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If you need your hand held so much to accomplish something so basic, you were never going to amount to anything anyway, so moot point. Men (and women) losers have existed all through human history so really no need to be a crybaby about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:03 AM
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Read the transcript.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:58 PM
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60/40 male-to-female gender ratio Yeah, you pretty much could have just stopped here. It is common sense that if you have more men and less women on a platform it will be harder for men there to get dates. Solution seems to be, try a different environment. Maybe this wine mixer where women had to pay for tickets and men got in free.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:50 AM
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Well, I can't speak for anyone else however for me I generally had better relationships with women that indicated their interest in me before I in them. I think this is because the relationship starts from a point where you know her attraction is strong because this isn't how it typically goes. It isn't that revolutionary an idea really, isn't it the core feature of Bumble, that women have to message first?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:20 PM
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Yeah sure, if you can make it in those fields. You only hear about the winners but there are plenty of losers in those "professions" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:34 PM
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I'm not saying Megan is more famous than Elon Musk Them: "How many followers do Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos have? Is she more famous than them?" You: "Yes, I'd say she is." I don't mind someone thinking Megan is more popular than Klay. I do think it laughable to think she is on Trump/Musk/Lebron/Messi/Ronaldo etc level, even though those guys are CEOs and athletes while she is a musician.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:58 AM
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OK now this is utter nonsense. Elon Musk has over 200 million followers on social media. He's linked to Trump who is famous/infamous over the entire world. I understand those men are highly unpopular, but there is no such thing as bad publicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:31 AM
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I don't think Klay is more famous than Meg. However, him having half her followers on IG (a platform where many men go to look at pictures of attractive women) is actually showing that his fame is underrated. He was the #3 option on most of those Warriors championship winning teams and still has so many followers. That is fame that he had on his own, not from Megan. Despite all her awards, streams and brand deals, there are NBA players that are more famous than her as well as other athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:27 AM
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My wife watches real housewives, like all of them, so I often hear it in the background while I am doing my things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:08 AM
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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. As long as you don't expect anything and are cool with rejection, I see no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:09 AM
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I mean yeah, it is basic common sense. No one is buying product from rude salesman with a garbage attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:56 AM
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See I like this story because it clearly shows how pathetic men have become. You have a generation of women that are cool with "giving away the milk for free", something basically all men wanted back in the day (have your cake and eat it too), and men are like nah, give me the drudgery of being responsible for marriage and family life instead. That shit is so fucking lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:21 AM
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Lol. Aren't redpillers always talking about unicorns and 80/20, etc? I guess I held out for a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:09 AM
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Yes, it is better to be more selective, for all genders. Candidate pool will be smaller sure, but really it was always small. At least now if you ever do get lucky you might actually be happy with who you end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:15 AM
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I mean, unc said he wants a "sinner" not a good woman. OK so if that is the game you're wanting to play, sometimes you'll get burned. I don't really know his financial situation so maybe throwing around that kind of money on women isn't a big deal for him. You like what you like, and if normal women are too boring for him, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:22 AM
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Many, many years ago, I was in a somewhat destructive phase of life. Basically, messing with a bunch of different women, abusing substances, getting in trouble with the law, etc. Kind of was forced to take a step back, so I used that time to cool things down. I wouldn't say I was happy, but I did feel more at "peace".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:16 AM
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So why do men continue to care about fairness when dealing with women any more than we care about fairness towards our enemies? I mean, if I want to look at it from a purely selfish perspective, my wife "winning" at life makes my life better. For example, she got a raise last year and I bought a new car. Not the worst thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:06 AM
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Sure, but appearance is still a criteria and really no one wants to be with someone who doesn't find them attractive physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:32 PM
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I mean, isn't that a good thing? Better for both parties to not be in a relationship than be in one where someone thinks they "settled".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:49 PM
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I mean obviously this subreddit has a western bias. As far as the east goes, there isn't as much sex happening outside of marriage, for both genders, relative to the West, so much of the talking points here are irrelevant in that part of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:34 PM
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Apples to apples yes, better to date someone close in age so that you are at the same phase of life at the same time and can tackle it together. However, it's rarely that simple. Old man could have good luck and live healthy to his 80s. Young dude could have bad luck and die in his 40s. Then you factor in other things like money. Old guy might be rich and you're more financially secure with him even when he's on deaths door than you ever were with a dumb young guy living paycheck to paycheck. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:54 AM
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Time is still valuable even when you're not on the clock. Hint, relaxing at home watching the expanse puts you in a better mental space when you are on the clock. Bad dates with people you don't care about, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:14 PM
