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Guess I was conflating timid with something else, in my head I thought of a person who keeps to themselves but will stand up for themselves if challenged
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:34 AM
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Shy and keeps to themselves mostly, but will stand up for themselves when confronted directly or tried to be taken advantage off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:33 AM
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Shy and timid != pushover
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:01 PM
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The tragedy! People message me rude things :( if only there was a way to unmatch and report people on dating apps. This is what I mean women always make it about their miniscule in comparison problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:07 AM
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to women average = low quality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:22 PM
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It's just female entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:09 PM
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That's fine I don't blame them for choosing the "best". I do blame them for complaining about it though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:04 PM
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Sure I don't disagree, just the way you word it is very loaded
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:54 PM
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U can be shy and timid and still not get stomped. They might be correlated but I think you can do both
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:38 PM
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I dont think the media is "designed" to do anything but make money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:37 PM
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OLD seems shitty for both sexes. The problem I have is women complain about too much "low quality" attention which frankly is kinda infuriating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:15 PM
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Dual family does not equal strict rigid gender roles. Research shows same sex couples are just as good at raising children as a hetero couple. Do we think all same sex couples exist with a "father" and "mother" role? Maybe, but I don't think so. I think even if a "father" and "mother" figure must exist they don't need to be static roles strictly placed by gender. Additionally i wonder if money wasn't an issue if single parent raised children would actually be so much less off.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/21 08:29 PM
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I mean I think they aren't necessarily wrong, original feminism was pointing out unfair oppressions of women. Here's my problem with it, I think it was systematic just very select few MEN who had power and they oppressed everyone. So maybe feminism did help out men by just progressing society as a whole. The problem now is that men's issues are not being addressed at ALL when it comes to gender specific issues while feminist ones are very much being addressed (and often blaming all men for probl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/21 08:24 PM
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Everytime you try to bring up a male issues it's always countered with whataboutism, ALWAYS. "men face more violent crime" "oh well women face more sexual crime", "men face unrealistic expectations in the work place and dating" "oh muh gender pay gap", and my least favorite of them all "no one cares about male issues and maybe we should talk about them" "But what about my reproductive rights!!!! (seriously women are so not oppressed these days the only argument they have is about abortion)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/21 08:20 PM
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No, menslib is one of the most anti male subs on reddit. I think /r/femaledatingstrategy is more charitable towards men then them unironically. Heres the thing when we go about male issues as being caused by men we are demonizing ourselves and unconsciously deciding that we are the bad guy and the negative experiences we have is OUR fault somehow. Here's how I see it, the patriarchy is real but a lie in how it's framed, men did not have all the power in society, a SELECT FEW rich and powerful me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/21 08:17 PM
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I mean tbh you aren't saying something that profound it's pretty basic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:32 PM
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Yeah I agree with you kinda OP, people using extreme examples as a counter argument don't really help the discourse at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:33 PM
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I mean I look at dating_advice a lot and i see posts by women saying they are turned off about their man bragging about their n count. Are they all liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:32 PM
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What a weird thing to bring up (unless you're just memeing). Do I really need to make the disclaimer about it being two human's consenting to the act?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:29 PM
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Ok buddy maybe thats most men but that's not how I see it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:29 PM
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Why can't you women see a difference between an n count 6 women and an n count 60 women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:24 PM
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I think OP is generalizing of course. I do believe a genuinely happy average man will not struggle that much in dating in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:20 PM
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My ex could cum from me probing the inside his ear with my tongue and then biting on his neck. If you intended this to happen I would count it as a sexual experience. I don’t gaf about “n count” at all. That’s a mostly male obsession which honestly feels like a c*pe for an intense desire for a “virgin.” Nah some people just don't want women who have been with many different men in a short amount of time. It's usually a large indicator of mental problems. (This applies to man whores as well I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:16 PM
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Any interaction that intends one or both parties to reach orgasm (regardless of outcome) = + to ncount
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:04 PM
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Ambition means already successful guy who wants to be more successful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:26 PM
