| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 19 | Asian guy here. Our culture is super restricted about a lot of things. Any advice for our situations. | Field Report | 6gpdgeu58 | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/17 08:00 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Men who have had no problems finding a girlfriend throughout your life, what sets you apart from the men that do?I don't have too much problem in dating so I'll chip in. I make decent income and always take good care of my health. That alone put me above average. While I sort of agree with some of the red pill teaching, I also know this: People always look for a place they can belong to. Men want someone who desire them, women want to be safe and protected. And if you don't stop playing game at some point and try building some place you can belong to, by treating the people around you well, you will be mis… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners?The first if I have money problem, the second if I'm secured, a virgin with OF sound like fake sex, cramming up to Max. So someone with many partner should have some maturity and knowledge, also I'm 29 now and I can't fathom someone who are still virgin at my age range. Like yeah, I know incel and femcel exist, but I'm well off enough to be picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 12:51 AM |
| 2 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?I think what they look like is not as important as the story they live in. I suggest you take some amateur writing course to invent that lol. Or just straight up reading Boy-loves erotica for reference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | For men and women: If you attracted a Red Piller or FDSer would you pursue a relationship?I don't think functional people would agree to date lol. These folks aren't very nice and tend to walk over others. I'm really bad at dealing with pushy people. So even if they can hide their tendency to be pushy and I will be in a knee-deep relationship, I would be really sad when I feel like being walk over. And at that point, I'm just gonna avoid their face to the point that they either miss me enough to change for me, or avoidance becoming ghosting. I think both FDS and redpill are good at f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:37 PM |
| 3 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?Judging from popular heart throb: Muscle, but a little bit feminine on top. A bit cocky and slick, or kinda sad, complicated and somewhat drama with the girl he loved. Sample: Tom Hiddleston, 2 dudes on Twight light, Ryan Gosling, Channing Tatum. These men are popular with the ladies, not with men. So we can be sure what men consider ideal aren't what women love the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Complaints about the friendzone and about being used for sex are just as entitled as each other, either they're both entitled or none of them are.Not really that simple tbh. Guy usually are more horny, so if he has problem getting laid, he will try to pin his hope onto the girl that friend zone him. And just use for sex is another story. Women are usually more vulnerable and a lot of girl want to have a guy in their life to feel safe. But if she is not attractive enough to have access to a good pool of guy to pick out the guy that find her pretty and seriously want to be with her, she can be thrown in the fuck zone. A guy in the friend zo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Sex dolls, sex workers, domestic service will bloom for sure. I mean we already have something similar now. Lonely people are becoming more and more normal, that is why simping and FDS exist. These people are lonely but won't settle for less. So the men simp for pretty streamer, the girls get together and shit talk men who go 50/50 or coffee date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a single mom? Why or why not?Haha, sound pretty sweet tbh. Maybe you can do that too, toys are fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a single mom? Why or why not?Yeah, so this is why we need better policy toward childcare in general. I believe in this capitalism hellscape we should all go childfree until the state did something that could greatly benefit the poorest group in our society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a single mom? Why or why not?Yeah, my income is good so I am bias in this subject. But I really value private time, so even if I have to move in with her, I will try to have separate location. About the kid deal, I see it as a part of her. It is okay, not a big deal. Just like I have my things, she has hers. I will be there for her if she need me, but I'm not her babysitter or the next dad. I'm her boyfriend. If she's okay with that, then I'm fine with her kid. That is my line, to a single mother or anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a single mom? Why or why not?It's pretty easy if we just give up having kid lol. The economy will suffer later, but fuck it haha. You sound insufferable tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a single mom? Why or why not?I'm actually in a solid 8 years relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a single mom? Why or why not?As a childfree dude, probably if she agree to never make me the dad. I can play with the child once in awhile lol, but I'm not signing up for babysitter in exchange for sex(well, maybe yes, with a good exchange rate). If we stay together in 5-6 years I could help her more, but that is because I want to. So basically if you're pretty and can handle the dating and the kid, yes I will. But I don't actually see many capable of that in real life. Yes, your kid come first, but if I come second don't