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robotis team ... I'm a fully formed who does human activity. What a hilarious combination of phrasing. (not meant to go anywhere just wanted to share the observation that made me laugh.
/r/seduction30/10/16 08:03 PM
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I could probably fuck some girls but it kills me inside to think that those hot girls want these guys more than me because of something I have no control over The irony in this sentence alone.
/r/seduction14/01/16 04:12 PM
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Realize that your fantasy is just that, a fantasy. You've surely had day dreams where you are much much cooler than you are, but have to still come back and deal with your day to day life. Do you get upset or weirded out whenever your day to day life is not that fantasy?
/r/seduction05/07/15 06:54 PM
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Therapy.
/r/seduction13/03/15 02:01 AM
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There are times and places I'm open to being sold a new phone contract. Sometimes I seek that out, but other times I've listened to a pitch because it was well timed and well placed. If I'm out for something else, there's nothing that will piss me off quicker than those kiosk guys harassing me for a phone I don't want. Certainly we don't want to develop seduction to be a sniper that never actually shoots, but we don't want to be shotgunning everything either. Choose good targets and everything e…
/r/seduction12/03/15 01:00 AM
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I'm going to go with no. Remember, a huge part of seduction is appropriate calibration to the situation.
/r/seduction11/03/15 12:57 PM
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Yeah, it's a slightly toxic plant. Mine is up high so that my animals don't try to eat it. I'm pretty sure the itchiness is also attributable to the toxic nature, not an allergic reaction. So far as I can tell the pollen doesn't really travel the way some other flowers do. If you think it's not your thing, makes sense to skip it. There are other plants that are similarly hardy/easy to care for.
/r/seduction01/03/15 05:03 PM
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Get a fucken peace lily. They are tropical plants so they don't take direct light and they get all droopy when they want water. Pop them under a dripping faucet for twenty minutes and they perk up. Unless you're blind you can't kill them, and they grow big.
/r/seduction28/02/15 11:48 PM
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Why does this irk you so bad? Assuming that you're right and she's lying, she's giving you a gentle out. It's not like you approached and she's saying "EWWW go away you filthy pig!" When people literally won't take no thank you for an answer you think this is the most disrespectful thing a woman can do?
/r/seduction27/02/15 09:24 PM
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Because she's a human you thought was interesting enough to approach. Because she has friends and she'll probably talk to about you. Because social proof. Because other women will see you acting a fool with this one. Because giving just the tiniest bit of effort to not be a rude person isn't a huge cost to have other people feel good around you. ETA: about
/r/seduction27/02/15 09:21 PM
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Part 1: You've answered your own question I don't interact with many people outside of my classes or friend group Interact with other people, and you will meet new people. Can you really say that you've met all the people at your school, or even all the women? Until that is fully explored, abundance mentality is totally fully possible. Ask the women in your class to hang out with you and your friends. Ideally you and your friends have a repeating (weekly) get together that is laid back and open …
/r/seduction25/02/15 10:38 PM
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Just noticed you mention this is for texting and I agree with everyone else. This is best done face to face.
/r/seduction18/02/15 06:36 PM
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Appropriate mutual self disclosure. Ask a question. Receive an answer. Relate it to your own life experience: tell an interesting story that relates. Wait a little to see if she contributes another story. If not ask more open ended questions.
/r/seduction18/02/15 06:35 PM
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Diet and exercise take time and energy. Further you pretty much have to do maintenance forever, but it's worth it, if not for your confidence then for you health. From the amount that you are talking about shame and guilt and unworthy feelings, it sounds like you should get yourself some professional help. Someone who will be able to help you find and process root causes of your feeling. If you really commit yourself to studying and hard self-critique, you might be able to get there yourself, bu…
/r/seduction13/02/15 08:23 PM
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I like book stores personally.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:02 AM
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Not necessarily (or always) romantic, but novels of the times do reference romantic carriage rides. Much like Ross road trips can be a utilitarian way to get from LA to Vegas, a super fun trip with friends or a romantic get away. These days everyone pretty much universally agrees about the total lack of romance for a first date at the movies. Unless you're like fifteen.
/r/seduction05/02/15 01:56 AM
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yeah, Joshua trees are major pricks.
/r/seduction14/01/15 01:47 AM
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sex is a REQUIRED part of any normal relationship, AVEN might like to talk to you.