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Yep I agree, women wanted to get rid of gender roles but then enforce them heavily in dating. OP have you considered dating someone "lower" then you who will take care of the house and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:17 PM
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Do you think that even though women are making more money and becoming more independent, they still expect men to make more than and care for them? Yes i do. I agree with everything you said except for the college bit but I don't want to get into that. About this: Don't blame you it's a very complicated issue with no clear solution
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:58 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ojj7n4/what_is_dating_equality/h52109o/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:45 AM
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I don't think bisexual women are fighting over fat women to fuck over fit men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:46 AM
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Do you think legality = morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:40 AM
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a man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:42 PM
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? I disagree that men and women face the same amount of shaming based on physical attributes (it's much more normalized against men and justified as muh patriarchy ) additonally I think you are vastly overstating how common violence against women is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:30 PM
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Yes, I see a lot of KILL ALL MEN rhetoric as long as constant jokes "what do you call men under 6 feet, friends" etc etc. This is completely normalized and encouraged in the yassssssss queeeeeeeeeeen brand of lib feminism. Now can you provide some examples in america where violence against women is heavily normalized? I'm sorry you feel like I left out those women issues, but I did so because they are already stated as bad and are being addressed? I feel the need to advocate for ignored men's is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:02 PM
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What are ways men can looks maxx out side of the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:41 PM
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rappers always seem to slay, even if they have like 12 soundcloud followers, it's interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:59 PM
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no too short for self improvement to matter edit if you're like 5'4 and below self improvement will still matter, but you will be holding out for that small % of girls who don't care about height and when you find them you better be better in every other way then other short men and can't be too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:40 PM
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how short?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:31 PM
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AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:29 PM
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Why reply if you're not gonna input anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:26 PM
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Very informative, how did you personally become attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:22 PM
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Nope guys aren't a monolith just like women aren't all chad chasing whores. Or are you going to say yall are?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:15 PM
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Unless there's sex. This is such a strawman, not every single guy will fuck a girl he's not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:08 PM
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Do you think murder is encouraged? Do you think it's glorified in our society? Do you think we can only do one thing at once. Do you think it's legal to murder people? Do you think its a high % of women murdered after rejection? Do you think that number is going up or down in recent years?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:50 PM
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I think most don't but they want the man to make more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:14 PM
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I think 400k a year easily puts you in upper class not just UMC. UMC is like 150k -300k. 400k a year is insane, that's a big house in a good city or mansion in most of the U.S. as well as more then enough income to save for vacations and other luxurys like nice cars
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:44 PM
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What about 19-30?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:41 PM
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And that’s your preference. idk men and women both constantly complain about it so maybe its not just me. I was never like this. And neither were the women i know. What do you mean by this? I don’t think unattractive women are widely participating in hook up culture either. Yeah cuz they cant hook up with top men, if they could they would. How? Thats very complicated, I think better understanding of the opposite gender and why relationships are important and that theirs more to them then sex wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:26 PM
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Agree. People shouldn’t be shamed for their preferences. They SHOULD be shamed for demonizing people just because they don’t match their own preferences. You an want a virgin all you want but that doesn’t make every woman who isn’t one a degenerate /u/PickleLine nah I don't think they are equivalent and I'm not saying women should remain virgins before marriage, I just think "casually dating" and hookup culture doesn't really benefit either gender :) I mean in my circle I don’t see a lot of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:46 PM
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I refuse to believe those are real people posting on that subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:31 PM
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Yeah turns out people are more complicated then the strict gender binary that we were taught as children, scary to think about huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:22 PM
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What role does the individual play in a society that has achieved “dating equality?” Meaning what is their responsibility? Forgot to put this part in the main. For women stop upholding patriarchal standards in dating and for men stop letting women get away with shit because they are a women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:19 PM
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that is not what I see commonly in real life and on the internet, but good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:17 PM
