6DT Archive

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1	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly Yes, there are. Unless we're using the word study differently. One was small-scale (from a university?) and one was large-scale analysis. Could be more but I'm not aware of them. You're the one who asked if it was speculation. I already confirmed for you it's not. I already educated myself. The talking is fun, the hunting is not; I am not doing it again. If you want verification of the confirmation, you know how to find it. Google searching a phrase like "autism underdiagnosis study" is practica…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 12:56 PM
1	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly tone: with great joy I am aware there's a neuromajority urge to insert negativity into genuine enthusiasm, so we gotta not do that, and instead just take my words at their value and not add sarcasm to them... The first fantastic thing about where we are is that we can just scroll up, grab a quote, and explain it again for misunderstandings. Autism is widespread. I can't speak for other countries but US didn't really stop murdering, sterilizing, and institutionalizing neurominority people until 2…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 08:20 AM
2	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly "looking at people's body language and forming an idea of what it says about their personality and emotional state" is in my opinion not an example of masking, but simply a skill that can be learnt and improved on. We're saying the same thing and squabbling over semantics. Masking is a skill. It is actions you take to be better at fitting in to current society. Reading people can be any combination of: useful, not useful, very useful, masking, not masking, positive, negative, neutral. So your re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:20 AM
5	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly I was cognitively different and tried to conceal that fact from others This is masking too. Anything to hide, minimize, convert, etc. your autism is masking. Whether it's pretending to be outgoing or deliberately paying a lot of attention to not speak too much about cool things in conversation. Option c) learn genuine social skills, and practice them to the point they become more natural to perform than your autistic behaviors For most autistic people, this is very high-caliber masking. When the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 11:36 PM
1	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly You're being a bigot in the identical way to countless generations before you. You know why they stopped sterilizing, murdering, and institutionalizing neurominorities? Y'know, eugenics? They realized the laws permitting it were immoral, and removed those pro-eugenics laws from the books. Your limited view of autism seems based on the stereotype from the 90s. Medical professionals who diagnose ASD agree that people like Albert Einstein, Emily Dickinson, and Tikola Tesla have autism. Nobody askin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 08:02 PM
5	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly Autism is scientifically proven to be underdiagnosed, especially in women. Identifying the lost generation of adults with autism spectrum conditions The Experiences of Late-diagnosed Women with Autism Spectrum Conditions	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 07:36 PM
3	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly Autism is widespread. I can't speak for other countries but US didn't really stop murdering, sterilizing, and institutionalizing neurominority people until 25-35 years ago. We had a generation undiagnosed, their kids were the guinea pigs freshly diagnosed and where the stereotypes are from, now those kids are starting to have kids and the awareness is viral and the understanding (slightly) better defined. All the older generations still alive are finding out why they were "othered" their whole l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 07:32 PM
–	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly Not-autistic people who don't have a communication disability, blame the people with the communication disability for not communicating in the "right" way. The only reason autistic people are considered annoying is because people are not accepting of neurological differences. The intolerance and bias from not-autistic people is the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 07:24 PM
9	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly Yes, autistic behaviors are a death sentence for dating. Through conscious effort, some autistic people can learn to decrease those behaviors and thus socialize better. Masking is not the right answer. It is a answer but not the answer. It's an unrelenting and extremely taxing performative art. You trade your physical health for connection to neuromajority. I stopped performing masking; refusal to continue performing was the answer for me. You can use those skills to instead communicate your nee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 07:14 PM
6	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly tone: emphatic, open For men everyone on the spectrum, it is absolutely brutal. Fixed. Although I contend that all diagnosable neurological differences are brutal not just autism. Most people won't even live with a schizophrenic roommate they hate or fear schizo people that much. Neurominorities have it really fuckin' bad. high functioning Most of the autistic community does not use this phrasing anymore, calling it ableist, and use "low support needs" or "high masking" instead. "Support needs" …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 07:04 PM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth (2) Be Civil	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 06:05 PM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth We're getting loquacious and off-topic. https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=6DT	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 04:56 PM
1	Question about older women About 1 in 5 people are autistic, and only about 1 in 55 know it. You keep claiming you're not talking about autistic people because you are entirely unaware what autism in women looks like. Autism is a bad word to you, a defect, even though you romanticized it by using all its positive qualities and none of its negative to craft a hypothetical good woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 04:54 PM
