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17	How to have that "he is probably incredible in bed" vibe? Another way to put it is subcommunication. It only takes a few seconds for people to get a pretty solid first impression of someone. It can happen even before a person says anything. But basically it means act confident. Take up space, move slowly, speak loudly and slowly, make a lot of eye contact etc.	/r/seduction	28/05/24 07:45 PM
–	CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average man From briefly Googling it I saw some results that said it was biological. But yeah I'm not sure exactly how much of it is biological versus behavioral.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 01:19 PM
5	CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average man Women also outlive men by 6 years on average, which I would say is an extreme advantage that certainly narrows the advantage men have or perhaps even gives women the edge. Though I agree, there are a lot of not so fun things about being a woman that most men take for granted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 02:13 AM
16	CMV : I feel a lot of posters still envision the “average” couple as some weird “wall mart” 35 year old man and woman who walked out of a 90’s time capsule Judging from the first sentence of OP, I'm guessing they want to discuss the average person in their early 30's (i.e. filtering out older/younger people). Though I think the average person in their 30's is still probably overweight in most places.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 02:53 PM
3	RED PILL KILLED MY GAME: What I wish I knew all this time Yeah that quote makes sense. I guess I was responding to things like the title (e.g. RED PILL KILLED MY GAME should probably be more like THE THINGS I FOCUSED ON IN RED PILL KILLED MY GAME, TRP itself didn't kill it since everything you discussed here is a part of TRP). You are right but everyone speaks like they're seduction connoisseur and what they say is 100% right. You're not going to get any arguments there haha. The main contributors here are full of themselves. Which is maybe expected in…	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/23 01:52 PM
35	RED PILL KILLED MY GAME: What I wish I knew all this time After skimming, I think you are basically repeating a bunch of things commonly said in the red pill while claiming to have a unique take on things (e.g. "display interest directly" and "reading is no substitute for experience" are very common pieces of advice here and Models is a very common book recommendation [and it is also definitely a book on seduction... maybe just not in the way you think about it]). I think what you do not understand is that the red pill is a very large and varied group …	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/23 02:24 AM
1	Women Want To Be Owned Don't take the matephor too literally. Rams were only used to paint a picture. He literally argues that his view is the ultimate nature of man and the true way to look at things from an evolutionary perspective. What evidence did he provide for that if not this? Of course there is none really because it is not true. You can be monogamous with different people at different times. But I guess I could have said polygyny too, which AFAIK also was never very popular except after agriculture arose and…	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/23 01:08 PM
5	Women Want To Be Owned Hmm, I would have said the exact opposite haha. He compares us to rams and bulls instead of our closest relatives (chimps and bonobos, who do not really act the way he describes). Then he discusses everything from a monogamous point of view while monogamy is generally only considered to have risen in dominance around the invention of agriculture, which was relatively recent evolution-wise. This post seems exactly like modern gender dynamics transposed into the past. Not to say everything in it i…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/23 05:44 PM
2	Hollow? Yeah that's my thoughts too. Nobody should be surprised if they focus on shallow relationships and then feel hollow. Quality relationships are one of the main predictors of happiness for humans. Which isn't to say you have to commit to women or even that your quality relationships necessarily have to be with women.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/23 04:54 PM
7	The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage. Eh, my looks are middling IMO and I do fine. Yeah if you want to be the top of the food chain you need to look good, but average looking blokes do well all the time. Especially if you workout and dress reasonably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 03:41 PM
7	The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage. The issue is you are generalizing too much. Some women are similar to what you describe but there are plenty that aren't. You just have to find them. To try to change your view, I would word it differently. IMO "Men should not make dating one of their highest priorities" is a more reasonable view to hold. Just live your life well and go on dates when the opportunity arises. If the woman turns out to be like one you described in your post, end things with her and try again later with someone else…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 03:35 PM
12	The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage. IMO I'm pretty humble and I got laid two days ago. It's just that I'm also social, I work out, I have my life mostly together, and I'm not afraid to ask women out and escalate with them. And the guy I know that is the best with women isn't an asshole. Quite the opposite actually, he's more the type of person to give you the shirt off his back if you ask him. He's just incredibly fun to be around, he's extremely confident/charismatic, and he does not care what women think of him so he isn't afrai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 03:22 PM
2	Creating indestructible confidence Yeah there are a bunch of ignorant buffoons in here. Picking fights with people at bars is a good way to end up hospitalized, disabled, or worse for no good reason. It's foolish.	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/23 04:17 PM
1	Creating indestructible confidence Yeah, exactly. What I wrote about also follows the three steps I use for my mindfulness practice. First, be aware of your thoughts and feelings. Second, accept them fully. And third, choose to focus on something helpful instead (which is the step I was focusing on here). Each step is very difficult, very nuanced, and requires a lot of practice, but so far it has been an incredibly useful tool for me in general.	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/23 03:36 PM
39	Creating indestructible confidence Something related I have been using in a lot of situations is to "decide" to be excited about a situation instead of anxious. For example, it's pretty easy to feel anxious about doing a heavy set of squats in the gym, but instead I chose to focus on how excited I am to see how many reps I can get in and to see how strong it will make me later on. In social situations it is easy to feel anxious about talking with people and to worry about how they perceive you, but instead I have been choosing to…	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/23 09:06 PM
9	Currency Exchange (Yea, it's a metaphor) Agreed. In my experience it's much better to be with women who appreciate who you as you authentically are than to try to convince or trick women that don't. Though of course relationships are going to involve compromise and tailoring your actions to who you are dating to some degree.	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/23 06:44 PM
1	Youre not original, choose your friends wisely, subscribe to the same ideologies, and you will become just like them. Yeah thinking about it, there are a lot of successful people at my FAR from classy running club (lawyers, dentists, high ranking generals etc.). You can meet them anywhere. Though if you want to bond around it, I would guess places like you listed would be best.	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/23 12:42 AM