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Also vanilla coke, root beer floats with vanilla, vanilla flavored hookah tobacco, vanilla + sandalwood scents in skincare products. So not boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:10 PM
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Why so sour on vanilla? Nothing wrong with it, vanilla ice cream tastes good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:32 PM
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Do women nowadays also buy sex as much as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:22 PM
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But you only learn this as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:21 PM
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Time = Money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:18 PM
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Ok but if said dude wanted to fuck whores and only didn't because that would cost him a real relationship, is that really the kind of guy you want anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:19 AM
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I mean that's fair but everyone, men and women, have to live their lives for themselves. So if you want to be a whoremonger, well that is who you are, and since that is who you are, you were never a good match for that vanilla woman in the first place. No loss really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:15 AM
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Everyone pays for it one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:06 AM
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Nothing. If you can't figure out on your own how to differentiate yourself from the competition, you aren't "meant" to win the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:22 AM
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Everything. Why should your opinions of what mistakes people can and can't make matter when there is no evidence you yourself are not a complete fuck up in your own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:53 PM
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So what qualifies you to speak on looking down on others?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:45 PM
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Didn't she work at Goldman Sachs. and a bunch of other companies that pay great? Yeah, I don't know that he's got the most money in the relationship. 1M followers on IG, 6M on his best YT video; that doesn't scream wealth to me. Quite frankly looking at him and her, this guy punching way above his weight class.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:34 AM
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It's very easy to take shots at others, especially people you see as "weaker" than yourselves. However, as the old saying goes, when you point the finger at someone, the thumb points back at you. OP, you're likely not rich, not model hot and not anymore fun to talk to at parties than the average person. This insistence people have to point out the flaws in others when statistically speaking they likely have many flaws themselves; it's pathetic frankly. I think before speaking on the shortcomings…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:26 AM
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I think some "decisions" need to be made about the future of subreddits like this one. From Gemini: Based on recent studies in the U.S., a high percentage of married couples report being happy: Marital Happiness: One 2023 study found that 74% of married Americans say they are happily married overall. Another study reported that 53% of people surveyed said they were very happily married, with an additional 39% saying they were fairly happy. Relationship Quality: A Gallup survey focusing on adults…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:20 PM
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Bro I'm married and my wife is on Reddit; I would be damn stupid to even answer such a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:47 PM
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If he’s top 10% Way too much time is spent here talking about elite men. Those guys don't know what TRP is, they don't need a sexual strategy. Now, for regular guys, I don't see how a relationship and paying for sex are similar things at all. One is a service you buy in a straight forward way, the other is an agreement of sorts where he has to do X and she has to do Y where the terms can be changed at anytime by any of the parties involved with or without reason or warning...a much more complica…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:15 PM
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Disagree, I don't think there is this grand "realization" that men with looks, money and social status do better with women. That's just common sense; the abnormal people are the ones that need to "learn" that. Ultimately though, that is the biggest thing holding TRP back when it comes to dating success. You had to learn a "strategy" that most men figure out on their own. You're in remedial math; I could see how that is unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:52 PM
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Hmm let's think about this another way. You have X amount of dollars with which to buy a house. Do you buy the run down property you can afford now, or wait for something better to hit the market? Seriously, there isn't a right answer. It is a risk either way. However, that scenario is played out all the time in real estate and sometimes people win and sometimes they lose. However, you're alive, and you get to make the choice and then deal with the consequences, and that's the only sure thing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:48 PM
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Agree. It's kind of like getting a job offer. You apply to all these places and don't get a single reply, yeah maybe you are just really unlucky. More likely though, your resume just isn't competitive enough. Not everyone can win at this, someone has to be the forever loser, set the ground floor you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:23 PM
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Now then, why the fuck would any dude wanna get with a woman whose only reason in being with you is your money? You're only with her because she looks good. In this world, you eat what you can kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:56 PM
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So it's even more important to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:53 PM
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Hahaha, you think a guy who works at a liquor store can afford a sugar baby?! He probably has to whore himself out to make rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:23 AM
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It is eugenics, but ultimately no one cares, everyone is looking to date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:20 PM
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LeBron's kid made it to the NBA. Many former players have children who made it into the league. It's not bulletproof, but you have a better chance having a kid with a pro athlete than with a normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:20 PM
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I think as wealth disparity grows many traditional ways of doing things will be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:12 PM
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Her genes are still there, so even more need to aim as high up as you can to offset her short comings. If anything, a prettier taller woman could afford to be less picky, but she won't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:53 AM
