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Have a few milestones, like being able to make out with two girls at the same time, or getting with different occupations like actress/lawyer/models. Also, track your success rates of #closes/kissing/dates/f-closes
/r/seduction28/12/12 11:42 PM
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I think it would help if you had more concrete goals than that.
/r/seduction28/12/12 01:44 PM
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How will you know when you've made it to PUA?
/r/seduction28/12/12 05:02 AM
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I know. Happiness is overrated.
/r/seduction23/12/12 04:01 PM
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I think more important than some list, is your own self-worth. Remember the value that you have, then act accordingly.
/r/seduction23/12/12 01:15 AM
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Then do something to make sure you're a happy, generally good person.
/r/seduction23/12/12 01:14 AM
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Yes, because everyone likes being around someone who doesn't smile much or ask people questions. Bonus points if the guy isn't shy about making other people feel bad. Personally, I think you need to trash this list. Living by it will only turn you into a selfish, unhappy asshole.
/r/seduction22/12/12 02:40 PM
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I actually have more "AA" when trying to figure out what to write a girl online. I have a lot tougher time mustering the courage to say something when I know two thirds of my messages won't get a response.
/r/seduction27/11/12 07:04 AM
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Unless they're oblivious to theft that they need to suggest another time.
/r/seduction12/11/12 08:40 PM
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Trololo
/r/seduction08/11/12 05:02 PM
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Lol@ pope's funeral I was the first guy to ever take classes at one studio. Whenever I signed up for a class, they would send out emails to everyone else in class letting them know that there would be a guy in class, and to be prepared. One time, someone replied to the email and said that wasn't okay with her. That's why I'm afraid to ask out girls from pole class.
/r/seduction08/11/12 05:43 AM
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Let me know how it goes. Since you're the first guy I've introduced to pole, I want to keep tabs on your progress.
/r/seduction08/11/12 05:33 AM
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I've got a stationary tension set pole. It's about the most stable thing on the market. I can do human flags and mad spins without it moving at all. No bolts or screws or anythihing, just tension.
/r/seduction08/11/12 04:41 AM
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I bought my pole for $300. I would recommend getting either a platinum stages pole or an x pole. 45 mm spinner is what I would get if I could do it all over again. The sidebar at r/poledancing Should have some good online resources for learning stuff, but nothing replaces actual classes. Personally, I do pole just because I love aerials; the social aspect just followed. Get good at it and learn to love the challenge. Things get really awesome after you start doing onstage performances. Social pr…
/r/seduction08/11/12 03:44 AM
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I'm an aerialist, and pole is my favorite apparatus. I love it because it takes tons of strength and flexibility. In terms of dating, holy crap. It's totally transformed my dating life. Ive got a pole in my apartment, and when girls find out, they want me to teach them. Pole dates are a really easy way to get to first base.
/r/seduction08/11/12 01:53 AM
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I will take that $5, good sir.
/r/seduction07/11/12 02:15 PM
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I have a tendency to get girls who have a really good time with me for a couple of dates, but then they stop responding. How do you keep things from fizzing out after the first few dates?
/r/seduction07/11/12 05:30 AM
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I take pole classes simply because I like aerial sports. There are tons of hot girls in these classes, but I'm afraid to flirt with them, since they don't go to these classes to get hit on. What would you do in this situation?
/r/seduction07/11/12 05:26 AM
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I have a roommate. I just introduce her to my roommate and she introduces herself. I've used this trick way too many times.
/r/seduction05/11/12 07:39 PM
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I just started a sales job, with no sales experience. I seriously think seduction is the reason why I'm the top producing salesman in my office.
/r/seduction04/11/12 04:27 PM
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And yet half the people who get married find a way to make it last.
/r/seduction28/10/12 07:30 PM
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Find a sport you like - boxing, jui jutsu, circus arts, whatever. If you're going to go to the gym, you might as well have fun with it and learn something useful
/r/seduction25/10/12 01:51 AM
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...and you don't know whether they're alive or dead until you open it.
/r/seduction25/10/12 01:49 AM
1

