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| 8 | Mother in laws that prioritize their son in laws over their own daughterIm so sorry to hear this. Please don’t think this is going to be your forever. It won’t. I’m assuming you’re in school/college and you’re from desi culture. (So am I). Once you have your own finances, your own relationship where you build the rules, non of the things you mentioned will even take place because you’ll be the sole decision maker in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 04:15 AM |
| 16 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youThis sounds funny now…but God the emotional torture is something nobody should go through. To put it all out, trying so hard with words, while already dealing with so many problems is just…too much. Feels so good now to NOT being a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:42 PM |
| 77 | Pickme’s thrive off of The Bachelor (referring to the bottom tweet)Truly, I steer clear from watching or dealing with anything to do with the show because it’s all so lv and a waste of time. I do get occasionally watching it to see how wretched things can get if you let ur be, to learn etc.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 05:54 PM |
| 47 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidI’m sorry you had to go through that..when we look back it’s almost as though we don’t recognise ourselves..the teary nights, initial love bombing memories, trying with all we’ve got…only to relaize finally it didn’t matter was freeing but ofc, very hard. And it takes real, real courage to get out of such situations. So I mean it when I say I adore you for it, because it’s a hard thing to do, and I’ve done it. And with what we know we can now help others and ourselves :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 03:19 PM |
| 138 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidReading this has made me want to bawl my eyes out. Looks like this dude has NO other job and is madly completely obsessed with himself and his playthings (women). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 01:42 PM |
| 30 | Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners?I just remind them about their wives and asked why did they marry, usually leaves them dumbfounded. Some have even blocked me after that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 05:29 PM |
| 49 | Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners?I relaized this back in college, when my married professors would openly flirt and be indirectly inappropriate to those they deem prettier or whatever. Weirdest convo I had was with this one professor who had a DAUGHTER who had my name, and he would constantly make my name and me borderline sexual and compliment me. It was sickening. And I’ve met few of their wives and trust me I don’t think these women have any idea….these men stalk and pry on us on social media too. And they can better the gra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 05:28 PM |
| 12 | What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you?God, being a freshman is hard enough. Sorry you had to go through it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 06:53 PM |
| 38 | Someone’s lack of reciprocation is not an invitation for you to convince them of your worth.This is so, so true. They just either disappear, or get angry because they’re not having your “benefits”, or just go into this super fake sweet mode. Very rarely will someone realise and truly apologise. And this extends to all facets of any relationship. It’s best to really (I know it’s hard) concentrate and do things for yourself. Especially when you’re used to putting yourself second all the time. But you really need yourself so it’ll never backfire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:17 AM |
| 19 | Someone’s lack of reciprocation is not an invitation for you to convince them of your worth.I needed this today. Thank you. Wish I could drill this inside my head 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:15 AM |
| 11 | Sigh. Ladies, tell me what you think.Let them make all the excuses in the world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 04:58 AM |
| 23 | The average LVM posing as HVI chEated cuz Of YoU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 11 | We are living in a clown world 🤡No words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 04:31 AM |
| 41 | When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each dayYes, education doesn’t guarantee an ounce of humanity. They just get better at faking great behaviour in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:44 PM |
| 36 | When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each dayI know this isn’t really related to this but this is EXACTLY why we shouldn’t be ohkay with initial small forms of absolute neglect and make excuses for men, saying “ I’m ok with it…” It’s just truly pathetic, escalates and putting up with little bullshit accumulates over time and this is what will happen. No man 99.9 percent does this out of the blue. He knows we will put up with it, that’s only when they pull such clown moves, months or decades later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:37 PM |
| 8 | While I try to support our sisters, this… idk how I feel about this…. Like why can’t we protest woman’s rights.No, we are not “products” to produce “service” that come with price tags for God sake. This idiotic poster with its quote just makes me so disappointed :/. I just had someone tell me yesterday to come to the “real world” and not be “childish” for NOT supporting porn! Apparently it’s to help men “get off” and that’s about it since they don’t have partners or whatever. Yuck. Gross. I honestly don’t have the energy to argue anymore regarding this, it’s so disheartening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 07:32 PM |
| 7 | Do you have a friend who reaches out to you when things aren't working out with her man, and then the minute they're okay, she's gone?This. They can be so selfless with the most thoughtless men but use us as emotional tampons who don’t have work or a life, catering to their son stories. My “best friend” (we were like sisters) cut me out of her life when she found her fiancé cuz the first two dates happened and he was definitely low value and I mentioned it to her. (Love bombing to extreme limits and early-on sex, along with a 8 year age gap, we were in university) She slowly stopped talking to me altogether and left the entire… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Do you have a friend who reaches out to you when things aren't working out with her man, and then the minute they're okay, she's gone?This is EXACTLY what’s happening with me and my friend, ongoing for the past two years! I’ve known her for almost a decade now and have felt bound to help if that makes sense ? But then last month I decided this shit was it. She would cry like someone died when this loser did loser shit, blast my phone with messages and calls, and oh yes she’s hardly bothered about my job my life or any of that. while I have been PATIENTLY trying to explain the dudes a psycho. (He constantly ignores her, hides s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 12 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)This gives so much clarity, thank you. And to know all these precautions are also taken before comments can be posted here is…soothing. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 03:43 PM |
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