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Discussion612King/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:05 PM
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Women have all the confidence in the universe. Most of them think they are 10s, when most of them are just average. Most of them are just delusional af.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:19 AM
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This is how most dead bedrooms start. A woman marries a man for his money, not because she actually desires him romantically. She puts in the work to lock him down and get married. Then she stops putting in the work, and if he wants to leave he’s gotta payout.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:21 AM
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Men definitely need to better educate themselves on pleasing women. But some women also don’t help the issue by faking orgasms as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:52 AM
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The 80/20 rule is alive and thriving.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:05 AM
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This is a little disingenuous because both men and women change with time…. Over 5 years, over 10 years, 15 years+ Just because someone says they do or don’t want to do something in the year 2000 when they were 22 years old, doesn’t mean in 2026 when they are 48 years old, the answer will be the same for either gender. Relationships are about working through challenges and changes together. Ultimately, people either change with their partner, or they change and grow apart and people break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:25 AM
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Plenty of people change lifestyles after a certain number of years. Some people have lots of sex and prioritize sex in their 20s, then as they age, it’s not as big of a priority. However I’ve also heard women have a greater intensity for sex in their 30s compared to their 20s. People change, that’s a part of life. I don’t think there’s any one person that remains the same and unchanged through 80 years of life. So it doesn’t really matter if no sex was agreed upon in 2020. Maybe in 2026, they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:45 PM
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That makes sense. I wonder what percentage of women are ok paying for their partners bills. I’m going to assume it’s less than 20% of women are ok with this kind of setup. I’m open to feedback tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:42 PM
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Would you still be with this incredible man if you also had to pay all his bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:57 PM
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OP, you didn’t specify if being single comes with a successful dating life? I was married in a dead broom, got a divorce. The first year I started dating, I had more sex in that 1 year than I had in 9 month engagement and 4 years of married life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:08 PM
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Agreed. Coming from someone with a baby face that I’ve hated in my 20s until mid 30s. I’m 41M and finally look like I’m 28. The gift now that I’m older. The curse when I was younger because I looked like I was 15 forever!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:37 AM
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“Be yourself” is great advice when both men and women like being around you, you’re attractive, and you’re accomplishing your goals. If you’re not hitting your goals, which I’m assuming are dating goals since this is the dating sub, it’s time to adjust “yourself”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:45 PM
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“Just be yourself” - what if myself can’t get me laid? “Well that’s just too bad. But that’s the end of the dating advice.” Signed, women who try to give dating advice to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:24 PM
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Women do chase athletes in college. Some chase athletes after college…. Women do chase sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:00 PM
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Correct me if I’m wrong…. Don’t most older women also want their man to have money? So both older and younger women date men that have money and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:05 PM
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That’s really good advice. When a woman can see a man doing what he’s passionate about and possibly in expert in. The attraction goes through the roof for women. Trying to convey passion on a dating profile isn’t easy, but if me can nail that. They’d be more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:48 PM
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You’re in the right track then, just keep doing what he likes, then start to add in other little moves and gauge his reactions. Does he tense up more (good thing), does he get more vocal, breathes heavier, or start moving his hips… all good things. I think you should also have him send you links to videos he loves. That helped me a lot since I don’t orgasm from bjs. But showing her techniques I like in certain videos. We’ve made a lot of progress.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/26 12:49 PM
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This is a very interesting topic. Super relevant for me right now on my current career change. I was making big bucks in real estate. I quit the real estate thing. Burnout, breach of contract issues, conflict of interest issues with inspectors. Long story short. I’m done with real estate for at least a year or 2. I started doing substitute teaching 3 weeks ago. The schools have like 90% women. The pay is not good honestly. But it’s also the least stress I’ve experienced working in 20 years. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:21 AM
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Have you asked him what he likes? Or to pull up some educational videos on what he loves and gets off too? Some me like it soft, some like it rough, some like slow, some like fast. Some men like a firm hand grip, some like her to touch it like a feather. Every man is different.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/26 09:34 PM
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It was kind of a goofy documentary. HS says he is disgusted by OF models but still owns an OF model agency is the same as the McDonald’s CEO cringing at eating his own “product.” Yes the RP is filled with young boys and men who didn’t have father figures growing up to teach them things they learned the hard way in life. Stumbling through male/female interactions. I was just surprised the documentary didn’t give a solution or alternative for young boys/men to educate themselves instead of RP? Cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:05 AM
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So that you spend all your hard earned money on her, and give her all your attention. While she treats you like shit, while still looking out for the hot guys that she REALLY wants. Women always want men’s resources, even if they don’t see a future with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:48 AM
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Fully agree with this. I was married to a woman where everything I did was a problem after 2 years of marriage. It was brutal coming home to a wife with zero peace, daily arguments, lying about being on birth control etc…. I paid a lot of my money from the divorce settlement. But it was worth every penny to get out of that household with so much negativity. It’s been 10 years and I’m finally now opening up to the possibility of getting into another serious relationship. But the casual dating has…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:33 PM
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Because it’s actually 90/10
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:11 PM
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Lol, this is a wild post. But I agree. I’ve had better success on dating apps than the bar/club scene that I did from 17-30. My negatives: 1) baby face is good 30+ 2) I’m 5’8” - I see tall dudes clean up in the nightlife. 3) I’m naturally an introvert, awkward, and a little shy, so my charisma comes out after 5 min, initial contact is awkward for me, but first dates are fine. Or in terms of dating apps, my pics are great and the convo is slower and develops better than the first 1 min in a bar, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:32 AM
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The funny thing is that most young women have still dated older men when they were young anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:48 PM
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I’m in a similar boat. 41M, I met a 25F, we’ve gone on a couple dates, we both like each other, we both initiate contact with one another. I honestly don’t see a huge difference between her life and any other woman over 30, except she doesn’t have children. Most above 30 I’ve dated have children which just makes scheduling dates a bit tougher. But in terms of conversations, it still feels normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:16 PM
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What country are you in? I’m the same way. I’ve always looked 10 years younger than my actual age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:31 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:20 PM
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I’ve had better success on dating apps versus real life. I’m just awkward in first opening convos. Shy and uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:44 PM
