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DISCUSSION88scarlet88/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 11:23 PM
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DISCUSSION88scarlet88/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 11:24 PM
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1 shag every 2 years? Surely this isn’t the norm? Apart from one guy who’s asexual, my single male friends over the past 10 years have at least pulled once every other month. One of my mates who isn’t particularly attractive has 2/3 FWB whenever he is single and is hooking up multiple times a week. My bfs longest dry spell was 6 months (prior to me). My brother who is terrible with women, we still don’t know what he does wrong, maybe gets lucky once a year. Yet, he’s lack of ability to pull wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:09 PM
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This is Reddit *sigh^
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 02:43 AM
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For me having an very active social media presence is a red flag. Not being interested in social media at all is a plus. However, I am 31 and understand that this may be different for younger people. I did have an insta in my mid 20s when I was on tinder and I had a thought they other day that if I was back on tinder would not having an Instagram be a detriment. Not having any social media accounts at all would concern me. Nearly everyone under 60 has some form of social media even if they don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:31 AM
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Forgot to add that he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship when we started dating, due to commitment phobia. When we met it had been 6 months since he got laid. He found one nights stand awkward and said the sex was rubbish, so he preferred to date the girls he slept with. We ending up clicking and fell in love, so I took him off the market, it’s been 5 years now. So I guess for the right girl he settled down, but he wasn’t a player to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:09 PM
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My bf is hot as hell. Full on 6 pack, tall dark and handsome. He was apparently the ugly kid in school. He didn’t loose his virginity until he was 20. He said one night stands don’t work for him as he is too drunk to get it up. Though this doesn’t happen with me, so I think it performance anxiety. When we met (he was 25) he still doubted his looks. He would hide half his face behind me when we took a pic. I’ve been telling him his hot for years now and at work they call him Clark Kent. Now his c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:17 PM
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Thanks that’s very helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 11:56 PM
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Totally agree! I think I this often.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 11:19 PM
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I’m so sorry that sounds awful :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:33 PM
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You’re being a good woman and making all the effort for your man, yet he doesn’t appreciate it and lowers yourself esteem. This isn’t healthy as it isn’t happy. You are doing everything Right and she still doesn’t appreciate it. If you make an effort to please your man in all the ways that he wants and he makes you feel less of a woman, you need to leave. You want a man that appreciates all your effort and makes you feel beautiful.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/22 01:10 AM
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Having my heart broken is one of my biggest nightmares. I’m 31 and I hope I never experience it. Having said that my current bf could break my heart into a million pieces and that I’m sure I could do the same to him. Love makes you vulnerable, but if you put up sensible boundaries and really get to know someone before you make yourself that vulnerable. It’s more than worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:55 AM
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I think every topic in a healthy relationship should be up for discussion. He sounds very old schools with the no gloves consequence, however in today’s society you preventing your child from having adequate protection from frost bite, may ring alarm bells with the school. If you talk about it, I’m sure you could reach a compromise. Maybe they have really nice gloves and if they lose them, they have to wear the boring/crappy ones to school? When it’s comes to kids safety I say this is a battle w…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/22 12:46 AM
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Well I think you’re living the dream. When I was 15 and my aunt asked me what I want to do when I grow up, I told her I want to stay at home and have kids, my mum was not pleased with my answer. Yet, who cares. I know you don’t have kids but the idea of keeping a nice house and making home cooked meals for the man you love is amazing, as long as he treats you well too. Who cares where anyone else thinks, do what makes you happy.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 10:23 AM
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Never dip your pen in the office ink.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:34 AM
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I always though that women were more shallow when it comes to wealth and power and men were more shallow on looks. After all men are more visual when it comes to being turned on. A brief search on google and scholar found this was the case. Lots of articles say women care more about looks than men, but the science shows the opposite to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:57 AM
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This isn’t healthy and he isn’t treating you like he loves you. He doesn’t care about how you feel. He only wants to see you when you cook hot dinners for him. I’m traditional, yet I also believe if a man loves you he will want to see you if dinner is on the table or not. If you want a marriage and kids and he doesn’t, then you just aren’t compatible.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 12:02 AM
