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Conversation7Birdies/r/seduction27/05/22 02:16 PM
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105

She got you good. Your teasing seems really forced. I would tone it back a bit and let it be more natural, especially on topics like beauty & weight that are really sensitive to women.
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:53 PM
1

Be careful of scams
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:54 PM
1

It looks like you used a potato to take these photos. And your outfits look like you’re a high school junior. A haircut, shave, better facial expression, and a wardrobe change will help!
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:06 AM
8

Don’t listen to this troll OP lol
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:49 PM
12

See a therapist about this and join an in real life community, with the goal of becoming self-reliant financially and having social interaction and developing social skills and quality acquaintances and relationships. Don’t try to “get the phase out of your system”—instead, take your time and savor the experiences and journeys of life like dating and sex. The women will come brother. Take care of yourself and find a purpose and direction you’d like to pursue. Women are not a shortcut to being ha…
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:46 PM
32

Seducing women will not help you here mate. I recommend a therapist or some good friends.
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:43 PM
2

I reported that & told her off she got issues
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:00 AM
1

Yo F off wtf is wrong with you. And she’s beautiful too. Probably more than you. Go suck my big toe.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:59 AM
1

Sis don’t quit your career coz you can’t find a man in it. I get it. The world is generally biased against black people. And it’s frustrating. Try to find your people and places that appreciate you. I know that can be hard. But really you’re beautiful, believe in family, have a good career, and you’re black. You have a lot going for you, despite peoples prejudices. I know you’re just venting here, but really you’re a catch so don’t let it dim your shine. You just gotta find the people & places w…
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:57 AM
4

Why do you have to hope she’s not in a group? Talk to the group.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:51 AM
2

Sad :(
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:14 PM
1

There’s no rule about this. Do what works. IG, snap, number, whatever
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:11 AM
3

Many many women have never experienced an orgasm before
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:07 AM
6

What happened in 2010? Lol
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:23 AM
13

That’s not true
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:48 PM
1

It means she doesn’t personally like you, even if there was friendliness, sexual tension, and even sex.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:40 PM
1

Me based u simp
/r/seduction19/06/22 06:37 PM
1

Based
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:29 PM
1

Lmao get baited
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:17 PM
5

Just get some sleep before you text lol
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:12 AM
1

Respect yourself
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:03 AM
0

Tough luck buddy that’s not how life works lol
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:24 AM
3

More traditional Asian girls (and people) tend to be really reserved, especially East Asians. South East Asians tend to be the less reserved Asians. Not all Asians of course, but it’s common.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:50 AM
1

Fuck off incel
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:48 AM
14

She probably wanted you to feel her boobs as a friend only
/r/seduction18/06/22 08:52 AM
19

Bro use your brain please
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:14 AM
1

U mad
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:41 PM
61

She probably did it as a friend or sister
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:30 PM
1

You usually won’t get what you want if you don’t appease the party that has the advantage. Which is why OP didn’t say anything. Or you could go eye for an eye. Men should be comfortable with standards, especially when the standard falls on them less heavily, instead of complaining and whining.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:06 PM
1

I’m not saying it’s nice or noble. I’m just telling you how it be.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:59 PM
0

Frankly, I think beauty is a less sensitive topic for men than women.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:39 PM
-1

Beauty is a much more sensitive topic to women than it is to men, which is why women don’t appreciate it when you ask about weight. Women are also more selective with partners, since men generally pursue and are competing with each other, so they are able to be a bit pickier than men. That’s why women can generally ask about your height, and you generally can’t ask about their weight, without someone getting offended. It’s not a double standard. It’s just that woman and men are not the same.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:25 PM
-7

You don’t really understand women
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:49 AM
0

Did the wind blow to the East or the West at 5pm? No one knows, and it doesn’t really matter.
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:31 AM
2

Yes!!!
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:22 AM
10

Learn how to fight well
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:11 AM
4

Women can do that too
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:11 AM
2

Hadn’t thought of it that way!
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:24 AM
2

Opener: “I like your tattoo” on her wrist :)
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:23 PM
1

Hm I didn’t get clues. I liked her was my clue :)
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:22 PM
1

Did it at the Thai restau near me a few years back. Went well!
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:29 AM
0