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Probably not but if their offspring genetics are so important they should be more hypergamous, not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:49 AM
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Brad Pitt isn't tall and not a pro athlete so not what I am talking about. I was thinking more of Lebron and Savannah. Lebron is well we all know what he is, but Savannah is/was average. Not an athlete not tall, but even then Bronny is a 6'3" NBA player. A scrub level player who probably doesn't actually belong in the league, but as a worst case scenario, not horrible and certainly better than what would happen if she wasn't married to Lebron.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:53 AM
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I mean if you take everything you say as fact, logically, wouldn't it make sense for women to be even more picky? If height, looks and dick size are as important as you say they are, why should women ever give short, ugly small guys a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:44 AM
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There are genetic factors that are completely out of women's control. I wouldn't say completely out of women's control. Reproduce with a pro athlete, I don't often see their kids turning out to be incels, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:36 AM
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Without dating apps and social media, the whole dating scene would be much different. Moot point, gen z don't care about dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:21 PM
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This 50/50 thing that is all the rage today sounds whack IMO. My wife and I combined all our monies when we moved in together, years before we got married. It saved us a shit ton of dough and made our lives easier to manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:09 PM
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It's a loser mentality, which is the real core issue for those men. Seriously, why would women want to fuck a loser? Men wouldn't want to fuck an ugly girl (if they could actually pull a dime).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:59 PM
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Insurance. Theoretically, if something happens to you your partner has your back. Sure some friends might be just as reliable. Typically, you have a vested interest in the well being of someone you're having regular sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:23 AM
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Wtf did I just read? Look not everyone can be a winner, but the good thing about being a loser is that you have so much room for improvement. Seriously, someone just starting to lift today will see way more gains by the end of the year than someone who has been at it for years. Focus on stuff like that. Cliche, but you really are only in competition with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:18 AM
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This sub is very niche. Most normal people don't have the kinds of discussions that happen here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:06 AM
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Does it fucking matter? He used looks, money or status to get the girl, point is he got her and if she leaves he can get someone else, again, and again. And an ugly famous guy has scored with way more 10s than a 10 man working at McDonald's. I mean it's not even close. Yeah, they aren't there for his looks, do you think he cares when he's getting his knob polished by an ig model while the broke guy is getting casual sex most of the time from average at best women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:20 PM
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I don’t think that’s what men actually want. Social media incels are not "men". Real men don't bitch and moan about things they can't control, they leverage whatever strengths they do have into making life better for themselves and the ones closest to them. A model might date a short or ugly rapper but how long can anyone have sex with someone they don’t find attractive when they could be with anyone in the world. She can leave when she gets bored, but a rich and famous guy will always have opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:01 AM
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Ok and a short rapper getting a model only gets the model because of his status. The obese NFL lineman with the hot actress wouldn't be a thing if he drove a bus. You get what I'm saying, those guys were born with or cultivated a talent that allowed them to be ultra successful with women. Being physically attractive is also largely a born with it attribute. So, pointless to worry about if she would if you didn't have it like that. She wouldn't, everyone knows, so play the cards you are actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:52 PM
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For starters, women have far more access to short term dating than men. The average guy can’t just choose to live a casual dating lifestyle. Any guy can become a "passport bro". Getting "casual" sex (which I define as any sex outside of a relationship because really that just makes sense) isn't that hard if you really want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:56 PM
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why is it so extremely difficult to have casual sex Get a passport, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:52 PM
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It's not even about all that. Relationship sex is better than sex with strangers because you can go all in without worrying about picking up a STD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:19 AM
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Many, and I think those numbers will grow. Young people already aren't having as much sex as in prior generations, so they already set a standard where they don't need it every day. Once you are willing to accept less there, your partners looks become less important. Then you look at the other things you like in life, like watching shows, having a home, being able to travel, being financially stable, etc. Having a partner makes getting all that easier, so you make the trade. You weren't getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:52 AM
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It is completely true that no one is entitled to romantic love. However, austic people, differently abled people, young people with terminal diseases etc, did get a bum hand through no fault of their own, so I understand their frustration. Those normal people who are incels and females though, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:38 AM
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Funny, I got with my future wife when I was going through a period of laziness. Stopped working out, eating clean and didn't really go out much but met her randomly at the movies and went out for drinks after. At this point I think the only formula is there isn't really one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:28 AM
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People who don't like sports visit sports subreddits? Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:22 AM
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I've been visiting this subreddit since close to the beginning and I've been in a relationship for the majority of that time. I think there is a curiosity people have to things totally unrelated to their day to day lives, like when people watch WW2 documentaries, or mountain climbing movies or Indian matchmaking etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:02 AM