/r/seduction06/01/15 06:45 PM
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I'd add to OP that persistence is one of the qualities of creepy people (cause I've known a creepy woman or two). A flirtatious statement is charming. A flirtatious statement after being rejected becomes a problem.
/r/seduction03/01/15 01:32 AM
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It's HOW you say it. Also a little bit where and when you say it. Full of confidence in a empty parking garage late at night reads differently than full of confidence in a coffee shop at noon.
/r/seduction06/12/14 09:49 PM
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Dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desires made legal by music --George Bernard Shaw
/r/seduction03/12/14 04:46 PM
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You realize most fish eat other fish right?
/r/seduction14/11/14 10:40 PM
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God bless Nina Hartley.
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:48 PM
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It was a weed cookie that op was not informed about and so couldn't make his own decision on whether that's what he wanted or not. What if he has a job with regular testing? What if he had to drive somewhere? Getting someone intoxicated when they don't want to be is pretty awful.
/r/seduction20/10/14 12:41 AM
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It took a couple bites to start smelling some real potent weed Reading comprehension, it's totally a thing. He noticed the smell after he had already eaten some.
/r/seduction20/10/14 12:36 AM
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To be fair death and rape threats fit very neatly into the definition of creepy.
/r/seduction29/09/14 08:38 PM
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The nature of being a person means that you experience your own turmoil and only see the results of other people's efforts. You are acutely aware of how stressed/insecure/tired you are and how much effort/work/time you've put into being where you are at certain things. All you see of other people is where they are. You have no idea the mindset they are in or what dues they have paid. I once was taking a private lesson for my favorite hobby and the instructor said something about "You're developi…
/r/seduction29/09/14 06:45 PM
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Chances are very good that you have lower social standing in the group. She's shit testing you because she doesn't want her social standing to change. She'll bang you, but not likely to date you. This is all inner game stuff. Work on yourself and social things will smooth out.
/r/seduction29/09/14 06:39 PM
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Maybe when she's the most beautiful girl in the room
/r/seduction23/09/14 12:20 AM
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I really don't get this saying from a pragmatic view. Like 90% of fish eat other fish and lots of them are very good at luring in fish.
/r/seduction23/09/14 12:18 AM
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Each relationship needs to find it's own level. If you are not feeling like you want to commit time and energy to a relationship (I'm using this word sort of loosely) you should have a real conversation with the other person about how much you are willing to put in, and ideally what you want to get out. Things may shift and change, and at that point you should have more conversations. I've personally done this, and been on both sides of the equation. I've been the more interested and committed p…
/r/seduction20/09/14 09:34 PM
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Or a bunch of the second level comments.
/r/seduction13/09/14 11:01 PM
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Slightly less positive, but still frequently leads to interesting conversation. "How do you spend your time?" Allows the person to talk about career, hobbies, interests as they wish, and gives you an idea what they value.
/r/seduction18/07/14 06:10 PM
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Well in that case why would anyone subscribe to /r/seduction instead of just going for it and learning from their own mistakes? Sometimes it's helpful to learn from the successes and mistakes of others.
/r/seduction14/07/14 03:58 PM
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I didn't practice, but it was also an awkward experience I have no wish to repeat again.
/r/seduction14/07/14 03:39 PM
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By actually applying all that inner game shit that keeps coming up.
/r/seduction26/06/14 05:43 PM
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I needed out. I was not suited to NYC. However if it is a thing that you think you would enjoy, NYC has so many opportunities for anything that you would want to pursue.
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:37 PM
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I'm in the US and that's hella cheap to me. Of course I just moved away from NYC so I'm still relearning prices.
/r/seduction05/06/14 12:22 AM
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Really it's not any of your business.
/r/seduction31/05/14 12:01 AM
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It is really that simple, what is not is that easy.
/r/seduction12/05/14 02:47 PM
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I frequently state that I want to kiss, so I don't know why every one else is so negative about it. The thing that stopped me was telling her that she wouldn't be able resist. Seriously what about that is going to make her comfortable or safe?
/r/seduction05/05/14 12:53 AM
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Yeah, there are plenty of women who like the attention and just want to see the notifications for their inbox.
/r/seduction04/05/14 09:21 PM
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This article changed my approach to conversations with new people
/r/seduction05/04/14 05:33 PM
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DDR is good for rhythm, but much less good for things to do with your body.
/r/seduction07/03/14 01:29 PM
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Charleston is an incredibly versatile dance that with a few small tweaks can look like lots of other things. I agree with the have no style guy below.
