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| 140 | Mother goes to jail for refusing to let father have visitation and therapy with his sons | False Accusation | 624Seeds | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 11:06 PM |
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| 2 | Do you consider forcing males to cut their hair in aviation, medical institutions and military discrimination?I agree. The same way women fought to change gender norms, including with the way they were allowed and expected to dress and groom themselves, men need to do the same. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 05:29 PM |
| -2 | Are definitions of psychopathy centred on men?which I think you mean that benefits men That's not what I mean, and that's not what a patriarchy means. Like the slides showed, ALL areas of medicine and beyond used men as the default and never take into account how physical and mental health conditions manifest differently in women. What is it y'all say? "Women ignored and left out of medical research, men most affected" This is just another example of how a society that favors men (patriarchy) negatively affects everyone. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 08:52 PM |
| -8 | Are definitions of psychopathy centred on men?Doesn't this just reaffirm the fact we live in a patriarchal society where men are the default for everything..? | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider forcing males to cut their hair in aviation, medical institutions and military discrimination?https://taskandpurpose.com/news/army-religious-exemption-hair-beard/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CIn%20observance%20with%20your%20Christian,(AR)%20670%2D1%20%E2%80%A6 I agree it's sexist. How do we change it? | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you consider forcing males to cut their hair in aviation, medical institutions and military discrimination?women in Iran who are fighting their government because the government is forcing them to wear hijab. It sounds like men need to band together like women have done if they think it's a discrimination issue. I don't think enough men care that they are being "forced" to have short hair that (literally) 96% of American men already choose to wear themselves. Military service has also been completely voluntary for 51 years. If you don't want to be discriminated against then don't join. Or join and st… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Do you consider forcing males to cut their hair in aviation, medical institutions and military discrimination?There are actually many exceptions for ethnic or culturally significant hair lengths/styles in the American military. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Why do women like bad boysThey're escorts, or they're being compensated in some way. Certain people will ignore moral corruption if it means they get to live a rich lifestyle, even temporarily. Most women definitely do not find that attractive though, just like most men dont find fake IG models posting similar content attractive. According to Google, over 88% of his followers are male. He is pandering to the male gaze and male fantasy of being rich and surrounded by women. Most (normal average everyday) women aren't inte… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceSo men can impregnate as many women as they want and pick and choose when they want to take accountability for causing a pregnancy? What about men who abandon their already born children after a few years? Does he still have no responsibility to those children that he decided to just stop caring about? | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 06:37 PM |
| -3 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceIn your world with no child support, what is the consequence for men who cause unwanted pregnancies? Why is only the woman held accountable when it's the man's sperm and his choice on where to put it that causes a pregnancy? | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceLike I already said, abortion is a consequence, pregnancy is a consequence, birth is a consequence, adoption is a consequence, single parenthood is a consequence, child support is a consequence. No one wants to go through any of these things from an unwanted pregnancy. But when you're an adult and you mess up, you take responsibility for your actions. Saying the only consequence you experience is unfair is childish. You CHOSE to have unprotected sex, then the consequence is having a baby Exactly… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 11:16 AM |
| -13 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceIf you have unprotected sex that is part of the consequence. You don't get to force another person to have, or not have, your baby. That's her autonomy and her consequence. You CHOSE to have unprotected sex, and that can result in a baby. That's your autonomy and your consequence. You don't get to just make all the bad decisions you want and not be held accountable. Getting unwanted pregnancy birth is a consequence of having sex with an untrustworthy partner. If you don't want to raise the child… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 10:08 AM |
| -9 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceAn abortion is a consequence of unprotected sex. Child support is a consequence of unprotected sex. Taking away child support is taking away any and all consequences from men who have unprotected sex. No one wants any of the consequences that come with an unwanted pregnancy, but part of being an adult is taking accountability for your actions. That is good and right. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 09:15 AM |
| 5 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceExcept paying child support doesn't even get you guaranteed visitation, so it's not even a ransom with a reward of getting your child back | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceI agree, more should be done to get both parents involved in raising their children equally. It's ridiculous that you have to pay insane amounts of money just to see your own child. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 04:44 AM |