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I thought it was saying the opposite. It was done to see if men and women can just be friends. The answer was women can be friends with men but men can’t be just friends with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:17 PM
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The studies were about guys and girls who were already friends. They didn’t say how they were introduced. The guys also didn’t think they had an advantage to date her, just that why would be ok or even happy for things to go further, whilst the females would not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:59 PM
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Studies show that men often want friendships with women to develop into something more (even if it’s sexual) and rate their female friends as attractive more attractive than their friends rate them. However, women are far more likely to see their male friendships completely platonically and don’t want it to ever escalate further.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:29 PM
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Oh so you’re saying that young women should marry old men? Which is still problematic as they are less satisfied than if they married younger men. See here having a younger wife is beneficial for men and having an older husband is detrimental to women.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 09:45 PM
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The statistics I’m looking at do include young men and women marrying. Age is one of the reasons for divorce. 60 percent of couples married between the age of 20 -25 will end in divorce. Those who wait to marry until they are over 25 years old are 24 percent less likely to get divorced.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 09:28 PM
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I read some of your comments on your profile, I didn’t assume anything.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 09:24 PM
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This is also a sub for women and you’re a man…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 09:13 PM
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You are much more likely to get divorced if you marry in your early 20s than any other age group (minus teens). So sure get married in your early 20s when your brain is still not fully developed, but you risk being divorced and heartbroken when you are in your 30s/40s and no longer a HVM. Leaving you in a worst position than if you just waited to until your late 20s early 30s and allowed yourself to really get to know the man you’re going to marry.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 08:50 PM
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He’s from a southern state in the US, where it is still very common to get married young and most high value women are probably married at 23. Those rules don’t apply to us in the UK. I lived in southern USA and it’s like going back 50 years in time (in lots of ways), one of the ways being that they still marry young. The average age to get married for a woman is 27 in the US and 36 in the UK. So you’re fine!
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 04:45 PM
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Where are you getting that most high value women are married at 23? If you’re talking about wags and women who date old men for their money, potentially. Yet, 23 is a very young age to get married in the UK. High value women are likely to wait longer as they know they are high value and don’t want to marry the first man that comes along.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 04:12 PM
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Sorry that sucks :(
/r/RedPillWives15/07/21 12:22 PM
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Why would you ever assume the worse?
/r/RedPillWives15/07/21 11:58 AM
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He thinks all women are part of r/femaledatingstrategy
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 11:47 AM
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Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 11:20 AM
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Not acceptable. We are all individuals and all deserve a right to vote. Women died for the right to vote 100 years ago. What if your political opinion is different from your partners? Who decides who is the head of the household? It would need to be an objective decision rather than one of gender. Is it the person who makes the most money? Who does more for the family (how can this be proved?). It would never happen and the decision of who defines the head of the house hold would be arbitrary. T…
/r/RedPillWives15/07/21 09:45 AM
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And is SMV and RMV? I loved what you said it’s so true. To be honest I was hoping at the end you had some tips on how to be the one he wants to commit to. For those of you who do want a man to commit I recommend reading the 5 love languages. Speak his language and he’ll be smitten for as long as you speak it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 09:13 AM
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Plus men in love when given oxytocin and presented with an attractive woman, stand further away than men not in love. Find a man who loves you and doesn’t just want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:55 PM
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What’s an AWALT women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:59 PM
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Awesome thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:15 AM
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How did you calculate these stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:02 AM
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Back it up with science.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 11:17 AM
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Dating sites? Also try being modest.