Totally. I've gone a month without a date because I made a terrible choice with my hair. I look like a ken doll, and anytime I try to go with any look other than simple and classically handsome, it blows up in my face. Peacock ing is for clothes, not hair.
/r/seduction25/10/12 01:43 AM
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When having sexy times, tell her [thing] really turns you on. If she cares about you at all, she'll consider it. Make sure to do it when things are getting really hot and heavy. Just say something like " you know what I really like? When a girl goes down on me." Also, manscaping helps.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:43 AM
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Agree and amplify. Accuse her of slut shaming Own it. You probably are a man whore Any of these will work.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:39 AM
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Always assume attraction
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:36 AM
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I just maintain a balls to the wall rockstar mentality. As long as you're playing by your own rules, it comes across as natural. If you're unsure and trying to seek approval, it doesn't work.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:34 AM
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If you can get her to agree to have sexy times but never talk, then it's a great idea. Otherwise, she'll be just as obnoxious as she was before the breeakup.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:30 AM
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What's your go to first date? I'm looking for something unintimidating that can lead to a make out session.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:28 AM
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Don't say anything to yourself. Make a decision and stick with it, and get your brain out of the way.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:25 AM
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How would you like it if some girl tried to change your core beliefs because they weren't convenient for her? Respect her boundaries, and don't pressure her into doing something she'll regret for the rest of her life. Remember: always leave them better than they were before you found them. You're trying to break her.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:23 AM
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Best advice I can give - she'll need constant reassurance, and probably demand that you give it to her. Don't put up with that crap. Make fun of her for deflecting your compliments.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:18 AM
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It sounds like you've got some severe issues that prevent you from even liking yourself. I would highly recommend the Feeling Good Handbook, and if you can afford therapy, give it a chance and see if it's right for you.
/r/seduction13/10/12 04:05 PM
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I actually prefer going solo. I find that it's tough to find a wingman who can keep up with my antics.
/r/seduction13/10/12 04:01 PM
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I think one of your points needs to be, use the right compliments at the right stage of intimacy. I almost always save physical compliments until we've started getting physical.
/r/seduction12/10/12 03:31 AM
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I use compliments as a way to reinforce good behavior. If a girl starts escalating kino during my approach, I'll tell her she's adorable. For sure, compliments are not the way to a girl's heart, but they have their place.
/r/seduction12/10/12 03:25 AM
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I don't give a f***
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:12 AM
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The only time boob touching works is if you've established yourself as an IDGAF-kinda rock star, in which case, there's no "accidental" boob touching. I've actually used boob compliments as an opener, and went on to motorboat the girl 30 seconds later.
/r/seduction09/10/12 09:16 PM
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If you can high five into hand holding, yes, otherwise, high fives are good, but not kino.
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:28 PM
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Try it. It's the easiest opener, and requires no brains and little confidence.
/r/seduction02/10/12 09:15 PM
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In that case, you've got a game of awkward chicken. Keep escalating, or acknowledge defeat playfully with something like "I take my hat off to you. You've got balls of steel."
/r/seduction02/10/12 08:50 PM
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Can you give a high five to strangers? That's my go to for initiating conversations. I don't have to worry about what to say, and it's possible to just high five and then leave without saying a word.
/r/seduction02/10/12 08:42 PM
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I feel like this is such a neglected and important part of the game. If we could just get this right, approaches wouldn't be such a big thing.
/r/seduction02/10/12 05:33 PM
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Sounds like you did everything right, and found a receptive woman on the first try. Congrats, man. I tend to lose most of the girls between the pickup and the first date. Can you do another FR on how your texting/calling goes?
