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and the rules and BS the Dems pushed on us was better? HORSESHIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:45 PM
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in my experience you are mostly correct. I have typically focused on the womans pleasure, and yes they don't like being jackhammered UNLESS they are on the edge of their orgasm. Most guys can't pound away for 20+ minutes either. Most of the women I have known like the slow steady and as they get closer ramp up the pace, once they orgasm and you're giving it all ya got 30 seconds and BOOM done then its after care etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:03 PM
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that has a certain ring of truth, I was in the daying scene late 70s early 80s. If I got shot down, I moved on, to the next lady I found attractive, then again this was in a club or bar so it was expected that guys would approach, went with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:03 PM
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on one hand, women say they like men that are confident, but on the other hand don't want men to approach them cause it's creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:47 PM
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not his? no problem if she's upfront about it and he is accepting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:14 PM
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Trust? hmm seems to me paternity tests are the ultimate lie detector test. so you just want me to trust that their wife is gonna go get knocked up whoever she wants. If a guy is a cuck and the couple wants it that way is one thing. If a wife doesn't want to have children with the husband she should just divorce him and marry the other guy, oh but wait hubby has a job, and Mr Studly only works sometimes but he's a badboy and a great fuck. Oh boohoo make a choise and live with it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:49 AM
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well I was just being sarcastic. Wasn't really making an argument against. I can imagine that with cultural differences in other regions it would allow women to be more comfortable, and some males, won't dignify them by saying men are certainly overbearing etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:17 PM
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oh my I'm Sooo dangerous, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:09 AM
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With the hotwife phenomenon increasing it appears that women want masculine IE typically conservative men to have hot sex with but marry less masculine - liberal men that more align with their views, an oversimplification? likely but seems quite reasonable from my pov
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:03 AM
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I've had quite a few women "want" me. Some short term a few longer term,. Married 40+ years now, she loves me but doesn't "want" me like she used to. Desire is influenced by OH so many factors. But does still want me often enough that the love is enough the rest of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:28 PM
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Not sure if 13 bodies as too many was an arbitrary number or not. I do agree with being transparent about pay/past, for some 13 would not be too many and $15 might be acceptable, but not for others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:42 AM
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Who's Kool-Aid have you been drinking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:58 PM
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I don't know if it's about validation, when I'm attracted to a woman, I'm also aroused, and well when aroused what does one want to do be it a man or a woman. You want to touch, feel and pleasure the other person. it's just in our natire
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:46 AM
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Smart ass, lol, NO when I was 18 to 25
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:11 PM
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Yup a female wingman ,er woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:53 PM
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I'm 62 now, still in decent shape, but out of the scene. But back in the day when I was hittin the bars and such I was fairly successful. I considered myself a bit above avg, with an outgoing personality. I was true to myself and just enjoyed the company of women. I guess women just pick up on that, very tried too hard, if they weren't interested I'd just move on. Also found that women check guys out that are with an attractive woman, kinda like "hmm wonder what he's got that she likes" an attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:17 AM
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Agree completely, and some couples enter into marriage with their eyes wide open knowing each will have to adjust and accept and compromise. They are the ones that survive like the wife and I 40 yrs + and going
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:29 PM
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I'm not saying that is every couple but I've seen it enough to know it's a real issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:21 PM
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Well that's another issue trying/wanting someone to change who/what they are. While people can CHANGE IF they want to going into something expecting to change someone is a recipe for failure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:17 PM
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Well the answer is as you have probably guessed yes and no, you'll always remember them and the sex, but you are likely to meet someone that is just averagely attractive but the sex will blow you're mind. I think that those of us that end up having quite a few sexual partners will remember one that"got away" most that work on a LTR will find that the sex becomes just as mind blowing, both of you just need to keep "working it"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:28 PM
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Body count never mattered to me, Actually most times it was a plus as they were more experienced enjoyed life and sex and had less hangups
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:55 AM
