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| 50 | Ever notice that "Alpha males" have no real friends?That’s why they want to control a woman, they don’t know how to make friends so they want to control and trap a woman so she doesn’t leave him and he’s therefore not lonely. Zero accountability. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/25 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Redpill is despair inducingI’m a middle aged woman and I have to say, “stop getting dating advice from idiots on the internet”. Please for the love of whoever you hold as holy, don’t listen to these strangers. They don’t know anything about you, your situation, or women for that matter. Healthy women want an honest relationship with accountability and honesty. Anybody worth your time wants accountability and honesty. The best relationships are the ones where there’s mutual respect, honesty, and accountability. Anyone who … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/24 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?You’re right, the studies do show that and correlation isn’t causation is also correct. There are usually other variables with high body counts, ie. mental illness, insecure attachment, sexual assault history. Current mental health of the person matters more. Some people can experience very little trauma and can never find their way out while others can experience tremendous trauma and are much more resilient. I think it’s important to first vet in order assess the person correctly and not worry… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Question to r/exredpill; Do the women in these videos exist in the real world? How do you avoid them? I mean r/exredpill tells me that these women don't exist.Exactly what I was thinking. I like how women are being told by men how to behave towards other women. Talk about being completely tone deaf and completely out of line. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/22 03:11 PM |
| -3 | We are dating but she still wanna meet her ex Boyfriend, is it a red flag?Dude, you’ve been dating 2 weeks. Slow it down. At this point it’s none of your business and you’re coming off creepy af. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | "Why would you support the act of making women quit a job that THEY CHOOSE?" This question, keeps me awake at night, and I always end in: The world is going insane.Chicken | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/05/22 02:39 AM |
| 4 | That didn't go well for Frest & Fit...Me neither, but damn that was enjoyable to watch! | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 04:46 PM |
| -1 | "Why would you support the act of making women quit a job that THEY CHOOSE?" This question, keeps me awake at night, and I always end in: The world is going insane.How old are you? Seriously, because you can’t know much history. Every meaningful social change happens protesting in the streets which eventually pressure all three branches of government to make such changes. Politicians don’t just one day come up with this stuff, it’s the people that lead the charge in the streets. Feminism, the Seneca Falls Convention, and protesting in the streets is why Women’s Suffrage happened. Protesting in the streets for Civil Right, along with the Selma Riot, and the… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/05/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Trying to do mental gymnastics so you can confirm your own narrative isn’t a firm or engaging argument. You are purposely not listening to what women are telling you they experience. You wouldn’t know because you’re not a woman so listen to women when they say this stuff happens to them. If you don’t live on Mars, how would you know how daily life is on Mars? Would you listen to a Martian or would ignore said Martian and say you know better even though you live on Earth? You can only speculate a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?If you want to know, why don’t you just read about it in the handbook. Here’s what it means to be a HVW and a HVM according to FDS. I wouldn’t ask Reddit, go straight to the source. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hwg0bt/high_value_men_and_what_it_means_to_be_one/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e6rcqu/traits_of_the_very_most_desirable_women/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Here you go…here’s a receipt…straight from the handbook. It clearly says that it’s not about being rich. You have eyes and a brain, but you seem to suffer from cognitive dissonance or the inability to read anything longer than a paragraph so… https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hwg0bt/high_value_men_and_what_it_means_to_be_one/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Funny…because I know exactly what it means…an insult that has nothing to do with the topic to put someone down and screw with their sense of what’s really going on. That’s classic beginning gaslighting. It’s so clear. You just don’t want to admit that you use abuser’s tactics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?I question if any man on here has ever touched a live woman. You guys are so out of touch it’s not even funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Good story, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?And? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Classic abuser! You outed yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Classic abuser gaslighting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?You’re clueless. You don’t have a daughter, so how the hell would you know how you would feel if you had one? It’s easy to say that now, wait until you’re a parent. You can’t decide what your kid is going to be interested in. Maybe she likes being nerdy, who cares, it’s your kid and they should be free to develop their own interests outside of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Being smart about men and protecting yourself isn’t the same thing as fearing men. The fact you’re fighting so hard against what women are telling you what actually happens to them speaks clearly on what kind of man/boy/person you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Probably. Chances are very high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Yes they are. Everything you’re stating lines up with what they say. They empathize the courting phase on when a man needs to show their worth while you vet. We spend A LOT more money and time on self-care (hair, makeup, facials, exercise, etc). They can at least cover dates during the courting phase, it’s a drop in the bucket of what women spend to make themselves attractive to the same men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?How much does it cost in money and time for a woman to keep herself looking good for men? It’s a lot and for a man it’s pennies comparably, so a man (emphasis on man) shouldn’t think twice about paying for dinner. Until men put in as much effort and money as women do to make themselves attractive to men, they need to keep paying for dates during the courting phase. Once there’s a commitment and a true relationship has been established, then things should adjust and it should be based mutual resp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Not true. HVM doesn’t mean rich…it means a man who will treat you with value, I.e. mutual respect and care. People who don’t read the handbook assume it means what RPM think, rich. That is red pill talk not FDS. Per FDS; High value man = treats you well, respects you and your boundaries, and has shared interests (doesn’t have to be rich or tall). Per red pill; high value man = rich, attractive, and powerful. Completely different motivations and definitions. Edit: added a few words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?So letting go of toxic friends is bad? Wow! I didn’t women were expected to care for all the toxic people on earth?