/r/RedPillWives28/06/21 03:50 PM
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We have passwords. We just know each others. Isn’t everyone like this with their phones? I’d be concerned if they weren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:58 PM
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Trust me it’s easy to hide things on your phone if you cheat. You just swipe delete on the WhatsApp chat. You don’t even need to have their number saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:46 PM
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You can just become more sneaky or get another phone. If someone wants to cheat they will cheat. No amount of phone checking is going to change then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:44 PM
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Screw that. He uses my phone to google and stuff as I do for him. He’ll look at my phone to see what I’m browsing. A relationship should be about trust. Unless someone is actively hiding their phone then you trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:42 PM
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I’ve read a few books that have covered the topic and if certainly seems to be. It’s the individualistic culture, it’s all me me me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:47 AM
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Poor personal hygiene. Bad teeth. Warts. Receding hair line (bald is ok just shave it off). Bad teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:32 PM
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None of the men I dated were the escort fucking kind. They were mostly good looking and would have had no issue getting a one night stand. Plus I mainly dated during college years, when it’s much easier to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:17 PM
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From the UK here, where it is legal. I’ve lived in the US. Literally no difference in the dating scene. Out of the dates I’ve been on, the English men on a whole were more respectful than the Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:22 PM
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I wrote above what was good about them. Skill mainly and wanting to makes sure I also had a great time. Also respect. If you’re hooking up, then you don’t want to be treated like a slut (well maybe some people do).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:22 PM
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Yes I totally agree. Though I’ve slept with 2 men I don’t know who were just amazing in bed. Still didn’t come close to the sex I have with my bf and he was pretty rubbish when we first hooked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:25 AM
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It’s mainly during modified doggy or the side winder, that he hits the magic spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:09 AM
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I mean that’s awesome. Was only saying as if you’ve only slept with one person, you can’t really contribute a great deal of insight to this thread. Also bought back memories of me being told the same thing 10 years ago. My parents and my grandparents have only ever been with each other and they are still very much in love, so I wasn’t being critical. If it works out then that’s amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:50 AM
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Dominating things mainly “good girl”, “cum for me”, “you’re my dirty little slut, for me to use for my pleasure” etc. He also tells me how good I feel and how sexy I am. The degrading names would be a complete turn off, if I didn’t really know them. Once you’ve dated for a while and share your fantasies, that’s when the fun begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:07 AM
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The average is 7.2 partners for an American. You don’t know how old people are. 2 or 3 people in your 30s and beyond is a very small number.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:48 PM
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You don’t know it’s mind blowing until you’ve had sex with other people. You need comparison. I honestly was like you. My ex could make me cum 3 times in one session easily. I thought it was mind blowing. Someone told me exactly what I told you and I thought they were wrong. They were 100% right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:45 PM
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I told you that I rounded the number up. It’s not wrong maths. I did not feel it necessary to include all the decimal points. I don’t think OP wanted to know exact decimal points, it doesn’t add anything to the conversation. Also I don’t want to whole internet to know how many people I’ve slept with. By rounding up I get to keep my number to myself. Clearly you just want to know how many people others have slept with and your annoyed you can’t figure it out. It’s a bit weird that you did the mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:37 PM
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I did the standard percentage equation (percentage = 100 * part / whole). Then rounded up the decimal points, so it was more accurate. This is what you do. It’s not bad maths look at the data for how many children American’s have, in 2019 it was 1.93. Or the average number of people Americans have slept with 7.2. Let’s say I slept with 3 men, 1 was mind blowing. To get the percentage firstly you divide 1 by 3, 1 / 3 = 0.33 recurring. Then you multiple by 100, 0.33 * 100 = 33. Therefore, 33% of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:23 PM
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It’s not the g spot stimulation from the big penis’. I was referring to hand skills when I said great simulation. It’s not always bigger = better. The biggest I had was too big and hurt if he pushed it all in. I like a big cock (around 7 inches) with a nice girth because I like the feeling of being filled. That length also allows all positions to work well. There are definitely a couple of positions where something is being hit, much higher than the g spot. As someone who works in the sex indust…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:18 PM