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Btw prostitution is perfectly legal in the UK and in other European countries near the UK too. I thought you guys said prostitution would decrease sexlessness? Nah it won't until normalized. The commonly accepted number comes from the GSS study which is flawed and results were contradicted by two other studies, that I quoted above. yeah I don't really have time to pour through studies and decide which one is more valid, regardless I think most would say more young men are sexlessness then ever a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:17 PM
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-wants virging shaming to stop while slut shaming. These are not anti beliefs, slut shaming and increased monogomay would benefit society as a whole while virgin shaming does not :) -complains men are bullied? About having standards, seems to forget woman are attacked and murdered for rejecting men in non insignificant numbers. So your counterpoint is something already culturally condemned? Nice one you are really smart indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:15 PM
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I think much of what women advise men are straight up not true, not saying they are bing malicious though many don't even know what they want themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:11 PM
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Basic thinking does not tell us that if you are comparing two different studies with two different populations (us vs uk) You lack basic reading skills as well as I did not in fact compare two studies. Uk pegged incel rate at over 50% while the commonly accepted one had it at 30% if we take that lower number as true then it is probably higher then that who had sex once but still struggle. with different sample sizes done at different time periods (pre COVID vs during COVID). the Uk data set was …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:06 PM
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First off shaming men for standards needs to just never happen again, no more "date trans people" and "fat acceptance" can be allowed, unless you start shaming women into dating trans men and obese men. Secondly we now live in a post patriarchal society in all ways except dating, this obviously very much hurts mens ability to date as all traditional expectations are left on us while none of the other ones are. Meaning we must now make more than the women and care for her, yet half the workforce …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:02 PM
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But similarly to a serial killer you shouldn't take everything a women tells you as true :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:52 PM
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Uk study pegged it at over 50%, basic thinking will tell us if 30% are virgins then more then that probably struggle with consistent sex. nice evidence btw "it could be" isn't exactly hard data
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:48 PM
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Where do you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:43 PM
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Do poor people's needs trump the rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:38 PM
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Using celebs as examples is always bad as they are druggies or have more plastic then flesh on their faces. Regardless what you say is correct women can age gracefully like men can as well. I always think men will choose young > old unless the difference in attractiveness is extreme (e.g knockout old women vs obese young women)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:31 PM
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no shit conservatives don't believe in equality they believe in EqUaL oPpUrTuNiTy, but anyone with more then 3 brain cells knows that not everyone is born with the same resources from the start. The same thing can be applied to dating yet in dating it's now OK to just tell people to pull themselves up by their bootstraps and ImPrOvE tHeMsElVes. Dating equality would either be normalized hookers so young men aren't so sexless or culturally enforce monogamy so again young men aren't so sexless. ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:29 PM
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I thought you were implying video games == bad because of some out lies. Basically what I'd say is no one is even within a light year of being perfect and people's obsessions with perfect everything (social medias fault) is why relationships are not lasting anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:20 PM
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Yes, because when male sexlessness is borderline half the young population it is indicator of large societal problems which if left unchecked could be destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:13 PM
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I don't think most video game players fall into that category. Though maybe many do I doubt it's >50% so just vetting for that whole category is really stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:11 PM
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leave is the only way, if you can't then spend not much time at work and try not to bring it home
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:09 PM
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If you believe in equality but not dating equality you don’t believe in equality at all you just want it when it benefits you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:07 PM
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Again I really think you just believe in women superiority. I just don't believe feminism isn't doing jack shit for equality in 2021 and being against it doesn't make me a women hater who wants to suppress your aUtOnOmY. In what way are women worse off then men as a group?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:55 AM
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problem is it's far from the best thing for men. If you believe in equality at this point feminism has no place in society
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:31 AM
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Do you include sleeping around decreasing for men and women Unless we can somehow make it so it's not just women sharing top men, yeah I think its best for society if half of men weren't virgins. Of course you think OLD is good if it works for you but fact's is most men it doesnt work (gander at /r/tinderdata if you wanna be blackpilled extremely fast)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:28 AM
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young women promiscuous sex with more attractive men then later end up marry a "safer" option because the attractive men just don't exist in high enough quantity, the problem with this is they are less attracted to their husbands and treat them worse. From an inequality stand point it leaves young men sexlessness (around 50% now are such) which will make them bitter and hateful towards women later on. I think this whole hookup I must sleep with hot men culture is bad for both genders long run
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:27 AM