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I half agree. They take L’s from the guys who are out of their league. But there are too many simps willing to do anything for any woman, which still makes women overly entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:32 PM
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Young women and old women both like stability, financial security, and resources. Not sure what the debate is, having financial resources helps men be attractive to women no matter what the age is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:05 PM
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This should be the top comment. There are different primes that women perceive. These really could be at any age for a man, or even multiple decades if he hits a different prime at multiple ages. Very well said and broken down!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:38 PM
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Damn I needed to hear this. I’ve gone through this as well. There’s no such thing as being a decent fuckboy. You casually want to fuck and still treat someone with decency means you’re playing with their emotions. I’ve encountered that a few times. Not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:47 AM
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As cold as this may sound. Most men don’t seek out single mothers to take care of their children fathered by other men. Do step parents exist, yes. But that’s usually not the Plan A option. As far as casual sex is concerned. Most women don’t find most men attractive (80/20 rule) and it’s probably half of the 20 that can accomplish casual sex and one night stands. So yes, 80-90% of guys complain they don’t have access to it. But that’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:49 PM
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I am slow. Please educate me why that is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:53 AM
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Well if we look at the marriage statistics of women earning more money than men, you definitely in the minority of 16%. (I didn’t look up those figures for dating). But the world thanks you sharing your financial wealth with these poor souls. Hopefully you helped them pull up their boot straps so they can better serve their girlfriends in the future. Just kidding. I’m sorry to hear about your track record tho. I’ve had my fair share of relationships and I’d say only 2 women I’ve dated made more …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:18 PM
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Lol, please come back and share the results. I’m interested 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:44 PM
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It’s not really a fallacy as doing a quick google search that’s of 2023, 55% of husbands are still the sole provider or primary bread winner, 29% have husbands and wives earning equal amounts, and 16% of wives are the primary breadwinners for the relationship. What’s the definition of a mommy bang maid? Is this the new term for a stay at home mom? But if the relationship is 50/50 financially, yes I agree they should be also doing 50/50 cooking and cleaning, unless one of them just enjoys doing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:42 PM
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I actually didn’t specify any standards. I just said find a man that meets the OPs specific requirements. She doesn’t actually specify what she’s actually looking for so I didn’t comment on it. I think this comes from most women getting into serious relationships with men that make more money than them. From the man’s perspective he’s assuming since he’s bringing in more money into the relationship, than she should do more of the maternal domestic duties for our relationship. My question would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:10 PM
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Why would you choose to be with this man? Just choose a man that meets your specific requirements. Not every relationship unfolds like what you have read on those other subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:43 PM
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Burn what down?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:41 PM
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I think some men understand some women are attracted to money, power, and status. So they will do all they can to hit those goals while contributing to society, but also hoping these things will also help them attract a girlfriend that leads to marriage so he can have kids and raise a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:00 PM
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This is always a funny topic to read about, and listen to women talk bad about fuckboys, they complain about men that are fuckboys. But women are still having sex with them….. for punishment?? I don’t get how it’s a bad thing, yet women still fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:12 AM
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Yet women are the one begging for marriage, and then also initiating divorce 75% of the time…. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:03 PM
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Wow, I remember 10 years ago looking at yelp wondering if an app would ever be created to give reviews on people instead of businesses….. the day has come and it’s a lot darker than what I pictured. Only men get public scrutiny and women have no rating system. Wtf. What is this world coming to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:22 PM
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I agree that self development does wonders from working out, hygiene, income/wealth job stability all make a big difference overtime. However I’ve always had a baby face. When I was 20 I looked like I was 12. When I was 25, I looked like I was 17. Which was never good for bars or clubs cuz I just looked underage all the time in my 20s, even when I was going to the gym 5x a week throughout my 20s. Yes I was trying to overcompensate with muscles because of my baby face. I hit 38 years old, and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:22 PM
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There’s a ton of benefits for women to have great looking photos. Not as many for men. Fantastic photos of a woman on social media may lead to an athlete or celebrity sliding into her DMs. The only way a man will have a female celebrity slide into a man’s DMs is if he is high status, the pics matter very little at that point. Men end up working on their skills and achievements over learning how to take great photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:41 PM
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That’s a very interesting perspective. It makes sense the more you do something, the actual thrill or excitement does start to dwindle, with anything in life, not just sex. I’ve always looked young, which has been a gift at my old age of 40 but also a terrible curse when I was 18-35. I did a few hookups when I was in my 20s, had 2 long term girlfriends and then got married around 30. I think I wasn’t attractive in my youth because I looked sooo young, I was 25 still looking like I was 15. So I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:51 PM
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Ya I was gonna say there are good men and bad men, just like there are good women and bad women. I was married, had 2 kids and divorced. We didn’t workout as a couple. But we are great 50/50 coparents. I don’t wish her harm nor does she wish me harm. Just get properly and take your time. It good be a really great decision it also might be a terrible decision on who you date/marry. Take your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:24 PM
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Lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:46 PM
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Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:43 PM
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So you mean all the cheaters + another 5% are not suitable for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:20 PM
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Isn’t the cheating rate around 25%-30% for both men and women? You’re saying most cheaters are still suitable for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:05 PM
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I still talk to women in real life…. I’m not deleting a free profile where I still get connections. My question was “is this how women feel when they get hit on” regarding number of men that approach, versus the amount of men that want commitment and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:09 PM
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This was a good response. I’ve read men are from mars book. I haven’t read models yet, but I’ve heard it’s a good read. I’ll try the kiss face emoji, my texting probably isn’t the greatest since I’m getting matches but losing them before the first date. The kino thing I learned in my 20s. I don’t really struggle getting 2nd dates and future dates. My biggest struggle is getting to the first date. I appreciate the response bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:40 PM
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You’re suggesting a delete my online profile? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:16 PM
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What are we supposed to be debating here? Men shouldn’t be bringing their women to orgasm? I’m so confused. This post is an L. Delete this bro, and go read the book She Comes First.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:11 PM
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Why is she vulnerable? The double standard when charging black boys as adults when some crimes are committed at 15. But this girl here is vulnerable at 19 or 20 or 22 with her OF account voluntarily collecting money from men from worldwide for “services” is wild to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:51 PM
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I’m aware. In my 20s I struggled a ton to date. I’ve always looked young. I was 25 looking like a 15 year old. I get it. I was simply asking the question is this how women feel, when they have interactions with men, but still not getting the results they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:24 PM
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Was that one of the numbers I got this month? Yes. Did I actually think it would turn out to be an actual date? No. Because there was zero conversation, zero banter, zero chemistry. But we did FaceTime yesterday, she was a real person. Don’t think we’ll meet in person. She didn’t talk much (shocker), and seemed distracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:45 AM
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Even if a woman looks elsewhere, she still has to go on dates no matter where she meets them though…. I meet women both in real life and dating apps. But real life, I just work a lot, so I actually end up missing a lot of networking or social events in town that look interesting. OLD just works because I can swipe/text while working and setup dates for free evenings. But even cold approaching in public is the same result of getting a number and then still getting ghosted before the actual date. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:59 PM
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I agree. TRP is for guys who are not conventionally attractive and need self improvement advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:57 PM
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Well kids and teens are fucking stupid. What do they say? “Women mature quicker than men” and also the frontal lobe in the brain isn’t developed until 25? Coupled with asking women what they find attractive and their answers are “just be yourself” and “just be nice and buy her flowers.” Sure these things help if the woman already finds the man attractive and likes him. But it doesn’t help an unattractive man with zero charisma or social skills improve himself. It doesn’t help men…. well boys und…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:00 AM
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Kids are impressionable. That’s why they don’t have have responsibilities or much accountability. That’s the whole purpose of good parents and good role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:58 PM
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False, most boys do not know this as truth because of their limited life experience. At that age, a boy sees a girl who likes an athlete or even a bully and thinks this just a fluke. Not knowing this is actual life now and also when you grow up and become an adult. OP is right, mainstream pushes the agenda of being a good gentlemen, and you’ll get the girl. Only for boys to become men and realize that’s not how relationships work. Working hard works in business and academics. Not with women and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:57 PM
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Dating apps aren’t bad. People should be doing both. Not one or the other. I use dating apps, and also still approach women outside as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:46 PM
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I’m the same way, after a blow out I need space to chill by myself and cool off before I say something I don’t mean, that has longer unintentional consequences to the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/25 01:27 AM
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The question is not phrased correctly. Cheating and biological reproduction are two different things. Cheating is based on morality, societal norms/structure, and ethics. Sexual reproduction on a biological level doesn’t include those factors. Cheating is wrong. Not denying that. All cheaters should go to hell. However, looking at a purely biological human level of how women reproduce and how men reproduce. Men and women are far from “the same.” Testosterone levels effect how horny people are, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:35 PM
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Open mind about what exactly? Who’s at fault for not having a 2 parent household? They both are at fault. But the mom may still end up marrying another man in the future. We have no idea what will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:09 PM
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What the F is going on in the comments? He told her he doesn’t want to be a Father, she doesn’t care about his opinion. He paid his financial obligations. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:42 PM
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I was just responding to your comment about women wanting the wedding but not the responsibilities…. In healthy relationships both men and women need to take care of each other. But it seems like women are initiating more divorces signaling they don’t want the responsibility of taking care of their husband. Glad to hear you guys take care of each other. That’s the way it should be :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:32 PM
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You guys don’t take care of each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:06 PM
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There you are. That is true. Nonetheless, it’s still a payout. Even In situations where a man didn’t want the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:39 PM
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Agreed. Women want their big special wedding day. But not the actual marriage and all the responsibilities of taking care of their husband. They’ll take care of kids just fine, but it seems like the husbands wants and needs eventually becomes a nuisance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:43 PM
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This is all true. Sometimes prenups are broken, sometimes prenups are not done. Sometimes child support is a wildly exorbitant number. But they are still payouts the higher earning spouse pays to the lower earning spouse. Could be women to men like Britney Spears or Mary J. Blige, or Halle Berry…. Payouts happen at divorce time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:31 PM
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Asset division, savings accounts, retirement accounts, child support, property value, business separation…. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:12 PM
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There’s other payouts besides alimony. The higher earner usually has to pay the lower earning spouse. Women are smarter by not marrying men that don’t make less than them. So usually men payout during a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:45 PM
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I have definitely found it odd that women are usually the ones to seek marriage in the first place, yet they’re also the ones to initiate divorce. But then when you see divorce payouts, I guess it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:37 PM
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This is the best comment in this thread. I’ll add my little 2 cents as well. I grew up in a single mother household. Mom and dad were married from a year before my birth and divorced when I was 2. I stumbled my way through romantic interactions from 16 until…. Married at 29, 2 kids, divorced at 33. I was completely clueless on women, their behavior, what I thought were green flags, not understanding red flags, not understanding my wife, not understanding my own failings with my 4 girlfriends in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:15 AM
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I’ll take a “stab” at this.. Yes pun intended. Husband dick means medium sized, perfectly comfortable, not too big that it never hurts. Boyfriend dick means a lot of fun, bad boy qualities, always up for a thrill. The adventure ever stops, even though he is not stable, reliable, or barely provides any type of security. Dick size is irrelevant, whether it’s big or small it doesn’t matter. However he knows how to use what he has, dick, mouth, fingers, creativity..... she always orgasms cuz he’s ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:03 AM
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I agree with this. But at the same time they still list income as one of the top priorities. So even if they are fine financially. It’s not like they have crossed it off their list now. I think it only means they are more likely to not stay in less than desirable relationship because her ability to make her own money isn’t a factor like it was 60+ years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:01 PM
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This is best case scenario for a mistake being made. It’s not bad that you were attracted to him, yes sex probably happened quicker than it should have. 4 is not bad at all. I think the body count thing really stems from the amount of trauma, mistakes, and not having high standards for partners is the root of the subject. Typically, women have more emotional trauma with higher body counts. Which makes it harder to have a healthy relationships in the future. Not impossible, but harder. You told h…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 04:34 PM
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I’m probably not educated enough to understand this response. But I’ll give it a shot anyways, because I really don’t understand most of your reply. When women answer the question “what do you look for in a man for a romantic relationship” most women answer 1) males as much money or more 2) prefer the man be taller than her 3) women like men that are natural born leaders…. Professionally or personally. Most women like a man smart enough and have enough resources to provide a comfortable home/lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:22 PM