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Maybe. I've been with my now wife for over 10 years but I would give garbage dating advice because I haven't had to "date" for long time. Tinder wasn't even really a thing back then so those old methods might not even be relevant in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:56 AM
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Disagree somewhat. Getting a relationship with a 10 requires more sex appeal than getting casual sex from a 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:26 AM
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Sounds like DEI. I thought you all hated DEI?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:17 AM
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Figure out how to get your own place. In this day and age that will really differentiate you from many others. Get it shape. Nothing crazy but be able to do at least 5 clean pull ups. Get outside and just talk to women. Seriously, the best way to find someone that finds you attractive is to just interact with everyone that is willing until you make a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:07 AM
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Trump won't be running next election and no one else in that party is nearly as popular. So it's not really about the left losing young men, rather, if the right can't figure out how to get gen z and gen alpha women to switch sides, they are going to get demolished next time. Like Obama vs McCain levels of demolished.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:30 AM
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Or don't. Being single isn't bad, you get more free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:38 AM
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OP listed like 8 compatibility traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:24 PM
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That's why you don't tie yourself down to serious relationships until you are older and more knowing of what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:19 PM
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Zzz. I mean divorce rate is declining while people are more picky now than ever. Upside, you get everything you want and are fully happy. Downside, you stay single in the easiest time it is to be single in human history. Win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:30 PM
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Yeah but you just need to find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:16 PM
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I think it is better for everyone to be more selective. When you get everything you want the relationship is just easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:27 AM
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Dating successfully in high school (probably the easiest time to get hook ups) is a display of intellect and problem solving? Such a low bar, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:34 PM
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I mean, this is a pretty good thing, no? Better to be single than in a bad relationship is something that should be true for men and women. It seems to me men have it better than ever too. You can be permanently single and free of the responsibility of providing for a family, do whatever you want with your life. Unlike other generations you don't run the risk of being drafted into some deadly European war when you're 18. Living today is playing the game on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:18 PM
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Just break up? Say it was sexual incompatibility and move on to the plenty of other fish in the sea?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:07 PM
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Greek mythology is like the only subject in English class in junior high school that I didn't find very boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:01 PM
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I think less people in committed relationships overall, but the ones that are will be in better ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:14 PM
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Healthy relationship? No downside. Just like earning more money is better than earning less money when your job isn't stressful to you. But those questions don't make for interesting discussion because the answers are obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:08 PM
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No one deserves "sympathy" when it comes to dating and relationships. You get what you get and you don't get upset. No one can force anyone else fall in love with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:50 PM
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I mean a guy has more time. I think biologically speaking, probably better for a woman to have a kid younger if that is what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:39 PM
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https://www.bing.com/search?q=percentage+of+men+who+have+kids&setmkt=en-US&PC=EMMX01&form=LWS002&scope=web
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:15 PM
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lots of men struggling I mean over 60% of men 15 and over are fathers. Maybe there are many men struggling, but its certainly not a major issue. Same with women. Most people in general don't have dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:23 PM
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Indirectly, businesses shutting down can have a negative impact on local property values, like your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:35 AM
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What do they care, it's not their money?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:32 AM
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Seems like a win win win situation to me. Bar gets customers, women drink for cheap, men get to hit on women. Kind of lame to be happy this setup gets fucked with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:31 AM
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It's not discrimination, such policy's are for the benefit of men. Most men are straight and straight men don't want to be at bars without women to pick up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:42 AM
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Probably not, but like in all things, there are some winners and some losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:20 PM
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You going to cover the lost revenue? Ladies night isn't about ladies, it's about getting men to show up and spend money at the bar. And no I don't agree with abolishing promotions that are profitable. We don't need more establishments going out of business.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:51 PM
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Unhealthy, probably. It's also unhealthy to have a birth defect, a chronic illness, mental health issues, etc. Fact is, not everyone is going to grow old, and not everyone is going to experience romantic love. It's just the way the world is. I don't think it's a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:43 PM
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Due to all the weight loss drugs on the market now, people as a whole got less fat this year. So if that is what is stopping them, it's laziness that is the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:32 PM
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These apps were doomed once the novelty wore off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:36 AM