m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonelyI would love to go on some club, if these exist haha. I think it is hard to stop people going terminal online, since community is gradually fading away due to capitalism going to a late stage. People are lonely so they go online, not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Compassion vs attractionYou don't actually want a sad girl, you just want the wall between you and her fall down so you can connect to her. But wall are put up for a reason. And yeah, if we can fall in love with compassion, it would be great. But our genes survive by choosing the best people who would birth with us healthy kid and provide for them. Even in childfree people like me. I think a better way, is making everyone prettier and healthier. Yeah, there will be some girl that are too pretty but it would help most p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Objectively, what is wrong with "cheating"?Cheating hurt the ego of your partner, like a lot. It is a very big deal nowadays, as we were taught we are unique and waiting for the other half to complete us. Cheating pretty much shatter the illusion of our individual value. It reduces us to the "just another one". And it fucking hurt, especially if you are really prideful. If you look back at olden days, where cheating may actually harm our financial interest by introducing some bastard and threat our inheritance, people are very reasonable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 06:07 PM |
| 23 | Any Positive female influences (preferably on youtube) I can follow. Talking about women's problems, worries, struggles, and their perspectives. I don't want to demonize them anymore.Contrapoint have a vids on incels, not redpill though, but I did find her very informative about the whole gender and dating. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/10/21 11:53 AM |
| 3 | As a woman looking to leave red pill concepts behind me: FDS isn't the answer to my problemsHaha,thank you,here I go. What rp and fds seek, is a way to understand and control the situation. By subscribe to their view, you are given a set principle to follow to save yourself. And in a sense, they can be useful in some moments. You need to take care of yourself, to value your moral, your self-esteem, your worth despite of how your partner treat you. And by following to the guidelines you can obtain some success in love, some control over the situation. But what fds and to failed to see p… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/20 05:08 PM |
| 4 | As a woman looking to leave red pill concepts behind me: FDS isn't the answer to my problemsCan I have a moment of your time to talk about our Lord and savior: Nihilism Like for real, it isn't a teenager phase I promise. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/20 11:04 AM |
| 4 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?It is simple: The one with less money pay less on their meal together. Men or women. Period! If you pay for dinner, she can pay for parking, or buy you a small gift after 1 or 2 dates(assuming the women have less money cause statistics show) It is simply about being equal in effort toward each other, if the other half does not meet your effort, cut loss and move on. But quality men... You mean rich guy? Well if he gonna pay for the whole thing he may as well just get a hooker. If you aren't show… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | DemandingCall me crazy but it seems reasonable to ask for a functional guy, I don't think this actually qualify her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/20 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Men, why aren't you up in arms over prostitution being illegal?Im all for it being legal, just dont tell my GF that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/19 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Q for Red Pill: Why bother 'debating' here when your minds are made up?I think I am somewhat lean to red pill, but the whole work out, confident, be independent isnt Redpill trademark. In fact it is a stoicism way of life. The fact is that RP men are too manipulated is what a lot women hate about that. So for the sake of arguement, when you think woman describe their men/crush as the Ideal RP men, I sugess you think they just want a stoic man instead of RP men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | How can one maintain interest without coming as desperate?Dont be too clingy, but at the same time, dont try to date people who like to play power game on you. It is a shitty thing to do. Rather than playing the stupid game, just being alone is a lot better than being with a shitty human being | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/18 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Question for bluepill: How to find a Non Hypergamous womanIf you want serious and actual answer, you can hit up ugly girls. I knew a lot of them tbh, one confessed to me. They havent had any BF, and if you talk to them they answer as soon as they saw the message. I think you actually want to find a pretty and nice girl who doesnt fuck around, well most likely thr majority of them are already in a loving relationship with someone just as attractive and nice. With a very low chance of breaking up. So in your sight, there are lonely ugly girls who are inv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | What, if not a wife, would satisfy you?I dont believe that the wife should sastisfy the husband, I believe sasitisfaction is something that both people try to reach together as a common goal. That's being said, being together with someone for a really long time can make things boring and it would be hard for both people to feel sastify, so I dont think I would marry anyone since it would make us hate each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/18 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Asian guy here. Our culture is super restricted about a lot of things. Any advice for our situations.A lot of fuck boy here tbh. Repeat the same shit over and over. It is kinda like tell homeless people they are poor cause they dont have money. Asian society suffer both from capitalism and tradionalism though. It makes men work fucking hard and define them by wealth. You are considered loser male if you dont say that you put your career first. Maybe we should make trp-asian? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Asian guy here. Our culture is super restricted about a lot of things. Any advice for our situations.Every People in my country would go to the west uf they can. But it isnt that simple. Western countries dont accept the bachelor dipplomatic here, it takes forever to ask for a visa. Most people left are already very rich, that left us, middle class people, stuck here. It is very cheap to travel from US to asian, and fucking expensive and mundane the other ways around. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Asian guy here. Our culture is super restricted about a lot of things. Any advice for our situations.Not that different from the us. But it has some loophole. And a lot of guy getaway with child support by simply just go away. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Asian guy here. Our culture is super restricted about a lot of things. Any advice for our situations.Salty isnt really a correct word. I believe confused is better used. Most of us are spoonfeed of bullshit early days in life. Just think that you get only fox news as you default television here and people never really question anything. We put men with career high on the ladder though. Married man with career even higher. They let you do anything you want once you are married. But fuck you if you have sex with someone and not marrying them. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Asian guy here. Our culture is super restricted about a lot of things. Any advice for our situations.I believe I look a lot better than that though. And that dude look kinda skinny. He should get a little bit bigger though. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 01:35 AM |
| 4 | Asian guy here. Our culture is super restricted about a lot of things. Any advice for our situations.Vietnam. It is funny because I actually witness a lot of "alpha" case here. And boy most of them end up very shitty. I believe that society here punish early age playboy very hard. But I also saw a lot of guy here practically just publicly having mistress and no one bat an eye here. So basicly here, if you married, you can get 100 gal sucking your dick and even your wife would just shrug it off. What an abusive society. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Asian guy here. Our culture is super restricted about a lot of things. Any advice for our situations.Gaming coffee isnt really a thing, at least in my place. And getting a rent mean throwing money away very fast. Asian people live with their parent, it is the norm here. We are not prepared for living alone. And we dont actually build a lot of place for single people. Most high quality houses are design for family to rent and super expensive, the one for single people here are very cheap but super crappy. I try to make use of my situation though. I was busted by her mom twice when having sex wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Asian guy here. Our culture is super restricted about a lot of things. Any advice for our situations.And about the kind of girl who you mention, yeah, they exist. But for a normal guy who live in a normal family here, involing with them practically mean getting your career killed very fast. I know I sound like making excuse, but Im not, the only way to have freedom here is a sustainable income, and you dont get it here by being a playboy early in life. Most of the guy here are only sexaully active after they have the career(and most of them are just fucking blue pill) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Asian guy here. Our culture is super restricted about a lot of things. Any advice for our situations.Yeah. Thank for your concern, but it isnt about pulling out though. I last longer, so the only way I can get off is for her to give me a bj. I think I tame her pretty good though. Only no protection in the ltr, I always use condom in the first time. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 01:10 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys suppose is the main issue with men who can't get women?I used to care so much about getting a date. To the point of being creepy/clingy. Now I have peace in mind, many hobbies, do exercise regurlarly... I stop caring about getting a date. And the funny thing is, when you stop trying to hit on everything that move, girl will start being attractted to you again. So my advice to a lot of my dateless friend, is just to chill out. Dont stress to much. | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 07:01 PM |
| 0 | How to tell a girl my time is too valuable to deal with flakiness without coming across like a dick?Just pick a date and ask her. If she is interested in a date but busy, she will try to pick another time. If you give the time twice and she's still playing bluff, just say that you cancel the plan due to her being busy. If she is just undecided/shy she will try to fix a time with you by telling you her free times, if she is ok about cancelling, then you know she isnt interested. | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 06:55 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter