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Because true ppb aren't looking for just sex contrary to social media, but actual relationships and MARRIAGES.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:55 PM
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Personally, wouldn't date either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:08 PM
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So much misinformation here. Briefly, 1. it isn't women against women, it's culture against culture. Why? Those women prefer a traditional relationship involving marriage and even hold men to a higher standard than even western women. The biggest difference is what they give back in return. They treat their men like kings. It doesn't matter if he digs ditches, works a 9 to 5 or is a millionaire. Western women have lost ignored or simply have zero interest in those traditional roles. That is thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:57 PM
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To gain what? I would rather sleep in a mine field covered in rattlesnakes and cobras. Less risk than dating western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:36 PM
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no, she cheats she's done. no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:53 PM
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So she is a SAHM, that us useless to a husband who supports her. Great example of why western men should date internationally with women that prefer traditional roles. I would bet she does less than 20 hours a week of actual work while her husband works OT just to come home to that. She contributes 0 to the household except entitlement. She better pray he doesn't realize one day how better off his life will be without her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:27 PM
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let's break it down. While essentially correct, men want their OWN children. When men date single mothers, they inherit all the responsibility and none of the control or decision making in raising that child. Compound that with losing any built relationship if a break up or divorce happens and it is exceedingly risky to make such an investment. Men neither need nor want the type of stress, issues and existing trauma the majority of single mothers bring to a new relationship. We are not responsib…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:18 PM
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Nope, I'm not going to play that game. If she doesn't want to be there, she's welcome to leave. That proved to me she wasn't committed to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:22 PM
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And if fashion dictated to look good you had to wear tar, chicken feathers and peacock feathers shoved up your butt? No, your post is just full if bs rhetoric used to excuse these behaviors. Even the fashion designers know the better the look, the more their fashions will sell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:05 PM
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we were in college. I'm 56 now soooooo in my youth. go be a social warrior elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:48 PM
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I sort of agree. I tried dating a few single mothers in my youth, and it almost always ended in a crap shoot. Trying to arrange schedules, school, work and child care became constant nightmares. While they tried, they just couldn't be present for an actual relationship to develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:13 AM
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Dude was 36 at the time. Nice guy for the most part, but man lazy as they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:51 PM
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Not really. I had an employee that spent all his pay on dates but tried to beg and borrow from everyone to pay his rent. He borrowed his roommates BMW M3 for dates to show off. I had to counsel him twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:40 PM
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Nope, why? He can obviously splurge on a first date and blow an entire check for appearances then switch gears.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:33 PM
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Adultery should be criminalized for ALL. Paternity fraud is just that fraud and should be criminalized and prosecuted. The men victimized should absolutely receive a portion of monies spent as restitution. No, jail time should not be an option to clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:30 PM
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no, why? There are other options such as seeking a relationship internationally with someone that still holds traditional values as a prerequisite for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:08 PM
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And in my opinion, forcing a man to raise a child of an affair should be a crime of fraud and the mother should face a year for year jail sentence. He goes 20 years in a prison he wasn't given a choice of, she should sit in prison for the exact same time. But that would be unfair right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:58 PM
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And wrong. If your driving a car for example, get pulled over, and your passenger hides enough drugs under the seat to get a trafficking charge, the driver will still be arrested and charged with the same crime. Can they fight the charge? absolutely but it doesn't change the fact they now have to deal with the fallout and further legal proceedings and have to face the same punishment if unsuccessful. You might not have known about the drugs, wouldn't have to agree but now still face prosecution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:40 PM
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Similar to being charged as an accessory to a crime in a court case you didn't chose to commit but because you were in the wrong place, wrong time and associating with the wrong people, you get caught up I'm it. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:06 PM
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There are enough responses in the post to show a good number of men would do the same. Weak? it takes alot of strength of will, of the mind and of the person to stand up and walk away and not just accept being lied to for 20+ years and forced into being a parent by a parasitic spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:02 PM
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It has everything to do with the kids as a by product of adultery. Why would I need to associate with a constant reminder of adultery in my face daily where I already spent 20+ years of my life being lied too? As I clearly stated, if she didn't want to end up in a shit storm that effects everyone she's connected with, don't make the decision to commit adultery and try to hide the kid. Simple enough to be honest and give the fathers at least enough respect to decide for themselves to stay or leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:51 PM
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wow, are you that fucking stupid to equate a damn crime to a free choice to commit adultery? How asinine. Seriously get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:35 PM
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I'll also take it a step further. Men are being brainwashed and convinced to accept and excuse shitty decisions for no other reason than, man up. Men do not have to sacrifice their beliefs, feelings, emotional stability or lives to accept and put up with a crappy partner If more men took my stance, you would see a huge reduction in these events happening. If more women knee they were risking their lifestyles and families in advance, I guarantee you would see them think again before committing ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:22 AM
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Why? Because you don't agree? That neither is it my fault nor my problem. I put up with zero and I mean zero drama in my life. And if it meant sooooo much to her, she won't commit that betrayal. Simple yes? The situation us simply dealt with but people complicate it. Our society has grown to accept and just allow such bad decisions and behaviors. There are consequences to those decisions. You do not want you or anyone caught up in that tornado to experience it, then don't do it. My behaviors hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:54 AM
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And your wrong, why? Because the child regardless of age is a constant reminder of that betrayal. For most men that is akin to sitting with a butcher knife in your heart that is constantly being moved back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:43 AM
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No, I'm the guy that won't get pissed, argue or put up with drama. I will forgive the transgression but will never forget it. my solution is TO LEAVE. I do not give 2 seconds thought to their voluntary or non voluntary involvement. They would be the unfortunate result of that betrayal. And yes for me, it's that simple, cut and dry. Not sure where your misinterpreted my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:34 AM
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I'm not going to argue semantics. My children all know I am "one and done guy". no exceptions, no second chances. You break that level of trust and NO ONE you have connection with will ever hear or see me again. It is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:39 PM
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I'm not hating the kid. My children already know I'm "that guy". No second chances. You break thar level of trust, I am DONE. no exceptions. No one connected with her at that point will I have any further contact with me, bar NONE My children have already witnessed that I am fully capable to walk out of someone's life. This would be no different and they know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:31 PM
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Actually no. Why? Any relationship from that point forward, no matter what they did would reopen the wound for me. I would never see them or treat them the same. Yes, we would sit down and discuss the situation, but ultimately that level of betrayal I would never be able to move past.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:54 PM
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Oh no. I know i would nope out. No guessing at all. I cut my entire family out of my life for 10 years, including extended family based on one betrayal. If my older brother hadn't ended his own life I wouldn't be speaking to them now. Even 2 decades later, the relationships are shakey at best. Trust is that important to me. no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:51 PM
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personally, I would nope out for 1 reason. I would have wanted to know and been given the choice. Nothing against the child, but every time I saw, spoke to or interacted with him or her I would only see the result of an ultimate betrayal. I never want to hold it against the child but unfortunately I'm just not built to accept it at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:23 PM
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I had a similar incident. Fairly recently. I invest heavily into both commercial and residential properties. I had a very attractive realtor show me a few properties I had inquired about. During the first initial walk through, due to lightning, it was very apparent she was wearing revealing underwear, Victoria secret type items that left certain intimate parts exposed and very see through clothes in that light. I couldn't look her in the eye and because I went out of my way to not look her direc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:55 PM
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I don't like tate, but he does often speak enough of the truth to be believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:34 PM
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And you'd be wrong on both counts. Now why? As with most opportunist predators, they will take advantage of any successful option. Now, I freely admit they aren't getting it in the amount they may want, but enough women do respond that it is an avenue they will exploit. You can even see examples in nature. Such as sharks being seen in fresh water avenues hunting. Is it normal? certainly not. Does it happen often? no but there are documented cases to support it. Now take it further. Boas aren't n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:25 PM
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You will always be able to find such examples of exceptions. Even the people who run those apps admit it has become very difficult to get men who want relationships to join and the majority on those apps are just seeking sex partners. It becomes a situation of fishing in the gulf for sea turtles, chumming the water with blood and fish guts and yet being surprised when you get sharks showing up instead of sea turtles. You literally put yourself out as bait drawing in the aggressive sharks instead…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:43 PM