16	Youre not original, choose your friends wisely, subscribe to the same ideologies, and you will become just like them. Put yourself in social situations where you can meet like minded people, consistently attend those events (so you see the same people multiple times), and start asking them to do things outside of the event if you get along. I have no idea where ambitious, successful people meet, but maybe networking events or at some more exclusive clubs?	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/23 04:55 PM
12	Struggling to truly be at peace with TRP teachings. The goal is to work on your habits and routines until those things become who you are. At that point it won't feel like you are faking those behaviors anymore. Though I will also say I do not recommend trying to cultivate any traits that you do not admire or enjoy. In my experience it's much better to be someone you enjoy being, even if it means less women are attracted to you. Though most of what you just described can be summed up as confidence, which I think almost everyone should want.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/23 05:59 PM
4	Short but strong relapses back to blue pilled behaviors I agree. I've tried the approach a lot of people here recommend (just using discipline) and it just made me miserable and I'd still end up falling back into my old habits once I burned out. Find ways to actually enjoy working toward the things you want to accomplish and all of a sudden it will be way easier to accomplish them... because you won't even need discipline, you will actually want to do them. And like you said, schedule breaks in to relax a bit, nobody can be productive 24/7. I also re…	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/23 06:17 PM
2	Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experience Should I kill myself or have a cup of coffee?	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/23 06:34 PM
2	Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experience I think that's a really cool insight. Yeah I don't think people take the time to sit down and imagine in detail where exactly different choices would lead them in life. I might have to try directing my meditation that way sometime. Though I will say both approaches are better than either one alone. Psychedelics just throw your mind into such a unique state that it becomes almost impossible not to see things from a completely different angle than you would be able to otherwise. Which is very diff…	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/23 06:27 PM
6	I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill. I think you just repeated what he said. Either improve yourself OR learn to manipulate women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 03:31 PM
2	CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't. Yeah I'm neurodivergant too. Just started seeing a neurodivergant woman. Oh my god it is so much easier to talk to her than any of the women I have dated before for exactly the reasons you mentioned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 03:30 AM
1	Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’ Oh that's true for sure. I guess I just don't think of that as actual red pill content as much as men venting about how shitty their situation is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/22 06:17 PM
1	Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’ Hmm, I guess I don't see that in Red Pill content so much. Usually what I see is more along the lines of "women have such and such standards, so improve yourself until you meet them". I think the idea that women should lower their standards is more of a blue pill concept. Almost by definition, since red pill is at least supposed to be about seeing things as they are and working with them rather than wishing things were different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/22 05:01 PM
2	10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dude I was including not taking no as a part of appearing deranged. Because yeah that would be a valid reason. I don't think that's the reason 99% of the time, though. And you aren't entitled to anything. That doesn't make ghosting any less immature or cowardly, though.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 09:40 PM
1	10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dude Right, I just don't think the reasons are almost ever valid outside of the person appearing deranged.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 08:45 PM
4	10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dude Stop blaming women for ghosting. You will get ghosted 100000% of the time. Women have the right to choose who they want. It's not their fault or yours. I'm not sure you understand what ghosting is. Ghosting means not responding to someone out of the blue, not just deciding to not see someone again. Anyone with even a small amount of character will send a quick "I had a great time but I'm not interested" text before they stop responding. Not that I waste my time thinking about people who have gho…	/r/seduction	22/06/22 07:36 PM
7	Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not? Oh I know plenty of extremely low SMV guys who don't care as well (think blue pill white knight types). Most men I know still think women have it way harder than men and that it means you are a right wing nut job if you suggest men might have some serious problems that need addressing too. I don't talk about men's issues with most people, but out of the maybe 1-2 dozen men I have discussed it with only 1 or 2 of them seemed to care about it at all besides me. Though I'm talking about men empathi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/22 08:59 PM
54	Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not? Maybe your experience is different, but most men I know don't care about men's problems either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/22 05:57 PM
1	Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason. Ah, that makes sense. I haven't competed before but that seems like a good way to meet people! And it probably helps to meet people elsewhere too, I have a friend or two that I know lift but they don't lift at my gym.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/22 09:31 PM
1	Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason. The red pill is pretty diverse. You are correct that there are a lot of people in it recommending those things, but plenty don't as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/22 06:40 PM
1	Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason. I'm a dude and I haven't had difficulties making friends at Meetup type events. Nothing particularly special about me either. You just need to be consistent for a while and be sociable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/22 06:35 PM
3	Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason. Have you made friends through weightlifting?? Any tips on that? I lift but nobody seems to interact for the most part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/22 06:32 PM
2	For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn. I think that depends how bad your face is to begin with. If you are obese, zitty, pale, and have a neckbeard you can easily rise 3+ points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 02:46 PM
3	For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn. Being bald (that is, completely shaved) ages you when you are young but it makes you look younger when you are old since it masks grey, thinning hair. Though yeah as a bald guy you are correct, most women prefer someone with hair. Though a certain subset of women are REALLY into bald dudes so it's not all bad. It's just polarizing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 02:19 PM
29	For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn. Being fit (especially having low body fat) makes your face look better. Plus you can always improve your hygiene, your facial hair, and maybe get a tan. Obviously there isn't much of a fix for height. Besides trying to mask it with tall shoes or a tall haircut, it is unfortunately just something you have to work around. And of course like someone else replied, you should be exercising for yourself anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 02:15 PM
9	Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble? Your first paragraph is just a description on how to avoid getting filtered haha. Good advice though, that's what everyone I know who does well with women does. Though changing your personality is a bit easier said than done.	/r/seduction	30/04/22 08:28 PM
9	Obesity has decimated the dating market in America. Loads of extremely cheap foods have very little sugar added. Beans, rice, eggs, milk, even ramen noodles etc. It's just not a diet most people would want to stick with. It's pretty much pick 3: money, health, time/convenience, flavor	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 03:04 AM
4	Treat yourself as if you were someone worth fighting for. I don't think it is being used correctly here, but the apex fallacy is evaluating a group by only looking at the top performing members of said group. A good example is believing men did well during the middle ages because the kings were men, despite the fact that most men were serfs. So the apex fallacy would almost be the opposite of this post: if you evaluate men by the top men only, you would think all men were doing fantastically right now. I think it is being used to mean what the other re…	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/21 10:40 PM
2	watching porn \| playing video games \| scrolling social media \| watching sports I'm not entirely sure why video games have this reputation as being a child's activity while reading or playing a musical instrument is seen as a thoroughly adult behavior I think because they are newer (i.e. because kids play them more than adults... I think that will change over time) and because there are far fewer "higher" forms of video games compared to music and books. And yeah, it's tough. I think part of the key to quitting these things is to figure out why you need them in the first pl…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/21 03:43 PM
0	watching porn \| playing video games \| scrolling social media \| watching sports If you're looking for other ways to relax: walks, reading, socializing (e.g. grabbing food and talking with people), meditating, yoga, watching some higher quality media (videos/podcasts), bathes/showers. Creating too like the other guy said, though personally creating rarely relaxes me. Though I'll be the first to admit I still get stressed and anxious to the point where I resort to some of the things in OP on a regular basis... like pretty much everyone I know. Modern life is damn stressful ha…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/21 03:01 PM
1	I tried following the advice of Leil Lowndes and I saw some results already Just a guess since I haven't read the book, but I'm guessing he means don't sort of "pre-laugh" and plan to laugh right once someone finishes a joke. A lot of the time people laugh to build rapport with someone instead of because something is legitimately making them laugh, which comes across as needy and insecure if you do it too much.	/r/seduction	25/10/21 07:47 PM
1	What TRP is and what it isn't, and why most guys don't succeed with it The good parts of it do. Though there are plenty of miserable, delusional, and confused people on here that you have to watch out for (who will claim their views are in line with TRP and that views that go against theirs do not, just like most people on here do). You have to learn to develop a critical eye and pick and choose what makes sense to you, which Stoicism can help with too.	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/21 09:41 PM
1	Blame Yourself, You are making it hard for yourself Hmm. I think you're probably right. I think a lot of it comes down to what I was trying to get at with my 5th paragraph (about pushing yourself while being easy on yourself). A lot of people probably associate routine with anxiety and forcing yourself to do things you hate, thus why they hate routine and go to things like memes for relief instead. It's better to follow a routine that is beneficial to you and doesn't make you miserable at the same time, which is difficult for people that are unha…	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/21 03:26 PM
11	Blame Yourself, You are making it hard for yourself Interesting post. I think you are correct but in an oversimplified way. I agree completely that it is VERY important to pick up new positive habits while you work on ditching your old ones. Your mind is going to want to do SOMETHING with its time, so if you don't give it anything, it's going to get bored and stressed and you'll probably go back to your old habits. But at the same time, a given person can only handle so much change and stress at one time. Try to do too much and push yourself too …	/r/TheRedPill	09/08/21 05:47 PM
7	Blame Yourself, You are making it hard for yourself Really outcome independence just means being process focused instead of results focused. It doesn't mean you aren't aiming your processes at achieving a specific result, it just means if you do everything right and don't get the result you were aiming at you just look at what you could improve in your process instead of getting upset about it. An easy RP example being if you went out and asked 10 people on a date and got rejected 10 times, an outcome dependent person would probably get depressed…	/r/TheRedPill	09/08/21 05:31 PM
4	A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorce What original TRP content claims that marriage is a good idea if you vet correctly? I've never seen anything in TRP promote marriage unless maybe you want kids, and even then they are usually cautious about it and say basically what you are arguing against (that it's a gamble).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 02:14 PM
1	Does it get better? Random people on reddit won't be able to help you that much. I would start going to therapy (and if you already are, I would find a new therapist). It sounds like you can afford it. But I would guess a lack of human connection and purpose is what's killing you more than anything. I don't know anyone happy that focuses on money over relationships and doing something you actually care about. And the good news is that it sounds like you are financially stable, so you should have extra time to focus…	/r/askTRP	08/06/21 07:16 PM
31	Therapy is super underrated for seduction I believe therapy can help anyone. Two major things I would point out is that you don’t know what you don’t know. You can be getting by and think that you’re thriving when in reality you could be doing much better mentally. I use this quote too much, but I think it's fitting here: “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate." ― C.G. Jung You can't improve what you aren't aware of! Agree on the second point too.	/r/seduction	07/05/21 08:47 PM
1	What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem? Hmm I would actually guess dopamine would help with eye contact somewhat. Stimulants do make people more assertive.	/r/seduction	06/04/21 06:55 PM
4	When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourself They're kind of a fundamental part of flirting. I think you might be looking at them the wrong way. Most of the time women aren't really trying to disrespect you and make you mad. Most of the time they are just being playful and seeing if a little light hearted teasing is enough to fluster you. For me at least I find it fun, just mess with them back :-) Though like the top comment says SOMETIMES they are just straight insults. In which case yeah I agree with you, there's no reason to put up with…	/r/seduction	29/03/21 07:59 PM
3	When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourself And even then some of those are shit tests where the "correct" answer is to start ignoring her and do your own thing. Where she's basically saying "Hey is your self esteem low enough and are you desperate enough to put up with my insults and/or are you so weak you're going to let me make you mad?" and then once you respond like a person with confidence and self respect you "pass" the test. Though I wouldn't put up with those kinds of tests. It's generally not worth it.	/r/seduction	29/03/21 07:47 PM
3	Losing passion for the gym. I’ve been a bit depressed lately I’ll admit. Is this the cause? Almost definitely. People here are mostly ignoring that part of your post, but depression can make even doing simple things (like getting out of bed) a bitch, and high effort things like lifting are likely going to be pretty miserable. If you're legitimately depressed or otherwise can't figure out why you're feeling down, I'd recommend therapy (i.e. paying someone to help figure out why you are depressed). People on here won't be ab…	/r/askTRP	16/03/21 08:13 PM
3	How do you form the willpower to wake up in the morning and go to the gym when you're supposed to? Yup, fantastic advice! The first two points are a great application of "Make it Simple" from Atomic Habits. For me I use a modified version of the two minute rule: if you just get to the gym consider it a victory (since getting to the gym takes way longer than 2 minutes). Usually when I'm there I'll start lifting, get into it, and have a decent session. Worst case scenario is you at least keep building the habit of showing up. I also like Terry Crew's advice of treating your gym like a spa. Make…	/r/askTRP	15/03/21 10:09 PM
2	How do you form the willpower to wake up in the morning and go to the gym when you're supposed to? I've been doing that for years, works great! If you still can't get out after that you are probably depressed or trying to do something you don't actually care about.	/r/askTRP	15/03/21 10:00 PM
4	A very powerful tool you should add to your lifting arsenal Yeah, from what I read on Stronger by Science it's something close to the number of "good" (starting well rested and going to near failure) sets you have for a given muscle group. Rep ranges, rest times etc. don't matter too much if you accomplish that. Though supersets could likely help if you use the extra time you save to get more volume in.	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/21 04:15 PM
3	7 ways to be happy I think to truly forgive people you first have to learn to accept (though not necessarily like) them and what they did. Easier said than done, but there are a lot of ways to train it. Like OP already mentioned, meditate! With meditation you are training to acknowledge your thoughts without judgement. Which put another way is to accept your thoughts as they are. Try to bring your meditation practice to your real life as well. If you notice yourself not accepting something, try to notice that thou…	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/21 08:37 PM
12	How do you actually go for the kiss? That's what I do. You have to have at least a basic ability to read the signals (is she standing close to you, is she touching you, is she giving you lots of eye contact etc.) but it's not too hard to do in my experience. Usually if a girl is on a date with you she won't be too surprised if you try to kiss her. Also quick tip, don't move all the way in for the kiss unless you're very sure she wants it. Make her do at least 10% or something. That way if she isn't feeling it she can pull back.	/r/askTRP	05/02/21 06:59 PM
1	[META] Spirituality and the Red Pill Agreed on the first paragraph. I think the second just depends on how you define things. Buddhists would likely say something similar to that they are working towards a state of pure being, which is about as close to the OPPOSITE of suicide as you can get. Literally always living in the present moment. Though yes you can also argue giving up all desires and killing your ego is similar to suicide in some ways.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/20 04:55 AM
2	[META] Spirituality and the Red Pill Hmm, I see that as almost the opposite. Westerners' obsession with material goods, comfort, and distractions has made us fat, lazy, nihilistic, and almost incapable of withstanding discomfort (i.e. has made us terrible in every single metric you just listed). Meanwhile Buddhist monks dedicate themselves to a cause they believe strongly in and work hard every day (through hours of prayer, meditation, reading, debating etc. every single day) to further it. Though I'll admit I have no idea how much…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/20 09:02 PM
1	How do you guys focus? I would go to a psychiatrist and see if you have ADHD. That's the easiest (and safest, and most legal... and cheapest if you have decent insurance) way to try different amphetamines. And like others have said, meditate. Meditation is the closest thing to directly training to focus, just like lifting heavy weights is the closest thing to training directly for strength. And yup speaking from experience, those two things work wonders together (with amphetamines on their own I end up focusing on stu…	/r/askTRP	19/12/20 09:57 PM
4	The Habits of Heroes - Pt.1 I was going to say the majority of your post can be found in Atomic Habits in some form. Which is not a bad thing though, I love that book.	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/20 09:46 PM
15	I'm facing a very hard time now Yeah TRP has some great advice, but it's mostly pretty negative. And even when it's positive a lot of the time it involves people humble bragging about their lives (intentional or not) which can make you feel worse by comparison. If its starting to get you down just unsub for a bit. You can always come back.	/r/askTRP	17/07/20 05:52 PM
2	… that I’m not what I used to be. Mr. Tobbor's on the liquor again.	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/20 01:01 AM
2	This community fucked me up. Fuck this place, just get out there and focus on being the best guy you can be and girls will come naturally Yeah pretty much. And then everyone here upvotes him. People really love any excuse to feel self righteous haha.	/r/seduction	19/05/20 07:40 PM
3	Women mirror male emotional states Followers in general do it in order to build rapport with leaders. Not really specific to women at all but they tend to follow more.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/20 05:54 AM
5	How to get JACKED during quarantine For another perspective: https://www.strongerbyscience.com/athlete-protein-intake/ TLDR 0.8 grams per pound are roughly the maximum needed (like you said), around 0.5 grams per pound are probably enough for most people. Ideally you should also spread your protein into 4 40 gram portions throughout the day.	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/20 07:18 PM
3	How to get JACKED during quarantine Agreed. Also it's pretty cheap and easy to make things more difficult so you don't need to do so many reps. For maybe $10 you can fill some sort of bags up with gravel and throw them in a backpack to add weight to your pull-ups and push-ups. For a little more you can buy a dip belt and some weights or a weight vest. Or you can always work towards things like one arm push-ups, pseudo planche push-ups, one arm pull-ups etc.	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/20 07:14 PM
7	As a man you should be totally free For another Stoic quote: "It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor." - Seneca There are people with billions that are unhappy and people with next to nothing that are extremely happy. People here overestimate the impact having a lot of money has on happiness levels. Chances are if you want more now, you'll want more later too, no matter how much you have. Though hitting a certain baseline where you have all your needs met and feel secure certainly makes thi…	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/20 06:46 PM