/r/seduction07/03/14 01:23 PM
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I literally taught my best friend to ask his wife "Do you need me to listen, or do you want me to help fix the problem?" It's sort of a wonderful thing to ask and be asked.
/r/seduction14/02/14 05:10 PM
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Slower is good, but has already been said. If you can figure it out, speaking with a chest resonance really lets your voice be felt in certain situations.
/r/seduction11/02/14 02:43 AM
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For college, take classes (don't even actually take, just talk to the professor and show up) outside of your major. I cannot think of a college that doesn't have a dating pool that will seem ridiculously large to the options/chances you will have almost anywhere else in your adult life.
/r/seduction03/02/14 03:18 PM
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honestly it was gawgeous Maybe start by remembering she's human.
/r/seduction03/02/14 02:52 PM
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In that vein, "you at least like my attention"
/r/seduction28/01/14 11:59 PM
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didn't want to invite aggression by calling you out. I think this has strong likelihood, even if subconsciously. He's already shown himself to be unpredictable and violent. Doesn't mean she doesn't still like him, just means she'll be a little more cautious and have her guard up more.
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:28 PM
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A) That's not necessarily true B) That premise is not held up by research C) Evo psych is a bunch of post hoc rationalization for things that can be explained in multiple ways and so such conclusions are suspect.
/r/seduction03/12/13 03:53 PM
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This is a two way street. You train people how to treat you by how you behave. If you behave as a doormat, they will treat you as a doormat. When a doormat stops acting like a doormat there is always a period of transition, but you have to firmly assert that you are not a doormat anymore. They will learn to treat you a new way.
/r/seduction03/12/13 03:49 PM
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What are you expecting an apology from her for? She went to hang out with a cool dude. She was pursuing a good time. She has done nothing worth an apology.
/r/seduction30/11/13 02:00 PM
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This right here is why I'm in therapy. I avoid anything that looks like conflict until there's one big blow up where everything burns in fire. It was a repeating pattern for far too long, but now I can be really proud of myself when I can say something about shit I don't like.
/r/seduction30/11/13 01:46 PM
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Instead of making it a critique of your friendship, enlist her to problem solve so that you two can have a way of communicating that you're going after someone. Maybe like a hand signal or something. The main point is to get her to feel like she's included and necessary to the process.
/r/seduction30/11/13 12:56 PM
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I hate this sort of evo-psych post hoc rationalization. We judge women more harshly about sexuality so why wouldn't they have more regret.
/r/seduction26/11/13 03:16 PM
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On the touch barrier thing, because women are seen as much less threatening, you can do much more touching than a dude. If you are laying down and cuddling, a great thing to do is to touch his face (cheek or jawline) while looking into his eyes. Nicely, not soul eating stare.
/r/seduction25/11/13 06:54 PM
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I understand the drive to give unusual compliments as they stand out against other compliments the girl has received. However, I don't think that always works out the way we would like it to. Instead I try to find the things she actually values about herself (ie: your curiosity is amazing vs you're smart) is a much better way to go. Of course that requires much more work and getting to know what that one woman values.
/r/seduction07/11/13 01:23 PM
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I cannot believe that no one else has mentioned therapy yet. You're a college student, it should be easily and cheaply available to you through your school. Therapists are trained to guide you through proper emotional expression, and boundary setting. They help with anxiety (the reason I went) and give structure to getting to know yourself. Not everything is something you can or should do alone. You come to us for advice. Why not someone professional?
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:58 PM
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As for not winning arguments with girls, that's what YOU think, I always win. Even when you win, you lose.
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:54 PM
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Ha ha! you'd be the kid who punched a girl. Not very inspiring of fear. Also, since they are so much better at everything than you anyhow, are you sure they wouldn't just kick your ass? Judo is pretty popular thing among martial arts inclined women. Honestly, you need to get over your insecurities and work on being an awesome person instead of this cocky front you're using.
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:51 AM
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Yeah, physical violence against a tomboy will continue to get you to be the laughingstock of anyone who has to see that.
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:38 AM
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It's for nothing if it is the only thing you're doing. I agree with a majority of commenters that OP shows little to no personality in his post.
/r/seduction14/10/13 03:29 PM
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There is a difference between speaking slowly, and taking a long time to say something.