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A huge one is women will still refuse to be the bread winner in the house hold. Also the whole beta bucks meme is based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:22 AM
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I think banning OLD would do a lot, as well as social media as it has a huge detrimental affects on our well being. Most of the equality can only be forced through social change. Mainly shaming sleeping around as well encouraging more men to act in their own self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:21 AM
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they do both for sure. to the women reading, if you advocate for liberal ideologies like welfare and social equality you should also advocate for dating equality, if you don't then you don't really believe in equality, you just think the other forms of it benefit you while the other doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:12 AM
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Yeah I agree, the issues men face are much more complicated. It's just funny to me how fast "liberal" women will make conservative type bootstrap arguments when faced with dating inequality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:05 AM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:52 AM
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Yeah I think I've been less and less sympathetic towards the women view point. Also I think I've realized most women would be conservative fucks if conservatism didn't always disparage women. The same women who will cry endlessly about "injustice" will turn around and say too bad to men who struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:44 AM
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I dont think most women hold themselves to standards like that, if so 99% would be single. I think the main problem women have with their standards is thinking they deserve better then what they can get. Additionally I think they fought really hard for equality and less enforced gender roles, but in dating they will hard line uphold inequality and gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:39 AM
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Women want emotional men, but they don't want them to be overly emotional all the time. women don't want some crybaby loser but chad with a sad side is a ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:15 AM
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Why? how are they different? its the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:29 AM
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Most men want women to put some type of effort into the relationship, monetary or emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:23 AM
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Doe's that not agree with my statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:15 PM
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I don't see you're point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:15 PM
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Eh i really dont feel like going into the small details, but it can be classified by the way they speak about men's roles in a relationship usually, heres an example of an exchange with a fdser who goes full mask off https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/nvyz3m/women_shouldnt_expect_to_be_paid_for_on_the_first/h16t23l/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:07 AM
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Nope, there is a very specific way of speaking fdsers go about on here, and I’ve been seeing an uptick in it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:34 AM
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The fallacy here (in my opinion ) is only matches are being looked at
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:50 AM
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Someone projecting their experience to generalize? No never no ones does that here!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:09 AM
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“You guys” nice projection
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:04 AM
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Why did you feel the need to save that guys image? Weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:36 PM
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Valid but for Asian men? Who get like no matches yeah it’s kinda hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:31 PM
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Ok, but my point was all said “attractive” traits that are subjective are pretty shared and there isn’t much nuance there. Just because women find handsome men as well as ogre big men hot doesn’t mean theirs a wide range of what they find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:34 PM
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Ok, I’d probably disagree regardless if you tried to mention any traits that can’t be signaled on old that women find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:28 PM
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Eh I don’t really buy that, what’s attractive on old is what women find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:21 PM
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Sweeeety it’s called a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:20 PM
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My problem is the ones here are spewing the toxic shit about not paying for dates and men preferences are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:09 PM
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But he’s only hot cuz tall with wide shoulders so unchangeable features
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:07 PM
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So u admit what makes men hot is unchangeable intrinsic features? Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:57 PM
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Ummm no sweety it’s called a preference tee hee
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:49 PM
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Laugh out loud!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:49 PM
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Some of? Sure but the fact they need a sub and identity for basic concepts of self respect is quite sad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:48 PM
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Hvm = fds term
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:43 PM
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Every time you try to normalize and accept (beauty/ideal wise) overweight women and men you are promoting unhealthy habits. Sorry not sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:36 PM
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What color is black and pink mixed? Brown pill debate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:26 PM
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This subs is now like 80% fds rhetoric from the women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:03 PM
