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18

Always. Assume. Attraction. :)
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:12 PM
3

Who hurt you?
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:46 PM
11

Make sure to sit next to her. Avoid sitting opposite, it's not an interview. Dinners are bad in my opinion. Much better to do some activity that makes touching easier and is fun/relaxed, like bowling, pool, museums, whatever... It's great that you are going for drinks. Do not get drunk as shit, and try take her to a 3rd location, preferably your place.
/r/seduction05/07/18 11:41 PM
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What's the first date? Absolutely no cinema or restaurant!!!
/r/seduction05/07/18 11:13 PM
1

It's only uncomfortable if you make it.
/r/seduction01/07/18 09:58 AM
1

How would you describe the third stage?
/r/seduction06/05/18 09:38 AM
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"oh when you stop looking it’ll happen” I believe it means that when you don't actively try to get laid, you naturally project the "aloof" vibe, instead of trying to emulate it and coming out inauthentic.
/r/seduction04/05/18 08:13 AM
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Most women just like most majority of everyone are living at work or going through the 9-5 grind. So the best place is work, to get fired for sexual harassment.
/r/seduction06/12/17 12:08 PM
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Isn't it better to find out sooner than later? Most definitely. It is crucial to polarize as soon as possible in order to avoid friend zones / wasting time. I am just not sure bluntness is needed in that part. I'd much rather just escalate until stopped. If you ask a girl out, it is pretty much assumed what you mean. You say that girls can accept dates EVEN while dating. Wouldn't she just lie about the boyfriend if you asked? I don't know man... It kinda kills the suspense to ask it straight. At…
/r/seduction16/05/17 02:27 PM
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"So are you seeing anyone?" Don't you think this is a bad thing to ask so bluntly.? Especially when no rapport is built? I applaud your courage and I understand that it was popping your cherry... I am just not sure if it's smart to ask this, like ever.
/r/seduction16/05/17 12:06 PM
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Thank you for the detailed response. From what I can see, you are doing pretty well. You are engaged in activities and mingle with people. But to guys in my area, if its not drinking/doing drugs, partying or hooking up, its not interesting. You keep attracting the same type of guys. Why is that? Also, you are saying that 100% of guys are like this, and I will immediately disagree. Think about why this happens. Are the venues not compatible with what you look for? Are you intimidating people with…
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:57 AM
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Models by Mark Manson is the fucking truth!
/r/seduction16/04/17 09:47 PM
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Do I give up on finding the right guy with out having to lower my standards? Why would you do that? Have you talked to thousands of guys to give up? Why would you lower your standards? The trick is to NOT actively seek a partner, but rather do what makes you happy. Ex. You like dancing? Go to a dance shool and have fun. You might fancy someone there. But DON'T go to just to meet someone. Go because you really like dancing. Also, are you overweight? Do you dress nice? Do you behave properly? Thes…
/r/seduction16/04/17 01:03 PM
7

Models is hands down the best book on the subject. I'd argue it's the only one needed. Truly changed my life.
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:06 AM
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Absolutely! The book is not just for dating, but rather for living life. The concepts in there are universal i.e. work on yourself first, while being sincere and vulnerable. Everything else will fall in line.
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:05 AM
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Models is the fucking bible to me.
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:03 AM
5

We will all die and on our death bed will not be thinking about how a girl rejected us This is a very powerful mantra while approaching. Really gets you into the "I don't give a fuck" mode.
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:02 AM
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Wittiness is great, for sure. But what you do with yourself is a huge thing. That definitely comes first. No girl would sleep with a hobo, no matter how witty.
/r/seduction05/04/17 06:18 PM
5

But, how would you judge a guy as intelligent? Probably how witty he is, rather than what he does or knows.
/r/seduction05/04/17 02:28 PM
3

How did you figure this out? The video is longer than the time it was posted.
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:04 AM
4

Projecting much?
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:01 AM
2

What is your go to book on the subject?
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:59 AM
43

The best fucking book on the subject. Period!
/r/seduction14/03/17 12:11 AM
1

I like this.
/r/seduction05/03/17 03:25 AM
1

That was awesome!
/r/seduction05/03/17 03:24 AM
1

80% it comes from the Pareto Principle. The other 20% is pure coincidence.
/r/seduction22/02/17 06:06 PM
3