| -13 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceChild support is for the child that two people created. When there is an unwanted pregnancy, abortion is a consequence, child support is a consequence, giving birth is a consequence, adoption is a consequence, single parenthood is a consequence. If you don't want to take accountability and accept the consequences for your own actions then don't have unprotected sex. This is the one argument I'll never understand. Especially since it's not even a gendered problem. If you don't want to pay child s… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 04:31 AM |
| 5 | Do you think it's fair for men to be stay at home husbands and women go to work?I don't think it's "fair" for anyone to stay home, and I say this as a SAHM. I don't think it's fair that my partner has to work and I get to stay home all day with the kids. But we both agree it's what's best, neither of us trust our old parents to watch the kids, and especially not a stranger or daycare. I know I have it easier, and I would hate to have to wake up early to get dressed and work in an office. I'm on my kids schedule and I find time to get chores done throughout the day, and I al… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the 4b movement: a social movement in Korea Its proponents refuse to date men, get married, have sex with men, or have children.What answer are you really looking for? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/24 06:31 AM |
| 18 | Do you think men are often attacked just because they are men?I think if someone is looking for a fight or is willing to get physical because they're angry, they know they "don't have to" hold back if it's another man. If it's a woman there's a moment of "oop, I better hold back" just like if it's a child "oop, I better hold back" "I can't use my full strength against this significantly weaker person" | /r/MensRights | 14/08/24 09:45 PM |
| -1 | Am I the problem?You wanted a traditional life and a traditional man. He makes the decisions and you follow. Is that not what traditional means? | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 10:23 PM |
| -1 | How about men’s right to their own money?A condom is the equivalent for men, and an abortion is a consequence, just like being a single parent or paying child support. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/24 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on the 4b movement: a social movement in Korea Its proponents refuse to date men, get married, have sex with men, or have children.Saying you don't want to have sex with men or have children is not the same as saying you don't need men in society. Wanting to remain single and childless (what the 4b movement is and what OP was asking about) has nothing to do with men doing manual labor jobs that keep society functioning. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/24 10:40 PM |
| -20 | Thoughts on the 4b movement: a social movement in Korea Its proponents refuse to date men, get married, have sex with men, or have children.What does this even mean? Women shouldn't be allowed to exist in society unless they're having sex with men..? | /r/MensRights | 22/07/24 10:16 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on the 4b movement: a social movement in Korea Its proponents refuse to date men, get married, have sex with men, or have children.Wasn't it a headline that 150 schools have no first graders enrolling because I'm so many women (for years) have been refusing to have children in Korea? | /r/MensRights | 22/07/24 10:11 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on the 4b movement: a social movement in Korea Its proponents refuse to date men, get married, have sex with men, or have children.Sounds like MGTOW, I don't see anything wrong with it | /r/MensRights | 22/07/24 10:08 AM |
| 0 | If men actually cared about single moms as a “societal issue”, they would be encouraging men to be stepfathers.Why do men always act like an abortion is an easy choice, or giving a baby up for adoption is an easy choice? Raising the baby you created is a consequence and it is taking responsibility for her own (and his) actions. Yet men like you complain about child support being modern slavery, and in the same breath say women "aren't taking accountability" because they're... raising ..their own child. 🥴 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:42 AM |
| 2 | If men actually cared about single moms as a “societal issue”, they would be encouraging men to be stepfathers.Half of single moms haven't been married. That means half have been married, making marriage an irrelevant distinction. To truly address an issue, you have to go as far upstream as possible. The solution to fatherless criminals would then be to make sex education mandatory in schools, to make contraception easier to obtain, and for abortion to be legal and available to everyone. To stop people from being single mothers you stop them from being mothers in the first place by educating them to make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:36 AM |
| 9 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?You're right. Women usually just divorce their husbands because they're bored lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:21 AM |
| 13 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Men not caring about themselves, or not caring about how a bad relationship negatively impacts any kids they have, isn't the flex you seem to think it is. How many emo bands need to write songs about their shitty parents "staying together for the kids" or how watching their father beat their mother fucked them up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:57 AM |
| 37 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Women "choose" to get divorced because they're willing to leave a bad relationship. Men sticking around doesn't mean he's happy, or faithful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:38 AM |