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Lol, not even fds thinks that, but sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:02 PM
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yOu CaNt cHaNgE tHe PaSt, alright women, would you date a rapist then? After all it’s in the past I’m sure he’s changed now and it has no bearing on his current demeanor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:50 PM
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Lol just cuz u don’t want to be a women’s wallet doesn’t mean you don’t want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:48 PM
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Ur hilarious you miss the whole point about questioning her intention, sry baby we ain’t here to be you’re wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:11 PM
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I’m convinced 80% of this sub’s women are fdser’s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:52 PM
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Because they realize they aren’t getting access to hvm, hvm and women aren’t on dating apps constantly they are living their lives. I mean statistically women are outnumbered by men on these apps which is proof they aren’t doing as well as they want us to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:46 PM
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Personal experience, the data (female to male ratio makes it like 8 men for every real girl). Pretty sure at this point the only women using tinder and such are antisocial and whores both of which might not lead to healthy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:44 PM
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Ok doomer, I get you want a collapse of civilization but it probably won’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:35 PM
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Dating apps are dying, people are waking up to social media's bs. I do think they have damaged the dating market but "it cannot be repaired" as a statement I heavily disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:29 PM
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The solution is she still pays some of the dates, maybe like 1/4th before commitment. She wants to go on dates with a man (Oh you bet she will not be happy with "cheap" dates), while also not providing any sex. So what does the man get exactly? Her "company" that's fine and all be he's gonna be questioning if she's actually interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:28 PM
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Because not handsome might as well be hideously ugly to women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:24 PM
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Because if people aren't responsible for their failings they are not responsible for their winnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:21 PM
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"I succeed by default because I'm a women and men have 4000 cards stacked against them but it's YOUR fault men tee hee."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:21 PM
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In reality you need to imagine the situation she's talking about. so you're a guy and you work a lot( she wants a "provider" so a good job is probably a requirement) and trying to date as well. You spend all your time looking for dates and you find one girl (OP) self described "attractive" lady. Anyways, you ask her out and she says yes, it goes well and you pay for the date out of kindness, the second and the third date are the same. By the fourth date you still haven't had any physical contact…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:19 PM
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For men Not for women, I assume I'd hazard that promoting unhealthy living is a hazard to women as well. Living in a body is different from using it, after all Fair enough It is also easily solved by minding your own business; those women weren’t going to fuck you anyway Tell that to our tinder matches LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:05 PM
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the reason men don't wanna sleep with fatties isn't the "media beauty standard" im really sorry to break it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:04 PM
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because women want their cake and to eat it too. A lot of the smp issues arises from that, they want equal pay equal rights etc, ok good, but in dating they still want to be treated like a "women" and taken care of financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:01 PM
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Epitome of cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:29 AM
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All of these can apply to men as well expect some of the women specific diseases
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:28 AM
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Don’t sleep with men on first dates that you don’t trust then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:24 AM
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How? Explain how any risk that exists for women doesn’t exist for men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:18 AM
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Society collapses? Don’t see that happening, having a noticeable impact in the real world, I see it happening within 10 years. How and what this manifests as are beyond me, but will be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:30 AM
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It is in fact the most common way to meet nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:49 AM
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That’s fine, I’m just saying the way she comes off is bitter. It’s fine to only want dinner dates, but I think equating it to effort is disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:42 AM
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A guy willing to spend money on a person just met has no correlation to a good partner or someone who is “high value”, I’m sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:36 AM
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Because one benefits them and one doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:27 AM
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Lmao, you ignore my point about the language used.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:27 AM
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You say that, but why is it always dinner? Like that’s some high effort thing bro you’re just eating food and spending some money it’s about money admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:24 AM
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Nothing about it alone, but the language she uses as well as tone give off major bitter older women who got played when she was younger vibes. For instance trying to equate human connection as “studying” someone does not sound like healthy behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:09 AM