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No one wants millennials as friends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:23 PM
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I think there are older people that look younger and young people that look horrible for their age. People underestimate how much of an impact a good diet, drinking water, exercising, moisturizing, sleeping and keeping stress low make on ones appearance. Especially the last one, I think in general child free people look better older than people who have had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:06 PM
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It's already irrelevant, Gen Z don't use the dating apps at the rate millennials did. I think when the world looks back decades from now, Gen Y will be seen as a laughing stock on many fronts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:45 PM
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I call bs on this: https://www.military.com/daily-news/2022/09/28/new-pentagon-study-shows-77-of-young-americans-are-ineligible-military-service.html Gen z too fat to qualify for military service, very doubtful they go to the gym that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:55 AM
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It's not a problem. If the standards are so high that meeting them makes you a top percentile man, you don't have to feel like you were settled for if/when you do get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:04 AM
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tendency for modern women to only be attracted to top men is creating real problems for all of us What are the "problems"? Serious question, I don't have skin in the game and don't see an issue with anyone only going for top tier men/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:51 AM
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Oh you live around a bunch of those kind of ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:52 PM
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Very strange men you seem to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:33 PM
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How does a conversation flow to a point where a guy gets to proclaim his goodness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:26 PM
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I have never heard anyone, man or woman, refer to themselves as a nice guy/girl. Do people speak like that outside reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:49 PM
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Marriage only works if the only change that happens once you tie the knot is that you both are richer. Nothing else in your relationship should change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:59 AM
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Were you there? How do you know how things really were back in the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:59 PM
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Joke? Why is everything so disorganized?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:05 AM
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Sounds like a horrible life. Why even ever get married if it's all so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:00 AM
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Man there is always a better car, nicer home, etc. Also, vices. Drugs, hookers, gambling, etc. Get some designer drugs and bet on some fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:24 AM
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I am sure you can come up with a ton of fun things to do with all the money you are saving from not paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:28 AM
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Scientists should concentrate their efforts to try to create something to add at least 4-5 inches. Yeah maybe when every real medical issue in the world is resolved but until then...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:56 PM
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Taylor Swift is widely considered one of the hottest women who ever lived When did that become a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:42 PM
1

Its a tradeoff. You want to not be a virgin anymore, that's the risk you take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:19 PM
1

Everyone is skinny and awkward at 16. The level of competition will never get weaker than it was those years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:40 PM
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Half of men ages 18-20 are literal virgins. How do you get through high school still being a virgin? You got a 50/50 gender balance, no one can date older (because it is illegal), and you have all the free time in the world. Seems like the easiest time to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:21 PM
1

I mean I guess if all these women were like, the best gymnast ever, sure, I think they could land a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:09 PM
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No, every guy I know that is single has one or more major flaws. I don't think someone who actually put in the work to become wealthy and healthy would care that women weren't into him (which would be like a 1% chance of even being the case). They got too many good things happening to be down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:35 AM
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Yes. Short and ugly beats short, fat and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:39 AM
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Cultural phenomenon. My black friends are mostly with bigger women. My Asian friends are mostly with smaller women. I don't really have many white friends but the ones I do typically are a similar size to their wives/girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:32 AM
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At this point, unless you can verify completion of post graduate level studies on the subject matter, I really don't care to hear about Reddit's thoughts on male/female biology, on either side of the issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:54 PM
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Pre pandemic yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:35 AM
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They are here for the same reason they watch reality tv. They like drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:30 AM
2

Fools and their money are parted all the time. This isn't a compelling story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:09 PM
1

Relationship sex is more fulfilling because you don't have a wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:30 PM
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Depends on age. If say, a 40 year old dude says dating is hard, I am more inclined to listen than when a 20 year old says the same thing. Yeah it's hard for you, you are young, dumb and have no experiences in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:49 PM
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Isn't Hollywood full of feminine men that date supermodels? Doesn't seem to be such a death sentence these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:01 AM
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shut down social media Lol. Social media companies are some of the biggest and most powerful in the world. I find it hilarious that you speak of "unrealistic" expectations and in the same response speak of shutting down massive sectors of the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:11 PM
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In other news, water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:15 AM