| 6 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHM"Expected" in what reality? I'm a SAHM, and the majority of the housework and childcare is my responsibility. When he comes home obviously there may still be things that need to be done, and he still wants to parent and bond with his kids, but I'm the one who does the majority of the child care and daily chores. And because I stay home we know our kids aren't being abused or neglected while being raised by strangers, plus saving all that money on daycare costs. I was a min wage worker before kid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:14 PM |
| 5 | Does clubbing automatically mean being sexually active?I went to clubs in college as a virgin. Wasn't religious, just too awkward to ever get close to a guy. Loved getting drunk and dancing, and dancing/grinding with guys (or just my girl friends), but it never lead to any conversations or anything more than dancing. But, I was out with my outgoing friends and roommate. I'm sure the vast majority of people who are social and confident enough to go out clubbing regularly are also confident enough to be sexually active. I will add though that none of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:33 AM |
| 6 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.I see it talked about all the time. Arguably more often than the orgasm gap tbh. Everyone knows about the orgasm gap and women's sexuality isn't as taboo as it was even just 10 years ago. Young women are very aware of the pleasure gap and are less likely to settle. Male sexlessness and male loneliness are very hot topics, and I say that as someone who doesn't follow a lot of gender related things on other social media and try to remain unbiased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:54 AM |
| 4 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Certain men call it a "physical need" like needing food and water just so they can guilt their partners into having unwilling sex and convince them they're being cruel when they aren't in the mood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Do men or women experience more violent crime in America?Men are more likely to be victims and perpetrators of violent crime, and the majority of these numbers are between men/gangs who are equally violent/criminals. Women are more likely to be victims of sexual crimes which are overwhelmingly committed by men, no matter if you account for women raping men being classified as sexual assault, women not being convicted, men not reporting, etc. It is overwhelmingly an issue of men abusing women and children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 12:37 AM |
| 6 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?One would assume if you're looking for women in more sexist countries with stricter gender roles you'd be prepared to fulfill the traditional role of a man (provider) while expecting her to fulfill a traditional feminine role 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failMarriages fail because One partner no longer depends 100% on the other to provide a life for them. Women have more work opportunities and have the confidence that they can support themselves if they are no longer happy or in an abusive situation Religious indoctrination is less and less a factor. People are waiting to marry for love, instead of rushing to marry just so they can have sex with their first partner and then staying because divorce is a sin. Marriage is just a way to legalize a long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you?More projection from red pill men, I'm afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 06:19 AM |
| 9 | What are some red flags you've personally experienced from the opposite sex?Giving the awkward shy guy a chance. Turned into him bombarding me with messages for months, alternating between calling me a cunt and professing his love for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a man?Being outgoing. It's just easier to open up and get along with someone who isn't shy and awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as defaultWomen are not more "naturally attuned to focus on looks", that's all about culture. Both sexes want to look presentable and attractive, even if it's to the same sex. Otherwise no man would care if he had on stained clothes, had a bad hair cut, had cystic acne, and no man would be complaining about their height, philtrum length, epicanthic folds, the angle of your eyes, the shape of your hairline, the shape of your chin, jawline, etc. The problem is how our culture pushes extreme beauty standards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessDefending themselves against your accusatory post. "Women do this this and this" is not "bringing up men's issues". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 04:38 PM |
| 0 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessAll I see is you arguing with women trying to explain their side and saying men have it worse in life and society in every way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 09:20 AM |
| 0 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessIronic, given how men reacted to the whole bear thing, and how they always have to say "not all men" when women are talking about being abused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 09:15 AM |
| 8 | Why do men care if older single women are lonely?They're mad that women their own age aren't dating them now. They're coping by imagining the women currently rejecting them never accepting anyone in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.That's toxic masculinity, not masculinity. A masculine man would not repress his emotions, would seek help when he needs it, find a non-violent outlet for his anger, and not rely on substance abuse to get through the day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 07:25 AM |