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I got you! Yes something along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:32 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:00 PM
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19% Firstly they all made sure I was satisfied. Most of them had great simultaneous stimulation of the clit and g spot. For the one who didn’t, it was amazing sexual chemistry, big penis, knowing exactly all the dirty things that I wanted to hear and where to touch me, also the ability to cum when I cum. The ones with good hand skills were respectful Casanovas. The other was what I’d call a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:56 PM
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Maybe young girls, the previous relationships I referred to I was 13-25. The point I was making is that I didn’t treat guys better coz they were better looking or uglier than me. Also his point is that women treat good looking guys better. Pretty sure that was his WHOLE point. I was saying not all women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:36 PM
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I always went for guys less attractive as I knew they wouldn’t leave me or cheat on me. I liked being the hot one and I loved them hard. Changing your personality isn’t healthy, I did this too. I cooked and cleaned and was the perfect wifey, including looking hot. So this isn’t accurate for everyone. My bf now is equally as hot as me and after giving a guy everything (in an unhealthy way), I certainly don’t and wouldn’t ever do that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:09 AM
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You’ve got a good one there! Very healthy relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 01:28 PM
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Would he let you get your needs met else where? He sounds like a lovely guy. For me personally sex is a deal breaker, so I’d have to see if we could arrange for me to get it off someone else if not. No strings attached of course. Maybe a male escort?
/r/RedPillWives06/04/21 03:15 PM
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11-16 years
/r/MensRights03/04/21 12:56 AM
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In the UK most primary school teachers are women and head teachers female. For secondary schools it’s split 50/50 for male/female teachers, but most head teachers are male. So it’s unfair on females.
/r/MensRights03/04/21 12:35 AM
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Same! I got banned from r/breakingmom due to my participating in discussions on this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/21 12:44 AM
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Have you tried the catch it app? It helps you to understand the feelings you’re having.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/21 10:19 PM
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If his parents are toxic makes it more likely he is too. The tredding on eggs shells is one of the most common signs of emotional abuse. Mothers are usually right. You’ll be able tell if he is abusive by the way he acts when you try and talk to him about how you feel. Good luck. I hope it goes well.
/r/RedPillWives28/03/21 11:18 PM
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The checklist does include yelling. Her husband may not be emotionally abusive, but yelling is considered a emotionally abusive act. I think I worded it badly. I wasn’t directly calling him emotionally abusive. I’ll take aboard your advice and try not to jump to conclusions.
/r/RedPillWives28/03/21 09:24 PM
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That’s why I gave her a check list, so she can see for herself. Shouting angrily at a 1 and 3 year old is going to have a negative impact on them, if it continues.
/r/RedPillWives28/03/21 09:07 PM
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It is if you do it consistently and aggressively, then don’t apologise for it and make excuses for why you did.
/r/RedPillWives28/03/21 08:58 PM
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Shouting at you and the children is emotionally abusive. My ex husbands mum died and he’d yell at me and when I told someone at work, I was told that’s no excuse and she was 100% right. Occasionally snapping at those we love is something most people do if they are stressed and then they apologise after (if they aren’t abusive). Try talking to him about how you feel, if he doesn’t acknowledge your feelings respectfully, and work with you to overcome the problem, it’s a sign he’s emotionally abusi…
/r/RedPillWives28/03/21 08:28 PM
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I’m not constantly on Reddit. You must be dumb to think I’m checking Reddit 24/7. You clearly don’t have anything else to do. Also there isn’t an option to downvote on my phone for comments on this subreddit. So it was someone else that did that. I admit I did try to but with now avail. I’m not going to bite anymore to your trolling now. Have a good day and stay safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:04 PM
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Very original.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:39 PM
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They’re* or they are. Also unless you have lived a life in such conditions and poverty as there’s you can’t call them dumb. Especially as you clearly struggle to form basic sentences. You are being dumb for being close minded, maybe selling their bodies is the only way they can get a decent meal and a roof over their heads. I’m sure they would take a different job if they had the opportunity to earn enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:38 PM
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What is FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:29 PM
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