I'd advise you to get his book, or Mark Manson's book "Models". As for how to do B... It's as simple as "Do whatever makes you happy and do not let others dictate your life". What makes you happy?
/r/seduction20/02/17 04:25 AM
1

"I'm in steel erection" LOL awesome!
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:36 AM
1

This is pretty much what Mark Manson said in his "Models" book. That shit changed my life.
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:49 PM
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And fucking confusing. Word.
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:44 PM
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"Pretend to not care about sex, that's the right button to press on the vending machine." LOL, I like that.
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:43 PM
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Agreed. Just move on. You are definitely not helping if you send that. I can feel her eyes rolling lol.
/r/seduction16/01/17 08:51 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson and be enlightened my friend!
/r/seduction08/01/17 09:38 PM
3

Most useless seminar ever... LOL.
/r/seduction11/12/16 02:09 AM
0

I envy you for the fun you'll have. That godlike sensation of being with a new girl and exploring eachother. What I do when I want to last longer, I think of fucking my hairiest friend. If that doesn't help, I switch to my grandmother. My biggest tip would be to relax and slow things down. Don't make any jerky/twitchy movements. Try to be "wavy". Before anything, go down on her a start eating. Try to "write" the alphabet on her clit. This prevents monotony and clit "exaustion". If you want to sp…
/r/seduction07/12/16 10:54 AM
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Latin. Dancing.
/r/seduction19/11/16 11:31 AM
3

What do you like doing? Odds are, there are girls doing it too.
/r/seduction08/11/16 09:19 PM
1

This book is fucking fantastic! I urge every man to read it.
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:58 PM
2

May I suggest reading the book "Models" by Mark Manson? It's the only thing you'll ever need.
/r/seduction01/11/16 11:55 AM
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It's still true. Their reaction to your reaction tells everything. I bet if you were a knob towards the jogi, he'd respond very differently from a teenage girl. In both cases you are at fault, but the jogi would probably point things out and try to calm you, whereas the girl would turn it into a shouting match.
/r/seduction20/07/16 02:14 PM
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Are you attracted by fat girls? /thread
/r/seduction18/07/16 07:20 AM
1

Since you mention reading Models 3 times, can you please tell us a bit about yourself? What are your hobbies? Do you lead an attractive lifestyle?
/r/seduction15/07/16 07:49 PM
2

This sounds very improbable. Props for writing to her, but the act of her actually responding and not ignoring you tells me that she already had something going for you OR that she thinks of you as just a friend. I REALLY hope you end up scoring. Give us an update!
/r/seduction21/06/16 04:54 PM
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probably cannot improve much there. You sure as shit can't improve if you don't actively try. Nothing will happen unless you make it happen. Certainly "Models" would not be the book for me. Have you read the book? I will not be the guy who brings value to society. Who the fuck are you to decide this? Society decides this. Right now, you may not bring value, but that can change in a day! If I approached a girl, the outcome is 100% known--she won't accept me. True, right now you may not be desirab…
/r/seduction27/05/16 07:06 AM
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Hey, do you remember the time a guy got rejected in 1865? LOL, me neither. That will be you one day... You will die, and that's it. SAME for the girl you are talking to. They are not mythological beings and they too, shit on a regular basis. Man, what do you have to lose? So the fuck what if you get rejected. Will it matter in this universe? As a matter of fact, it should matter to you, but as a positive things i.e. you know not to waste your time on pointless pursuits. So rejection is kind of a…
/r/seduction26/05/16 07:41 AM
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I never said no to try new things. I said not to force yourself to endure something due to girls. Obviously you like dancing so you are not enduring anything. :)
/r/seduction20/05/16 09:55 PM
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DO NOT join an activity solely for the purpose of chasing tail. You will hate it and it will hinder you interactions. Instead, join whatever makes you happy. This shit is ass backwards... You'll be the most successful when you are not actively trying to get laid. This puts needles pressure that you MUST land a girl, and it will show. I don't know more about you, but the best thing to do is invest in yourself. Confidence, attire, body in order of importance. My suggestion is that you read Mark Ma…
/r/seduction20/05/16 07:25 AM
1