/r/seduction02/10/12 06:01 AM
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Aerials classes. I even joined a circus production.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:23 AM
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On the topic of shoes, how do you feel about cowboy boots?
/r/seduction24/09/12 02:10 AM
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Negs are kind of offensive, but we still use them.
/r/seduction24/09/12 01:50 AM
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Insanely high success rate in any scenario, too.
/r/seduction24/09/12 01:47 AM
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If you're going balls to the wall, you can pick her up.
/r/seduction23/09/12 02:48 PM
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All I noticed was the hand on the boob.
/r/seduction23/09/12 02:46 PM
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Always approach a girl within three seconds of seeing her. It serves a bunch of good purposes - reduces approach anxiety, encourages natural conversation, and prevents looking like a creeper.
/r/seduction22/09/12 09:01 AM
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Another reason for the three second rule.
/r/seduction22/09/12 12:51 AM
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Feelings are boring Kissing is awesome
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:39 PM
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Would you agree that using it as a crutch is bad? I think any good PUA shouldn't feel like they need liquid courage in order to approach people.
/r/seduction16/09/12 06:59 PM
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It does feel pretty good.
/r/seduction16/09/12 06:57 PM
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here's a guy I wouldn't mind talking to at a party.
/r/seduction16/09/12 06:25 PM
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you remind me of this girl I agree with Mr. Squid. We're defined by our actions; interesting people do interesting things, and boring people don't. If you don't have something specific about yourself that makes you worthwhile, you're boring. Luckily, boring people are still capable of doing something with themselves to make themselves interesting.
/r/seduction16/09/12 06:23 PM
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I'm awesome because I'm a circus performer/contortionist/pole dancer. I'm bold and shameless, and I've got a comfort zone wider than the blast radius of an A bomb.
/r/seduction16/09/12 05:43 PM
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Personally, I make a constant effort to always have a good answer to the question "what's new." I'm always doing something new and exciting. For instance, if you asked me that question today, I could tell you that I'm auditioning for a circus production, I had a three way make out session this week with two girls, and I had to go to the ER to get staples put in my scalp. All true things, all interesting points to bring up in conversation, although I might not tell certain people about the three …
/r/seduction16/09/12 05:38 PM
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Sounds like you found a keeper. Don't let this one get away. (sarcasm). Sure it would be nice to have sex with her, but at this point, I think your life is better without her.
/r/seduction16/09/12 02:39 PM
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For your most noble efforts of valor in the face of perceived chauvinism, I would like to invite you to become one of the white knights of the round table..
/r/seduction16/09/12 02:10 PM
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I had two drinks in me before I spotted an Asian girl I wanted to talk to. I'm going to make a few assumptions based on this one statement. First, you feel like you need to drink in order to loosen up and talk to people. Second, you were standing in the corner by yourself looking around the room for good potential targets and then work up the courage to talk to one of them. And third, you're on a mission to get laid, and didn't start a conversation with anyone who wasn't an hb. Let me know if I …
/r/seduction16/09/12 01:28 PM
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Except for the not caring part. He cares a lot, and feels hurt because of rejection.
/r/seduction16/09/12 01:25 PM
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I would say that anyone with a fear of intimacy isn't someone I want to be with. I have better things to "fix" someone
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:22 PM
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It's true, you're constantly horny on nofap, but I find that's a good thing, since it gives you more motivation. I also determined that porn is the reason why I'm still single; it disincentivises meaningful human interaction by giving you an easy substitute.
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:54 PM
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You could say the same thing about everyone on seddit, replacing guys with girls. We're all man whores here, and at the risk of someone calling me a white knight, I'm not down with slut shaming.
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:48 PM
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I'm 6'0, and look like a brown-haired Ken doll, with genitals.
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:44 PM
0