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They weren't prostitutes, but dancers in an upscale gentleman's club, At least in the instances of the two women I met, different cities/worked different clubs, they went in with a plan and got out. They have good careers. One is married has a family and hubby knows all. Maybe technically they weren't sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:12 AM
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As far as the last paragraph goes and of course it does not apply to all. I have met several women that were exotic dancers to fund the college studies and also put away a good start on a retirement fund. They were smart had a plan and saw it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:25 AM
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Who considers reading and viewing the sexy subs here on reddit porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:37 AM
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Yeah I've come across a few of those luckily they're not too hard to spot and I get the he'll away from them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:21 PM
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Sex is not men's only love language at least not mine. While casual sex equates to mostly fun sex. In a commited relationship sex is my ultimate expression on love.doing all I can to give them pleasure and they me is a deeply shared experience. Between sex sessions is simple touch, eye contact, a simple smile. Doing things for each other. Those are all part of my love language
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:05 PM
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I can relate, I from17 to21 I dated,hooked up etc with a lot of gals, though most were NOT ons's. I got a bit of a reputation but I was looking for a LTR, once I found the right one, well we're 40 + years now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:24 AM
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Ok thanks that gives me the context I needed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:29 PM
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And a Chad is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:22 PM
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Not up on the vernacular what is a stacie? But yes on the rest. A woman's posture ,demeanor, style of dress, body language will indicate if she is confidant in herself and approachable, big boobs can certainly make a guy hope she's approachable, but even form fitting clothing and smaller breasts will catch a guys eye particularly if pokies or braless is apparent. I have a fairly wide range of things that make a woman approachable for me and it's a combination of them that give my brain the go si…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:59 PM
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Yes I've done it too many times to count, they actually push my head away as they can't take any more, and the look in their eyes is Omg do anything you want to me I'm all yours
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:51 AM
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At least in my experience I have found that having the skill to get a woman off orally, as well as quickly and multiple times establishes my dominant nature very effectively, while being in a physical position that appears submissive and serving appearances are very deceiving since once I have made her come over and over most women are only too happy to submit to my masculine charms from there on out. That being said role reversal and letting them "take control" from time to time and "submitting…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:32 AM
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Yes I tend to agree with you, I did learn some and some was almost instinctual, having a slightly above average tool helped some but knowing how to use it accounted for most of it. Studies show most women don't O from PIV but most of women I knew had no problem having a O or multiple Os and those that didn't I knew how to take care of that as well. I think "just gets it" is wanting to give the woman as much pleasure as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:05 AM
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Hmm, Can't argue with you're observations, but I'm of avg height 5-10, married. 5-11 Sexy amazon of a woman. She was not drop dead gorgeous or have a supermodel figure. But she is average beautiful and wonderfully curvy with just that little bit extra all over. I dated quite a few taller gals 5-7 to 6 ft. I never felt intimidated or inadequate in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:43 AM
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You are correct, but in many ways they seem more confused and have more anxieties. Sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:57 AM
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They are different yet the same, reading posts on subs like dead bedrooms,sex,married sex, and others the issue of communication remains. These are different times yes but as has been said the more things change the more they remain the same. Sad but often true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:36 AM
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Sorry but not all women are blabber mouths, out ofthe women I was with probably 60% was trial and error with them, EVEN WHEN ASKED they really weren't forth coming of what they enjoyed / or got them hot and bothered and I came of age in the mid 70s and was VERY active into the early 80s, till I met my wife. But that is another wonderful story ALTOGETHER. So don't say all women will tell you upfront I like this and this and this. Hell alot of times they don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:37 AM
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Yes, I have seen those, But when a woman or man enter a relationship knowing that sex Is very important to the other partner but continue in the relationship knowing that up the road their libido will wane or are only engaging in sex only to gain the relationship is fraudulent. Now if both parties go in knowingly and keep up their end of the commitment. Then it should be a good relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:35 AM
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A friend of mine read a book don't remember the title. Be he said the premise was- men enter into a relationship for sex and women have sex to get a relationship. The wording is probably not quite right but that was the gist. While it is an oversimplification it is the basis for the treatise. From many of the posts I've seen on various subs here on reddit. It rings quite true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:29 AM