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It's easy to find the articles with links to the studies. First realize these statistics are heavily influenced by the amount of people involved in the study, the geographic area in which the study is conducted and how the data is interpreted. As with all studies you can find examples that prove or disprove generally any subject. Also I am not specifically saying sex itself with multiple partners is the problem as much as the entire relationship dynamic. As an example if a woman dates 20 men, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:32 PM
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You do realize the overall majority of the men on ALL dating apps are just looking for quick sex? Most guys actually looking for long term partners avoid such apps for the trash they are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:53 PM
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Your not far from the truth. The main issue they face, regardless if they are up front about their past, is a new partner either finding out and believing she'd hiding that past or her behaviors around a relationship having traumatic experiences from being so promiscuous negatively impacting a new relationship. There have been studies that show being very promiscuous often makes women finding actual pair bonding difficult in a monogamous lifestyle. They simply can't adapt to it. In these cases, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:41 PM
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nothing to argue. Might be right, might be wrong. Men, overall do not care. We just adapted. Some have just chosen to remain single and enjoy the hookup culture. Those that still want traditional relationships and families are now looking internationally for women that want traditional nuclear families. It isn't the majority of men lamenting about no relationships, it's those women who have those standards. There is a reason why the latest study showed dating aged women between 20 and 50 by 2030…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:57 PM
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Personally, no. I don't want a hall pass and I do not want to be the fall back guy. I'd rather stay single. She can go play the field all she wants, I have no need of her in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:51 PM
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Western cultures overall tend to emphasize individual freedom and narcisstic tendencies. We will sacrifice family for the sake of pretending to be independent of a societal structure. In reality all that accomplished was to destroy nuclear family values and instead of being truly independent women are now forced to submit to the corporate client instead of nurturing a family. While some will thrive a good majority are forced to work now to pay taxes and live on borderline poverty levels to satis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:52 PM
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Because they are adapting western ideologies. Why do you think those cultures are taking such harsh stances against the west? They mostly fund our culture and lifestyle as highly decadent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:36 PM
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But they are!! They are always someone's object of desire! HA, SEE WHAT I DID THERE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:25 AM
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OK, took the time to review your comment history and it clearly tells me your just arguing to argue. You have some unresolved issues in your life and I wish you the best but at this point your just grasping at straws here I'll just bid you a good night and sincerely hope you seek out a good counselor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:23 AM
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Nope try again. Her new "friends" convinced her she was missing out, I asked "what do you want to do" I responded ok how would you suggest we try this? Everything else, her idea . I just set up the spreadsheet. We did all the research of pay scales together. Not sure how you misinterpreted thst. If you need it word for word I will revise but really didn't see the need to put in nearly 8+ months total of discussions and dialogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:51 PM
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Nope it was all her idea except the outcome. I agreed with it and even adjusted the pay scale heavily in her favor because we lived in an upscale neighborhood. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:04 PM
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I never mentioned body count. NOT once. In actuality I care nothing of a count as much as her respect and honesty. Lying, cheating, being a willing affair partner are an absolute deal breaker no exceptions. Doesn't matter if it's 1 person or 200. The "mileage" would only be my issue if it was obviously toxic in nature and she never sought out a therapist so that it had negative effects on any relationship she is apart of, again deal breaker no exceptions. Your making some serious assumptions. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:41 PM
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OK, example. I wouldn't buy a car with a pronounced rod knock or 300k miles on it but I would absolutely drive that bitch into the dust until the engine blew up. If I were buying a car for a long-term commitment, I absolutely would have it inspected, it's history throughly vetted before buying it. Relationships aren't much different. Her history can be a valid source to decide if she will make a poor, good or exceptional partner. Sorry but women aren't "just a woman n" and the same with men. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:11 PM
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OK, while essentially you are correct, however, it isn't for the reason you gave. It's really dating preference. Sure you can find examples to try and prove your point, but overall it's boils down to everyone having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:30 PM
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OK, let me relay a personal story here. For reference, married 35 years. My wife once heard about this and came at me because her new feminists friends convinced her I was a controlling bastard who just wanted free slave labor. I didn't get mad, didn't argue just asked what she wanted to do? She wanted a pay check. ok. So I offered a deal We would take 4 months and evaluate everything she did, research the average pay someone would get, and "pay" her every 2 weeks. Now, I made really, really goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:02 PM
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