“Later tonight”
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:19 AM
2

Child support or HIV will ruin your life. If you can’t honestly trust her don’t risk it. Also like someone else said here, try SKYN brand condoms. Feels pretty close to condomless.
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:07 PM
1

Mate I recommend you get involved in some social activities. It will answer your question.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:09 AM
2

Loved this article on the topic: https://www.artofmanliness.com/character/behavior/semper-virilis-a-roadmap-to-manhood-in-the-21st-century/
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:31 AM
16

…ok?
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:30 AM
1

You’re 100% correct
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:09 AM
2

I think you did pretty well, but don’t apologize for yourself with phrases like “not to make it awkward,” “if you want,” “if not, that’s ok” etc. When you do or say something, say it boldly or not at all. If you make a mistake, correct it with a bold apology. Wavering in the middle makes people uncomfortable, and ironically, makes it awkward. She seems open to you, but neutral. You’ll have to charm and pursue her in a more sure way to seduce and persuade her to go with you. If you’re not sure sh…
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:38 AM
-3

Have you ever touched a woman my guy
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:10 PM
3

He didn’t. Hats off to OP
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:10 PM
-1

How so
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:10 PM
-8

What kind of stupid comment lol
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:10 PM
3

Think about what would make this person feel good and do that. This is for sexual and romantic seduction, but also for daily life socialization and persuasion. Get it bro you got this.
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:25 AM
3

Wat
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:52 AM
8

Social proof and a tiny bit of confidence
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:38 AM
1

Yeah I get what you mean. It’s definitely harder if you didn’t have a sturdy upbringing or were sheltered. Usually people who do well in seduction and well socially, in general, have had a lot of social interactions to learn from. I would say try to learn what makes women feel at ease and what doesn’t. Or better yet, just what makes people in general feel at ease. It’s much of the same. It’s just with sexual seduction, you add sexual suggestion. But taking the initiative to making friends, chatt…
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:47 PM
1

Isn’t that all learning though? Mistakes will always be made in learning anything. I mean it’s seen in the animal kingdom too. Courtship dances. Animals get rejected too. Men get creep shamed because they made the woman feel unsafe in their approach. I don’t know if you ever approached a cat on the street, but to pet a street cat, you have to approach properly. Approach too strongly or back the cat into a corner, and it will run. But if you leave the cat space to run, and approach gently, it wil…
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:32 PM
3

Ok I see. Well yes, you didn’t follow her. But on her side, it probably looked like it and she freaked out. Wrong place wrong time. Bad luck I guess. I wouldn’t take it personal homie.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:59 PM
5

It seems that these women are looking deeper into the personality and character of a person, and want a specific thing. Those things don’t reveal themselves suddenly, so maybe that’s why their attraction changes over time. In your case, it seems you’re satisfied with a pretty girl who is fairly polite, which is very broad, so maybe that’s why your attraction is more stable. I think this is a general trend between men and women also.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:38 PM
1

Yeah. Word for word this is what a girl told me once about this guy she made out with at the club: “We started dancing and I kissed him, and then we gave each other our IGs. The next day I looked at it and OMG he’s sooo ugly… his lips are way too big for his face.” I remember doing the same too… I met a girl in my night class in my first day of college, flirted with her and kissed her, and the next day in a day class I saw her and was in regret lol.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:28 PM
3

This is good advice for OP
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:35 AM
160

She liked how look in the dark, but didn’t like how you look in the light. You saying she was out of your league and how her demeanor changed completely when she saw you corroborates that. She probably made a BS story up because she doesn’t want to be mean and say it up front. Sorry brother.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:09 AM
0

Please don’t ever become a psychologist or counselor lol
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:09 PM
2

This belongs on a different sub. I wish you the best though!
/r/seduction06/06/22 01:17 AM
1

Not sure this is the right sub…
/r/seduction05/06/22 10:31 AM
10

If a girl moves away from you physically, don’t chase her… that seems very threatening. She probably asked for help or some guy thought she was in trouble. Don’t blame the girl. You made her feel unsafe by following her. Don’t do that. Make sure people feel comfortable and learn to read signs of discomfort.
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:39 AM
1

If they’re bland I just go and look for more interesting gorls
/r/seduction03/06/22 11:51 AM
3

Everyone deserves respecc and if they won’t give it then peace out!
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:26 AM
6

How long has it been? I would just wait. And if she doesn’t text back then I’d just assume she’s not interested. She gotta put more respecc on your name to be with ya
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:20 AM
2