4	Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any time Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one; consent can be revoked at any time Who can argue with that? Often times you will here Women complaining about how Men lead them on with promises of a relationship only to be “used” for sex Older generations often called this "Men play at love to get sex and women play at sex to get love." Man says he wants a relationship he has to follow through with it or else he’s a piece of shit, manipulator, asshole etc., Ehhhhh... I t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 03:25 AM
2	Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered' Generally speaking, the women describing casual sex as empowering are not the same ones describing sex as an act of meaningful connection. Their views on sex are different. It could be the same woman but usually at different parts in her life. Female sexual freedom is not adopting the male model of sexual freedom and co-opting it. It's not empowering despite claims that it is. Female sexual freedom is access to birth control and abortions. It's any party being able to say no to any unwanted sexu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 02:45 AM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth You're the only one making the claim that giving dick is enough of a reason to leave the person getting dick unsatisfied. I attest again that this is the fundamental problem of the cultural script of hetero sex. Only you are claiming that getting a dick into the vagina is the entirety of "his part of the deal". If having a phallus in her vag is the deal then she has safer, mo and more pleasurable options available to her. Women are not sex toys and most don't want to be used like sex toys. This …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 12:22 AM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth Calling you on your intellectual dishonesty is neither projection, nor an insult. You failing to get a rise out of me isn't making it you vs me, it's acknowledging your conversations tactics are suspicious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 09:47 PM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth You're speaking in bad faith to make the written equivalent of a sound bite. You know it, I know it, the deaf dog probably know it. Let's pretend for a moment you're not. Sure. If she has "no excuse" for not finishing herself then he can finish himself. That's equitable. So pull out and watch each other masturbate. Absolutely he's not permitted to finish herself; he has to stop two minutes early too. You, Independent-Mail-227, brought up the mistaken belief that women take longer. The solution c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 09:42 PM
1	What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future? I dated a man who was in college. His STEM profession he was studying for was not what attracted me to him. So to rephrase it, this is not going to particularly detract a woman who is interested in you. The most it could do is sway an undecided, ambivalent woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 06:15 PM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth I require people to speak to me with properly due respect and dignity. You going to actually start, or...?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 06:03 PM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth Again, I know what you're doing, but let's pretend like there is some kind of misgiving. Pretend as if you aren't actually just platforming and posturing for the average socially maladjusted reader in purplepilldebate. Maplehobo, I don't require proving my value or intelligence to you any more than you do to me. The difference is I openly state you are intelligent, because I know how to win debates with smart people and don't have to rely on my opponent being dumb. Your attempt to deny me my int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 05:58 PM
–	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth Let's go over some fact in an order-of-events sort of way We're in a thread about "Chad cock carousel" being a myth side note on social etiquette: the main topic is Chad cock carousel being a myth (anybody in the thread) I explicitly stated to OP they needed to correct their idea about the orgasm gap because they are scientifically incorrect when they states that there isn't one. I explicitly stated they should correct themselves so they could further strengthen their argument side note on socia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 05:41 PM
–	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth The problem with measuring productivity is that it's currently completed in a biased way. source, source That bias is pervasive enough to cause women to leave fields, and it comes from coworkers and customers alike. source, source There was even an attempt not too long ago in US to try and address systemic wage gap but it didn't pass. source The mechanisms causing the wage gap are capitalism, wealth inequality, and culturally normative sexism (patriarchy, which is inherent misogyny, with a bit o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 05:08 PM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth A woman has all the time of the world if she's masturbating The difference is 2 minutes. Women take around 8 minutes when masturbating. Men take 6. Ease of orgasm is one of the rampant hetero myths that needs to die because it's part of the reason why the gap exists. Men do not have all the time nor effort to take care of the pleasure of two peoples If we're approaching the problem with a misogynistic mindset, the problem is women refusing to fuck men. In this mindset, men are failing to be appe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 03:43 PM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth Let me iterate again that there is a A woman has all the time of the world if she's masturbating The difference is 2 minutes. Women take around 8 minutes when masturbating. Men take 6. Ease of orgasm is one of the rampant hetero myths that needs to die because it's part of the reason why the gap exists. Men do not have all the time nor effort to take care of the pleasure of two peoples If we're approaching the problem with a misogynistic mindset, the problem is women refusing to fuck men. In thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 03:39 PM