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It is if you're not getting any or so it would seem. I have a buddy who is divorced does a lot of reading.He relayed a wisdom he had read. Women give sex to have a relationship, and men have relationships to have sex. Yes while this is a huge generalisation, it does have a ring of truth for many, also sometimes this is reversed. But I'm sure it hits the nail on the head for many
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:16 AM
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Guy here I have been with gals I would say are 9's, and down to 5's and everywhere in between, I have to say that while those that were on the lower end of the scale may not have been the most beautiful, but I found something about their faces beautiful. Some of the more attractive( societal wise) were sometimes hard to look at for very long, almost too beautiful in a way. The 5 to say 7.5's were much "easier on the Eyes" in many ways and I found them overall more attractive than many of the 8 t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:11 AM
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Replied how my concept is, I will have to contemplate the question a bit further
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:31 PM
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Well for me it was sharing my life dreams goals etc , as well as her being someone that I would enjoy an intimate relationship with for the rest of my life, children or not. I think going thru life and not having someone to share it with would be very sad and hollow. Of course not everyone feels that way and are quite happy being with just themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:43 PM
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While I'm no Brad Pitt, many women have found me quite attractive. And I have always left them with a smile on their face, and they ask when I'll be back, I always return as I'm no ONS type, I like to come back and show them a even better time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:18 AM
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Okay then just disregard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 11:11 PM
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While the post originated on the concept of "easy" I thought we had moved past that into the realm of meeting and social interaction. Sex is only a possible outcome, based on connection
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 10:37 PM
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Actually both men and women harm each other if the "advances" your word, are rejected based Solely on looks or the notion of I'm a 9 and you're a 7 you're not worthy of even talking to me. I have experienced it more than once. Though thankfully I got over it and married well, on all counts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:33 PM
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What do you mean OUR problem, to whom do you refer to. this is a "debate" sub is it not. You can disagree that is your right. It was my perspective, I try to show respect to everyone. The truth is we all make generalizations, so discussions don't get to personal. My apologies if I struck a raw nerve
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:19 PM
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I can understand why you think that way. But its more of a defense mechanism. You get shot down if flames by the 8 to 9s so one has to lower our expectation to get a little bit of self esteem back, so we can feel worthy of being with someone, and you know what a lot of times we realize that the 5 to 7s were the 10s all along. It's a process and dating/ relationships happen along the way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:07 PM
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It's funny sometimes even in entertainment, we're a woman may not be considered beautiful in the face but considered as a whole is attractive/sexy, Ellen Barkin comes to mind. Also some women are somewhat plain facially but there is just something about them that makes them,,, well_____ Beautiful. All in all is a combination of things that make a woman attractive or unattractive. Looks, personality,shape. Then of course there is money and or power, both huge aphrodisiacs at times whether male or…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:07 PM
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Great analogy, and sometimes she's a 5or 6 or even lower facially. But has a 10 bod
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:32 PM
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Can't speak for anyone else, but I believe my N count is high but not excessively? My longest relationship during the count accumulation was about about 6 months. I just would realize that they weren't " the one" and would move on , they understood, probably having the same realization. We would part as friends. When I found the ONE it's been 40 Years and counting. So I would say that just because a guy has a high N count and lacks a LTR pedigree , give a guy a chance, ya never know unless you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:46 PM
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The sex drive OR the biological imperative to reproduce, is very strong but I disagree that it is the only thing that matters in life. While much of what we do early in our live is to attract a mate if you will, there are things like working to improve the human condition. A LOT. Of one's attention is focused on the opposite sex, but if we find said mate it allows us to lessen our focus and divert some to other pursuits, though the Being attractive to one's mate or sex partner/s/ remains for mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:06 PM
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My count is 32, having given it only 3 were ONS's and none were intentional, one was on her part she was basically notching her bedpost, I did get a bit of a rep but I was only looking for my match which I did find. 40 yrs and counting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:28 AM
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Read song of Solomon
/r/RPChristians08/02/21 05:57 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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