Ah yes time travel!
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:00 AM
18

Buy foundation and concealer make up that matches your skin tone and apply
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:18 PM
2

Amen
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:43 PM
8

Yup. Started reading some books and working with a therapist to find a sense of purpose and self-reliance.
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:15 PM
1

Nah don’t come at OP. OP has a truthful point
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:07 PM
1

Perfetto
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:05 PM
1

Damn do you have a PhD in seduction coz woooweee you are right on the money
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:03 PM
2

You are wisdom
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:00 PM
1

I would agree with that. Men are more willing to be seen as sexual than women I think
/r/seduction01/06/22 12:25 AM
4

I think so. It’s more available to women than men
/r/seduction01/06/22 12:23 AM
3

Dance & grind with her brotha
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:17 PM
16

Yes. No face no case. Different zip code different girl. Don’t shit where you stay. That kind of thing
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:10 PM
3

UwU
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:18 AM
1

Bars & clubs & group activities & busy parts of the city
/r/seduction31/05/22 05:01 AM
10

Can I check it out?
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:52 AM
63

Dicks out for OP
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:16 AM
34

Username checks out
/r/seduction30/05/22 11:33 PM
13

Chicka chicka slim shady
/r/seduction30/05/22 11:33 PM
11

Agreed. I think you can influence that though, but not exclusively through words. I think what can help a woman want to talk to you is more in the delivery… tone of voice, body language, demeanor, expression… than the words themselves. Although clever words can help. But what is it that they say? Communication is 15% words, 85% body language? Something like that.
/r/seduction30/05/22 11:31 PM
38

“Hey! How are you?” “Did you just come from work?” “Hey, I like your phone case!” “Hey, I like your tattoo!”
/r/seduction30/05/22 10:06 PM
5

Ok? OP is asking specifically for help with it though
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:14 AM
1

I would wait until she hits you up. And then bring it up playfully then
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:55 PM
5

It’s not a kink. It’s just these people are persuasive and not naive. People like that. You can be like that while still being sweet.
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:32 PM
3

I would edit #1 to say the goal of dating is to have fun
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:21 PM
3

I usually try to comment or ask about something in our environment or situation that we both can relate to, or a compliment.
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:39 AM
1

With anyone, you never want to joke about topics that they are personally insecure about. For men that might be height. For women that is for sure beauty, and fashion is connected to that.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:38 AM
2

I’m ready to sell my soul just lmk when and where
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:17 AM
1

Yeah. I get it. Your post has helped me for sure. Thank you!
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:05 AM
1

Speaking of FF… Uniqlo just released a FF collab. Cop while there’s still supply!
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:53 AM
0

You lost me at “profit?” lol. Like you’re saying I might profit? Or there’s a thing called profit that I should be worried about? I don’t know what you’re talking about lol. I mean I wholeheartedly agree with your post and comment but it’s just very vague once again. Love laugh love. You don’t have to explain though. I’m just observing and getting a laugh out of it lol
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:52 AM
11

No, but it is very very vague! Lol
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:30 AM
5

My guy I hope you realize you’re being a dick in all your comments here. You are on some generic villain NPC shit right now.
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:14 AM
5

Holy shit we found challenger NPC! Let him know!!! (Also you’re def not NPC. I always appreciate your comments on this sub!)
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:12 AM
28

This like the “Live. Laugh. Love.” of Seddit
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:05 AM
18

We won’t ask, don’t worry.
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:09 AM
6

But I’m in a few hundred thousand hours already…
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:53 AM
31

This comment section is a mess. Tutorial NPC please help our dear OP here
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:38 AM
5

What happened to normal human decency and courtesy
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:37 AM
21

Lol your comments are dense
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:35 AM
26

Lol
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:33 AM
413

Damn this older gentleman is like the tutorial NPC Edit: where can I find him
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:01 AM
16

Damn this is wisdom. How did you come to this understanding? Exposing myself a bit here, but I ask because bars and clubs are not my forte (yet). Thanks for dropping this gem! Edit: alright you can stop downvoting me now tutorial NPC I’m trying aight
/r/seduction28/05/22 11:59 PM
65

I think this is a great way to start a boxing gym at your place
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:15 PM
4

They wanna get to know you in person. She might also be busy with work, chores, activities, etc.
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:09 PM
2