I totally enjoyed the slutty girls. It feels good knowing that these were the kind of girls who would never give me the time of day back in high school.
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:17 PM
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A few things I did right: dressing well. White tie/white shoes combo I was getting compliments on all night. Confident as ever. Just grabbed her hand and took her to the dance floor. No questions asked. Might sound weird, but I credit /r/nofap with a lot of my success lately. If you stop wasting your sexual energy on computer screens and dirty socks, you get a lot more of it to use for real life situations.
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:14 PM
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One of them said it was the first time she's done it. It definitely felt like there was more luck than skill involved.
/r/seduction15/09/12 03:52 PM
1

I'm guessing it's a high five that turns into hand holding.
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:50 AM
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Last week, I actually opened with a compliment on girls' boobs; it was a lot more successful than I anticipated. But just let the conversation organically flow in the direction of her bosom, see how well she takes it. Also, to any woman reading this: talking about your tits can change you from a 6 to an 8.
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:49 AM
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Today I rejected a girl because she failed the compliance test. It felt good.
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:41 AM
2

I read that sentence and just assumed z was short for zombie.
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:39 AM
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The list needs to be its own post.
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:35 AM
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I will actually bring them up in conversation to see if she's as shameless as I am.
/r/seduction15/09/12 01:17 AM
1

I know that feel.
/r/seduction15/09/12 01:16 AM
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Telling her to wear a certain outfit for your date.
/r/seduction15/09/12 01:09 AM
7

How old are you?
/r/seduction15/09/12 01:08 AM
1

The most recent opener I tried out was "I hate to point out the obvious, but your boobs are fantastic." I motorboated a lesbian in under a minute. Normally, I just work on things in the context of the situation. Talk about something interesting and relevant.
/r/seduction15/09/12 01:03 AM
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I call this the morning after effect. Drunk girls won't remember or appreciate you the next day, so when I go out at night, I go with the mentality that if I don't at least get a kiss close, nothing will ever happen.
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:29 PM
1

If he had stuck around longer, would you have made out with/gone home with him?
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:21 PM
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Related question: when and why do you use compliance tests?
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:17 PM
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I love it!
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:15 PM
0

That actually sounds like a terrible opener. You've just put her on a pedestal and made her choose whether or not to reject you. Also, beta.
/r/seduction14/09/12 03:51 PM
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I was about to be like, "why not?" but then I saw the screen name.
/r/seduction14/09/12 03:45 PM
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I wish I figured out how to talk to girls before I was 16. Go ahead and start working on being more charismatic, dude.
/r/seduction14/09/12 03:44 PM
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27
/r/seduction14/09/12 03:42 PM
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Totally. Let me know if that list ever gets made.
/r/seduction14/09/12 03:42 PM
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"not part of a frat" hasto be the lamest excuse ever. If you're at a university, there should be no shortage of opportunities to talk to attractive girls. They should be studying at libraries, sitting at tables at cafeterias, and walking around campus. All you have to do is strike up conversations. Barring those possibilities, meetup.com is a great resource.
/r/seduction14/09/12 02:14 PM
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Point taken. Just for the record, was the person doing this a girl or a guy, and are you a girl or a guy?
/r/seduction14/09/12 02:00 PM
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The compliance rate on this is so high that I barely consider the kiss on the cheek to be an IOI, although it certainly does prime her for more kino. In the rare instance that she doesn't comply, that's a definitely IOD.
/r/seduction14/09/12 04:30 AM
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I read a little bit on NLP, and it seems too stupid to touch with a ten foot pole. I'd love to talk to someone who actually tried it.
/r/seduction14/09/12 04:09 AM
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I'm here for you, bro.
/r/seduction14/09/12 04:05 AM
3

Step 1: cut a hole in the box.
/r/seduction14/09/12 04:04 AM
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That's kinda the genius of it. You take the pressure off because it won't matter whether you succeed or fail
/r/seduction14/09/12 04:03 AM
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Fantastic.
/r/seduction11/09/12 09:05 PM
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I also made out with three girls last night, and got plenty of numbers. Gay bars are frickin' magic. No bitch shields, and you don't have to worry about preselecting. Just find a straight girl, and their buying temperature is already high. You might not like it, but I challenge you to find a faster way to get to second base.
/r/seduction10/09/12 02:16 AM
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