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| 3 | This Is how I deal with my EX calls and textsShe sends me long, emotional texts about the kids not cleaning their rooms, leaving laundry everywhere, and the house being a mess she lists everything she has to deal with laundry, food, cleaning, school and tells me I don’t care because I don’t live there and don’t have to deal with it. She gaslights me and blames me for everything, even though I’m not physically there and can’t control what happens in her house. She has 70/30 custody. I have 3 boys , 2 teenagers, like what you are expecting B… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 03:20 AM |
| 3 | 3 years post divorce, still paying off divorce debtWith all the information out there, men will always be men. We’re wired to provide, protect, and build a family. Every new generation of men will say, “My wife is different,” or “My girlfriend would never do that.” And they’ll still fall for the same trap marriage, obligation, sacrifice. Men want kids. They want legacy. They don’t really have another option. It’s always been this way. The system didn’t change the wiring, it just learned how to exploit it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 09:01 PM |
| 15 | STBXW wants me to put her firstMan… your post feels like someone pulled it straight out of my life." We stayed under the same roof for 6 months after separating. It was brutal. She was completely checked out — emotionally distant, disconnected — but still needed me around “as a friend” for help, support, stability, all of it. I ended up giving her $15K so she could rent, furnish, and move into a new place with the kids. I did it without hesitation, because I wanted to protect the kids and make the transition smoother for them… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Alimony 20+ year marriage in 50/50 state.. what do you payNj state, I pay 1100/m alimony for 10 years, 900/m child support, 3 kids 30/70 custody, i make double her income | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How does one cope with this shitMan, I feel you on this. The betrayal from a so-called 'friend' hits harder than the breakup itself. It’s like losing two people at once. But the truth is, neither of them were ever truly in your corner. A woman who respects you wouldn’t do this, and a real friend wouldn’t even entertain the thought. It stings now, but this is the cleanest break you could ask for. You just dodged a lifetime of fake loyalty. The best thing you can do? Focus on yourself, level up, and let them self-destruct. Becau… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/25 06:58 PM |
| 3 | 47/M two-year transformation storyAmazing transformation, you just gave me the extra boost I need. well done ! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 06:36 PM |
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