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Are you saying hypergamy doesn’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:53 PM
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My perspective is men feel like that because they understand women want men better than themselves. So when a woman levels up, they understand she now feels better then him and will be silently searching for a new better partner then her current partner that did not level up alongside with her. I don’t think intimidation is the right descriptor. It’s more like an understanding that his time is coming to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:20 PM
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I’ve been thinking a lot about this recently. Are most men married in dead bedrooms because they just don’t know how to make her feel good and orgasm? So most women just prefer sleeping and not even attempting to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:11 AM
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The comment was: If guys quit simping for a bunch of women who don’t give a shit about them, the dating market would correct itself. I think simping is great for your wife/husband or once you’re in a serious committed relationship…. Give each other the worlds! But just simping to chase a woman you to take on a first date or 3rd date. Nah, it’s not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:10 PM
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I was getting about 10 matches a day when I was using it. So I was messaging about 50-100 women per week but only about 50% respond to my opening line. Then from there I’d end up getting about 5 phone numbers a week. From there I’d actually go on 1 date per month. I think my work and kid schedule sucks, and also my actual texting game sucks too, lol. I think I started texting like a woman because I just wasn’t putting much effort into my messages after so many matches. It was a weird feeling goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:25 PM
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I cook, clean, and do laundry for myself and my 2 kids and don’t consider it back breaking labor. Is it annoying? Yes…. Back breaking? No. I also do remodeling and construction….. that IS back breaking labor. All I was saying is if she has down time or less demand from her high paying sometimes maybe she’ll do the other stuff to make some extra money. I also rent real estate. There is is downtime where I do lower prices from my “normal” higher rates sometimes. Do I do it all the time? Of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:35 PM
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No I haven’t met any sex workers. Well I guess I wasn’t 100% wrong 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:15 PM
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That is true. But if she’s not getting booked one day for $300, she might still do the $20/ chore work to still make money while not being booked for the $300/hour service.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:24 PM
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Just because a man has a girlfriend doesn’t mean she’s providing him with affection. I’ve had a wife that didn’t provide affection, many dead bedroom relationships exist without affection. The only thing this service provides is clear roles and responsibilities for both parties for a window of time. Some men don’t want to be lied to about the intentions of the woman. Is she here for the money/resources? Or is she with me because she really loves and desires me? I personally wouldn’t utilize the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:17 PM
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I do agree with the message, and the saying “you can’t negotiate desire” it’s either there or it’s not. However, there are some women that know how to fake the desire and lust for as long as it takes to secure marriage. Then the next chapter starts…. The dead bedroom. Be careful out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:07 PM
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My initial comment was being confused by hearing some women say looks don’t matter. How you went to boy bands to porn usage, is quite the imagination. I really hope you’re a fictional writer to put that crazy imagination to use. Good luck to you ✌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:53 PM
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You’re absolutely right that I should not have expected women to be honest with their words. Is ok though, I’ve gotten older and learned not to listen to anything they say…. Only watch their actions and don’t trust the words that come out their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:04 PM
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I admit I was incredibly stupid when I was younger…. I heard and I believed it. I learned that lesson the hard way. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:44 AM
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I heard it when I was younger. I still hear it these days. Just not as much. But yes, women care about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:42 AM
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I agree with this. My only issue is with women self proclaiming looks don’t matter, then you realize later they do in fact care about looks. Like what was the point of even saying looks don’t matter in the first place. Not saying every woman says it, but enough where men get confused if they should put more effort into their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:51 PM
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Someone mentioned being desperate or seeming too eager to please her is a turn off for many women. It’s possible that was your vibe many years ago. Your current girlfriend wouldn’t tell you this because now if your more aloof with her, she’s gonna lose some of your enthusiasm to pleasing her. More women making passes at you now that you actually have a girlfriend, means you probably aren’t looking at women and interacting with them the same way as back when you were possibly desperate. Which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:36 PM
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Risky choice is usually chosen by women by younger women under 30. Women choose the the safe choice late 20’s and above 30 usually. Need the excitement and the unpredictability when she’s young.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:43 PM
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“Now women have started dating older guys” Majority of women date men their own age or older…. I don’t think this is a new trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:45 AM
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OP is talking about young women dating older men. Not older women dating young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:23 AM
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Man I wanna argue with you so bad…. But damn. It’s a cold reality. I just got done reading another sub where this guys wife is refusing to make dinner, and the comments are all supporting her saying “I would be petty and make dinner for herself or get take out for herself” shit. How can people be so selfish and still wonder why marriage is on the decline?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:25 AM
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I can dig that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:42 PM
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Hearing that women are the better communicators makes me laugh harder and harder as I get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:36 PM
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Some women are just argumentative because they actually like arguing. Some men also enjoy arguing for the fun of it. Some people don’t like arguing over small stuff that doesn’t really matter. I said this to my ex wife because she really enjoys arguing over every little minute detail. The communication dynamic is not for me. There were days I wouldn’t want to come straight home after work because there just wasn’t enough peace in the household. There were other things wrong in our marriage. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:44 PM
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If you don’t know how to find them, it’s just means you don’t have any interest in them. Which is fine, everyone has their own preference. But I’ve met too many women and exes that have had their fun casual times with athletes and celebrities…. They wanted that experience and they went out and found it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:59 AM
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To add to this. Men put women into 3 categories. 1) I would have sex with this woman but would not entertain a serious relationship with her, definitely not marriage material. 2) I would have sex with her and also entertain a serious relationship and possibly vet her for marriage. 3) she is not attractive to me and I do not want sex or a relationship with this woman. Most men find insta baddies and strippers hot just for sex. Not for relationships. Women will fuck an athlete or a celebrity for o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:22 AM
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The 9s and 10s are the ones that don’t need to date to have sex. So they’re not hungry like all the men who are 8s and under. It’s the very reason she asked the question. She doesn’t understand that many men’s experience of being and 8 and under need to date to get sex even if the man doesn’t want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:05 PM