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Oh not being able to survive isn't on the table. But things wouldn't be the same going forward. I think the deeper down a relationship path you go with someone the tougher it is to get over losing them. Replacing them also becomes tougher because you are used to a certain standard and won't settle for less than that unless you are dangerously afraid of being alone, which I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:23 PM
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It's almost like STEM is hard STEM isn't hard anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:44 AM
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Career is # 1, when I get a "win" at work I get this rush of energy that just feels great. Similar feeling when I get a win on fan duel or the stock/crypto market. Exercise is the 3rd thing that makes me feel great. I dread having to lift weights after a long hard day but once I get the work done there is this peaceful feeling and the air just tastes better. All that said, to be 100% honest with you, if I lost my wife at this point, I would never be the same again. You just get to a certain area…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:29 AM
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An utter lack of vision. Hundreds of thousands of dollars (plus sex) is a way better deal than some shitty one night stand once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:01 PM
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Lol. Dude got them amped up so much they were working and stressing themselves to give him hundreds of thousands of dollars, who the fuck cares about sex at that point when you got them so wrapped up. Oh, and he was sleeping with them too, so best of both worlds, but really that is just icing on the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:16 PM
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No I'm saying making it seem like you are a jet setting billionaire gets you better results than being a lowly gym instructor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:41 AM
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Well the guy was creating the perception of being a wealthy diamond broker flying around the world. That is a money flex not a body flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:08 AM
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The only men I know that are 30+ and single are either on the spectrum, big time stoners, or morbidly obese. The guys on the spectrum, yeah it will be pretty tough for them to find someone, sad but true. The drug addict, he really just works, smokes and reads comic books, I don't think he cares about finding a relationship. Now the obese guy, that one surprises a little because he has a good job and an active social life. He's over 6 feet tall so it goes to show being short and lean with some vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:05 AM
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Disagree. See the tinder swindler. The perception of wealth is a massive driver for tinder success.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:38 AM
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100% true. They also get to live in better houses in nicer neighborhoods, drive better cars, eat better, sleep better, pretty much everything across the board is better. Really, dates and relationships is not even in the top 5 of the many advantages they have over the average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:35 AM
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Yeah but we are talking about a whole other person here. This is not a situation that you really have direct control over, best you can do is manipulate the odds and wish. No point in being upset over stuff you can't control so that is why people are told to let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:28 AM
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Having been alone for a long time and in a relationship for a long time as well, I know how it is on both sides. Being in a relationship is better than being alone, but only if you really vibe with your girlfriend. Being alone was way better than the bad relationships I was in. However, the bigger point is, this is a situation that involves another party that you don't have control over. You can't force someone to fall in love with you so getting angry about that is pointless and a waste of time…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:24 PM
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Because of debate here? No. However, in the 8 years that have passed since joining this subreddit my views on dating and relationships have become more centrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:59 AM
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It's not a mistake if it's done on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:26 AM
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So no man is willingly raising a child that isn't biologically his?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:19 AM
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Some men are just meant to be cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:09 AM
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The murder rate there is still a quarter that of the USA even with America having a more equal gender balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:15 AM
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Because of this supply/demand imbalance for high-value men, most women will either have to forego monogamy, or forego hypergamy. Nope. She can have a kid with the guy she is attracted to and then rope some simp into raising it with her. There are plenty of simps to choose from in today's market, we haven't had a violent, Y chromosome destroying war since the 70s, so plenty of low value men willing to put up with anything to avoid loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:07 AM
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Imagine you're an average guy who works hard in school, gets a good job, has a 401k, a bright future ahead of you... but no woman wants you. God that sounds boring as fuck. Why would any of that be attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:49 AM
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You can’t possibly think everyone finds the same level of intimacy when engaging in sexual activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:20 PM
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Are you in love with your massage therapist? How about you doctors? No see even though there is physical tough involved when interacting with such professionals, you aren't in love with them. Sex can be the same thing, service provided for a fee.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:52 PM
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Bah, women in the dating market today got a fraction of the leverage compared to say, sellers in this real estate market, so I guess just be happy you are looking for a date and not a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:08 PM
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What up Megan Olivi, you gonna be at UFC 267?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:43 AM
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Lol at doctor's having problems getting dates. What's next, your professional athlete and musician friends having trouble attracting women too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:29 AM
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Today I am doing similar job for another big company in Canada. Too vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:49 PM