| 0 | When will we have female-only cities?Have you seen the way men react to female-only train cars and female-only sections of gyms, where the sole purpose is to protect women from an established problem of men harassing and assaulting them...? Imagine what they'd do if women created an entire city that was female-only | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 01:25 AM |
| 6 | What are some reasons for still being a virgin that would be a red flag?Can confirm. I was a virgin until I was 21 and it was because I was incredibly awkward and shy. If I were a man I think I would for sure still be a virgin, unless I met a manic dream pixie girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 04:30 AM |
| 0 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?There's more to being attractive and loving someone than just their physical looks. Those will always fade with time. You only think it's "settling" because looks matter most to you in a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Women destroy other Women's commitment optionsin all of my earlier relationships, my kindness did not produce good results. I rarely recieved kindness in return I didn't really have anyone willing to build me up. I spent more time getting torn down Sounds like you were the one choosing assholes 🧐🧐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Women destroy other Women's commitment optionsI've been with my partner for 10 years, he's very confident but not from cheating his way to success and being an asshole. I met him soon after high school, he wasn't successful, and didn't develop his confidence from being an asshole to succeed. He's the smart therapist friend who everyone calls with their problems. He knows how to talk to people. He is always willing to help others with whatever they need. He pampered me through my two pregnancies and postpartum. He is very much a "golden retr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why is it mostly other women behind the trad wife backlash?Because more often than not the trad wives online are saying it's a woman's ultimate purpose and that everyone else is miserable. Feminism is about choice. No one cares if you want to be a SAHM or trad wife, but when you start telling others that they're wrong for their lifestyle choices and that they're unfulfilled or acting "manly" for having a job or saying men don't like working women etc etc that's when there's a problem. Women uplift other women when they're not being assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:35 AM |
| 1 | How would the world look if women ruled it?My partner learned survival basics in boy scouts. He can start a fire, knows what rocks and wood to use, how to build shelters, spend days in the woods as a child camping in lean-tos, etc. When I was in girl scouts we just sold cookies and made crafts to give to old people. Please don't act like our society has no influence on how we behave lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:31 AM |
| – | Women destroy other Women's commitment optionsI always fall for the troll accounts 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Women destroy other Women's commitment optionsHave you ever listened to the stuff that goes on in these relationships? Yeah, lots of great times and some bad times that both people in the couple think will get better with time. Lots of changes too. Kids, major purchases, job changes, all the stress that comes with them. You can't know how you or your partner will react until you actually go through it, because nothing really compares to raising a child or buying a house together, etc. Everyone who's ever broken up thinks the other person is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:27 AM |
| 1 | How would the world look if women ruled it?Men and women in our current society. Where there is no push for women to be survivalists and everything outdoorsy is aimed towards men.... Maybe they should take a group of men and women from tribes and groups who still live mostly off the land next time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:07 AM |
| -4 | Women destroy other Women's commitment optionsYou don't have to be red pilled to think this, you have to be an incel to think this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 05:44 AM |
| 0 | Women destroy other Women's commitment optionsBreaking up or falling out of love doesn't mean one person or the other is an asshole. Maybe that's why men are so confused all the time. They see relationships ending and assume the women are just choosing assholes..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 05:43 AM |
| 18 | Women destroy other Women's commitment optionsMen do the same to other men with all the manosphere pick up artist bs they try to sell lonely men. Y'all literally tell each other women only date assholes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 02:41 AM |
| – | How are western women not embarrassed?Incel/misogynist/pathetic, it's all the same to people in the real world. People obsessed with race, "Western women," and complaining about dating are usually incels daydreaming about being able to afford to be passport bros. Go out in the real world and you'll see no normal person talks or thinks like that. Talking about being replaced by one race or another is something incels do online. They have no real world interactions with normal people so they think everyone knows these chronically onli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 08:57 AM |
| – | How are western women not embarrassed?Because this is a CHRONICALLY online take. Most normal people don't know or care what incels and passport bros are doing in their dating lives, and they don't see niche circlejerks between lonely manosphere men online. Every woman I know is currently in a long term relationship. Idk what they'd be embarrassed about. Imo needing to go to poorer or more conservative countries to find someone willing to be with you is what's embarrassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 08:31 AM |
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