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?FDS is essentially a guidebook for women on how to spot red flags, how to vet a man to make sure they’re not just trying use your for sex, and how to safely set boundaries (this applies to every relationship). Good men that aren’t trying to game women don’t usually see an issue with FDS, it’s usually the ones who want to game women that do. They out themselves every single time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Yes! Ding ding ding! You see, these men/boys that are commenting that FDS is bad, don’t want women to have self-respect because is messes with their game. It’s hard to make a woman your free prostitute and maid if she respect herself and has boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Ex model here too. I’ve been bombarded with attention 90% of the time from terrible men, most don’t even try to hide how horrendous they are. The good ones don’t approach you, they meet you during shared activities. Ugh! This dude has no clue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Where have you been living? Under a rock? Because that’s the only place you can possibly live and think this way. You definitely don’t have a handle on logic because none of what you said makes any logical sense. If women are telling you this is happening to them, believe them. You want a woman to love you, so believe women. Try to treat them decent instead of playing your stupid games and trying to push sex on them too early that makes us need to vet you. Your negging, sHiT test, and all your o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?This is 100% factually correct and very wise. To think or try to convince otherwise is either naive or sinister. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?YES, THEY DO! You’re implying that attractive women only attract decent men which is factually and demonstrously false and makes no actual logical sense. It’s across the board for all women. Men trying to get in their pants on the first date without effort. It’s our bodies and we have the right to not let men have access. When a woman is attractive it’s actually worse because you have to vet so many different types of guys and the majority of them just want to use you. So, you have to vet to fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Unfortunately, most of those men are condescending, misogynistic, and abusive. Hence the vetting. Good men don’t usually cold approach you, they meet you through shared activities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?You’re asking for evidence from wedontneednoaqua when you’re the one who claimed that all of FDS are single moms! That’s rich! That’s some lazy gaslighting there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a single mom? Why or why not?Someone who isn’t a child’s parent won’t have their best interest in mind, that’s why. How many times do you hear about a boyfriend murdering a single mom’s kids because he was jealous. That’s a hard no giving someone who’s not an emotionally committed parent authority. Moms have to protect their kids, it’s a powerful biological component to motherhood. It’s insane for a man to think they should have a say in how a child that’s not their own is raised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:14 AM |
| 5 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 44 - Billie Eilish & How The Media Groomed A Generation of GirlsYes, 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 10:02 PM |
| 36 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!Me too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | I have mixed feelingsYes! This is SO spot on! | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/21 05:10 AM |
| 5 | Just a rant. I really hate Kevin Samuels.Don’t even know who this guy is, but he sounds like a moron with deep deep issues. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/21 04:47 AM |
| 2 | 23 year old Ex incel/redpill. Got pulled in when I was 15 or 16.You’re not an incel if you’re a virgin. That’s just stupid. Incels don’t tend to have rational thoughts and are therefore based on their ideologies and complete instability. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | My story of becoming Red Pill believer..She did you a favor, you don’t want a woman like that. You want someone who knows themselves and respects you and won’t bail on you when you need them. It doesn’t sound like she respected you to begin with and mutual respect is absolutely essential in any relationship. Just because people are damaged doesn’t make TRP true or effective at long-term happiness. RP people are incredibly damaged, you don’t want to be associated with their kind. Any quality woman will be immediately turned off by the … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/21 04:21 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand how there is RedPillWomen.. Actually in a way I do, if yiu mean you want traditional relationship dynamic, but I do not understand how woman could agree eith ideology rhat tells them they are all certain way. Any ex-red pill women out there or do you otherwise know why there are?First of all, stop calling women girls. An equal division of household labor is a good start if you want women to have children. Part of the problem is women are tired of having to be men’s mothers while working full time and taking on most of the household labor, ie. “the second shift”. The shift is happening because women are done with inequality and rather live alone than to be a literal slave to some guy that will probably cheat on her anyway. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/21 04:07 AM |
| 8 | How can I get over RedPill?Seriously. Be you and own it. Take care of yourself and your health. There’s nothing more attractive than confidence and a man who values himself. Lean into your love of culture, deep thought, and intelligence. There aren’t a lot of men like you out there and good, stable women are attractive to men like you. Trust me on this. Look for confident women and ask them out. These are the women who will care more for your character than superficial qualities. Don’t settle for a woman who won’t set bou… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/21 03:20 AM |
| 14 | It really boils down to character- most men fail. Stop praising basic stuffI’ve always told the younger women around me to be on alert for the charming ones, they’re usually the most dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 41 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.It’s also one of the symbols white nationalists have taken on as their logo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 9 | Things men don’t want you to know...It’s like cutting off a oozing cancerous festering tumor. It’s gross and trying to take you over and smother you. You live with it long enough and you cover it up trying desperately for it to look normal. When you finally remove the tumor, you’re overwhelmed by how much nicer your life is without a cancerous growth attached to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:11 PM |
| 7 | Women Experience More RejectionI have the single mom with a kid with special needs filter. It’s wonderful! I get left alone when he’s with me. Postpartum doors were literally slammed in my face by men. So now I hold the door open for them with a smile and a kind word. I refuse to let them hold the power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 06:53 AM |
| 4 | Women Experience More RejectionOr you become completely unimpressed by men in general because they’re too much work. 🙋🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 06:33 AM |
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