24	I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 Month Hmm any tips on solving the vocal variety issue?? Did you just practice acting like FRIENDS characters in front of a mirror or something? I definitely speak in a fairly monotone voice right now.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/20 06:39 PM
1	Anxiety and depression can be the result of. your unconscious mind withdrawing it's approval of your life choices. Confidence comes from living in a way that you can be proud of. Medications can be a good stop gap measure to feel more normal while you work on yourself. You can always stop taking them once your life is in better shape.	/r/seduction	30/04/20 07:32 PM
3	Anxiety and depression can be the result of. your unconscious mind withdrawing it's approval of your life choices. Confidence comes from living in a way that you can be proud of. Baby steps. When you're depressed and anxious it's tougher to work on yourself, it doesn't mean you can't though. You just need to set your sights lower and work on one thing at a time. And accept that you sometimes will mess up and that's OK. But yes, get outside help too.	/r/seduction	30/04/20 07:30 PM
5	Always in my head Just being aware of it is the first step, but it's not going to get you far. So I'm not surprised it's not helping you. To me it sounds like you're missing two things: confidence and mindfulness. People write about how to gain confidence here all the time. Lift, eat well, dress well, gain some valuable skills, work on your mental health, set goals and work towards them etc. Really it's too broad of a topic to cover here. "Six Pillars of Self Esteem" is a great detailed book on it. For mindfulnes…	/r/askTRP	29/04/20 08:49 PM
8	Inner-game 101 - Cutting Through The Bullshit Agreed. Stoicism and Buddhism both stress this a lot too. Stoicism as the dichotomy of control (you can't control that you aren't perfect, so why waste your energy beating yourself up over it?) and Buddhism as the root of all suffering is attachment (in this case, attachment to some idealized version of yourself). Which of course doesn't mean you shouldn't take action that will lead you towards a better future. Both of these mindsets actually makes it easier, since if you have no anxiety or worr…	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/20 08:21 PM
3	Here’s a reminder that even “good looking” dudes can have difficulty on dating apps. Yeah, you can see her pics in the video too. She's pretty fit, not sure about London about at least in the US that puts you at probably an 8 or so immediately.	/r/seduction	13/12/19 10:31 PM
9	"How do I make more friends?" By providing value. Here's how. Agreed, though making acquaintances (which I'd call casual friends) is the first step to finding true friends. Once you have a lot of casual friends, you can start sorting them out into who your real friends are and who is just in it because it's currently in their best interest. See who is willing to help you, make sacrifices for you, and stick around when things aren't perfect (hopefully with you reciprocating). Because making sacrifices is really the only way to know how good of a friend some…	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/19 06:56 PM
1	A brief, practical guide to overcome neuroticism Says you, and nobody cares what you have to say. I'm done with you.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/19 10:28 PM
1	A brief, practical guide to overcome neuroticism In other words you've made up your own definition for alpha and you are going to whine whenever someone doesn't follow it. Have fun with that.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/19 02:31 PM
1	A brief, practical guide to overcome neuroticism I think the difference is you're talking about a true alpha, where OP is talking more about the alpha (leader) of a group of betas. The former is line you describe while the latter can be insecure and play a lot of bullshit games to hold his spot.	/r/TheRedPill	16/08/19 07:28 PM
1	What is your sleep routine? How do you wind down at night? I've taken it for a few years and I still fall asleep right away without it as long as I exercise good sleep hygiene. But yeah if you can find a way to guarantee a good night's rest without drugs that's likely a better route.	/r/askTRP	13/08/19 07:52 PM
2	What is your sleep routine? How do you wind down at night? I take 1 mg melatonin and a ZMA capsule an hour before sleep. Then I get ready (change clothes, brush teeth etc.), read for 40 minutes, and go to bed. For me the melatonin in particular helps, especially when late night screens are involved. Without melatonin, if I stayed on my computer until 11 I might not fall asleep for hours. With it, I pretty much fall asleep right away.	/r/askTRP	13/08/19 07:26 PM
5	Askwomen sub "why a second date?" Eh, it's really not a very good metaphor at all. A trout doesn't have any higher brain functions so why would you ever ask a trout anything? Also women WANT to be caught (by high quality men) while a trout does not. Not to say the actual underlying message it's trying to get across is wrong, though.	/r/seduction	21/06/19 07:09 PM
5	Askwomen sub "why a second date?" Metaphors are a type of implied comparison. They are fairly synonymous with each other.	/r/seduction	21/06/19 07:04 PM
4	Oneitis ruined me. Now the journey begins. Not saying that I agree with him, but I don't think weak is really the right translation for beta here. He's almost certainly talking more along the lines of someone being more assertive with women (alpha) versus less assertive (beta). The less assertive guy is more likely to do what the woman says (making him a better "provider") while the alpha is more likely to put his foot down or leave her when she asks for things he isn't willing to do (making him a worse provider).	/r/seduction	22/05/19 05:58 PM
1	it sucks being a old virgin but im improving lol Looks-wise men don't peak until their mid to late 30's, and even after that they they age much better than women. You have plenty of time if you keep putting the effort in.	/r/seduction	13/05/19 12:59 PM
2	A tip to keep a conversation going with a girl and to prevent it becoming dead. Oh I wouldn't assume that. At least in my experience that's usually more likely a sign the woman has poor social skills or is nervous/anxious. When you're talking to someone that's socially competent, they'll probably be able to hold a decent conversation even when they aren't interested. Though that applies less to texting than in person.	/r/seduction	22/04/19 03:28 PM
2	My Golden Rule of pickup and how it helped me overcome approach anxiety. It's fine to want something (like we all do from pretty much every conversation we have ever had). Just don't go into a conversation expecting anything. Go in with the intention of providing value, and if you get something you want too, then great! If not, that's OK too!	/r/seduction	18/03/19 04:57 PM
9	I don’t understand how people meet women in college. You interact with ppl you work with then go home alone everyday and no one gives a fuck about you. OK, so you've tried the "try nothing" strategy and nothing has happened. Maybe do something other than that? Hard to believe a college grad needs to be told that. Though with your attitude I'm not surprised you're having issues.	/r/seduction	22/02/19 08:12 PM
1	How I stopped being a pussy Your brain is incredibly malleable. I always wonder about that. I don't know about you, but I know very few (possibly zero) people that went from being awkward, unconfident, or who couldn't socialize well to the opposite, especially later in life. Are people just not trying, or is maybe more of your personality and skill set learned at a young age and not so easy to change later on? Which is also why I think people think learning a new language is easy in comparison. Loads of people learn new la…	/r/seduction	08/02/19 07:27 PM