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I find it extremely fascinating how money spent equates to effort put in to you femcels, so is that how you see men? The amount of money they bring to the table? That’s fine but don’t try to hide it as “effort”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:07 AM
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Yes normal happy people make tiktoks like that /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:59 PM
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Sure, whatever you want to believe. The way a man treats you has nothing to do with whether or not he takes you to dinner or coffee on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:58 PM
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I highly doubt that, women who succeed what they want don’t go around posting bitter tiktoks. She looks 40 and has disgusting lip fillers, sure she gets tons of attention by default, but I doubt it’s the “high value” men she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:48 PM
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The vibe is major bitch who is demanding while providing nothing to you of value, notice how she frames it as “studying” you? She does not seem like someone looking for a loving partner but someone looking for a pushover wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:32 PM
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Yeah, I did not get your original point at all tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:29 PM
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It’s so mask off when fdsers post stuff like that, it is very obvious what they think of men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:29 PM
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Kinda I don’t get the reason he posted that, I mean the people who make whole ass threads about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:13 PM
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That is the new norm sadly, don’t give low value women attention
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:08 PM
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Sure, because you legit do have some type of complex around it and I was pointing out something obvious. Either way I really did not get the impression you were using a general you there, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:08 PM
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They project quite hard, dont they?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:55 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that, stay strong brother
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:54 PM
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again, just vet harder it's ok to be single for a while half of men under 25 are virgins these days so it's far from abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:50 PM
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Like I said, I think you're just back tracking on you're point to say iTs nOt AbOuT yOu
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:49 PM
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that's very funny, fdser in the wild? I mean it's fine in reality she makes it very obvious how she is and if you don't want that kinda person just avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:43 PM
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We were trying to argue a subject and you kept making it about people, and now you are claiming it wasn't directly about "me", I'd call that pretty bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:42 PM
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Why be on a debate sub if you're gonna be bad faith then? that's all im curious about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:39 PM
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are you deformed and hideous? If not you have no excuse in not being above average looking besides effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:36 PM
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I will still maintain that you were trying to make it about ME. I don't care because legit none of those projections apply to me, but it comes off bad faith af, that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:35 PM
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Attractive man gets a lot of likes on looksbased app heavily skewed to benefit women. "It'S oVeR BrO"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:31 PM
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I get it. Being potentially selected against for something you don’t see yourself giving up isn’t a great feeling But please, rage on. Swallow that red pill bro bro. All you’ve proved is that men really can’t handle this 😂 3 examples
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:30 PM
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"Genuine question, are you able to argue without making it personal? It really seems like you lack that ability"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:25 PM
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That's fine, if she is willing to be alone for her whole life because of some dumb standard she got from reading fds it will be a self fulfilling prophecy. Genuine question, are you able to argue without making it personal? It really seems like you lack that ability
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:21 PM
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Yes, heres the "counter point" Ill use because I think you're comparison is unreasonable. All men have watched porn before, literally every single one of them in the west who isnt an amish man has watched it before. However not all women have huge n counts, so this comes back to the problem of UNREASONABLE preferences, so a guy who wants a virgin women yeah thats an unreasonable preference, but if you want a women who only has slept with men in relationships that is reasonable, for porn it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:16 PM
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Kevin is hilarious, he looks like hes larping constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:10 PM
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I always fine the posts that are very obviously someone writing their personal experience as a fact of life or some profound knowledge as quite funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:07 PM
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yeah there's absolutely nothing wrong with that last line, it just seems to live a bit rent free in your head aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:05 PM
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You post about it like 10x a day, enough to make me want to comment on here again instead of lurking, relaxxxx
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:02 PM
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You are obsessed with porn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:57 PM
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She willl claim so hard she's not a fds user as well :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:53 PM