0	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth Humans = animals Humans are not separated from the planet (nature) or evolution (nature) anymore than we can be separated from our bones Ergo, humans = a part of nature. You tried to remove culpability of straight men failing to give women orgasms which is bad enough. By blaming evolution to try and make it 'impossible' for men. Or maybe to claim "evolution makes no mistakes" or even "Since we didn't evolve that way, it's immaterial" "Since we didn't evolve that way, it's immaterial" is differen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 03:02 PM
–	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth Again, you are acting in bad faith, intellectually dishonesty, or both, but let's go ahead and pretend that you're not. You cannot redefine feminism to try to exclude men's rights. Men's rights have been a part of feminism and you trying to exclude them by redefining feminism is either ignorance of what feminism is, or using a bigoted, excised (incorrect) definition of what feminism is, or both. Whoever disagrees with feminism as a misogynist Correct. "Whoever disagrees with feminism is a misogy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 02:26 PM
1	Question about older women I do understand you, fully and completely. I disagree with you. It's not a lack of understanding your position. I disagree with your position. My post is not talking about women with autism [or fetishized autistic women] It is the most likely woman, possibly the only woman, who can fit the altruism aspect of giving a decade of her life as a caretaker in the specific manner you describe while also meeting the lack of romantic success. Here's your list of traits marked. ❌ does not fit the profile …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 02:08 PM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth You make a good point about intersectionality. Most things are not caused by singular issues. We've already proven male-dominated fields, one more women go into them, the pay decreases for everyone. Men are more harassed in female-dominated fields, though the reports have a high increase of gender-based physical labor (the women made me do heavy lifting) and verbal rather than physical assault or rape. differences between men and women Which is a bit unfair. Normative male alexithymia is because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 09:50 PM
0	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth No goalpost moving, it's intellectually dishonest. You know there are sexist idiots in every positive movement, even in MRA. You also know we aren't talking about the negative subgroups of feminism or MRA. We were talking about how you either want equality for women, or you don't want equality for women. You openly admit feminism is not a monolith, so the sexist feminists do not erode or illegitimize feminism (equality between the sexes) any more than the male apologists erode MRA.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 09:22 PM
0	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth Good idea but if you're in a threesome, you'd have to give both women an orgasm, otherwise you'd be bringing the average down. Unless you were a new partner to both of them, then I mean yeah, the math checks out. But they'd have better odds if you weren't there. 🤔 If female orgasm was a necessary component of reproduction, then men would've figure this out dozens of millennia ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 09:10 PM
0	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth Men are a part of nature, bucko. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 09:02 PM
–	I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time" "Disrespect also can take the form of idealizing you and putting you on a pedestal as a perfect woman or goddess, perhaps treating you like a piece of fine china. The man who worships you in this way is not seeing you; he is seeing his fantasy, and when you fail to live up to that image he may turn nasty. So there may not be much difference between the man who talks down to you and the one who elevates you; both are displaying a failure to respect you as a real human being and bode ill." -Lundy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 08:12 AM
0	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth No, you are incorrect, so let's correct it. "It is scientifically correct to state that men and women are different in regards to orgasmic frequency." Women orgasm at the same rate as men when masturbating. Women get each other off more than 20% higher success rate than men (in relationships; 86% to 65%) up to 60%ish higher success rate than men (new partners; 65% to 4-7%) Ease of orgasm is one of the rampant hetero myths that needs to die because it's part of why the gap exists. Women get off f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 08:03 AM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth You are being intellectually dishonest and acting in bad faith. You know you are, and I know you are. Let's go ahead and cover the bad faith anyways: Feminism by definition is the movement for the equality of the sexes. It is impossible to support equality and be an antifeminist. Just openly state that you hate women and want to control them and be done with it. Or openly state you are feminist believing in equality. I mean, you won't, because you're gonna say some more intellectually dishonest …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 07:53 AM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth Yes, women have agency. Men aren't getting sex because they're not updating their behaviors to keep up with female sexual freedom and feminism. But instead of updating themselves to keep up with their peers and keep up with feminism, they want to roll it back and restrict women like in days past. In the same way that we women are taught to placate to men, men are taught that women are always there for them. Even when no one comes out and openly says it (usually) it's still taught. There's the li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 07:40 AM