2	30 First Date Conversation Starters That Will Kick Awkwardness In The Butt I prefer "what is your greatest shame?". Though on a more serious note, asking about fears is still a fun topic on a first date if you take it more lightly! My first date with my last GF involved it at some point. Not in the first 5 minutes though :-)	/r/seduction	24/12/18 05:42 PM
1	Negativity on this sub Jesus Christ. If he's willing to do that I doubt there's any good way to stop him permanently. He'll just get a new IP address. That guy's life must be hell.	/r/seduction	11/12/18 09:26 PM
9	Negativity on this sub United Kingdom stories? And are you talking about the perfectly normal looking guy that thinks he's too ugly for anyone? Yeah a permanent ban on that would be great. He's been doing that for months (years?) now.	/r/seduction	11/12/18 07:19 PM
3	Girls get bored when sexual tension is missing Touching	/r/seduction	24/11/18 07:14 AM
1	Negging Is For 10s You aren't the pua community. You are one person in the pua community. And as far as I can see everyone else disagrees with you. And really what's the point in turning the definition of negging into "teasing"? But do whatever you want I guess, I don't care.	/r/seduction	10/10/18 03:52 PM
1	Negging Is For 10s Google's definition: Negging is an act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment or otherwise flirtatious remark to another person to undermine their confidence and increase their need of the manipulator's approval. That's not what you are doing. I guess you can have your own personal definition for it, but it's not actually what most people consider negging. That's just teasing, since it's just joking and not actually meant to hurt their confidence. So …	/r/seduction	10/10/18 02:59 PM
3	Negging Is For 10s I think you just use negging to mean making a joke where she thinks you might have insulted her for a second but really you didn't. Or maybe teasing. Legitimate negging involves saying something bad about her and not taking it back. Though I agree with the other guy, I like your examples!	/r/seduction	10/10/18 01:55 PM
1	Leaving this here - Fucking amazing Yeah, these can basically all be summed up as work on your confidence and self esteem. Though obviously having more detailed instructions like in the OP can be helpful for that.	/r/seduction	09/08/18 03:38 PM
4	Instagram can help your Dating Life Jesus you really have a hardon for social media, don't you? I don't like social media and in my experience people that use it are worse off because of it. Deal with it.	/r/seduction	28/06/18 06:15 PM
9	Instagram can help your Dating Life I'm talking about what I see with friends that use a lot of social media. Whenever they do anything fun they make a point to stop every once in a while and take pictures/videos etc. It's just one extra thing you have to keep on your mind that I'd rather not.	/r/seduction	28/06/18 05:06 PM
21	Instagram can help your Dating Life In the same situation as you and I wouldn't. To keep those things up to date you need to be constantly thinking about what you're going to post versus just staying in the moment and enjoying yourself. And you're also just basically only showing the best parts of your life to basically try and trick someone into thinking that's who you are (like everyone on Instagram does). I would guess they do probably work to some degree, though. So I guess it depends how much you care and how much you enjoy i…	/r/seduction	28/06/18 02:24 PM
1	How to talk to anybody (mindset) Eh, I don't think the comparison works perfectly. With playing guitar you can think VERY hard about it and keep getting better on a technical level (you'll actually probably improve much faster than someone who plays without focus). With socializing, though, you can't really logic your way through conversations very well. You need to learn to use free association and the like to keep the conversation smooth. Trying to think "oh god what I should I say now" is actually counter productive. Though …	/r/seduction	27/06/18 07:37 PM
1	How to talk to anybody (mindset) I think for starting friendships and relationships it's fine, but for an individual conversation you should be OK with talking to someone you don't plan to spend loads of time with. Not to mention if you immediately jump to judging someone you'll probably miss a lot of positive things that they have to offer.	/r/seduction	27/06/18 07:16 PM
1	How to talk to anybody (mindset) If you are an introvert (like me) who often finds yourself being drained of energy in social interactions, it's because you're not doing it right. You're being drained because you don't know how to just have fun naturally, you're trying too hard. And there's the annoying paradox of the whole thing. People that are naturals don't have to try and just know how to talk to people. People that aren't naturals at it have to try, but if they try too hard they get stuck in their head and burn out quickl…	/r/seduction	27/06/18 07:12 PM
1	7 Rules Men Should Live By in Their Twenties I don't think these tips are really age related at all. These are more like things you should try to do your entire life (though some may be difficult when you're a preteen haha).	/r/seduction	15/06/18 05:23 PM
5	My Seduction Affirmations and almost always will take the edge off of any encounter That's actually exactly what makes it submissive body language! You're saying "hey look at me, I'm happy and certainly no threat". I'm actually saying this as a guy who smiles TOO much. Most of the time a genuine smile is a great thing, but if someone is being an ass to you sometimes it's better to stop and glare a little. Otherwise you can look like a push over.	/r/seduction	07/06/18 10:46 PM
8	My Seduction Affirmations Smiling is also a sign of submission, FWIW. Not saying don't do it, but I wouldn't ALWAYS do it.	/r/seduction	07/06/18 01:11 PM
2	If you're having bad days and going home sad, read this. Yeah, very true. This is something I've noticed a lot lately. I was wondering why I have so much issues being consistent with going to the gym and meditating when I realized they're just periods during the day where I'll be bored and doing the same half-focused routines I've been doing for years every single day with no real strong goals in mind. So no shit my brain doesn't want to do them, they feel like complete wastes of time even if I logically know they're valuable. So I've been trying to r…	/r/seduction	30/03/18 07:12 PM
11	10 easy habits of How to be more attractive man Eh, pretty much all of them are "do things confident people do automatically". Which I think in general women do like.	/r/seduction	19/02/18 05:57 PM
2	Overthinking is the bane of my life. You don't need to mediate, you need to just curb those negative thoughts. You need to reprimand yourself everytime you start thinking negative shit. Insecure people are unattractive because they're dangerous and unstable. That's a big part of what meditation teaches you to do :-)	/r/seduction	04/12/17 08:27 PM
3	What Self-Love ACTUALLY is. This is demonstrably false. This simply isn't true at all, no matter how woo-ey and pleasant it sounds. It actually does almost always help to not try to resist your negative emotions. It helps get you out of that vicious cycle of having a bad feeling, thinking you shouldn't have that bad feeling (and that you should feel happy), then feeling bad about having that bad feeling etc. It also lets you take your focus and move it to something that will actually help move you in a positive direction i…	/r/seduction	04/11/17 05:05 AM
6	After five years of personal development I can confidently say that mindfulness is perhaps the most important skill I have learned in regards to self-mastery. Not just sitting meditation but a practical everyday kind of mindfulness. This is my summary. 15-20 minutes is usually the minimum I see recommended for a serious practice, and usually that's just a starting point for getting to 30-45+ minutes. But just like anything, something is infinitely better than nothing. Even 5 minutes a day helps.	/r/seduction	26/08/17 04:35 AM