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I don’t think sad or negative light is the right descriptor. I think it’s just biology, it’s just one of the many differences between men and women. There are things about women that I don’t think make sense to me as a man, but I wouldn’t say it’s sad or negative…. It’s just understanding the other gender. One example was when I was in my 20s, I didn’t want to play games while dating like, being mysterious, or waiting hours to text back, or starting petty arguments to keep her attraction high. B…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/24 04:57 AM
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“Men are only as faithful as their options.” Dave Chappelle. I’m not saying 100% of men cheat. But let’s say 80% prefer multiple women. Then 20% actually prefer monogamy. I’m not even saying 80% practice poly (open or hidden) but because of society norms, culture, consequences etc…. 80% do NOT practice it. But they likely would if it was normalized/mainstream and if they’re wife or significant other was genuinely ok with him having multiple women. Rich men just have more options/opportunity beca…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/24 04:32 AM
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“I got bored with Chad bot so I threw him in the trash, and started flirting with my neighbors Tyrone bot…. He deserves better”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:06 PM
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They still vocally shame guys that sleep around, but they will also still sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:42 PM
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If you’re receiving mixed signals. She doesn’t like you, and move on to someone that gives you “F - yeah” vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:43 PM
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Perfect example of wants the wedding day celebration, but doesn’t want the marriage relationship. “I don’t even care about him or his hobbies” OUCH.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/24 02:24 AM
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I missed the message from ok Cupid 15 years ago. I was married at that time. I used to hear people say just put clear photos of your face up there. A great face will always win. But if you don’t have a great face or under 6 feet (I’m 5’8”), showcasing cool stuff you do is the ticket!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:49 PM
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I tried an experiment on Facebook dating that was really successful at getting matches. I tried not posting any posing pics. All pics of me doing something, even if you can’t see my face or was even super old… skydiving pic was 15 years ago, me jumping off a boat 3 years ago, riding a motorcycle 10 years ago, driving a an exotic car, at the gun range with my back facing the camera, one surfing from 7 years ago, and then one on the ski slopes. I was getting like 10 matches a day. I’d get like 5 n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:22 PM
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It sounds like your friend was ok with men having flaws, she saw red flags and still continued the relationship or situation or whatever they had. You’ve mentioned you can’t find a man that can’t get past your dealbreakers, I don’t know what those are. But it sounds like you are not willing to look past flaws that your friend was able to look past. Ultimately she got married and divorced because she kept the relationship alive even with problems they faced. You both chose your individual paths i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:28 PM
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That type of casual sex is reserved for athletes and celebrities sir. Mainly because if a woman sees a famous person on tv or online multiple times. She already”feels” like she’s dated him and feels like she “knows” him. So if they ever get the chance to meet him in real life….. those “relationship talks have already happened in her dreams” - Now it’s just action time when they meet Drake in person. Doesn’t matter what he says face to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:58 AM
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Women crave the fairytale of meeting a guy overwhelmed with desire he WORKS his ass off to win her affection. Some guys do put in that work. Sometimes it works out and they live happily ever after. But more often than not, the woman takes full advantage of that man and all his efforts and gets used and abused. Women do put in effort in guys they desire. Unfortunately women don’t desire as many men like men desire women. If a woman meets 100 men, she might put in effort for 5 of them. She’ll stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:58 AM
1

Cute and adorable in public. Sexy and nasty in private. “Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets” - Usher
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 11:27 PM
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Lol, have you read her updated posts recently?? I know it’s hindsight now. But she’s throwing a tantrum over not being engaged…. She doesn’t sound like a partner that knows how to resolve conflict or compromise.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 03:35 AM
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I wish more women went through this learning phase about men. Unfortunately they really don’t need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:40 PM
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The healthiest relationships are bland and boring. Not all people are meant to in a marriage. It’s a lot work. Sounds like you still desire the excitement of the single life. Too many women get divorced from boredom. If you’re not happy, and it’s not what you want. Don’t force either of you into something that’s just going to fail in a year or 2. Not every man and every woman are supposed to be married.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/24 11:22 PM
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Only 11% of women find Marvel superhero body attractive? I’ve never heard a single woman in 10 years say Chris helmsworth has an unattractive body….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:43 PM
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So you’re saying that all men on earth crave raising children and that’s the only reason they have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:42 PM
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Lol 😂 yes that is part of family structure. But I was referring to biological sexual desires of men and women. Where women choose the best partner. Whereas men on a biological primal level just think more about quantity, not quality. But yes, to have a good family structure for children, men need to focus on what’s best instead of just the biological craving.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:21 PM
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The premise of the post was from gender standpoint…. But I think it depends on age and access to women in terms of who they will have sex with. The younger a man is with little to no status, like college age, will likely have sex with most women. But the older a man gets, his options change and they become more and more selective. As far as paying for it, I agree most men don’t pay for it. With the hypothesis from OP, men have sex for a variety of reasons which he stated, one thing he left out w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:11 PM
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I only mentioned one caveat…. Women enjoy sex with the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:28 PM
2

My first response to your first comment was I agree with you that women enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:14 PM
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Ya I agree. That’s very accurate. Females choose the best mate. I think males choose based on quantity not quality. The lion mates with more than just one lioness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:12 PM
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I agreed with you that women enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:10 PM
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I don’t think there’s a problem at all actually. It’s just the way life is. I could say it’s a problem that women have high standards, but I don’t think that’s necessary. Most men can’t meet the standards and that’s it. Will some women lower their standards? Yes. Will some men learn how to improve themselves to become more attractive, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:19 PM
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This is true. But most women don’t enjoy sex with most men. Most men don’t know how to properly pleasure a woman, or are too unattractive to get to the sex part. But yes, women do enjoy sex with the right man. The post is crazy anyways, because men pay for sex all the time and it’s illegal….
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:48 PM
2

Value to the point where they aren’t disposable?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:42 PM
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Oh gotcha. The first line of you paragraph made it sound like Mens wall is 10 years after a woman’s. But I feel you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:41 PM
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I’ve actually thought the wall for men is the opposite of women. Men have very less success with women when the man is 18-30. Compared to after he turns 30 if he has been focusing on their achievements and career, and not partying their life away in their 20’s. Women typically like older men, and boys are still maturing throughout their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:49 PM
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I’m not saying this to be mean. But aren’t most women also disposable? Just to say most people (men and women) on earth really don’t make a big impact on the world, or even in their own neighborhoods….