Maybe yes maybe no. Maybe she didn’t want that, or maybe it was too soon for her to hear that. Sometimes girls, and well people, like to just have fun and let the relationship happen. We will never know though. Only she does
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:03 AM
1

If you were looking to date beyond hook ups, what would change in your profile & approaches?
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:43 PM
1

Lead the way brotha thank you!
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:35 PM
1

Thank you brother! Curious—about how many cards did you go through & swipe right on to end up with those 50?
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:27 PM
48

I’m just glad you’re not in my area so that’s there’s still pussy left for me lmao. Thanks for sharing this brother it’s a really good look and observation as you say, especially the last part about relationships. Sometimes I wonder what the selling point of monogamy is when you can have them all, but seeing someone like you who’s been on both sides of it make those observations really restores my faith in it lol thanks again!
/r/seduction24/05/22 06:17 AM
1

This is the gold
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:24 AM
-1

TLDR anyone
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:24 PM
0

David Buss is da bomb dot com
/r/seduction20/05/22 04:33 AM
16

Hi can I have 4 peace chicken nugget? looks into your eyes intensely
/r/seduction20/05/22 04:33 AM
3

This is an A to B conversation so you can C yourself out
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:35 AM
2

Hello. You are about to enter negative Karma land. Please enjoy your stay.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:16 PM
1

I don’t know about y’all, but I love a fresh kitty. Y’all must never have heard of pussy power.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:15 PM
1

And the Olympic gold medal for the long jump to conclusions goes to…
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:14 PM
1

Are you a boxer? Because this is a really really long reach
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:13 PM
2

It sounds like you are obsessed with male genitalia
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:12 PM
1

My brain hurts
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:12 PM
1

What
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:10 PM
6

Hey how are you?
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:10 PM
3

You walk the talk brother
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:46 PM
6

Username checks out
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:14 PM
31

It’s coz of their kindness, emotional dependability, and genuine friendship brother. Don’t hate.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:00 AM
10

I hope all the redditors on this sub that shit on guys for wanting to pick up girls read this one lol. But to your post, it looks like you have a lot of good advice here! Good luck :)
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:27 PM
1

Idk man you asked her if she wanted to meet and she said she doesn’t because she’s talking to someone. But go for it if you really want to. Anything is possible. But if it doesn’t work out just remember she told you from the start.
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:40 AM
2

I don’t think hook up culture is as popular as you think. It’s just media & social media. There are lots of people who like to take things slow!
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:24 AM
1

She already told you no buddy
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:23 AM
1

Yeah it is. But when people talk about first move or initiative, usually they mean the action move. Women usually aren’t expected to do that, but of course they do what you said lots and lots of times
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:43 AM
9

Good on you for taking the criticism in stride! I honestly struggled with the same problem, but I kind of learned how to flip that kind of primal masculine switch in my mind, and kind of delved into the philosophy of it a bit. Started getting more matches as soon as I edited my profile with that in mind! I could share a YouTube vid & article that helped me do that. And it’s not canned PUA bullshit so don’t worry about that lol. DM me if you’re interested!
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:17 AM
1

I get it though. They get nervous like guys do too. We overthink things too. We’re all human here lol
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:10 AM
18

“Hey baby. Do you want me to die defending your honor? Choose wisely pls :’)”
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:03 AM
6

Wtf indeed
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:02 AM
1

Hm maybe try to compliment him or be curious about him! If he’s interested he’ll probably respond and if he keeps on then u cute :)
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:58 AM
1

If he’s single and he thinks you’re cute and he has a backbone it will be a very clear sign you like him! Guys are always thinking about women so you don’t have to do much lol. But if he is a little dumb (we are some times…) hmm you could compliment him on something or ask about him and his life! How you approach also depends on what you want out of the interaction too (sex only, casual dating, hopeful relationship, etc.)
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:37 AM
1

This vid helped me with this question a lot. You may like it! https://youtu.be/vWy3C38U7Lw
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:08 AM
1

Reddit makes my brain hurt sometimes
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:12 PM
1

Jesus i wish we could get an age limit on this sub lol
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:01 PM
3

Well then… Don’t attack the people who are brave enough to do what you choose not to do. You can do anything you like, even if you’re not the most attractive person out there. You’ll get the hang of this as you get older. Most people on this sub are adults 21+ and live in a different world than you. We’re not surrounded by classmates and community anymore like school and college age kids are. Just try to stay humble and show respect. Don’t go shitting on people coz they’re braver than you.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:51 PM
1