/r/seduction14/10/13 03:04 PM
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Not a trick, but record yourself speaking. Even better get video. It can be anything. Read a passage from a favorite book, explain something you enjoy to an imaginary audience, do anything that gets you speaking. Wait a day and relisten to it. Figure out how you would like it to sound and give it a second go. Repeat until you like how you sound all the time.
/r/seduction14/10/13 03:03 PM
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I think part of it is the bias that comes from FR. The structure of a FR makes saying things like "I went out and approached ## of women and did x, y, and z and got a n-, k-, f- close" a lot more easy and digestable that setting up a "I've know this woman for five months and have done a, b, c, d, e, f, g, h, i, j, k, l ..." at some point people will stop reading and not give feedback.
/r/seduction03/10/13 12:12 PM
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I think the first two are really weak questions. Someone who is pretty accepting of themselves won't really consider what they've done as particularly crazy, so might have a really hard time coming up with an answer.
/r/seduction29/09/13 01:26 PM
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My only advice is to go into it letting go of any expectations and play it cool. This is I think the best advice related to your situation. You're mentioning how you think these women can be partners. However, you have a construct in your mind of what a partner is, and you are fitting them into that box before getting to know them. No one wants to be a person who is just fulfilling a checklist in your life. They want to be the brilliant multifaceted people that they are inherently, and they want…
/r/seduction27/08/13 07:45 PM
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To carry your metaphor further a grand piano will always take up more space than an upright. They can be put to very similar usages, and one can play the grand much more delicately and one can play the upright harshly and loudly, but no matter what the grand is just plain bigger. Similarly a tall, broad shouldered muscular dude, short of curling up in a ball takes up more space than a short skinny one. Physically more people have to look up to him. Physically he will stand out, just because his …
/r/seduction16/08/13 10:38 AM
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I think you miss the definition of physically imposing. Personality doesn't factor into it, and the way you move only factors a little.
/r/seduction16/08/13 02:40 AM
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For the Lazy
/r/seduction31/07/13 11:44 AM
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I think this is a weakness in the PUA game. It is geared to attract a certain type of woman. It is a game that gets women who are willing to jump into bed. It is a game that gets women who like men who are full of bravado. I might be interested in men who pull game on me, but I'm definitely interested in the introverted math PhD. type (seriously I've dated three candidates)
/r/seduction28/07/13 08:47 PM
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I would argue that your neck and back are good posture, since good posture is really the biomechanically efficient alignment of your skeleton, most notably your spine. However your spine is made up of a bunch of tiny segments that need to stack up on top of each other properly. Your Trapizius, being fucking huge cannot cause the individual segments to relate to each other correctly. Poor posture does put a strain on the trapezius, but mostly because people are activating it, to make up for the l…
/r/seduction20/07/13 10:01 PM
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The specific muscles you listed are not postural muscles. If you develop them to the detriment of postural muscles, you will not be doing any favors to how you stand.
/r/seduction20/07/13 07:35 PM
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You are doing something consciously and so probably recruiting far too many muscles. That's what's giving you the stiff robotic movements. You have to pull against an already tight muscle just to initiate movement, and so end up using way more force just to do something simple like take a drink from a glass. Time will help you with this. As your body develops straight upright posture as default, you will begin to release a lot of tone in muscles that aren't needed to keep you upright. You can tr…
/r/seduction20/07/13 06:02 PM
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It really depends on how you treat your occupation. Some people hate their job and can talk at length about all the things they would change and find it stimulating to do so. Others hate their job and never want to mention it. Then there are people who's job is the passion of their life. Also, I consider occupation to include all things that "occupy" a persons life or time. I'll often ask the question of "Other than (thing we are doing right now) how do you spend your time" because it tells you …
/r/seduction20/07/13 03:57 PM
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I know there are other subs that the style has only upvote buttons. Would that be helpful around here?
/r/seduction19/07/13 11:36 AM
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A thing that is missing in your list that I think is a huge deal: calibration. There's a lot of value in the abundance mentality because it allows you to move on from the women who are just not into you. If you cannot calibrate, you're wasting time.