I bet that all is not lost. Just go out again, and this time do something about it.
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:35 PM
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You my friends, need to read Mark Manson's book "Models". It is pretty much all about showing vulnerability. Do yourself a favor and get it. As for how to show vulnerability? It's basically building rapport i.e. common interests. Tell her about something that someone could use against you. Ex. I'm afraid of heights, I was picked on in high school, I am very shy around girls, I dropped my pants when I had my first dancing class... Shit like that. Just don't do psycho shit like talking about exes,…
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:34 PM
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I work in service right now so I talk with strangers all day, many of them girls my age and I'm all cool and open about it and joke around. Well there you go. You are your own problem. At work, you are not pressured to "game" so you are relaxed and natural. You don't put the girls at work on a pedestal. The moment you want to approach someone, you immediately conjure all sorts of scenarios in your head. She is as lost as you are man... They don't know the secrets to the universe. Just imagine ho…
/r/seduction13/04/16 05:12 AM
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Congrats man. Mark Manson sure changed a ton of lives, mine included.
/r/seduction13/03/16 02:47 PM
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Do what he said. Read Mark Manson's book Models. I've read it three times... It is life-changing.
/r/seduction13/03/16 02:46 PM
5

My favorite thing for first dates is bowling. It is great as it allows: Playfulness (Because people suck at bowling, myself included) Teasing (Because they do suck, you have plenty of opportunities to joke about her missing completely) Touching (Eventually, she'll score big and you can high five her or hug her) Drinking (Social lubricant, just don't get hammered) Talking between rounds (You can start sharing personal stories) Wagering (If you win this round, I swear I will so and so...) Usually …
/r/seduction24/02/16 04:56 AM
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I agree. This books gives you something to apply. :)
/r/seduction14/02/16 08:20 AM
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Please read Mark Manson's "Models" book. It is the only thing you'll ever need. It changed my life.
/r/seduction07/02/16 02:33 PM
1

I admire your courage. I know you are asking about going to clubs solo, but is that really the optimal choice? What are some of your hobbies? They are a great way to meet people. Also, do you go solo on purpose? A wingman can be of great help. I always recommend Mark Manson's "Models" book. It changed my life, so it might your's too.
/r/seduction23/12/15 03:04 PM
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Read Mark Manson's book "Models" and thank me later. :) Trust me on this one dude, I've read it twice. This book changed my life and I am sure it will change yours too. It deals EXACTLY with your problem.
/r/seduction17/12/15 09:22 AM
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Dude, for the love of me read the book "Models" by Mark Manson. It will change your life. I broke up with my girlfriend of 11 years (she cheated) 4 weeks ago. Not only was I rusty as fuck in terms of dating, I was also hurt like a motherfucker by the whole ordeal. I ended up in the hospital to lower my blood pressure. What happened? I am currently seeing 3 different girls and have a 4th lined up. I am single for the first time in my 27 years of life and I intend on having some fun. Now imagine w…
/r/seduction29/10/15 02:22 PM
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That's the whole point man. The fact that you are improving because of someone else other than you is detrimental. You need to do it purely for yourself. Don't start a hobby to get chicks, start it because it genuinely interests you, and this will in turn make you more attractive. Strive to become a better man that enjoys his life and others will want to enter it.
/r/seduction15/10/15 06:37 PM
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That's the thing. Who wouldn't want to improve himself to be the best possible? Would you date an obese, dirty cat lady? There is nothing wrong with being one, but don't expect nothing more than obese, dirty cat men.
/r/seduction15/10/15 03:59 PM
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Mark mentions dropping the scale. He advises using 1 or 0 meaning I find her attractive or I don't.
/r/seduction15/10/15 01:41 PM
2

Have you read the book? It means that everyone has their own life and sometimes you can be rejected simply by her being on her period, you looking like her ex, being tired from work, someone just approaching her before you and failing, her wanting tall men etc. Nothing you can control, so it is best to move on.
/r/seduction15/10/15 01:40 PM
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