4	After five years of personal development I can confidently say that mindfulness is perhaps the most important skill I have learned in regards to self-mastery. Not just sitting meditation but a practical everyday kind of mindfulness. This is my summary. I think the "to porn" part is key, and it's really just bad in the same way loads of things are bad (like Skinner Box type video games, TV, gambling, checking smart phones, certain drugs, overeating etc.). It gives your brain an overload of stimuli and dopamine while getting you in the habit of being the exact opposite of mindful.	/r/seduction	26/08/17 04:33 AM
1	Acceptance of yourself will be your most powerful asset in attracting women. I went from having no friends, to receiving the greatest compliment I've ever gotten in my life. Quick question for you guys, how often do people here hang out with friends 1 on 1 or in groups of 3? Thinking about it, I'm pretty much always in groups of 4+ where it's tougher to talk about more intimate things (since some people might not be comfortable with it, some might not relate and get bored, some might not know the group well enough to trust them etc.). Not even really sure where to start with that... though I guess I could just start inviting 1 or 2 people to hang out :-P	/r/seduction	09/08/17 05:50 PM
2	How I started approaching girls EASILY after 6 years of AA. And the question to all of you. I think what you're describing is having expectations. And yeah I agree with everything you've written, it's bad to have high expectations for pretty much everything you can't directly control.	/r/seduction	15/06/17 03:56 PM
14	Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly. It's not about going around and saying "Hey I like to fuck girls and I jack off when I'm not!" Hey that could just work... I think I've found my new online dating profile!	/r/seduction	08/06/17 04:08 AM
12	What hobbies attract the most girls? A hobby is just something you commonly do for leisure. Pretty much anything can be a hobby, including playing guitar or World of Warcraft.	/r/seduction	06/06/17 07:46 PM
20	My one rule that boosted my confidence by 10x. By the way for anyone with issues with this I'd look into mindfulness, which is basically the skill that will allow you to catch yourself when you have these types of thoughts. See /r/meditation for more details.	/r/seduction	15/05/17 03:45 PM
5	How to have a conversation with a woman women attractive people have superpowers that make men everyone with low self esteem stupid in their vicinity. When people are afraid of being rejected by someone they perceive as higher value than them, they're gonna feel more insecure which makes them act stupid.	/r/seduction	02/05/17 07:40 PM
4	Best places to meet cute girls during the daytime? Sort of. It's an app/website where people make groups (usually based around a specific hobby or interest, from things as specific as "competitive underwater basket weaving" or broad as "20's 30's 40's new friends") and then post events for those groups where you meet up to do something. Anyone that's a member of those groups (which are usually public and open for anyone) can then attend those events. Most people either use it to find people to do a specific activity with and/or to (like you said…	/r/seduction	30/04/17 10:00 PM
15	Best places to meet cute girls during the daytime? Yup, exactly. And for some good clubs, I'd try things like volleyball, running (I like hash runners because it adds drinking in... though sounds like that might not be for you OP), some kind of league (I'm in a kubb league ATM that plays outside of a bar, plenty of women there, though I think bowling, darts, bags etc. would all work too), board games, climbing, and hiking. www.meetup.com is your friend here.	/r/seduction	30/04/17 05:08 PM
23	How To Connect With Girls, By Being Your Weird-Ass Self [xpost from /r/socialskills] Sounds like practicing free association! And yup, that's a great way to learn to go off on anything.	/r/seduction	21/04/17 06:59 PM
2	How I got 40+ dates in 9 months (psychology) Agreed, I'm guessing he's referring to their on screen personas only (since most people aren't ever gonna see them in a different light).	/r/seduction	10/04/17 04:35 PM
5	How I got 40+ dates in 9 months (psychology) Well does she get your jokes IRL?... Personally I'd say that's about a million times more important, but that's just me.	/r/seduction	10/04/17 04:33 PM
6	Boredom is why you're beta This post is getting a few of these comments... isn't it kinda obvious that these things by themselves aren't enough? Women aren't just going to home in on you if you do them. You have to put in effort with women too.	/r/seduction	02/04/17 05:17 PM
9	Boredom is why you're beta I mean you still have to meet women and put yourself out there. Cleaning your house isn't going to do jack by itself.	/r/seduction	02/04/17 05:15 PM
1	How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women. Though I'm not sure it's possible to know for sure (for anyone), I guess it would be the same way anyone would figure it out: by learning to read people. There are plenty of other reasons beyond looks that people would want to hang around someone other than their personality (what I'm assuming you mean by "who you were"): money, power, status, attention, just because they're lonely. You just kind of have to learn how to tell when people actually like you by how they act.	/r/seduction	02/03/17 06:06 AM
2	How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women. Looking good and enjoying it doesn't mean you can't connect with anyone or that you can't have anyone who likes you for anything else.	/r/seduction	01/03/17 07:08 PM
4	How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women. I mean all the sad parts were just theoretical and don't necessarily make sense. She could easily just ride her good looks until they fade and then end up ONLY being good looking for her age. Being bitter certainly doesn't have to be part of it, after all everyone is going to lose their looks (however good they are) and health at some point.	/r/seduction	01/03/17 06:51 PM
1	Why you can never earn a woman's love Why do you think divorce is skyrocketing? That's a myth. Divorce rates are the lowest they've been since the early 70's. But yeah dating in general is a pretty shit situation for men at the moment and I agree what you mentioned is important. The issue I have with TRP is all the parts about gaming and manipulating people (which are specifically what set it apart from seddit, as stated in the side bar).	/r/seduction	19/02/17 04:46 PM
2	Why you can never earn a woman's love Yeah, you're posting in it :) The red pill is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/	/r/seduction	17/02/17 09:37 PM
2	Why you can never earn a woman's love I agree with all that, but that's exactly what seddit offers. The whole reason for the existence of TRP (according to the sidebar) is that on top of that it's about sexual strategy and gaming people. See: A lot of you probably came here from /r/seduction and are probably wondering why we'd need a new subreddit if one dedicated to game already exists. The reason is simple: Game is a facet of The Red Pill's sexual strategy. The reason is simple: Game is a facet of The Red Pill's sexual strategy. D…	/r/seduction	17/02/17 07:46 PM
2	Why you can never earn a woman's love You asked me to look at the sidebar. I did. It matched up with what I thought TRP was and now you're backtracking and apparently claiming the sidebar isn't what TRP philosophy is either. And seddit already has confidence through self improvement and action covered. What does TRP have to offer on top of that that's not manipulation and trickery? I think this comment on the sidebar summarizes what I'm trying to get at pretty well. The sub in general seems to constantly generalize all women and men…	/r/seduction	17/02/17 07:40 PM