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:42 PM
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Accurate. I have 2 guy friends that I also hate going out with. Cuz they are a stark reminder of how disgustingly average I am when I see women fawn over them. It is what it is tho. It’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:38 PM
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Yes I agree with you. Orbiters are in a shitty situation of going to the steakhouse without actually eating any steak, but watching other people eat the steak at other tables. I said this about women last year. Because of our liberal messaging and encouraging women to be “free and empowering” with their sexuality isn’t the best path to secure a healthy long term relationship with a man in the future. But from society sending the message of “Girl, you can do anything and everything and still get …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:12 PM
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I’ve been married and divorced. My top 2 things at my big age respecting me, and not being a whore for male attentions/posting thirst traps on social media every 2 seconds. I don’t care how much a woman makes anymore…. I used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:36 PM
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Women are attracted to strong competent leaders. I’d they have the option to be with a man who’s in charge they will take the opportunity. However, is the man attracted to her is another story
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:15 PM
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Too many men throwing themselves and their money at below average chicks. I would be entitled af if chicks threw themselves and their money at me for just simply existing. STOP PAYING FOR ONLYFANS. y’all fuckin up the game
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:35 AM
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Men don’t seek out provider women like women seek out provider men. Even when women have more money or earn money, it seems like women get tired of “supporting” a man and the relationship tends to die even if the man is happy with that dynamic It is funny OP doesn’t consider herself as practicing hypergamy but still doesn’t want a lazy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:16 AM
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Lol, OP seems to be talking in circles. If a man or woman doesn’t like commitment, no marriage is ever needed. If he/she wants kids, they still doesn’t have to get married. I don’t even get the point of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:38 PM
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Yep. I’ve had 2 guy friends in the past 20 years that I hate going out with. They’re tall and super muscular. Watching women approach, drool, and stare at them really puts in perspective how women really don’t give average dudes a second look. I love them, but the first year seeing it I had a hard time accepting how ugly I was 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:59 AM
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And you didn’t address the situation where a woman wants to baby trap a man….. I think we’re done effectively communicating if we don’t want to answer each others questions. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:15 PM
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Well I guess you nailed it. Never ever trust a woman, even if 2 consenting adults make an agreement. Interesting perspective, I didn’t really expect to see that one coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:58 PM
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I’m an advocate for both men and women facing consequences with bad decisions. That’s a basic part of living life, if people make bad decisions, there are consequences for BOTH genders. The way the system is setup now, there are zero consequences for a woman who intentionally wants to baby trap a man. She can say she consents to having unprotected sex but ultimately doesn’t want a baby, but if an oops happens she can change her mind or just understand she was lying from the beginning about wanti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:43 PM
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I agree that one party will be on a losing side of a decision on whether or not to bring a child into the world. Which is also why I believe there’s no such thing as “casual” sex…. There are more serious outcomes from sex than casual outcomes. But I digress. And yes, a man having medical decisions over a woman’s body is also “not fair.” However it’s also “not fair” for a woman to have a baby that a man doesn’t want, or cannot financially provide for, if the woman puts the man on child support, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:40 PM
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It seems like you two both agree on the same outcome. But both of you just took different routes to get there. It has always confused me how the father really has zero say on whether or not a child is born after conception. We talk about equal rights, but that is one decision men just don’t have at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:15 PM
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I think the new word is vibe. But yes…. No spark/vibe = not enough attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:04 PM
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Both men and women like their partners to have burning desire for them. Being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t really care about you, but using you for resources….. feels terrible. Women typically don’t have burning desire for beta men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:22 PM
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I told my ex wife this last month. In relationships, you just have to pick someone where you can tolerate their flaws/bullshit, because NOBODY is perfect out there. Good comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:45 PM
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Correct. But he’s only relieved of his duty because they mother made her choice first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:18 PM
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It’s another option, for a man to be responsible for a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:25 AM
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Women can still give birth and give the baby up for adoption to go to a home with better resources. She’s still NOT on the hook for paying for child support. The system is goofy 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:42 PM
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Lol, so what would your one question be then? I think the reason men are saying it, is because with dating apps and the conversations that take place, it’s hard to tell if a woman actually likes the man or if she’s just talking to him out of boredom and enjoying the attention from the conversation…. Not the actual man himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:46 PM
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I agree. I was married. She was a great mother, but a shit wife and partner to me. We divorced, but I still feel like she’s a great co-parent. I even joke with her that we could’ve had 8 kids with the kind of coparenting relationship we have. Much better and healthy than actual marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:06 PM
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Sounds like he loves the honeymoon phase. I’m also one that loves the honeymoon phase, but I despise the actual “chase” before getting to date #1
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:30 PM
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I agree. More people just need to accept being single is really ok. Some people move through life just fucking up one relationship to the next….. some people need to realize relationships just aren’t for them. Instead of trying to force the square peg though the round hole
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:30 AM
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I agree. It’s the dumbest questions asking while dating. Even if someone answers the questions with “loyalty, good communicator, emotionally available” the words really nothing. All peoples good and bad traits come out while interacting with people in real time and through various situations. Actions speak louder than words. It’s like looking at someone’s resume, you really don’t know how they will perform until they start the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:54 PM
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I’ve definitely been played by women in the past before. So all you can do is learn from mistakes…. Hopefully from others mistakes, not your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:15 PM
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Ya, it’s not a good strategy for dating. You still gotta approach. Just don’t spend $50+ on a first meeting. If she has an issue with that, you know she don’t care about you, she only cares about the “experience”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:29 PM
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They find you attractive. That’s why they asked you on the date in the first place. They’re just too shy to try and kiss you and possibly escalate to something more intimate. Dudes don’t ask to go and pay for dates with women they’re not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:41 AM
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Do you think they were just shy and didn’t know how to make a move on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:51 AM
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Are you paying on those dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:30 AM
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Since women don’t pay on dates. There’s no reason for a man to pay for dinner with a woman he doesn’t find attractive. But he may hang out with her if she’s unattractive and she’s going to get intimate with him, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:38 PM
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Lmao. Savage. But truthful. Stay safe out there guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:37 PM
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Congratulations. I’m happy for you guys. Do you want to attempt to answer my original question? Or just go back to calling people “infantile, needy, little titty bitches?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:37 PM
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The question still hasn’t been answered. You just wanted to throw insults and name call. It’s all good tho. We can see your still in pain, I hope you get therapy soon. ✌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:48 PM