I like how u think :)
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:39 PM
2

You’re very kind and patient with this redditor replying to you trying to fight lol. Thanks for sharing great advice.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:28 PM
1

Thanks for giving me a bit of grace :) I agree! I actually like in person interactions so much more than online for that reason. It’s very easy to set your filters online and move on but in person you get to notice so much more about their mannerisms, personality, etc. that attracts you outside of your “type.” At least that’s my experience
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:20 PM
3

Yup. Social groups are ideal and not always reality in a globalized world. Gotta adapt and say hello to pretty lil miss.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:17 PM
6

I mean you are being very judgmental and out here cursing out people who wanna talk to a girl because she’s cute… like how do you think we all were born? Lol. Mama and dada said hello and did the deed
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:15 PM
1

My bad I didn’t mean it as asking you personally what’s wrong. I really like what you said actually! And appreciate you sticking up for human sexuality! Lol I meant it in general towards the people on this sub hating on that. I should have delineated better but I didn’t and made you feel attacked as a consequence. Really sorry!
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:11 PM
3

Right on brody. Ain’t nothing wrong with taking initiative to respectfully date, have sex, or get in a relationship.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:07 PM
2

I asked my waiter out once because she was cute and we had fun banter going. After a few dates we kept it platonic. We’re good friends now who keep up now and then. What’s so shallow or wrong about that?
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:05 PM
7

I mean what it so wrong about wanting to try and date someone you think is cute? Why are you even on this sub if you think sex and romance is so shallow?
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:57 PM
1

👍👍👍
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:25 PM
1

uwu
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:51 PM
2

I guess she liked you then lol
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:43 PM
2

Very true
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:24 PM
2

Username checks out lol. Hm you’re casting too dark a shadow on it. I mean what is all social interaction except “manipulation?” You are always always trying to influence people and get them to like you, whether it’s your parents, friends, or boss. That’s not nefarious as you insinuate. Humans are not inanimate stones ya know.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:29 PM
1

That means she didn’t like you lol
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:26 PM
0

Probably. Sounds like they think you want sex and only sex. Maybe a bit more of a holistic approach would make them feel more of a personal connection!
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:19 AM
2

Gotta innovate and find a way brother! Enjoy becoming a better man and being the winner. If that’s you in your pic then use your jawline brother. You’re more handsome than lots of guys! Lol.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:09 AM
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Yes, I’m thankful to those women who have made me feel special. It’s a meaningful question, but it’s a bit cynical. Women do get it so much more than men. This is a truth in life. Men compete for women, and women select. That’s the way things are. Women are beautiful, men are not, so they are the attractors and we pursue and try to convince them to choose us by making them feel special. Don’t let it get you down. The only woman you can count on to make you feel special is your mom and your wife.…
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:04 AM
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:)))
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:55 AM
1

Damn brother. Sorry things didn’t go your way with your ex and yet I’m so happy for you. I can relate. Needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing!!!
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:50 AM
1

Try feeding her when you guys are eating lol. “Here you need some help. feeds her fries”
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:26 AM
6

I wish some would hit me with the 👉🏼👈🏼
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:24 AM
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Say anything. Literally anything. You’d be surprised how little it takes to get a guys attention lol. “Hey :)” is enough to do the trick. You can get creative too, like a gif of an animal or cartoon saying hello. Send a single emoji. You could compliment him. You could send literally “.” and he would be like “wait why did this cute girl send me a random ass period” and will ask you about it lol. Guys are simple lol. Don’t you just love us?
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:23 AM
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That’s not the first “move” though. That’s an invitation for the male to make a move. But I get what you mean.
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:11 AM
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Testosterone. Not logic, but hormone. It’s how nearly all animals have operated since the beginning of time, and how humans have across civilizations and millennium. And it doesn’t stop at dating. It extends into coupled life, married life, fatherhood, etc. Think of it more as a law, like gravity. It’s kind of just how things are. I had an issue with it too once upon a time, as I’m more of a gentle natured male. And it was hard to understand. But once I understood and accepted it and “played by …
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:07 AM
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Haha idk. I never planned it but I just took the opportunity when I saw it! It was also just me being polite and trying to create nice fuzzy feelings lol. And just remembering it for next time. Living in crowded cities does that I guess lol. Could be planned could be spontaneous!
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:43 AM
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You got it! Find an excuse to touch her inoffensively and see if she returns the interest. In this example, after we pass the crowd, sometimes she lets go, sometimes she keeps holding, so you can gauge her comfort from there. Another good and simple way is just to offer your elbow to hold on to when you guys are strolling. She’ll either shy away or say no, or she’ll go for it, and then maybe even grab your hand after a bit. Or you could switch position after a bit to arm over her shoulder or low…
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:35 AM
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A trick of mine is to walk through a crowd with her, in front of her, and then to reach my hand back so she holds on and doesn’t get lost
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:47 AM
1