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No, because I don't know where you work today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:29 PM
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And do you expect to find salary in LinedIn? Yes. Company, job title and years in the field are basically a pay statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:19 PM
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Maybe I will start believing these nonsensical claims when the people who make them start giving out their LinkedIn for verification.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:01 PM
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You wouldn't be as crude IRL as you are online. TRP push the "48 Laws Of Power" like it's a religion. Well law 3 is literally "Conceal Your Intentions". Thus, if they actually played the game like they talk about it, you shouldn't be able to see a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:02 PM
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I disagree, my relationship is fantastic. This sub makes me appreciative of that fact every day. I too am in a great relationship, but you know, I'm not participating here everyday or anything like that. Some of those "incels" though, it's almost comical. I got into a long ass exchange with some dude who actually thought it was easier to get into the top 2% of income level than it was to get a date. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:51 PM
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That, I have no understanding of. Like, we are talking right now on the internet, but how would this conversation be different in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:40 PM
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Is most of the subreddit 4 or below on that scale? Probably not, but most of the ones that participate. Really, you aren't heavily participating on subreddits like this if you are in a good relationship. ​ I would say many of these guys probably find gym-maxxing in isolation much easier. If they actually went to the gym instead of just talking about it they would see improvement. When you work out hard, you just feel better, mentally and physically. People start to compliment you, which adds to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:29 PM
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I don’t claim to have the answers for those who are woefully below average physically. That seems to be a big chunk of the population of this subreddit to not have answers for. ​ If a man is “incel” because of how he acts, he’s still going to be “incel” and an image consultant won’t change alter in person interaction. The other side doesn't see that in you until you meet; and you can get coaching for the in person aspect when the time comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:14 PM
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So, hiring an image consultant would get incels dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:59 PM
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Is data from over a decade ago really relevant today?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:50 PM
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Because it's boring, unsexy, and doesn't sell. Edit: Also, the blackpoll is bullshit. Ideally, society would be likely better off if only attractive people could reproduce. The reality, this is simply untrue. Wife and I were at Blerdcon last weekend....suffice to say that if the people making up that constituency can get laid, no one really has a valid excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:38 PM
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Likely. Not a very active subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:35 PM
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It's basically the culture now, not "woke" culture, so never.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:33 PM
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Non-issue. Cities these days have returned to regular, pre-pandemic public transportation schedules. What about guys who don't live in cities? Your dating pool out there is basically non-existent to begin with so moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:31 PM
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Likely the most accurate take on this subreddit. Height vastly overrated. Social awkwardness is more of a detriment. I know all of 2 guys that are single. Both weird. One is a tall weirdo, the other an average height weirdo. Awkwardness is a game killer. Well that and smoking too much weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:49 AM
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Mentally ill is what he was. Shame all that crypto was lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:23 AM
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She mentioned he followed the redpill in the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:48 AM
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I did find it fascinating that a Jezebel writer had a redpiller for a brother. Fucking wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:19 AM
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I mean, people die from plastic surgery it's a risk. But look, he didn't need it. The article said he was dating, had girlfriends, etc. His insecurities weren't rooted in the reality of his situation, which was pretty fucking good, in my opinion. What a fucking first world problem this is, to be rich and smart and have relationships and still be so fucked up in the head. Total waste of a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:02 AM
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Height surgery gives you 4 inches maximum and can cripple you for life, you can't play sports, and have to take a year of recovery. 4 inches is a lot. Like I'm sure a 5'8" incel would feel different being now 6 foot. A year of recovery? Well good thing you earn so much that you can literally afford to take a year off and still pay for food and rent. Other guys, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:20 PM
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I don't think it's that hard to get into the top percent of earners. A basic understanding of calculus, linear algebra, and grinding leetcode or hackerrank is basically all it takes. With someone to help you I think most people with a bachelor's degree can get there. In a vacuum sure. However, these high salary positions are competitive, meaning its not enough to put in the work, you have to beat out everyone else who are also putting in the work. And that means being better than the vast majori…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:48 PM
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So lets assume we are all telling the truth here. Based on our discussion so far you're a high earner, fine, I think it is fair to then assume you have a strong comprehension of the principles of mathematics. Thus, mathematically explain to me how it is harder to get a date than it is to be in the top 1% of earners? I mean, if such a thing were true, wouldn't the human race go extinct? Furthermore, why would there be a correlation between lack of physical attractiveness and high wages? Rather, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:41 PM
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you are assuming I am hot or something You got money right? Get some surgery. You can conceal height/frame on camera. Create content (hire a writer/producer if you need to), get traffic, parse dms, smash thots. It's how it's done. and I don't want someone who just likes my money. And poor hawt guys get attention because of looks. They lose that, they done too. So its all the same. You're trading things of value for other things of value. the average or ugly looking ones are for sure struggling i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:07 PM