2	Why you can never earn a woman's love By your logic, men who are successful with women shouldn't need seduction either. Yet, here you are. First, I never said I was good with women (I do OK, though there's definitely room for improvement). Second, I'm not even saying that sub won't get you results with women (I'm sure it does, I just have the feeling most of the people that end up using methods that revolve around manipulation and gaming people [which are specifically stated as the subs purpose in the same intro I quoted above] won'…	/r/seduction	17/02/17 06:49 PM
7	Why you can never earn a woman's love The irony. From the sidebar intro: Because there's truth in the red pill. Because men are realizing that the sexual marketplace has shifted away from what we've been taught. Men who grew up over thirty years ago are discovering the world has changed. Men who are still growing up- from the 80s, 90s, and even the last decade, they're starting to realize that what their parents taught them, what television and chick flicks taught them, what church and sunday school taught them... it's all wrong. Th…	/r/seduction	17/02/17 06:20 PM
3	Why you can never earn a woman's love Yeah like I said I haven't seen people using it to help defend against that kind of stuff (and I've never really had issues with it), but I can see why it would be useful. That said, TRP does not condone or condemn manipulation. It definitely condones it overall, things like the dark triad, shit tests etc. are up voted very consistently. Read the sidebar yourself, then come tell me what TRP is about. God why did I listen to this, that subreddit always leaves such a bad taste in my mouth. Just so…	/r/seduction	17/02/17 05:48 PM
8	Why you can never earn a woman's love The issue I have with it is using manipulation to get into a relationship will only get you relationships with people susceptible to that sort of thing (i.e. people with poor mental health, which leads to confirmation bias for everyone on TRP complaining about how dumb women are) and I don't think anyone REALLY wants a relationship based around manipulation and control instead of love and respect. I've never heard of anyone using it to learn how to avoid falling for those kinds of tricks, but pr…	/r/seduction	17/02/17 04:45 PM
18	Why you can never earn a woman's love From what I've seen that's a better description of /r/seduction and TRP takes that and throws in a million ways to manipulate people into getting what you want (and of course hundreds of thousands of butt hurt ex-white knights). Though I have seen a few decent posts there.	/r/seduction	17/02/17 04:06 PM
3	She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence. Well it kind of depends. Unfortunately humans are social creatures and tend to get depressed if they don't have close connections with other humans. Working on yourself won't necessarily help with that.	/r/seduction	04/12/16 04:14 PM
6	She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence. Haha I think you just called like 90% of the people on this sub pathetic.	/r/seduction	03/12/16 11:19 PM
2	Does anybody else just get really discouraged with this whole seduction thing sometimes? I think what he's trying to get at is that you can't just "try it". You have to develop it. If you haven't ever had a positive reaction from approaching a girl you're going to have to do some crazy mental gymnastics to convince yourself you have an abundance of them waiting to go out with you.	/r/seduction	29/11/16 10:46 PM
1	How To Finally Date The Girls You Dream Of... Drive, maybe. Performance certainly doesn't have to. Either way seems like a weird reason to give up. "Oh no, I'm slightly worse at sex now, now I have no reason to even try"	/r/seduction	24/11/16 05:38 PM
3	How To Tell If A Girl Likes You - A Definitive Guide I think you answered your own question. It's for people who aren't any good at pick up.	/r/seduction	14/10/16 03:27 AM
8	How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t) He didn't really criticize this post, he just said what he wanted to see in another post.	/r/seduction	05/09/16 09:58 PM
2	asking girls on a date right away? It will feel a little weird because in our society it is a little weird, but your chances of getting a date (I'd recommend something more along the lines of grabbing coffee or a drink) are going to be awful if you don't have any connection first.	/r/seduction	11/08/16 01:23 AM
1	Does Lifting Weights Help You Get Girls? Nobody besides you has said anything about making it without effort. Most of the things I listed above take effort. And there are other ways to get in shape besides lifting, you know. As much as I like lifting you can still get in great shape with only sports. Consistency and effort are the key.	/r/seduction	04/02/16 09:01 PM
1	Does Lifting Weights Help You Get Girls? You can definitely do well SMV-wise without lifting. As long as you eat well, stay hygienic, dress well, have reasonable genetics, confidence, and a good personality lifting weights is definitely not vital. Of course it will still help quite a bit.	/r/seduction	04/02/16 07:55 PM
-2	Does Lifting Weights Help You Get Girls? You're acting like because people are saying the confidence from lifting helps with women that nobody is going to lift and is instead going to find other ways to build confidence. What a non-nonsensical, ridiculous conclusion. Anyone could easily take your 8 points and find other ways to do them too. The point of your posts and everyone you are responding to is that lifting weights is good. No idea why you want to spin what they are saying to make it look otherwise.	/r/seduction	04/02/16 07:38 PM
1	When I approach girls, I feel it is too obvious that I try to seduce them. How to be more subtle? Any tips for creating and holding a frame like that? Does it just come down to fake it till you make it? To me it seems like a very important skill to have (even for conversations outside of seduction), but I have no idea how to practice it. It just feels like some days I have it some days I don't.	/r/seduction	23/11/15 06:19 PM
3	finally went for it. (27 Male) Half plus seven :)	/r/seduction	14/11/15 06:03 AM
9	finally went for it. (27 Male) 28/2+7=21 Close enough. But then again personally I like being able to go out drinking...	/r/seduction	14/11/15 05:44 AM
25	Beginners: How to ask for her number (flowchart) You mean "We should do DTF on tomorrow.".	/r/seduction	31/07/15 09:16 PM
4	Stop Calling Them Shit Tests: A Real Guide to Passing Any Test a Woman Gives You I agree completely. It looks like making a bunch of ridiculous claims and rewriting a bunch of basic tips is enough to get the number 1 spot on seddit :-P	/r/seduction	29/07/15 02:00 AM
30	Stop Calling Them Shit Tests: A Real Guide to Passing Any Test a Woman Gives You That's some entry level stuff man, you think someone would be hanging around on seddit while simultaneously asking tinder matches where they are every 3 minutes? There are plenty of first time readers on this subreddit every day that benefit from this kind of stuff, and I certainly know some people in real life that have those problems and overthink everything. But yeah, this post is really nothing new.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 09:12 PM
7	Man's Guide To Looking Attractive (Collection Of Best Free Resources) A solid guide to body weight fitness: https://www.reddit.com/r/bodyweightfitness/wiki/faq That's also a good subreddit to ask questions on it.	/r/seduction	08/07/15 06:56 PM
1	Man's Guide To Looking Attractive (Collection Of Best Free Resources) How is it misleading? Legitimately curious. Do you really think a girl will give a fuck that you look like Zyzz and not brad pitt? Different people have different preferences, so yeah, some definitely will. Not sure how closely it will match up to their surveys, though. But I agree overall, but just because you should be working out for yourself more than random women you don't know. If being huge makes you happy you might as well go for it.	/r/seduction	08/07/15 06:54 PM