Bingo
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:28 AM
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He has a point here. Try to be the kind of person who would be able to set your eyes on another girl if she flaked on you. Looking at her as your sole chance for romance and sex is gonna make it really really hard to have a fun time—you’ll be too preoccupied with “omg I’m gonna lose her.” You don’t NEED her–there are other girls out there. But you are enjoying the time with her, so try to do that and only that.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:48 AM
2

Ghosting doesn’t mean not texting. It means ending the dating relationship without explanation.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:45 AM
1

Just have fun! You have a date for Thursday! Trust her with that. She’s an adult, not a child who needs to be reminded. If you genuinely wanna chat with her through the week, text her. If you’re busy or are not a texting kind of guy, don’t. Just be yourself and have fun with her. Let her decide whether she likes that or not. If she doesn’t like you, there’s other women out there who will yeah? Cliche right? Well, it looks like she likes you so far, so just enjoy your time with her.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:45 AM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:11 AM
3

Never did I call you a name? You yourself said you’re talking shit, and you’re also putting words in my mouth. Without the swears: You’re throwing contempt around and it’s not cool, so stop. Not that you would, but that’s all I’m saying.
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:55 PM
2

I don’t even know who you are or what that has to do with anything. I just saw you shitting on OP. And I’m not even saying OP is right in his post—I didn’t read it. I’m just saying if you’re not just gonna be throwing shit around, go away.
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:49 PM
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If you wanna debate and disagree with some kind of respect, sure. The others are doing it. But if not go take your aggressive shit somewhere else. Go away.
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:42 PM
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Don’t put words in my mouth. Here you can have them back lol. I mean if you have an issue with what he said, sure, point it out. Like u/thenextbigcrash did. That’s respectable, fair enough. But you’re not doing that. You’re just talking shit lol
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:18 PM
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It’s his post? You go away lol
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:00 PM
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Love it. It’s good to get a girl but it’s good to just aim for a good time all in all, especially if you like socializing. That’s for sharing!!!
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:52 PM
1

You may be a psychopath
/r/seduction15/05/22 07:40 PM
1

Women put their own legs behind their ears? What? Lol
/r/seduction15/05/22 07:02 PM
1

Ever heard of or experienced post-coital tristesse? Aka post nut clarity aka post sex blues aka cigarettes after sex. Sometimes people get a little sad for a bit after sex. Maybe ask her about it. Or don’t. I wouldn’t worry too much about it!
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:50 PM
1

What is it
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:44 PM
1

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha so funny
/r/seduction15/05/22 05:57 PM
1

Dude who hurt you
/r/seduction15/05/22 05:36 PM
1

Once again, what does that mean lol
/r/seduction15/05/22 05:34 PM
1

You must be doing something wrong. Figure out what you need to change and try again! You got this
/r/seduction15/05/22 05:33 PM
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Don’t listen to this comment OP. Just get fit work on yourself and practice and you’ll get it
/r/seduction15/05/22 03:30 AM
1

Thanks for this
/r/seduction15/05/22 01:44 AM
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True
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:49 PM
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I think that’s what he meant
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:29 PM
1

Username checks out
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:03 PM
4

It’s hard. I would say try to put yourself in a system that will support you. Example: you’ve gained weight and aren’t exercising. Join a fitness group, like BJJ or a team sport. It will help.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:06 PM
1

Look up positive and negative feedback loops
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:28 PM
2

The only way to know is to ask her. I would just not take it personally and move on.
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:49 AM
2