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Seriously start making whitty videos with the cool royalty free music talking about how you got to where you are at a young age and women will slide in your dms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:28 PM
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No, it's not. More people need to be educated on the danger of narcissistic relationships Yes 98th percentiles getting rinsed is such a big societal issue that we need to be very concerned about, lol. Yeah, no shit. That's why I didn't marry her. And when she realized that I wasn't falling into her trap, her mask came off and I saw the disgusting reality of who she was underneath. So you figured out in what, months what dumber men figured out in minutes? Congratulations? I refuse to be shamed by…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:41 PM
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You speak like someone who has never been seduced by a narcissist. A tad bit dramatic no? Or someone who doesn't understand that a man can be gifted at book learning and yet not understand how women work. There is a difference between book smarts and street smarts. However, in order to become rich you need both. If you just rely on book smarts you'll never make it because at all levels there will be people in the business who will try to cut you out of deals, steal/take credit for your work and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:24 PM
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So are you actually one of these 2 percenters with a ton of money but unable to find anyone willing to have it spent on them (lol) or is this fan fiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:27 PM
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Lol, the mere fact that you went to an Ivy means you aren't average. 14% acceptance rate and that's already from a small pool of applicants. $500K makes you a top 2 percenter. If they really do have all this money and still can't get a date put them in touch with me. For a relatively small fee, I'll get them dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:54 PM
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With $200K coming in at such a young age you are a few simple investments away from being a millionaire. Furthermore, when you are that successful you can sell the "secrets" to your success. Start a YouTube channel talking about making big money fast and you'll have all kinds of people sliding in your dms, because the allure of success is a drug especially to young unemployed recent grads and you're the dealer, and then pick the best one. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:05 PM
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So how are you both smart enough to make good money (which is very hard as you are in competition with other highly talented people) but dumb enough to get fooled into a bad relationship (which is so easy that even a high school dropout can detect and avoid)? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:14 AM
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I don't know, sounds like make believe. Can figure out how to make $200k (which puts them in the 96th percentile) but can't get a date lol. Buy a damn foreign and drive around town, you'll get interest almost immediately. Or pay for plastic surgery lol. This idea that rich men have trouble getting dates is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:06 AM
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Dude, he's got melted cheese on his broccoli, in addition to all the fried food.
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 08:08 AM
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Way too much saturated fat for one meal.
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 07:43 AM
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UBI. If you don't have to constantly worry about keeping the lights on you have more time/energy to "date".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:19 PM
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​ I'm American, so fat people are the norm, especially in The South. In the USA, most women are fat, most men are fat Big issue. These COVID times have taught us that being fat is a detriment to society at large. That is why obese people were eligible to get the vaccine at the same time as people with immune system disorders. That alone should tell you that being fat is an excessive burden on society and should not be accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:14 PM
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Fortune favors the bold. Regardless, personally I don't believe lack of height is this death sentence incels seam to think it is. Off the top of my head I could name at least a half dozen lil rappers that smashed countless instagram models.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:20 AM
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today, only shady surgeons would do that surgery I don't know, if you got the money I think finding a rogue surgeon to do that work is a much faster process than waiting for "a fundamental shift in societal balance of power between the sexes".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:10 AM
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Most doctors wouldn't do boob jobs in the olden days. Yet here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:38 PM
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If you are short, you are screwed You can get surgery to make yourself a few inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 10:51 PM
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Yawn, people worry way too much about finding "love". Chemically speaking, that feeling can be manufactured by taking a slightly higher dosage of your favorite drug. Text me if you're in NYC, I got quarantine specials, but selling out fast!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 07:30 AM
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Yeah but those women aren't looking to commit to an average guy. They have more leverage at that age than the men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 07:20 AM
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It's harder in your early 20s, but easier as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 07:16 AM
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Haha no. Proof: MMA flyweights. Exhibit 1. Exhibit 2. No, these guys aren't getting girls cause they're "rich". No one watches the flyweight division, they don't pull high PPV numbers, they are way underpaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:10 AM
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From 20s --> 30s that is a non issue. Average height increase occurs over generations so also a non issue. On relationships vs casual sex, in general a 20 something woman will want someone around her age to raise children with. I believe the average age difference in marriages is around 4 years. Casual sex only depends on looks and how "exciting" a life you lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 01:00 PM
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Height. Very important to women as far as factors that make a man attractive. And the thing about height is that unlike your other physical attributes, you don't lose it as you get older. So now you are in your 30's you're over 6 feet tall, if you eat right and exercise you're still at a good body fat %; but you also own that pad downtown that you don't share with room mates and you have all these stories about those sick vacations you took in remote parts of the world most people only see in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 01:40 AM
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