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So how else is a man supposed to see if she has motherly qualities without the woman showing the man her actual motherly qualities? Men need to show women they can actually be husbands, provide, protect, and show some fatherly qualities… to show he is ready for the role and responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:57 AM
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I never understood why looking for a woman with motherly nurturing qualities is demonized. It’s seems logical if a man is looking for a good mother for his potential marriage and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:24 AM
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Why?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 04:01 PM
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It’s also surprising how many women say they don’t like FBoys or cheaters or players. But yet they’re still women getting with guys with these known reputations. It’s a vicious cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:09 PM
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Unfortunately you are not aligned very well to be married. It sounds like the only thing you enjoy about the relationship at this point is having secured a great provider husband. You not like how he behaves or interacts with the world. He doesn’t make decisions, and he’s not a leader. It seems like he is the more feminine one in the relationship and you have become masculine. Do you know what the trigger was from having lots of sex with him, to not enjoying sex with him? It sounded like he wasn…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 04:55 PM
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Women test for strength. Being an asshole to other people (including her) shows some of that strength her biology yearns for, even if she vocally says she’s a strong and independent woman. Nice guys don’t present that “strength” factor very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:20 PM
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I believe the marriage rate has also fallen as well. Less marriages, less divorces is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:06 PM
3

Interesting take. I gotta process that one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:23 PM
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I would usually agree on this take as many people don’t change who they are at their core. They are who they are. However. I was a nice guy believing in the Disney fairytale and being an upstanding gentleman in my 20s. Made a mistake by marrying a woman who disrespected me during the marriage, but was an angel while we dated. Got divorced raped and totally mind fucked and financially fucked through divorce, hearing my ex wife say I needed to put my foot down more and tell her NO instead of just …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:16 PM
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Unfortunately marriage in the USA has a 50% success rate. I’ve heard a statistic of 70%-80% of women initiate filing for divorce. Not sure if it’s true or not. But I don’t think the “just leave them” strategy is just a Reddit problem. I think the mantra is actually playing out in real life as well. The USA just doesn’t value marriage and family like it did in previous generations. I think it’s sad, but it’s just our new reality as a culture.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/24 07:36 PM
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Yes the word is definitely stigmatized now. In this new generation, people just redefine words to mean new things. It’s wild. The nagging and over control gets very annoying. But it’s just what women do. Some men are cool with it, others aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:28 PM
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You’re saying men can’t understand women because men aren’t women. By your logic we can’t understand tigers either because we aren’t tigers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:16 PM
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So because we are not tigers in the jungle we cannot study them and understand their nature because we are not tigers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:06 PM
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Agreed 100% with this. Submission goes both ways. There are so many decisions that get made in relationships. Submitting to your spouses request or decision is also known as compromising. But for some reason people just can’t use the word submission anymore at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:05 PM
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That’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:55 PM
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It’s not an assumption if most women seek safety and protection from the man they are with. Not many women seek a man that cannot protect them or feel safe with them. You don’t have to be a woman to understand them, just like a woman doesn’t need to be a man to understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:53 PM
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But if you think about what women want on a biological level. Most women want a man who is smart, strong, has a backbone, able to protect her, doesn’t back down and be timid in stressful situations. Most women like to feel protected by her man. If she can now boss her man around, and walk all over him, she understands that when another man comes around causing problems, her own man won’t be able to protect her if trouble arises. Most women test the strength of their man, if she can dominate him,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:37 PM
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No problem. The sidebar should have lots of good resources for your path to exploration, cheers 🥂
/r/ExRedPill11/01/24 03:40 AM
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Wtf!? I’ve never understood how people men and women both can lack so much respect for their partner and still get married. Makes no sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:35 AM
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Have you been to the Red Pill Women sub? They focus mainly on traditional gender roles and how best to navigate that role as a submissive feminine woman. I believe they recommend Laura Doyle the Surrendered Wife if you like traditional roles within a marriage.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/24 03:21 AM
1

Here’s an anecdote for you: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/lsX0ede2nO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:44 PM
1

Because they just need to be attracted to men in their own league. Because most women now are only attracted to way above and out of their league, and they’re shocked those men don’t want to commit to them, they only want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:22 AM
1

Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:15 AM
1

I believe TRP says women should “settle” because their self perceived value is already falsely inflated. Women that are average typically don’t like average men, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:05 PM
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I (39M) just had this conversation with friend (39F). But one of her best friends is 30. She was saying her friend just met up with her old college friends back in her home city for the holidays. She was appalled that all the women have gotten married to their male friends in their social circle the past 2-3 years. I asked her why it was so shocking. She said well because their physical attractiveness are on different levels, the girls looking wayyyyy better than their guys, but yet here they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:27 PM
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Lmao 🤣😂😂😂 where is the lie??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:56 PM
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I agree with this take
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 04:46 PM
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Lady in the streets. Freak in the sheets. That’s the way to do it!
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 04:45 PM
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Ya I’m still amazed at how many women don’t like men talking about any of their own boundaries or preferences. Men completely understand women’s preferences, but women feel like men’s preferences really don’t matter. It’s wild to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:27 PM
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I think men have an issue with the fact that it’s really not equal. Men are held accountable even if they don’t want the child. Meanwhile if a woman chooses to go through pregnancy and birth a child. If she changes her mind and doesn’t want to be a mother she can give the child up for adoption, or just drop the baby off at a fire station and remove her herself completely from the child’s life without any negative consequences. The man can’t force her to pay child support. Which is what women do …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:51 PM
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Lol, men are held accountable through child support. If they don’t pay they can possibly go to jail….. and yes paternity tests also hold women accountable when sleeping with multiple men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:45 PM
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Agreed. I’m too old to be taken for granted. I gotta see some investment on her side, or else I’d rather just be single. Not worth the stress otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:32 AM
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Damn, did you at least stick with her until real problems couldn’t be resolved? Or did you pull the eject button just because you expected issues with long term compatibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:30 AM
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That does make sense. Lack of effort towards the needs and wants of your partner is a better phrase for them to use. But that’s good clarity. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:06 PM
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What does lack of commitment actually mean?? It seems like it would be infidelity, but it’s still listed separately though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:07 AM