1	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth It does, it's just absolutely the most passive route of feminism to want a single woman to succeed. But if enough men +1 a woman into equality then that's a viable route too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 01:28 AM
1	Question about older women tone: neutral I said it was autism fetishization, and unicornesque, not that they don't exist. You're adding emotions and/or additional context to my words that wasn't there. Any derision is entirely on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 01:19 AM
2	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth So we agree. You do care about the orgasm gap as it applies to you and yours. 👍 Getting straight men to care about their partners and prospective partners is why people talk about the gap. When you get a lady (or your current lady) give her a few extra to pump those numbers up👍👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 01:17 AM
-2	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth The reason for it being a social issue is that only straight women experience the orgasm gap due to cultural scripts for heterosexual sex. I know that for a partner or future partner, you care (or should care) a great deal about them being happy with the quality of sex. "Happy wife happy life" is very demeaning to women, but fairly true. You know that unhappy women can turn into a harpy that ruins a man. Better to care about her getting her rocks off as much as you do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 12:52 AM
-4	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth I heard an old guy say, "Men of quality don't fear equality." Only men without quality truly and genuinely believe that the orgasm gap is not an issue. I know you responded to me because you know I am a woman. I know you are being intellectually dishonest with me right now, and I know you're being intellectually dishonest only because this is an open and anonymous forum. I know that you wouldn't mind having a frank an open, intelligent discussion with a woman about this so that you could have so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 12:35 AM
2	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth The heterosexual orgasm gap is down to differences between men and women. This is factually, objectively, and scientifically incorrect. It is not because of PIV intercourse that you're claiming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 12:25 AM
-5	The 'Chad Cck Carousel is a Myth On the other hand they're almost as likely to orgasm as men are when sex is had in the context of a committed relationship. Incorrect. Wildly incorrect, even. Pointing out this inaccuracy doesn't invalidate your other points. But you are objectively, scientifically wrong on this. The orgasm gap has been proven a dozen times already, including in the publication you linked. So don't try to strawman it in as false in your CCC-is-a-myth argument. Please update your analysis about the orgasm gap so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 11:37 PM
0	Question about older women You're applying the whole of women's experiences to a very small subset of women to try and get a different result. This is like trying to tell conservative men to find a progressive woman that is anti-abortion, anti-union, and wants to be a SAHM. Or trying to find a very socially successful (but unwealthy) man that also dresses slovenly. You're still looking for a statistical anomaly no matter what way you reframe it. There are YouTube fashion and makeup tutorials. Women who don't care about th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 08:07 PM
1	Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man? Neither. "attractive" in this context includes any kind of attraction, not just physical or looks-wise. NVM then; attractive poor. Because my attraction is not based on physicality (beyond not-hideous) or wealth (beyond not-abject-poverty) Neither of those are what make people attractive to me. I'm also not straight, I'm one of the flavors of asexuality. YMMV.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 06:44 PM
4	Question about older women older women 30s - 40s; single; not promiscuous; working; atypical life experience e.g. caregivers; society expects women to take care of their own family These women in paper are ideal. But they're invisible to most men. Her appearance has never been a priority; she is very unlikely to wear makeup. Her clothing is usually a few years out-of-fashion and probably doesn't flatter her. She is not likely to be a healthy BMI. Because she spent years caretaking, she's more likely to spend most free hou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 05:09 PM
–	I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time" Be nice. All I'm saying is that men might seek female validation, sure. (Usually men not getting much male validation.) But in general the lot of them get value by birthright. They have it inherently, and don't need it to be given to them. Women's value is the same (birthright/inherent) so if men have no value then neither do women. I mean... I guess I'm fine with that takeaway, but it's a little bleak.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 04:01 PM
3	I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time" This is going to sound callous to some people who are really hurting and lonely, so if we could step away from victim mindset for a minute to hear it: Female sexual freedom is not adopting the male model of sexual freedom and co-opting it. Female sexual freedom is access to birth control and abortions. It's any party being able to say no to any unwanted sexual act and that word be respected. It's any party being able to ask for or require a relationship definition if desired. A lot of the pervas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 09:47 PM
2	Playboy Model Dani Mathers Loses Bid to Dismiss Charges in Body-Shaming Case: will stand trial for secretly photographing an elderly woman in the shower at the gym and posting it on Snap. up to six months in jail and a $1,000 fine She's fighting an M1. A first degree misdemeanor. The same as parking in a handicap spot, or petty theft.Must be terrified of the 6 months; she might've gotten just the fine if she just pled guilty. What a piece of work.	/r/PussyPassDenied	16/05/17 11:00 AM