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Non attractive men only exist in women's eyes to be worker drones who they can blame all of "male violence" on and complain about how men think they are "entitled" to a relationship or their bodies
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/21 12:32 AM
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I mean you specifically mentioned all men u met are gross im someway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:54 AM
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Also I wanted to comment on the effort to appearance thing, makeup hairstyle, fashion and that stuff is definitely something men don't do, but that's more of a society problem. Men still have toxic masculinity that prevents a lot of those things. Like if I wore makeup and dressed very fashionably I'd be called the fslur or people would joke that im gay, not that those things bother me personally I have other reasons to not do those things, but I think I made my point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:39 AM
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What's the difference though when most men aren't exactly encouraged to be as clean as you describe. AKA most men who care about being clean are probably mentally ill or have some other drive to make them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:36 AM
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Most women you may know. Yeah see the thing about my friends and how they treat women and I really doubt it. FOR A RELATIONSHIP. I hope you understand there's way more in a relationship than fucking, right? Of course, but many women don't care for those things at my age, or get led on by their fwb or whatever I dont give a fuck. Probably the same amount of guys who were told paying for a date = they deserve sex. Yeah this literally never happens and I never met someone who thinks like this You i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:34 AM
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That's not a "hard spot". That's most men. They choose to be good boyfriends to good girlfriends and have happy relationships. I'd be the best boyfriend possible, but I don't even get a chance because of the way I look or am. I see a few my friends who treat women like shit and cheat constantly go through multiple girls while I get nothing and you just want to say I'm entitled? No. We just put in the effort to vet those men out. Who is "we" because most women definitely don't do a good job at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:26 AM
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I mean are you a women? If so then you just prove my point when you say you think the women is more attractive since what a lot of men on here argue is that women have very extreme scales where they find 80% of men ugly as fuck and 20 % as hot as fuck. If you're a man though then you got me there maybe I'm not checking my bias enough. On the height thing, I hate to be a dick but if you're a women I really can't trust anything you say on height, in my experience they have such a warped perspectiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:22 AM
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Kind of puts people like me in a tough spot, no? Like yes I want sex, but that's not all and I feel like all women think of men is that all they want is sex so they wont overlook any flaws and just sleep with chad only because the are told constantly if they settle they will just be used and discarded. Kind of makes me feel like the only thing a women wants from me is money or other status so why even try with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:14 AM
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So just because most men get laid (and honestly for the under 25 crowd I don't even think this true anymore), just because they get laid it doesn't mean it's with a "looksmatch" or a relationship. Why are men expected to be high quality and provide everything and all women offer is their bodies (Which majority cant even keep in shape these days).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:00 AM
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I mean are those invalid? Is what I see in real life invalid? I understand that a few counts of anecdote != data, but it's hard to not feel that way as a person. And keep in mind I'm very away of implicit bias aswell and try to filter it in real life. Why do all the relationships I see the guys are always 1-2 points above the women looks wise, why is every couple at least a 6 inch height difference, why do women always talk about things like height when platonic friends talk about attractiveness…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:58 PM
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So you think average guy is ugly, asshole, and poor. Interesting great to see women at least admit it. I guess I should clarify what I mean by average, average is 5/10 attractiveness which I would guess more than 50% of the population doesn't meet. So yeah ugly, poor, and asshole guys dont deserve anything I can agree there. But what about all of the successful decent looking put effort in but get nothing out of it guys? What are they doing wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:45 PM
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Because awalt is more factual then the things about men. Does it really matter if it's not every single women if it's like 80% of them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:44 PM
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Is his post not valid because he's an incel? I mean not like they have much other places to go to since reddit bans every sub they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:39 PM
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Would you date someone with ocd who was the exact opposite of that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:32 PM
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Facts most women only date/fuck men for STATUS love isn't real. They will fuck chad to tell their friends they fucked chad and they will date rich men no matter how they look because of the status. Women see no value in the average dude that offers "nothing" to them. Why can men not be depressed and complain about this fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:28 PM
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Thats like super fair criticism for lifting more you need to understand I was chubby af and lost 20 lbs and now Im trying to clean bulk so it takes time. I'm curious if you think I have potential or not, like would looksmaxxing be worth it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:01 AM
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Fair enough, losing weight and bulking muscle at the same time is hard so i had to lose weight first
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:53 AM
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Can we acknowledge how hard it is to get advice on online dating as a straight guy online. I try to post photos to the rate me reddits but since im not a hot girl i dont get comments. Anyways whats your guys advice for an average guy trying to date online?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:40 AM
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