/r/seduction19/07/13 11:36 AM
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I think this is one of the places that men are at a disadvantage to women. If you think of a sexy woman, there is a pretty consistent image and attitude that would be considered sexy. However no such default for men exists so it's really difficult for you to go out and signal to the world that you want to be perceived in that particular way. Part of me wonders if girls like the the ones that banter back forth, talk endlessly like a girl, and flirt, and go back and forth like woman(which is prett…
/r/seduction18/07/13 10:54 AM
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This might seem a strange tangent, but you seem really focused on external factors. Do you really believe that you are awesome? I mean really believe that you; you yourself are awesome. Not that you are awesome or whatever because of some external measuring stick, but that intrinsically because of whatever you've got when you're standing in front of a woman or the mirror naked is the best? I think that if you are too fixated on external things, it shows, and it really hurts your chances with all…
/r/seduction04/07/13 06:50 PM
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As a tangent to your tangent, I had a FWB situation that once included them playing piano naked as I sat behind and fondled them. The combination of eroticism and creativity was amazing.
/r/seduction14/06/13 12:01 AM
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I read much Victorian lit. growing up.
/r/seduction04/06/13 11:08 AM
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You can totally go that route, and it's probably a good idea. If you do, you should keep unlubed condoms as most condoms with lube taste particularly gross. You can then use high quality (non-oil based) lube on the inside of the condom. Also, if you do get oral sex, change the condom before going anywhere else! Teeth can do damage to the condom and leave you with the consequences.
/r/seduction04/06/13 01:06 AM
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It's not that HPV gets through condoms, but that it is transmitted skin to skin. While bacteria generally need fluids to live in, HPV does not. Until we are wearing latex short to fuck, skin is going to touch and that particular nasty can be transmitted.
/r/seduction04/06/13 01:03 AM
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I'm sure it's a qwerty typo, but the use of quim is very strange and hilarious in this context.
/r/seduction04/06/13 12:49 AM
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Because women are socialized every single day to change and accommodate the people around them. They do everything in their power to make sure things are smooth and nice and not awkward.
/r/seduction03/06/13 09:40 PM
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I think it swings both ways. There is an actual lesbians sub-reddit, and straight guys will show up and make comments.
/r/seduction31/05/13 03:37 PM
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Where are you dancing? I may want to dance with you.
/r/seduction23/05/13 06:31 PM
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The difference is focus. OP's says calls into question the person's qualities of being interesting, and commands (imperative phrasing) evidence. Yours assumes the interesting qualities, and allows for a much broader response which could include not addressing the issues of being interesting. for example: you: "hey, i just wanted to come talk to you for a bit because i thought you looked really interesting and i wanted to see if that was true." Her: "Aww, thanks" Now there is no conversation and …
/r/seduction19/05/13 06:09 PM
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How interesting. I find that I am attracted to things where there is a Platonic ideal state that I know I'll never reach. I don't have to have an end point to get to in order to enjoy the process. I treasure each step in the approach to this ideal state for getting me that much closer.
/r/seduction14/05/13 09:43 PM
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You have an attitude that is nobodies type. You've been told time and again by both men and women on this site that you're cute. Yet every time that's written you tear it and yourself down, in the process usually hurting the compliment giver. Anyone ever hearing you react that way is not going to be offering up any more compliments. You've proven that you can take time and do work towards achieving difficult goals, but just reading books or seddit about how to improve yourself is not enough. At …
/r/seduction14/05/13 09:39 PM
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No. She was saying that she has a type. Her friend has a type. They are not the same type. So unless you have some sort of facial disfigurement if you own your body, someone will find you especially attractive because you fit their type.
/r/seduction12/05/13 04:30 PM
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Related: if you are a fan of lots of rounds of sex, one of these filled with water and washcloths is a thing of magic.
/r/seduction05/05/13 08:03 PM
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Other people want us to like them as much as we want them to like us. This was a major component in reducing my anxiety in dealing with other people. However that circles back to fixing your emotional issues.
/r/seduction29/04/13 10:20 PM
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I am non-monogamous, and there is a state of the relationship with each of my partners occasionally. The most common agreement I have is that we both know we are allowed to do whatever with whomever as long as there is an acceptable level of safety. I will answer any questions asked. Sometimes I'll bring up my other relationships or things happening with them. I don't want to know the moment that someone else has been choosen over me, but I am happy to hear about anything happening with them and…
/r/seduction11/04/13 10:35 PM
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I had plenty of speaking lessons as a teen and very young adult. I think that even with such lessons, so many people still have anxiety over speaking that the skill falls away with the majority. Everyone still really respects a good orator. Even people who dislike President Obama think that his speaking is wonderful.
/r/seduction07/03/13 06:10 PM
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I never drink, have never been drunk or even tipsy, but have a life full of awesome stories.
/r/seduction16/02/13 10:34 PM
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