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Custody79709/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 02:46 PM
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Awesome! This is sorely needed. DM if seeking investment. What helped my mental health: online therapy sessions, diving into a hobby to keep my mind occupied, removing Facebook memory notifications from my feed, morning meditation, supplements. Body: I rebalanced my diet. No more junk or processed foods. Not a drop of alcohol and no more gummies. I fed my body properly to give me the best chance of survival. Guilt: I had to rid the guilt of a failed marriage and failing our kids. I shifted my fo…
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/25 03:23 PM
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That’s awful. I knew the whole thing was gonna fuck me up pretty bad so the day after we told our kids I started walking, eating healthy, stopped drinking and no more gummies for inflammation. I needed to be present and take care of my mind and body and give myself the best chance for survival. Packing up my shit and moving to Arizona helped too.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/25 02:34 PM
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Yes definitely needed. We’re all at different places in the process. Hurts my heart to see other men where I was 2 years ago…panic attacks, suicidal, no end in sight. Suicide rates for divorced men are off the charts. We need to seek help and have a place to vent. This sub is great for that. An app or site could be very helpful. Happy to say 2 years later I’m happier than ever, but I definitely didn’t see a future back then.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/25 09:56 PM
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Been there dude. We completely lose our identity when we go through this shit and it’s devastating. You’re in the depths of the transition but you can come out of it. Besides meds, there are ways to control your anxiety…eating healthy, exercise, stretching and breathing techniques, no drugs or alcohol. My therapist told me this story too. It helped for a little while. There is a battle of two wolves inside each of us. One is evil, representing anger, jealousy, greed. The other representing joy, …
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/25 01:26 PM
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Single divorced Dad. He basically told you to find someone more available. Back off from him and don’t push it. If he tries to reel you back in, great. If he doesn’t care you’ve backed off, then leave him alone and go your own way. Sounds like he’s not into it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/25 02:38 AM
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Ya it’s not for everyone. I like them to fly in for the weekend once a month or whatever.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/25 02:57 PM
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Long distance relationships only, preferably from another state or country. Three years after my divorce and I’ve never been happier. Great job, great house, and my golf game in Arizona is spot on. I love my life so much I’ll only do the living apart together thing now. I’ll never share a house or bed with anyone again. And marriage will never happen.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/25 02:07 PM
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This 100% Suicide rates for men are off the charts after divorce. I was there until my Mom saved me. Our roles as parents, husbands, providers disappear overnight. It’s a massive shift. Friends told me it would get better. I didnt see the light for the longest time but now three years later I’m happy again. You’re in the middle of it OP. Hang tough and get mental health help. It’s ok to cry and get help. It gets better. I promise.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 06:24 PM
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It’s take a couple years to reach this point. I felt like OP did but now I feel like you do. My golf game has never been better!
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/25 01:01 PM
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Because we don’t have support systems or ask for help. Suicide rates for men after divorce are off the charts. This sub is a good outlet. Seek help OP. It’s ok to see a therapist or vent here. Whatever helps you. We’re here for you. It’s ok to cry.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/25 12:59 PM
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Had my kids for the weekend and I was excited to take them to a movie. They said they’re saving that movie for mama. Gut punch. It’s gonna hurt brother. They’ll say and do things that seem hurtful but they’re just kids and don’t know any better yet. Absorb the pain and put on a strong face
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/25 02:56 AM
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This is an inspiring post. Thank you! I chose my happiness and rebuilt my life far away from my kids and ex-wife and so far it’s been the best decision. Me and my kids text and vacation once a year. I’m a better man and father because I moved away from my ex-wife’s orbit. My fear was my kids would forget me. Your post gave me hope they won’t.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/25 12:06 AM
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This will be one of the hardest days of your life. But kids are resilient!
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 09:41 PM
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Yes this is very true
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 01:10 AM
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Yup
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 06:33 PM
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Dude…this is my fear
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 05:48 PM
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The parroting of adult language hits home. Definitely phrases from their Mom. I’ll be consistent with flowers and cards and texts even if I don’t get a response.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 05:46 PM
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Yes. This is the decision I’ve made
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 04:05 PM
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I’ve got a court order. Feels weird ‘forcing’ the kids to see me. If I go this route I think each visit will feel less and less ‘forced’
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 03:42 PM
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Heard this loud and clear. She was controlling in the marriage and it’s continuing into coparenting and divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 03:33 PM
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Sounds similar. She’s a control freak on the track to them rebelling one day. I broke free, hopefully they will one day too.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 03:32 PM
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This is excellent advice. 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 03:31 PM
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Yup. She’s a control freak. I’m banking on them rebelling against her any year now. I’ll be here when they’re ready.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 03:30 PM
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