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Sounds like you and your husband have a beautiful, loving, healthy relationship. I’m jealous, I wish I had the same success in my previous marriage. Well I think men and women both get affected by cheating partners. It’s a painful experience that lots of people try to learn from and try to recognize red flags sooner than later so they don’t feel that pain again. The wild married women I’ve encountered in bars and clubs might not have been married, it’s not like I was verifying social media histo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:43 PM
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I’m happy for you and your husband, every couple should be doing what works for them. I’ve been on the other side, being the single guy in Miami, NY, Vegas, and girls with big ass rings on their fingers still getting wild with me…. So those girls trips wouldn’t work for my relationship. Everybody has their own preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:37 PM
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It’s not that deep. She’s just not wife material. Nor are a lot of women that love to go party when they’re still in a relationship… hence single/non-relationship activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:36 AM
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In theory I didn’t pick any of them. I was just reflecting on what I’m seeing on the dating scene these recently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:44 AM
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Perfect example of another post in relationship advice from a couple and the woman loves to go party and drink all the time: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/g6hKWmqLEL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:35 AM
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Ya those are great activities. They are very low risk to your relationship instead of going to bars and clubs. I’ve been in relationships where bars and club nights happen, and it just leads to problems and drama. I’ve learned that lesson the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:25 AM
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Well if the men don’t want to invest the time and energy to date you, they are a waste of your time. Sounds like they are on the casual dating agenda. They really aren’t ready to be husbands, it’s better to get rid of them sooner than later. Stay patient, the right man will love all of your qualities! If I knew you, I’d love to date you seriously! Minimal social media, no guy friends, don’t do bars or clubs, still a virgin. You have a fantastic foundation for a great wife and mother. There’s too…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:39 PM
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Are they looking for casual hookups? Or are they looking for wife to build a family with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:32 PM
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I agree that socializing with girl friends is important. But girls nights out at bars and clubs is a sexually charged environment, people make plenty of bad decisions, especially when alcohol and thirsty men are involved. There’s plenty of other locations women can socialize at that aren’t as risky for a relationship like bars and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:30 PM
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Girl friends are fine. Guy friends usually sit and wait their turn to get intimate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:15 PM
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Even in the situations men leave the family, he needs to pay a heavy financial sum to the ex wife so she’s taken care of. When women leave when they’re bored. Women are the ones getting paid to leave. Theres very little benefits to men when they commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:54 PM
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Girls trips, girls nights out, posting thirst traps on social media, OF accounts (not single activity), flirts with men all the time, guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:51 PM
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This sounds good on paper. I’ve dated a bit since I got divorced in 2017. The amount of women that still want to do single type activities while in a relationship is surprisingly overwhelming. Often times men are accused of being “controlling” by protecting their relationship. I’ve also seen less value with commitment while women still wanna flirt with, and garner attention from the opposite sex all the time. If I wanted to keep hitting on women while in a relationship, I would just choose to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:57 PM
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Correct…. Do you think those men in dead bedrooms are happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:19 AM
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Ya you had me when you said monetizing sexual activity. But then lost me when you said going on dates for free food. A big factor of women being attracted to men is based on his resources, his lifestyle (which she gets to enjoy), and the value he adds to her life. A man not contributing anything financially to a women isn’t going to last. Men need to bring some type of value to a woman for her to remain interested…. At least at the beginning stages, now if a couple has marriage, kids, been toget…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:12 PM
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My thoughts exactly. I just wanted to comment “lol” to this whole thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:14 PM
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Romantic relationship love without expectations…. It’s an interesting topic I’ve struggled with for a few years with an ex. We were on and off for 4 years. She was 6 years older than me. She loved me more than I loved her. We went through a lot different styles of relationships. Adjusted what we wanted, adjusted what we gave, adjusted what we needed from the other. I’ve also really struggled with the concept of romantic love especially the true difference between love and lust. I’m very clear on…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:01 PM
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Refused to be a drug dealer even though because I’m black many people approach me thinking I have drugs to sell to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:06 PM
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I agree, there are women that are definitely attracted to some men without the man having to say anything or put in any “effort” it is very rare though. I think in my 20’s I was scrawny, broke, didn’t keep up with haircuts, hadn’t achieved anything noteworthy, moved with little confidence, didn’t command any “presence” and didn’t keep up with fashion trends, I was conventionally unattractive. In my 30’s life drastically changed. It took many many years of work on myself. I’m still under 6 feet, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:49 PM
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I think most smart men who understand society know not to talk about red pill stuff. It’s almost like a political topic. And in some environments, you just can’t talk about politics without ruffling a few feathers. Even though politics and male/female sexual dynamics are all around us all the time. The first rule of Fight Club, is you do NOT talk about Fight Club (shit that might be too old of a movie reference. Yes I’m old)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:30 PM
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Tru story
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:10 PM
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Very well said. I remember a girl I dated 10 years ago telling me she needed romance and she needed to feel romanced, I was so clueless on what she meant. Until years later I realized what she meant was I wasn’t doing enough planning of dates and buying random gifts and flowers. Romance to women is men doing stuff for them, but from the man’s perspective, it’s just work, hoping she’ll smile and be happy you’ve done work for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:15 AM
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I think it’s all tied together… the casual sex, the amount of sexual partners, the mental and emotional scars it leaves. Its all interconnected. I’m almost 40, been married, had kids, divorced, and I’m just now realizing there’s no such thing as casual sex. Sure, casual non committal sex exists. But there’s basically nothing about it that is actually “casual” there are so many long term, life changing things that happen from sex that almost have zero casual outcomes. Heartbreak, babies, STD’s, e…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/23 02:48 PM
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Wow, this is really clearly stated. I have a daughter and I will definitely be giving her this advice when we start talking about dating and relationships. Just because something is fun, casual, and temporary, it still has long term negative consequences that you will feel when this little adventure is over…. Very powerful stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/23 01:52 PM
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I’m a 38 year old man. This is a perfect answer. I’ve dated both for casual short term fun and also serious for long term future, I’ve also been married and divorced. I was fine with women remaining friends with exes if I didn’t see a long term future or marriage with. I was definitely NOT ok with a woman I was serious with being friends with their exes. Just like the bars/clubs are not gonna help your current relationship, neither is remaining friends with exes.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 01:17 PM
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Do you dress up for him in the house? Or only going out with him in public? I’ve requested precious partners to dress up for me in the past and it was like I called them every dirty name in the book. So I’ve stopped asking women to dress up for me, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 06:24 PM
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I think you’re gonna have to use real communication (instead of hints) and just ask him if wants to grab a drink or food outside of work one day. You’ll know if he likes you or not when you invite him out…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/22 04:51 AM
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Keep us posted :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/22 10:39 PM
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Have you asked him what type of relationship he’s looking for? What’s his ideal relationship? Casual? Long term exclusive? Having fun dating multiple women? Or looking to start a family?
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 06:33 PM
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