Girls like men get nervous many times. Check to see if she looks back at you moments later
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:42 AM
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The brother is just trying to inspire damn Jackie
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:20 AM
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Very true. It’s a law of life. Aka the Pareto principle. Aka “The rich become richer, the poor become poorer.” Aka “To him who has, more will be given, and to him who has not, even that will be taken from him.” Cycles are a thing, whether they are downward or upward cycles. Let’s get stuck in upward ones.
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:20 AM
1

No. This comes across really predatory and creepy and pathetic and just plain dumb. What are you gonna do when she goes home with you? Pretend your arm is broken the whole night? Lol. Just work on showing interest in an inoffensive way to overcome stranger danger.
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:55 AM
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Oops sorry. I meant to reply to a diff comment of yours. But yeah I get you.
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:49 AM
1

There is no way to find out unless you ask her lol
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:42 AM
1

If you love her, you realistically can’t have something casual with her. Unless you move on completely and 5 years later hook up or something. Best to move on. It sucks sometimes bro I’m sorry. But you’ll be alright.
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:38 AM
1

I think snap/insta is usually better! Try to focus on just having fun with her and you’re golden. You got this! Feel free to DM me if you need help or advice brother
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:10 AM
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Fear has got the best of you right now I think lol. It’s normal. It happens. When it happens to me I tell myself I’m only human and there’s nothing wrong with liking someone. It helps a bit. Give it a shot!
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:33 AM
1

You can go fucc off
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:32 AM
1

My man
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:30 AM
1

Just B corny
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:27 AM
3

Nothing wrong with that! I’m the same actually
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:26 AM
3

They have a good strategy, though. Keep trying until you succeed
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:20 AM
4

And there is nothing wrong with that. Women are more selective than men. Try more, and you will both fail and win more.
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:40 PM
1

Talk to a therapist
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:34 PM
1

You sit behind on the bus, which is great. It’s ok if she turns around. People turn around in their seats to talk to people all the time lol. Tap her or say hi and have fun talking to her.
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:28 PM
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Agreed! It’s so great you can make her feel comfortable to let loose and open up. Reminds me of one of my past gfs. Wouldn’t dare say a word to a stranger. But to me? Annoying me and grabbing my butt all day with passion lol. You’ll get it OP u/No-Budget9882! Just, don’t make enemies with the people who are succeeding! Try to learn from them and good resources, and to get in the game a bit more and watch a bit less.
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:50 PM
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Idk man are you listening in on their dates? You probably won’t hear me broadcast my conversation with my girl or target to the room. Men interact differently with women than they would with you, because they’re sexually interested in women. You’re also setting them up as your enemies in your mind, which makes it even harder to get along, and in the end works against you in finding a girl. Focus on yourself king. Stop hating on men who have succeeded lol
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:43 PM
3

Hmm trying pick up books on conversation or psychology. The YouTube channel School of Life helped me a lot, and honestly, talking through sexual and personal fears and insecurities with a good therapist
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:33 PM
7

Uh oh we got a sigma over here
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:11 PM
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Dude if you’re saying you’ve approached a hundred women in person and you’ve never asked any out, and alternatively, women you meet on apps have issues, then I think you may want to take a look in the mirror, rather than lambasting other men and women who have actually successfully coupled up. There is probably something self-limiting in you, rather than outside of you, that is barring you from success.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:10 PM
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The way they talk to women is probably different than the way they talk to you and other men. Also, lots of guys act differently when getting the girl. There’s a lot of effort to be entertaining and charming and stylish. After you get her, lots of them settle down, put on weight, and change priorities and feel less of a need to socialize. Maybe not the best way to keep a woman, but it’s what happens. Been there done that.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:07 PM
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You want to figure out what you want out of the interaction and go straight for it. Most times it’s to meet up in person to have fun, whether sex or not, instead of just chatting online. Of course, you’re learning (as we all are, at different levels) and taking your time. I think commenter is saying that you seem to be stalling the meet up process though.
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:25 AM
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Sexy is good. You don’t have to use the word sexy necessarily. But you just want to make sure you get it across clearly and inoffensively that you are interested in her sexually, if you are. Only say things you can say boldly. If you make a mistake, that’s ok. Just make an even bolder apology. I’ve been there before. If you’re interested in reading up a bit I can share some of the things that helped me understand it all. Keep practicing you got this! Good job!
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:16 AM
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My man asking the real questions here
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:13 AM
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