children. Why would they care about men? The only man a woman loves is her son.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:06 AM
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Nah, I think there's something to what she's getting at. You need to integrate your emotional life, so to speak. One way to have unintegrated emotions is emotional incontinence, to be swayed by your impulses and unable to control yourself; the other is repression: to disengage from your emotions. There's a time and place for stoicism, to be sure; it's a skill that even human being needs. But it should be used as a deliberate response when circumstance calls for it. It shouldn't be your default s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:41 PM
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You can't always tell if someone's safe. Some people do an excellent job at hiding their madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:26 PM
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entitled personality In all likelihood narcissism is an asset when it comes to getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:39 AM
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Women don't have burning desire lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:31 AM
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In respect of reproduction, no they can't. A woman can only bear one child by one man at a time. A man who shares a woman runs the risk of producing no children of his own, and then his genes are out of the game. Polyandrous mating occurs almost exclusively with brothers (because then the worst case scenario is that the unlucky brother raises his neices/nephews, who still carry his genes).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:42 PM
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This is because intrasexual competition was much higher between men. Women: unlikely to be excluded from mating, can only mate one man at a time, and can share mates with other women (they'd prefer not to, but they can). Men: can be excluded from mating, can mate multiple women, and can't share mates with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:14 AM
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I wouldn't feel jealous in the same way if it was a man, but it would be a sign that things aren't right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:19 PM
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Women’s preferences in men were irrelevant up until 70 years ago They were irrelevant from the onset of sedentary culture until the disappearance of traditional sexual customs. That's only a few thousand years. We came down from the trees millions of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:25 PM
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Unconditional love only exists between parent and child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:15 AM
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Lol wtf do you mean? If you work full time, you really don't have time for much more than work, gym, sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:04 AM
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Hygeine is not attractive. It's the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:40 AM
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It's the only mating strategy, really. 'BB' is basically normal human mating. Humans are a pairbonding coparenting species and mating is a transaction for the purpose of raising offspring so that both parties can pass on their genes. The man provides sustenance for the woman and her offspring, and the woman provides her womb, breasts, and parental labour to raise the children. Resources are moving in one direction in this transaction: from the man, to the woman. And although times have changed, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:14 PM
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Nonsense. There are plenty of women who enjoy talking about these things, but it depends on the context. You probably shouldn't chat up a girl you just met by rambling about Baynesian statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:47 PM
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You can stop watching porn at any time. It's not heroin. I got hooked in my teens and quit after years of daily viewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:52 AM
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?? What are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:32 AM
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This is a matter of individual preferences and boundaries. The answer will be different for each individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:21 AM
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Relationships are always transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:56 AM
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Your looks are determiend by the underlying skeletal structure of the face. The only way to become more attractive is surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:00 AM
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Doesn't a relationships necessarily injur the agency or autonomy of both parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:26 PM
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It's not feminism. It's human biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:53 AM
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Is this because of mate choice, or is it because extraverted people are more motivated to seek out sex? This probably represents behavioural differences as much as sexual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:00 PM
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It's not 'shallow.' It's just the way women are, and the way they've always been. You can't fault people for following their innate nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:48 PM
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Everyone wants to date a beautiful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:46 PM
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My preferences, as a heterosexual male. (a) Mentally stable, or not too neurotic. (b) Sufficiently intelligent. (c) Not too difficult or disagreeable. (d) Not too unconscientious, but also not too conscientious (I'm rather unconscientious). (e) Not too extraverted. I'm not prejudiced against extraverts, but there can't be too big of a difference (I'm introverted). I figure about one third of women would satisfy all of these crtieria. Intelligence is the biggest criterion. I could probably put up…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:18 AM
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What sets apart 'fetishisation' from any other preference? All attraction is based on preferences and desires: for looks, money, status, health, temperament, youth, intelligence, etc. When does a preference become a 'fetish'? Could it be that your feeling about this man's fetish is only an expression of your general distate for this man, whom you think is creepy for other reasons (e.g. unwanted sexual attention, social ineptitude)?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:30 AM
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